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DreamBoatGuy25/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 10:23 AM
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Red Pill TheoryDreamBoatGuy25/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 08:40 PM
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Some good points here, OP, however this does highlight some strategic reasons why you might not want to wait to bring it up until he does. If you game out the likely scenarios where this topic does "come up", in your head, you'll probably realize that more than likely it will come up through him "making an attempt", at which point you'll have to stop everything cold in its tracks, and explain your stance to him. Now, whatever his feelings are about your stance on any given day, it's doubtful tha…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 01:26 AM
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For the sake of analysis and so we all don't fall into cognitive bias it should be considered that this could have simply been purely a money issue. Financial issues are the number one reason for divorce, most of which are initiated by women. He was having money trouble and his wife was unhappy, he got a new job making a lot more money and his wife suddenly became a lot happier. That's probably the sum of it. I question the amount of lifting and dread game that could keep a woman in line if her …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 09:34 AM
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My problem is that, when I look at the person I like I automatically assume, he just wants to sleep with me. He cannot love or feel emotions the way I as woman feel. Nature has designed men differently than woman hence men have more control with whom they fall in love with and sure he won't love me, all he needs is sex. He would never understand my feelings and my needs of intimacy because he is a man. They don't have to deal with oxytocin, and he has all the control weather to fall in love or n…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 03:30 AM
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Literally EVERYONE around me has always been supportive of feminism. I am in academia I'm sure you already know this but academia is one of the biggest cults around and could easily give Scientologists and Southern Baptists a run for their money. I think the answer to your conundrum isn't necessarily even about finding the answer, at least not the answer to "which school of thought is the correct one?" Strictly speaking the only movement/field of study/science that we know isn't complete horsesh…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 03:03 AM
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While don't at all agree entirely with what the poster you responded to said or how she said it, I think it's at least worth considering that the Alpha Widow concept comes, at least to some degree out of the male brain. I mean TRP isn't an exact science, or even exactly a science and it's important to remember that we aren't scientists and a lot of what we do here is fumbling around in the dark, which isn't necessarily a bad thing as long as we don't forget it and start taking our own cognitive …
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 02:33 AM
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I pursued a BS in Physics before switching to Computer Science, so I may be able to provide some insight. Physics is generally considered to be the most difficult major for a very good reason, because for most people it is the most difficult major. So if it's something he's serious about he needs to be both smart and dedicated. The job prospects for Physics degrees aren't particularly good. There just isn't a huge demand for physicists. Additionally, people who actually work in physics usually g…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 10:44 PM
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I'm attractive, although kind of fat if I'm being honest... I have a personal trainer that I've seen for the past 5 years I empathize with your weight loss struggles, I've been there and it is difficult finding a way out. However, if you've had a personal trainer for the last 5 years and you're still kind of fat then you need to find a new personal trainer. I don't care how nice they are or whatever else. The biggest hurdle to getting into shape is motivation. The techniques themselves aren't co…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 08:22 PM
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Yup. People need to wake up. Skinner > all.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 06:48 PM
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I don't know why people complain about the anger phase. What comes out of it is pure, unadulterated nightmare fuel. Nothing in my life has driven me more to higher achievement than the agony at hearing that the cute girl I thought was a unicorn actually loved getting rough fucked by some sleezeball's big dick and the shame and humiliation that I wasn't good enough. The anger phase is a gift most men will never even be aware of. It's the cold relentless truth of our real place in the universe. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 06:35 PM
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It's always been ironic to me that Arnold's life is the literal version of the American Dream yet he can't be president and the guy we actually elected to be President is the literal exact opposite in almost every way.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:56 AM
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The notion that there is ever any comeuppance or just deserts for women slutting around in their college years is just a RP revenge fantasy. The genders never evolved to be equal, nature doesn't give a shit about equality. Male homo sapiens are disposable meat for the grinder. Suck it up and be thankful that the girl you just fucked didn't eat your head for a source of protein immediately after you orgasmed inside her.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 11:50 PM
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On my way out from the club I ran into dadbod as he clutched a beer. He looked dead cold. All I said was "what's up bro" and left. Instead of grinding on the dudes wife and then just leaving him with "what's up bro", you could've at least been an actual bro and said "google the red pill".
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 11:39 PM
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And he discovers they're all a bunch of deceptive sluts? Do you really even need to ask? It actually is a pretty decent read, and extremely quick, I read it in about 2 hours as it reads very much like a story. The author also provides some insightful commentary on each girl, and the conclusions he reached after his experience were surprisingly enlightening. The pdf is available online if you know where to look. The author is part of the seduction community and has a few other self published kind…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 11:32 PM
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There's a book called "The Key Logger" where a guy key logs 11 different girlfriends in order to hack their facebook and see what they were really doing behind his back. I'm not completely sure how fictional it is (the author seems pretty full of himself) but in my own experience it's pretty close to the truth.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 12:44 AM
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Part of Dr. Peterson's argument is that the leftists use to be pro free speech. These kinds of ideological shifts happen all the time on both sides, though. During the Bush years Conservatives were huge victim's rights advocates and never met a accused person that they didn't think should immediately be thrown in prison or worse; gitmo. On the other hand Liberals were staunch defenders of due process, presumption of innocence, and the rights of the accused. Now with the recent cultural shift foc…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 12:27 AM
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This scene from the movie "Up in the Air" has a great critical commentary on the phenomenon of unrealistic life partner expectations that your sister and many other women are currently struggling with in modern society, presented by an older woman. Bonus is that it's also chock full of RPW truths. As I am not an older woman, I'll forgo my own opinion/commentary and leave the clip to speak for itself. Hopefully it provides some insight and is a satisfactory contribution to the thread.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 11:43 PM
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I just skimmed. I'm short as well. I look at it like this, no one is born with every advantage in life, some people get stuck with one or more of the various less than desirable physical traits. Or they're from an unpopular ethnicity. Or impoverished. Or a long list of other things. Being short is just one of those unfortunate disadvantages. Yeah if you think about it for too long you'll start to stew about it being unchangeable despite how much you lift or about how hypocritically and unrepenta…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 12:55 AM
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There's a very old saying... "All women are whore's...except Ghandi...who was a man."
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 11:13 PM
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Yup, soon as I finish my degree I'm peacing the fuck out of this swamp. I was in Japan for a semester on study abroad and like the other guy said, when you come back to America, all the women look like land whales and sound like Sam Kineson even when speaking in their normal voice. There were times where I literally wanted to throw up. I know Asian women aren't quite the dream girls people make them out to be, but they and their culture, depending on where you go, is miles better than here. Plus…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 10:56 PM
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You spelled Portland wrong though it’s P O R K L A N D. You touched on a point about left leaning cities. I have found some amazing women in right leaning cities interestingly enough. Found this out late in life but highly recommend. I agree that feminism created a ridiculous level of entitlement in PNW women, but the obesity rates in Red vs Blue states aren't even remotely comparable. Red states win the diabetes and heart disease contest with ease. HUGE swaths of the entire freaking south are j…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 10:46 PM
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Good lord. I remember seeing pictures of this girl at all the glamourous events and on the red carpet. I never followed her but she really did stink of "famewhore". I didn't know Sex in the City was her bible but I am certainly Jack's complete lack of surprise to hear it. I read the entire article unadulterated (without RP commentary) because I wanted to get a real feel for what she was saying (and because I can make my own commentary) and I'm just floored by what she wrote. I could almost swear…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 10:25 PM
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I really need to figure this out. Until than im ghosting until she reaches out. Eh, Fuck all that. Look you took one on the chin, but your Dread Game worked and you ultimately made tremendous progress. First things first, don't do what you said you were gonna do at the end of your post. That's dumb, and it'll bite you in the ass. The thing is, Dread Game is crazy powerful shit, and it's very easy to take it too far, I've done it several times myself, even had a gf cheat on me a month into the re…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 09:37 PM
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It's actually a common misconception that men don't get sexually shamed like women do. Men just get shamed for behavior that is opposite of the behavior women get shamed for. It's often forgotten that "virgin loser" is a common insult hurled at men. Interestingly, these insults also correlate with behaviors that are relatively difficult to accomplish by the respective genders. It's difficult for men to obtain sex and as such doing so is seen as an accomplishment, therefore not doing so is consid…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 09:13 PM
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Sorry to say but your wife sounds emotionally and physically abusive. Women can get pretty miffed at a guy they used to kick around suddenly going from beta to alpha but based on your description her behavior is way over the line and not normal. There's no protocol in RP to deal with crazy people beyond telling you to just gtfo. You're still young. Get your wife on tape having a tantrum and throwing plates, maybe even call the cops on her next time she does it so you have more documentation, the…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 09:02 PM
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Correct. The key thing to remember here is the difference between what women want and what men want. Men want sex, first and foremost, women want sex as well but not nearly as much as they want a relationship. Measuring this situation based purely on physical attractiveness may lead one to assume that the guys were the ones getting the worse end of the deal. However once you figure in the differences between what men want and what women want it becomes more apparent that the girl in this situati…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 07:26 PM
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What they are trying to do is ruin Hemingway's image as a masculine icon, and therefore, make masculinity seem silly and fake in our eyes. They are saying that Hemingway was a weak man just like everybody else, and that all his masculine behaviour and courage were just a mask he wore to hide how weak he was. This makes women feel better, because a man that is truly masculine ruins their idea of gender equality. It also makes weak men feel better, because now they know that masculinity doesn't ex…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 11:29 PM
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Keep in mind that's important to look at things through multiple frames to avoid tunnel vision. You're viewing your current work issue through a TRP lense, which is fine, to a degree, as it certainly has components of that and you broke a cardinal rule which was showing weakness to women. However you should also consider frames that aren't even on the TRP or gender axis. For example it's not really your fwb or even the unsympathetic women in HR that's the problem here, it's that I'm guessing you…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:11 AM
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I been on the other side of this and you aren't really doing anything wrong, the biggest problem is... He hates his job People really underestimate just how much the stress from a bad job can grind a person down to a nub. At the end of the day your nerves are fried beyond recognition and you end up reacting to even the smallest thing. Chronic stress is a literal killer, and the way that it genetically mutates your brain chemistry, (which can then be passed on to your kids) is like something out …
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/18 01:48 PM
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how does a housewife have any benefit to the world? What significant things do they have to offer, compared to the engineers and doctors mentioned above. She's the one raises all those doctors and engineers. She is the foundation for their entire social construction of reality and forms the basis for the majority of their behavioral programming. Without her they wouldn't even exist in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 01:03 AM
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I find it really difficult to admit my views on sex among my peers, who are mostly feminists and have the post-modernist view of sex...any tips on asserting your traditionalist values in this kind of environment and how to feel comfortable in expressing them? The biggest tip is to be very careful how you pick your friends. You're assuming that you should even be actively engaging in this type of environment beyond day-to-day necessity to begin with. There's a ton of scientific research in Behavi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 12:46 AM
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Well first of all, see the edit I made in my post, as that addresses your central concern. Also, everything you're saying here is probably going to have a lot more to do with matching up personality types(think INFJ or some other system) than RP. Some personalities click better with talkers/extroverts than non-talkers/introverts. For example two guys will have a different take away from a date with the same talkative girl. The first guy might be a bit introverted and content to let the girl yap …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 10:01 PM
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The problem is that I have trouble gabbing like a stereotypical woman. Hmm, not sure where this is coming from. I wasn't aware "being gabby" was a critical aspect of femininity, without which the entire frame falls apart. I think you may be overthinking this a bit. The only real non feminine behavior cues women need to worry about are behaving like a drunk frat boy or a lesbian. You said you look and dress feminine. Appearing quiet and shy is very attractive to men, especially if we're looking f…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 09:08 PM
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Skinner rules everything around us. Behavior Modification > All.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 08:25 AM
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No doubt his environment made changing his behavior an enormous uphill battle, but ultimately he only has himself to blame for not being attractive enough to keep her and for getting price gouged out of half his youtube money. This guy had a lot of disadvantages, but my understanding is that he's basically rich. The hardest part about diet and exercise in motivation. If I were rich I would hire a personal trainer to literally follow me around every moment of every day drill sargenting me into co…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 08:19 AM
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I'm of two minds on this issue. Everyone who's ever gotten a job in the modern economy knows how important networking is. And social networks are essentially the same. It's kind of like running game on autopilot or what they call in business "passive income". You're putting out a static copy of yourself to engage with others at their leisure. Certainly, guys have gotten lays from girls they connected with on facebook and ig. I imagine given the the nature of the system, it is, like tinder, heavi…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 08:06 AM
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This nailed it while the others argued past one another. The truth is both points were valid. The more jacked a short guy is, the more his height is noticed from a visual standpoint. This does not, however, make not being jacked the better alternative. It's simply a statement about how muscularity affects the perception of short men. Basically, short men have life on hard-mode. All the margins of error are significantly slimmer. You either let that fact make you bitter or you put on your best sh…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 06:41 AM
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Well technically cognitive dissonance is the mental discomfort of holding two competing thoughts. So it's actually "the lack of cognitive dissonance" due to things like rationalization and adaptive preference formation that are justification processes. It's a pretty common misconception though and your point still stands.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 11:58 PM
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Yeah, I find this to be true as well. We'd all like to think that the scales of justice balance out for women later in life but one of the important things I learned from RP is that biology is not fair. It was never meant to be fair and it was never going to be fair because that's not how the universe works.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 11:52 PM
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how can I put myself in more situations where I can spend some time with girls besides 5 minute conversations? I am also kind of into the geeky types rather than girly girls so it would be great to find some hang outs like that. Find and join some nerd groups on meetup.com or whatever. Run social circle game on them. As you're noticing cold approach requires high volume to get any kind of decent numbers with.
/r/seduction14/12/17 10:19 AM
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I dunno why people waste their time with this shit. Most political debates I watch 90% of the time two people aren't even on the same page of a topic to discuss it intelligently. They just argue passed one another not even realizing they're talking about different things. Or they spend most of their tripping over themselves to prove without a doubt that they never took philosophy in college and have zero awareness of logical fallacies. Grunting at each other is so aggravatingly inefficient. The …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 12:04 AM
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a chronic RBF. Resting Bitch Face will make a guy change his mind about approaching quicker almost anything. A women with RBF might as well be wearing a hijab as far as attracting men goes. So make doubly sure that you've reversed this completely. Research and practice "warm smiles" and (extended) eye contact. Those are the two biggest indicators of interest that men watch for. I was also taught by her that only wh***s wore makeup so I don't wear it without feeling like men will think I'm 'loose…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 10:26 PM
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I definitely have had relationships in the past where I have been told for things to progress I’d have to take a step back from my education and focus more on the relationship itself, and I found that absurd. Now however, I think there seems to be some sense in it. Human sexual relationships are all about attraction. You've stumbled onto the realization that despite the fact that feminists think that they have the right or even the ability to control what other people are attracted to, the reali…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 10:32 PM
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Eh, I took a girl "back" after she cheated, but in reality I just downgraded her to fwb, made her grovel for my affection and tried some BSDM stuff out on her until I found a more worth girl to spend my time with.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 11:30 PM
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We agree in conclusion perhaps, but not in argument. They were using false analogies in an attempt to support their argument. Good on you for rightly identifying their faulty arguments but you then made the same type of false analogy in an attempt to support your argument. In Formal Logic when making an Argument from Analogy the "mirror", as you put it, is the key aspect of the argument otherwise the analogy is faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 10:58 PM
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Indeed I did, though a better analogy would simply be a man consenting to sex with his girlfriend only to find out it was her sister. I'm fine with that situation being classified as Rape as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 08:23 PM
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Personally, i'd like a good lesson or three on smashing through LMR to be a mandatory part of sex ed. God, this. I did my undergrad in Social Psychology with a focus in Human Sexuality and the fact that LMR, which is a freaking cultural universal in human sexual contact, is completely ignored in Sex research, education, and legislation is incredibly frustrating. But, hey, even in the 21st century Sexology is probably the most suppressed scientific field in all of academia, so it's really no surp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 07:54 AM
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I am sorry for taking up so much of your time, I appreciate hearing your perspective because I always wonder what goes on in a guy's mind when I'm so very anxious and whether they notice, I'm still not entirely sure how to act towards men to not be hurtful or rude but also not send out any wrong signals but I'll continue working on it. Ah, no worries, didn't take up my time at all, actually I really appreciated the intelligent and constructive discourse. Take care :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:53 AM
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Based on the actual article (which I doubt most people bothered to read) the Transexual penetration analogy is even dumber than the make-up analogy, not to mention being much more Transphobic. The two examples the article listed the law being designed for were 1: a man having intercourse with a woman using a fake penis and 2: a lab tech masquerading as a doctor in order to sexually assault a woman under the guise of (we can assume) some kind of pseudo-gynecological exam. More accurate reverse ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:33 AM
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I think the reason is because we all have a bias or a tendency to confirm our own feelings. For me, if men really do hate women or think they are less than human, then my fears are suddenly legitimate. In an effort to legitimize my emotions, I attach more weight to men saying "I believe women are worthless" than to men saying "I don't believe women are worthless". But in truth, I don't really know if either of them are genuine. I can only take their word for it. Well said. You just discovered Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 05:57 AM
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Genetics are not the issue. Men don't have a genetic predisposition to rape (though apparently some women would disagree) anymore than black people have a genetic predisposition to commit crime. Men being slightly stronger and attracted to women isn't any more a valid reason to fear men then being slightly stronger and attracted to money is a valid reason to fear athletic black men. Now I'm not saying men and women are the same and that I expect women to treat men like they treat women. I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 05:35 AM
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Well personally I wouldn't say I feel animosity, I just find longer hair more attractive. <shrug>. I certainly don't feel any contempt or seething hatred for short haired women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 03:52 AM
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It's good to hear your opinion on the caution advice issue. Regarding the U.S's crime statistics by ethnic demographic (and boy do I feel ironic for posting this!) according to the DOJ's Bureau of Justice Statistics the U.S. African-American demographic actually accounts for a massively disproportionate percentage of violent crime, including 52.4% of homicides coming from a demographic that represents only 13% of the population. So I guess by your logic congratulations are in order as I've just …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 02:56 AM
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Hey, thanks for actually taking the time to reply! I guess I'll just follow your structure a bit so... Sure thing, and likewise. I'm not really wholly on one side or the other and I don't have a problem having a civil conversation with people who disagree with me anyway. 1/2: I don't think being careful out of hand is the problem. Though, "strangely" a lot of people who advise general caution seem to very often get attacked by feminists and told that they are "blaming the victim." So I find it h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 01:53 AM
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Some responses: Actually a lot of white people have had negative experiences with black people and then generalize that negative experience across the entire race. They probably have a bit of PTSD. I can see how someone having their purse stolen would then react poorly in my presence, but my point is that's their issue I'm not in the wrong for that. It's their responsibility to seek therapy instead they place the responsibility onto me as if it were my fault that they feel like I'm a hood or a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 11:07 PM
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Well I'm scared of men I don't know BY NOW because of all these terrible experiences And herein lies the root of the problem. You've adopted a bigoted viewpoint based on your experience and like all bigots have convinced yourself that you're justified. I'm black. A lot of black people steal. That doesn't mean white people are justified in being afraid I'm going to rob them when they pass me in the parking lot. Every time some white lady clutches her purse and get's visibly nervous because we're …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 11:32 AM
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This is a good post. One thing, however, if we're being intellectually honest we should just flat out say that the whole "we hate nice guys because they're insincere" is complete bullshit. Everyone including women alter their behavior when they see a person they are interested in and want to attract. When women are trying to attract a guy they like they will routinely speak in a higher pitched voice and act giggly and unintelligent. I don't agree with everything from TRP but I take issue with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 10:57 AM
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It's kind of interesting how peoples experiences differ based on a few relatively small factors. It seems like most of this article is her bitching about how her white girl friends are more valued for relationships than her. But what she strangely fails to realize is that as an Asian girl she's more stereotyped as being innocent, submissive, traditional girlfriend material than any of her white friends. Unfortunately she torpedoes this stereotype to anyone who see's her by being a clearly americ…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 01:53 AM
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Good job, buddy. Just take it day by day, you'll be surprised at the changes you see and the effect they have on your life. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 10:09 AM
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Yeah, I read your originally thread and thought you initial reaction was probably too much. I can see how your mind got you there, given how the pics came in, but objectively I guessed from the beginning that it was going to end up being pretty innocent, inasmuch as something of that nature can be. Keep mind people here (including myself) are going to have different boundaries for their own relationships, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you need have the same ones, any more than you shoul…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 09:57 AM
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Good point. Additionally, he's probably not seeing a lot of subtle trp aspects of their relationship. It's important to remember that the dominant/submissive dynamic in traditional relationships doesn't need to be as extreme as people sometimes think for the relationship to be successful. In fact the most successful traditional relationships are probably the ones where the divide between dom and sub isn't nearly as wide as say, the guy who won't let his wife drive and expects her to wear a burka…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 09:37 PM
