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You brought up me bitching and not getting a woman. Seriously can you make single comment without gaslighting? Jfc, the victimhood is real. It was a response to you saying it's bribery and prostitution. Were you talking about you? Is your gf/wife threatening you? 😂 You can talk about other people but I can't? Get over it. We were talking about the situation in general. Mental gymnastics and hypocrisy are partners they are not mutually exclusive. Hypocrisy is holding an opinion for one group and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:26 PM
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Also stop making assumptions about my personal life, this is the story of female entailment to men's votes, it has nothing to do with me. You're taking it personally. It applies to any man that thinks a relationship status is controlling his opinion. Wow mental gymnastics's never cease. Now it's mental gymnastics? At least it's not hypocrisy. Do you know what that word means? Clearly not the way you're using it. this is the story of female entailment to men's votes No, your vote is private. We c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:59 PM
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Also threatening to leave a relationship over personal choices that your partner makes is classified as controlling and abusive, by our feminist overlords. There's nothing controlling about leaving. Leaving is a boundary. I would leave my husband if he started spouting shit like Trump. He would leave me if I started saying the same. That's called having healthy self respect. Not to mention that it also sounds like both prostitution and bribery. Not being with you isn't bribery or prostitution. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:45 PM
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Men don't like that they can’t have an opinion or stance and be free from judgment on it. That's all this comes down to and women have a right to leave those men if they're going to vote against their interests. That doesn’t prevent any man from voting how he wants and finding women that agree with his choices. Access to pussy and approval isn't the same as denying you the right to your opinions and voting for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:22 PM
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My being with or leaving a man over personal values has nothing to do with how you vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:16 PM
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This was me. He got a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:14 PM
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I'm only 27!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:12 PM
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Why is it not okay for a man to be on Tinder while he is in a committed, monogamous relationship, when it was perfectly okay when he was single? Where did these women agree to not party or whatever like a man agrees to be monogamous? He made a choice for himself. He doesn't get to make a choice for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:11 PM
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They assume everything you do is to get the attention of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:56 PM
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That's why you have the establishment and monogamy talk. Open relationships and casual dating are also a thing and people stay on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:55 PM
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I respect this assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:52 PM
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You get to use your judgment and cast your vote for yourself and the women in your life. You do. "we have every right to demand that the men in our lives do better by us. We have to use our voices to make these choices clear to the men that we love." We do. Being in your life is our choice. Leave men that don't support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:50 PM
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I apparently hurt myself and Idk what I did. For the last 2 days my left calf muscle has been killing me when l walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:44 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:10 PM
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Men are free to dress however, flirt, or approach. No one is free from judgment. Women get slutshamed and everything else for having sex, flirting, or whatever too. Men aren't being oppressed by facing the same judgments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:01 PM
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Breaking up with him isn't denying him opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:30 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:21 PM
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I'm not a big pancake person, but everyone else in the house loves them. I do love a good fluffy waffle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:17 PM
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What will you do if your parents don't accept her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:15 PM
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How do you like your pancakes? Thick and fluffy or thin?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:12 PM
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I have 2 older brothers. We're 13 and 7 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:07 PM
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Mind reading is now repeated conversations that he ignores?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:24 PM
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You have a reason to take them. I don't understand why women take hormones for birth control. I wouldn't risk messing up my body unless I had a problem like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:51 PM
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She's cute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:46 PM
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I wouldn't take anything that messed with my hormones unless I had a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:43 PM
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We wouldn't be together if that weren't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:48 AM
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I would rather adopt in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:18 PM
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I don't expect any man to protect me. I wouldn't have taken the same actions as you, but everyone is different. I don't think staying near a stranger is somehow protecting them. What I find weird is that so many men swear up and down that men are dangerous and then get upset and call women sexist for also thinking men are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:13 PM
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I would not be with any man that isn't treating me exactly how I want. That's it. I don't give a shit about anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:27 PM
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I edit for spelling. I do not change my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:37 AM
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I am just wondering why they are so comfortable generalizing their preferences to the point of defending it like they have a hill to die on. Men on here do the same thing and then say any man that disagrees is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:01 AM
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That's not the same because you can easily compare your wants and preferences to other people within your gender. That's exactly what every example you posted has done. You seem confused when one woman says we want stability and another says we want someone not boring. They're posting their preferences no differently than men saying men don't like women with tattoos. Only you are confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:42 PM
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That's what happens when your life experience is derived of internet opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:55 PM
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I guess men need to have a summit and decide what they want, but until then you can't trust what they're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:24 PM
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And the worst about this is that most of the time, they don't even try to correct each other. They just sit there and let whoever is reading believe whatever they want to believe. So, it makes no sense to fault men for coming to their own conclusions. I don't know why anyone, man or woman, would expect any singular person to be able to speak for a gender and not take those statements as "l think most men/women want". Men say the same exact things. Men don't want fat women. Men want young women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:20 PM
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I would laugh my ass off if a man suggested that under any circumstances. I need a man that understands adult actions have consquences and he is willing to face them if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:47 PM
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We tell women to meet men in public spaces with others around for their personal safety. Don't go to a man's house unless you're looking for more. Don't travel alone with male friends. Is it sexist when women do it or only when men do it? It protects women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:43 PM
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any women from more traditionally dominate cultures are inherently more likely to be feminine and traditional than most modern women of the west She'd also be the least likely to leave to a new country on her own and she most likely wouldn't have the means to support herself if she wanted that. She's looking for a husband in her own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:33 PM
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Neither gender should obligated or expected to be a provider or stay at home parent. I wouldn't want that in my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:14 PM
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Yes. They will always have been raped regardless of their feelings about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:07 PM
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What if I call the police? Press charges. He’s convicted. Or not it gets thrown out. She still, persists. That it’s not rape. It’s not grooming. None of this has anything to do with the fact that your child was raped. Your little child was raped. What they think about it or court status doesn't matter. They were raped. You're free to say that your 8 year old or whatever age was not raped because they called it love and nobody was convicted, but it doesn't make them less of a victim. What are my …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:35 PM
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Let's say God forbid, that someone rapes your little child. Your child doesn't see it as rape. They were groomed. They think they wanted it. They have no negative associations with it for the rest of their life. Are you really going to say for even a single second that they're not a rape victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:46 PM
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To mentally, no longer identify as a victim. Presumably it takes conscious choice, to not wallow, to not dwell upon her victimhood? You don't choose to get past trauma. You work through what you can of it. It's not always choice to not be able to process it. Does any of that make her less abused by you, aka an abuse victim? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:36 PM
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Happy anniversary!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:32 PM
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Yes. It does make her that. Does that mean that she has to mentally wallow in it? No, but that's not what being a victim of something means either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:29 PM
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Most fruits, vegetables, and meal replacement drinks followed by whatever my stomach can handle for the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:12 PM
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Subsequently, does that then mean this abused person will always be a victim? Can your ex ever be someone that wasn't physically assaulted by you? Can her mindset physically change what you did? It can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:48 PM
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A banana and 2 mandarin oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:38 PM
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Being a virgin wasn't really his business in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:42 PM
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Historically, have you ever went out with a guy you knew you would never sleep with, just for lunch/dinner/breakfast, if so was it more than once? No. Historically, have you made any guy you were attracted to wait to sleep with you while going out with him? No, we were hooking up months before ever getting into a relationship. He's the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:32 PM
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I am pro choice, but I would never have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:05 PM
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Children should ideally have state provided income that pays for any is only used for their needs. Plenty of parents of both genders suck and don't support their children. she will have to take an enormous lifestyle hit This shouldn't be a factor in child support. Outside of being raped she chose to have sex and risk a pregnancy. Outside of banned abortion she chose to give birth. She chose to keep it. She, as all parents do, are choosing to have and keep a child knowing the financial hit they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:57 PM
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This is ridiculous. Your feelings do not change reality. An abused person was objectively abused regardless of their personal feelings on the topic. This particular mindset is used to gaslight victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:04 PM
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nobody is trading coochie for money The moment she stops fucking him regardless of the rest of it. That's all that matters. Men will admit it themselves. That's why they're with her. She's a lifelong purchased prostitute. except for gold diggers, sugar babies and other sex workers They don't have to fuck them to get the money. All they have to do is let guys think they have a chance at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:51 PM
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there is no world in which prostitution is respected Traditional marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:38 PM
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I lied about my past to my now husband. I didn't ask about his past. I knew several of the girls that he hooked up with before me and it didn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:58 PM
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It's on both to foster a relationship conducive to wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:09 PM
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Those are your most likely rapist. It's not some random person at party or bar. Due diligence would be treating every man in your circle, including your relatives and spouse, as a rapist. Is that what women need to do to stop being victim blamed for the crimes against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:38 PM
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I would use this definition too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:50 AM
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It's not victim blaming, it's advising awareness and agency Ladies! Never have male friends or family around you without a pack of women and NEVER date or have relationships. Those men are statistically the most likely to rape you and you don't want it to be your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:36 AM
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Oh no! Not the dreaded logic!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:34 AM
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It's not that it's calmer. We're not 16 anymore. There's 4 kids including a baby in my house. There's not time to have sex multiple times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:53 PM
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The only time I have heard of it from friends is long term stress like a death, job loss, or their relationship isn't being maintained by one side or both. It doesn't "just happen" and a lot of people forget that when they get into a relationship. Being committed can't be the finish line for your efforts with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:45 PM
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i sure as shit dont mention i spend time with my ex on dates. I wouldn't bother calling them an ex if the friendship is real. There's no need to keep living in a past relationship. They're a friend or they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:22 PM
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Very short term after childbirth or extremely stressful situations. It's never lasted longer than a few weeks at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:16 PM
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I know several of them, including myself, but they're not uncommon. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/social-instincts/202108/how-often-friends-become-lovers?origin=serp_auto
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:10 PM
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A lot of people are friends before they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:08 PM
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Challenge you to reach new goals or to try new things?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:01 PM
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It says to me that the person doesn't value relationships unless they're getting exactly what they want out of it. They're disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:59 PM
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Not being able to maintain a friendship with any of your exes would be a dealbreaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:54 PM
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Not being able to maintain a friendship with any of your exes would be a dealbreaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:54 PM
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Welcome back, Keeby!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:41 PM
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Assume you love all of them. That would be an incorrect assumption. Kids, husband, father in law/grandfather
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:26 PM
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She agrees with the comment that men care more about male appearances vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:18 PM
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You know she said it's not their appearance, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:13 PM
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abut in this question the man is already being assaulted by the women and the question was about wethere Ior not it. is acceptable to retaliate v God damn, I didn't realize men were being forced to date these women against their will. When did that happen? He should leave. She should leave. Leave them instantly. Relationships are a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:28 PM
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Agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:26 PM
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At least 30%. I already said nobody should be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:23 PM
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Are you actively trying to turn her off and to get her to look at other options while you cry about other women? Instant next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:19 PM
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Yeah, women really think they are doing you a favor by just doing the basic of what a partner is supposed to do. Do you think it's a part of relationship to deal with baggage from exes or past disappointment from others? That's not acceptable for anyone to be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:50 PM
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You named a continent where 1 in 3 women experience spousal abuse and claimed that's women in their feminine nature and natural order. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:57 PM
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Africa has thousands of cultures and tribles, including matriarchal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:29 PM
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Love and respect Sexual chemistry and compatibility Equal effort and investment into the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:16 PM
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Love and respect Sexual chemistry and compatibility Equal effort and investment into the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:16 PM
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I grew up surrounded by terrible violent men. They're the exception. Most men aren't violent or rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:39 PM
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Why would anyone deserve another human being being with them? They want to share their life and time with you or they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:05 PM
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women who are victims of abuse don't deserve to be in relationships, at least not with normal decent men. You're free to reject any potential partner for any reason. That could be their past partners or their lack of partners or experience. It's all equal and no one deserves or is entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:56 PM
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I'd **** a bitch that fucked my husband and l would expect the same from his wife. Only idiots do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:59 AM
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Okay? Do you want me to police stupid men that date them? That's not my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:41 PM
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Yeah sure, anytime. The finish line is now being mentally stable. I'll let my partner know that he reached the finish line at 17. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:38 PM
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RP can stfu with their we want younger women because of less baggage while crying women don't want baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:17 PM
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I never said women would date them afterwards either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:54 PM
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They shouldn't expect it. That's not a claim I made. I said men shouldnt date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:50 PM
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I would suggest to those men that they not date them for the sake of their own mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:48 PM
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That's not an empathy gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:45 PM
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Men choosing to date them doesn't mean women are obligated to do the same. I'm not in therapy. I wouldn't date a man that hadn't already done the work either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:38 PM
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Men that already have their mental health in check. Men that already did the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:27 PM
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Good for men for getting therapy. That doesn’t mean women are willing to date them through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:23 PM
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A smaller vagina can't birth a human? Call the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:19 PM
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The body is not an agent; the human being is. Hang on, her body doesn't count as a human being, but a fetus, not a fully formed human, and not one that can think or feel is one? Can you or he explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:28 PM
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You don't think that the body intentionally miscarries because of a flaw in the pregnancy? It happens quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:20 PM
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Admirable, but not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:18 PM
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Does he consider a miscarriage a ritualistic child sacrifice done by her body as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:15 PM
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I wasn't genuinely surprised. It was all what we suspected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:26 AM
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Paw patrol is life to 3-5 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:45 PM
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It's sad that addiction and mental health issues are so common with celebrities. I hope it was an accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:38 PM
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The kids are dressing up. Big guy is going to be a pirate too. Middle son is going as a character from paw patrol. Baby boy is super excited to be Bluey. Baby girl will be a teddybear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:23 PM
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Gorgeous ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:14 PM
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It matter when the average income is $180-$200 a month These average women are not making a living doing sex work. They're not getting minimum wage even. They can't choose sex work over a normal job in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:00 PM
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Plant based chorizo pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:32 PM
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Women who choose to do sex work choose it over grueling, less-paid normal work. They could likewise work at Walmart, but they choose not to. https://social-rise.com/blog/average-onlyfans-income It's $180-$200 a month. That's not even minimum wage. Having this option to choose sex work over grueling, less-paid normal work is an advantage. Men have the option to do sex work too, from only fans to prostitution. You'll probably make as much as the average person doing it. The average person doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:41 PM
