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Sounds like u just want men to do what u want at their expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:01 PM
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Morbidly obese women get railed by objectively attractive men, does that make them in the same league
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:51 PM
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Sure thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:49 PM
1

So she can attract sex from a hot dude right, so she can attract what she deserves right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:25 PM
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Imagine if women too their own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:08 PM
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Dude might be an asshole, I mean there are nuances regarding such matters
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:07 PM
1

So fat chicks who get hit up by top 10% dudes for sex are in the same league?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:05 PM
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Never said anything about attracting top 10 % women. And sorry but leagues do exist. Do u think any celebrity is going to waste his time talking to an obese middle aged woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:39 PM
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This is gonna go overa lot of people's heads because they don't have experience. I'm this guy , I grew up overweight insecure, broke and sheltered. Through some discipline I gained in my time in the military I got and athletic build, learned how to groom myself much better, took care of my skin. Maybe to some I might be a chad currently but I know I'm not. I've had consistent sex over the past decade but I've been in relationships mostly and I've never been able to consistently attract women. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:17 PM
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If u know, u know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:59 PM
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would you like to imagine your wife of 10 years having settled for you. I mean some of this shit is just plain delusional. If you are a fat over weight guy , why on earth would you think your wife finds you sexy, besides some exceptions which is exceedingly rare. we all create realities in our head to cope with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:56 PM
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There are harsh realities that occur in the rationale behind the way women choose partners that don't coexist within the principles, ideas, that we claim to live by in our society. Biology and the rationale, motivators behind our choices don't care if the person we are attracted to is a good person or not, hence why perfectly logical people can find themselves in bad relationships. With that being said, in my own experiences, things said by others, and by own observance of what women would tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:58 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:47 PM
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It's hard to have discussions like these when u don't comprehend what I'm saying. I said that these men will end up in relationships at some point. Let's try again. If most men struggle to find women to date, and these same men end up married that means logically most of their partners are not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:42 PM
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Yeah there's evidence. If 80% of men struggle to find a single option that means they aren't attractive to women . Conventionally attractive men have options, they dint have to try to get dates or sex. If most men who aren't attractive end up married , and most women don't find most men married , that means most women are marrying men they are not attracted to. You don't need statistics to draw this conclusion, it's called deductive reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:23 PM
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Well if women were honest about this, their only leverage which is basically obscuring their motives for who they date and gaslighting you into loving them would implode in their face. What women in their right mind would say "yeah I fucked hot guys until I couldn't anymore and found you to commit because i know if I give u sex once a week or month you'll give me whatever I want". Will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:12 PM
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Bad faith argument ,how does one prove this. Just observe the dating dynamics, what women say, what they do. And compare them to your own experiences and cross reference. The average man can't attract women . Yet most of these men will end up married. Which means women marry men they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:08 PM
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This.. And these guys are getting smarter too. Dating and social dynamics are kinda niche in their understanding 10-15 years ago. Dudes don't want to be settled for knowing u went after hot guys for 20 years. I don't blame the women for enjoying themselves but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:05 PM
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I literally see this playing out right now.i know so many women in their 30s 40s on social media posting relationship memes , proclaiming their independence and yet no guy to commit. Sure there's always some guy who has no issue bending them over, but commitment is another story. Curious as to how this plays out on a mass scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:03 PM
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Bro I've been saying this. They were trapped by their financial ability, they didn't love their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:19 PM
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If women didn't act so insufferable with their minds sets I'd feel bad for them. For every 100 guys I see maybe one is like kinda attractive. For every 100 beautiful women there's one guys that's just as attractive,maybe. So having options means fuck all if u aren't attracted to any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:18 PM
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How many people in your day to day life have the self awareness and integrity to recognise their own faults, let alone dating. Its so rare that even having discussions like this is pointless. Watch what they do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:03 AM
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Trying to get peoole to understand this concept just ends up with them trying to strawman you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:14 PM
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So basically , life is nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:13 PM
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I literally thought the other day, you have to be a complete utter loser as a woman to fail to get a partner. You could not have been given anymore leeway then already exist. Physical standards don't even apply, in fact u don't even have to be nice to get a dude .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:52 PM
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This u can even be creepy as a good looking dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:50 PM
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Sounds arrogant, but you can be objectively far better looking then most women, more successful, well rounded, emotionally intelligent, and you will get glossed over because there's a better dude around the corner or so they think.. ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:50 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:36 AM
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I mean it's true though. Unless u want to struggle play musical chairs to find one chick that likes you. You need to be a chad. I don't even think most women love the men they marry. It's just a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:00 AM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:36 PM
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It's uttter insanity to me sometimes. I know a woman who would postt stupid shit about how a man should do this, do that, commit, raise a family, and not even a few months later she wa pregnant and dude was MIA. Absolutely no self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:02 PM
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I've always wondered wtf is going to happen to this generation of women once they realise their dream guy is never coming. I'm sure generations before had their delusional people but it was kinda held at bay because you had a smaller pool of people to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:34 PM
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I mean it's pretty evident
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:27 PM
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I know so women like this. They lament all day on social media about men, being lonely and I know their dms are fucking flooded. I know I might be a 7 , but I'm getting treated Iike a 2 because she fucked an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:27 PM
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I know quite a few women in my local scene that post all day about marriage and finding the right one and are perpetually single. They are utterly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:24 PM
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lord have mercy I spent an hour of my life trying to see if id spend the next 50 years thinking looks didn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:19 PM
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I had a fwb, and asked to see her tinder just to see what its like for women, and her tinder was exactly like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:15 PM
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sure I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:09 PM
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not the smartest huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:08 PM
2

