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DebateDrankTooMuchMead/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:40 PM
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You're full of assumptions. Only idiots assume. You cant debate maturely with an idiot. Goodbye idiot. block
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:11 AM
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I say "might" because, last I checked, women arnt a monolith. Id have my wife tell you to fuck off, but I cant read a Reddit trolling without laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:04 PM
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Yes, there was the "tall dark and handsome" trope in the really old movies. But I would argue it has been much more fetishized in the past 8 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:16 PM
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In my experience, this is a half truth. Im 43, and if I wear my work shirt, women in their early 20s might come on to me hard. Ive never seen myself as attractive. I think im Shrek. Im tall but almost as fat and ugly as Shrek. Here is what I think is actually happening. Its the internet. The internet has romantazed "tall" and "dad bod". And its made it so guys with a gut like me suddenly get a passing grade. But i strongly recommend social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:36 PM
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You just described my wife and I; born around 1980, treat our kids awesomely. Will they not desire a romantic relationship in the same way in the future? Probably. Therein lies the paradox. But I see from your extremism you dont really care to listen and youre just out to troll me. Was I trying to belittle you before? No. I wont bother looking at your history. I can tell you are one of those people I always encountered on r/depression who had awesome lives but chose to think they had it worse th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:10 PM
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Now you got me interested. And I have time to chat today. First I will explain where im coming from. I've been married 15 years, and I when we first met, we were both very lonely people. We both are good people that came from broken homes. And this led to us basically being lonely by default, because we werent getting the love we needed before we met each other. I think a little clinginess is necessary for it to lead to marriage in the first place, let alone stay together. A little clinginess sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:09 PM
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Redditors always think in such black and white terms. Even if i use words like "probably" or "most likely" they still read it as "definitely". Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:33 PM
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All im saying is, there is such a thing as a guy who appreciates you. Some people appreciate love because they know what its like to not have love. This doesnt automatically mean a guy is going to act like an infant. In fact, if a man or woman has had an easy life with few challenges, they are WAY more likely to be immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:58 AM
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If you are a good man, and you grew up with shit parents, you are naturally going to be more lonely and therefore more likely to stick around and not cheat. But some women look for a guy who has perfect parents, and doesnt really need her in his life, other than for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:57 PM
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The real problem is generalization. Talking like ALL people of that group are exactly the same. I get annoyed when some women do it on Reddit. Not all women do, but some do. They will say, "men always do ___". I got banned from r/xxchromosomes because I very politely asked someone to not generalize men because men are not all the same. And you are doing it now to women, in this post. Not ALL women hate men. Don't let yourself be brainwashed into believing all women are the same. Generalization i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:45 PM
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We are very goal focused. But I didnt mean to make it sound like I was blaming the person, although it does sound that way. I was in those shoes! And I tried to use all the logic in the world, but all that frustration could have been avoided if someone just told me that there is a solution, and that solution is to build social skills. So it was ignorance on my part, not for lack of trying. Not laziness. Just ignorance. There are so many guys on Reddit that remind me of myself in my 20s. I try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:39 PM
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Its true! I often stress to young men that lack of social skills are an epidemic among them, and that they can be overcome with practice. And social anxiety is a symptom of it that can be overcome. I know i had to get through it. But it is life altering if he can grow this way. It just doesn't come naturally to us guys. Men usually seek peace, and talking to anyone (men or women) is seen as a potential disruption to that peace. But everything any of us want comes as a reward only through social …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:39 PM
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Its ok. I honestly haven't had women disagree with the "social skills" comment in the years I've been saying it. Sometimes men do, but women dont. At least, that's the biggest deal to my wife. Thanks for elaborating on this. I was wondering to myself if it has more to do with social hierarchy or just plain how a guy treats a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:22 AM
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I believe some of what you say is true. Men are more risk prone. According to statistics (i just hear them on podcasts) a graph success has men either on the top or the bottom for the most part, as you said. While women usually occupy the middle ground. I always imagined a lot of these ultra successful guys started out wanting to impress women, albeit to compensate for something. BTW, women are selecting for something, and it drives men crazy trying to decipher what that is. Its not all about ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:18 AM
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We are talking about a married guy, right? Is he still dating at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:04 AM
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I wish my wife made more than me. We could use the financial boost. Ego should always be thrown out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:02 AM
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Not to brag...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:31 PM
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Bad advice. Don't tell people to put up a mask. It just increases anxiety and women are always turned off by a mask. They are keen to masks. This idea comes from watching an asshole succeed. This is because that guy might be a genuine asshole, and many women would prefer to deal with an asshole than deal with a mask. Its hard to get over putting up a mask, at first! You need to socialize yourself until you really can "be yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:50 PM
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A guys 20s is the time to really grow as a person and work on social skills, and hopefully income. That being said, a guy can have bad luck too, like being born into the wrong situation, etc. What I see on Reddit is the vast majority of guys don't have a lot of external bad luck that sets them apart. Most just cant get out of their own way. They might grow up with awesome, loving parents. Maybe they never even divorced. But a lot of young men decide their anxiety is a crutch to not better themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:14 PM
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When people go for someone purely for looks it is a sign of immaturity. And immature people get themselves into lots of problems. Attractiveness is only that; attractiveness. It attracts people, but people should continue to be vetted further from there. It should be the first check box on a long list of boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:21 PM
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I'm not sure specifically which part you are talking about. Its honestly a game of humbleness. Toxic masculinity is about building up a dominating attitude, which is the opposite. Some guys just can't humble themselves. Women are turned off by any hint of control. A guy that isn't used to talking to women will become very nervous and put on an act to act as nice as possible. A guy cant relax and be himself without experience and practice. Sorry I said something you didn't like, I guess. We can g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:16 PM
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Im talking about doing it in person. Sorry, maybe I wasn't clear. Walking up to anyone cold and strike up a conversation is a big deal. Many Zoomers chat online all the time but can't interact with people face to face. Then they are diagnosed with social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:50 AM
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I can't tell if you are speaking from the perspective of a woman, or the top 10% of dudes that actually get responses. Ill share my experience, back in 2008 when dating apps were just starting. I tried eharmony for like a month, to no surprise got no responses based on my average (at best) appearance, and gave up on it. Then I continued to better myself. I lost weight, but most importantly, I learned how to talk to women in person. The ability to interact with women is so important for guys and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:24 AM
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Sorry for my blunt observation. I was just trying to get your attention. And Im actually not trying to judge you. You view sex and love as completely separate things, and are proud of the fact that you view it this way. And yes, you are allowed to call it a fact if you are discussing your own feelings. Just remind yourself that not everyone feels that way. But let me ask you: how can you ever possibly have a meaningful relationship this way? I suspect that, while you view love as a good thing, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:14 PM
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You are broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:18 PM
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At which point the facts are about feelings. And feelings are subjective, sorry. Your opinions about other people's feelings don't override how they view their own feelings. Your opinions are not the end all fact of all human subjective feelings. Imagine if there was some guy trying to convince you about facts about pms feelings. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:59 PM
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You are the one always trying to convince us that sex and love are separate. Not all of us see it that way, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:14 PM
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Why does men appear twice?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/26 07:40 PM
