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If there ever was evidence that men and women are not the same, this takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:48 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:47 PM
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Most women in the comments are saying that toxic men ruined their outlook on men. That tells me that in order to right society, men need to take the action of checking other men, rather than trying to check women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:47 PM
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Red pill woman you say 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:53 PM
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I love that song. “Someone who is always in crisis due to things that don’t impact their life” - sounds like my ex, lol. Hard to know how to lead when most women hate to ever follow a man. I’ll keep all this in mind though. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:52 PM
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Your flair says you’re happily married, what is your secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:57 AM
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Why is that bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:31 AM
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That is a really wise quote and I’m going to remember that. Regarding the world being a better place of everybody keeps those things in mind, I will certainly keep those things in mind, but the pool of women available to me date is abysmal. I’m humble, but I honestly honestly am above average in level of attractiveness, and the girls I see on these apps are either promiscuous, in which case I don’t want her, because I’m looking to marry, or naïve and innocent, in which case I’m worried because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:25 PM
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What does that quote from your grandfather mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:49 PM
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I can’t tell whether this is a diss on transsexuals or climate change deniers, and that’s what makes it so good 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:32 PM
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I think it’s way bigger than that even
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:25 PM
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That’s awesome! Where did y’all meet? How did you attract her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:05 PM
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👆👆👆👆👆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:02 PM
1

Idk why the guy is being so insufferably condescending. You made your point clearly. He’s just looking to be angry and argue and dunk on someone, like a lot of people on Reddit, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:01 PM
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Eh, some of them; there’s quite a lot of crazy leftists too though. Your average conservative is a lot more practical and nonidealist, whereas your average leftist is an idealist. In a healthy society you need both, I’m just more of an “if it ain’t broke don’t fix it” and practical kind of guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:41 PM
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You bring up a good point, which is all the red flags in your typical conservative women in the US. I guess I prefer a moderate woman, since I want to be a leader, protector, and provider, but I want my future wife to be the keeper of the home, and I definitely plan on following her lead a good percentage of the time. Mostly I want someone who is steeped in tradition and community and practical wisdom which is so important when raising a big family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:37 PM
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As a man, I prefer conservative women, because I am looking for a woman who has the practical skills to run a household, I want a lot of children, and I feel most comfortable in the role of being the breadwinner while my future wife would be a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:34 PM
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That’s very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:39 PM
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Why do people think that responding this way to any assertion makes any sense? “A has X problem” “oh you don’t think you have X problem?” It’s a total non-sequitur. Whether I have X problem is totally independent of whether “A” has X problem. Ok, end rant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:45 PM
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The few subcultures that have monogamous values have <20% divorce rates and have highest levels of purpose and life satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:11 PM
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I know the red flags to look for. It’s like 5% of single women that fit my criteria. I agree a virtuous woman is hard to find.
/r/seduction17/03/24 03:17 PM
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I recommended psych classes in school cause it’d help people have the tools in the first place to have healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:51 AM
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Ah, you’re advocating for changes to the foster care system, right? I agree! Also as a society we should do more to help people who have kids to stay together. It’s worse by all metrics if they don’t: the children have worse health issues, relationship issues, mental and emotional pain, and lower life satisfaction without it. 🤔 what could we do… More emphasis in school on learning psychology and practical wisdom on forming healthy relationships would be a step in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:45 AM
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No, not at all! People who don’t have kids offer lots for society. And it does take a village. And while a kid growing up in a stable home is preferred, if that ideal isn’t met the kid isn’t doomed. Why did you think I was saying those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:21 AM
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That’s because in the west, we have a lot of damaged people who don’t know how to make marriage work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:48 AM
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It’s rational to want to “seduce” your wife/long term partner.