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Social Circle game pays off, it just doesn't pay off as quickly as direct and indirect. ALOT of women will give out their numbers just to get out of the situation. It seems counterintuitive to us, but from their perspective a lot of times they just want extricate themselves with as little personal uncomfortableness as possible. Also many like the attention, so they'll give their real number without any having any real intention of pursuing it further. Basically what I'm saying is that getting nu…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 07:48 PM
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The thing you need to remember about direct vs indirect game is that direct game relies much more on your initial looks and attitude in your approach. Indirect game works off of building attraction. Direct game skips the build phase and works off of what's already there, so that initial 2-second first impression is basically all you have. In other words, direct game works great if you're an attractive guy and have other obvious cues (clothing style, project confidence, etc). If not you're going …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 02:26 AM
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I'm a black guy who dates mostly white girls so I can probably provide some insight. I wouldn't say that all white girls I date do it because I'm black but I have noticed a definite pattern of attracting "a certain type of white girl"; the type that is looking to experiment and is a little more sexually wild and adventurous. Ironically I'm not really attracted to these types of girls and prefer more traditional, conservative girls, which, of course, I'm at a disadvantage to get because I'm black…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:17 PM
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I know this post was a while back and probably won't get many views now, but I just wanted to comment on how interesting it is that TRP advises financial success to such a large degree when said success so clearly just sets you up for becoming beta bucks. Based on what we know about female sexual strategy much better advice would be to suggest men join a band, get a job as a bartender, or some other "cool guy/bad boy" status position. On the other hand you have guys on youtube who pull girls jus…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 07:40 AM
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It's kinda funny, the "nice guy" trope is actually a pretty desirable woman if you flip the genders. Nice guys are basically the male version of alpha career women. Alpha career women mistakenly think that because they as women are attracted to ambition and a high status career in men that men are attracted to the same thing in women. This is of course not how attraction works. Nice guys think that being nice will get them laid, because they like nice girls, again, this is of course not how attr…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:37 AM
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I agree with this additionally I think its quest to be anti-oneitis TRP often advises too far in the other direction. OP's career is not going to have sex with him or keep him warm at night. I personally didn't find his descriptions of his new job prospects to be all that impressive. I think people tend to place too much importance on career and miss the forest for the trees. We're just smarter monkey's that are alive for a very short time. The only moral imperative is to be as happy as possible…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:55 AM
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I think there's a lot that can be done with make-up. I see a lot of girls that are unapproachable just because their make-up and style of dress make them seem like high maintenance bitchy princesses. If you look like type of girl who works as a booth babe, most guys are gonna think you only date the type of guys who wear Tap Out t-shirts. Use softer colors and little no eye liner/shadow. Rosy cheeks are the big win here. Pony tails, braids, ribbon in your hair. Probably the biggest thing women s…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/15 08:55 PM
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because the tone seems like they see it as weird or a negative It depends on what we're looking for at the time. The generally accepted standard is that "sweet, innocent, good girls" are better for LTR's and girls who are the opposite are better for hook ups. So, perhaps you're dating guys who are looking for a quick bang. In which case you being more along the lines of LTR material just needlessly complicates their plans.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 06:12 AM
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started implementing Red Pill techniques into my relationship. It was amazing to watch this shit work flawlessly. Every time that it worked like clock-work I would literally thank the red pill under my breath. Sex became crazier and abundant and I ended up with a very obedient little girlfriend. Could you go into a bit more detail on what you actually changed and how she responded in the various cases?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 09:23 AM
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At 17 things are still quite early for you. You've got everything ahead of you if you don't fuck it up. And it doesn't sound like you're necessarily in a terrible position, you're just in a rut. You need to figure out how to pull your shit together now rather than later because trust me when I saw that a 3 week rut can very easily turn into a 3 year rut and you mostly definitely do not want that to happen. Finish your PCT then get off the drugs, you're smoking weed and doing adderall? The fuck m…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 09:08 AM
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Just to clarify the big party switch of southern conservatives from democrat to republican and blacks to solidly democrat wasn't because of democratic marketing skills that convinced black people of anything. If anything it was the democrats lack of marketing skills and excellent Republican marketing skills. Here's what happened. Going all the way back to the Civil War the Republicans were always the northern-eccentric upper-class, business party. Basically they were a bunch of aristocrats with …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:12 PM
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A bill was introduced to congress Wednesday by Republicans that would ban universities from forcing fraternities to go co-ed, and would strengthen the due process rights for both students and Greek organizations alike. As a hardcore liberal I have to wonder what the ever loving FUCK happened to this country that Republicans(who never met a suspect they didn't think could do with a good waterboarding) are the ones championing due process; something that is part of the very bedrock of a civilized …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 12:41 PM
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The thing the newbies need to know is the bitter feeling is actually gonna sweeten with time only if you put true effort in it Well, no shit. "If you can't beat 'em join 'em" pretty much sums it up. It's like class issues. Poverty is harsh and unfair unless you're rich, then suddenly it's all good, no worries, what's everyone making such a big deal for?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:27 PM
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That entire thread is just them projecting their own situation. Everything from them overrating their attractiveness and not even considering guys that indicate interest as potential partners to having high standards for a partner but thinking they only need to bring the bare minimum to the table. It's truly hilarious to me how women project their own worldview onto everyone else. One of their biggest downfalls is that they think that because they are attracted to social status and income that m…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:14 PM
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Maybe something about being a gorgeous woman stifles work ambitions. Most Behavioral Scientists agree that the effects of environment on human behavior is analogous to water flowing through a trough. In other words the water takes the path of least resistance. In life, due to their looks, some people get easier paths, and so they almost invariably develop only whatever behaviors are required to travel that path. In short and generally speaking, beautiful women don't work hard because they don't …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 11:51 PM
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So this guy checks every one of your boxes but is iffy on commitment, at least as far as the label goes? Welcome to 2015. I wouldn't jump ship on this relationship just over the lack of gf label, especially if he's treating you a like gf in everything but name. Guys are finicky about commitment. We guard it like women guard sex, and just like women and sex, we react negatively when people assume we owe it to them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 04:14 PM
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The big problem with running Dread game on a man, especially as an RP woman is that you are really shooting yourself in the foot when it comes to the goals of your relationship. Let's think this through for a moment. Say that you manage to get it to work. What have you done and how do you think his behavior will change? The result is going to be that you will gain more power in the relationship and he will turn into a supplicating beta for you. Which is exactly what you don't want. This is the b…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/15 09:20 PM
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The whole "insecurity" thing is feminist propaganda. If you're gut is telling you something is wrong, it's probably because something is wrong. I've had personal experience with this. I suspected my gf was texting another guy inappropriately, but didn't bring it up because I wanted to be Mr. Cool-not-insecure-and-controlling Guy, after about a month I finally looked at her phone. Yep, she cheated. There's a reason that people are afraid of snakes and spiders more than cats and dogs. Listen to yo…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:45 PM
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This is what I was looking for, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 07:47 PM
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We're all just damn dirty apes.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 07:43 PM
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Read the actual post, man. This isn't about what job you choose to do or why. No where do I suggest that people choose to do a job they don't like simply because it will get them laid. This is just a discussion about jobs that tend to attract women.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 06:30 PM
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Kid you got no idea how lucky you are. At 16 the skies are literally the limit for you. You can hit the gym and join the football team and inside of two years you'll be jacked to the moon and have mega status. The freshman girls will throw themselves at you. You won't even need to worry about game. In high school it's all social circle game anyway. I really can't emphasize enough that you should hit the gym regularly and join a team sport. If I were your age again I'd also start going to a BJJ g…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 11:50 PM
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Choose whatever job you want. This isn't about what field you choose to go into or why. It's about what jobs happen to be more attractive to women.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 09:48 PM
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It's not just that though. Money and status are highly prioritized factors of attraction for women. A man doesn't think twice about marrying a woman who makes less than he does, but for a woman it's a definite compromise that occupies her mind and something that some women simply refuse to do. It doesn't make her a bad person, it's just how the psychology of attraction works. I remember reading an article about women in New York having trouble finding men, because all the women were making so mu…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 09:36 PM
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While I agree "hipsters" and a lot of other liberals have trouble putting their money where their mouth is, and often don't think through their programs as you pointed out with the wage increase. I will also say that "protestant work ethic" is bullshit. America is the richest country in the world and we didn't get that way by being "super hard workers". You want to see hard work talk to the kids in the Dubai sweat shops or the ship breakers of Bangladesh, or the people at fox con for whom suicid…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 09:19 PM
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A big part of the problem with any debate is that people argue past one another. Take your example of starting with the idea that women are equal. Equality is rarely defined well in these types of debates. Equal in rights? I think most can agree that they should have equal rights? Equal biologically? Obviously not. As a scientist one of things I find the silliest about almost any of these debates, particular those related to sex and gender, is that they are very rarely being done by hard scienti…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 09:00 PM
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Never really read much of either, out of curiosity why are they dead?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 08:48 PM
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after so many dicks that if you stacked them and pushed her off them she'd die. Rofl, there goes my monitor. Never read this one, but it's perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 12:09 AM
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While VR will definitely cause a major shift in the sexual marketplace. I question how soon it will happen. Oculus Rift seems over hyped. I'm just not impressed with what basically amounts to a tv that you wear on your head. The real VR breakthrough will come with full cerebral integration, ala The Matrix.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 11:22 PM
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While I completely agree, it should be pointed out that robots that can look and act like humans are going to drastically change society anyway. The changes in labor alone will be monumental.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 11:18 PM
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Ah yeah, like the Asian girls who bitch about guys with yellow fever while openly talking about how much they love white guys and aren't interested in Asian guys.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 10:42 PM
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If you ever go to Dubai , you'll see quite a few post wall white women hanging around with a Beta Bucks Arab Sheikh who is showering her with money. Fascinating. It's been known for a while now that western men's relative SMV is much higher in places like South East Asia, Eastern Europe, and Central and South America. It would seem that the same is true for western women in middle east. Interesting stuff.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 10:35 PM
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I would also say demote because, when you get past all the other noise, the reality is that OP's gf wants to fuck other people. That's a pretty big red flag coming from a girl he's actually in a relationship with and shouldn't stand.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 09:04 PM
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This is why if you actually want an LTR you seriously need to get the fuck out of the west. I know a guy, mid-thirties living in the Philippines, and his girlfriend who he is planning on marrying, is a 20 year old village girl, who he says was a virgin before him. In places like Japan practically no one is having sex and American guys can clean up over there. It's crazy to stay in the states and play the game on hard mode where the only thing you can win is a drunken frat boy with tits, when you…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 08:47 PM
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Well it probably blindsided him(sounds like it blindsided the both of you), especially after he spent money on the ticket. I guess I can see feeling that way also. Guys like things to be their choice, even if the outcome is going to be the same. We're much less apt to be comfortable with a course of action if we're seemingly forced into it. Were I in the same situation and my GF told me about her school issue and said she was coming to see me anyway, I'd be much more likely to tell her to just s…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 10:35 PM
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Try to recognize that, particularly as an RP Woman who wants a captain, nagging is really shooting yourself in the foot. Nothing will torpedo a guys confidence and turn him into a submissive, non-leading beta quicker than a nagging wife. If this is not the kind of guy you want then don't turn him into that by nagging.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 09:20 PM
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Maybe I missed it but have you asked him his opinion? It really depends on the exact circumstances and person. For me personally without really any other information, I'd want you to just finish it and be done with it, if for no other reason than you wouldn't have to leave again and we could start our lives together. But that's me. He might feel differently and be dealing with different circumstances. One of the other posters is right, delaying school till January isn't really a big deal, especi…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 08:54 PM
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i educated myself on how to actually fuck a girl good So, care to share?
/r/askTRP14/07/15 08:42 AM
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Eh, it sounds bad on the face of it, certainly, but I mean it's possible that there is some nuance to the situation, maybe she doesn't get cold approached often, and was caught off guard, and just gave up her number without having time to think about it. Maybe she was even a little scared. I'm not saying any of this is true, maybe she did give up her number for less than virtuous reasons, but if so it doesn't make much sense that she would tell you about it. Or maybe it does, I dunno, it could a…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 08:36 AM
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Is there any hope? It's a tough situation to be in no doubt. You got a family to think about. Don't be fooled by what we say here, ultimately no one can tell what the right choice is. You have to do what you think is best for you. I wouldn't make any decision while you're still angry. Let things cool down, play with your kids, then you can start thinking about who you need to talk to you; a divorce lawyer, counselor, etc.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 08:27 AM
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I've done the "spend stupid amounts of money on my girlfriend" thing in past, if you don't need it let him know. It's true some guys have weird complexes where they have to spend money on their gf's but most of us are content to chill out and spend time together. Most of the time we do fancy stuff it's for you. Now I will say that it's going to take some convincing. Don't think you can just say, "oh yeah, I don't need anything fancy", etc. You're really going to have to sit him down and make sur…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 08:19 AM
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In the short term you could try thicker condoms, they also have ones with special delay gel. Cialis is great for refractory period as well if you're not averse to drugs.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 09:42 PM
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You can google some programs that do this, but I don't know how well they work. And, yeah, as much as you might want to go that route, it's probably way more trouble than it's worth. Her behavior is telling you all you need to know, best start calling in the reserves and move on.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 09:40 PM
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What should I do? Don't GF drunk party girls. They are not relationship material. Personally I would plate her quietly, which is to say keep her around for sex while distancing myself emotionally, until I find a better quality replacement.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 09:37 PM
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It's fake, but the thing is, art intimates life. I saw Jurassic World this weekend and there were two telling scenes about how women view men. The first was when the hot redhead boss played by Bryce Dallas Howard goes to hunky Chris Pratt's trailer. Of course she's visibly flustered because he's wearing a tight sweaty shirt, and fixing a motorcycle. It's hilariously cliche how much it throws his masculinity in your face. Later he kisses her spontaneously before going off to do something heroic. …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 09:28 PM
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"Friend" is womanese for "orbiter".
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:42 PM
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I'm sure they will go partying and shit. This was your first mistake right here. You see, the reason that you're anxious about her going on vacation is because you are well aware of her partying personality. This is why you aren't supposed to GF a party girl to begin with. If I ever elevate a girl beyond the position of a fwb she's usually a demure teetotaler. Don't GF party girls, and girls who like to "go to the bar for a girls night out." Women go to clubs and bars for almost exactly the same…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 06:05 PM
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Oooh, I like this, well said.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 09:15 AM
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This is why I tend toward inexperienced chicks. I still go bar hoping with my buddies on occasion but I'm not even sure I could manage to get it up for some of the burnt out 1000 cock staring skanks I see at these places.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 08:40 AM
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Reading TRP can definitely torpedo a guy's self-esteem but dude, you're gay! I'm not sure why you're letting the harsh Redpill truth about how women judge men in terms of sexual strategy get you down when you can basically completely ignore women and live a happy life. Do you have any idea what a jack pot you hit? All of the bullshit games and hypergamy, the shit tests, and asinine worshiping of money, social status and confidence that we have to deal with because we're attracted to women, you d…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 08:30 AM
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The ones I really can't understand are rich fat people, especially celebrities. I can understand the average joe being beaten down by the modern american 9 to 9 job letting himself go. But the hardest part about losing weight is motivation. When you've go the money to hire a personal trainer who will basically R. Lee Ermy your ass into shape, taking care of the motivation part for you, it amazes me that there are still rich people who are fat. With celebrities it's even worse since they are on t…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:47 AM
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Where do you live? There are plenty of girls who aren't carrying that many notches. But you won't find them in the bars or clubs or even in most places in the west. Try Asia. I dated a few Asian FOB's who were all virgins or close to being so. If virginity is important to you and you're an LTR minded guy move to some place like Vietnam or The Philipines and marry a village girl. The west is a fucking cesspool, I wouldn't GF a western girl no matter what. These days even virginal Mormon girls are…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 04:26 AM
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It's social proof and a great way to network for game, but it's also heavily looks based, unless you look like Chris Hemsworth, it's not going to do much for you.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:38 PM
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I'm in pretty much the same spot, black guy instead of indian, but otherwise the same. I think you're overthinking it. I've had conversations about my racial preferences with one or guy two friends who are into game like me, but otherwise I just give standard canned bs answers to those questions. It's not like you're under any obligation to be honest about everything you're asked. I usually say that I don't have any specific racial preferences. Alternatively I'll say the reason I've dated mostly…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:34 PM
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So even if you look alpha, get up to some cool shit, have lots of kids and provide, she can be pulled by some 24 year old goof? Is it all hopeless? I always thought my end game would include marriage but it seems like they're all doomed. Married RP men, have you found anything to be effective to keep a woman loyal? Constant vigilance?? Spying? Not giving a fuck? Is she just a slut? but AWALT? Chill, man, it's not as bad as it seems. Look, your experience was confirmation bias. It's one my bigges…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:22 PM
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Yeah, if you have no desire to spin plates and are a firmly commitment minded guy looking for an LTR then I wouldn't even suggest looking at women in the West. Go to Asia, it's not perfect by any means but the women there are still mile ahead of western women. They know how to cook and clean and will actually do it without complaint. They embrace their traditional role and will be a better first mate than any woman you will probably find in the west. However, it's important to note that if you d…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:05 PM
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Conservative social values are a game-ruiner. No shit, we complain about feminism in the west but the big irony is that sexual liberation has done far more for men then it ever will for women. Feminism has destroyed the classic sex/commitment power dynamic that made up relationships for thousands of years. It has completely torpedoed the value of female sexuality. It's now so easy for men to get sex from women that women getting commitment from a man has become like finding a lost pirate treasur…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 07:19 PM
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Amen. I feel pretty smug that I havent been drawn into that shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 03:26 AM
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College game ain't that hard, it's just important to understand that it's the opposite of cold approach. College game is a long game. But ultimately it's the same as anywhere else. Understand the importance of status, looks, confidence, social proof etc. Basically for College game: Join a frat Play a sport Look up "Social Circle Game"(Conquer Your Campus, Campus Hustler, Social God System, Social Circle Mastery)
/r/askTRP05/06/15 05:34 AM
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Ok, now she's just trolling.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 03:33 AM
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It's fine to feel some guilt as long as it doesn't occupy too much of your head space. it just means that you're not a sociopath and you have compassion for other human beings when they are in dire straits regardless of the fact that they are assholes. Feeling a little guilty isn't a big deal, just don't ever let it convince you to take her back, no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:27 AM
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Well to answer the question the media is pushing this and other trans related media for the same reason they did and still do it with gay related news; because they think that by exposing more people to gay and trans stuff it will help decrease homophobia and transphobia. I don't know whether that's true or not, and honestly I don't care. I don't watch the news or read entertainment/political mags, or internet clickbait so, even if I actually did have a problem with those things, the media spamm…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:20 AM
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Well WHATEVER you do, don't end up like this guy.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:06 AM
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Club girls aren't gf material anyway. Its like being all tatted up. Its a huge red flag. Do you really want the type of girl who not only goes clubbing but does it alone with other dudes? Girls who crave the validation of various males are born plates, so make her one.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:28 AM
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The only advice I get is either BP = ppl feel bad for her im such a judgemental asshole and i should accept her past and appreciate her now or RP = wtf are you doing with that skank The real answer is that it's entirely up to your discretion because you are the only one here who is actually dating her, not r relationships, and not TRP. You say love her incredibly deeply, but her past haunts you like crazy. Well it seems you're at a cross roads. One of these emotions is going to win out; your lov…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 06:43 AM
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It's Utopianism, It's a small group of Westerners that have decided for everyone else on the planet how the world should work and they think if they shout about it long enough and loudly enough, it will magically happen through the shear force of berating everyone who disagrees with them. The problem is attraction is not a choice and aversion to female promiscuity has been a cultural mainstay in nearly every society in recorded history. It's not a conspiracy of men to convince women not to fuck …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:14 AM
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Lol, 40 by the age of 21 is insane by any measure with the exception of a post apocalyptic mad max movie. I've never even encountered someone who admitted to the many partners. I can't even imagine what the hell kind of shitty, ghetto upbringing a girl would have to have to get to that number and then not even have the good sense to lie about it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:04 AM
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Do females not realize the immense hypocrasy in their actions? Lol, are seriously asking this question? Am I approaching this situation the wrong way? Instead of feeling anger, should I feel gratification and validation? Feelings are relative, there's no right or wrong way to feel. You feel how you feel and that's it. If you want to feel differently that's another matter but don't take your cues about how you "should" feel from society. They have their feelings and you have yours. Guess who's ac…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 09:32 PM
2