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Sounds like you have your future already planned without a man in your life. That's your choice. When I was single, I had to understand women a bit. If I was so negative minded, I would still be single years later. My only advice is that you dive deep into understanding where your hatred comes from. Good luck future cat lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:55 AM
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Sounds like a complicated relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:25 PM
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I get what youre saying. Have you ever fallen in love with a woman who touched you in any way? The first time it happened to me i made out with a girl, no sex. But touch is powerful! And sex is a more intimate form of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:53 PM
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These men are broken, imo. Anyone who is just out for body count, man or woman, is broken. Society convinces people some weird things!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:33 PM
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You're the one that said youre a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:27 PM
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Red pill is based on toxic masculinity. These are guys that want love, but feel rejected. The toxic masculinity means they cant talk about their need for love or feelings , so they replace the word with "sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:25 PM
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You are close. Sex is just a part of love, to men. No confusion about it. Why would it be so separate? Maybe the porn industry has convinced society that they are completely separate subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:18 PM
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To a man, even a good man, it is hard to feel love without sex. Just accept that men and women are different this way. It could be nature, or nurture, but probably both. Even as a good man, I don't really understand why this is. But keep in mind that sex is nature's way of incentivizing a guy to approach you in the first place. And sexual compatibility is important, as well as other compatibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:17 PM
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"Older" women are hot, too. 30s is still young. Since when are other guys so picky? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:31 PM
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The only thing I don't like are the wide generalization-speak accepted in their online communities. Her: "Men are so stupid and arrogant." Me: "While I know a lot of us are, please remember that not all of us are. Please don't generalize." Her: "Well of course I didnt mean 'all men!" And thats how I was banned from xxchromosome. Words matter, and generalization leads to discrimination and all kinds of isms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:18 PM
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I totally agree, especially the patriarchy thing. It makes no sense. Im a white male and i wasnt invited to the club.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/26 08:54 PM
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But a straight woman wants one of those things, usually. It is more like a vegetarian surrounded by eggplants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:09 AM
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Im pretty sure this person is 12 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:36 AM
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I absolutely agree with 2. Ive noticed young women have become increasingly desperate because young men lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:11 AM
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If I'm so mistaken, why so defensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:37 PM
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Sometimes if a person seems upset by their reality, the best way to help them is to point out the flaws in their reality. Online dating has really screwed up the dating world. And Reddit doesnt reflect reality, either. As the Zoomers say, "go touch grass". Good luck to you my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:38 AM
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You guys need to talk to women face-to-face and learn how to flirt a little. Women are hardwired to love attention from a guy who can talk to them casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:31 AM
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Empathy and compassion are feelings, not actions. They can spur actions, but they don't require action to feel them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:31 PM
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Im kind of disagreeing with OP on definitions, I think, but I think compassion is more like, "I respect you have a different idea of intimacy than I do and wont judge you for it. And although I want nothing to do with it, I feel bad that you are so desperate for that intimacy. Im sorry this world has made you so desperate for human touch."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:29 PM
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Im a guy and have spent so much time raising my kids. More than my wife, probably. We have two kids and Im 42. I admit i wish we could have one more kid. My wife comes another culture and would have a dozen more if it were possible!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:55 PM
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Like that has anything to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:58 PM
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Im 6' and my mom was like 5' 2". We don't need your eugenics, Hitler.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:42 AM
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It could also be they are indecisive and also interested in other guys. Are you meeting them with a dating app? Because that might explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:58 PM
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To paraphrase, it sounds like you attract them, but cant keep them. Are you sure its nothing you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:39 PM
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Doesn't sound like it! We actually have no idea how we look to others. Realizing this is the only reason my dysmoprhia ass ever gained any confidence at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:28 PM
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Do you scare them away somehow? Are you launching into politics or religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:18 PM
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There's going to be tons of people like this in Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:41 PM
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You have to understand and accept what biology has done to men. If men didn't have a sex drive, they would never approach women at all. Biology uses sex as an incentive for men. And then once they get to know someone, they fall in love with that woman. Men fall in love more easily than women do. It's funny how Reddit never talks about love. The thing that is unnatural is the sex = bad mentality. It was probably started by religion and worked its way into society. Sex is a natural and wonderful t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:53 PM
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I get that! As an older millennial, I never understood that. Maybe emo did it? I was in my late 20s seeing all those teenagers with feminine emo haircuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:55 PM
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I gave examples of each. You may have to venture out on your own. As I said, a feminine side of myself is that Im not interested in competition (was never into sports), I'm interested in interpreting emotion and psychology. I once took a psych class with 50 people and I was the only guy. I never even realized psych was a feminine thing until that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:33 PM
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I disagree with the desire for a 'submissive" woman. What men want is for women to have strong feminine energy. What feminism does is enforce a masculine energy on women, whether they originally wanted it or not. I married a woman who came from outside the US (Mexico). She is not submissive, but also falls into the traditional role in most ways. We are all looking to compliment our own energies. We all have some feminine and some masculine energies. At first glance, you might see me as very masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:24 PM
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Enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:54 PM
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Some of us were born into a peasant life. Must be great to be born with money and sidestep the human experience altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:17 PM
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Yeah youre right. But I would argue 80% of men are introverted. It used to be the opposite for women, but now I don't know. Being introverted is nothing special. You can socialize yourself and appeal to everyone, and still be introverted, like myself. I read somewhere that a good indicator is what someone does to recharge their mental energy. Most guys prefer to take a break from people and be alone. Some people prefer to be around others to "recharge".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:05 PM
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I don't know about you, but all I ever wanted was a normal life, with a wife and kids and a stable life in which to buy a home. Wanting these things while avoiding social skills is like wanting a racing trophy while swearing off racing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:47 PM
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My mom died when I was 16. I admit it made things a bit harder to relate to women when I suddenly found myself single later on. Its not really a game of just throwing yourself into a crowd. Do you ever buy anything in person ever? You can start by just making conversations with cashiers. Try this for ideas. r/socialskills What helped me was getting a job at an old folks home. It was like I was everyone's grandson. And coworkers saw me socializing and started liking me. That's how I met my wife, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:19 PM
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Every guy is introverted at first. Every guy is naturally introverted. You have to socialize yourself. This comes easier to women, but for us guys it's an uphill battle. It is a practice game. The reward to socializing yourself is huge. And social skills are what women are primarily turned on by. That's the upside. You can improve your social skills and become more attractive that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:40 PM
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Sounds like marketing material!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:20 PM
