DreamExpedite Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Realizations and swallowing the red pill	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 05:14 AM
4	To keep your head down and work or to enjoy life ?	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	02/10/19 07:31 PM
3	What would you ask your high school self to do?	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	20/08/19 05:49 PM
3	A question on praise	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	12/10/19 02:43 PM
2	The next step	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	06/06/19 11:34 AM
2	Many aspects of the red pill don't make sense to me and while I do agree with the self improvement professed on trp, I agree with many blue pill aspects too. What do you think about this ?	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	12/12/19 05:03 PM
1	Malaise, apathy , complacency	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	02/11/19 04:52 PM
1	Too uptight and serious	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 02:44 PM
0	First lay ?	DreamExpedite	/r/askTRP	27/09/19 09:10 AM

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1	Energy Vampires I completely agree with what you have to say about the state of men right now, the state of people like me. But what I think is that while institutions and women and the state play into it, the driving force behind our lack of responsibility(which the great Canadian propounds upon a lot) isn't any of those. The driving force, in simple terms, is laziness. It's a lack of taking the reigns of your life into your own hands and doing whatever you want to with it. It's realising that you can in fact …	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/19 01:24 PM
9	My Insane 3 Year Journey - From Short Hardcase Asian to Slayer That's pretty interesting, how so ?	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/19 12:59 PM
1	Went out with my female co-worker and 5 of her female friends... EYE OPENING. Alright, I have an point of view on this that I've observed about 3 days ago Okay, so it's ModelUN, aka THE place to be if you're unattractive and wanna have your first kiss, so everybody's letting loose. People I've known from before are acting different and I never get to see people behave like they do in there. Part of why that happens is because you haven't seen most people in there before, and you won't see most people from there again. It gives you a pass to be whoever you want to be. It's…	/r/askTRP	28/08/19 04:51 PM
1	What red pill facts surprised you the most? Oh okay so it's like Price's Law and Pareto's distribution from the 12 Rules - those who have some will be given more	/r/askTRP	11/07/19 08:47 AM
22	The Rollo Pill Look man, I really appreciate your posts and you've helped me out a couple of times in the comments as well. Thank you for that. But as linked by one of the mods above, I saw the interview as well, and discussion isn't competition, cutting off a sunglass wearing, yogurt eating, robe wearing guy isn't very masculine either. Like cmon man, you're someone I look up to and it's kinda confusing what to believe and what not to - t read Rational Male or not ,to read GLO's posts or not ? Honestly, I thi…	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/19 03:59 AM
3	A Poignant Reminder of the Hypergamous Nature of Females This was a good example of female hypergamy but it didn't really tell the other side of the story very well. Yes, the women would probably do that, yes, they will not be satisfied if they think that there's something better to be had. But, men would do the same. It's important to understand that men would do the same so that we don't end up becoming incels. Men and women are not different in this aspect of wanting more and more, and we can't do anything about it. What we can do is either sit and…	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/19 08:42 AM
2	Fuck'em All: How Undifferentiation Creates Unlimited Abundance and Massive Results Can undifferentiation be extrapolated to other areas of life ? If so, can you give me an example please ?	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/19 05:00 AM
22	My Ex confessed to cheating - it's been a gift Hey man! I love your posts and slowly but surely, I've begun to really integrate TRP into my life and for that I'm grateful but I have some doubts I'll appreciate you even more if you could help solve them - I'm hitting most of the TRP notes right - from lifting more and lifting well, to cutting off an old 'BFF' of mine who I was a beta bitch for, to deciding upon my 1 year goal, but one thing is that I'm not excited about life. I'm relatively young and they say in mass media that it's the best …	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/19 03:44 PM
1	Realizations and swallowing the red pill Yknow what, I was just about to type out a long ass excuse in the form of a reply on how all of her exes are taller, that our community is conservative af or how she has experience but I have none, but fuck it. I once read somewhere that the most sinister thing about excuses is that they're valid so I won't fall back this time. I will do what's in my power. Yes. Fuck it. I'd set an aim when I was a socially awkward 15yo that I'd lose my virginity by 18 and time's running out. Fast. While I have …	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 02:06 PM
