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Don't worry, it's not controversial. Most of the girls who go there are just trying to get more views/followers. Which I guess works. The guys in the comments be complaining about those girls but seek out what those girls offer. 😅 It's just a vicious circle.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 11:23 AM
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This. Those men think all a woman needs is their money to receive their unconditional love and loyalty. They don't offer anything else. Their money is their personality.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 02:36 PM
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I feel like people forget to be their own person these days. What you described is healthy, I wish more people thought this way.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:34 PM
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I mean if you want something to happen, yes. Men and women should initiate. Whoever shows interest first. Can't always just wait around or play mind games or hope in silence.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 07:44 PM
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I think you should seek to be around people who value you and your time. I've read some of the answers and your answers to them and from what I gathered, you two don't really seem on the same page. That's not a good start. Sometimes, insecurities make us not take action. They make us stick around longer than we should for various reasons. I'm a very average looking woman and normally don't attract the eye of guys in general. So when this one guy showed interest in me, I sort got caught in that f…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 05:48 PM
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Oof she should run while she can. That guy she's with is not only getting scammed but also, he's part of a cult, knowingly or not.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 02:59 PM
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This. It all comes down to trust.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 06:10 PM
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Bet none of them are praying or even believing in God. They just use the Bible to suit their needs and narrative.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 12:23 PM
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I didn't know that! That's pretty f-ed up.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 02:08 AM
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I've seen a few clips. From what I've seen of his podcast, I'd say I like them more than F&F as they are a bit less aggressive in the way they speak but meh. I still think they only really bring the same type of superficial girls as guests. It's a bit annoying because they try to say every woman is the same, always bring up OF or IG as an argument while most women out there aren't even on that. They make it seem like every woman is sex hungry or selling their body. I find it insulting that they …
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 11:41 PM
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What are you on about? The fact you think every girl was or is promiscuous is actually mind blowing. Majority of people don't have many partners. Many studies prove it. ●Previous research suggests that men report extreme numbers of lifetime partners more often than women do (Jeannin et al., 1998). In Natsal-3, the 99th percentile was 110 partners for men but only 50 for women. ●A 2017 survey of 2,180 people from the U.S. and Europe from U.K. health service Superdrug Online Doctor found women had…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 09:05 PM
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I get your point, but that's not my point. All I'm saying is that women who do that are most likely not looking for something serious. So if as a man, you seek something serious, a saturday night at the club/bar most likely won't be fructuous.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 08:35 PM
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I'm confused why this is under my comment 🤔
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 07:58 PM
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Their goal is to be "high value men". On what standards do they base themselves on to qualify what's high value? F&F want to get girls. Alright, sure. But down the road, what even is the point of that? In what way is it going to fulfill their life? Maybe in the present they will feel like kings but later on, they'll realize they've built nothing significant with their life, they'll end up kings of nothing. And the sad part is that they think they are right in their ideology and promoting it to l…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 03:05 PM
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This. They literally base their view of women by looking at instagram models or women who use their body for success. Or they look at RedPill shorts trying to convince everyone those women are a majority. Women in real life aren't nearly as obsessed with their appearance or materialistic. Most are realistic, practical and hardworking and looking for a genuine guy to build a life with. Most of them aren't out partying every saturday night in skimpy outfits where you hangout. Those who hangout the…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 02:58 PM
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"Most girls aren't loyal" What do you base that on? In fact, many studies say that women are more loyal and trustworthy in a relationships. Of course, there will always be some that aren't but thinking most girls aren't loyal is just wrong, and it's a mentality that is harmful to your view of dating in general. That's actually a very RP view to have. So you're telling me you don't seek a relationship with the girls. What do you want from them? Just something sexual? I feel like you don't need de…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 05:10 PM