/r/seduction17/03/24 04:48 AM
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It’s nice to see some pro-relationship, intimate togetherness content on this sub. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:19 AM
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For one, it has the possibility of being the most intimate and rewarding relationship any two people can possibly have. For two, children are the most well-adjusted when coming from a stable home with both mom and dad raising them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:09 AM
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is it beneficial at all Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:58 AM
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Good for you, superwoman. On the planet of the typical, meaning, 90%, of women, and a substantial percentage of men as well, sex leads to somebody feeling committed. they’ve even died in studies that show that sexual intercourse releases bonding hormones in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:25 AM
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My strategy? Don’t hook up. Find God. Look for a nice devout girl. (It’s slow going)
/r/seduction17/03/24 01:13 AM
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Yes but men are not good at avoiding low quality women. We gotta improve our awareness and teach young men the red flags to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:46 PM
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If more men followed this advice, we would live in a better society since women would need to double down on a long term partner for the benefits of a relationship. (They wouldn’t be able to string multiple men along to get time, attention, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:12 PM
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What is a grapist? A grape scientist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:11 PM
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That’s easy to say, but if I have to stay single forever to uphold my morals, then my morals are broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:55 PM
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So what do we do???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:33 PM
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History is chronicled with tons of people who put the needs of society above their own. I’m sorry, but you’re just wrong. Even if you weren’t, societies often force people to do things that are best for society against their will. See our conversation about soldiers for an accessible example. Another example is mandatory vaccinations. These help to protect public health by ensuring herd immunity against preventable diseases, reducing outbreaks, and protecting those who cannot be vaccinated due t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:28 PM
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As you said, that is beside the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:59 PM
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gestures toward millions upon millions of soldiers dying in wars for their nation/race/society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:58 PM
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That is truly wonderful. What advice would you give people to have happy marriages and families? I see mostly misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:40 PM
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Then do better. The world is made by the people who live in it. As Gandhi said, be the change you want to see in the world. Until you’re ready to do that, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:14 PM
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The manosphere is an overcorrection for inherent problems in society that women ignore. They emphasize things that are true, but not the full truth. Comments like yours do nothing to bridge the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:54 PM
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No, I’m friends with a lot of men and I can tell you with 90% of men, just sex is not enough to sustain a long term relationship. We love a woman who is soft and kind and can be your confidant and build you up. The world is a harsh and cruel place, as they say, and the only true solace a man can find from that is a faithful and virtuous woman. Best friends can be extremely beneficial, but they don’t hold a candle to a strong and healthy relationship with a virtuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:11 PM
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It’s both. They want both. They want a man who can provide stability and security, and that requires making enough and stable enough employment (between the man and woman’s both paychecks), as well as time and attention and understanding and respect and trust and confidence. I say this as a man who had the confidence that attracted a woman, but didn’t give her enough of the aforementioned unquantifiable qualities (time, attention, etc. that you can’t quantify) that I lost her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:08 PM
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Yeah, “what other ways do you see” - That’s the question we’re trying to solve, I think. If we had a perfect answer we wouldn’t be here. Part of what attracts me to Judaism is that it has respected both husbands and wives for generations. So I hope it will bring some answers. The west is headed in the trajectory of Japan and South Korea. A cliff-like drop off in population, higher and higher levels of unhappiness and suicide rates, the idolization of career over family. Isolation and depression.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:12 PM
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Thanks. It’s not a binary- women are raped and abused and unhappy and disregarded today, too. And it comes at the price of millions of kids being brought up in single parent homes and substantially increased isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:00 AM
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I’m gonna get eaten up in the comments for this, but let me ask you this: how can you honestly look at the US in the 2020s, with 40%+ of people remaining single, 50%+ of marriages ending in divorce, and majority of children growing up in single parent households, and see the pill as an improvement? You want women to be happy and their needs appreciated, as do I, but modern feminism’s pros have not been worth its ample cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:26 AM
