| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Grieving | Dramatic_Addition_68 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 07:09 PM | |
| 5 | Life change skills and traits | Dramatic_Addition_68 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 01:31 PM | |
| 2 | The song that sums up my pain, my struggles.. I typically go 2 steps forward and the randomly find myself 3 steps back. | Rant | Dramatic_Addition_68 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 06:14 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Best fitness-focused social places to meet women?😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:24 PM |
| 2 | The meaning of “no spark”?No spark simply means u didn’t initiate enough or try any flirting to facilitate growing sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is not a big dealI love you for this post. It’s 100% spot on! The opposite of comfortability with approaching is just a guy letting his own inner battles win. And there’s so much life on the flip side. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 01:25 AM |
| 37 | How do I stop being logical and start being fun around girls? (Didnt find any similar threads)When u learn to just tease playfully and humorously without being creepy or hurting feelings while also not having any kinds of expectations with results. You can control your words and attitude. You cant control anyone else. | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 10:01 PM |
| 11 | how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"?Tonight i 'transitioned' a friend. I asked her if she'd help me figure out if i was in the friend zone with someone (i helped her fix a car she hit by accident so she had asked what she owed me).. She laughed and said yes we're just friends. I laughed and said great then you'll help! 😱 I said u didnt think i was talking about u (really wasnt) and stumbled onto the logic that she just said we were just friends. She said well im taking it back. Lol. That led to some more than friends yayayada. Now… | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorceThat’s now the main role I see most attorneys play. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | My wife wants a divorceYou’re the guy in the huddle with a plan. The rest of us are just ducking for cover, see shrapnel around us, and hoping for a clear path back to safety. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 12:13 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorcePretty scared man looking down the barrel of divorce just means I havent yet found my Saul attorney to keep me on the upside of the skewed system. Please start with finding a female divorce attorney. Make sure she’s someone that would make a proper gangster think twice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 12:11 AM |
| 2 | My wife wants a divorceAbsolutely as completely screwed as she has made her mind up to you being. Maybe she’ll play nice and just wants to move on. Maybe she’s been planning this for 24 months, in which case, see the war time efforts of those that went in at deficits. My guess is that you’re in for a world of financial hurt as she will attempt to set herself and the kids up for as cushy as a future as possible, all at the expense of your long term plans and short term comfort. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?I was on a flight and got into an hours long low level conversation with the lovely lady next to me. I didn’t try to pursue her much just enjoyed the company. About three stewardesses came by and each time we had to say no we just met. For whatever reason, they all had to talk to me anytime they had the chance. And I’m NEVER that guy. lol. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 08:59 PM |
| 7 | Ugh. So I guess my wife & her mom have been planning this divorce. I feel betrayed & setup.It’s all good. Nothing like getting beat to the bare bones to show you who and what you’re made of. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 02:09 AM |
| 13 | Ugh. So I guess my wife & her mom have been planning this divorce. I feel betrayed & setup.Man I was in the same boat. Working on a 7 figure profit on year three of my business and was blindsided. Plan for the worst, hope for the best, batten down the hatches, meaning get ALL of your support structure in place. Basically plan to withstand a proverbial hurricane. That means get your legal support in place, your financial support, your EMOTIONAL support from people you know will be loyal to you to the end, and get your stress relief in order, preferably through exercise or hobbies and n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Life change skills and traitsBaby steps to the front door | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Life change skills and traitsMinimalist I’ve embraced. At first the through necessity. Now as a luxury. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Life change skills and traitsMushroom father club? Exercise has been my saving grace. Thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my bf to fuck me more?What are your ages and how long have you been going out? | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?What makes u say that? | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Your looks are not the problem bro. That should be good news to you because it means you have the ability to do something about it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:02 AM |
| 2 | 3 practical things to kill anxiety around women (from a formerly shy dude)Thanks so much for this!!! 🙏 I did cure my sweaty hands with upping my gym and exercise time btw. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:00 AM |
| 2 | I get tons of attention from women but when i open my mouth i see all the attraction goes to the window.I really think you should consider point 1. I have noticed this in the gym myself. Being open and honest. If I go in, headphones on, focused, pushing weight and just doing my thing, I sometimes look up and catch a girls eye contact and she instantly looks away like I caught her staring. Then I can use openers successfully with them if the opportunity comes up. However on days I might be subconsciously letting something “‘make me feel depressed.”… I find myself looking for eye contact or smiles i… | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:53 AM |
| 3 | I get tons of attention from women but when i open my mouth i see all the attraction goes to the window.It also portrays that you are over excited to be there talking to them. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:34 AM |
| 7 | Just a thought… It’s shocking how Promiscuous women become during/after the divorce proceedings… in almost all cases though, I’ve seen it end badly for them. Anyone else notice this pattern?So ure saying there’s light at the end of this tunnel | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Could we all be less attractive than we think?We’d never know | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | GrievingThanks 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | GrievingGood feedback. Thanks 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | She has HIVDamn dude I cannot believe you are going through this! I can’t imagine! I’m also surprised at how the doctors or clinicians didn’t press her to find out about how she caught it. I mean we were more pressed for transmission mapping with Covid. How did they just let her be? And how long ago did you get the test results back? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 02:08 AM |
| 2 | GrievingThanks 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | GrievingAnd to put that in perspective that’s been one of my superpowers in business in the past. When calamity strikes people turn to the stoic guy in their proximity and that’s been me in many cases… so I guess you could say I’ve easily made 7-8 figures embodying that male strength in my career. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 05:10 AM |
| 2 | GrievingYeah. I’m not big on letting others see me in moments of weakness I guess. I’d rather cry in a closet with the lights out than in front of another human being. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | GrievingWhat kind of ‘anxiety pills?’ I’m kind of against meds.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 04:23 AM |
| 3 | GrievingThanks I’m not good at that but I will try it more often. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 02:20 AM |
| 2 | GrievingThanks. I’ve still taken the approach of extreme accountability meaning that today everything I’m going through is entirely based on my choices. That obviously doesn’t apply to all people such as those with ailments or living through natural disasters. But I never was to be here again between starting over in my career and losing my spouse, so for me, I feel that I need this on my shoulders to grow and learn from it all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 02:19 AM |
| 4 | GrievingYep I can sleep knowing I had good intentions. Right now my intention is in not letting the grief stop me from living the rest of my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 07:36 PM |
| 3 | GrievingThanks. I’ve written a few letters. And never sent them. A friend says I need to burn them that it’s cathartic or something lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 07:22 PM |
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