2	Realizations and swallowing the red pill I get your point, I really do and since I know that I've got nothing to lose at this point because I know she can't provide me any more value, I'm going to try and escalate. Frankly, this situation that I like to call complicated in front of friends is actually loss after loss for me in the battle of frames and part of it is because I've known her from before I've known TRP and also because I've become a pussy in general. A pussy that doesn't balls. But no, I thank you for your post and I will s…	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 01:20 PM
1	Realizations and swallowing the red pill You're just another one of her bitchy girlfriends. Don't think you aren't. Yeah you're right, now that I look back to as recently as a month ago, I've given in so much that I did stir up drama that even a 15yo me would know to be just that - worthless drama This is 100% how she feels about any and all attempts by you to "regain my frame with her." I hear ya, it's like I'm fortunately a little bit more attractive than the general population and that has hampered my development because I got thing…	/r/askTRP	31/05/19 10:28 AM
3	The power of “meh” I have a question that needs answering please - if you stay aloof and in the meh zone even with beautiful girls, you won't get excited about picking her up and if you don't get excited doing that, then what's the point of even going for the bigger prize. What I mean to say is that I think that abundance and outcome independence in this context mean that while you do not put her on a pedestal, that does not mean that you close yourself off, it means that you hold your opinions of yourself above h…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/19 04:20 AM
8	Remain Unreactive It's a great way to practice your game tho, because I'd recently shaved down my hair and it made me look weird and had a very negative impact on my performance but the numbers I got were solely because I'd gotten better skills. Good thing that I did that exactly for that very purpose	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/19 06:58 PM
18	Remain Unreactive Agree so much with you on this man, it's like one thing to get what these guys are talking about in an intellectual capacity and another to achieve that state	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/19 06:57 PM
7	Remain Unreactive Nah bro I don't think putting a finger in after having that wasabi would be a very good idea	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/19 06:48 PM
2	"Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid. You might be wrong, but you might also be right so I'm going to take my chances with you! So my question is, that after a rigorous period of self transformation which included letting go of my shyness and discovering my passion and losing 10 kilos I've found myself thinking all day long about the WHYs. You must've read them somewhere, or heard some self-help guru say it that before actions must come reasons and that is primarily what fueled me to get out of my rut of self diagnosed loneliness an…	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/19 10:51 AM
2	"Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid. About death putting everything in perspective, well that might be deep for a 14 years old Well I won't lie that hurt my ego a bit and so I left a mildly passive-aggressive comment but now that I think about it, that's more the reason to run toward this glass ceiling. So man, tell me, if I asked you a question would you help me out a bit ?	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/19 10:17 AM
3	"Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid. Well, thanks for your input	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/19 08:01 AM
2	"Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid. While I did not actually do what the sidebar said and got stuck in a loop of euphoric thoughts and realizations without doing anything with my newly found knowledge, that changed some time ago. I've left lifting for a month because of college prep but in all other areas - having a purpose and having hobbies, I'm giving it time everyday and honestly, trp has made me a lot happier. And most of the times I actually do know what frame is, it's just that my frame is wavering and changing with moods a…	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/19 01:00 AM
1	"Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid. Fuck. Okay, you are the exact kind of person every man needs in his life.	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/19 02:37 PM
2	"Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid. Since you mentioned frame, and I'm unable to really internalize it even after reading the side bar multiple times, I'd like to ask you, how would you explain frame to your 17-yo self ?	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/19 02:36 PM
5	"Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid. And that's what makes it SOO MUCH FUN. It's like you're a big ass playground and you can do anything you fucking want. That's one the reasons why I wake up happy these days tbh You seem like a cool person man, I'd like to talk with you sometime!	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/19 02:35 PM