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20% of single parents are men. It's not the wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:26 AM
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Children from single father homes have better outcomes. These homes include married couples and single mothers. Single fathers have lower rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:22 AM
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It's a big burden and not something men are biologically inclined towards, like women are. Number one form of child abuse? Neglect. It's mainly mothers. Women are not biologically inclined to raise kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:41 AM
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Given your age yeah, my comment was more about young single mothers with only one child so far. I turned 27 a few days ago and had my last year this year. I would never have had kids with another man. My tubes would have been tied immediately. Why not? Because I would never have another man around my kids. That's not how it really works. The money is the recipients to do with as they please, and when you're living together it doesn't matter given shared expenses and the fungibility of money. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:41 PM
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If I were single: more maternal and family-oriented because they chose to keep it despite knowing the hardship they would face. will likely want more children with you as well. No, I would never have kids with another man. will appreciate you for taking her seriously when most men won't I wouldn't want to date anyone seriously. extra household income from BD's child support No, that money belongs to my kids, not the house. can test run playing house with her for a few years before seriously comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:04 PM
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Majority athleisure. It's what we both wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:46 PM
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This is not my business regardless of gender and I have nothing to say to them on it. They can take that mess elsewhere. I wouldn't maintain the friendship either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:42 PM
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He posted fetish channels with a "not sexual" disclaimer on them so YouTube can't remove them and claims that's women lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:40 AM
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Where did they lie about it and say that they don't want attention while posting videos on YouTube for attention in see through clothing. Where did they say that? You're saying women are lying. They can't be lying when they don't make the claim. Where is it??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:28 AM
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I talked about anecdotal situations and posted 2 example videos, and I also chose videos completely outside the gray area to avoid strawmen, and even then it was useless, because you are still defending. I've seen women wearing shorts smaller than my underwear in the middle of winter and showing their ass while going to shows, but ok, it's because they were hot, right? Now where did those specific women say that they weren't looking for attention? Where did they lie about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:24 AM
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And theft is obviously different in kind from attention.. Yes, it's a crime, like sexual harassment. The only issue is wanting women to be responsible when they're victims and blaming criminals when it's men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:02 AM
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Everyone knows men buy these cars for attention. Stop crying about getting them stolen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:56 AM
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women tend to report feeling less fulfilled by casual sex than men. That's not the same as emotionally hurt or being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:02 AM
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OP is asking about women acting like they want to attract men then saying "they dress for themselves" and all that. This is the problem with that statement. They never provide shit from that woman saying she thinks that. It's always some women say this so I can specifically call you a hypocrite because I think you're acting like you want attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:53 PM
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Let's not pretend sex and intimacy don't have an emotional impact on most people. Women like to feign as if they're stoic as fuck and bad boss bitches 24/7 - it's bullshit. Unlike those men, right? Plenty of people detach sex from emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:51 PM
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other women dress for others Doesn't equal men. A lot of women dress for other women. Desiring attention is different from wanting your property to be stolen Yeah, it's called consent. Don't touch your care and don't sexually harass people. Look, but stfu and act like you have common sense. Women aren't complaining about men checking them out. They complain about leering for uncomfortably long periods of time and having no social skills. That is not a consquence of dressing a certain way. That a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:47 PM
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Girls are allowed to want just sex. Plenty do. There's no reason to make it seem like most girls are crying because casual sex didn't turn into more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:43 PM
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Sometimes 2 people just want to fuck each other and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:40 PM
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I don't need sexual attraction, mutual goals, or to tolerate your more annoying quirks for more than a few hours in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:32 PM
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I mean I don't honestly expect a woman like that to be super interested in me. But the way it seemed like my dollar value mattered was insane. This is no different than a guy wanting to pump and dump a woman and a woman thinking he wants a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:28 PM
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No. I am into something or l'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:26 PM
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Why do men spend money on expensive cars to gain attention and then bitch about getting them stolen? It's called consent. What l do to stay attractive for my man has nothing to do with you. That attention is unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:17 PM
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I've always technically "done more" in our relationship. I would never look down on him or our relationship for that. He gives me and kids 100% when he's home. He keeps up equally with the housework and childcare when he's home. I'm doing 100% of it while he's in the office. It's about effort and dedication to your relationship and being there to support your partner. He's perfect for me and our family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:53 PM
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We were friends for the majority of our lives before we started hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:56 PM
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What would make you more inclined to say yes? Nothing. Would the majority of you turn down an attractive man who noticed you in public and tried to chat you up? And would you even turn down a top 1% guy just because you didn’t know him? 100% the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:21 PM
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Thank you!! My kids are taking me on a birthday adventure that starts with lunch and then my brothers are taking my sister and l to our favorite little hole in the wall seafood place with all of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:32 PM
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Any standard is fine, but don't blame being single on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:06 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:47 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:16 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:15 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:15 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:15 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:15 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:15 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:33 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:14 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:10 AM
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Misery wants company.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:58 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:57 AM
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It's officially my bday!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:56 AM
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We were already together hanging out as friends. That's completely different than some weirdo approaching me in a store because he noticed my ass and felt the need to say something. Nothing says interrupting someone's day can't be. I do not want my day interrupted to be hit on and many women feel the same. Most women are not single. It's annoying. It's disrespectful when you approach someone out with their children. It's many things that are not welcomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:00 PM
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I definitely invaded his peace when we went to the party together in a group of friends and were talking the whole night before I flirted with him. That's 100% the same as some stranger interrupting your day. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:55 PM
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He didn't. We were childhood friends and l started flirting with him at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:50 PM
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Why do women always respond with stuff like “do I know you?” and “how did you find me” or act shocked or like it’s so bizarre you would approach them in person or online? They're not interested. They're letting you know politely that they don't have or want a reason to be speaking to you. My question is, do women genuinely not understand that men are literally forced to drag themselves through this nerve racking song and dance to find a partner? That's not my problem. I find that level of either…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:08 PM
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I would focus on my kids and not attempt to date all. Nothing more serious than casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:34 AM
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A whole lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:43 PM
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Safe haven laws apply to fathers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:29 PM
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So much for men being held accountable. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:23 PM
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After the fact doesn't changed that they weren't used in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:21 PM
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How did he have every opportunity to take her to court for something he could only know if He looked at her 4 months later. I've had friends in that position and they damn sure made certain to find out, because that's their potential child. They didn't put that responsibility on someone else. Again, are these women in the witness protection program?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:16 PM
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Little C loves to watch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:09 PM
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Does that stop her from feeling, thinking, or saying she was used for sex even though she wasn't? No. Does it change if he up and fucked off for no reason? No. She slept with him with no relationship and is only mad after the fact because she's now not getting something else she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:09 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:06 PM
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Yes, because that man had every opportunity to take her to court to establish paternity regardless of her wishes. Pregnancy isn't something you can hide. He was fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:06 PM
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A 180 doesn't equal used.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:05 PM
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My sister and I do these for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:03 PM
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The woman on the end kind of reminds me of excellent badger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:58 PM
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Rhett and Link
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:57 PM
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That’s a 180. Or the sex was terrible and he didn't want contact after that. That's fine. It doesn't change that you fucked that man with no relationship and were fine with that. You weren't upset until you didn't get what you wanted afterwards. That's a covert contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:56 PM
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Are these women in the witness protection program that you can't call or see if they're pregnant a month later?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:53 PM
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There's no 180 involved. He wouldn't commit before sex and he wouldn't commit after.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:52 PM
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he would feel used. Because you changed the boundaries of your relationship without him. That is in no way comparable to casual sex where there is no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:51 PM
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I'm speaking about men That walked away from their potential responsibilities and l'm angry that women aren't forced to track them down and hold them responsible. I fixed that for you. Men have rights. They have to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:46 PM
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In this scenario were you having sex with the husband beforehand? Did you have conversations about future sex between the 2 of you after marriage? If not then it's not misleading him. Some people do mislead others. It doesn't change the fact that you agreed to have casual sex without the relationship being established. You freely agreed to that when you did it unless a man lies to you and says we will be official after we have sex. Is that what is happening? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:38 PM
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We can appreciate a 5 girl as much as a 9 and in a relationship will treat them the same. They literally throw thousands of dollars at strippers while crying someone used them for dinner because she didn't put or pay half at Outback.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:34 PM
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I'm not staying in that unless there's been some kind of injury. I'd end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:21 PM
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With this in mind, should women be refused the ability to do so without a father's name on the birth certificate and the father's knowledge? Men have the ability to file for paternity before the child is ever born to establish their rights to prevent that from happening. Men also have the same ability to drop off their child at a safe haven center without question. Neither established parent has more rights. Men also have the ability to deny paternity and not sign the paper and evade responsibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:17 PM
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If I got married and then announced I planned to never sleep w my husband, would I be using or lying to him? You're not misleading someone if neither or you had the discussion. That would be a covert contract. You would be misleading him only if you were having sex with him until marriage and ending something already established and accepted as a part of your relationship. You would be wrong to decide on your own that you're changing the relationship boundaries without his agreement and he would…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:10 PM
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It's not lying to you when you're not in a relationship and having sex without a relationship, UNLESS they promise you a relationship contingent on that sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:49 PM
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Men and women lie constantly. How many stories have you heard where a person said I will commit after sex? I haven't heard that. I've heard well I thought they would and they led me to believe together we could end up together. No promise of a relationship and no offer of a relationship. You're having casual sex in that situation. I don't think you can be used for casual sex because there is no relationship. It's sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:47 PM
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This is honestly what it reminds me of as a comparable. I give you $20. I don't ask for repayment and you do not say l will pay you back on Monday. Everything should be fine. Instead I start telling people that you stole $20 from me because you didn't act how I wanted after I freely gave you the $20.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:42 PM
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Do you think it’s wrong to mislead someone into paying for dinner or sex? Yes, l do that think that is wrong. I also think that it's wrong to have covert contracts. Unless you're raped you agreed to casual sex. You had it freely without an established relationship. You still have accountability in it. He led you on in that case. He lied. You weren't used for casual sex when you freely engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:34 PM
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If we used each other he wouldn’t really have a leg to stand on. He does according to your logic, regardless of his actions you are saying that you used him. If I was uninterested in him and pretended for the dinner, then he would have a point. Yes, you used him in that case. That is using someone. It's not covert contracts where I thought if I had sex with him that he would make it official. He's using the same covert contracts by saying you used him because the date went no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:29 PM
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Which includes you using him. He can now righteously make posts saying you used him for a free date. Do you agree with that result or do you think that you both had dinner and it didn't work out? Used implies taken advantage of when applied to individuals. You used bumble to meet someone to hang out with that night. You didn't use her. You clicked and agreed it would be a fun night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:22 PM
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so I am confident I don’t use men for dinners But according to your own logic you still used him as a relationship hasn't been established.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:17 PM
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I would never say I used or felt used by someone like that. Just like I don't agree with men that they were used by a date when it didn't turn into something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:05 PM
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Yoy meet a new woman at work and she wants to get lunch. You consider her using you because you don't have an established friendship? That's weird as hell to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:02 PM
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Do you say you were used for company after hanging out with a friend since they don’t want more and you both agreed to hang out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:53 PM
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They're getting and giving the exact same thing. No one is being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:50 PM
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That doesn't make it actually using someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:39 PM
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How are you using someone when you both have sex and there's no relationship? You can try to USE sex to lock down a relationship, but that's plain stupid. You agreed to casual sex when you had it without a relationship. It not leading to more isn't being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:34 PM
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It's in my food diary, but I was too lazy to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:20 PM
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I can't remember
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:16 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:11 PM
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They're both average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:56 PM
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It's a little hole in the wall place that serves fried seafood, hushpuppies, and chips. We both love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:53 PM
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You're still engaging in casual sex without the relationship being there. That's on you if you're not interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:52 PM
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You can't be used for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:39 PM
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That's a good set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:36 PM
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The shirt should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:33 PM
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I would feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:31 PM
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My brothers are taking my sister and l out for dinner for our birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:29 PM
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Jokes are funny. This shit is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:53 PM
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She's going to ghost you for acting like a weirdo no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:51 PM
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He'd be out the door for bringing up comparisons at all. He wouldn't need to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:03 PM
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She can get child support for 50% of the lost wages. It applies to pregnancy expenses and the birth of the child too. Relationship status has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:21 PM
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Does that make him gay if he goes for men sized women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:37 PM
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Too many. You can't give your kids individual attention for any length of time at that point. You have kids raising kids. It's messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:35 PM
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It's a direct contradiction of other verses. It's right there in the new testament. Maybe God supposedly chooses it that way. Again, you don't get to pick and choose which parts you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:26 PM
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Handsome and faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:02 PM
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Is this really about the spouse or is it more about the Children being Unclean or Holy. Your spouse can be sanctified through a believing spouse. You have a really hard time accepting what is written in the Bible. It's not coded confusing language. So is salvation through a wife, or through Christ alone? Through your spouse believing in Christ. It's written right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:33 PM
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Evangelical churches are notorious for making up reasons to hate out of whole cloth to guilt trip people for things that are just really pointless in the grand scheme. I know that better than most. I just cannot imagine Jesus going around pissing all over people for having a tattoo— he was way more angry about the church leadership being full of hypocrites than he ever showed that he hated things like vain perfume. I don't disagree, but the problem is that MANY churches use the word exactly like…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:07 PM
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I don't disagree with you in any way, but I am sharing what my own church taught about it. "He spoke on what was to change."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:47 PM
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In a way this is like splitting hairs, but it's very important to understand. I spoke with a pastor who once had to counsel a woman whose husband wanted her to have sex with a dog. That sounds insane but stuff like this happens My father was a pastor that tried to murder me. I am well aware of the insanity that happens and the use of the Bible to defend it. How would a wife be able to win a husband over to Jesus if she does not follow the teachings and commandments of Jesus? That's not her job. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:45 PM
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Submission is still commanded, BUT if you look at the verse you will also see that there is a caveat. It specifically states that a wife's conduct must be Respectful AND PURE. Where does it state that? What verse?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:37 PM
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We know in Mark 7:18-19 that Jesus clarified and changed the law of Leviticus declaring all foods as clean to God. He spoke that. Romans 13:1 gave authority to government, because God established it. John 4:21 He abolished the temple as the center of worship. He changed many laws. 1 Timothy 2:9-10 “Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments, but rather by means of good works, as is proper f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:34 PM