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This is how it works with every species; don’t be so anti-science that you believe humanity is above falling under the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:09 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7KMp2L9Dve
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:32 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7KMp2L9Dve
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:29 PM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:09 PM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:06 PM
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I’ve never agreed with a woman more about her assessment of the situation. I would add that the culture in the US is just not good for a healthy happy marriage and family. So I suggest for men in the US to go to other countries where the culture supports that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:02 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:32 AM
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Not sure I get your point, please elaborate? Btw thanks for the open and honest and respectful discussion; I am loving it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:55 AM
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The fact is that it works. I think it’s awful, and I regret having done it, because I ended up having tons of meaningless sex, but red pill is extremely practical. There are practical women, but if I had to pick a teammate for accomplishing a task and have two teammates to choose from, and the only thing I knew about my options was that one is a man and one is a woman, …you get the picture…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:54 AM
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Again, look up the differences in sentiment among divorcees. To provide a univariate analysis, look up specifically divorcees who have been cheated on. On average, men go easy on their ex, whereas women go hard. Outcomes after separation are not a reliable indication of the quality of treatment during the relationship. There’s no logical basis that a man who is dealt with unmercifully by his ex necessarily treated her worse in the relationship. In a lot of cases a nice guy gets taken advantage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:22 PM
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I have seen women cry and get angry over the smallest things. Sometimes in stressful situations, a woman will go into a panic and will cause more harm than good. There is a sliding scale to everything, but in the whole, if someone is being hysterical, like if we get into a car crash, the man is more likely to remain calm under pressure - “logical” as it were - and the woman is more likely to become hysterical. It’s worth noting that anger is not classified as an emotion per se in the same catego…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:57 PM
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Eh I was mad. Women tend to suck men dry in separations, whereas men tend to do the opposite. Look it up. Something about the female nature makes them feast like harpies upon their exes, as well as character assassinate. I have yet to hear more than maybe 10% of women be able to consistently tell me good things about their exes, or how their behavior contributes to the failure of their previous relationships. The opposite is true for men. Men mostly accept reality and don’t blame the woman, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:42 PM
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True. I’m still in the process of converting. And moving somewhere with more Jewish people. I do wonder what a person who is secular but traditional would do, though. Maybe Instagram like I was saying? Maybe volunteering?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:49 PM
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I’m converting to Judaism. I tried the whole Christianity thing and I hit a glass ceiling with the theology and culture. Maybe it’s different somewhere else in the world, but the people I met weren’t very wise, and the preachers were more so charismatic than cerebral, caring; and I wasn’t too impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:47 PM
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I believe you, but it’s very hard to find them in the US. I will grant you that I’ve been looking on dating apps. But as a post in this sub pointed out, in 2023, 85% of relationships were found through dating apps and 10% were found through mutual friends. My friends don’t have many friends 😂 so I’m out of luck on that front. I’m swiping through dating apps and it’s like 95% red flags, or else arguably sane women who don’t want kids/don’t want a traditional dynamic. I’ve actually been wanting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:40 PM
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I don’t want a relationship based on lust. I want a traditional family with a woman I can love forever and have a bunch of kids we raise to be good stewards of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:34 PM
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*able to divorce men and take a the house, the car, get alimony, and get full custody and child support There! I fixed it for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:02 PM
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A lot of them cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:54 PM
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Hey brother. I feel where you’re coming from. I’ve been there. Ok, women do not “almost exclusively” date men like this. There’s a wide range in between. They look for some “good guy” traits and some “bad boy” traits. There’s a whole gamut of types of guys women date with varying levels of each. And they want a man who is successful, effective, a leader; why shouldn’t they? I saw a user post a really good comment on this not long ago, I’ll look for it and edit this comment to link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:07 PM