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Anxiety comes from fear of rejection, embarrassment and lack of self-esteem. You specifically mentioned you are anxious "texting" with girls which tells me you probably never met them in person. Else, you'd be more comfortable texting to them if you knew them IRL and they already know who you are as a person..it's literally just like talking to a friend with a side of flirting here and there. What do you fear exactly? Everyone gets rejected and that's not a big deal. Now you said you have 3 or 4…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 04:18 PM
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I think it's good for people to explore their sexuality, and learn what they like, should it be a woman or a man (but I really like the idea of only being intimate with your partner, no promiscuity) I'm not for one-night stands, for example. I personally wouldn't wish my partner to have had TOO many partners... I'm thinking 10+ depending on his age, is starting to be a lot. I'm not super experienced so I'd feel a lot of pressure being with someone with a lot of experience or able to compare me t…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 11:29 PM
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I'd personally get away from the internet for some time or limit myself to a couple hours a day. Find hobbies that speak to me and make me get out of my home. Go on a camping trip with friends, no phones, just nature, living the life, or anything really. Just get out of my home and my head for a minute... Often, people get stuck on social medias and forget that reality is out there. It's easier to self-reflect when you don't have a distraction or mean people trying to put you down.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 10:33 PM
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Most women will come only with clitoris stimulation. If you know how to pleasure your partner, take the time and show love, use your tongue, fingers, and pay attention to her needs, I can guarantee you she won't care about your size. I've seen this short on YT the other day and I couldn't agree more: https://youtube.com/shorts/s8uK9APsPTQ?feature=share
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 05:48 PM
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It definitely could be! I personally had depression and took a lot of weight. I didn't want to go to therapy, i didn't want to get medication prescribed (because I saw what it did to my friend, the effects, she seemed lethargic and didn't look happy even) and I was like, I don't want to live like this. So I told myself I had to do something and work on myself. And you know, I'm still working on myself, but I'm much happier now that i've set my goals and keep motivating myself. I've lost weight i…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 04:26 PM
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You said it yourself "you feel like" the world is divided into good and bad people. The reality is, everyone is gray. Do you think a charitable person, who's fundraising for sick children has never done anything wrong? What you see now, is what they show you, what person they choose to be at the present. It's good to be critical and aim to improve, and that's one of the only values I agree with when it comes to RP ideology. Self improvement is a good thing, and it actually shows you are a good p…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 04:01 PM
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I think the best way to overcome this is to look forward, work toward being the best person you can be. Not only for others but for yourself as well. Accept you've done wrong and move on to brighter days. Even if you might have acted like a jackass then, what matters is how you wish to be from now on. You've already apologized to that girl and she somewhat forgave you, from what you mentioned.. now you need to forgive yourself. You aren't unredeemable.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 03:04 PM
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All the women in my vicinity that I've spoken to about this subject all said they wouldn't go even NEAR a man like that. Those men pretending and bragging about being alphas are actually pretty scary to most women. They are toxic, have low self-esteem and most likely anger issues and controlling behavior, which are issues that usually lead to abuse, should it be emotional, physical or psychological. We'd rather go for a man we know we'll feel safe and loved. When we say we want to feel protected…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 07:46 PM
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You got it.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 07:35 PM
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Most redpill men mistake being "alpha" with being "asshats". Women tend to like men who are confident and have leadership sure, but who are also protective and genuinely caring. I won't fall for anyone who is cold, have no consideration of others and who I can't connect emotionally with. It's a waste of time dating those men, because they treat relationships like they are doing business. Everything is a trade for them, almost vengeful when they don't get what they want. And honestly, I stay away…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 05:59 PM
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You forgot the: men can impregnate many women and know for a fact who's the mother but women can't know for a fact who the father is if she sleeps with many men. Forgot how they say it but you get the idea xD they like to blurt that one even if it has nothing to do with the subject. And they like to forget parternity tests are a thing..