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1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God with your body.… Your body is not your own. It's a part of Christ and not to be desecrated according to the scripture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:09 PM
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It's usually that they don't trust him. The only thing I am concerned about is whether or not the kids have things going on at that time that require both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:57 PM
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Where is ink specified as unholy or unacceptable? As an immodest outward adornment done for vanity. I’m not so interested in spouting hellfire and brimstone about something stupid like painting on skin. I don’t have tattoos myself, but like… this is not a hill for anyone to die on. I have a tattoo. I'm stating what the evangelical church taught us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:45 PM
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Does the new testament have verses against outward adornment? Does it have verses against vanity? Then there is this one, which is probably the most important. 1 Corinthians 10:31 So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. 1 Timothy 2:9-10 Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments, but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making a claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:49 PM
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Does Noah stop building the Ark and submit to those in power over him? Does Lot submit to the demands of the men of Sodom? God commanded them to do these things. They have to obey God first. God apparently also says submit to your husbands in the same way that you submit to Him, even when he doesn't obey the Word. Those instructions are quite clear. Should you not submit to your husband and obey him then you're also not submitting to God’s commands for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:17 PM
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1 Corinthians 3:16 Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst? You're definitely not allowed to alter or defile a temple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:55 PM
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What does "obey the word" mean? What does "submission" mean in this context? Let's see what it means, because it is listed too. Ephesians 5:22-24 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:10 PM
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Think about this verse in context. It means your husband can still get to Heaven as long as you're a good enough wife. It's plain english. You don't get to choose which scripture to follow. Submit to your husband even if he doesn't obey the Word, but in this case she's granted a divorce. Sexual immorality is the only acceptable reason listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:57 PM
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1 Corinthians 3:16 Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst? I didn't know that graffiti on a temple was acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:53 PM
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at best, they’re not sins, and at worst they’re adiaphora. God said, in Leviticus, do not get tattoos or cut your skin. It's directly attributed as from God. There's no way around that. You going against the direct word of God is a sin. I don't know what kind of Christian theology you could have studied that says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:44 PM
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The wife is asked to submit to the husband, ONLY when he is submitting to God. This is not what the Bible states. 1Peter 3:1 Likewise, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, so that if any do not obey the Word, they may also be won without the Word by the conduct of the wives,
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:37 PM
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Leviticus 19:28 You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead or tattoo yourselves: I am the Lord
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:07 PM
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She admits that the Bible teaches those things and it's the duty of a Christian to follow them. She doesn't like people using "shaming language". The Bible explicitly says no tattoos. It explicitly says sex only within a marriage and only with one person for life. Jesus said debt is a burden you shouldn't choose. Your point of being loud and having opinions is also in the Bible. Women are to submit to their husband's authority. He has the final say. It's not the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:53 PM
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She has a problem with her religion, not the article. The Christian Bible does say all of those things and Christians are supposed to follow the teachings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:28 PM
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It's easier to get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:59 PM
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Then he really needs it as a victim of a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:50 AM
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How would you feel, internally? No idea. Would you lean towards believing him, believing his accuser, or withholding judgement? I would try to withhold judgment. Would you vocally support, defend, and stand by him? Would l stand by my son? Yes, as his parent. Would i call her a liar? Hell no. What factors would most strongly affect your judgement? Any evidence. Would you help pay for legal services (assuming he's young) if there was an administrative, civil, or criminal case against him? I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:39 AM
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This is how you get a rope left for you on your front porch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:36 AM
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I know that person but only via DMs. But that's the same level I know you. They got me into SRs. That's what you said until I showed you your cat or their cat. Your both claiming it's your cat. Now you're saying you know them in real life. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:41 PM
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Did we meet in the same city too? Am I claiming your cat as mine on reddit? You know him as well as you know me, remember? 🙄 You got caught. Move along. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:32 PM
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but I just wonder if it would be weird for me to text with them about school stuff and meet up with them for studying, which is the norm especially in group projects It's absolutely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:27 PM
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But many women do it out of desperation. I still consider that rape. A wife is still raped if she consents because she knows her drunk husband will beat for her saying no and rape her anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:03 PM
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I don't think you're going to have an issue. It's like a weird parent trying to hang out with their teenagers thinking they fit in with their friend group and everyone admires them or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:00 PM
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It's whatever. In my situation we learned at the same time and we figured it out. It wasn't a big thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:47 PM
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You only knew them in dms a second ago and now they own your cat too? Weird, but do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:42 PM
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There's a lot of older students on campus. I don't think anyone cares unless they're trying to pretend like they're 19 and no different than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:40 PM
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I can change it and teach him at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:38 PM
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Are strippers not consenting? I was a stripper. I consented to dancing. I consented to be looked at. That's it. I was never touched. What about nude modeling? Nude models are not touched either. When is it a commodity that’s wrong to sell? When the situation could also be rape. I do not believe that sexual consent can be bought or sold. Rape is sex that a person does not want to have with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:35 PM
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Most homewreckers tend to be high n count I blame committed partner that cheated. Take responsibility for your own actions. They didn't make them cheat. a lot of single mothers who are a net negative to society also tend to be very loose when it comes to sex Okay, that's their life. A lot of single men do the same thing and they fathered those kids. high n women are also likely to engage in risky behaviour Same goes for those men. I don't fuck with those people. It does not concern me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:24 PM
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Would you ladies here prefer if a man strictly had causal sex with sex workers, so he would put all focus on LTR when you two date? Instead of for example ghosting you the day after you where intimate? Do you think more men should visit prostitutes instead of whining about lack of sex on the internet? How can it be then that there are some who are against sexual services? I don't believe that consent can be bought, but this issue doesn't reach me in any kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:14 PM
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I appreciate your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:12 PM
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You only know them through chat? Oh for real? Did you forget that you posted your cat on both accounts? https://preview.redd.it/uvv42n52trtd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1bb191875062c4196a5025db63216ce04933e849
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:03 PM
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Are you going to say that you have a super defensive brother posting on here? Also Ukrainian, a mechanic, sugar dating, but he had a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:57 PM
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You've gotten worse since your alt was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:47 PM
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Of course it's going to get you a charge. A charge is a charge and it's going to fuck up your future. You think people don't look down on prostitutes? They do. You consider it a moral panic. A lot of people do not believe that sexual consent can be bought or sold. I am one of those people. You're free to your beliefs and I am free to my own. If you fuck with criminals there's going to be crime around and it's stupid to pretend that's not the case or that you should be able to choose their crimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:16 PM
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Prostitution and pirated movies aren't on the same level either. I can see why a lot of sugar babies never have sex with their clients. It's not worth the risk of a criminal record.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:01 PM
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I don't watch pirated stuff. I do my best to not break the law. I don't speed either. I respect the laws and l don't act shocked when criminals are willing to break multiple laws either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:37 PM
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There was no defense of it either. Would you like to try again? Prostitution is already a crime . These girls are criminals. You're saying that being shocked criminals commit crime is defending them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:29 PM
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I didn't mention "him" at all, but okay. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:19 PM
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Sugar dating is prostitution. You can't be shocked that they're looking for other ways to get the money from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:18 PM
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Yes. It linked us as half siblings to his bastard children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:52 AM
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We did ancestry tests. He's unfortunately our father.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:37 PM
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I don't hate people that sleep around. They're not hurting me in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:19 PM
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I have to choose? Number 1 with a very rich man and an iron clad prenup that guarantees me money for life. If I don't have the option to work and support myself and my children then I don't have the option to love that man either and my life is about my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:17 PM
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Both of my parents have brown eyes. Only 1 of their 4 kids have brown eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:11 PM
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That's exactly how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:48 PM
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I'm attracted to hot men. Being surrounded by attractive women isn't going to make me interested. You're hot or you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:59 PM
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I would be willing to bet that Eulen has one of the happiest stable relationships on this sub. Obviously we can't see into her home, but I would bet that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:20 PM
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Raisins
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:32 PM
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I love it unless my 1 sister in law makes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:09 PM
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Hurricane Sandy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:08 PM
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You're instantly forgiven for that potato salad. Stuffing/dressing is the reason to go to dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:00 PM
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This sounds like every child's Thanksgiving plate 15 mins into dinner. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:58 PM
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That one is weird to me. It's mashed potatoes with stuff in it. That's not potato salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:54 PM
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I can't relate. We've been friends with mostly the same group of people since childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:52 PM
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Idk about that one. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:49 PM
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I haven't had the Japanese kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:46 PM
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I like a classic southern potato salad, but the warm German one is pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:43 PM
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Potato salad. Yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:34 PM
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5'8-5'9 is ideal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:07 PM
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I need both in my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:07 PM
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I would be a train wreck if it weren't for my "in laws". They're 100% my parents and saved my life literally. These people are the only reason I survived and turned out as a functional adult with a healthy happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:00 PM
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Pregnant at 16 and had him at 17. It was rough, but very worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:23 PM
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I'll be 30 at that point. According to ppd my life will be over and I won't care either way, but double digits is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:21 PM
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My birthday is this weekend and all I can think is that means my first baby will soon be 10. 😭 Make it stop!! I'm not ready for double digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:12 PM
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That's why you never see most women fighting over men and most people are partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:43 AM
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You think that everyone not dating their supermodel celebrity billionaire ideal imaginary dream partner is settling? Even when they're genuinely attracted to their partner and want to be with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:58 PM
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Your eyes are gorgeous!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:24 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:56 PM
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I don't think that they're settling unless it's someone they don't find attractive or genuinely like as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:45 PM
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Statistically most people are partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:32 PM
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they acknowledge that they only see a very small number of men worthy of investing more time to get to know for a possible relationship I am only interested in a small percentage of men. Most women aren't interested in dating men of all ages, all cultural backgrounds, or men that they find neutral or worse in appearance. Of course that's going to be a small amount of men. It's not really different for men. Men might open to having a ons with more women, but most are not interested in seriously d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:30 PM
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I see how people that got together in their late 20s-30s could feel differently. They had an independent adult life before their relationship. Being with someone through those huge milestones makes a big difference. You literally grow up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:30 PM
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We literally grew up together. There's no one that I could have the same connection with on this planet. I would also never have dated anyone older.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:12 PM
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I'd remain single and have hook ups. I couldn't have another relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:08 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:58 PM
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Fridge puppy is so cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:55 PM
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I think that makes the biggest difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:49 PM
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I can't imagine another person exists that I would have been willing to be with through all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:46 PM
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I wouldn't be compatible with someone wanting to wait, religious, shy, anxious, or really introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:43 PM
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Not better or happier. Could you find your connection with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:36 PM
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They're both evil and don't care about innocent civilians on either side. The families of the hostages have every right to hate him right along with the terrorists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:26 PM
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Question for people in long term relationships. Defining long term as longer than 2 years. Do you think you could find what you have now with someone else? I couldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:19 PM
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Give it a few weeks. You need to settle into a routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:10 PM
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It'll get better. New places can feel terrifying even if we're excited for the change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:08 PM
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Some people are shocked when you do that but haven't expressly flirted with them before that point, but I think that's more within social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:03 PM
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There's a key to it. Make small talk a few times before doing it so she has some sense of you. Oh, that's the guy that always asks how my day is going. What have you done in that case? Nothing more than basically saying they look nice. You haven't made it awkward to go back or looked like a creep or desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:56 PM
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It's fine to slip her your number on a piece of paper and say you're interested in getting to know her outside of work. That's no pressure and leaves it up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:50 PM
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I would want to know why he's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:44 PM
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I also found r/eatcheapandhealthy and r/mealprepsunday. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:34 PM
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I'd rather see him locked away for life where he can't see or talk to his family either. He's no better than the terrorists that attacked that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:28 PM
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I hate seeing what the Israeli govt has done to the civilians of Palestine, but omg that was sad watching the protest of Israeli families outside of Netanyahu's house trying to bring their innocent loved ones home and he's focused on expanding the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:25 PM
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Maybe r/budgetfood ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:21 PM
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You set your own boundaries. What you're "allowed" and what you do in order to get pussy are 2 different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:13 PM
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My kids love raw veggies with ranch or hummus. I keep little bags of chopped veggies in the fridge for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:53 PM
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I don't understand people that hold resentment for their partner over not wanting to feel degraded by a sex act for them. None of these people are out here like you deserve to cheat on me because I stayed with my cheating ex. Fair is fair and I want you to feel like I am doing the most for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:22 PM
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Or do you mean whether you want it or not is clear to you? We say no or l'm not feeling that right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:00 AM
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Yes, and we have sex nearly daily, because our relationship is good and leaves us in that space to want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:05 PM
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Neither of us do. It's all in or nothing happens. We had those talks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:02 PM
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My consent is black and white. There is no gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:52 PM
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I think it depends on what you mean by “not feeling it.” I’ve had sex with my spouse when I wasn’t rabidly in the mood and I think that’s being a good spouse. Nope. I want sex or I don't. There's no such thing as good pussy points.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:46 PM
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Your spouse should try to be a good spouse in return for your efforts. Being a good spouse isn't allowing someone access to your body when you're not feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:28 PM
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It's my baby giving me them. 😭 She's 6 months old now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:49 PM
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My baby rabies is beginning to kick in again. I need something to distract me from their cuteness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:22 PM
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Just ignore the guy . 99.9% of women do exactly that. Yes you can . I can get mad at a person yet not beat him to a plup You can control your reaction. You can't control your feelings. They're different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:45 PM
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It's usually not. That creepy feeling is just them being socially off. It's the same reason that a lot of people with autism struggle to make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:41 PM
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Creepy isn't a reaction to hearing that they're a virgin. It's a reaction to being around them and whatever is putting everyone else off. that don't involve him being evil That's a moral judgment. No one said anything about evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:37 PM
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Feelings aren't childish or rational. They're feelings and they can't control them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:33 PM
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What argument? Do you not understand basic conversation? A statement or opinion is not an argument or debate. Jesus christ, get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:24 PM
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Or just concede that you had a bad argument. Your call. You should get some help. Truthfully answering a question isn't making an argument. Idk wtf your issue is, but l'm not dealing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:22 PM
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Sounds spicy. I approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:20 PM
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You have no reason to feel negative about your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:09 PM