14	"Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid. While I do agree with what you're saying about accepting the rules of this game and just getting on with it, I think that OP tried to say something that he couldn't really get through. What OP meant was the death really puts things into perspective, all that little stuff like waiting in line for hours to get that rose pink cover for your iphone and getting angry when the pizza place forgot to put in extra olives doesn't matter when you consider the fact that all of us, all of us on this whole su…	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/19 02:33 PM
1	Men initiate sex more than three times as often as women do in a long-term, heterosexual relationship. However, sex happens far more often when the woman takes the initiative, suggesting it is the woman who sets limits, and passion plays a significant role in sex frequency, suggests a new study. Don't wake me up against the potential confirmation bias man. CMON	/r/TheRedPill	16/05/19 04:20 PM
28	Men initiate sex more than three times as often as women do in a long-term, heterosexual relationship. However, sex happens far more often when the woman takes the initiative, suggesting it is the woman who sets limits, and passion plays a significant role in sex frequency, suggests a new study. Oh okay that's a very good analogy really.	/r/TheRedPill	16/05/19 04:20 PM
7	Agree and amplify is dead in 2019, Ironic Acknowledgement is for Millennial Girls Oh, I get what you're saying now! And I think that the problem is what I've experienced before and it can be a little hard to accept if you're facing the same problem I was, but please, correct me if I'm mistaken in analysing the situation - The days when agree and amplify doesn't work for me, is mostly when I'm not actually 'feeling funny'. What I mean by that is that while you can go grind at the gym even if you're not feeling it, you can't do the same with being funny. Funny can't be forced. …	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/19 12:09 AM
17	You can beat women by playing their game u/KeffirLime Seeing that you're an Endorsed Contributor,and I respect that badge so I want to ask you a question that I believe would be fundamental to the understanding of the female mind - In most modern countries, boys and girls are raised quite similarly, same schools, same movies, same pop culture, same storybooks and all other things, why then does a development occur in females that leads them to think and behave like we discuss here in TRP ? Why doesn't a similar development which may al…	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/19 06:27 PM
3	Reminder that the system is inherently misandristic: Harvard professor representing male client removed as faculty dean just for representing that male client You know I've noticed something that just reinforces the idea of female hypergamy in my blue pilled mind that wants to hold on to the rainbow reality - Ever saw a picture of a girl you know/female influencer on Instagram that has the caption 'I need money', 'Poor af' or something like that ? Chances are, yes. Ever saw a picture of a guy with a similar caption? For one, I never have. It's like people know subconsciously that a poor guy with little potential who might be attractive is not as 'valu…	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/19 10:25 AM
1	Robert Greene on Self Sufficiency Oh damn, I've never thought of that before. Can you elaborate please ?	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/19 04:02 PM
4	Field report from a kid. Yes but you're forgetting that in schools and colleges, the environment OP is prolly in, girls are at an age where they're predisposed to being horny.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/19 08:38 AM
2	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. Yes! That's the perfect analogy! I'm going to use it to remind myself when I'm slipping back to the comfort of that warm but false delusion . Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/19 12:42 PM
16	I'm learning that as a man nobody is going to step in and give me a helping hand if things go downhill. As a result I am gradually taking on more and more responsibility because I'll be damned if I go down as a victim. I'd like to add here that Uncle Vasya is 50+ himself	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/19 09:52 AM
3	I'm learning that as a man nobody is going to step in and give me a helping hand if things go downhill. As a result I am gradually taking on more and more responsibility because I'll be damned if I go down as a victim. What exactly does self awareness mean ? And what is conditioning ?	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/19 09:51 AM
8	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. That's tough :( I believed pretty solidly until about a year ago now that there had to be that ONE person for me. I believed it with all my heart and then I went through a complicated relationship and for a long time I was pretty stuck up on that girl even after the breakup. Then one day, something popped in my mind that completely changed how I looked at my ex in specific but all facets of my life in general I thought to myself, if I could choose between either having the girl but not having an…	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/19 06:57 PM
10	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. I mean on the ground people don't really approach courts for this shit but the thing is that they can, and that creates pressure enough	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/19 05:28 PM