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 07:57 PM
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You can only achieve a surface level of happiness that way. It's good to take care of yourself and have goals but relationships require more than superficial stuff.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:18 PM
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I don't think it can be done voluntarily. It's really a mental issue where the effects are felt physically. It's like a tube that's squeezed shut. Nothing can go in. Sometimes it stems from childhood trauma and it's a way for the body to protect itself. Or sometimes it's because of religion or beliefs or the indoctrination that "sex" is a bad/shameful thing. Sadly, it's a deeper issue that takes time to fix. 😔
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 06:45 PM
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Here's a quick definition: It's the body's automatic reaction to the fear of some or all types of vaginal penetration. Whenever penetration is attempted, your vaginal muscles tighten up on their own. You have no control over it. Occasionally, you can get vaginismus even if you have previously enjoyed painless penetrative sex. Basically, it's the vagina refusing any type of penetration. Since it's the muscles tightening up, it's almost impossible to have sex or have sex without any pain. It's a v…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 11:30 AM
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She is very well spoken and calm and I think the same way as her. I also find it interesting that she brought up the physical issues women who repress their sexuality due to shame or religion etc. can experience. Vaginismus being one of the biggest issues I personally encountered myself, and still struggle with. Kayla had great points. Also I couldn't stand the argumentative asian girl. Her points didn't really make sense to be honest.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 12:01 AM
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I can see your point, but I still think asking for a paternity test is blantantly implying that you believe your partner cheated. Like I said, I personally would agree to it, cause I'm not a cheater, and have nothing to hide but I would feel hurt that my partner thought I might've cheated.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/23 03:41 AM
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There are many women who don't care about height. If the man being a bit shorter than what the girl usually likes is a deal breaker, then you're safe from that shallow girl. It's okay to have preferences but to deny a great potential partner just because he is two inches shorter than what you prefer is the dumbest, most superficial thing I've ever heard. They may be skipping on the best man 🤷‍♀️ but their loss I guess. Don't worry about your height. A woman with her value in the right place will…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 06:29 PM
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Agreed here!
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 02:24 PM
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I understand the mentality of "if she has nothing to hide" and I agree with that saying. But I think the feeling of not being trusted by your partner is heart breaking. To accuse someone of cheating when they didn't and would never, to challenge their love...to demand a test just proves how convinced you are that they are cheating. To me, it would most likely break something between my partner and I. I would do it to appease him but just thinking about it makes me feel cold and I honestly don't …
/r/ExRedPill26/02/23 02:45 PM
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I think they mean modern feminism
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 12:27 AM
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I'd say, it's the response to modern* feminism. Because modern feminism is just the other side of the coin when it comes to toxicity.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:57 PM
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There is nothing wrong in not sleeping around, as a girl or a guy. It just shows you value deeper connections over fleeting pleasure. And honestly, only Redpillers really gives a damn about bodycounts because of their own insecurities. If you know who you are, what you want in life, then you should keep doing you.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:53 PM
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Find a man to have babies with before you're 30, is almost guaranteed to make you a single mother in this day and age. And then they demonize those single mothers for the father of the babies leaving them, where they have to raise the kids alone. Seriously, women can't catch a break in this RP universe. They are the source of evil apparently.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 03:50 PM
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Happy to help! 😁
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 10:36 PM
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You know, the whole "women like abs" is a RP mentality. It's men with abs saying women prefer men with abs. I can guarantee you that women all over the world have different taste. Some like tall men, some like short men, some like blue eyes, others like darker skin, etc. It's a matter of preferences. Everyone has them. You have them too. As a woman myself, I'm not attracted to guys with abs whatsoever. Most of the time, I find that they are obsessed with their appearance and that puts me off. Th…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 08:13 PM
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I think you have a lot of work to do on yourself. Self reflexion. We always think that other people have it easier than us but really I think they've adapted to who they are and worked around stuff they can and can't do. I understand the pain of loneliness and feeling like you aren't worth much compared to others. Something my mom told me when I was younger is that "there will always be someone better than you". It sounds very negative if you take this quote literally but deeper than that it's a…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 07:13 PM
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There is no 'cheat code'. She either likes you or she doesn't. Just like some women makes you indifferent while you can find others attractive. Like someone else mentioned, be organic in your approach. Be interested in her person and not just because she's pretty. If you both can connect over a similar hobby or passion, it's even better. Just be your genuine self.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 05:36 PM
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How to be a PoS 101.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 02:28 PM
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When I reached 18, many older men made me uncomfortable. It was almost predatory. I'm very conservative and shy and never gave it to advances I didn't feel were good for me. As a matter of fact, I only had my first time at 25. Now I'm almost 28 and and men don't really "chase" me. I thought it would bother me, but it doesn't really. I find it more peaceful in a way, to not be desired for the wrong reasons. It's nice to know that men who approach me now are genuinely interested in me rather than …
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 08:30 PM
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Not every woman is looking for a 6'0"+ man. And those who solely focus on a man's height to date are probably not ones you want to date. Find a woman who will like you for YOU. Many women are short and aren't looking to have cramps in their neck. Just keep healthy, stay clean and be yourself.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 11:41 PM
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