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I saw some women online complaining that men don't open the door for them anymore on dates. I realize it's a matter of opinion, but would you see that as a red flag? Im so glad I'm not dating anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:06 PM
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Meanwhile, there are good guys out there who are missing out. Women are already so suspicious of guys in general. Do we really need more of that? Its not about me, actually. I've been married 15 years. My wife gave me a chance because she was as lonely as I was. Watching people's lives online fall apart is really sad. I admit it is easy to see myself in a confused young guy who is told to not act nice. It enforces this trope that women only like guys that treat them like shit, and that is unfair…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:11 PM
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Like I said, manipulative. Good men can be nice. Nice is just the action of doing nice things. And a bad guy can also be manipulative in other ways. Like acting confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:59 PM
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Im tired of the phrase "nice guys". Their argument is that they are being manipulative. Why not call them "manipulative guys"?? The opposite of nice is mean. If women want to treat them like shit, they should just say that. And not be disappointed later when that guy cheats on them or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:01 PM
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If she is more like a broad than a feminine woman. Like if she smokes and swears a lot, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:27 AM
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I think you are right, but here is what I've learned about women. They are really turned on by social skills. If you are texting someone something, that is one thing. But if you can entertain a whole room of people and produce good feelings for them, funny or not, they will often adore you. I dont consider myself a funny guy (I dont even try), but the few times women approached me was after I got everyone in a room talking about nostalgic stories. On the other hand, if a woman likes you, it beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:04 AM
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Im a guy and this is ridiculous. Most guys are attracted to most young women. That being said, my wife is my type. That being said, I realize that most women i look at in porn have a lot of similarities to my wife. Most of my attraction is subconscious in this way. And what makes a guys type? Probably what kinds of women have paid attention to him throughout his life, what kind of women smile at him, etc. I think this has influenced me subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:13 PM
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A loving relationship is built on the idea that each person kind of worships each other, in some ways. And hopefully they contribute equally. But as soon as someone says, "Nope! That's below me! You can just worship me instead!" Then there is a one-sided relationship. And if someone says, "neither side should worship either side", then that isn't a romantic relationship at all. Because love makes you want to appreciate and take care of the other person. As a guy, I want to worship my wife all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:16 PM
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A man's prime is in his 30s. After he has gone through personal growth in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:56 PM
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I suspect you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:24 PM
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This is just more internet BS. Most men dont get noticed until like 30. We spend our 20s developing our social skills and our otherwise unnoticed at that time. But when men are around 30, women are noticing them. 30s are a man's peak. On into 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:40 PM
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That's a self awareness issue, clearly. Maybe the internet should call these people "low self-aware" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:23 PM
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Point taken. The next time some 20yo says, "there's no point in trying, women only like bad guys. They even say so", what should I tell him? I realize it's a translation issue and it's not true, but what would you say to that guy? Its a serious question because young men are giving up at the starting line in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:21 PM
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This is what you have been taught by the internet. And this is exactly what im getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:50 PM
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Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:48 PM
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We shouldn't look at the world in black/white thinking. And nice does not equate to manipulative, most of the time. Genuine nice is not the same as fake nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:46 PM
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There is a lot of debate right now of what is considered "manly". I feel like I figured this out in middle school and just worked on being myself ever since. I have a lot of masculine traits because that's just who I happen to be. I understand that's not always the case. It sounds like toxic masculine podcasters are to blame for a lot of the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:44 PM
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For sure! I try to push young guys to work on their social skills. Lack of social skills is an epidemic among young men right now. And almost nobody is addressing it. I just dont want women to be turned off upon hearing the word "nice". The internet would have people do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:41 PM
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They are just playing mind games again. They feel like many of their base are insecure men and they are trying to wake that up again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/25 10:49 PM
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The internet teaches women that a guy acting "nice" is worthy of suspicion and should be frowned upon. There may be guys that are afraid to act like a "nice guy" for fear of the hate. Its confusing because it plays into this concept that women are only attracted to bad guys. If women are afraid of manipulative guys, they should say "manipulative guys" and drop the "nice guys" phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:09 AM
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This is such a perfect analogy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/25 07:57 PM
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Those never work. If my wife suddenly wanted an open relationship, I would know it was over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:37 PM
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Its all just man hate that is abundant on Reddit. But if you call her pretty once in awhile, it might help her classify you correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:19 AM
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The way it's supposed to work: Most men have trouble meeting women. Men's insecurity leads them to adjust and improve themselves with social skills. Men become desirable over time, sometimes at around 30, because they have learned to chat it up with women. This was my experience, and it used to actually be common. (An abusive relationship sure slowed me down.) The way it's going: Most men have trouble meeting women. Men feel ashamed and insecure, but believe they are "just like that". Call thems…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/25 12:03 AM
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I always thought a bar would be a bad place to look for women, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:17 AM
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If women are in a crowd of friends, this discourages courtship because what guy would approach that woman? She is actively trying to be unapproachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:57 PM
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Im still waiting to hear about this patriarchal privilage I keep hearing about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/25 07:07 PM
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Lol Yeesh. Leave it to Reddit to automatically equate attention to sex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/25 06:48 PM
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Don't worry about how others see you online. If you are meeting women like this in real life, and they lack empathy for your problems, dodge a bullet and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:26 PM
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My male tongue thinks Im a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:37 PM
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A couple days ago I posted "Its ok for guys to seek attention from women". Im still getting hate comments days later.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/25 06:45 AM
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You answered your own question again! Because I've never been friend zoned and dont understand it. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:18 PM
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Probably because I've never once heard this before. Then again, Im 42 and have only spent a combined 3 years of my adult life single. Then again I would flirt with women before they had a chance to friend zone me. Even though im married, I still hand out compliments like candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:14 PM
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You answered your own question. There isn't any logic to it. Its Reddit! And I mean this respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:26 PM
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With respect, you understand why I asked you this, right? Reddit doesn't reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:08 PM
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I haven't seen #3 before. Sounds like a Reddit thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:01 PM
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Im pretty sure you just answered your own question.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/25 10:19 PM
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If men are getting friend zoned, i believe it is usually their own fault. But they never express their attraction from the start. Women don't want to be with a guy who doesn't find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:51 PM
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The correct way is to chat it up on a regular basis and build rapport, and occasionally call something about her pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:47 PM
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Relationships fail when women expect men to think like them. Relationships flourish when both parties understand and respect that men and women are different. Once I was on Reddit and said, "Men and women are different" with no context, and got a hundred down votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:07 PM
0