21	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. Yeah man, that's so cruel and basically sexist. Only two things you guys can do - 1.Don't marry at all or 2.Find someone who'll die instead of divorcing	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/19 05:25 PM
1	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. Even when you marry a woman, you’re not entitled to sex with her. I shit you not that in my country a woman is basically obliged to have sex with her husband BY LAW. And if she doesn't, well then you can approach A COURT.	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/19 04:16 PM
1	Slowly transforming myself Yes I did go to the arcade because there's no mini golf in my city and it was so much fun! I was funny and cheeky and attractive, BUT I could do kino . I did hug her for a bit longer than usual when we first saw each other but after that it was just a playful punch to the shoulder or a high five here and there or squeezing her cheeks. I knew that I should do kino but I couldn't find moments to do it because I was talking TOO much, I mean there were some pretty fun stories I told but I think my a…	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/19 01:43 PM
5	Robert Greene on Self Sufficiency My elder brother played a big role in this. He's a genius and I'm not and he'd been selected in a competitive examination in which only 1000 participants were chosen nationwide which I was preparing for at the time. It was an aptitude test and I wasn't good at all in it. It mattered that I excel in that examination because my self worth depended on it, but I knew that I wasn't as smart as some of the other kids and that I was probably not going to be one of the thousand, and this ate me up. I br…	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/19 01:39 PM
10	Robert Greene on Self Sufficiency Yeah I read about that somewhere and from what I remember there's two kinds of people, one that believe that things happen TO them and the other that makes things happen. I've had a pretty good experience of switching over from the former to the latter and tbh it was a change I'd tried to make for a long time, but the switch went of in one seemingly random instant.	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/19 02:26 AM
1	It finally happened. Im single. Alright, fair enough. Good luck on the journey boi	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/19 04:13 PM
7	It finally happened. Im single. Now I'm not trying to pull off a troll on you here, I'm trying to question the strength of your foundation. If you've only seen how one woman's mind works, how can you extrapolate that to billions of other women who, given that they've been raised in different places, cultures, religions etc are the same ?	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/19 03:47 PM
-3	Slowly transforming myself Thanks, but unfortunately I won't be able to carry forward with that stupid an idea	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/19 11:17 AM
2	Slowly transforming myself But it's summer and too hot even in the evenings to not be sweaty af where I live	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/19 10:06 AM
1	Do you ever get to 'turn it off'? Like when Thor didn't need Mjonir to kick ass.	/r/askTRP	03/05/19 07:15 AM
1	[FR] She was in my bed within 60 minutes Thanks for the reminder! And to clarify, validation comes from within oneself, not in the form of positive talk or something like that, it comes in the form of action. They say that we mustn't believe what people say, but infer their intentions from what they do. So from that, if you really love yourself, which is the foundation the weakness of which leads to a NEED of validation, you must act like you love yourself. For me, I thought this up when I started running from 5 min to 10 min and final…	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/19 07:13 AM
1	[FR] She was in my bed within 60 minutes Why aren't they trying to fuck you anymore ? Computer science nerds are passionate, and passion in any form is interesting af. So what's holding you back ?	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/19 07:09 AM
17	Slowly transforming myself Then I think I began to kill the attraction by talking too much. I relate to this so damn much because there have been times when there's a fun conversation going on, and then suddenly, since I want her to be attracted to me, I start talking too much. Yes shit gets pretty funny at that point because I'm spewing out a lot of words in a very short time, and at the rate that a girl understands and laughs at what I'm saying is just too less than my pace. And then one day, as I was reading the Daily …	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/19 07:05 AM
2	Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks according to a widely-recognized female psychotherapist (Part 1) Oh man that's this is so powerful. I've saved your comment and I swear that I won't think that. Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/19 03:38 PM
11	Honest Russian women hitting all the points of hypergamy and many TRP theorys I especially agree with the latter part because we've come a long way since we no longer look for subsistence only, the people now yearn fulfilment and a lot of good guys are spreading wisdom online. Sooner or later, people will realize that women are not what they desire. In fact, my classmates no longer want to just date and get their hands moving, these guys have big dreams and goals. I love the present :)	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/19 02:59 PM