its not that complicated, but cool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:06 PM
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yeah man it was sobering for sure. I was saying saying the upmost stupidest shit and women were begging this profile to come over and fuck. obviously, it never went anywhere but yeah very sobering
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:05 PM
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this was a decade ago. I didnt do it because I was lonely, it was a social experiment. BRB need to go find the rope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:03 PM
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lets think this out. I made a catfish profile, and then went on dates? I didnt talk to a single one of these women. I did this for an hour and deleted the shit out of pure horror. But it taught me a great lesson. I need abs, take better pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:01 PM
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I was being sarcastic. In my own personal life i've slept with god knows how many women from tinder over the past decade, these weren't bots and algorithms. They were real women that I met up with. in regard to the fake profile I made, why would bots be driven to match with a attractive persons profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:00 PM
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Yeah man tinder is really depressing, but its a reality men need to face in my opinion. We can accept objective reality or live in our delusions. Attractive men live in a completely different sexual world and women give most of their attention to these men, participate in this world and are completely detached from the reality of the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:58 PM
9

care to elaborate or
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:55 PM
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I didn't realise bots could give head , but go on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:53 PM
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you've somehow managed to somehow contradict yourself again in two sentences. You just stated your argument is how you are against the notion that women are attracted the small percentage of men that are conventionally attractive, then reinforce and state that of course the men will have an easy time dating. I know you won't see the irony of your statements, but for other commenters im sure they will have a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:51 PM
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I mean it's grasping at straws for sure, and its just simple logic and math. Every human being both man and women want an attractive partner. This is just simply not possible for everyone, so to say because someone isn't dating a good looking guy, doesnt mean she doesn't want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:45 PM
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Dawg, thats literally what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:43 PM
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women operate in a hive mind. They support each other's narratives because they all benefit on the back end. For example, if my friend is a 3 but I say hes a 10, then if im a 5 then I can also be a 10 as well. women evolved to use language to gaslight men into narratives that suit their benefit, and if enough women back each other then it kinda of bolsters their bargaining power, hence why they will never tell you straightforward their true rationale as it would destroy the narratives they seek …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:42 PM
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I have never seen this unless you live in eastern europe where the women are shit out of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:38 PM
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of course you value more then looks, once they've passed that metric do you consider other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:33 PM
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As much as I hate the modern redpill, yall still make more sense lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:31 PM
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amazing mental gymnastics. you should apply for senate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:30 PM
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tinder isn't some separate reality from the one we live in, it's just a mechanism to communicate. I've gotten plenty of actual dates from the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:28 PM
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yeah a lot of women and men dont understand that male attention is most of the time worthless. I've personally slept with women I wasn't attracted to because I was bored and could get my dick wet, women dont operate like this most of the time. There's a lot of women who conflate their status on the dating market with how many men will fuck them, and thats a horrible metric to go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:26 PM
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then whats the point of OP trying to spin a narrative that there are some women that would be open to not date good looking men. OF course, most men arent good looking, by that logic the human race would have died out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:24 PM
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is chad not conventionally attractive, do you not see your contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:19 PM
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jesus man comprehension. I made a fake profile and got 300 matches, the point wasnt to talk to anyone, I catfished using a male model.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:17 PM
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I made a fake profile of a male model 10 years ago. Please explain to me how 300 matches in an hour and counting is not indicative of anything. My normal account was getting maybe 10 matches every two weeks, which is still fairly high I guess in comparison to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:05 PM
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That's why I barely comment anymore or engage in discussion. Getting older I realised I in order to have dialogue with another person they need to be able to a see objective reality and have the ability to disect their own opinions and willingness to be wrong. Now everyone is always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:19 PM
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My ex was borderline. Such a fun a and cool woman , but my God I wouldn't piss on her of she was on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:52 AM
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I literally never say this stuff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:24 AM
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Until you have to explain everything you want sexually and she still sucks at it. Been there done that. I'm 32 I like experienced women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:59 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:58 AM
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Those women were attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:25 PM
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These men have to be aware they are even being used. That's why women never tell the truth about their dating dynamics . If you're the husband and your wife told you straight up she use to get hotter guys and now you're the financial provider, that wouldn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:48 PM
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I noticed that, whenever I wanted to make a posts it never went through
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:59 PM
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Borderlines will fuck anything. I had an ex who was borderline and the dudes she fucked after me were so questionable I had to wonder if I was ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:58 PM