Headaches are a common side effect with Viagra. Try a lower dose or Cialis, which seems to give less headaches.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:42 PM
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Yeah, I'm in basically the same spot, started hitting it again recently and finding myself shooting too quick and having an annoyingly long refractory period. My doc recommended edging(masturbating and delaying climax). I did some research and decided to try a few supplements. (Mucuna, Gingko, Panax Gingseng, L Arginine). Some of those are more for ED but they all come fairly highly recommended. I've only used the L-Arginine so far, other stuff hasn't come in yet. L-Arginine is a vasodilator som…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:37 PM
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he accidentally (??) forwarded me an email chain involving some guys at the office. They were all planning a guys night out, bitching about their SO's not letting them have any fun (one actually said "ugh women are the worst"). His response was "sorry fellas, think I'm gonna sit this one out since my girl always has dinner on the table at 7 and just texted me a pic of some lingerie, looks like we might be a little tied up." Following were several men basically saying "yeah yeah, we know you like…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 08:11 PM
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1) the consistent lack of forplay makes it difficult for me to get fully excited...My SO also needs me to say things that get him off which are complete turn offs to me...Sometimes I've successfully just tuned things out and imagined something more romantic to get off, but is that healthy? Should I tell him the truth? Should I just fake it? I don't know how it is with women, but guys in general really like pleasing our partners. It's actually a pretty big part of what get's us hot and what's get…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 07:47 PM
1