-1	Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks according to a widely-recognized female psychotherapist (Part 1) All I gather from this is that Aubrey Marcus is so damn right. It's like we want that girl of our dreams, who will NEVER leave us, who will always be attracted and attractive no matter what but at the end of the day, Aubrey says that relationships are havens that you hide all other insecurities and weaknesses under. He's in an open relationship and once, and I vividly remember it because he earned my respect for doing the same, he wished a very happy birthday to the BOYFRIEND of his girlfriend. …	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/19 02:54 PM
3	Rediscovered the Red Pill Yeah, that seems logical to me, I'll be sure to do it! Thank you Raxizhh	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/19 04:32 PM
10	Rediscovered the Red Pill I did what I think a lot of natural betas do with Red Pill Knowledge, they adopt the behaviors of an Alpha for a little while, find success and fall back to their old ways. I think that the Red Pill, and all other schools where we need to change ourselves to become better, are all about the mindset. We are stuck up on the wrong mindset, the one which is not a true reflection of either ourselves or the reality, or both and when after I realized this I always look for the mindset of the champions …	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/19 10:57 AM
2	Negative feedback loop - Not following instinct The only way to be secure and confident in yourself is to truly trust yourself and have a healthy mental image of yourself. Damn. This hit home too hard and it's crazy how when I think about stuff, something related to it pops up on trp, that's a bias/fallacy for sure but I'll tell you my story of today - Today I woke up and felt like I hadn't in 4 months. I won't say that the sun shone brighter because I was up before it. I was grateful for waking up, I was grateful that my father had survived …	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/19 02:14 PM
2	Reaching the "Saturation Point" for True Abundance Hey man I realize that abundance is a tenet of TRP and I assume that it flows over from the dating aspect to other sectors of life. I've gotten pretty abundant with girls, because even though I live in a preeeeettty conservative society and I can't go out frequently because of college prep, I do regularly make out and stuff in the events I attend(fests, self improvement yada yada) . I'm pretty confused with what I should do at this stage because I know that confidence is not what you get before …	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/19 03:40 PM
5	Never Truly Lived Hey man, I'm going through something similar right now, thinking that we're stuck in a cycle and then something I read really stuck in my head and it definitely made my day a whole lot better. One of the things that psychiatrists/therapists do to break the depression loop is called a circuit break, aka pattern interrupt. When you're in the wheel of bullshit each loop seems anew because you are in fact going somewhere, although that is actually just an illusion, your brain doesn't seem to care. T…	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/19 01:17 PM
3	Stop Worrying About Indicators of Interest I learned a lot from the post but just a minor correction - Girls don't LACK testosterone, they just have substantially low amounts in general when compared with that of men. And to follow up on that, imagine, you have shitloads of test when compared with women- which basically means that you're decisive,competetive yada yada , and they have shitloads of estrogen -which leads them to feel too much, ie, they are slaves of their emotions. I just thought this up and it explains so much because I al…	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/19 05:54 AM
3	Be thoroughly logical about what you want from women and what you're prepared to pay for it Okay true that but why is it that everywhere, every post on TRP has comments just firing away at feminism ? Sure, I understand that it's a farce made by women for women, and that TRP is a safe place to discuss that yada yada, but man you've gotta let the resistance go man. Letting the resistance go means not really accepting reality, once you accept it you can either sit around and do nothing OR you can change stuff. But living with this negativity of thought WITHOUT initiative of action is a wa…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/19 10:44 AM
6	Women aren't rational, learn to revel in their irrationality, or die Fuck yes man. Because I was getting kinda obsessed with my girlfriend AFTER I'd cheated (wtf right) and then she, rationally, had started to cut me off. And then after like a week I realized nobody owes you any fucking thing. They might BELIEVE that they owe you but that's all. That also extrapolated over to my best friend, with whom I'd cheated on my girlfriend and then I'd also started to become obsessed with her (see a pattern here ?). And this applied over to SO MANY things. Once I realized …	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/19 04:46 AM