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Yeah man. Lmao personality, game. Values, and principles are all after thoughts once you've already gone balls deep. I think most men just aren't willing to admit to themselves that they aren't good looking enough snd that women are shallow. Not everyone can handle reality , evidenced by these daily schizo post. The crazy part is none of them even put in thr work to br attractive so it's makes u just as delusional as the women u complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:10 PM
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I chadfished one time almost 10 years ago and thst told me everything I needed to know about women and sexual attraction. I was saying the absolute stupidest vile shit on purpose and was getting begged for dates with ease. I go on this site purely for the mental gymnastics. It's like watching a car wreck . The answers are right in front of us. But u see the same questions asked 1000 different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:42 PM
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Because it's not the message it's the messenger. It's the same in politics. You could give trump a speech that is verbatim something from biden and people would rather that shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:07 PM
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How old are u?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:19 PM
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Ask the average guy how hard it is for them to get a girlfriend. If every women could date a top guy they would, but mathematically it's just not a reality. If woman want a relationship they are going to have to settle for men they probably aren't all that attracted to , that's reality. I know do many women complaining on the internet about how they cant find a mind and then they magically appear pregnant. Because to a normal guy you assume she's cant find a guy, but once you know the game , she…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:43 PM
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Proof : tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:04 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:54 PM
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Right....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:54 PM
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I literally never know where this anti male shit is being shown. I think j elon just makes this shit up and dudes run with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:53 PM
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I've literally never felt this way as a man and I'm tired if hearing about it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:53 PM
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Having ability and choice are two different things. If u could read you'd understand what i was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:14 PM
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Attractive people probably have better shit to do lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:56 PM
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I really would like to see what the average person here looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:12 PM
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Say whatever u need to say that makes u feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:04 AM
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Women like fun attractive men. Who knew
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:52 PM
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Basically, average women date average men like it's charity work lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:49 PM
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I've been pretty good with women the past decade, so they might be able to gaslight a guy who searches for sex like crumbs on the floor, my need for female approval isn't quite there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:28 PM
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Yeah I predicted it before I even finished my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:26 PM
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Every woman I've ever met we went for drinks. I covered some of hers , she got mine. I've also been lucky . I think I naturally weed at brokies through conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:09 PM
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U guys over complicate shit so much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:06 PM
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Never once did I write this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:03 PM
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No, I'm simply referring that average men often dont have the options at will. They dint have women ready to date them. I have zero idea why you're so easily triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:02 PM
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Average men find partners, but they csnt find consistent partners because they aren't conventionally attractive .they might get a gf, she leaves or whatever and he might struggle for months to a year before he even gets another viable option, this is what women don't understand. Of course men who are average have wives and gfs, the human population would cease to exist if women only got into relationships with men they were attracted to, there just aren't enough of these men so a choice had to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:42 AM
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rare in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:33 PM
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I think thats the cause for a lot of dead bedrooms honestly. In a way I kind of feel for women, you guys get a bad hand sexually. Most guys are just simply not attractive and make not attempt to be, so the ones that are , obviously are rare and get all the attention. I think a lot of women mean well, but end up marrying guys who are nice and treat them well, but that sexual spark is missing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:24 PM
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They do settle, out of nececessity. The average person isn't physically active enough to preserve their looks if they had any into their 30s, its rather rare honestly outside of social media. The average guy isnt waiting for a bombshell to show up, hes ok with an average girl, its just the average girl spends her 20s being chads play thing on tinder the past decade until she decides she wants the guy who wont leave and is nice to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:19 PM
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yeah they've both gained weight and lost a lot of their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:18 PM
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I call it fake lonely. I'll see a women who will drag men constantly , and lament the lack of good men just end up pregnant out of thin air. Like ok u were seeing somebody. Every woman us seeing some guy ,u just don't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:28 AM
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Being a good looking dude isnt a magic pill that makes you less prone to the pitfalls of human behaviour . Probably gets used to looking at you at some point, or the dude can just be a fucking asshole, unpleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:33 PM
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they say this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:31 PM
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my current partner thought I was going to leave her after we hooked up. In which I wondered why even go that route when you want a relationship, but alas. I know im an extremely good lookin guy, but I feel sorry for men who might be a 5-7 or so, perfectly normal cool dudes, who struggle so much because women on their level are fucking guys who will never commit to them. Then the women on this site will be like "oh average men are having sex". no shit, but how many rejections did it take for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:30 PM