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Why is it so hard for society as a whole to understand the struggles that these men go through? Why is it that frustration is treated so negatively? Would you not feel frustrated if no matter what you did you would never get a satisfactory result? Why are people so quick to dismiss them and show such a lack of empathy? Because it's not the fault of the other person for not finding "you" attractive and it usually gets blamed on their high standards. Their standards are not a problem when they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:04 PM
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This guy is not asking in good faith. He's already arguing in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:53 PM
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You win. Lonely men are creepy and we're all disgusted by you. There's no point in asking questions or for you to try to date at all. You have life completely figured out. Are you happy someone is agreeing with you? Is that what you want? You obviously don't want the truth from us if you're going to argue that everyone is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:52 PM
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No, we're stating facts. Creepy and weird are feelings. It's not saying someone is a rapist, pedo, or a bad person. People have no problem voicing those opinions when they have them. Why did you ask women a question if you don't want our answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:45 PM
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they give out 'bad vibes' 'creepy' Those aren't moral judgments. Those are feelings the women have around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:43 PM
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Nachos sound really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:58 PM
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The struggle is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:57 PM
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I am eating every time I am not stuffed full. O hate it, but it's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:55 PM
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😒 We're celebrating my 3lb weight gain. Enjoy it. Gain weight with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:52 PM
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I hate Chipotle, but enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:51 PM
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Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:51 PM
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I'm hispanic/white. He's black.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:22 PM
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No, she's in her 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:19 PM
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Your mom Nah. She's really racist against black people and the wrong kind of crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:17 PM
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😒 Shouldn't you be at a Trump rally instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:14 PM
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What's everyone doing for dinner? I'm making chicken empanada with rice and beans. Fruit salad for dessert.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:10 PM
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What's everyone doing for dinner? I'm making chicken empanada with rice and beans. Fruit salad for dessert.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:10 PM
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I am underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:30 PM
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I don't really care about my appearance at this point. I want to be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:01 PM
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To be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:46 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:44 PM
2

Very happy news. I am trying to gain 12 more lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:42 PM
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I weighed myself and gained 3lbs! Let's go!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:38 PM
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Shy artsy misfit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:16 PM
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Overachiever and teacher's pet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:15 PM
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And she's raising his kid? Hell no. Don't waste your life for a partner expecting you to fix their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:29 PM
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How would you feel? Would you feel special to him? Would you feel like you are one of many? I will say it again. I don't give a shit how he treated anyone else. He treats me to my expectations or he's gone. I care about my life alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:15 PM
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How? I'm not single. I've been with the same man for almost 11 years. We have 4 kids. We have separate finances. Being financially dependent means that you can't up and leave for your safety. It means you can't support your children. It creates a power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:08 PM
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It's probably them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:42 PM
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Pod people from space invaded my house pretending to be my sweet innocent perfect sons. They chased me with space lasers and used an invisible force field to keep me trapped in the living room. Why do they keep coming to MY house to steal snacks??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:38 PM
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I would never rely on a man financially. There's too much that can go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:35 PM
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My house has been invaded by space aliens for the 30th time this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:31 PM
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I haven't tried any of the new "lab" meats or cheese you're talking about, but I am definitely a fan of several plant based replacement foods on the market. People get weird about them too and none of these people eat unprocessed foods as a regular part of their diets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:21 PM
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Overall you're definitely cute. Idk what the issue is for you, but it's not your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:10 PM
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I've seen the same stuff. That's really weird to me. Are they afraid that they're going to be forced to eat it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:09 PM
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I think you should clean up a little bit between your brows too. A hair stylist can help with that if you need it. Your facial hair isn't terrible, but maybe clean up the strays.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:08 PM
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The only thing my kids have really dealt with from racists is being told that their dad can't be their dad because all of our children look like me. They look like little Puerto Ricans instead of looking half African.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:06 PM
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I've seen plenty of men get pissed off for the same reasons as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:03 PM
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I think you're cute. The only advice I would give you would be to clean up your facial hair a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:01 PM
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I'm hispanic/white and my partner is nigerian. We both regularly hear shit about it from all sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:00 PM
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That is also weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:57 PM
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She's clearly one of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:55 PM
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It's funny that you don't think that there are women hating on it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:54 PM
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My guy is somewhere 5'8-5'9. I don't actually know because of his dreads. Your height is fine for anyone that isn't one of those 6'+only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:53 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:51 PM
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That applies to every person on the planet. Guaranteed you're doing something that someone else disagrees with in life. I don't live my life in fear of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:48 PM
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Watching racists get upset over someone else being in a mixed relationship will never not be funny to me. Move along. Why do you care about their relationship? They're not "your kind". They're human beings. They're Americans. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:41 PM
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other cheating scares They better be a whole lot more than looking at a woman or having a friendly conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:51 PM
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You could end it all by saying your bf looks at the same girl every 6 months? Wtf soap opera is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:08 PM
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you give me a bunch of memories where you didn't have a choice I always had a choice. It was my money. He was a choice, not a responsibility. My children are my responsibility. you were a teenage that doesn't kniw how to use condoms and expect me to know that The condom broke. I expect you to not be a fucking dick when you reply to someone answering an asked question because you had false assumptions or wanted to feel like you were taking a dig at women. this is what you bring in exchange to wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:19 PM
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Why would you mutilate and hurt your child?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:44 AM
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It should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:31 AM
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Scary fact. It only takes one parent to consent and take the kid to have it done in most states.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:24 AM
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Q4W: What would you do or say if your partner was dead set on getting your son circumcised? My sons remained intact against his original wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:54 AM
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I don't think escape funds are acceptable when it's built from marital funds. That's completely different from having your own money before the marriage. Being a stay at home mother can be dangerous. She should have a skill or education to fall back on and her own money before doing that. Paternity tests and prenups are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:36 AM
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He and the kids are quite happy and content after 10 years together. I have to be doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:41 PM
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I don't see that as committed to a girl, but a commitment to giving it a fair chance to see if it's worth pursuing. There's a big difference in those two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:47 PM
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I don't think it will be an issue for people looking for a relationship that don't date multiple people at once. I'd respect that a lot more than a guy being on there saying he wants something, but not with the girl he continues to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:44 PM
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Absolutely not. Too many assholes that shouldn't be parents already have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:30 PM
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No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:02 PM
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I was a dancer in a high end private gentleman's club. I was never nude and there was no touching allowed on the part of anyone. No grinding on customers or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:01 PM
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I am professional pretend t-rex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:54 PM
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Too many people bring a vibe of heaviness and stress everywhere they go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:52 PM
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Damn, where have you been hiding? In my house with my kids playing cars and dinosaurs. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:51 PM
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What do you actually offer to him because you listed what you won't take away from him. What did I actually offer him? I bought a house, paid for his dental school so he didn't need interest accruing loans, gave him for 4 kids, and financially supported the entire family for 8 years so he could follow his dream of being a dentist despite us being teen parents. He got his first job last year after finishing school. I raised our babies while he was in class and at home studying and worked at night…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:48 PM
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I'm fun, relaxed, and generally cheery at all times. I love sex. I'm fit and attractive. I'm supportive of my partner in every way possible. I'm financially independent and don't rely on anyone else. I'm emotionally stable and self aware. I'm already happy on my own and content with my life. I don't need someone to complete me or fix me. I love being active and l'm a great fit for another social active extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:31 PM
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I think it is, but it doesn't feel that way. Kids require a ton of self sacrifice, but that's not how you feel when you think of your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:38 AM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:18 AM
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Feel, serve, forgive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:13 AM
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I wasn't worried about child support honestly. I had been supporting this family for 8 years completely on my own and I was prepared do it again for my kids. He knows those are his kids. All 4 were tested for child support. He never doubted paternity even when we were 16 and 17 years old. He knows I what I have done for our family. He wants to do everything he can to provide me with that same security and hold me down so I can relax with peace in my mind like okay, he's got this now. Put your mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:25 PM
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He would. I didn't take him for support. He filed the paperwork to give me that security that no matter what my kids will get that money now that he's working. Now we're married. Only 1 thing has changed. He hands me that $400/week. It was and will always be used for groceries and stuff for the kids. That's groceries for all 6 of us and whatever clothing needs replaced for them. He pays the house utilities as his financial contribution to the house. He also pays me on that loan. We have separate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:11 PM
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But what is the benefit of getting the state involved? It's a guarantee that the money is being given for your children whether your fighting or whatever. There's no feelings involved. the benefit of getting the state involved? Don’t they take a tax on all child support plus I’m assuming legal fees? No and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:56 PM
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We weren't married. We had no plans of getting married but we were very much together. I was very anti marriage. He wasn't a stay at home dad. He was student until last year when he finally graduated dental school. After he got a job he put himself on child support and started paying me back for his schooling. I paid for his dental school up front so he didn't have to take out student loans and pay interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:50 PM
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Living with the child doesn't mean he was paying bills in the house. It's my house. I own it and all of the bills are in my name. He's not financially responsible for my house. That's why he was ordered to pay child support. It was only $100/week per child. If we didn't live together it would have more than doubled, but it was lower because he was obviously home every day parenting his kids and doing half of the childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:45 PM
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My kids have been tested. It was never an accusation of cheating. They're necessary for child support. Yes, my partner was ordered to pay child support while we were together and even lived together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:39 PM
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Lmao weaponizing divorce/custody over disagreements is quintessential toxic femininity. You can have 50/50 custody. You can't accuse me of cheating on you without consquences. Those are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:34 PM
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Did you file taxes? Did you get your 1099 tax form from them? Do you know what a 1099 tax form is for? It's for income that isn't from an enployer. https://preview.redd.it/8b6z3u2aifrd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aef445baf4b2962960dbdbdc310455221486ce01 You do not get a 1099 from your boss. You are self employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:33 PM
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So woman that have consenting sex outside of marriage can't have self esteem because slut shamers exist? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:28 PM
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Sure, get in the car. What do you mean you want a paternity test? So it's not about having a switched baby after all. Get your test and get a lawyer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:24 PM
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Say something like: “I want to make sure that the baby we conceived is with us and we are raising our child, and you think this is about my lack of trust in you? Honestly that says a lot about what you think of me and how little faith you think I have in our relationship.” She says fine, I will go take the test and prove to you that this is the baby I pushed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:16 PM
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They get their paychecks from it like any other boss. You are incorrect. They're not paid by onlyfans. They're a video hosting service. This is how it works. One of the most critical points to understand is the revenue split between creators and OnlyFans. OnlyFans takes a 20% commission on all earnings, leaving the creator with 80% of the total income. This means if you earn $1,000 in a given period, OnlyFans will take $200, and you’ll receive $800. While 20% may seem steep, it’s essential to no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:06 PM
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It's called self respect. It's literally in the name of it. You don't need logic for definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:55 PM
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No, that's not their boss. They're renting a platform from the company. It's different. Your landlord isn't your boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:49 PM
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Self respect has nothing to do with other people or their opinions on your actions. It's also the only thing that matters. People look down on others based on their personal moral compass. Their thought process says nothing about the other person. It's time others realized that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:49 PM
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Okay and? That has nothing to do with what I said. They set their fees. The models set their own fees to control what they get out of it and make their fees higher to control for that. The girls decide what exactly what they're getting from each subscriber.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:27 PM
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That's their choice. Your opinion says nothing about their decisions or how they're impacted as individuals. They're only disrespected if they feel disrespected. They're self esteem is their own. It's got nothing to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:26 PM
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They set their fees, not the platform. They decide what they're taking home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:23 PM
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Their hustle adds to a business that was built on dehumanizing women. So was marriage. Go campaign against that and let women how they want to live without trying to tell them how to feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:11 PM
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No dancer is happy. It’s an absolutely horrible experience. Not one of them wants to be there. It drains you of all self worth and self respect. That's not you trying to speak for every dancer? Could have fooled me. But That’s my point. A whore is a whore. No matter if you pimp yourself or a man does it for you. In that case you might as well be happy that it's their choice and no boss is getting paid in the process for their time or skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:10 PM
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You just said everyone is being pimped by their job. Don't backtrack now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:00 PM
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I was a woman im advocating for and knew/know many others. So yes my feelings are not only from experience but from other women’s as well. You do not speak for all women. I stripped for a few years. I have no complaints. I made my money and I got out. My house is filled with happy loved people and it's also paid off. I get to be at home raising my kids. Doing porn free or not is disrespectful. Men won't look at it differently. A whore is a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:00 PM
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Trust her, bro. We're all miserable and hating ourselves. Your wife? She hates herself because that ass made her tips. Ask her. This woman can't be wrong. It's ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:55 PM
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their self-respect dignity This is something they feel about themselves. This has nothing to do with how you feel about their hustle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:53 PM
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Biological parents
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:47 PM
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The black sheep of my family would be our birthers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:43 PM
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So everyone is a whore, doing it to themselves, and you're mad that onlyfan girls also have that choice. That's special.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:41 PM
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Selling yourself is selling yourself Your boss is a pimp by that definition. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:36 PM
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They sell pictures. They do not sell themselves or sex. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:25 PM
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This is hilarious. It's fine if you don't like that. But saying that they're pimping themselves out by taking pics is ridiculous. It's not better than saying women that have sex outside of marriage are acting like free prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:23 PM
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If porn wasn’t a bad thing revenge porn wouldn’t exist. Is sex bad because rape exists? Everything is a matter of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:11 PM
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Sounds weird until you're going through it, but when it happens you're like that's so nice of you. I too hope it fails soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:50 PM
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Thank you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:29 PM
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A person's history matters less and less when they're more attractive. That's true for the majority of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:26 PM
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None of them deserve love That's between them and the people they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:17 PM
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Yeah, pretty much. Until then insulin combined with my pancreas might try to kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:15 PM
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It's apparently really common for people newly diagnosed with type 1. Your pancreas is still randomly functioning when it chooses, but it can't be controlled, and it's not working properly. It will eventually stop and then I will be dependent on insulin, but I have to wait out this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:12 PM
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What??? I have to look into that. I would love to not have to deal with this mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:09 PM
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This is the 3rd time it's happened since I was diagnosed a few months ago, but my pancreas is still randomly giving me insulin. I even waited 2 full hours after eating to take it when it hadn't moved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:08 PM
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Thankfully I haven't had any issues with mine. My issue is my pancreas randomly deciding to do It's job after one of the few rare times I need to use insulin. Then I get hypoglycemia and almost die. I passed out and had to have part of a mirror removed from my body by a surgeon on Monday because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:05 PM
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I'm type 1. Totally different thing. The one thing I can't stand the thought of are the finger sticks I have a constant glucose monitor in the back of my arm. It gets changed every 10 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:00 PM