1	How to Avoid Validation Traps That hits right at home and I'll be sure to integrate it into my life! BTW there's this simple life hack I use to remember stuff that I need to internalize 24x7 and I think it might be useful to you too - just right it down onto your hand. For example, there's this guy named Gary vaynerchuk and he's amazing and one of his tenets that applies universally is a mixture of gratitude and perception. I simply wrote it down on my right hand for three-four days and now it's a ghost tattoo. It's there fo…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 07:34 AM
1	How to Avoid Validation Traps That's such a great idea!! I'm all up for it. Free on Saturday?	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 07:30 AM
2	How to Avoid Validation Traps I did not understand that, could you please elaborate? Thanks!	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 07:29 AM
2	Can a woman ever truly love you? Whoooooa. Fucking amazing. This shit is literally so perfectly on Tim because I'm having realization after realization and the one I had yesterday can be beautifully illustrated with an example. A man would say "I love her so much" while a woman would say "I love how he makes ME FEEL". And the difference is pretty clear that while men get attached to the person who gives them the feelz, women are smart enough to attach themselves to the feelz themselves. Also, I had a question on my mind but it …	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 04:55 AM
1	Can a woman ever truly love you? Wow that's extremely articulate because it is literally the polar opposite of what seems to be ideal love nowadays - unequalled and unconditional	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 04:50 AM
2	How to Avoid Validation Traps Wow this is amazing man and so in time, because today I was beating myself up over how I'm on a downward spiral from being full of emotions and resolve to just being apathetic and I realized slowly that it was because I was channeling my emotions from the expressions of the same of others. It was euphoric and while I'm certainly not back to where I was a month ago, you can be sure that I am getting back for sure. One thing I'm still struggling with, however, is the fact that I ploughed through t…	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/19 03:09 PM
1	MAWAD Thanks!	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/19 08:20 AM
3	MAWAD Hey man, I really liked the perspective you offered on this post but I had a question related to the topic - how do you go from reading content like this to internalising it?	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/19 12:11 AM
1	Why comparing yourself to your local community is more beneficial than comparing yourself to the internet community Alright then, thanks! And man, you look like you're pretty redpilled judging by your comment, and I being a very new to trp(~3 weeks) so while I am consuming the sidebar, it's as if I have to remember the concepts and experience from my classes tells me that if you have to LEARN the concept as in memorise it, you haven't understood it yet completely. For example, when I'm in school(where I used to be pretty awkward about 2 years ago) I need to constantly read what's written on my palms - Alpha i…	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/19 12:36 AM
1	Why comparing yourself to your local community is more beneficial than comparing yourself to the internet community To add to your point, looking at the giants may motivate you to get as good as they are but you've to remember what the Sherpas tell people when they're climbing mountains - Don't look at the summit. They say this because while you're looking at the top, you can't focus on each step. You shouldn't always keep your head down either because there's smart work involved as well, but I would say that climbing the steps from best-in-social circle to best in town and so on to finally best-in-the world …	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/19 12:44 PM
2	Men Are Born To Compete I completely agree with what you say and in fact, I believe that when I face a real, solid competition, it not only drives me to do better but also that I enjoy the process even more. That being said, often there are times when I'm in social situations I just shut myself off. It's like I don't feel anything at that point, I just close myself off. Can anyone solve this please?	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/19 07:14 AM
1	What is Best in Life? Alright, fair enough. My attempt at being a wise philosopher comes to an end then	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/19 12:48 AM
2	What is Best in Life? Completely agree. Thirst for power without a purpose is to fill in a void but thirst for power for a purpose that you feel is greater than yourself is what makes the difference. Someone could, for example, earn enormous amounts of money to give back to TRP and support it in it's hard times which at least for me is a very good utilization of that resource. And as Tony Robbins says - Power, money, it doesn't change you, it merely gives you the ability to magnify your personality and actions.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/19 02:40 PM
1	Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beauty Also, I have another doubt that needs clearing, if you'd be so helpful- The redpill community believes with all their heart that women will be immensely attracted to power, money and status. I can't get my head around being so cynical though. Like I do understand it's not all unicorns and rainbows and that if you're a leader or something while being good looking, girls will come after you, but while I don't doubt the tried and tested nature of trp lessons, I just can't get myself to believe that…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/19 04:22 PM