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Unfortunately because of this behaviour, a large portion of women confuse sex for commitment potential. I cant tell you how many times I had to repeat to women that I didnt want anything more, hence why dating is so fucked because average and below average women confuse men's sexual drive as desire, and its not the same thing it correlates. you fucked a nfl quarterback, ok , or that tall dude at the club or whatever, he just wanted sex, its not the same as a relationship or thinking you are on h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:08 PM
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Of course. It's like when u were a jock in high school. You played sports therefore you looked good, looked good and played sports so status and attraction was a natural by-product. Teens as least when I was growing up didnt work out really for looks it was a by-product of sports they played. Naturally got the girls. They were immersed in an environment that created the beneficial conditions from them to thrive. Remove those conditions and you enter the workforce and you've gained weight, no lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:46 PM
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whoooo dawg. Love is cool man, but you're chasing the feeling not actual ove. My son is someone who I will love unconditionally, and I represent that in my actions towards him. You are chasing a warm and fuzzy feeling by proxy another human being. Let me tell you what your dad should have told you, that shit is fleeting and will cause you a shit load of problems. I'm not telling you not to care about people, im saying you are chasing a drug high. you don't need a woman to tell you that you matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:35 PM
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best way to end up with someone that is borderline, or a narc. Good luck after that shit. You'll have to reach rock bottom, before you see the light, and usually ends up losing a part of yourself in the process. If you know you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:28 PM
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Lmao dating like this will get you straight up fucking abused. A man that hasnt grown out of fairy tale love is going to meet someone that will break his soul at some point. Obviously not every situation is the same, but when you love like this, you compromise your entire sense of self for a feeling that is often just a projection of values onto another person. You're not really seeing them per say, more so you have an idea or concept of this person and you sort of pretend they are this. Maybe t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:35 PM
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My dad sucked as a father. I didn't even realise our relationship wasnt normal until I got older and began to noticed the discrepancies. I would visit him on the weekends and I was basically baby sat by his playstation. I've known this man my entire life and I know absolutely nothing about him. No personal stories, no motivations, ambitions, nothing besides that he has his favorite burrito place and he likes the dallas cowboys. Thats literally it. I have never seen pictures of him as a kid, stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:28 PM
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I mean just do the math. Most women find most men unattractive. Most men end up married. Speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:03 AM
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Opinion from someone that hasn't the slightest clue wtf they are talking about. Sec workers at least in Europe are tested. And everything has its trade-offs. Do u wanna go to a bar and dinner waste 80 bucks to maybe have mediocre sex or not sex at all, possibly. Or go get guaranteed ass with a women of your choosing. I mean experiences vary, but you have a myopic view of this sort of thing without probably having exoerienced it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:05 PM
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Lmao you're right but I dint recommend this shit to anyone. My ex has bpd and while my balls have recovered from the 4 years of being drained on the regular, my mental health took a beating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:02 PM
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guess I had shit luck. To this day I have no idea what this woman wanted, i didnt even know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:42 AM
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this...... has always worked amazing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:36 AM
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story of my fucking life. Dawg I love food. I'm in such a stupid spot , I can run a 7 minute mile and bench 285 or so to give an idea, but im around 20% bodyfat so I dont look nearly as good as I could with my muscle mass. Best thing is just to give sugar the finger
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:36 AM
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i grew up in the 90s mid 2000s, youtube cant even be considred social media
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:10 PM
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fucking shame really. I feel bad for younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:21 PM
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myspace came out when I was 10, and even then It wasn't really a huge thing. Social media in the form that exist today utilizing algorithms n shit didnt really start off until i was in my early to mid 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:13 PM
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not necessarily, quality people need to have the means to meet each other in a world that doesnt really facilitate that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:10 PM
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no woman has issues attracting dates, its attracting the dates u want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:57 PM
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at least we didnt have social media growing up.........
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:57 PM
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im 32 and dont use tik tok so I have fuck all understanding of this app, but judging generational trends based off of rage bait , carefully curated gender war bullshit ,probably isnt the best place to gain insight as to what will occur. The next generation of women will have a harder time dating in my opinion due to growing up with massively inflated expectations and distorted views from social media. I already see it in my age group of women. An absolute fuck ton of them are perpetually single …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:56 PM
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ok, so can we just live life first before just trying to live out the cliche white picket fence life goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:58 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:57 PM
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this, most of the women i've come across are absolute bums, waiting for someone to hitch a ride on. nah im good, that shit worked on me in my 20s, now im a bit older. Pussy doesnt excite me just cause its available, shit i can buy that down the street for 50 euros. I need someone that can intellectually stimulate me and in theory can handle life by herself. Dating most men feels like just adopting a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:50 PM
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ive never heard this in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:57 PM
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Except women will never admit to this ,so what's the point. I doubt most are even aware of their own behaviou
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:41 AM
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I'm black and sadly no, I was so busy with work I literally had no time to meet any of them. But they all seemed pretty eager to meet, I just had other shit going on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:18 PM
14