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I’m autistic too. What kickstarted the change process to help my life suck a lot less was DBT (dialectical behavior therapy). It’s a therapy that’s evidence-based and breaks healthy emotional/mental processes down into bite-sized, easy-to-digest chunks. From there it’s an upwardly trending road ahead. I have my own flavor of social interaction now, and I work as a technical manager because I’m able to be so thoughtful and interactive with my colleagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:53 PM
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Damn TIL I’m a short king
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 11:20 AM
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This is difficult to believe. Do you have proof? Also, if it is true, I would bet there are significant warning signs of a woman being this type of woman. For instance, her being the type to hire male strippers for the bachelorette party, lol.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 11:08 AM
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Damn. Keep trucking dude. DMs are open if you need to talk. I’ll listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:03 AM
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I heard that there is something called the fundamental misattribution bias. This bias is that someone will attribute flaws in others’ performance with their character, whereas flaws in their own behavior, they attribute to their circumstances. (John is late?? He must think his time is more valuable than ours!! vs. I was late, but it was because my alarm failed to go off because of those bloody cheaply made Chinese products and traffic was terrible and it was raining!! Not my fault!) This post is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:17 PM
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Very cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:53 PM
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This is only half-true; in the human race, only 60% of men pass their genes down and about 95% of women do the same. So it’s undoubtedly worse for unattractive men than unattractive women I don’t know why we keep having people rediscover this, it’s just the Pareto principle; it’s the way things are and always have been, for better or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:58 PM
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That’s interesting and informative. I wish I had more to say in return, but I mostly just browse subs with interesting discussion and try to understand the unspoken rules of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:44 PM
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😳 I agree with everything you just said… you don’t sound like a feminist at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:25 PM
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My experience has a little more nuance than this. I have had a lot of sex (not proud of it) with women. Many that I still follow on Instagram / Facebook are married now. …. Maybe if they had a “party phase” then I agree with you. Actually, that’s probably it. I assume, though, that they are in stable long-term relationships now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:58 PM
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Respectfully, I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:53 PM
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Yes, and back then it was the rule to have mistresses when you were married, not the exception. Hate to tell you OP, but being a player is just very rare. Try getting your shit together and finding a woman you can build a loving romantic relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:21 PM
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“It’s also not abuse if you are distant, or even get divorced as a result.” - a lot of people would fight you on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:45 PM
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You could tell him how you feel and he might add to the relationship the spark you’ve been missing
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/23 01:54 PM
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Because were psychotic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:18 PM
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I think at the end of the day women will still have regrets that they didn’t have a family, but man will a man feel inadequate if he always wanted a family but could never find a woman who wanted that with him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:13 PM
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Not true. Multiple friends of mine are SAHD or SAHM while making six figures working remote in IT jobs.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 03:03 PM
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Men feel more companionship when they’re getting things done with other men. Some women like to be the “cool girl” who hangs out with the guys. Some women have lots of other female friends, but I’ve heard from women that female friendships are a lot more shallow. Men on the other hand tend to have a few really deep friendships. So I get the post; BUT I will say when men don’t have friends it really means they have NO friends whereas when women don’t have friends it’s more middling- they at the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:34 AM
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Wow, this is too true. (As a man.)
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 08:35 PM
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Yeah duh
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:18 PM
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This is cute! Brings me back.
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:22 AM
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Not everyone thinks sex is so important. If it’s casual and there’s contraception it’s basically masturbating using the other person’s body. Devoid of meaning. Devoid of intimacy. Devoid of any potential for a family, like it would have been just 100 years ago. Humans are 1 million years old. We can’t just un-evolve the emotions surrounding sex. We shouldn’t, either. You’ll see over the next 40 years or so the people of the world will understand this, and reclaim some of the morals that we naiev…
/r/seduction29/07/22 10:42 PM
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Maybe look for a trad wife
/r/seduction29/07/22 10:39 PM
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It’s not a strict rule, but a good rule of thumb. Is that why you disagree? Because it shouldn’t be a strict rule?