he definitely solicits constructive criticism because he has a relentless drive to be the best version of himself. Ha, you mentioning this just made me realize that I do this exact same thing with my gf as well. But I've always been hesitant to use her as an image consultant too often because I pretty sure it makes me come off as insecure or at least less stoic. On the other hand, I really want to know if my face looks better clean shaven or with a few days of growth! And just going up and askin…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 06:31 PM
1

To some degree this is true. But I'm not talking about Hawaiian resorts for married couples, but more along the lines of Panama during Spring Break or New Orleans during Mardi Gras. Basically traveling around and hitting all the "Big Event Party Spots". Additionally you can always go to a college town and mix with the people there. Isla Vista comes to mind as a place where you can pretty much walk down the street and there'll be multiple house parties you can walk into with a six pack.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:09 PM
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Everyone responds differently, and it can be hard to pull off without seeming obvious. Honestly, I'm pretty sure almost everyone would at least suspect what their SO was up to if they tried this, the goal isn't really for him to be completely unaware of your motivations, but to communicate with him in a way that protects his ego and doesn't make him feel less confident. It also depends on your relationship dynamic. I actually think that if you have a more modern egalitarian relationship, he migh…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 06:00 PM
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You could try some basic Behavior Modification. Indirect is always the key when male ego is involved(though I suppose this is true of female ego in many ways as well). The main misdirection tactic here is to include yourself. Don't make it about him. Any changes that are being made are being made together. Also don't make it serious. Make it fun and healthy. Be playful. The idea is to project that you're both making these changes to improve yourselves from your neutral baseline, NOT from a defic…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 05:29 PM
1

Just a quick question... I've heard Marcus Aurelius Meditations recommended as reading material before, I'm wondering what you guys got out of it? How was it beneficial to you? How did it change your outlook? And did it actually change behavior/situation at all?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 04:46 PM
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Or plate her. Honestly, we always say this stuff, but of course it's never as easy as it sounds, which is why most people settle. I see a ton of good looking successful guys with plain or even ugly girls. Regardless, though it's still probably the correct advice. You're just wasting your time being monogamous with a low quality aging girl. If you're going to elevate a girl from plate to an actual gf she better have herself on point. Cooking, cleaning, feminine, demure, in shape, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:21 AM
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If you want "the party to never end" there are definitely ways of living that life. I think the reason people often see college as the apex of fun is because most of them go directly from college to the rat race. Being surrounded by smoking hot sorority girls, good friends, sports events, and wild parties all crammed into the small space of a college campus and going from that to a monotonous office job with the pressing responsibilities of life is an enormous change of scenery. The contrast is …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:09 AM
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Sounds like a lush. Don't gf club girls. They are born to be plates.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:35 PM
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Yeah, I don't think I would even get married in the United States, honestly. I've even dated girls who were fresh off the boat from countries where the culture was basically RP and they became Americanized and their behavior went to shit pretty fast. The only way I'd even consider marriage is if it were to a virgin girl outside the US from a traditional culture that still valued femininity and chastity, and I don't think I would bring her back to the US.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 11:47 AM
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I just want to thank you for speaking up for those who are chastised or ignored when they speak up for themselves. You are truly a gracious and amazing person.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 10:24 PM
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incredible. I go nuclear and say I have to go if she isnt entirely here with me. She goes cold and asks for the check (she paid after the first round), and gets up to leave. You got frustrated and lost frame. You shouldve kept running Anti-LMR and Agree and Amplify.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 05:29 AM
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(Yeah I know it's a fantasy) Not really. But you will have to get the fuck out of the west.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 01:30 AM
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Women will open the door for you, but they're not going to drop kick you through it. You didn't pick up on her hints and subsequently failed to step up to the plate. There's no greater sin in a women's eyes than a man who fails to take the initiative, especially when its been so obviously thrown at his head.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 01:25 AM
1

Could also just be low libido.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 01:18 AM
3

It's never a good idea to reward bad behavior. However it's important to understand that the passive aggressive complaining, you mention her doing, is like when she broke up with you. In other words, it's a manifestation of her frustration from not getting enough comfort game in the first place. Once you start responding with comfort game to her obvious prompts, she will stop going off the deep end with complaining and passive aggression.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 07:29 AM
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Her breaking up with you twice in order to pre-empt the pain of you hurting her is not a desired outcome. It's a pretty big red flag and suggests that you are using too much dread game. You want to keep her in a space between total comfort (where she get's lazy and bored) and total dread (where she becomes a neurotic mess at the fear of losing you, burns out, and breaks up with you just to relieve the pressure). Too much dread and a girl will eventually crack under the pressure. No one wants to …
/r/askTRP24/05/15 05:40 PM
1

For me personally, the weather difference would make that an easy choice.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 05:21 PM
2

Cool thread. Can anyone recommend subreddits for this kind of thing?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 09:55 PM
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Yoked Asian and Indian guys absolutely crush it because they stand out in such stark contrast to their ethnicity's traditional stereotype of being nerdy and not masculine. If you're a black guy like me, on the other hand, you better hope you have good height genes and get your ass in the gym because everyone automatically expects you to be Terry Crews.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 11:01 AM
1

If you'd bothered to read the rest of the reply you'd have seen that I advocated for more female voices over at TRP specifically for that reason. So it wasn't actually ironic AT ALL. That people would be so hypersensitive that a poster merely mentioning their own gender in order to give context to their post, irks people to the point where they have to ban posters from mentioning their gender is just childish and pathetic. It's a policy of pearl clutching hypersensitivity befitting a forum more …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:19 AM
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Because they can be. If you got treated like royalty all your life because of your looks you'd eventually start to believe you were better than everyone else and start treating everyone like shit too. What they really want is someone who has the frame and mental strength of character to put them in their place. In other words, you have to hit 'em where they live. As soon as you meet you need to unload such massive amounts of Dread Game, Push/Pull, and negging to bring their ego down from the str…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:29 AM
7

Then start improving your smv, run some dread game, and don't forget amused mastery and abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:02 PM
5

Women will fuck the most physically ridiculous looking guy if he happens to be at the top of that particular social hierarchy. This guy is in charge, he is the leader/authority figure, that causes the tingles like no other. This is how old, ugly ass politicians get office blow jobs from their hot 19 year old interns.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 12:30 PM
8

She sounds like a clubbing veteran who's looking to leave the scene and settle down. She may see you as a long term prospect and thus wants to delay sleeping with you in order to not appear slutty and to try and get you locked in a bit more before she gives it up so there's less chance that you pump and dump her. Or maybe she's looking for a new orbiter. Truth is there's a lot of possible reasons a girl who seems into you won't kiss you on the first date. I'd give her another date or two, then i…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 08:03 AM
2

It's true college girls are absolutely insane for sports jocks. I always thought it was just an overdone cliche until I saw it up close but it's almost like being an actual king or least a movie or rock star. I think we as men underestimate it because status or place in social hierarchy mean nothing to us when it comes to attraction. Kate Upton could be pursuing a career as a garbageman and everyone would still be in love with her because she's gorgeous. Women on the other hand are voracious sta…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:46 AM
2

If she's the type of girl that goes on "drunken nights out" and you're worried about her jumping on some guys dick (as if she would just tell you about it) than she's not relationship material. If you're going to go to the trouble of restricting yourself to a single girl at least do it with one who is quality. Plate her, or move on.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 10:45 PM
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Not gf'ing club skanks would be a good way to solve that. Most here would tell that you should only be plate spinning in college, anyway, but if you do actually make a girl your girlfriend you should choose a quality one not some sorority club slut taking a break from getting passed around the frat house like a used jock strap.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 05:45 PM
-8

You're still implicitly arguing about what you want of this community personally, but keep in mind you're not quite the target demographic. I understand I'm not the demo but I really wasn't arguing what I want for me, I was just pointing out that a lot of the "male here" posts are being misread as jerkish when they aren't intended to be. It sounded to me like people thought these guys were trying to be holier than though assholes, and thats not always the case. Anyway, I think I've made my point…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 11:29 PM
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I agree, and I don't think you should be made to feel that way. That's really why I wanted say that a lot of these guys who are volunteering a male opinion aren't necessarily trying to condescend or be jerks to you. Some certainly are, of course, but they are clearly assholes, others are just trying to help.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 11:14 PM
3

Lol, I can only imagine.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 11:08 PM
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They aren't, but still it seems it rubbed you the wrong way that certain kind of posts are explicitly not welcome and somehow this is hostile to men here in general? I am pretty sure this is just a misunderstanding in your part, because you're not even one of the offenders. No, I do get the need to deal with assholes, my origininal post was to point out that a poster opening his post by indicating that he was offering a male point of view in a female centric forum didn't necessarily mean that he…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 11:06 PM
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You didn't see many because we keep removing them :) Hmm, good point, makes me wonder what kind of crazy comments get removed from TRP, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 10:28 PM
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RPW are interested in how our relationship is with our men, or how to get a good man, it's not about being pleasant to every male commenter on the sub. Thats understandable, but the two aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 10:25 PM
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I can understand that. This thread just rubbed me the wrong way as it seemed rather hostile toward male posters. Personally I like coming to and particapting in RPW because as much as I appreciate what I've learned from TRP, there's only so many "Guy finds prudish wife's college gang bang tape in attic" threads I can read before wanting to shoot myself. So its nice to come over here and see that not all women are openly hostile toward men (cue this thread haha). Its also why I said TRP could use…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 09:06 PM
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Men and women having different perspectives on the world and relationships is a fundamental part of RP. We're different. We want different things. Of course we're like minded but that doesn't mean we can't offer each other different insight. It's a good thing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 08:58 PM
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No. I think people feel like offering a different perspective can be helpful, because the sexes are different and a sub dedicated to attracting men could benefit from hearing from men. I wouldn't read anymore into it than that. And personally I'd really appreciate more women's perspectives over at TRP as well.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 04:05 PM
4

or us inviting a girl over for a threesome (albeit one where I only fuck and kiss my girlfriend because there's no way she'd let me fuck another girl). Lol, that's not a threesome, that's just you watching her cheat on you. Anyway, there's a section in 9-ball: Get laid or die tryin, where Jeffy starts dating a bisexual girl who he begins working with as a wing to bring girls back to his apartment, then beginning with a sensual massage slow initiates a threesome. If she doesn't want you to mess a…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 07:16 AM
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"Very carefully" is the best answer you're going to get and unfortunately in OP's case it seems that ship has sailed, anyway. OP, the only bit of advice i would give you on this particular point would be to not emphasize him so much in your discussion. Reading your posts, you say you want to treat this in the most non-shaming toward him manner as possible. Obviously this just indicates to him that he has something to feel ashamed about. Instead focus on how it's affecting you. Don't even talk ab…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 06:26 AM
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It's good that he's getting in some kickboxing as it's helps with cardiovascular health, but it's definitely not the same as weight training and may not be enough in his case, especially if he's just eating all the calories and more back before he goes to bed at night. Higher body fat increases estrogen levels, which decreases the effectiveness of of testosterone. Additionally male testosterone levels begins decreasing more rapidly(about 1% a year) at the age of 30. Male testosterone levels have…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 06:09 AM
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Sounds like low libido due to work stress, maybe some other factors, low t perhaps. Talk to a doctor and get referred to a specialist. There are also supplements (maca, horny goat weed) that can increase libido. Also weight training is the single most effective activity for naturally boosting testosterone. And be careful how you approach this. Try not to emasculate him more than you already have. Not comparing him to previous lovers(hopefully you haven't actually made any reference to them when …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 04:48 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fLrpBLDWyCI In any case, lesson learned. Now you know what not to do. Tomorrow is another day. Good Luck.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 04:17 AM
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You're kinda making it harder on yourself than it needs to be. First, cold approaches aren't generally suited for college campuses unless you're campus is huge. For college or whatever school environment you're at Social Circle game is your friend. Check out Conquer your Campus, Social God, etc. Cold approaches are fine just do them somewhere way off campus. Also I would recommend starting with loners for cold approaches. Her friends complicate things a lot for a beginner. If you are going to be…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 03:26 AM
1

really wanting to understand this whole facet of RedPill theory. (I honestly thought it was alluding to the Matrix at first) It's basically just a support and advice group for people interested in pursuing traditional gender roles in their relationships with some evo psych stuff thrown in. It actually is a Matrix reference and originated from the realization that most of what has been colloquially taught, to both men and women, regarding the psychology of attraction is actually false, and attrac…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 01:39 AM
1

Not really no, though I've read that it's a lot easier to get what you're looking for in countries like Thailand, Vietnam, the Philippines, so you might look into that. As someone who has zero love for the rat race, I can certainly see myself retiring to a place like this where the sexual marketplace is much kinder to a western man and the dollar goes a long way.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 07:56 PM
1

Why? Couldn't I just potentially make her mine since I know she is already open to it. I don't really know how to do that but the idea intrigues the shit out of me. Potentially, yes, and technically submissive women are ideal LTR candidates. The problem, however, is her alpha widowhood. You described her former lover as more alpha than you, having a harem of women. It's probably not a coincidence that you felt threatened by this. RP cautions against women who've been heavily affected by their pr…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 07:27 PM
0

This is The Red Pill not r/relationships so perhaps you should do a better job of reading my post. I said "don't generally advise LTR's", which is true because understanding that AWALT and that there are no Unicorns are fundamentals of RP.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 06:53 PM
1

I wouldn't over think it. Text and say you'll go with her if she really wants. It's true that it's a calculated risk that could undo at least some of the progress you've made establishing you're new frame, but remember that this is all just a means to an end, anyway. If you don't eventually end up banging then you might as well ignore her completely as there's no reason to game her. If she turns out to already have a date, then go back to doing what you've been doing. You'll have lost a slight a…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 06:39 PM
0