Wow anecdotal evidence of two men meeting at a theatre class somehow nullifies the overall broader issue of lacking places for men to meet women. 99% of men aren't going to theatre ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:30 PM
8

Being selfish has probably best thing I could do for my life, I just don't do shit at other peoples expense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:29 PM
2

shame, dude I lived in poland for a few months, and the women there are stunning
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:48 AM
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They don't have an answer to anything, it's just roundabout responses mean to distract from this. Tell men to socialise, then blame them for socialising.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:33 AM
3

Strange, cause I'm a black dude on top if that and I've had no issues. It's actually been easier for me to date here then in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:14 AM
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Because they are lacking perspective. Getting lots of sex doesn't even mean its good sex, or does it mean the people are attractive . Women have lots of options yes, but there options are......eh , I'll admit this as a man, most men aren't really that attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:06 AM
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What's up fellow American, u miss Mexican food yet lmao. And yeah I think the women are far more straightforward and play less games but there's a lack of organic ways to meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:03 AM
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Men are not jealous of women's ability to get sex. If anything they'd be jealous of another guy getting large amount of sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:44 AM
1

Like I said , say it louder in the back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:35 AM
1

Say this louder in the back. All those girls with absurd standards on tinder will be forced to accept the reality that if thry want a partner they will most likely end up with someone they dont find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:33 AM
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Just join salsa ", " go volunteer", " walk around aimlessly at a bookstore". Be prepared for these boomer ,pull yourself up by the bootstrap ass comments. I've had no issues meeting women , but it's all been online. Tinder , instagram, no issues. But apparently I am not the norm. I remeber when I left my ex and had to figure out how to be single again, I would go days, without seeing a single woman who was .......of age and moderately attractive. I also live in germany with a huge older populati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:05 AM
1

Lmao, women don't gain enough muscle naturally for this to be true. Even as a man muscle gain is slow and not as obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:30 AM
1

feel sorry for him if this is how you process information
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:00 PM
1

bro all these people do is argue just to justify their make believe realities. and once you answer their questions , they just shit all over the floor and call it a victory, even though there was never a game being played, but in their minds there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:59 PM
1

you arent even reading dudes replies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:58 PM
1

you do have to ghost because the word no in terms of wanting a relationship isnt something some are willing to accept. I have told women , sorry i just dont want a relationship and did this before sleeping together, and they think if they throw enough sex, youll change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:52 PM
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once again this. there was a point in time where I couldnt get laid and would lament about all the pretty girls who passed up on me. then i got my shit together and started meeting women like crazy and was shocked at how......different most of these women looked in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:51 PM
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yeah i had to explain to a friend of mine that the dudes she wants arent going to want her long term in a politically corrrect manner. I guess its a bitter pill to swallow when you think you deserve the best and nothing less. idk told her she could keep getting used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:49 PM
1

this.....none of us would have been born if tinder existed at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:45 PM
3

ask for the number. she doesnt text u back, who cares , keep it moving. I was in rotterdam and I had a tinder date with a woman where we met up and ate ramen. Thought we had an ok time, and then she suggested we meet again tomorrow, absolute silence from her. No fucks given, just move on. life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:39 PM
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Yeah..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:50 AM
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Absolutely nothing u are saying makes a shred of sense. U contradict yourself every sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:31 AM
7

Yes genius the original commenter used woman in his first sentence. Go ahead and feel stupid when u read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:06 PM
7

He literally used woman in the first sentence, girl.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:55 PM
3

dont even argue man. theyll just rationalize whatever is necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:00 PM
7

I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:58 PM
8

find something else to bitch about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:55 PM
2

Lack of opportunity at the time, creates desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:44 AM
20

This. The amount of bullshit i tolerated in my 20s was pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:11 AM
12

you arent as wise as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:55 PM
2