1	Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beauty Yes! I am actually pretty grateful for this community, guys like you and the Internet in general. I mean, it's fucking magic the world we live in everyday. I try to practice gratitude everyday to keep things in the correct perspective but I regularly fail to do so. Do you practice gratitude as well, if so could you help me out with my inability to feel grateful for all I have most of the time? And thanks for the book recommendations, it's summer vacation right now and while I do have my college …	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/19 04:18 PM
2	Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beauty Where many go wrong is they associate their self-worth Yesssss! Exactly!!! I wasn't able to articulate it as well as you did in this extremely helpful and thoughtful reply, but I had this same realization a few days ago.What I realized was that it's your life, it's your experience and nothing else matters. If you do anything because of fear of its consequences and not because you love it/it adds to something you love, it's just not worth wasting your precious few moments. The immediate next step…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/19 06:51 AM
5	Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beauty I understand what you're saying. but you're missing the point on this one. People who do this are concerned about their bodies, we all are. And as I said, there's no downsides to it. In fact, what I've observed is that like focusing on breathing, when you focus on keeping a particular posture of the jaw and tongue it kicks you back into the present - mindfulness, which is vastly helpful and gives you an edge in the money-making sector where all of the others are lost in mindless routines. And ab…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/19 04:01 AM
3	Being the Wolf & Being the Sheep in Wolf's Clothing I feel like trp is modern stoicism, and more. It's more than just trying to get laid I realize after 3 weeks in here and it's about living on your own terms, living like a true man. I'm really, really grateful for this community	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/19 05:22 AM
17	Being the Wolf & Being the Sheep in Wolf's Clothing I love this man. I love how you can articulate something that somewhere we all feel and just hit the bullseye. And especially that last line “The key to not giving a fuck isn’t trying to not give a fuck. The key is caring about something so much that nothing else matters.” I am in awe of how good you are at this. Please, teach me.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/19 05:20 AM
15	Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beauty The good thing is that there is no downside to mewing. It's actually good for your general health because it does stuff like prevent mouth breathing, overbite , speaking at an extremely high pitch etc. But man, I still don't know about the aesthetic parts. So you should probably try it out, but yeah, don't get high hopes	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/19 06:06 PM
63	Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beauty I'm sorry to tell you this man, that while that proper tongue posture is beneficial to health,I've been doing it religiously since about 6 months now and there are no aesthetic improvements after you've passed puberty or something	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/19 05:09 PM
5	Don't play the "Feelings Game" Make this newbie understand why please, explain why you think that	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/19 05:54 AM
1	Which Sweater Should I Wear? Alright yeah! So men are literal while women aren't, so when she's letting the man choose her sweaters, she's actually just portraying dependency and trust. Thanks for the reply man, I appreciate it	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/19 11:06 PM
1	Which Sweater Should I Wear? Wow okay, that's really understanding of you because you found the fallacy there. Yeah I that is exactly where I faulted because lately I've been unravelling my insecurity of the need for external validation. I'm not looking away from the problem and assuming it doesn't exist by being all douchey and stuff, but I'm really trying to look hard at it. And yeah, that is really the crux my insecurity that I became one step closer to solving today, and you just topped the cake with a big ass cherry ma…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/19 03:46 PM
1	Which Sweater Should I Wear? I'm a newbie here so tell me the flaw in my proposition but I think that if she needs you to pick the restaurant, pick the sweater, plan the trips, have a contingency plan etc, and she just wants to ride along, that's not something I'd want really. Especially if it's an ltr, if you're investing all that time into someone, you may restrain yourself from investing your heart, but I don't think that just physical stuff is worth all that time. With that time, what you should get in return, the least…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/19 03:16 AM