Yeah, you're making some mistakes here, in general and especially from a RP perspective. First of all, I'm sure you already know that TRP doesn't generally advise LTR's. Additionally there are a few other problems. A male dom is the very definition of an alpha male. The entire point of the dom/sub relationship is for her to be dominated and controlled by this guy, to give herself over to him completely. So your first instinct was correct, the guy she was with is pretty much the exact kind of guy…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 06:22 PM
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Ding!
/r/askTRP04/05/15 06:10 PM
1

Well despite still having some confidence issues in your own head it sounds like you've been successfully applying "fake it, till you make it." From what you're saying you've got her in a good spot. It seems like you've reasserted yourself, established some dominance, abundance mentality, and IDGAF attitude. Being standoffish and using dread game is important but you don't want to over do it. A girl is only going to pine after you for so long before moving on. Remember that standoffish/dread gam…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 06:06 PM
3

the girls are just intimidated and I don't know how to change that. Yeah, and you're not going to. Like I said in my first post girls have MASSIVE approach anxiety because it's a muscle that they've never had to use. There was actually a great book written by this lesbian feminist who dressed up as a man for several months to try to see what it was like. She said one of the most shocking things was the crushing social anxiety and pressure she felt when approaching women and how abusively she was…
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:55 PM
2

“O, wad some Power the giftie gie us To see oursels as others see us!" - Robert Burns Yeah, it's fairly possible that you're not as attractive as you think you are. I've come to the same realization myself. It was a difficult one to get to particularly because I was so popular in high school, but once you get out the game changes and what is considered attractive is different than what it once was. Being able to see yourself as others see you is something that is extremely difficult. It doesn't …
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:23 PM
1

I meant the foreigner smv boost we get in countries like Thailand and the Philippines isn't quite as big because Asians tend to view light skin as more attractive and an indication of higher class (even going as far as using horrible bleaching agents on their own faces).
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:07 PM
1

Haha, I am too, actually(kinda surprised how many black RP'ers there are). I heard these places aren't quite as good for us, but if people think you're American then it can still be really good. And the best part is a dollar goes a long way so if you're tired of the rat race, it's a great way to get away from it all.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:58 PM
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Honestly if your a white guy and/or from the west and your smv is just really low due to a bad roll of the genetic dice you should consider checking out places like Thailand, Vietnam, the Philippines, China, and Japan. It's like being an adult and playing little league, even if you're not a star player you can still do a lot better with less effort. It's not perfect. It's not an "I win" button. You'll still have to do some work, but the sexual marketplace in these places is much more friendly to…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:41 PM
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but I felt like she was giving me all green lights and wanted to get back together. She was giving you all green lights to fuck the shit out of her. She was "kinda in an open relationship", lol? Give me a fucking break. This chick can't even lie well. Based on your description this girl sounds sluttier than average, she was ready to drop trou and cheat on her current boyfriend with you all because you were giving her the tingles, before you went and opened your mouth. You tried to turn a hoe int…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 12:56 PM
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Jesus Christ man, you said you were doing RP but you apparently forgot about the most important part; Frame. All the physical and financial gains in the world don't mean shit if you lose you're frame. Plenty of beta providers have money and are in great shape. Those things alone don't make you alpha. FRAME is what makes you alpha. Where did all that honest straight talk about "how you really feel" come from? That's the exact OPPOSITE of what is advised by RP. You showed weakness to a woman, they…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 12:38 PM
2

I suspect that the phase that comes after the anger phase isn't really acceptance but apathy. If you take the RP journey of self-improvement and gain a decent level of success and abundance in life and with women you may just stop caring that they are by nature such deceitful creatures. Perhaps the only reason it makes us so angry when we first find out about it because we have such romantic notions about them and hold them in such high regard, of which they are obviously undeserving.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 10:21 PM
1

Well you did get a good result, but usually rp recommends something called "agree and amplify" when a girl flips you shit. While its true that women do respond to a stern man, your response while effective in this instance could have gone sideways on you easily. I don't think you're a serial killer or that this is the worst field report I've read all week, though. Out curiosity what country are you going to school in?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 03:03 PM
1

Are your fingers broken? Let me google that for you Want to catch a ladys eye? Don't smile, study says. Study finds men like nice women, but not the other way around
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:35 PM
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never let your guard down for the rest of your life God, this sucks. Is there really no way out? Is this all there is to life? There has to be some guys out there who are actually able to open up to their wives, to show some fucking emotion, some weakness to the person who is supposed to be their closest soul mate. It seems nightmarish, the idea that you can never let yourself truly fall in love with a woman.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 06:41 AM
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I actually have a theory that in the same way that women are damaged by having too many sexual partners, men are developmentally stunted if they have none/too few. This also matches up with how society views such individuals (promiscuous women and virgin men) in an equally negative light.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 06:34 AM
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I can honestly never recall an instance where saying or doing something nice for a woman increased her respect for or attraction to me. This is why I'm a huge advocate for negging and reject any feminist apologia bullshit that it's manipulative. It's not any more manipulative than playing hard to get. The type of guy who is most reviled by women is literally called "the nice guy". Not "the drunk jock frat bro who keeps grabbing everyone's ass", which is what you would expect if we weren't living…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 09:03 PM
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It's amazing to me. Two people can look into each others eyes and promise to spend the rest of their lives together and the crazy part is they really mean it, and yet more often than not, they end up divorced and hating each other. One of the things I thank TRP for more than anything is showing me what a fucking shame marriage is. I am so never ever getting married. Thanks for reminder #982349712340.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 08:41 PM
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You don't actually need to go out and start fights with people. In fact that's incredibly stupid and dangerous. Plenty of people get killed, maimed, and put in prison for getting into street fights and it's hard to be alpha when you're dead or in a coma, and prison is obviously just not a place anyone wants to go. You can achieve the same ends by taking up an actual fight sport. The main ones are MMA, Muay Thai, and Western Boxing. Train one of those for a few years with plenty of sparring and o…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 08:09 PM
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Yeah, it does sound like an amazing story, but I don't think it really matters whether it's true or not. The point is this is the quintessential Hero's Journey that we must all take to achieve our goals.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 08:03 PM
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Yeah, from an evolutionary standpoint mothers are the only nawalts, because they will gladly stand in front of a firing squad for their offspring. Just as men will do for both women and children. Just from looking at the hisorty of how human civilization has functioned adult males are so obviously the most biologically disposable demographic it really boggles my mind the amount of cherry picking and tunnel vision a person has to have to think women historically had it worse than men.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 06:26 PM
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The trick is to lower your standards for success. Like anything else getting good at game is based on incremental progress. You're just getting started. Everyone wants to run out and start closing women but thats jumping from a to z. You have a lot other points inbetween. For now don't worry about closing, keep working on your AA and focus on approaching a certain number of women per day, and steadily increase this number. Focus on the quality of your approaches. Fine tune routines, get them dow…
/r/seduction30/04/15 09:05 AM
1

Eh, if it's really your passion than you should go for it. It may be true to some degree that being "outdoorsy" isn't a particularly femine trait and will perhaps lower your attractiveness somewhat, in general, but you really have to keep these things in perspective. You have weigh how much of an smv reduction your looking at compared to your other traits. If you bring a lot of other good stuff to the table then you definitely shouldn't overstress about. I don't think any guy in his right mind i…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 08:52 PM
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I dont really care one way or the other since I'm not really into advocating for redpill or the manosphere but keep in mind, anyone who has ever been in front of the camera can tell you that it is a thing unto itself. Talk show hosts are the professional body builders of the TV world. They spend thousands of hours in front of the camera, some guy who hasnt spent anywhere near that amount of time is going to be utterly out classed and at the mercy of the pros around him. A guy could be the most c…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:28 PM
1

Good for the purely LTR minded man, but makes hooking up and getting your own notch count up rather difficult, no? Are you able to get any play there? How long does it usually take before a girl you're dating will start putting out?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 05:27 AM
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Wrong. Commitment is the most valuable thing we can give to a woman, and on top that, in the modern world, doing so put's us at enormous risk. Making a supposed lifetime commitment to someone who has shown so little self-control all because of an ignorance of the Sunk Cost Fallacy is stupid. If this is how she acts before they are even married I would hate to see her behavior when the chips are down and their marriage hits the rocks for real, and at that point she'll have him over a barrel and m…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:20 PM
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It shouldn't even be a matter of her accepting that you're not going to change your mind. As soon as she even asked to be written into it, your son should have punted her. And she even made a big deal of not being written into it and had the gall to call off the wedding? Good, this chick is so far from marriage material it's laughable. OP, do your kid a favor and clue him in. This is a woman he's about to commit the entire rest of his life to. They haven't even gotten married yet and she's alrea…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:05 PM
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Seriously this. It would not be strange at all if women literally walked around with cartoon dollar signs over their eyes.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:56 PM
1

I'm in high school right now, but it seems absurd to wait until I'm 30 to become successful with girls. Anyone who advises that is an idiot. Your High School and College years have the most attractive and easiest girls you will ever encounter in your entire life. I was king shit popular guy in high school and it's not that hard to do, and being BMOC isn't even a requirement to get laid. Even the band nerds got laid, ffs. Go join a sports team and start going to the gym. Take up a Combat Sport; B…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:00 AM
2

I realized the greatest threat to a child's safety and well-being is not accidents in the home, nor stranger-danger lurking at the mall, but its own mother. When you look at the statistics of children from fatherless households, 200% more likely to commit suicide, 400% more likely to be living in poverty, and the same numbers for everything from drug and alcohol abuse to the development of learning disabilities, it really brings into focus that single mother households are tantamount to child ab…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:37 AM
1

Voice tonality and body language are HUGE variables, even more so than looks. Look for some Deep Voice Training Audio courses, or seek out a voice trainer if you have the cash. And work on dominant, masculine body language.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:14 AM
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Rollo covers this debate pretty well in his Looks Count: The problem is with people who can only think in absolutes. It’s always an either-or proposition; Game trumps physique or physique trumps game is horse shit. They’re both important and play off each other. There are plenty of average looking guys who pull tail thanks to Game in spite of their looks, and there are also good-looking guys who pull tail without ever hearing what Game is. But wouldn’t you rather be the guy with both? The guy wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:06 AM
1

Flunked college need advice Go back to college. Or join the military for a few years and then go back to college with your tuition paid for.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:23 AM
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It's like saying you are going to try drugs once Good analogy. Especially since they both have those "lesson learned too late" aspects at the end. Just like with having a high partner count, once you come out the other of the drug thing you realize "OK I tried that and realized I don't like it and don't like who I am because if it", but by then you've already done irreparable harm to your relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 11:47 PM
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Keep in mind that traditional gender roles have existed as the standard in nearly every culture through out human history and still exist in many places outside the west. So the things you're seeing advocated for here certainly did not originate with RPT and are the antithesis of something new or strange. It's actually modern relationship gender roles that would fit that. You can also research or do some traveling and talk to people where traditional gender role relationships are still the norm,…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 09:11 PM
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I just can't stop thinking about all my single friends saying "imagine only being with one man your whole life!" Sounds like you need to get new friends. No seriously, most people aren't aware of the degree to which we are influenced by our social groups, but take a social psychology class and you'll learn all about it, its no joke. You should find some people who share your values and don't try to undermine your lifestyle choices, and I suggest doing it quickly, if I were this great guy you men…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 08:22 PM
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College is a unique experience that you probably won't ever have the chance to repeat. Often you'll hear people decry partying in college. They say that they are in college to focus on learning and working and that they can party later. But for the large majority of people their lives work out to be the complete opposite. College ends up being a time that they really had the opportunity to let loose and have fun. After college they find themselves in the harsh reality of having to pay their own …
/r/askTRP22/04/15 04:17 AM
1

They go together well actually. PUA has spent a lot more time developing skills for social situations. Creating frameworks for how to approach women in various venues. What to say and how to say it. This is all key stuff obviously. Where PUA lacks is also where RP happens to shine. RP emphasizes self-improvement, particularly bodybuilding which really can't be overemphasized as a leg up when it comes to boosting your general attractiveness. RP also emphasizes the importance of dominance and masc…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 10:21 AM
1

Yep, same old advice: Gym Fill up your day with as much stuff as possible Try travelling, get out of your comfort zone Start fucking some other girls Time heals
/r/askTRP21/04/15 10:05 AM
1

Nothing will turn a girl off more than a guy who is not assertive/confident enough. It's analogous to female promiscuity. An unassertive, low confidence man literally disgusts them.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 09:57 AM
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There's plenty of older guys out there who fuck 18 year olds. If it's really that important to you, figure out what they're doing and become one of them. One piece of advice I will give is this, in all things, never let others dictate how you live your life. Life is laughably short, far too short to go through it letting your decisions be affected by what a bunch of strangers might think of you. If it's what you want then you should be hitting on 18 year olds when you're 65. Will you get a lot o…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 09:45 AM
1

I tend to agree. Anyone that whines about pua being "manipulative" is a beta, in my opinion. Whatever its effectiveness pua is about as manipulative as a push-up bra or playing hard to get. To say otherwise is feminist apologia.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 09:33 AM
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Man, reading this post was like watching a train wreck in slow motion. I read the entire thing even though it wasn't necessary past the third paragraph where you basically asked us if you should commit to a girl that you met off tinder who fucked you on the first date. You say you're no slouch in the SMV department, but then talk about her being pumped and dumped by guys in the 95th percentile. Well, it doesn't matter if you're SMV is good, because those guys' SMV is great and they are the ones …
/r/askTRP21/04/15 09:17 AM
2