I was literally just thinking this. If 80% of men are already unattractive, then of those 20% who are attractive how many of them are 6ft. Has to be like 3% right or so, dont feel like doing math. Then of those 3%, how many are single, straight, not sick, mentally healthy, clean, decent job, compatible .......women are silly really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:48 PM
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shit sad, but kinda based. one things ive always wondered with these married dudes that have gone to hell physically, do their wives even want them, or is this just like hey, it is what is is, neither of us is leaving kinda situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:45 PM
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This is a subreddit that talks about discussing male/female dating behaviour. So once again where does one organically meet someone after college, adulthood in general that isn't the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:43 PM
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In one of these places is it socially acceptable to hit on anyone. Just went to a bar absolutely no one interacts with each other. The gym, really....... Bowling alley please explain how I meet someone wt a bowling alley. You guys just say thing without any real world understanding because you ironically are just as out of touch and I'm saying this as a guy who doesn't have issues meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:47 PM
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You're negating the process it takes for a man to even be considered by a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:12 PM
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Where the fuck do I do this. I go to bars and everyone just mingles amongst their own group
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:11 PM
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How much rejection did these men go through before they were eventually settled for. U don't even get what op is saying u just see the end result and not the horrible process men go through. No one is saying average men don't get dates, married
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:09 PM
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Was just thinking this. Dating is hell for the male psyche. If you're intelligent enough you'll realise that as a man if u aren't sexually attractive you'll realise most if your interactions with women is just gonna be a bunch of bullshit and time sink. The worst part is that you'd think these behaviours would come from models or women in thr upper echelons of society, lmao no, it's the normal average run of the mill women who might often be less attractive, interesting, less money then you, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:07 PM
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These comments are big mad. Its well understood that attractive men will fuck sometimes anything that moves. That doesn't mean he wants to be with u. I have slept with woman knowing beforehand the next day I was never going to pursue anything further with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:40 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:30 AM
5

Of course you'll want to deny how things play out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:51 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:39 AM
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With would fall under lack if experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:38 AM
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Not the smartest eh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:37 AM
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It's two issues. Most women are not attracted to the men they inevitably settle down with , and those men have very little sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:06 AM
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" I ate her out for 30 seconds and nothing seems to be working"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:02 AM
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Buddy women today don't need to fake orgasms , this isn't the 1950s. Are there some women doing it sure. But if you've had sex more then 3 times its plain as day when someone is faking something. This works on men who ironically are susceptible to mass misinformation like you and can't read between the lines. Or dudes who go to hooters and think the waitress likes them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:58 AM
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For a redpill guy u sound pretty lame, isn't that pill supposed to be about overconfidence and bravado, yet here u are on a forum fighting for your life and sounding insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:49 AM
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U get all your life experience from statistics. I get mine from the sheets being wet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:47 AM
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So now women can't have orgasm , statistically, ok , bro, just keep digging that ditch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:38 AM
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a jacked, emotionally intelligent, kind yet strong person of character with multiple hobbies whos 5'4 and 30. im 5'8 man, not exactly towering over you, but I also understand im not your height. I had a friend who laid pipe and this dude was short as hell too man, but carried himself like he was 6'2
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:19 AM
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I have a feeling you have no sexual experience to verify a single thing you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:57 PM
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then play with her clit, this shit isnt hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:56 PM
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Is this what I sounded like when I was 19 and didnt know how to talk to women. You aren't wrong in many things you bring up, but its just the way you word it. Its all doom and gloom. I'll level with you, dating sucks for men. If you aren't sexually attractive as a man its an uphill battle and society will fight you to the end to ensure that this isnt the case because it destroys certain narratives that are needed to maintain the status quo. Most people man aren't shit in general, and by an exten…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:55 PM
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you took this out of context. generally speaking men arent lining up to be friend women because of shared interest. Most women aren't interesting enough in that regard to men. Do I have an interest in my gf's day, yes of course, but because I like her as a person beyond basic friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:48 PM
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makes sense, took me about 10 partners in before I started becoming the sex god I am now. Now it makes sense why in my early 20's I didnt get calls back, you live and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:44 PM
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Dawg you suck at sex. I go down on my girl before my dicks goes in, every single time, and eat my way to her heart. Sometimes I gotta come up for air, but that shit is getting done. Then when I stick it in, I play with her clit while im fucking her, so she cums again, or i'll place the magic wand on her clit and go to town . stop making us look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:42 PM
2

most men could really give two shits as to the lives of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:30 PM
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most of my brethren are not sexually attractive so its easy for women to be actual friends with men. women on the other hand are sexually dysmorphic meaning, there's that stupid nagging idea of "wonder what she looks like naked" in our heads, unless the woman is grotesque enough or there's been enough connection established from prior history growing up or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:29 PM
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The friendzone shit is just pussy men not understanding boundaries. If I'm attracted to a woman and she's not feeling me , then that's a me problem If I choose to torture myself. Waiting for some magical moment to happen is kinda weird and in my opinion kinda predatory, cause you're waiting for some kind of opening to occur and take advantage of some sort of vulnerability to seize the moment, which is lame as fuck. Maybe she thought the friendship was genuine until you decided to spill your guts…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:25 PM
2

Well they kept coming back so...lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:21 PM
3