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Maybe the pancreas are Is, it's only one. just want to shut you up for good. Sucks to be a pancreas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:59 PM
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Having diabetes is by far the worst thing that has ever happened to me in my life. My pancreas is out to end my life and I didn't do shit to that thing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:51 PM
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Every unmarried woman should demand a paternity test as soon as they find out they're pregnant to get their legally enforced child support set up immediately. Yes, he is responsible for half of your pregnancy expenses plus half of the cost of the birth. Get it done immediately and these men can't say but some women cheat and idk if l'm really the dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:37 PM
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She saying he needs to stfu and get the test on his own and not say a word to her about his doubts or insecurity, because she didn't cheat. She doesn't want to or need to be involved in any part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:50 PM
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If I were single I would only do casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:43 PM
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And your question is disingenuous because living together and having separate rooms is the norm for every other house hold member. I'm pretending that I am in a relationship with my kids. I'm not trying to have a room mate for a partner either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:56 PM
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What's the follow-up plan for these new single moms? Raise their kids and work like the majority of other mothers. Why are you acting like a man is necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:52 PM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:25 PM
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Why live together at that point? There's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:25 PM
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You can do what you want, but I wouldn't live with a man that felt that way about his relationship. You keep your house and l'll keep mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:44 PM
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The new guy kind of interjects, saying that he found our “obsession with consumerism to be really shallow”. You're super fun at parties. Go be super fun somewhere else. He sounds antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:24 PM
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Little kids(aged 2-4) are so huggable. It's a trap. That's a big part of the reason I have 4 kids. They're cute for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:46 PM
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Waiting til the baby is born to ask Every woman should leave in that situation unless the man has GENUINE cause to question paternity. Like the baby popped out and looks like the wrong race. My kids have all been tested. That's some bullshit right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:41 PM
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Are they usually released into sanctuaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:07 AM
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Black church is the real religious experience on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:25 PM
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I'm not religious anymore, but I love black church.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:22 PM
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The girl I'm talking about before is religious for real, and it's making me a little worried. Shouldn't matter unless she expects you to become catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:21 PM
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You're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:25 PM
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It's not easy to be teen parents in high school. We got lucky to make it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:18 PM
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11 years and 4 kids together at the old age of almost 27. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:12 PM
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We moved here last year so he could get some work experience after he finished dental school. It wasn't working out trying to find work as a newly licensed dentist without experience. I miss Louisiana soooo much. New Orleans is my home and I refuse to live away from there permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:04 PM
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We're moving back to LA next year. I can't wait for that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:58 PM
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I'm in PA for now. It's slightly closer. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:54 PM
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What's your go to sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:53 PM
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Come on over. You can get your southern food here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:50 PM
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We LOVE turnips.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:46 PM
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I make mine the same way. It's the easiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:28 PM
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You can do better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:58 PM
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Your cholesterol must be horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:42 PM
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What is everybody doing for dinner tonight? We are not being healthy today. I'm making smoked turkey legs, turnips and collard greens, 7 layer salad, and I have a cheesecake for lunch dessert.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:34 PM
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“Trust but verify That's not trust but verify. That's l'm petty and pissed off so l'm about to put you through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:29 PM
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It's not assurance when you're doing it because a man wants a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:20 PM
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There's a raised risk of autism, schizophrenia, and miscarriage regardless of maternal age. That's irresponsible to risk. I personally wouldn't have kids with a man past the age of 35. Children are a lot of physical work and you don't get out of that because of your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:57 PM
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What are the odds of them ever getting a relationship or making a woman comfortable enough to have casual sex where this is a potential issue? Damn near 0. I don't think their opinions matter on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:02 PM
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Obsessive people are most definitely responsible for the constant stream of paternity fraud discussions The people most pissed off and talking about demanding paternity tests won't ever have kids and a lot of them don't even want kids. It's more you're not getting my money without a test. These bitches are too stupid to get a vasectomy and take responsibility for their fertility. which makes their refusal to offer total transparency on their part a little curious These same people talk about how…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:56 PM
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It’s a thought experiment, no young mother has the time or energy to stalk her husband. You would be surprised what crazy ass people find the time for when they want it. I've seen it happen on both sides where you're like how did this person find the time for all of that? They found it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:47 PM
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There are men that say they want the test well before pregnancy is in the picture. That's also how it should be done. Let's say he hasn't though and it comes up like an accusation of cheating. Why the fuck would you stay with that man? Why would your answer to that be to make him as miserable as possible instead of collecting your child support and having a sane home life for yourself and your child? Pettiness will get you nothing except a fucked up kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:43 PM
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But I asked two men “If the father of your thirteen year old daughter’s best friend opened his phone and showed you barely legal porn, would you feel comfortable letting your daughter stay overnight” and they’ve refused to answer and reacted defensively and defiantly. Oh wtf. Something is wrong with these people. If a father demands full transparency and disclosure, why shouldn’t he offer the same to the mother? I have 0 issue with this in regards to parenting. It's not something that either sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:40 PM
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Suddenly “fairness” is no longer a concern, but coercing women to cater to male insecurity remains the order of the day. I do not ever need justification to go full ass crazy and get to the bottom of anything that I believe is hurting my kids. There is no well he did this so I can check or I deserve to act this way because he did a test. That's not parity. If you suspect someone is abusing your kids you call the authorities. You can take them to a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:30 PM
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Maybe nobody told y'all, but you do get to choose what you accept in a relationship. You don't need to give that man a child and you don't need to stay with him. Acting out of spite won't solve shit but it will create a terrible environment for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:13 PM
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I wouldn't. I would end the relationship if I felt I couldn't trust him or thought he was cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:31 PM
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My partner is around your height. I don't actually know how tall, but 5'8-5'9. I'm 5'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:55 PM
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So, point by point as I'm on mobile so I don't know how to use quotations: Use > directly before the material you want to quote. You can also press and hold to highlight and select quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:26 PM
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He's a baby cow???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:10 PM
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You can tell he's huge!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:21 PM
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That's much heavier than I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:39 PM
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I meant here as in where I live. My in laws are immigrants and they haven't experienced anything out of the normal levels of racism you might encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:37 PM
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I haven't noticed any extra hate outside of internet rhetoric, at least not here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:25 PM
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Your cows are beautiful. How much does a cow like that weigh on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:09 PM
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Cheaters are going to cheat. It's personal and has nothing to do with their relationship. Every relationship will have problems and it takes both sides to want to work through them. Once one side stops the relationship is dead. There are marriages that are happy and that do last.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:05 PM
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Like 10-15 mins at a time. We have an infant, 2 yr, 5 yr, and 10 yr old. We also have 2 puppies. There's no real free time beyond that. Something always needs done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:06 AM
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I wouldn't mind 3 or 4 hours a week as long as he wasn't ignoring the kids or other responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:17 AM
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We have 4 kids. There is no spare 2 hours a day where things don't need done. That's not possible unless he's actively ignoring the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:14 AM
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What goes in the womans mind when games makes her upset? I wouldn't get upset or turn off his games. It's not compatible with the lifestyle that I want. I'd find a partner better suited for me and hope he finds someone that doesn't care about the games.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:00 AM
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Asking for a paternity test is the same as putting the father on child support regardless of being with him. A lot of men don't like comparison. She's not saying you're not going to support your child. That payment is security for your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:12 AM
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I've only had 1 friend like that and she was dating an equally toxic guy. I dropped them both. I don't get into other relationships. Their drama isn't my problem or obligation. I have kids. I'm not trying to raise grown adults in a consenting relationship too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:43 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/nixkvz5gr0qd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5fbd1d16267dd341eb9c7eb05a7c710095db5803 Some of these states may have changed their laws recently in the last 2 or 3 years, but this was true until at least 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:54 PM
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Do you do realize your map is saying California of all fucking states has no age of consent? Because minors can marry there with parental consent, regardless of age. That's what I said, because that is the law. Maybe you should have read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:52 PM
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The red ones on the map. I'm assuming you can read a US state map.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:39 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/dfjcwydjd0qd1.jpeg?width=1060&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c555c1222cacbbd52e6019af2ef400cd1284c9e7
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:36 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/hy53ydoad0qd1.jpeg?width=2268&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d8d97c7c71f2360a54bc2056d90d4e56a4cdf928
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:34 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/t2d4romb60qd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3fc381f4396d404128a8c353475dda5c50862399 There are 5 states where you can legally have sex with people of any age, because there's no age limit on marriage. You corrected nothing. If you're so convinced that young girls are attracted to men twice their age we would be seeing it. We're not. It's already fucking legal in more than half of the country. Why aren't all of these men getting their child brides if women wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:55 PM
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You mentioned a Romeo and Juliet clause while ignoring the states with no age of consent. It doesn't default to 18 because of a federal law. If the federal law mattered no state could go lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:44 PM
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would you be in favor of the USA lowering the age of consent? The age of consent doesn't exist in multiple states and is 14 in others. Lowering it would be supporting pedophilia. That is where you said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:42 PM
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You're asking about lowering the age of consent to literal children that haven't hit puberty. That is pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:23 PM
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if you think it’s just natural and force is the only thing we need to protect against, would you be in favor of the USA lowering the age of consent? there’s no widespread issue with forced child brides and they have lower ages of consent than we do. We have 5 states with no age of consent and multiple states set at 14. You are genuinely talking about some pedo shit when you talk about lowering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:12 PM
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Using the excuse that "its a boundry i have set" is just a lighter way of saying "i am controlling you deal with it" It's not control when you choose to stay with those boundaries. That's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:10 PM
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The law even has the effect of discouraging men from going close to the minimum, which is 18 No, it literally doesn't. There are no laws preventing or discouraging you from chasing 18 year olds. Are you talking about these girls calling the cops?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:05 PM
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In Gambia, the highest age gap in the world with an average of 14 years, has forced marriage, child forced marriage, and female genital mutilation. None of that is women wanting those men. What legal interventions? You can date or marry any adult in the west. No one is stopping you. Those that want to do it go do it. You're not seeing it often because it's not common for any younger woman to find those men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:04 PM
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Again, what was it like in the past Someone else made decisions for those women. It's wasn't a free market. What you're calling shaming is a lack of attraction. Literally no one is preventing guys from going after 18 year olds. It's not illegal. Are you really crying that it's now illegal to fuck minors?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:01 PM
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Most countries even with the 6-9 year gap they're both in their 20s. Nowhere is the average age of marriage of 30 in ANY of those countries. Even in Gambia it's 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:57 PM
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My point is if we break down the social programming around age gaps, men would go for what attracts us more That doesn't mean women would accept them. Most wouldn't. Most men would be ignored too for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:09 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/rlg0rijhczpd1.png?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b2c9ce6989ccd629aa87dad866730e7005c29ea5 It's most of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:08 PM
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Many young women would disagree with you, thankfully The percentages for age gap relationships are below 12 percent once you hit the 6-9 year range. That's not societal shaming. That's women having a choice. They happen. They're not common, because most women don't find them physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:56 PM
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Most women aren't trying to be sugar babies. Money does not make them physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:40 PM
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The average age gap in relationships is 2-3 years. This isn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:38 PM
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Older men aren't sexually or physically attractive to young women either. It's not laws. Forced or arranged marriages by families didn't make older men attractive. If women wanted that situation marital rape wouldn't have been a thing that needed outlawed. Women didn't want to fuck them then and they don't want to fuck them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:38 PM
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Older men aren't wanted by the majority or young women. They'd still be hooking up with guys their own ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:02 AM
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Carolina vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:05 PM
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One of the worst parts of parenting is watching your kids get vaccinated. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:41 PM
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Don't tell her how to be a mother!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:59 PM
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Don't do this to us!!! My hormones can't handle dead baby animals. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:54 PM
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There are many men who parent and be in their children lives but can't due to not having full custody and only seeing them on the weekends or having issues with the mother. Idk, I'm not just going to fill in the blank with that sentence and assume these men are all deadbeats. I know these men and they are deadbeats. That's not all dads, but it's a good chunk of men that have no one else to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:52 AM
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Very few people see prison over unpaid child support. Just because it can happen doesn't mean it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:55 AM
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You can end up in prison for missing child support payments. Okay? I guess now you want to tell me that not a lot of crime exists too because you can end up in prison? 3xs as many men that don't see their kids do not pay support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:51 AM
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Most agreements outside of court is due to it being expensive and the odds are stacked against fathers if they’re fighting it. Father are more likely to get full custody and most places have 50/50 as the default and men don't pursue it. Now what excuse is there? So the best option especially if they need to financially support a child, is to not to take it to the court or hire lawyers. 3 times as many men didn't pay any support. Now what? No more excuses. Yes, a lot of men abandon their kids. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:42 AM
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Less than 10% of custody cases ever go to court. The parents reach an agreement. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:29 AM
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https://fathermatters.org/one-in-five-fathers-lose-contact-with-children-from-earlier-relationships/ Do we not consider a million to be a big number now? 1 in 5 men never see their kids after starting a new family. Some cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:14 AM
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But is it enough to assume that the next childless man who wants kids you meet, solely wants them for "social status?" That would be most men for it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:52 AM
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We have reached the ppd full circle moment where men want their kids and are great fathers. They've never met the other kind. They complain 24/7 about single mothers and their Chad spawn with no daddy in the picture, but no they don't exist unless a biased court cut that poor father out. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:34 AM
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But is it enough to assume that the next childless man who wants kids you meet, solely wants them for "social status?" Where the fuck did I claim it's most men? Where? That didn't happen. You men are getting pissed off that I pointed out those men exist. I've yet to meet a man who moves like that. Good for you. Strange how several other people have commented that they've seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:29 AM
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Enough to notice. Enough that they're not the rare outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:53 AM
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When you say "a lot of men" you're alluding to A significant amount of men, aka a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:36 AM
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We bought him the apple pencil a few weeks ago and he's been really into drawing on his iPad mini.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:25 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? I never said this percentage of fathers. I said it's a lot of men. Do you not understand that a small percentage of men still equals a lot of men? Do you not understand how conversation works? You can't argue points you made up in your head as things I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:18 AM
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Is that small percentage still a hell of a lot of men? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:15 AM
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Fantastic. You never need to comment about absent fathers or men that abandon their families again. I also expect to see you speaking up against men on the financial abortion threads when they argue they shouldn't have to have to support that child. They want kids, but not that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:07 AM
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Some men do. You don't speak for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:57 AM
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Most fathers don't view their kids as some kind of "social status." I didn't say most fathers. I said a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:55 AM
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There enough deadbeat moms and dads out there to ruin everyone. It's really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:26 AM
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We have 4 children together. He feels very strongly about being a parent and his responsibilities towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:22 AM
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I say all that to say just because it’s your understanding that the mother is No, it has nothing to do with my views. My husband wouldn't have 4 kids if he 100% didn't believe in being a full time hands on parent. I have however seen enough men say those things to know that the mindset exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:19 AM