Probably my favorite: “Everyone must choose one of two pains: The pain of discipline or the pain of regret.”
/r/askTRP21/04/15 05:10 AM
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Jesus Christ that's depressing.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 05:07 AM
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By nature, I am a very doting, submissive female in a relationship and always treat the relationship like a full time job Then you should probably prioritize that. Look, I don't necessarily agree with everything RP preaches. There are some women out there who wouldn't, for various reasons, be happier in a relationship with a dominate man, and that's fine, they should go and find someone that they are happy with, because life is far too short to do anything other than what makes you happy. Howeve…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 03:10 AM
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I don't think it's rocket science or gender specific. How many women like their man comparing their bodies to his previous girlfriends? I had a girlfriend completely freak out and basically attack me when she found out that I had dated this other girl with enormous tits that were bigger than hers.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 12:27 AM
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""While I am obviously attracted to that type of man. I am trying to get out of that way of thinking and dating men that put me first. My problem is that chemistry is just not there for me."" In case it isn't obvious by now the word women use to unknowingly describe RP is "chemistry".
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:13 AM
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At least 5 different times during the festival, speakers (mostly male)reminded us of how poverty is the "worst for women." This is ridiculously ignorant given that the large majority of the homeless are men.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 08:53 PM
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It was just that I was a bit baffled by the idea that it was unhygienic. Whoever said that was probably just misappropriating the word "dirty" to drive home how body hair on a woman made them feel(icky, repulsed, an inherent sense of revulsion, etc). I wouldn't read any more into it than that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:41 PM
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Because of this conversation, I realized this whole equality concept was to blame... I guess there are some vestiges of feminist culture left in my mental programming. The problem with Feminism and some of the perceptions in modern culture is in how they view equality. Obviously making sure everyone has the same rights etc is a good thing. But people have started to mistake "being the same" for equality. There is such a thing as people being equal and different. Things like being submissive, fol…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:08 PM
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The only woman I would even consider marrying would have to be a virgin when I met her. Just like OP made reference to, if she wants the traditional "titles", I want the traditional "virtue". Or we can both accept that we all now live in a brave new world where no one get's everything they want.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:22 PM
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I'm trying to think of what's turned me off of LTR's with specific women in the past and I think one big piece of advice in preparing for a relationship is to try to make a good first impression. We all know about the "women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment" thing. In short women have little to no trouble getting a man, but a lot of trouble keeping him. I think it's for this reason that women tend to focus too much on what they should be doing in the "relationshi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 06:06 PM
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My college is plagued by feminism and women in the feminist student union. Many girls here do not know how to be feminine, cut their hair short, are overweight/don't take care of their appearance and think that becoming strong, independent women is the way to a man's heart. Why not start a Feminine Student Union? Feminism has assualted femininity as much as it has masculinity. Women who actually want to be feminine have no voice in our society or on most college campuses but clearly they are out…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:42 PM
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In fairness Calculus is really hard!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:23 AM
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It's a difficult situation. No man likes being told he needs to "man up/get off the couch/stop being lazy", etc. He least of all wants to hear these things from his SO, it'll just torpedo his confidence even more and make him resentful. You definitely don't want a man to ever feel like he's being given an ultimatum as he'll often do the opposite just out of stubbornness and spite. Her strategy should be one of encouragement and go from there. Additionally she should find out if they are a match.…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 09:09 AM
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My dad dumps my mom, doesn't "know what he wants." Mom starts hanging out with a male common friend for show; everyone finds out about it. Dad gets jealous and marries her. It happens but this usually works the opposite. Basically the sexes often have an inverse complimentary relationship. (Though this is generally relegated to division of labor and division of reproduction). In other words what's true for women is often the opposite compliment of what's true for men(boys have penis, girls have …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 08:27 AM
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They always cry. Women crying is some kind of evolutionary trigger for men and women know it. So they always do it. And they always play the victim. It truly is hilarious the complete lack of cognitive dissonance women have about their ability to both call themselves strong independent women who don't need men, while at the same time playing the victim in almost every actual real world scenario.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:01 AM
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the Mother and Aunt very much agreed that "It really doesn't make any difference. The family is happy he has no business knowing!" The problem here is that due to the biological realities of human reproduction women have no frame of reference from which to understand the male perspective on this matter. So much of human sexual strategy is probably based on the fact that men are never sure about the paternity of their children while women, on the other hand, are ALWAYS sure. You should've asked t…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:56 AM
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Basically everything a woman does with or for a man; sex, cooking, cleaning, compliments, companionship, is all a means to the end of acquiring his resources.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 12:52 AM
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Doesn't anal with or without a condom require a lot of "preparation"(i.e. an enema) in order to not be messy and gross?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 11:22 PM
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As Bill Burr says - "She got 1 million... for being a baby sitter???" The really fucked up part is that a lot of times the women who are married to these really rich guys don't even do most of the housewife duties. I'm fine with a women being compensated when she actually did the job, because it is actual work to take care of kids and keep a house, which is what women generally do in working class households, but with higher income households, most of the time, they hire nannies and housekeepers…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 05:23 PM
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Personally, I think everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I'm interested, could you go guys go into more detail on why you think you have no ill feelings toward higher notch count women? Is this a feeling you've always had or did something specific precipitate it? Is it a feeling you have even with girls you want to LTR? What are your own notch counts?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 04:49 PM
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How can I tell if a guy is high SMV or not? SMV is really just a list of traits the general population finds attractive in members of their sexual preference. You can have your own list of things you're looking for in a guy. Then just talk to him and try to find out more about him and if he has those traits that you like, through the course the conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 01:11 AM
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I love the game, the pursuit, the struggle, but I don't feel like that since a lot years ago, curiously with my first girlfriend, both virgins at that time. I love their innocence, knowing that I am showing them a whole new world…this innocence is that really drives me crazy from girls. There are almost only sluts today, and somewhere deep inside I don't feel really attracted by them, like something is out of place. I feel the same. Reminds me of a post in r/relationships I came across sometime …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 12:18 AM
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Interesting perspective. I've always disregarded prostitutes because it seemed like it defeated a large part of the purpose of our pursuit of sex. I mean let's be honest we don't seek out women for sex just to get off physically, otherwise it would be much more efficient and much less annoying to just stay home and pound a fleshlight. Part of it is mental, the realization that we're able to successfully attract and fuck a woman. We conquer her. Its like reaching the peak of a mountain, the achie…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:22 PM
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How much of this happened after you got your first gf? A girlfriend especially a first girlfriend will boost a guy's confidence, happiness, and sense of well being into the stratosphere. You feel like you can take on the world.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:46 PM
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Does the average person even know about the redpill? I mean if you started using the terminology would they suddenly go "omg that's redpill stuff, that's bad!" I think reddit and the internet in general tends to overestimate the number of normal people who are aware of all of the crazy controversial shit that goes on online. I mean honestly, if I didn't read the internet I wouldn't know anything about how third wave feminism is fucking everything up with their shitty regressive rape hysteria and…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 08:30 AM
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or no lawyer, and just left it up to the judge. My dad was like that during his divorce from my step mom. He was just completely stubborn as a mule about it. She, on the other hand, showed up with a lawyer and cleaned him out. I can't comprehend how functioning adults cannot understand the concept of a lawyer. Seriously, 90% of the time whoever has the better lawyer wins. Facts don't mean shit. Right and wrong don't mean shit. I don't know why this is so hard for some people to understand.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 08:16 AM
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Video games are indeed a nice activity for a couple, especially if you play cooperatively. However since you brought it up, I will say that your fears of liking video games too much are very, very valid. Mostly, I would suggest staying away from MMORPG's, if you're at all worried about it, as they are considered to be the most addictive games around. And they are definitely no joke. I wrote a research paper for one of my grad level social work classes and there are studies that found MMORPG addi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 08:33 AM
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Interesting stuff about the drugs. I've never done anythning like that myself. Were you actually able to glean insight from your experience and carry it over to normal life? My impression of drugs was always that any insight or knowledge obtained during use was lost after the high. I'd also like to hear more about steroids from the people here, as I considered them in the past, but I just love my hair way to much, and am afraid as fuck to lose it. Plus I'm undisciplined, with an intermittent in …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:20 AM
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I feel you man, I really do. We're not robots, we do value companionship, and ultimately I think many of us would eventually like to find a quality, low-to-no-N count RPW to wife up. To finally be able to let yourself go, to let yourself fall for a girl, to get that white picket fence and that cute doting housewife. Yeah, that would be great...but it may not even be realistic. I mean sure there are happy couples out there that fit the fantasy story I just described and who's to say you don't fin…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:51 AM
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you're still getting used. Used by all these pieces of shit that are unworthy of you're time and interest, these 20+ partner girls and over 30's that just want to keep the good times rolling. This is why you use them.The one edge we have in this game is that while women are the gatekeepers of sex, we are the gatekeepers of commitment. And sex almost always comes before commitment. That means we get to get what we want without ever having to give them what they want. From this perspective you sho…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:17 AM
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I had someone just today tell me I wanted to be infantilized like my dad treated me by my partner, so while the mock outrage is noted - save it for someone newer to PPD. Oh, did this individual hurt your feelings? Well gosh, every subscriber to RP should apologize, then because that one person certainly speaks for everyone. I totally disagree. What do you do for an infant? Provide for it. How do you treat an infant? Like it's incapable of taking care of itself without your help. What do you thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 05:20 AM
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because intellectually, being treated like an infant by a partner is a turn off for many people I think that's pretty disingenuous and you should know it if you've spent any amount of time trying to understand enough about RP to argue about it. Spend a little time over at RPW. RP Theory does not advocate treating women like "infants". It advocates a specific division of labor along traditional gender role lines. Housewives are not infants, and frankly the suggestion that a women who wants to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 04:47 AM
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Well again there seems to be a specific pattern of women "finding out they don't like wild sex", that many seem to take issue with. I also don't doubt that traditional aversion to female promiscuity plays a part in how this pattern is perceived by men. Out of curiosity have you read this? If you're really trying to understand the TRP perspective on this issue, I think few posts are a more concise example. Although, I don't know if it will necessarily hit home in the same way it would with a man,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 04:18 AM
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I think anyone reasonable would agree that's certainly a possibility, however my understanding of AF/BB is that women being sexually adventurous in heir younger college years with random guys and then settling to down plain old missionary with their husband is a definite pattern that exceeds the number of women who are probably doing it for the reason you state. Personally, I think it's fascinating from a social sexual perspective as well. So many women are so sexually liberal and open-minded an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:48 AM
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First off I am black and i did not know... black women r so insecure about the hair, clearly i grew up in a white neighbourhood, went to white school and a white uni. Lol, you know what's funny is I pretty much did the same. Mostly white high school, mostly dated white girls etc. I didn't even know about weaves until I dated a black girl college. That whole reveal was a shocker, let me tell you, haha.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:35 AM
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Why is it that men on the other side are more respected? Is it because of how social structure has always been where sex is easy for women hard for men. And it's more of an accomplishment for men? Could be! That's certainly something we've seen elsewhere in society. Anytime something is more difficult for any one group to accomplish more praise is generally heaped on them when they achieve it. And don't forget the fact that we also respect and praise women for being virgins (while shaming men fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:19 AM
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Haha, good point! He's right, babyboomersanta, it's definitely not a perfect metaphor. What do you say to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:12 AM
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Woah, thanks! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:03 AM
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Haha, I like 'em! Best argument against TRP I've seen in a while. Upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:00 AM
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Like, I don't know if you guys noticed, but vaginas are not locks, and penises are not, in fact, keys. Yeah, that's why it's called a metaphor. Like, for example the saying, in reference to women, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free", I don't know if you noticed but people who say this don't actually, in fact, think women are literally cows. The accuracy of the meaning behind metaphor, and even the meaning of the metaphor can certainly be argued but I don't think the concept of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:23 AM
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gavinok basically gave you the correct answer although there are additional key aspects as well... But isn't this what the red pill wants? Girls who don't put out toward every guy that says "do you wanna". So why would he be mad? Is it because she use to and she's hitting the "wall" now? Or could it be she woke up just like you did with the red pill and decided to change and you should either move on or spend more time with her? The general idea as I understand it and the thing you're misunderst…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 01:28 AM
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Yeah, this seems like pretty obvious bs. For one thing the stuff she outlined for reasons he left TRP aren't even that important or are outright bs. It's funny how people will project their own hyperbolic straw men onto something they hate to justify their feelings without actually having to learn anything about it. Oooo "Feminism: the radical notion that women are people!" /smugface. Cuz we all know people who aren't feminists literally believe women are animals or inanimate objects. "Bob, why …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 11:40 PM
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Black guy here, damn I'm surprised she didn't clock you when you said the bit about the natural hair, haha. Are you a white guy? Most white dudes don't know about black girls hair insecurity, so she may have assumed that. For anyone interested the documentary Good Hair by Chris Rock is actually pretty good. Anyway, good job on holding frame and the neg. She definitely wants you back. You could practically hear the wheels turning in her head as she tried to formulate the next move that would be m…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:50 PM
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The correct answer is to plate her and begin exploring alternative options. The chances of having a quality relationship with a 28 year-old post wall ex-slut that you lost your virginity to is almost nil. She has far too much experience and control over you. You are out of your weight class. She's D1 you're Little League. She's already grooming you to be her beta provider, which means 5-10 years, 1-2 kids, and a divorce rape later she'll be walking out the door on her own anyway. However this ex…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:10 PM
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Interesting point. I suppose it is possible to go down on a chick in a more dominant way. My other concern is health. Part of the reason for wearing a rubber is STI protection. Do you go down on one night stands that you pick up at a bar? That seems dangerous. I enjoy eating pussy but there've been times where I was left afterword wondering if I should've done it given that I didn't know the girl all that well, or in some cases I knew her too well(meaning her extensive sexual history was known a…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 04:18 PM
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Plate called me another guys name during sex. Fixed that for you.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 06:52 AM
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I'm still undecided on pussy eating for exactly the reason you mentioned. It is extremely submissive. I've even seen women in r/sex complain about getting it from their bf, saying that while it feels good it emasculates him in her eyes and torpedoes her respect for him. I'm just not sure that the trade off is worth it, especially knowing what we do about RP and the importance of dominance and masculinity in attraction.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 06:50 AM
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Plate wants to do naked shoots Problem solved.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 06:31 AM
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Good points all.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 06:04 AM
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I think it's that they have so many more options than men. I've always been amazed at how calculating women are when it comes to choosing their man. There was a thread in RPW recently where a woman posted that her man "had no direction" and she was debating on whether or not she should move on. The bf eventually joined the thread and commented that they were working on things together, etc. I made this response to another response in that thread: Ultimately, it really is all about money for wome…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 05:45 AM
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I've gotten to the point where I think if you're even asking a girl what her count is you're doing it wrong because she will undoubtedly lie and the fact that you know this and are still asking is because some part of you subconsciously wants to believe her. There's no point in asking a question that you already know the REAL answer to. It just opens you up to believe the lie. Just assume that it's somewhere between 25-50 and every time you look at her silently remind yourself of her REAL count …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:36 PM
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"Everyone must choose one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret." I love this, thanks, great post.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 06:08 AM
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My opinion is the age gap is a stigma because "women of your own age" don't like the competition. This. A thousand times this. You'll notice there is literally zero stigma against older women dating younger men. Literally no one could possibly give less of a shit and the older women even get cheered on for it. Age gap whining is puritanical bullshit. Period. End of Story.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 06:05 AM
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I made this reply to this post which seemed to get a lot of positive feedback and I think you may find helpful.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:53 AM
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I literally once saw a thread in r/relationships where a guy posted about how his new fiancee (who had clearly been sexually abused as a child) had started screaming at him and insinuating that he was a creep and a pedophile because he had told his daughter that she had pretty hair. And with the exception of a few sane people who were down voted to oblivion most of the responses agreed with the fiancee that it was indeed creepy for a father to compliment his own daughters hair. r/relationships i…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:32 AM
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Seems like you answered your own question. If you determined that it was best for your self-improvement journey to distance yourself from environments and people that previously led you to engaging in habits and behaviors that you would like to discontinue then going to this party seems like something that would go against your plan.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:14 AM
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Yeah, it could really go either way. r relationships is full of posts by guys who lost their girlfriends because they pretended to be cool with their gf hanging out with other guys, in order to not come off as "clingy". Personally I would probably downgrade to fwb status a gf who felt the need to hang out with other dudes.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:08 AM
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Well I don't think name changes are all that common on average, but most people don't move to a different country where their name sounds different than the norm. But as far as people who do move to different countries, adopting a name that is centric to that country is actually pretty common. I don't know if people change it legally often but they definitely use nicknames. I know a lot of Asian immigrants where I live here in the U.S. and they all use names like Howard, Barry, and Mark. Ultimat…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 03:55 AM
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How did you get to be a doctor? A lot of hard work study and practice right? The same goes for this. Hit the gym like you've been doing and butch up your attitude, don't take shit from anyone. Practice alpha body language, open poses etc. Join a martial arts club, Brazilian jujitsu and/or Muay Thai. Approach, approach, approach - Read up on actual PUA/Game stuff. TRP is good at getting your head straight and emphasizing the importance of self-improvement to increase your chances with women. But …
/r/askTRP08/04/15 03:34 AM
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This seems like something that's entirely up to you. The only reason I can think of not to change it, at least from an asktrp perspective, would be because women often have a thing for certain types of foreign guys. If you're real name is Rodrigo or Marcelo or something, then play up the hot foreign guy thing. Of course it helps to have a foreign accent, which if you've lived in England since you were 1 you probably don't have. But still those kinds of names are cool conversation starters and th…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:47 AM
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This is the correct answer. Think of it as advertising yourself. Also girls are complete stalkers these days, one of the first things they do when they meet a new guy is google him and try to track down all his social media shit. If they find nothing it's possible they will interpret it as "weird". Obviously if your SMV is high enough to begin with you can overcome it by telling her you think social media is dumb. But unless you have something reasonable against it, there's no reason not to post…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 12:08 AM
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Haha, I swear few things are funnier than how women project their own Factors of Attraction onto men. Women worship confidence in men. Nothing repulses a woman more than an insecure man. In a logical world it would be the sexually aggressive asshole jocks that women would label creeps, instead it's the harmless nerdy guy in the corner who isn't bothering anyone. The point is, men are not disgusted by insecurity, like women are. In fact to some degree insecurity in a woman is attractive to a man.…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 05:59 PM
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Are you living together? Guys don't really need marriage to feel like they are committed to a woman. If you're living like husband and wife then that may be how he feels, heck even if you're not living together he may be committed to you. Although these days 1.5 years isn't really that long. As marriage has become more of a raw deal for men, women are having to put in more and more time before a man will decide to commit. One thing I can tell you, as a guy, few things would make me downgrade a g…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 04:53 PM
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Don't know why this was down-voted so I voted it back up. You're a textbook woman by RP standards. Anyway, the advice you've received below is solid, let him go find a woman who will value him. You'll never be truly happy in this relationship and the feelings you're having now will almost certainly grow and turn to bitterness in the years to come if you stay. You go try to find your 9 or 10, maybe you will find him. And thanks for reminding me once again, why I'm never marrying a western woman.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/15 08:45 AM
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This is the proverbial rock and a hard place that women face these days. It's a position they've been put in largely by feminism. They are faced with the fact that men now have a much higher expectation of easier and earlier sex, and if women aren't willing to provide it then those men have a lot more options to seek it elsewhere, this wouldn't be a problem if it weren't for the fact that men still hold a low partner count as a primary deciding factor in whether or not a woman is commitment wort…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/15 08:23 AM
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Honestly I think this is one area that diverges from traditional gender roles. There are just too many variables in today's cultural climate that can and will easily prevent a quality relationship from ever occurring for women to sit around hoping that the guy she's been making eyes at from across the room all night will come over and talk to her. Even if you flirt with him like a crazy person he might still decide not to ask you out because he's simply afraid of rejection or afraid of being cal…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/15 06:05 AM
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Yeah, I've really never understood the popular animosity towards clingy girls, it makes no sense at all to me. I love a clingy girl, it shows me shes into me and that I am in control. A girl who is standoffish, business like, and independent, is not attractive to me. Not just because I find it un-feminine but also because anyone who is that calculating about their relationship is going to have no problem replacing me at the drop of a hat.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 11:26 PM
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There's an old line about "men only being as loyal as their options." The same is actually true of women. The problem is that due to sexual courtship dynamics, women, unlike men, have a shit ton options. This was fine back when a fear of a damaged reputation and subsequently losing their chance at a good man kept them relatively in check. But with the trend toward masculinization that is currently occurring among modern women, they've started to become more and more like men in their views of se…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 10:59 PM
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I'll never understand why human behavior having a biological component is such a reach. Your brain is Biological! Not to mention the host of behavioral issues we know can manifest from a dysfunctional brain, from depression to a billion other things. Ugh, anyway, thanks for posting this, always good to see hard science here.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:40 AM
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Ultimately, it really is all about money for women. The entire frame, the perspective is built around seeking the provider above all else. Particularly noteworthy is how you viewed making more money than him as "dragging him along". In the large majority of relationships men are the ones who are making more money, and I guarantee you almost none of them think that they are "dragging their wives along" because she makes less money than they do. Most of them also don't look at their wives with thi…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 11:58 AM
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I think some western governments tried this approach a few years back as a new form of white feather campaign. Unfortunately, by ignoring the cause of men pulling away from "traditional roles" the situation got worse The hilarious part is that this is exactly what it is. And yet strangely the people who claim to be promoting an end to traditional gender roles are exactly the ones pissing and moaning that men aren't filling them. I mean the hypocrisy is astounding. Even the language is the same a…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 09:57 PM
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No but her friend did and she's jealous. Jesus Christ. Sometimes I wonder why the fuck we chase these embarrassingly predictable idiots, in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:36 AM
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They actually correlate pretty heavily to testosterone. Which shouldn't be surprising since test is what makes men, men, and males are the ones who got stuck with the tasks in the evolutionary division of labor that required those traits. Weight training is the single best way to naturally boost your testosterone. So go do that. Alot. Also take up a fight sport. Brazilian Jujitsu/CSW and/or Muay Thai/Kickboxing. Lastly you might want to get your t levels checked. There's nothing wrong with HRT, …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:24 AM
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I'm an atheist guy and I'd love a church girl. They generally have better values, are more demure, and are less likely to be carrying around a phone book sized list of past hook ups. And if thinking happy thoughts about what happens after you die makes people feel better in their current lives, then I say more power to them.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/15 05:31 AM
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Wouldn't a man think an average-looking girl who who played xbox all day was a loser? For the most part no. There are some caveats which I will discuss, but generally, "Loser" is not an insult that is effective against a woman, anymore than "slut" is an insult that is effective against a man. No matter how much TwoX posters and their ilk try, on a very fundamental, cultural level, men simply are not shamed for having a high number of sexual partners. On the other hand where men are shamed, quite…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 05:32 AM
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Yep, you're projecting. It really can't be emphasized enough, men do not care about your education or social status. Female hierarchy means absolutely nothing to men. Some men will say they care but they're just being politically correct. Kate Upton could be living in her parents basement and playing xBox all day with her only ambition being to pursue a career as a garbageman and men would still consider her a catch. Audit some social science classes at your local community college, like Psychol…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 08:44 PM
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What is everyone's thoughts on cocky/flirty text game vs stoic, barely more than one word answers text game?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 07:37 AM
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The advice I would give him would be to stop reading r relationships. It is really one of the shittiest subs ever. The people there are such ignorant morons it beggers belief.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:52 AM
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It sounds like you're more concerned about it being an issue than he is, which is course, to be expected and competely in line with RP theory. Giving him control of the finances would probably help put you in a more RPW frame of mind.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 09:39 AM
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The thing that is really telling to me about situations like this or really anytime women take offense to sex jokes is that it shows, ironically, just how much modern feminism draws it's beliefs from the peroid of time in history when women were seen as psycholgicaly frail and fragile. People believed that you litterally had to be careful what you said around them because they might swoon or feint. As a forward thinking person, this is one of the things that irks me the most about modern feminis…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 09:24 AM
2