I've slept with my fair share of women and I've never once heard anything about size preference. And my package is probably average at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:40 PM
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I feel u. I'm 5'8 and the amount of times I've been asked on tinder "how tall are you" ,every single time. Even my current gf.. it's like why. I don't ask how big your tits are, or how fat your ass is. But hey
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:27 PM
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That's literally settling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:17 PM
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Because we know that women fuck up , not down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:54 PM
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not sure what the hell youre talkling about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:59 PM
6

idiot they fart
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:37 PM
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are you new to the internet. I referenced farting because men tend to pedestalize women, hence I used a bodily function we all have yet society overlooks that even supermodels do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:30 PM
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........shit i was put through the fucking gauntlet lmao. Dont wish it on anyone, but it helped me later in life for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:26 PM
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male features to be found attractive, you have to be in the upper apex of natural male attractiveness, whereas women can be found attractive with a host of traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:10 PM
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those men can't know. The system works as intended. Men who are happy just to finally get someone to marry them and sometimes have sex are the perfect partner for someone who is seeking stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:02 PM
13

delusion knows no gender
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:00 PM
1

sadder words have never been spoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:59 PM
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lmao a few years back I was in a hotel with a woman who was a friend of a friend. She was cuteish..nothing crazy. After the 2 hours of prep she looked completely different, and so did her attitude. Interesting how an otherwise forgettable looking girl could artificially raise her looks to the point of thinking she was the shit, but to each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:57 PM
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we live in a truly a clown world. Im 32 and i can see the transition of some women are marrying versus who they would date when younger, and its mind boggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:52 PM
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you know the answer to this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:49 PM
10

I mean if you havent had sex in a year or two, why would marriage even come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:48 PM
5

is settling really all that great for them. Having to know everyday that you were never good enough to get the men who would have fun with you, but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:47 PM
13

I have met very few emotionally competent people. Idk what the fuck is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:46 PM
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Took me a minute to understand your criticism of the analogy. Most men worship women because of a lack of experience. You see this gorgeous woman at the club and think aww she doesnt want shit to do with me because im an average guy. You see this demigod. You don't realize that shes's boring , the sex is bad, she farts a lot, mentally ill, because all you see is an image, and her standards have placed you as a fan witnessing her existance. With that being said most men don't understand that beyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:39 PM
3

yeah facts...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:50 PM
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Im aware of the various situations in which a woman may find herself a single mother. The dude was a piece of shit, maybe he was amazing at first then switched up on her. Husband became controlling abusive, and the usual pitfalls of life. These are things I have no issue with. The problem many men have is that women in modern times women are honestly barely worth the effort as it is. I am 32 , and have reached a point in which I can count the number of high-quality women, and i dont mean looks, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:37 PM
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When women want you, you don't have to chase, they just gravitate towards you and make things easy. The notion of chasing is just a way of making lesser attractive men feels like there's a carrot in front of them so society doesn't implode from men realising women pursue men they actually want. Women work in 3 ways. Keeps your around for attention, u provide some sort of value to her. Dudes she wants to fuck, attempt something more with. Dude that kinda falls in the middle, doesn't get her wet, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:15 AM
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yeah but they'll get gaslit by everyone around them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:02 PM
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unfortunately, true. I personally dont have problems attracting women through apps, but it would be nice to not have to resort to technology to meet someone. When I left my ex, i realised in my daily life I have no available women to choose from, I rarely ever see an attractive girl on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:40 PM
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nice men, sweet caring, sensitive. There are tons of good men that I see with these traits and are left in the dust. I had a friend; dude was a great friend but a complete caveman. Dude was tall, handsome, but a complete tool. His breath would reek of dip, he wasn't intellectually captivating, caring , whatever. Dude was a cool guy to hang out with, but in terms of how he thought of and treated women...... And yet this man got ass like nothing I have ever seen. He could pull beautiful women ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:38 PM
1

him not telling you what country hes from doesnt mean hes ashamed of anything, i dont tell every person on reddit that im american when discussing my experiences in europe. forgot your pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:18 PM
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dude didnt claim anything he just said he lived in europe lmao, you're projecting nonsense in your head. Im american and ive lived in europe the past 7 years as well, sooo your point is...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:02 PM
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really sad, because it doesnt even have to be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:42 PM
1