Either you're one of those women that claims all men are the same, or you are a guy that is projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:25 AM
1

I haven't seen that side first-hand. But I can tell you that, although I'm tall, I'm pretty fat and ugly. Shrek basically. But I compensated by learning how to talk to women. Then I got married and went back to college at around 30. And there was always some woman interested in this Shrek. About one for every quarter I was in university. That's when I realized there is a shortage of guys in collage. I think they must have been talking to me out of desperation. That's what I told myself. These we…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:21 PM
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Good dudes (such as myself) are often described as "average". And as you know, "average" is a negative word in our society. However, once women are about 30 and mature, the average, good natured dude with stable goals is exactly what a woman is looking for. You wouldn't know it from Reddit because... Most people on Reddit are in their teens and early 20s. Not everyone is. I'm 42 and often feel like an outlier lecturing people on tunnel vision. Women over about 30 are more like "women" than "girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:12 PM
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Nice guys is the dumbest description of a man on the internet, and it is really confusing. It is meant to be like "nice" guys, as in manipulative, and i think it came from a self-help book. Meanwhile, half the internet is saying, "Whats wrong with being a nice person? Do women prefer mean guys?" And there are even guys pretending to be rude just to pick up on women. When people say "nice" guys, and mean it in a negative way, they should instead say "manipulative guys". It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:07 PM
5