Its almost like the universe is punishing me cause of my depression You're reading too much into it. Three girls is not a large enough data set to determine any kind of pattern. It's just a confluence of events. You probably wouldn't even have noticed it if you weren't depressed, or at least you wouldn't have thought this much of it. Go to the gym.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 11:57 PM
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He could obviously do better, there are a ton of 10/10 virgin models in eastern europe who he could wife in a heartbeat. Apparently Russia even has gold digger finishing schools where women are honed to the height of feminine perfection in order to net a rich guy. But from his perspective if he's happy, well then good for him.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:29 PM
1

Money is the ultimate equalizer. And the reason for that is it doesn't matter how old and ball saggy rich dudes are they still find younger hotties to wife. I mean Hugh Hefner is the ultimate example of this. Feminist would love to nail that guy to the wall and label him as a creep and a hundred other things. But they can't because that dude is living the dream and he could not possibly give less fucks about who knows it or what they think about it. I think he did end up getting married recently…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 04:21 AM
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Whatcha gonna do about that face brother? Point, but there are a ton of pictures of Asian women going from 4 to 9 with plastic surgery. So that's always an option. On a side note I dunno wtf is wrong with American plastic surgeons but the fucking Chinese have that shit down like they are Star Trek: TNG.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 04:12 AM
1

they definitely help. Yep, I've been considering getting color contacts. Did a bunch of research trying to find some good opaques or circle lenses(a ton of Asian girls wear these) to cover my brown eyes, and got side tracked but I think I'm going to go ahead and order some samples and see how blue eyes look on me. I'm a mixed black/white guy so if I can get some contacts that let me pull off Michael Ealy or Jesse Williams, I think I'll be in good shape.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 03:56 AM
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I dunno I see a lot of women in r relationships and twoX saying that they value a man with a lower count, (and maybe they actually believe that, or they're irked by slut shaming and are just trying give some back to the men) but based on observation I don't think that really bears out in reality. One thing people often don't realize is that the genders evolved in a complimentary inverse way. The way things are for women is often the complimentary inverse of the way things are for men, right down…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 07:27 PM
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I agree with this as well. It seems to me that there's a fine line between "not mate guarding" and "not having appropriate boundaries" that leads to a lot of guys becoming a doormat. I see guys in r relationships all the time who end up losing their gf because they talked themselves into the whole modern cliche of being "mature" and "trusting" and letting her go out and get drunk and party without him, letting her hangout with other guys, etc. Even though these guys' minds were screaming that th…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 01:04 AM
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only to realise the psychological implications of reduced contact. This, so much this. There are actual studies done on the brain scans of human prisoners in 23 hour lock down and solitary confinement isolation units that show progressive brain damage due to lack of human contact and stimulus. Additionally other studies show drastically reduced social and verbal skills and extreme anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorders, and agoraphobia.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 11:08 PM
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That's all well and good, certainly, but I think /u/alisonstone point was that the essence of female hypergamy is that it makes women vacuous status hunters. A guy can make a conscious choice to not let himself be defined by his job in his own mind but women will still define him that way when they are considering him for a relationship. Obviously as we learn very early in TRP social status is a huge factor of attraction for women. They are going to judge men based on that whether we like it or …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:32 PM
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I don't think it's necessarily a matter of not blaming her it's that plenty of men do and are expected to stay with women who's looks have fallen off. No woman stays looking like she did when she was 19, forever. And we're just supposed to accept the fact women's looks fall off quickly and stay with them regardless because that's the nature of relationships and true love or whatever. Sure if you're gf get's fat too quickly then it's acceptable to leave(unless you're from TwoX) but if you put a r…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:44 PM
6

This may sound depressing for women but it's really only bad because they started out so high and have a long way to fall and even then they still do pretty good. For example the only time women are really in a bad way is when they get old or if they really lost the genetic lottery and are really ugly. And even then there are still going to be plenty of guys out there who will fuck them and even wife them up. Those guys won't be George fucking Clooney, of course, but that's the only real tragedy…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 08:54 PM
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I brought it up again, about how I was unsure about the way he was initiating sex and what he expected of me during intimacy, and he became physical so I didn't bring it up again. Since then, he has become even rougher during sex and is now physical outside the bedroom as well. I have been very anxious, and making mistakes like forgetting to turn off the lights in another room or making too much noise with the dishes causes him stress and he resorts to hitting or throwing things at me. This is a…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 09:32 AM
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I know her What's she up to these days? Did she talk at all about the fallout from this being released? Is she still hearing about it 5 years later or is it forgotten?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 01:07 AM
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Another excellent study posted. These are great, keep 'em coming.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 11:29 PM
2