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:27 AM
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Good example
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:23 AM
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This. Maybe take a course or do therapy to figure out why it is you have trouble making friends, too. If he’s a good man and invested in you he can help you put together a plan, if you’re the type of woman who can listen to and execute a plan.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 03:17 AM
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It’s 2 texts or calls then wait for her to come back with three. And so on
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:15 AM
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If she has a snap score over 1M, avoid her like the plague.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:53 PM
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You’re smart. I LTR’d someone I don’t like because it was easy, and dating felt so exhausting. I should’ve waited a couple more years and explored different cultures, gained more wisdom and figured out exactly what types of women are out there, there are many different types
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:50 PM
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Just get a $15/h job and steady grind. I worked about 65h per week for a while and seriously got paid more than my engineer friends. Overtime is 🥰
/r/newTRP18/07/22 01:46 PM
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Yeah this. As an engineer I’m so utilitarian. A bike can provide fun and physical fitness for as long as it lasts which for 5k is a long time. a ring provides what, a way to cut out of a submarine if you ever get kidnapped in one? Kinda does nothing if you look at it from the utilitarian perspective. But that totally ignores the emotional aspect. It’s meaningful, you’ll wear it the rest of your life, and you and your friends will look at it every day so it ought to be something you like looking …
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/22 01:42 PM
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Yeah
/r/newTRP16/07/22 01:05 PM
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😂
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:00 PM
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Example on getting her to dump you that way? Like pretend to lose your job, get really clingy and annoying, pretend to forget all motivation to achieve your dreams and be the best man you can be? I feel like the girls I’ve broken up with would’ve loved that, that’s what they were looking for, was for me to give up my passions to pursue them instead. One girl didn’t stop calling me until I met the parents of the new girl I was dating, and she did everything in her power to get the new girl to dum…
/r/newTRP12/07/22 05:37 PM
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What are you looking for in a woman? That’s most important. She may be attractive, but does she have other good qualities? In my opinion, once a girl is above-average looking, personality becomes more important than better looks (for an LTR). Someone who is dependable, confident, modest, team player (doesn’t have issues getting along with me), positive outlook — those are what I’d look for in a LTR. She wouldn’t fit that bill for me. That being said though, there’s only one person you need to pl…
/r/newTRP12/07/22 12:42 PM
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Hijacking this thread a bit, but HOW do you break up with a woman after years in a LTR? I never see it end well, but I’ve heard that when a guy is really suave, he can almost make the girl feel appreciation that it happened, instead of hatred for the guy not meeting the commitment she expected of him. I had an on-off girlfriend who I couldn’t stand anymore, and when I told her things were over, she kept calling me, texting me, everything, crying. Contacted my then current gf. That’s happened mor…
/r/newTRP12/07/22 12:34 PM
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I’ve never seen a college girl be un attracted over a roommate situation.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:04 PM
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Let’s imagine everything is paid for, including private schooling, help around the house, house is as big as it needs, etc. How many kids would you have? What would you do for your man, what would you bring to the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/22 11:44 PM
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What are you looking for?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/22 05:26 AM
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I am a white man in tech and like black women. I know I’m rare though. You might try okcupid or some other type of dating site; it’s where friends of mine met and they had specific criteria
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:39 AM
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This 💯 %
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:36 PM
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You’re funny bro
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:33 PM
2

Yeah I’m thinking about moving to Israel or Africa
/r/newTRP22/06/22 05:15 PM
1

I did bro, she acknowledges the problem but says she’s helpless to solve it, and I’ve waited for a year with no results; at some point it’s time to throw in the towel.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:53 PM
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I won’t care because I know no girl is mine, it’s just my turn
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:51 PM
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I’m giving up. It’s been a good run, I’m not really getting enough out of the relationship to warrant it. I’d be much happier just being a player or moving to a different country / finding a trad wife.
/r/newTRP22/06/22 04:51 PM
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We’ve tried that, it’s just not in the cards for us. What I’m asking is how to manage the breakup.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:59 PM
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I don’t care if it’s a dick move, cuffed pussy is the best pussy 😈
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:55 PM
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Don’t get married
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:54 PM
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We have a kid together. That’s why I’m asking how to go about the break up.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:46 PM
1

Shit, idk then.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:34 PM
4

You’re crazy if you don’t think SMV4’s aren’t getting dick
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:25 PM
2

Women don’t really do that much in my experience so if she says she’s busy she’s 95% lying, don’t even try to reschedule, just say no worries, hope everything works out, and move on. If she really has a change of heart or she really just was busy, she’ll reach back out to you
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:22 PM
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Go to web archive and look for the red pill sidebar, there’s a pdf of it somewhere. Read the whole thing, there’s tons of suggestions. Most important are to lift and approach. Probably some other good ones are don’t watch porn, and read the game by Neil Strauss. DM me if you want more info.