just had a conversation with some friends about this. I think they are just conditioned to feel shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:05 PM
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hostile eh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:04 PM
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I agree, its really jarring. If i take care of myself physically it kinda sucks when everyone your age just fucking gave up, even worse when you consider they are going to get progressively worse as time goes on. I dont expect someone im with to look the same way forever, but put some effort in so that you age gracefully. There are women who are in their mid 50s im sure that are absolutely stunning for their age, but because they put the effort to be so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:04 PM
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depends on if they care of themselves. set your tinder to my age group and its a horror show, im 32 btw. its depressing kinda,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:55 PM
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I read redpill stuff for about a decade, I started when it was in its infancy and it's more about self improvement ans understanding nuances with female behaviour. Not it's just bashing and that's not my thing. Most people who are un unfavourable positions in life will distort reality to fit a narrative that favours them. Men and women do this. If these men were getting laid, they wouldn't be running around calling women who are promiscuous whores...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:40 AM
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Same dude, I'm 32 now ,but looking back at things, I wasn't given a single piece of wisdom growing up that remotely helped me in some way. I joined the army and it sort of gave me a speed run on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:45 PM
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literally every single time like clock work lmao, we must be living the same life. i remember i met a woman and she flat out told me when I rang her doorbell "we arent having sex btw". I just said ok and decided we should eat something, we come back to her place and you already know what happened. This woman could call me at 2am begging me to come over, very strange yet predictable creatures once you noticed they all have the same patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:23 PM
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not just that , where the fuck are we supposed to meet these women outside of online dating. I can go weeks without seeing an attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:13 PM
1

This, ive literally never been like "hey u wanna date or some shit"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:12 PM
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Walk around, the average guy has no concept of how to be attractive. He's has no gravitas, hes a boy in a mans body complaining about culture wars and trans people , or how the girl from Last of US got miscast or some shit. They dont know how to attract women, its just a crapshoot. Im slightly older then most of my male colleagues and I wouldn't fuck these dudes if they paid me If i was a woman. They are literally no different mentally then the dudes I went to high school with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:03 PM
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I agree completely, where's the cool uncles telling showing you the ropes about girls. The fathers giving you the lay of the land. I have a son myself and I will absolutely tell him within reason according to his age as to what works with girls and eventually women. Not to turn him into a player, so hes not thrust in the world fucking clueless. 90% of men are just thrusted into world now and taught how to get degrees, or work this trade, and that's starting to become irrelevant because the worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:00 PM
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i mean if people were straight up about shit, this sub wouldnt exist. Ive seen women that were 5's look like 8's with makeup, then add a filter on that shit and you have a whole different woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:31 PM
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The wall exist, but it really boils down to how someone takes care of themselves. I mean there are women in their 50s that are bangin, but they workout watch their diets, and take pride in their appearance. Then there are women and men who just fall the fuck apart the second the leave their 20's/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:28 AM
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defintely this, I spent some time in poland for work, and was absolutely shocked at how many women with kids still looked absolutely stunning. Then I'd go back on base with american families and was horrified by the contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:26 AM
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Hence why I don't understand guys that talk about sexual shit before you've even meeting, women hate this, cause it makes shit weird. I've had women tell me straight up we aren't having sex, just be be railing them 10 minutes later because I just played it cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:11 AM
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Because u were just immature. I was 22 and didn't bother me when an older woman approached, it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:52 AM
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If they pay attention. There's still dudes who are 50 willing to destroy their lives becasue they cant control their sexual faculties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:02 PM
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I guess this is a positive aspect of me being less horny in my 30's. Met a woman when I was traveling in Budapest. Had another guy with us who was gushing over her. She was cute ,but to each his own. She ignores him, and me and her go to Prague, then it dawned on me throughout our day trip that this woman was a massive piece of shit who was used to getting her own way. Made me really think about all the dudes who would crawl on glass to eat her shit. We men really need to gain some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:58 PM
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No such things as baby trap, I had to confront my own reality with this. I came inside a woman I had been for only 4 months and now I have a small child. Did i want this kid at the time, absolutely fucking not, but the reality is that, If i didnt want him, I could have worn a condom and or not have sex. When you as a man stick your dick in a woman you are by definition according to basically biology engaging in an act that is designed to produce children and the pleasure is a byproduct of that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:56 PM
1

Dude I started off in my early 20s clueless as to how to date, talk to women, sex , the whole 9 yards. I spent that time fucking up, and trying to be the best version of myself and it paid off quite a bit in the end. Sure at times I was jealous that some of my taller friends would get hookups far easier then I did, but at the end of the day wtf was i supposed to do about it, crawl into a hole and cry. Is what it is, and I did what I could with what I had. Now dating and interacting women is easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:51 PM
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correct. Its a lack of accountability , emotional intelligence, and real world experience. Good sex is with women who are sexually experienced, generally speaking of course. No woman just wakes up knowing how to give head that gives you a religious experience. It's the same thing all shitty lazy insecure people do, they create language and ideas to control narratives that backfire on themselves because they create a culture that works great for no one in the end. Look at the middle east, you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:48 PM
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THis is why i stopped reading redpill material altogether. One, I understand how to get with women, and the biggest one is that its just an echo chamber of hate. Their entire ethos for the most part is enshrouded by their desire for women, yet their disdain for them at the same time. I don't understand slut shaming women, and then at the same time lamenting them for being picky for whom they give their sexual desire towards. There are many behaviours that women have currently that are extremely …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:44 AM
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