Many young men and women don't feel like they will ever obtain a relationship. So they turn to Only fans and strip clubs. My Reddit feed had this post surrounded by posts like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:11 PM
1

Call them pretty sometimes, then leave the ball in their court as if nothing ever happened. They get turned on by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:11 PM
2

With respect, I think your aggression is misdirected. I didn't say he was arrogant. I said he was competitive. Or at least, you made him sound that way. While I'm not competitive, I do admit I have been especially protective lately. With everything going on in the news, I admit I've been preparing my home firearm in case a bunch of crazy masked people crash into my home looking for my wife. Didn't you call him an alpha male? The motivation to be an alpha and the motivation to protect are complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:50 PM
2

Fuck this competitive mindset. Everything has to be a competition to the human mind, doesn't it? But it is all so insecure to me. A mind that has to constantly be better than others is a person that secretly feels weak and has to constantly prove otherwise. The real life adult world has so much competition shoved down our throat that I'm frankly disgusted by it. Having to constantly compete for a job, constantly compete within a job because of insecure narcissistic assholes. What does that make …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:37 PM
2

Im in the Freemasons. It's been great, and I joined about 2 years ago. Fraternities honestly check the boxes of so many problems right now with young men. On Reddit they are complaining they don't have any friends, can't pass job interviews, the problems never end. But these are all social skills issues. They could join a fraternity and have 50 new friends practically overnight. Guys that encourage other guys to better themselves, learn things, and want to hang out with. them. And if they improv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:30 PM
4

For the vast majority of people with social problems, it is a crutch and an illusion. People think they are improving themself when they arnt. I have two young kids and just got back from a fraternity lodge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:44 AM
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This is a great conversation to be having, as lack of social skills is responsible for most of the problems male Redditors complain about. But all face-to-face interaction helps develop our brains. Men can socialize with as many people as they can, and it still helps in some way. Interacting with women is even better! But it isn't their responsibility. As long as guys understand that interacting digitally helps you in almost no way, and isn't a stand-in for face-to-face interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:33 PM
5

Young women have an easier time getting attention from society, but it may be totally different by the time she is in her mid 30s. Men might have a completely opposite experience, as long as we work to better ourselves and improve ourselves socially. Reddit doesn't have enough temporal perspective. What is true about a group may be totally different about those individuals 10 years later. So you see, it is always folly to make blanket statements. Another aspect is that women are taught to not ad…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 05:29 PM
1

The word "creep" just refers to a guy she has no control over. Like if he is present, she feels no control of the situation. She needs that control to feel safe. Don't come on to her too aggressively. But also don't hate women for requiring control. Men desire it, too, but it is a test of nature that we can hand the control over to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:33 AM
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Most judging of women is done by other women. In what universe would a guy judge a woman for being a "pick me" girl? The internet just makes it easier to make up new and silly phrases.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/25 07:28 PM
2

You are always changing, especially your personality. It's like saying, "the weather is hot and sunny. I guess that's the way it will be forever!" Except we have more control of ourselves than the weather. Not by direction action. Decide what you value in life. Should that change or stay the same? How do you want to make others feel? You will subconsciously express these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:23 AM
3

If most women become misandric, the population will start to go down and you will see it in birth rates. Oh wait...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/25 03:51 AM
0

I think it is mostly right-wing media that is responsible for the definition change. They always need someone to hate, and when they can't think of someone else that day, their trope is "democrats" and "feminists". But they only report the extreme cases of feminism. Republicans are taught to believe all feminists are in the extreme.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/25 05:48 PM
10

To be fair, men are guilty of this, too. When men talk about how much attention women get and how easy their love lives are, what kind of woman are we imagining? A young hottie. A young, attractive woman has a lot of power without even realizing it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/25 05:38 PM
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Tou are half way there. This a recipe to get friend zoned. You have to do some subtle flirting on occasion. Just call her pretty in some indirect way. Just enough so that she can classifiy you as a potential mate. She will treat you differently. It's important for them that you feel she is pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:25 PM
2

Ì joined the Freemasons, but there is also Oddfellows, Elks, etc Yes, it's good to share a hobby, but the fraternity itself becomes the hobby. Studying the amazing history of it, learning things in cipher, it's pretty awesome. My lodge is really mixed bag as far as age. Most guys that join are my age, in their 30s or 40s. We have some 20-somethings. We even have very old guys that have been doing it for 50 years. I love that nobody is allowed to talk about religion or politics. And everyone is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:17 AM
3

I joined a fraternity. Not the college kind. That used to be what guys did a hundred years ago. Most guys in a town would belong to something. I gained like 50 friends practically overnight. People who have literally sworn an obligation to like me. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:13 PM
1