1	Why using just one word 'love' to describe a wide spectrum of phenomena has mislead a generation. All love belongs to either need or abundance. Wow okay I don't really know why people aren't getting behind what you're saying but I for one can definitely say that this post shattered some walls in my mind. What you say may or may not be new, idk, but the way you said it has given me some revelations. It's like if you don't know exactly what the destination looks like, or where it is, you can't possible reach it. Ever. And even if you do, you can't be sure. And if you would do me a favour, please elaborate and explain this paragraph of you…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/19 03:07 AM
2	Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned. As they say the simple things are the most impactful . Thank you CasaDeFranco, I appreciate you taking out the time to reply!	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/19 04:02 AM
2	Salty Lemonade Oh yeaaah that's so good. I really admire how articulate you are which tells me that you understand the behind-the-scenes mechanics of all this. And again, correct me if I'm wrong please, but I now think with your inputs that TRP is the collective knowledge pool of trials and errors and finding out what works. The theory behind it is given only to back up our observations and provide us with the necessary understanding. That being said, the more important thing is the methods that work, not the …	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/19 03:59 AM
1	Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned. That's a great solution and you seem like you've figured it out, but what about the others? Others who think that showing and owning weaknesses is not strong, but actually weak? Those who bottle up their emotions to the point of not talking about it even once? And especially those men who pretend to not have any problems for so long that their LTR might be in the relationship for precisely that unproblematic, strong and perfectly fake individual? And as an additional favour, if you would answer …	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/19 03:08 AM
2	Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned. Hey man, you send off a good mental image in the fact that you are real and don't poetry yourself to be uber Chad. Only because of that quality, I feel like you're thoughtful and qualified enough to answer my question. Firstly, a lil background info on me, my father, knowingly or unknowingly is masculine AF naturally, but didn't ever cheat, and my mother is a pretty strong person as well. Because of that, I believe in something that might be looked down upon in trp called vulnerability in a rela…	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/19 02:37 AM
4	Salty Lemonade I think I can understand what you're saying papunigga but as a curious and nosy newbie, I have a question - Evolutionary psychology is what supports much of trp knowledge. This may or may not be backed by studies, and while I don't question the integrity of the people who give us trp knowledge, my question is, how far can I go in my own life to explain behaviours, reactions and observations with evolutionary psychology? Oh and as another favour, if you could give me some actionable steps to do a…	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/19 02:24 AM
3	Women's Existential Fear Oh fuck what you said is so cool!!! And correct me if I'm wrong, but I think what you're saying is that you have to do to learn. Like what you're saying is that the red pill is a herd as well, with only the top of understanding why it works, why someone should follow and stuff, and even with the best intentions that they might have, it inevitably leads to a herd because the people neither put in the effort nor the time it understand the 'Why'. So it becomes something that it swore to destroy- co…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/19 02:30 PM
1	How being yourself can go from drying pussy out to giving water to Africa I don't quite understand what you're trying to say and neither do I agree with it, but I'll get back to it tomorrow morning with an open mind when the day hasn't beaten me up yet. Thanks for being alive! I wish you all the best in whatever you might want to achieve in life. BTW, if you don't mind me asking, what is it that you want to achieve in life?	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/19 02:16 PM
3	How being yourself can go from drying pussy out to giving water to Africa I agree with the mod of the subreddit that taught me most of the social knowledge I now possess, but to add, I believe that being yourself includes changing and improving yourself because as humans, we have an innate desire for progress. Self acceptance is also included in being yourself, but it isn't the same as staying the same, self-acceptance is accepting that you're shitty as of this moment, because you are and that's the truth and being yourself means accepting that truth and also striving…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/19 04:46 AM
1	Women's Existential Fear Yes, I completely agree with what you're saying. What low-grade sociopathy is is actually being normal, not being congruent with what others expect or explicitly tell you to do and just being yourself I think. As a personal anecdote, I previously used to be pretty extroverted and manly in the sense that I was going around hitting people's backs, putting out blatant insults and just being a general asshole(not a redpill one, just a piece of shit). This was because I was emulating what I thought w…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/19 04:15 AM