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He's had an iPad since he was 5. It's never been a problem. I don't let my kids sit around staring at a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:17 AM
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My kids are not allowed free access to electronics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:11 AM
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He's really starting to get into digital art and this is the tablet for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:11 AM
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No. My son already has an iPad. My kids are not allowed free access to electronics. He wants it for making art.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:10 AM
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It's abuse to my buy my kids what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:08 AM
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No, it's acknowledging the reality that bad fathers exist and not every man wants kids because he plans on parenting them. There are great fathers too, but it's a lot easier to want children when you're not expected to be the one raising or birthing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:07 AM
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I just purchased an iPad pro for my 9 year old for Xmas. Spoiled little brats. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:04 AM
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It was Israel. They told the US state dept that they were planning an attack in Lebanon before it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:28 PM
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Entirely separate topic here however I feel like many women have jaded views of men. I know men that see their kids a handful of times a year. I know men that live in different states than their kids and talk to them every other week. The one thing they have in common is telling anyone that will listen how their kids are everything to them. There's nothing they wouldn't do for their kids, except see them, parent them, and pay their damn child support. I have kids. I have 4 beautiful kids. You wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:24 PM
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Unfortunately having a child doesn't force you to grow up and it doesn't turn you into someone else. Idiots have kids too. You feel bad for their children, because there's nothing else you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:50 PM
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I've seen plenty of men like that. Look at all of the deadbeats out there. That truth doesn't discount good dads existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:45 PM
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You realize that I wouldn't have done less for him if we split tomorrow right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:39 PM
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I haven't left him. I have no ex. If we broke up that would be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:33 PM
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I think there's also a great deal of ignorance involved. They don't have to go through child birth and pregnancy. Most men talk about parenting as playing with their kids and "instilling values". They're not thinking of sleepless nights, multiple night feedings, changing literally thousands of diapers, temper tantrums, endless laundry, wtf is that on the ceiling, toddlers projectile vomiting in their beloved car, doing homework, trying to figure out when you're eating dinner between multiple com…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:30 PM
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I have no idea. Look at the resident literal sperm donor that thinks it says something about him despite these women not wanting anything from him other than jerking off into a cup and disappearing forever. He "has kids". It's probably more of an breeding kink than a desire for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:21 PM
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I don't think most men are interested in having kids. Kids are work and they're expensive. I think a lot of men are much happier saying they have a kid as some kind of social status as opposed to being a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:05 PM
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Higher. I've put him through dental school, gave him children, and financially supported him while doing taking care of the kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:03 PM
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That's all most people are capable of doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:00 PM
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Not unless it's a cyber war where everyone hides and says means things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:57 PM
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He wants to be cucked. He also has a fetish for black men fucking women outside of their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:28 PM
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He said he had a few gfs and sex with multiple women, but she was the first gf he had in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:26 PM
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I guess he tried everyone. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:43 PM
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Did he try to tell you that other women on this sub don't mind when he gets sexual and it's just you? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:33 PM
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I am not asian!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:24 PM
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There's several of us. I learned that from talking to other women. He wouldn't stop trying to talk about sexual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:17 PM
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I had to block that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:14 PM
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I have people willing to help. My parents are here. I'll be damned if they clean my house. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:39 PM
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Keeping up after 4 kids and 2 dogs is exhausting. The cleaning never stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:27 PM
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but on incognito That deletes the browsing history from your computer. Everything still shows on the network.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:26 PM
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now we're calling her Sneaky Now you have 2 ducks named after me. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:23 PM
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Sometimes I get like that. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:12 PM
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I completely understand why women are choosing not to have children. They're a ton of work. Kids are expensive. Pregnancy and childbirth can cause permanent damage and lifelong pain. Men do less childcare and parenting. I myself have 4 kids. The first child was unplanned and if he wasn't an amazing dad and partner it would have been the only child. The risk for "maybe it will work" is too much when you consider that it's a lifetime commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:12 PM
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I wouldn't want to trade lives with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:44 PM
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My family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:42 PM
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Do you think I had kids because I want to be cleaning 24/7, changing diapers, scrubbing walls, and trying to stop babies for murdering their siblings with bites? Is my relaxation time sitting on the thinking step trying to make them understand why they can't do that? Did I dream of cleaning out puke buckets at 2am because a stomach virus came through the house only to wake up at 3am to feed the baby and then get another 2 hours of sleep before needing to get up at 530 to cook breakfast? What oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:29 PM
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childrearing is more accurately characterized as somewhere in-between work and a hobby, like gardening for instance. No man that has friends at work and socializes during work hours has a real job either under your criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:19 PM
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Men: Caring for children is not work. Also men: Why do you expect me to come home and do more work by helping to take care of the kids? That's your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:15 PM
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Those wedding vows mean porn. You're not exactly forsaking others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:56 PM
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Jerk off all day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:55 PM
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Will you honour your wedding vows and support him That was not in the ceremony or prenup. No financial support.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:01 PM
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Having a great privileged life doesn’t make you a better/Good person, being poor or having trauma doesnt make you an asshole that doesn’t appreciate people and things. No shit. It's a good thing I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:20 PM
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Being poor or having trauma does not make you a better person or partner. Having had a great privileged life doesn't make you an asshole that doesn't appreciate people and things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:32 PM
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It has become a thing where its something i cannot tolerate, and will tell any future girl about this behaviour. This is something all men and women love. Please compare me to your ex and complain about their behavior while you continued to stay with them. Nothing else says strong independent partner like that. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:47 PM
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"You are making."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:20 PM
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If you read the article, she says that she only started to make 10k/month after collaborating with other content creators, which have a big following. She did not deny that she is making 10k a month. Please stop your bullshit. She said it multiple articles. She was making 8-10k a month before being made public.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:04 PM
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She literally stated that she made 8-10k monthly when she first started. She did not say that and she was making 10k in October. https://www.riverfronttimes.com/after-dark/missouri-teacher-brianna-coppage-is-onlyfans-favorite-milf-and-proud-of-it-40973194
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:54 PM
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Use Google. I have shown you site after site refuting exactly what you said and you don't want to believe it. She made the money after her resignation. She was listed as one of their top creators. She made the money in weeks, not months, AFTER the national news broke. She said in numerous articles that she was making 8-10k monthly before then. You don't want to believe it because it doesn't fit your narrative. For the record she's also married and obviously brings in way more than he does financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:38 PM
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https://manofmany.com/entertainment/onlyfans-top-earners
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:31 PM
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Will you believe onlyfans? She made 850k in weeks and was one of the fastest rising creators. https://preview.redd.it/2axyhxvz81pd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=839f416f8ff9866753e2e17f99f8ca757ac421c2 So sorry that you were indeed wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:28 PM
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She said it herself and you're still like no, didn't happen. She doubled her subscription price and had 100 new subscribers after the story first hit the news. You don't want to believe it because you want to believe this is the average woman's experience on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:21 PM
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Let's try this one more time. 😂 https://preview.redd.it/8upphxyz41pd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=998fc9e9bf24104e71f6a464d43dd3755ba52b16 She has made $1m SINCE HER RESIGNATION and was in the top .01% of creators. Yes, since her resignation. Those are her words. Would you like to explain that she doesn't understand those words now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:05 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ggkhy02h21pd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=61a2d1c1477fdf5ca154bc3ee3db538a8d568296 She made 8-10k a month before. No matter how you math that's not adding up to 1m. It's $120k a year. She doubled her price and gained 100 new subscriptions the next day. She stated it herself. There's no need for you to try to figure out dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:51 PM
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https://www.unilad.com/news/us-news/teacher-resigned-onlyfans-page-reported-fired-new-employer-711353-20240319 The 28-year-old didn't do too badly after leaving her high school position, telling KMOV she went on to make $1 million from her OnlyFans after it became public, a staggering figure compared to her yearly teaching salary of $42,000. It was made after she was fired. This is not hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:42 PM
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Her making that money resulted in her being on the national news, you are getting it backwards. Brianna Coppage was a teacher for five years, spending two at St. Clair High School. She was put on leave in October 2023 after it was discovered that she was using OnlyFans to supplement her teaching salary. After her OnlyFans became public, Coppage told KMOV that she made $1 million on the platform. Her yearly teaching salary was $42,000, she said at the time. From your own link. It was only after s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:29 PM
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She made 1 mill in under 6 months on OFs. I'm merely bringing up the fact that even avg women, with no social fame She made that money AFTER being on the national news for her only fans account. Is that also the average experience? Are multiple new outlets highlighting and interviewing everyone with an account now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:06 PM
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Also men do care if a woman's its are fake or natural. Men for example do not like the feel of fake tits, and often find them disgusting compared to natural tits. In addition, many fake tits come with surgical scars which make them less appealing. Men in general prefer natural tits to fake tits. Fake tits does not boost a woman's attraction as much as women think. Is that why you're crying about the amount of money men pay for her attention? Is it because they don't want her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:53 PM
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U can literally go to a damn mall and see plenty of women her age with her body type and better face in some cases. Do most women have a body that looks like her or better? Yes or no. If most women look like her then it's average, but most women are halfway to obese. She is not. Most men do not add points to women for fake tits. Most men don't care if they're fake or natural. They care about size. These men are paying for her attention and to look at her, because they can't see that everywhere l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:47 PM
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A lot of them are overweight or skinny fat. The average on more than overweight halfway to obese. They're quite a bit bigger than her. Now tell us where you live that 40% of the population has fake tits, an ass, and a body like that. I can assure you that men want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:36 PM
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There are models who weigh 175 lbs but don't have a gut because there fat distributes into other parts of their body like their butt or thighs. Where men appreciate it. Neither way you cut it does an average woman have any type of visible abs let alone extremely defined ones. Welcome to the average woman's body weight at different heights. https://preview.redd.it/5g40az4dm0pd1.jpeg?width=636&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7000bcc5b79f4c26ec682a3cf1c7cc75c9496185 They're not even close to her. That's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:21 PM
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Right and she is on overweight side. Those are abs, not fat. She has visible abs. 28 bmi is halfway between overweight and obese. It's not her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:11 PM
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Average weight for 20-29 was 165lbs. You factored in something that wasn't a factor. Does the average woman have fake tits? Average is the norm. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:02 PM
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Average weight for 20-29 was 165lbs. You factored in something that wasn't a factor. https://preview.redd.it/alas92hpi0pd1.jpeg?width=1070&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7a2594ae268ddd0cd04117fc68d4fcf1df2ca43d
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:00 PM
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The average American woman is 5'4 and 170 lbs. The average American woman looks nothing like that, which is why men pay her instead of idk, looking out of a window where most women supposedly look like that. That is nowhere near average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:51 PM
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I worked as a dancer. I pulled 6 figures. The majority of the clients at the club were wealthy married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:50 PM
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safe ink steer jar snobbish judicious dog rinse scandalous tender This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:46 PM
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I will give my potential partner every conceivable reason for her to leave I guess that's nice, but I don't consider made up bullshit rumors to be my problem or my responsibility to deal with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:26 PM
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That's weird as hell. False rumors are not your problem or a discussion for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:21 PM
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I honestly don't see the need if he was never arrested, charged, or anything like that. Any other rumors that you need to disclose? If you did nothing it's only a rumor. "My ex falsely accused me of cheating on them." Should that be said too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:48 PM
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No. I wouldn't want to date a lot of people for a lot of reasons either. That doesn’t make someone bad or hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:41 PM
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How would women feel about men who did this? Cool. Don't date women that say they were raped. That's not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:51 PM
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How's your pasta? Did I tell you that l was falsely accused of rape? Please pass the bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:03 PM
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I would end the evening and tell them it's not going to work out. I'd wish them well and go on with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:19 AM
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Is he red?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:09 AM
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Very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:57 PM
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The food was amazing. My family cooked all of it, including the big pot of jollof rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:58 PM
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It was rough. I thought I was going to pass out. My brother is a firefighter and he does this thing whenever someone starts acting up or he's losing an argument. He throws you over his shoulder and says you're out of control. Let's go. That's what he did to me. Our family thought he planned it and everyone was laughing and I was yelling put me down!! My dress! He stood me up and said you're fine. You can do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:51 PM
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A train wreck, but it happened. I'm very grateful to have older brothers that know exactly what I need. I had a panic attack at the end of the aisle and I couldn't move. I was about to freak out and run as far as humanly possible. It was so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:40 PM
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That's not a hot take. Condoms until sterilization unless you're actively trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:32 PM
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There's no one on the planet I trust less than my father. He's followed closely by his brothers. There's no one on the planet I trust more than my 2 brothers, my partner, and his dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:53 PM
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I mean, thats pretty much a clear indication that you don’t really fuck with the guy anyway if you can’t just be together. I couldn't fuck with a guy content to do nothing constantly. I want to be out. I want to have fun. I want to spend time with friends. I want us to have a friendship as well. My hobbies are my hobbies and your hobbies are your hobbies we shouldn’t have to both want to do them to be in a relationship, attracted to each other and unconditionally love each other. We have no reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:40 PM
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The first major fight in that ND late bloomer man's relationship was when he should have been the most selfish! During the conflict escalation, he had every right to threaten to cheat on the NT woman, as well as every right to follow through and actually cheat on her! No sneaking around is necessary. He had every right to belong to the 57% of of men who have committed infidelity at some point in their lives, not just married men. After coming back from the cheating, it is he who had every right …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:28 PM
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Yes, exactly as I said and you refuse to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:46 AM
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Yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:36 AM
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No, I prioritized my sexual desire, not sex with him. He pays child support. He lives in my house. No, there is never a time that he comes before my kids or myself. It's court ordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:17 AM
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Women hate being objectified when they don't want to be objectified That's called consent. But let's say that you do not want to tell others what to do with their body. Okay, that's fair. But, why don't women criticize women that try to sexualize themselves to appeal to men? You answered your own question. They don't want to tell other women how to live. There's another part to the answer. Everyone knows that it would make no difference. We're sexually harassed as children at 10-12. Do you reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:18 AM
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Lock their asses up for life so they can never harm a child again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:36 AM
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That was nice of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:10 AM
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I would never prioritize a man for any reason. It's not in me. Only my kids get that from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:58 PM
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I prioritized MY desire to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:53 PM
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None. We were hooking up at parties. That was extent of our relationship. I didn't want to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:48 PM
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Which is prioritsing him No, he has never come before myself or my kids. You don't know what that word means. Which preceded your kids. No, we were not in a relationship before I got pregnant. We weren't in a relationship until I was several months pregnant, which I did for the child's best interest. Regardless of the way you frame it, you were the priority before your relationship. Then you met your boyfriend now husband. You prioritized being with him. Those dates. I prioritized my unborn son …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:42 PM
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would you tell them to prioritise their kids? Or their mental health first? You can't prioritize your kids without prioritizing your mental health. Did you prioritise your man, when you were just a couple? Just a few times? Not at all? Nope. I have done things for him and in his interest, but never to my detriment. I paid for his dental school, through a legally binding agreement with a payment plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:21 PM
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Say it! He's marrying a single mom with 4 kids. One is an infant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:07 PM
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So, you agree? That would be putting the kids and their needs first. It doesn't contradict anything I said. Primarily because there are things I am willing to compromise, but things I will not sacrifice. You are saying that divorce is 100% an option, yet you questioning me if l put him first and rearrange my priorities for a man. No way in hell. I don't need him, but I want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:06 PM
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Okay. Let’s go with de-facto relationship. If your child was unhappy in their de-facto relationship, would advise them to stay, for the kids? Or, prioritise themselves? First? You would tell your child to leave while you have posted on here numerous times that you told your now wife that divorce can't ever be an option? How does that inconsistency make sense in your head. If you really believe that then you are not prioritizing your wife at all. I would advise them to try to work it out for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:59 PM