I don't think it's quite that hard to find a good LTR material girl. Keep in mind that it's easy to get a lot of confirmation bias and generalize. If you read enough threads like this you can come out of it thinking that all women are deceitful whores. But the truth is there are plenty of women who can and are keeping their legs closed. The thing you need to understand, though, is that you're not going to have the ability to choose any of the quality girls if you don't raise your SMV. So the thi…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 10:25 PM
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I don't know that I would be comfortable dating one, but that's a personal choice on my part and aside from that they have my full support. People should do what makes them happy and ignore what other people think of them. Life is far too short to do otherwise.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 11:01 PM
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One thing I would interested to know is if Japanese men have below average testosterone levels in comparison to the rest of the world. On the other end of the spectrum I'd also be interested to know if the men in, say, Rio De Janeiro, Brazil (a place well known for extremely sexually aggressive men) have higher than average testosterone levels.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 06:12 AM
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Yeah, this sounds like a medical issue and not necessarily the result of anything happening in your relationship. There a lot of things that can be done to boost his test like weight training and certain test boosting foods and supplements. For libido in general supplements like Horny Goat Weed and Maca are good. Most importantly I would say is to try to get him in to see a specialist. As for your approach, you're wise to be cautious, it's not just nagging that could be a problem. A man's self-e…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/14 12:27 AM
5

There's an old saying and it's something that I've always thought to be one of the most important lessons women can learn to help them get what they want: "Mary Ann always wins."
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 11:55 PM
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What would he have to do? I think you answered your own question. I imagine joining a fraternity and playing a sport would be a good start. College isn't really all that different from the adult world. Women are still voracious status hunters. It's just that in college "Lawyer" translates to "Alpha Sigma Phi" and "Doctor" translates to "first string running back".
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 07:20 AM
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This is one of the things I hate about the bar/club scene. The environment just skyrockets female SMV. Girls that no one would give a second look if they met them on the street during the day get a shit load of attention. Also bitch shields are set to max power.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:28 AM
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It's not so much that she's a lot older than him, it's just not ideal, and could be a problem. You never want to be on equal standing with a girl. She doesn't want you to be either. She wants to look up to you. Girls just generally seek out older guys, they respect them more and are attracted to their authority.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:00 AM
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The reason that the relative ages are relevant is because studies actually show that the most successful relationships are ones where the guy is at least 5 years older than the girl. Most probably, this is another way in which women work out their instinct to "marry up". She will generally view someone older than her as having more authority, subsequently that person will also have an easier time dominating her and making her feel safe.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:00 AM
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Yup, it's almost obnoxious how predictable human behavior is.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 12:40 AM
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Haha, the perfect ending! Well done!
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 11:33 PM
4

This is seriously fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 11:27 PM
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Took me a bit to find it but here it is. It's an exchange between an RP Man and RP Woman, with him explaining essentially what I mentioned above and how his own experience led him to this realization. As the RP Woman mentions it's incredibly poignant and sad: It really is a form of grief though. The nice guy, the beta male, the white knight, wants nothing more than to love and be loved by a good woman. When all you want is love and to be loved and that very desire precludes you from getting what…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 11:07 PM
3

What country are you in? Aside from the economy it sounds like a traditional man's dream. As far as opportunities, the internet has done a lot to globalize opportunity. You might try looking for work online, either a job you can telecommute to or even starting your own e-business.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:17 PM
2

First, AWALT doesn't literally mean that every woman is exactly the same. It's a vague warning, kind of like when people say not to get a pet tiger because they might fucking eat you, even though some people have pet tigers and are perfectly fine, the danger of it reverting to it's nature at any second if it sees a squirrel is still present. Be warned, and don't get chained to a tiger. Excellent explanation of AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:21 AM
3

Excellent study. Always good to see empirical data like this. Thanks for posting it.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 12:48 AM
1

Congratulations on getting out of your comfort zone, man. The first step is always the hardest, it actually gets easier the more you do it. Since no one else has, I do feel the need to point out that you should be careful though. That situation could very easily be spun into a sexual harassment claim on her part. Asking a co-worker if you can squeeze her ass would have your HR department or boss foaming at the mouth if they heard about it. She sounds like she's ok with it, though, but just be mi…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 02:46 AM
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I used to think that my girl is a unicorn... I was reading a thread over at RPW where they were asking about TRP and some people were explaining it to them. And something that stood out is that one of the worst things about being a man in relationships is that we have to take a hammer and destroy our positive illusions about women in order to get/keep women. It's like some kind of cruel Grimm's fairy tale or karmic fable where the protagonist finally get's what he wished for but it's so twisted …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:59 PM
1

Did he give you any more details into his technique besides lurking trp?
/r/askTRP20/12/14 03:00 AM
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These are principles of marketing & business. Anything at critical mass becomes devalued. To succeed in a saturated market, the innovator invests in differentiators. Eventually a differentiator becomes a disruption, and then the disruption becomes the norm, critical mass is acquired, and the cycle repeats. This is some wisdom right here.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:48 AM
1

"Just treat women like human beings!", is such an eye-rolling and stupidly smug straw man response to male dating issues that it makes my head hurt. Reading shit like that is when I really hate the internet for it's dumbshit "ironic" meme mob mentality.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:01 AM
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Out of curiosity have any of you guys tried converting your SO into an RPW? I lurk RPW quite a bit and one thing I notice which I find very telling is that, in line with RP theory, women actually like their RPW role when they actually get into it. But society has brainwashed them into never trying that role so they end up becoming miserable shrews. My point is your SO's are probably as miserable about being nagging harpy's as you are about them being nagging harpy's. They don't want to be like t…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:26 AM
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I don't know that there's any real way to avoid some level of oneitis in an LTR. I mean I suppose that you could but I don't know what the point would be. If you're not allowing yourself to become that invested in a girl then she might as well be one of many plates. If you're going to be monogamous you might as well be emotionally invested as well. I don't think the point is to never let yourself get emotionally invested in someone, it's to make sure you choose the right girl to avoid problems l…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:15 AM
1

How'd you end up over there anyway?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:09 AM
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Update?
/r/askTRP18/12/14 11:11 PM
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This is just a bad attempt at basic Economics. The problem wasn't that the UK attempted to engineer a market solution to the slums rat population issue. The problem was that they failed to adequately model it before implementation. If they had bothered to model it at all they would have considered that the slum's residents might find animal husbandry more efficient than hunting.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 11:02 PM
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They are when they look like sorority girls!
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 02:04 AM
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True, but 22 is still plenty old enough to have already been passed around the frat house like a used jockstrap.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 12:54 AM
1

There is just something special to being a young guy in high school or college and being in love. Showing up to prom with your date, going to date nights with your love, and stuff like that which just doesn't exist after college. Hanging around with your friends as they tell you about that one cute girl that has a crush on you, having all the time in the world for love and relationships, and just having that sense of community which you will never find after high school and college I feel you br…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 12:45 AM
2

What in the fuck are you doing GF'ing a club girl anyway? You don't GF club girls. They are born to be plates. Goddamn.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 03:48 AM
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I think you ladies might be surprised at how we truly feel about LTRs. It's true there is a good deal of cynicism, but it comes out of despair at the modern world and what it has wrought. But past it all, we aren't without hope. A while back I posted a somewhat harsh response to a guy who was considering dumping his ltr to go spin some plates. It got a good amount of upvotes. Dude the thing you need to realize about TRP and RP theory is that barring wierd outliers pretty much every single dude w…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 03:33 AM
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Yeah, that would've been my only suggestion. He should've been using dread game on her from the start so she understood this behavior was unacceptable. If a girl is still flinging you constant shit tests than she doesn't respect you enough. I mean that's what shit tests are really, just female dread game. When I get into a new relationship with a really attractive girl that's had her ego polished for years by everyone around her I almost immediately unload such massive amounts of dread game that…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:55 PM
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I read both your threads as well. Good job on maintaining no contact. That at least allowed you to salvage some of your dignity at the end there. As for the rest...if you've been lurking TRP then you should be able to go back and read your own threads and see some pretty big red flags in your own behavior. The responses in your threads were actually quite accurate. Your biggest problem was that you were being the very definition of a doormat. You failed to establish early, but important relation…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 04:33 PM
13

"oh and my human penis was replaced with a 12-inch robotic steel rod.... ...and it can't be bargained with or reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop, ever, until you are fucked."
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:20 PM
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Yeah, honestly, white, tall, with a six-pack is pretty much lottery-winning easy mode. OKC studies show you don't even have to show your face. I'm a short black guy who works in/is going to school for STEM and every time I see a taller white dude who isn't putting in the simple effort to cut calories, put some gel in his hair, and not dress like he just stepped out of the computer lab, I want to drop kick his ass.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:48 PM
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Very Interesting stuff. Thanks for posting. The nice thing about online dating is the flexibility it provides, the ability to experiment with different personas. And I think therein lies the key to success. Women loving bad boys is a cliche but it's a cliche for a good reason. By examining what women lust for in popular culture we can form ourselves to that ideal. It would be an interesting project to experiment more with multiple different profiles along these lines. 50 Shades of Grey Profile. …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:32 PM
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Ah, interesting, thanks for the insight. Honestly I don't know much at all about Brazil specfically, it was just something I heard from a few Mormon friends. There were like five or six different guys in their social circle who had brought home wives from over there. I do think the larger point still holds water, though. Changing your scenery to a country where our SMV is inherently much higher can be a lot easier than fighting an uphill battle with the raving narcissists that pass for women her…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 07:03 PM
1

I would think that being an older (40+) guy, especially one who is interested in much younger women(who isn't), would be the most opportune time to start taking advantage of what traveling outside the country has to offer. We all know that American men have it much easier in places like Brazil, Eastern Europe, Asia, Central/South America. And by the time you get to 40 you should have a decent career going and enough financial flexibility to hop over to some of these places and snag yourself some…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 05:40 PM
1

Hmm, the thing is, don't the producers have to get the people being taped to sign a release before it can be shown on air? I would think that a woman who had just fucked up so badly on camera, and probably ruined her marriage would probably not sign that release.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 09:37 AM
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Another thing I wanted to add is that one of the most successful RPW strategies is when the wife steps aside, allowing her captain to fill the void and take his proper role as the head of the household. Traditionally people think that a man's role in a relationship is primarily about his ability to provide. But that's only part of it. The central component of a man's role in a relationship is as the commander; the one who leads, directs, and makes the decisions. I suspect that you have fallen in…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/14 08:47 PM
1

Tell him what you expect in very clear words and see where it goes. Honestly, she should just show him to the TRP sidebar. I don't think a woman can ever tell a man that he needs to be more masculine because it has the exact opposite effect. It torpedoes his self-esteem and he finds him self in an even deeper hole then before she said anything.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 07:42 AM
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A fundamental part of being RPW is being a good mother. In fact I'd say there's probably no stronger biological imperative than a mother's love and protection of her child. It's equal to a man calmly watching his wife and children float away on the overcrowded life raft while he remains on the sinking ship. It seems like you figured this out from your post. My advice would be to keep working toward the balance you mentioned. But also be careful not to overwork yourself. You sound like you're jug…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 07:28 AM
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Seriously this. I wish whoever is making these would just fucking stop. It's annoying and it doesn't help trp.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 08:56 AM
1

Ok seriously you guys, which one of you is writing these things? Don't get me wrong trolling r/sec and TwoX is hilarious but you're starting to give me a fucking complex over here. I feel like I should be combing through my GF's old harddrives, installing keyloggers on her laptop, and interviewing all her college friends. If there are seriously this many guys who are by chance stumbling onto their wives college gangbang tape in their attic or whatever the fuck then the number of women who are su…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:35 AM
1

Well you know him better than we do. What other changes have occurred in his life? Is he styling his hair differently? Dressing better? Has he lost weight? Maybe his looks were good enough all along, and all he needed was an "artistic guy" style makeover and enough confidence to engage a women in conversation. I mean, it's like the classic saying, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take." There are a lot of guys out there who's only real problem is that they don't take shots(approach women). …
/r/askTRP21/11/14 12:30 AM
2

Seems to me you should just put yourself in the position of your roommate, OP. If your girlfriend had ridden the dick of one of your buddies while you sat stupidly oblivious one room over, like a chump, would you want to know about it? Would you want to continue pissing away time that you can't get back on a gf so slutty she can't even be trusted to go as far as the room next to yours without fucking someone?
/r/askTRP20/11/14 03:21 AM
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Asian girls have a HUGE white guy fetish. If you're a white dude and you're not going after Asian girls you are pissing away an amazing opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 09:52 PM
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Haha, good job. The way this post reads reminds me of this. EDIT: Yeah, it can mess with your head how freaky beautiful girls get on the dance floor. Sounds like you did ok. Maybe get into party planning. Best way to find a party is to start the party. Watch some Youtube videos on how to club dance and practice that shit in the privacy of your own home. No one is around so it won't be as embarrassing (although it will be a little embarrassing even if you're by yourself, lol) You should've took t…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 12:19 AM
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This came out 10 years ago and is my favorite one of these. Hilarious and disturbingly predictive.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 02:29 AM
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It's important to remember that as men our increase in SMV doesn't occur naturally as it does with women who pretty much automatically become biological rock stars in their teens and twenties. For us we have to actually work to achieve our rise in SMV. If you don't you will never have any more SMV than when you graduated high school. I've heard that college isn't for everyone. And there are plenty of anecdotal stories about guys with no degrees doing very well for themselves. And it's certainly …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 09:48 PM
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Dude the thing you need to realize about TRP and RP theory is that barring wierd outliers pretty much every single dude who is spinning plates would give it all up if he could find a sweet, trustworthy, loyal, feminine, low-to-no-N, RPW girl to wife up. We are all traditional guys at heart. We all want that white picket fence and 2.5 kids. We get tingles thinking about coming home from a hard days work to a dinner laid out for us and a doting housewife who is our 1st mate. But most of us don't g…
/r/askTRP08/11/14 12:27 PM
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Out of curiosity how does everyone here think he should have responded to the boyfriend response? I seem to get those 75%-80% of the time and have no idea what to say except something to the effect of "ok cool, have a nice day." And then walk off. Is there anything else do be done when you get the boyfriend comment?
/r/seduction07/11/14 12:17 AM
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