It sounds like you are doing great in exercising your social skills! You can't control others. Another problem is people get jealous a lot. Close friends might suddenly ghost you the second you have a new gf, get married, or have a kid. I had a close friend ghost me on each of these occasions. But others are having all kinds of mental health issues. One of my close friends who ghosted me ended up homeless in San Francisco. He's been homeless for like 10 years now. He lost his mind shortly before…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:18 AM
1

The reason men are having such a hard time right now is that the idea of improving one's social skills seems alien to them. I did it. It takes practice and some bravado. But eventually you find women approaching you, instead. If a male peacock could grow more feathers with practice to attract mates, he would certainly do it! You have everything to gain and nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:17 PM
1

You've been rejected 10,000 times? And how many of those was in person? You are only a commodity on dating apps. Grow some balls and get to know women in person. I say "get to know" because cold approach to women rarely works. The best thing to do is chat it up in person with someone you see regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:20 AM
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Don't talk to racists, and don't talk to sexists. These people make upna smaller percentage of people than you think.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/25 07:59 PM
4

Thanks for sharing more perspective! The internet needs more people who have seen both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:24 AM
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I'm 42, but even when I 18, I wasn't the "sleep around" kind of guy. I was always the long-term kind of guy. I was honestly afraid to hurt people. When I was 19, I could have had 2 girlfriends at one point, but was honest up front with both and then chose one. My only regret is that I chose the wrong one (borderline personality disorder). But anyway, from my perspective as an honorable (not religious) man, sexual desire needs to be controlled or you are going to emotionally hurt someone, or even…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:34 PM
4

It's not really worth it to have female platonic friends when you have or are pursuing women on the side. Your SO will usually be jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:29 PM
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I knew that women would often seek male plutonic friends, and I never understood this desire. I'm surprised to see this post in a reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:08 PM
2

I agree. It is especially weird to see young men start complaining about "the patriarchy" as if they were always part of the problem. Like, where has their balls gone?? This is partly why men are struggling right now. To respond to you, there will always be gender. As long as you never hate someone for being different, you will always be in the right. It is a lesson I had to learn from life. At 42, I think I got it: You can't easily be bullied by someone who is morally inferior to you. If the pe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/25 02:50 AM
10

So you believe in some mass conspiracy that men are secretly trying to hold power over women? I'm a 42 yo dude and I've never heard a guy talk like that. I've heard people say racist shit, sure. But nobody has ever told me they were involved in this great conspiracy of "controlling women".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:01 AM
3

Who's saying what now? Please don't tell me it's common for men to be frustrated with "the patriarchy."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/25 11:22 PM
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I joined the freemasons. It's everything I always needed but couldn't find. Fraternities for gown ups used to be a common thing. A place for guys to get together without judgement and ne themselves. And they are still around. All the way up until the 1950s, almost half of the male population belonged to some fraternity. So why is there so much secrecy in fraternities like freemason? To avoid criticism from those that don't understand it. This is what OP is facing. His only problem is that his gr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 11:05 PM
1

Because of the threat of that removal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 02:30 PM
1

It's because of the removal of Roe v. Wade by Republicans. Makes sense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 01:01 PM
1

Still trolling as the thought police? That's such a normie move.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 07:16 PM
1

Wow, why so angry? I was simply imagining a scenario where you can't have your cake and eat it too. Chill out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 05:32 PM
0

I thought OP said, "why can't we have both?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 06:06 PM
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Because if he says, "yes, we are having the kid," and so they have to do it, hen she isn't choosing. Also, men can make more kids throughout his life. Women have only a limited number of eggs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 01:31 AM
3

When you think about it, women are the backbone of society. They talk more, have larger social circles, and so their ideas spread farther and wider. Meanwhile, men are talking less and less, and instead turning to technology to vent. This is why the overall voice of society, what is acceptable to say and unacceptable to say, holds a strong female bias.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 04:03 AM
1

Freemasonry. It is the sense of community I always wished I had. But by no means is it a red pill group. https://beafreemason.org/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 08:19 PM
11

Women are celebrated for being who they are and giving off feminine energy. And they should be! But men are frowned upon for being who they are and giving off male energy. You mentioned the word "disgusting". We have all been called a variation of that at least one time in our lives, often while growing up. That is why men Haye words like, "ick, gross, eww..." And it becomes tiresome to always be seen as a threat. The other day I was at a drive-in theater, surrounded by cars full of people, when…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 07:54 PM
2

I've been that guy more than a few times: the one not knowing how to help. Like I feel bad for the person but I don't know what to say. Maybe because I'm afraid that if I tell them life gets better I would be lying. And it would seem obvious that I'm lying. Like, I've had so many people die on me. If someone is sad about that, what do I say? That nobody will ever die on them again? I try to respond by talking about how I can relate to their problems, but I'm afraid of sounding like it's about me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/24 05:05 PM
0

Men are more quick to violence partially because society gives us a perfect storm for psychological problems. If someone is going to be an immature child, that's on them. But most of us really dont know how to deal with our problems. For me, I'm very controlled and believe strongly against taking out my problems on others. But this leads to turning my despair inward.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/24 04:38 PM
20