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Didn't your first wife leave you because you hit her? For example If your child is unhappy in their marriage, would you tell them to stay? For the kids? Presumably you, like me, would tell them to not to prioritise their kids, but to prioritise themselves. First. I am getting married for him and the kids. I despise the idea of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:48 PM
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At least we know to avoid guys into anime because they're pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:33 PM
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So the guys watching incest porn actually want to fuck their mom/sister and the guys watching teen porn want to fuck underage girls. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:25 PM
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With their needs? Absolutely nothing comes close. Their needs and then his wants after that. How are you going to tell me that my 30 year old child can't need me because they're an independent adult, but a man older than that who raised them absolutely needs me? 😂 That's ridiculous. Why would I be with a man that needs me to function rather than wants me? Something doesn't add up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:03 PM
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Absolutely and he feels the same. We've had that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:50 PM
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how's he not gonna conclude that perhaps art does imitate real life afterall?🤔. You're telling me to avoid guys that like horror movies because they secretly want to kill people? Or is that going to be different?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:50 PM
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free toothpaste and rinse from the dental assistant You're supposed to get those every cleaning. Be concerned about the times you didn't get it. It's built into your cleaning bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:47 PM
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Who did you prioritise prior to kids? Myself and same for him Who will you prioritise after the kids are grown and gone? Still my kids. As long as they need something they will 100% no question come before him. I didn't birth that man. He can handle whatever it is on his own while I take care of my children, even if they're 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:41 PM
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Wrong thread🤣 How is she a single mother with no kid to take care of? She's a known child killer and this father left his marriage for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:32 PM
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He is their father, but what is your point? He will never come before my children and I will never come before our children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:30 PM
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I am still a single mom!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:25 PM
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My relationship with their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:24 PM
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It depends on what they need/want. My kids will always be my first priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:22 PM
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For actual needs? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:19 PM
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We both prioritize the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:11 PM
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We were trying for a boy and a girl. 5 was our absolute limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:05 PM
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I'm 26 and he's 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:43 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:42 PM
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Yes. State says I am a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:34 PM
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It was maybe 3 days before he said he felt no discomfort. It wasn't bad at all for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:20 PM
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PPD lied to me? Take that back. They would never!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:18 PM
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Not anymore. He got the snip snip. He said 4 was enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:17 PM
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Damn it, again. I pay my own bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:16 PM
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Damn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:14 PM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:13 PM
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That fact changes nothing. Answer the question!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:11 PM
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Is my boyfriend a cuck for marrying a single mom of 4 kids? What does that say about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:09 PM
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I think it changes when you kill your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:56 PM
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Men would rather date a child murderer than date a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:33 PM
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My 2 year old is obsessed with Bluey.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:40 PM
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That makes me irrationally sad for your childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:29 PM
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This might be the real answer. She doesn't believe in a healthy diet. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:10 PM
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Why does food always taste better when your grandma makes it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:01 PM
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Yes bro, be a man and retaliate against laughter. Call her a pig in lipstick cause you don't have the balls to say something to the man that virgin shamed you, but also suggest that you should control women. That is a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:20 PM
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Look, a man admitting that men chase bad girls and the wrong women. Admitting that men ignore red flags and think with their dicks and it's not their fault. Would you like to lose your rights now? https://www.powerofpositivity.com/wrong-woman-reasons-bad-relationships/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:59 PM
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Show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:49 PM
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Ladies and gentlemen this is the nice guy. The innocent good man that thinks he should be able to control women. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:47 PM
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Show me where women are blaming every man and want you to responsible for the actions of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:41 PM
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holding women responsible for what happened to me You’re now saying that her actions didn't cause your jealousy and it's your fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:36 PM
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np.reddit.com/r/retroactivejealousy/s/4xbS80NRFW Right here. You're blaming all of your anxiety and depression on her. She caused your retroactive jealousy. She doesn't deserve your love and attention. She didn't make those other men jump at her command. Boohoo you stayed with her despite blaming her for your feelings. She had to break up with you. You wouldn't even leave her. What should we do with men like you? Please tell me why this good girl goddess would choose a so called degenerate that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:23 PM
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You're demanding that women be accountable for their choices while you cry about your own with no accountability. Why is that? Should women stop you from dating since you can't pick good partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:13 PM
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What ass burn? I've been with one man and have no complaints about him. 😂 Now what should we do about men like you who regret your choices and then cry on reddit? Should we stop you from dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:01 PM
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Men that date sexually active women and then whine on retroactive jealousy and blame their partner for their choice to be with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:35 PM
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Not my relationship, but marriage itself. My father was a pastor. You submit to your husband. He's never wrong. His word is the law. He beats you? You deserved it. All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:08 PM
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I would laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:58 PM
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25 No signs of aging, healthy, and physically fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:48 PM
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I have friends that I find attractive. I would never date them and I wouldn't hook up with friends if I were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:36 PM
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What's that saying? Everyone is a villain in someone else's story.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:31 PM
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They're not necessarily bad habits. They're things that don't mesh with you. I have friends that talk nonstop. That's great in small doses. I don't want that in a partner. I have friends that over think everything. I don't want that. Does that make them bad friends? No, they are wonderful friends. I don't have to live with them. I can go home and walk away from those things. I would never consider dating them even if they were my type. I also wouldn't be hooking up with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:25 PM
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what do you call that Life before children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:22 PM
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I'm feeling better at the moment and your support earlier meant a lot to me. There are some really good people on this sub and I appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:19 PM
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I have friends l love to pieces, but I could never live with them. I wouldn't want to go on vacation with them for 2 weeks. It doesn't mean l care about them or like them. There are qualities between us that aren't compatible like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:16 PM
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I feel sorry for the innocent people killed on both sides. Killing thousands of Palestinian children isn't going to bring those people back or avenge them. You're equally as evil at that point. I wouldn't care about war at all if it were govt leaders on the front line. If it were their asses at risk they wouldn't be so quick to act out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:13 PM
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I kiss my puppies right above the nose. They love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:06 PM
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My father literally tried to kill me and my unborn son. The state removed me from my home and emancipated me. There was a permanent order of protection put in place against both of them. My mother said it was my fault and stood there and watched the entire thing. I was in the ICU and attempted suicide multiple times from the trauma over the next 2 years. I was in therapy 3 times a week for several years. You have no idea what the fuck you are talking about. I will likely have panic attacks that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:59 PM
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Did that. There's no way to stop what is happening to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:07 PM
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The wedding is for his parents and our grandparents. I want them to have that. It's not the ceremony that's getting to me. It's the legally married part. My parents had an extremely abusive marriage and he was a pastor. I am 100% against marriage, but I realize it's now the best decision for him and our kids with my illness. It's not the wedding ceremony or him. It's marriage and the power it gives someone over another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:57 PM
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No, they fast acting benzos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:51 PM
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This is me on medication. Should l laugh at how bad that is or cry? 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:48 PM
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I know his parents and our grandparents would love to have a wedding. I want to do it for them. They were all so happy when we said we were doing it for legal reasons. I told him that we might as well do a little low key thing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:44 PM
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He's said multiple times that it's totally fine if it's too much and l change my mind about doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:41 PM
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https://www.purewow.com/food/cold-dinner-recipes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:35 PM
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It will be a success as long as I don't try to jump in the ocean and swim home. That is worst case scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:32 PM
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We're doing it for legal protections in case l get really sick. I was recently diagnosed with diabetes and it's been pretty rough. I have been taken to the er multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:28 PM
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Thankfully. I had a long phone call with my therapist this morning. I have to push through it. It'll be okay somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:19 PM
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I don't think anyone could be here if they had a perfect normal life. They would hate it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:18 PM
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They're broken and I hope they get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:11 PM
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I actually have had people say I deserved it for having a mixed kid. Saying I don't have whatever is nothing. Nothing shocks me anymore. My usual reaction to those things is wow, their life must really suck. Couldn't be me acting like that towards others. I won't ever let the evil out there ruin my life. Forward is the only direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:08 PM
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Thank you. I CAN do this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:02 PM
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Some people are evil. It is what it is and I have come a very very long way since then, but I don't think I can ever totally get past it. I don't know if that's even possible when something like that happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:02 PM
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It's going to be an evening beach thing outside of my uncle's house with only close family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:00 PM
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Those same people probably cheated at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:59 PM
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Thanks ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:49 PM
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My biological parents tried to kill me because I was pregnant at 16 and wouldn't have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:44 PM
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Thanks love. I keep telling myself it's okay. He would never do that. I have a good life. I have a great life. I am surround by amazing people that would kill off the entire world before they would allow someone to harm me. At least he seems to know it's not personal. He said to stop worrying about him, because he knows it has nothing to do with him. I hate my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:42 PM
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It's because it's in 2 days. Just a beach thing with close family and dinner and dancing at my uncle's house afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:39 PM
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Thank you for your ppd assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:33 PM
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Thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:30 PM
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Idk if you have to have them for it to be ptsd or not. It think it's the severity or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:30 PM
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Anxiety is not having flashbacks that trigger panic attacks. Thank you for your ppd assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:25 PM
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Thank you for your ppd assessment, but I think l will listen to my doctors and therapist that have been treating me for a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:24 PM
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PTSD sucks so bad. I can't stop crying and having panic attacks over this wedding. I've been puking my guts out and feel like the biggest piece of shit alive. He's a wonderful person! He's absolutely nothing like my crazy racist father. He would not hurt me and my brain will not let it go. Sorry for venting. I hate myself right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:21 PM
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PTSD sucks so bad. I can't stop crying and having panic attacks over this wedding. I've been puking my guts out and feel like the biggest piece of shit alive. He's a wonderful person! He's absolutely nothing like my crazy racist father. He would hurt me and my brain will not let it go. Sorry for venting. I hate myself right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:17 PM
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It's a really nice shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:05 PM
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I like the rock formation in there. You're definitely being too hard on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:12 PM
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Still an amazing picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:07 PM
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That's gorgeous!! You're so talented!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:59 PM
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but others are meh and I'm annoyed about it lol Even the greats made meh at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:55 PM
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You want to nitpick and select a word to justify what you said and you can't do that. You changed the entire context of his quote by purposely ignoring the first half of it. Try again. Maybe you can't comprehend language. Can you read and understand or do you like to pretend that pulling things out of context and applying a different meaning to them is reading? So you DO think it was too much of a leap from "dating" to "women"? I think you should learn to read sentences and paragraphs and you co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:53 PM
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You're the photographer, right? Your pictures are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:24 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/p2ah469gyumd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=59dbf0e051fe028117c5b89cca076d18889c5b94 Step one in reading. You can't stop at the first period. Do you see those other words in the same paragraph? That means those thoughts are connected. Now what does it say? Maybe it's too soon for whole sentences for you? You can try to insult me if you want. It won't work, but you can try. Your mistake was not inferring women from dating. Your mistake was inferring that he must …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:10 PM
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You already said you don't think it was wrong to infer "women" from "dating" so..... The fuck l did say that. I said you were wrong for taking his words saying he's never been on a date or had interest shown in him because of his disability and implying that he was talking about the women that rejected him rather than his disability, which was already mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:56 PM
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maybe I need someone to start running to my defense whenever someone hurts my feelings, too lol Saying your behavior is atrocious is not defending his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:55 PM
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If your only complaint was that I wasn't nice enough No, not being nice enough isn't the same as changing their words, making assumptions, and then saying shit about them that had nothing to do with the point because you want to defend another asshole that did the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:48 PM
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Plan B IS getting married. 😭 Fuck diabetes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:38 PM
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That's most asshole behavior. It's rarely about the person that they're taking it out on and I am sorry that happened to you. You did not deserve that. It's not about fairness. It's about not being a deliberate asshole to someone else. That really is too much to expect from some people. That's not a reflection on you and you don't need to defend yourself to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:34 PM
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Because you're trying really hard to be the victim and I can't tell if you're trolling or just that oblivious. I have that same thought about you at the moment. You can't be this blind. Such kindness and respect in those comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:32 PM
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No. You jumped from him being sad about his disability to he's whining about women and his inability to date them. He responded and said, "Even if it does, it doesn't say anything bad about them so I don't know why you had to point this out. You then stuck to he had to be talking about women and said this wonderful comment. Because you're trying really hard to be the victim and I can't tell if you're trolling or just that oblivious. You really felt that was appropriate to say to someone sad abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:30 PM
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Again, I'm not upset by the insults...but I do expect people who insult to learn how to take it when it's given back to them. You insulted Keeby by taking his comment out of context and saying he acted entitled because he said his disability isn't fair. That is fucked up behavior. He didn't attack you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:19 PM
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What part of that was disrespectful, or insulting? Because he didn't say a damn thing about women. He never said he was entitled to dating or women and yet there you were defending that woman's comment calling him entitled because he said his disability has prevented anyone from showing interest in him. You can't take one part of a sentence out of context and try to fit it to mean what you want when his comment said he's tired of people pretending his disability isn't the problem. That's insulti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:17 PM
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You said you feel justified to say mean things because men said mean things first, specifically things about "fat women and sluts". Did you say that? Why do you feel that you get to say mean things because they did it? Are you implying that life should be fair while you tell someone else that mentality is childish and you can't relate? Do you understand the problem now? You are acting like a hypocritical bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:05 PM
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Do you believe me now, Keeby? It was never about you. These people attack who they think that they can because someone else offended them. That is why you need to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:53 PM
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I do and you're complaining. You're also using someone else's bad acts to justify your own. THAT is childish behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:51 PM
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Whining about either like they're supposed to be and you're utterly shocked they aren't at the age of 22 makes you sound entitled. Do you need me to get more specific? lol You better be 12 when you're crying that you can attack random people for feeling bad about their autism because someone else said mean shit about "fat women and sluts". Do you not see the irony? Are you blind? You are acting like a bully. You're acting like a bully because someone else pissed you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:50 PM
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Again...I will only be as kind or respectful as they are to me. Fantastic. Show me where Keeby said one disrespectful thing to you before you came at him and called him entitled for saying that life isn't fair and his disabilities prevent him from dating. You can do that since you're kind and respectful to people until they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:42 PM
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Go take it out on him like a normal person instead of someone not involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:38 PM
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I didn't say anything worse than what gets said about sluts or fat women daily. Men shouldn't be so sensitive if they can dish it out like that. He did nothing to deserve that shit from you or anyone else, but look at you pretending to even the playing field like you think life should be fair or something. No, those people don't make it acceptable to be rude to someone because their disability hurts them. Talk about irony. Are you new here or something? No, we're not all heartless assholes and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:35 PM