/r/newTRP22/06/22 01:29 PM
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Being listened to is pretty important imo
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:26 PM
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Thanks, I know that will be devastating for her to hear but it’s the truth, deep down I know were not meant for each other. My family and our mutual friends include coworkers and people I’ll see for the rest of my life, so it’s important. Also I didn’t want to include this because of the judgement but we have a kid together. So yeah obviously it matters a lot how I go about this breakup.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:25 PM
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You better do it, I’m following you
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:34 AM
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Thanks, I went to the gym yesterday. My relationship trouble isn’t from my LTR not being attracted to me enough, it’s from her being annoying beyond anything I can stand.
/r/newTRP22/06/22 11:00 AM
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You don’t have to add a habit every 5 days. That seems like too often tbh. When I got started what really helped me power through was working out, it just felt amazing to see my totals increase and increase and my body change. Second to that the reminder that I started to see women see me differently, so go get some numbers occasionally to test where you are and how much better you’ve gotten.
/r/newTRP22/06/22 10:55 AM
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If you’re white and black mixed I’ve seen soo many white women go for that
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:40 AM
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You probably have really good game then. I’m speaking from my general experience, black and Hispanic women don’t require as much game
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:38 AM
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Personally, I just learned to roll with it since I find hispanic women really hot anyway
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:36 AM
1

Something I learned from this thread is to sell drugs to increase my game
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:33 AM
2

She said she fucked him to get back at an ex who didn’t like him. She’s clearly got some issues. She’s not the type of girl to LTR, aka (in my country we call her) slag.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:30 AM
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Don’t act weak or lose your shit when she attempts to cancel. I needed to be reminded of this, thanks op
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:13 PM
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Are you white?
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:10 PM
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The same thing happens to me, a white man. I think they’re just very entitled because they’re portrayed as “attractive” in popular culture I guess, and have the highest rates of “feminism” of any group of women
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:10 PM
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Thank you for sharing! This is an awesome post. I especially love where you describe moving out of your comfort zone like riding a bike. It becomes exhilarating, once you lean into it.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:07 PM
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I’ve never tried it, what should I know going in, to prepare?
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:01 PM
2

People are hating, but testosterone drives sex drive, and men tend to have more of that than women. There are exceptions, but those are probably <15% of the population, if you compare low T men and high T women
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:23 PM
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My man you know that meme where the guy riding the bike puts a stick in the spokes? That sounds like you right now. You’ve been doing well so she sent you nudes, don’t take it as a bad sign take it as a good one and go use what god gave you on her.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:17 PM
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I needed this thanks
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:54 AM
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I’ll do this but it’s not on purpose, I’m just building out a roster I can go down and I don’t know how far down I’m gonna have to go before I start so I’ll like a girl who isn’t my favorite in case none of my favorite girls are responding
/r/seduction04/06/22 10:45 AM
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Women have more options than men, but not more good options, depending on your standards. A guy who provides an exciting, plentiful, successful life is hard to come by. Not every guy makes over 150k and can provide a big house, nice clothes, frequent vacations, fun parties or festivals or other exciting things. Some guys commit but can’t provide those things, and some guys won’t commit but technically can provide those things.
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:02 AM
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Good catch
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:49 AM
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That’s actually really interesting, the literature I’ve read has mostly said men decline but not very much til they hit 50 and even then they stay fertile well into their 80’s
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:38 AM
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I’m gonna acknowledge that I have a hole in my reasoning: 22 and 28 are actually functionally not too different in terms of child rearing. The only difference would arise if the woman wanted to marry and have a humongous family.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:35 AM
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If you wanna get technical, if you do want kids, younger mothers also have less chance of birth complications, like less chance of autism, Down syndrome, fragile x, etc., and statistically women who have kids at younger ages tend to have children who have more children and so on, if you’re trying to actually prevent your line from dying out.
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:05 AM
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Because they’re hot.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:54 PM
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