Ever since I read Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus years ago, I've been fascinated by the differences between men and women. Men and women both have their strengths and weaknesses, neither are better, but the differences make for a stronger tribe. But if you go on Reddit, and just say the phrase, "men and women are different", people will downvote you to shit. I couldn't understand why. Then someone explained to me that people were assuming I thought women were stupid. I never said or tho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/24 07:20 PM
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I kind of did, thinking that if I got a positive message out and said it in the nicest way possible, I would avoid a ban on a sub intended for women. Nope, I was wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 08:44 PM
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I was once banned from twoxchromosome because I simply said, "please remember not all men are like this."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 08:00 PM
2

In a group that doesn't believe in talking about religion, we don't need an atheist there to bring it up all the time, ironically. But the official reasoning on paper is that an atheist supposedly can't swear to secrecy because there is no higher power to swear to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 12:32 PM
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I have to admit this earned points with me, too. It is a fraternity, though. So you would want to look into Order of Eastern Star.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/24 07:18 PM
2

And who thinks that and spreads those lies? The Catholic church.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/24 06:18 PM
3

Religion is definitely bad. Although I'm more of a spiritual person with some Zen Buddhist beliefs. Hard to remind myself Zen is considered a religion when it is really just ancient psychology. One of the most criminal things Cristianity has done is convince people that religion and God are the same thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/24 06:17 PM
2

It's just to keep atheists out. Lol I'm more of a Buddhist, tbh. A person is in trouble if they don't believe anything is greater than them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/24 03:19 PM
7

I just joined the Freemasons. You can't join if you have a felony. Their motto is "making good men better". Their three principles are brotherly love, relief (helping others), and truth. The world needs a lot more of that. Gives me a feeling of belonging to a community. Everyone is obligated to be there for you like a family, and you are there also. You are not allowed to talk about religion or politics amongst each other, because these things seperate people. On the other hand, they are targets…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/24 12:42 PM
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This title really needs a couple commas. "Widely reported study, suggesting divorce is more likely when wives fall ill, gets axed." There ya go journalists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/24 02:21 AM
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I don't think people should get a free pass just because they call it venting, because it is not only harmful to others, but harmful to the self. I've watched a couple guys gradually lose their mind as they gave into cynicism. It's just all a slippery slope, you know? And the negativity is so contagious, too. Generalization is the first step to bigotry
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/24 06:37 AM
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When women say "men always..." then "not all men" is the correct response!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/24 07:49 PM
4

It's kind of like life is shooting at you. You can stand there and wait for it, run at the bullets, or do your best to avoid being shot. Mental health is like that. Sometimes a guy panics because there are too many bullets flying at him for too long. That's what depression it. I went on Reddit to vent sometimes, and people would accuse me of making stuff up. So weird. For example, I suddenly became epileptic in 2010 seemingly.for no reason. I had the worst kind of depression for ten years. I lit…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/24 10:43 PM
16

I've watched people literally go insane from bitterness and cynicism. Smart people that chose to think about unfairness towards them on a constant basis. Close friend millennials that suddenly ghosted everyone they knew. It is literally your choice. Break the thought cycle. Get your mind on something else, like a hobby.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/24 12:31 PM
22

How do they turn these facts around and make it all about them??
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/24 05:55 AM
5

I think this mostly depends on the personality of managers. I believe that most are not going to alter pay or employment based solely on race, gender, etc. But there will always be bigots out there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 05:31 PM
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Something similar happened in another study. Many women still believe they get paid less for the same job regardless of where they are working. Turns out this all started from a Harverd study in which they were comparing men and women in a bus driving company. The men were more likely to pick up overtime, skewing the results. Bottom line, it was for one particular job, not every job across the board..
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 04:42 AM
2

How does Gen Z say it? Touch grass. You and the girls at your school all need to touch grass. I don't want you to take this personally, but this is all a result of Gen Z being raised by the internet. You can't be ashamed of who you are. A perfect, more extreme example of this is Latinos. No matter how much racism Latinos receive, all the deporting and shit, they are always proud to refer to themselves as their nationality. Always be proud to be a man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/24 06:58 PM
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Yes, but they are an extreme version and don't represent the majority.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 10:38 PM
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The right is targeting Gen Z a lot lately with articles. As an older millennial, I find this relatable. They are trying to unify old people into all thinking the same. It used to be old people did almost all the voting. So with millennials, the right propaganda machine was trying to unify old voters (mostly right) into hating a common enemy, left-leaning millennials such as myself. The truth is, millennials and Gen Z are vastly left-leaning. But there is another right propaganda machine at work …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 06:05 PM
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I have only seen articles claim this about Gen Z. But I believe these articles to be right-wing propaganda. As a straight, white, millennial male: shut the fuck up and only speak for yourself. Respectfully yours.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 06:57 AM
1

Men are more likely to have psychological problems, and talking about those problems and working them out is frowned upon by society. Men are more likely to feel rejected by society. How does society enforce men to repress their emotions? He experiences hazing and violence. A kid might be trying to mind his own business and suddenly get beat up, or pressured in to fighting. It's all a perfect storm for psychological problems. And good luck proving any of this accurately through surveys, because …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/24 01:43 AM
3

The answer is immaturity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/24 06:12 PM
2

Sounds like a complete narcissist, which is characterized by lack of empathy and manipulation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/24 06:08 PM
1

There is a lot of difference between girls and women, just like there is a lot of difference between boys and men. The author is explaining her progression into maturity. Her initial experience was, "I wanted attention and I didn't get it. Huff! Doesn't he realize it's all about me??"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/24 06:06 PM
1

Says here that a woman will live over 2,000 years with Covid, while men will live 4,000 years.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 06:45 PM
2

Might help for you to realize that the American conservative propaganda machine is fueling this hatred. I have a 9yo son. We are close and we talk a lot. I don't hold back reality from him and he is growing up very smart! I only mention all this because it would help explain where this bs is coming from while you are talking to your son. You sound like a great mother, though. Very down to earth. Cheers!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 02:36 AM
-1

Lol I'm fortunate enough to have spent my whole life in the SF Bay Area. 95% are like you, so I get to see the reality of feminism. People in the Midwest don't even know what a feminist is, so Fox News has their way with their imagination. But I'm sure you already realize this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 02:11 AM
1

Did we disagree somewhere? scratches head
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 02:06 AM
-4

If you look on YouTube, there is so much red pill propaganda being pushed. Conservatives like Jordan Peterson have latched onto it. Sometimes people don't even realize they are conservatives until they are fans. It all centers on feminism. Most feminists don't even hate men, but feminism is one of the boogeymen/women that the Republicans love to hate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 12:56 AM
3

Men are more visual. And if we weren't, the human race would end. Somebody needs to approach somebody based on little-to-no criteria. And this is only part of attraction. Incentive to make the first moves. Love is more than just appearance. So what kind of feminist hole did you drag us into, OP?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 02:17 AM
14

This is because, like it or not, "society" is made up of the gossip of women with a few male opinions sprinkled in (and possibly tossed aside).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/24 12:25 AM
-5

There are basically different kinds of feminists. The extremely aggressive kind are in the minority, but right wing news and youtube would love for you to believe otherwise. Many feminists really do believe in equalitynbut you never hear about those. And I live in the SF Bay Area. Even here it's not as crazy as the internet makes it out to be. Even when I went back to college, spent time talking to feminists etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 08:47 AM
11

I got a ban from r/twoxchromisomes because I said very politely, "excuse me, please remember that not all men are like that. Thank you." On Reddit, many women often use blanket statements about men and act surprised when we call them out on it. We are expected to know they "don't mean all men" but we all know language is important. That said, what the fuck were they talking about on this post before it was cut off.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 08:40 AM
3

Wow, so backwards. Any man can be jailed in an instant if a woman accuses him, falsely or not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 05:48 PM
1

While I have been around my share of bad people (probably 10% of the population) I still believe the vast majority of people are good. However, most men are not used to suddenly talking about strong feelings and a bombardment of emotion. We were never taught this. We were taught the opposite of dealing with our feelings. I will give you an example.I made contact with a friend I hadn't see in years. Apparently he ghosted everyone to go live on the streets of San Francisco. We talked at a restaura…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/24 06:10 PM
2

Remind me again what current feminists are mad at again?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/24 02:43 AM
-14

Keep in mind that extreme feminists, the ones that right wingers won't shut up about, probably only make up about 20% of all feminists. Most feminists just want equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/23 01:19 AM
4

In other words, the average man also has it way worse than the elite rich.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/23 02:21 AM
5

In some ways, incel suffering is greatly amplified by the way society views how males should be. These guys go crazy because something was supposed to happen, and it didn't. They view themselves as "failed males" because society says you are supposed to be a lady's man and sleep with lots of women. This way of thinking is destructive even for non-incels. In the 90s, the terms for "failed male" was to call someone gay or a fag. To call a guy this (in a non-joking manner) was like the ultimate ins…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/23 06:44 AM
1

I've been married for 13 years to a Latina. I'm white. I've found that the superficial differences just make life and her more interesting. It's the values that should be similar.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/23 10:37 PM
3

I was banned from twox just for politely saying, "please remember not all men are like this." Women make a lot of geralization talk and get away with it. But if you call them out on it they say, "of course I don't mean "every man" duh!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/23 11:28 AM
3

Racist people are usually right-wing boomers, and they have their own corner of the internet. Their own circle jerks that has them believing every thinks like they do
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/23 11:24 AM
1

I don't need to tell you what you already know; that you need to get off the internet and talk to real people. I live in the SF Bay Area, arguably the heart of left wing feminism. Two important points. The vast majority of feminists are not loud or hating men. The vast majority are actually agreeable and believe in equality, but still believe in the wage gap. They generally don't go looking for fights like the ones on the internet. The man-hating women are much louder on the internet. I went bac…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/23 06:46 PM
4

A few reasons. It has been happening throughout our lives in school, even in elementary school. You should read The War Against Boys by Christina Hoff Sommers. Written by a mom, she noticed that girl play is encouraged while boy play is not only discouraged, but boys are punished for it. Like the third grader that brought a bright colored toy gun to school and was expelled for it. And there are less and less male teachers because a guy can be accused of something. Other points of hers include th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/23 03:05 PM
2

Thanks for this link! Not only did I have a time in my life where I couldn't get a date, but this has really affected my experience finding a career. I would apply for a jobs in a chosen career and get rejected over and over. A year ago I got to the point where I couldn't even force myself to fill out those applications. The only way to motivate myself to continue to look for work was to alter my career path. Again... But why do you suppose people with ADHD have this problem? What's the connecti…
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