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He was talking about being disabled. That's fucking heartless. I guarantee you're not saying shit about life isn't fair and entitlement if someone talks about infertility, their spouse cheating on them, or being sexually assaulted. Oh well bitch, life isn't fair. Stop expecting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:20 PM
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Wth? You met 2 of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:17 PM
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Good for you. Where was he acting entitled to dating or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:14 PM
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He didn't say dating is unfair. He said life is unfair and he was talking about his disabilities. He said it's not okay for people to assume he's a horrible person and that's why he's single when he knows it's because of his autism and mutism. You took that and jumped to but he really meant dating isn't fair. He didn't mention that once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:12 PM
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I can see how women might find it attractive, but what are the odds of meeting someone that does that? I've never met anyone in my life that has mentioned that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:57 PM
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Blacksmithing? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:27 PM
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Can you find men on this sub calling a disabled woman entitled because she said no one was interested in her with her disabilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:24 PM
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I forgot about my little guys favorite duck. The "rainbow ducks" aka the buffleheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:11 AM
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They winter down along the coast. We get so many wintering bird species. It's pretty incredible to see the variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:01 AM
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We have 2 beautiful species of ducks back home that you would love. The wood and the wigeon. They are incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:52 AM
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How is he acting entitled by pointing out that his disabilities cause him to struggle with dating and women liking him? He didn't say anything about the women that don't like him. He said he doesn't like when people tell him that his disabilities don't play a role in that. That's 100% reasonable when someone like him has also struggled with friendships for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:48 PM
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I love almost anything with mushrooms. They're one of my favorite foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:49 PM
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What did you cook today?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:35 PM
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Many have autism and struggle to maintain friendships let alone more. Don't act like a fucking dick to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:18 PM
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Wtf. I have seen you vent and get down on both women and yourself. That response is horseshit. Don't listen to them. You do not come across as entitled. Sometimes frustrated, sometimes angry, but mainly sad about it. That's completely normal. They can go fuck themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:48 PM
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Currently rereading the 4 agreements.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:37 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/wzruq3vxknmd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3cff8dcf4050431ac78315258d9c8a0bfdd3eecb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:22 PM
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Definitely not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:41 PM
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That's what they were! The only ducks back home l saw in PA were mallards. None of the other duck species and we have really pretty ducks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:23 PM
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I'm going to see if we have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:20 PM
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I looked up pics. Are they big ducks? I think l have seen one or two of them in the wild, but they were big and the darker colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:17 PM
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Aww, she is cute. What kind of duck is that? I've never seen one that's colored that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:00 PM
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You know stuff like this comes up on this sub and the last time I said that so many people said there's nothing wrong with a partner bringing it up. "It's not like they cheated on you." Good luck sleeping when I say cool, I want to fuck your brother as a response to that. Why you mad? I didn't fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:49 PM
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I would a leave a man for even suggesting the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:47 PM
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I would prefer a wife who wants to do threesomes with me Another thing that you'll probably have to hire out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:24 PM
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I couldn't be with any man that tried to hire a nanny. That's acceptable if you're working from home and have small kids, but to avoid caring for your kids is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:21 PM
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I've had that a handful of times. I was just like cool, live your life and l'll live mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:11 AM
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I wanted to call that a larp because police, but it's waffle house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:17 AM
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My ovaries shriveled and died watching that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:07 AM
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Good luck with your pregnancy. I have 4 of them. We're done, but it's sad to see the milestones pass for the last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:35 AM
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I know it. My oldest turns 10 in a few months. It goes way too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:30 AM
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Give them power of attorney and a medical proxy/ medical directive. They can make both legal and medical decisions for you. This can also stipulate that you (name here) want your partner in the room to make these decisions. This document is valid, and hospitals have to abide by it in all 50 states. No shit, that's a legal proceeding. That's totally different than but of course they will let in the mother or your children or write their name down. 😂 That hospital even then has the right to say no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:23 AM
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Putting down a name doesn't change their legal obligations. They have power of attorney or the legal family can sue. Laws have to be followed on that and they are established. Hospital policy comes next. If you are unable to communicate the hospital can limit it to only legal and blood relative visitation. That is why you need a legal power of attorney. That isn't changing with or without marriage. You have parents. You have children. You have siblings. They're always going to have standing over…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:08 AM
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No, I think this is simply a misinterpretation of the law. And if it isn't. It doesn't matter I'd the state has no civil marriage. The state doesn't have to track down polygamy. Read the linked article from a lawyer. He said it. We could do something about it, but if people want to see child rape, I can't stop them. That is the problem and we can't make it easier for it to happen by removing that oversight. Contracts need to be signed by adults. Contracts can be entered into with parental permis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:04 AM
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If state marriage is dissolved, this policy becomes moot. I don't understand sticking to this argument. Hospitals have this policy just to make sure you're someone close to the patient. No hospital is going to turn away the mother of your kids if she's not married. Also, is an icu visit a right of marriage, or is it some private policy? Hospitals keep out your own children depending on the age. MANY hospitals won't allow any minor to visit and you think they won't enforce another policy? They ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:46 AM
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Ok, I don't see how this negates anything I've said. You just don't marry too people. You don't have to marry them. You can't live with them and put them out there as "your spouse". You can't be fucking them and acting married. That's from an attorney on the law. You don't need to be engaged or file paperwork. It's illegal to act as if someone else is your spouse. Ok, so if a pedophile wanted to marry a child. What's stopping him from avoiding the courts and just having a church wedding right no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:36 AM
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You can just name and give someone the power of attorney in the private marriage contract. No you can't. That's a whole separate legal matter that has to be filed on it's own. You don't have to be married to them. ICU visits can be easily solved by just putting a card in your wallet or making that person your emergency contact. If it needs to be more complex. Your desires do not override hospital policy and many hospitals have an immediate family member only policy as in legal spouse. Insurance …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:22 AM
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Wtf is this? He can't speak. He can't read. He's not texting or talking. Exactly what is he doing with a phone? Please make sense with these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:48 AM
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We'll need to see those too. 🥰 My boys love seeing your animal pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:17 AM
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No, it's not, I don't want the government to provide these benefits. Move somewhere else where the majority of people feel that way? I don't need it to be recognized by the government. So you want your spouse to pay taxes on everything when you die if you leave it to them? Because inheritance tax is a thing and there's no way around it unless it's all already in their name. You don't want them to have power of attorney over your medical decisions in an accident or the right to visit you in the I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:16 AM
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Correct, so it's not just saying your married or having a wedding. It's making a legal contract that entails you to benefits from the state. Thank you. Nope. It's living as if your married to them and presenting them as your spouse, like common law marriage. https://www.avvo.com/legal-answers/will-living-with-my-ex-wife-while-married-to-anoth-5008256.html Why is this ok? Why does a court saying a minor is old enough to marry make it ok to marry them. Also, does this even get to the courts, or ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:12 AM
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I'm sure she's as cute as all of your cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:58 AM
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I have to know what l look like as a duck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:54 AM
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Pretty sure she's teething her first tooth already. 😭 Make it stop!! I'm mad at you. You never posted your duck that shares my name. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:52 AM
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I would need evidence of this. That just calling someone your wife is illegal in Utah You can not legally proclaim someone as your wife when you are married to someone else, as in Utah, with these self proclaimed marriages. Statute: A person is guilty of bigamy when he contracts or purports to contract a marriage with another person at a time when he has a living spouse, or the other person has a living spouse. Why do we give tax benefits to just married people. That's what the people and govt h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:45 AM
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Private marriage contracts are not illegal. Your entire argument is why won't the law recognize what I say is a marriage and give me legal benefits without following their steps. You can be married without the state. You can't get govt benefits from it. So are you arguing that the state ending its issuing of marriage contracts will increase these child marriages? That, again are happening right now, under the state with its blessing. The state isn't giving the blessing to illegal marriages. Thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:23 AM
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Not private marriage contracts. They're not illegal. You're welcome to do that now and keep the govt out of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:03 AM
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Yeah, but this is happening in a state that does issue marriage licenses. How does this go against anything I've argued. The state of Utah is enabling these people to marry each other, and so are other states. You're arguing against your own point. These are not legal marriages. These are they decided they're married and the govt should mind their own business marriages. You can't be married to 8 people. Is it illegal to call someone your wife in any context in Utah or in other states. Yes, it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:02 AM
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Because without court intervention it is in fact legal to marry at any age in 5 states and there would be no govt oversight. We would have a lot more child marriages and forced marriages. We would have more last minute mistake marriages and drunk weddings. Most states have a waiting period from when the certificate is issued to when you can marry so it can't be a last minute decision. These oversights are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:42 AM
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Definitely true for my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:44 PM
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I can't believe my baby is 5 months old today. 😭 Slow down!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:23 PM
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Court hearings. The govt decides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:20 PM
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Also the private marriage contract would still have to abide by the state age of consent and marital age laws. Only 9 states of 50 have that set as 18 and one state is 15. You can marry a minor in the majority of states with parental permission and/or judge approval. Look at Utah, were many children, literal children, are married to the same man because the parents said okay and it wasn't legal marriage. It's their "religious right". No, unacceptable and demands court oversight for any minor mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:19 PM
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A lot of people are here because they're bored and some of the crazier takes are so bizarre that you ask yourself the same question. How did that person end up like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:03 PM
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Now why does a marriage license need to be issued by the government and not handle privately. This is your part. How hard is it to get a notarized statement? A few dollars and 5 mins. Congrats. You are drunk and married. She is now allowed to clean out your bank account and you can't do a damn thing about it. She is now allowed to pull the plug should you be injured and on life support because you had a drunk driving accident after the wedding. How convenient that now she inherits all of your th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:59 PM
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You couldn't use it to argue, for instance, that prenups should be state issued. State issued marriage licenses get thrown out too because it turns out they weren't legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:48 PM
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She's so sweet. I love seeing her animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:44 PM
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But so long as you're following those laws, eligibility is determined by the employer. The govt doesn't say who you can marry outside of the laws either. It issues permission, just as it does with a business license. It can also shut down that business and say that they have illegal employees. The govt can also arrest you for polygamy even though you're only legally married to one, because you're violating laws. do the same for marriage To enforce polygamy laws. To ensure that no one is receivin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:43 PM
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There are some very nice people on this sub. I chat with a guy on here and he's the nicest. He sends pictures of a turtle that belongs to a family member because my son likes to see him. Little things like that can really brighten someone's day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:28 PM
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Even prenups drawn up by lawyers are regularly thrown out because a judge finds them unfair and therefore not legally binding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:24 PM
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1.) so why doesn't it do it with an employment contract or a business contract. What benefits does the govt provide to you as an employee? It doesn't provide any to you. That only involves you and the business. The govt does provide benefits to married people. so maybe you can argue why those special privileges need to be given to married people in exclusivity They don't need to be, but they choose it and it's their rules. why the private market couldn't satisfy them. The private market can't pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:23 PM
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when? when does it decide if your contract is valid? as soon as you make the contract and sign it or after you have a dispute. You do not have legally binding contract until a court approves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:10 PM
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its the issuing and drafting of the contract by the government that I disagree with Do you understand why the govt drafts that license and determines marital status? It's so you can't get married, get legally robbed blind and emptied out, and be remarried to another sucker tomorrow. You want the govt protections and benefits provided by the govt without the govt saying who is eligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:09 PM
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Omg, he went with the names. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:58 PM
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What court was involved/sanctioned in your employment contract? The court decides if you have a valid contract. They can send you on your merry way and say it's not valid. so marriage should be the same thing. It already can be the same thing if you choose that. You haven't come up with new idea. Legal marriage and marriage aren't the same thing. Your whole debate is that you think everyone should be choosing one and not the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:50 PM
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I don't understand how anyone gets to that size with people around them. It takes a lot of calories to maintain excess weight, especially a lot of excess weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:43 PM
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My simple argument is that they don't need to do this. employment contracts are written by your employer. Business contracts are written and issued by businesses. The same could/should happen to marriage contracts. That is the difference. The state decides whether any of those contracts are valid and can choose to not honor them. It's only valid if sanctioned by the court. That's the same as marriage. The govt can invalidate those certificates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:38 PM
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They already are and you haven't made a single argument against that. You know the terms of the contract when you sign. You are partners. Everything combined belongs to both. You can divorce at any time. The govt isn't involved anymore than any other contract so what are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:31 PM
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You don't need a license to be married now. You can have a civil ceremony without the legal contract and have an agreement notarized.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:28 PM
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Is it possible to have it that high? What's the weight of the heaviest woman you were with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:25 PM
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I guess it is possible, but it seems very unlikely. It makes me feel like a shit person, but l genuinely think to myself their partner has to be mentally disabled to like them if they're not imaginary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:18 PM
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I can think of a handful of people that have posted and I thought there's no way you're not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:12 PM
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Wow. She needs real help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:05 PM
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The genuinely curious non racist people that ask usually have something along the lines omg, your kids are gorgeous. What's their ethnic ancestry?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:03 PM
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We decided on a small wedding ceremony in Puerto Rico on the beach. If we're going to make it legal we might as well have the wedding for my grandparents and his parents and grandparents. After the wedding we're having a party in my uncle's courtyard with lots of food and dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:10 PM
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Pretty soon l'll stop wearing leggings and fitted t-shirts and care about his opinions more than my mine. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:53 PM
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No need for feelings for him. We've been together for a decade and have 4 kids. He knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:10 PM
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Diabetes. Still hate it, but we're doing it for legal reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:09 PM
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Yeah, l'm doing it. Congrats to diabetes for fucking up my whole life plan!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:08 PM
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Getting married on Saturday. I'm trying to not jump in the ocean and swim my ass back home. Edit: Thanks for the congratulations, but this is terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:05 PM
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Can you honestly tell me that every relationship, including the one that created you, needs to be incentivized? Explain to me why you need a personal contract, let alone a marriage contract. That is an incentive to remain married. You yourself said that loving someone is a choice and not a contract. If you truly wanted the govt out of marriagr there would be no contracts. All it sounds like you want is default prenups and to feel like a special snowflake. "My marriage isn't like other marriages.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:41 PM
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my thesis is, why should the state sanction marriages in the modern day? Do you want your marriage contract to be enforceable by the govt or do they need to keep their noses out of it, which includes the courts? It's a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:23 PM
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Do you want your private contract to be legally enforceable? That's state sanctioned marriage regardless of the origin of the contract. What would be the point of a contract that isn't enforceable? Who is the only entity that can enforce or "sanction" those terms? The govt. All you want to do is change the terms of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:12 PM
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You see that role as enforcing private marriage contracts. That is not keeping the govt out of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:06 PM
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I think all cheaters are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:53 PM
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Get the gov't out of Marriage: Marriage contracts should be privatized You want the govt to stay out of your marriage. Okay, I understand that. Have a religious ceremony without any legal protections or requirements. That's not what you're suggesting. You want the govt involved. You want legally enforceable contracts, but a different kind. Who do you think enforces or breaks those contracts? A govt court.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:28 PM
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Lying about what he was looking for from her or emotional manipulation like threats or gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:13 PM
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I would disagree with most and say slightly below average, but I would need a different picture of him. He looks cross-eyed and like he has an extremely crooked nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:36 AM
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I said manipulate, not groom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:24 AM
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Trust is earned. It takes time. It's built with actions and honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:12 PM
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You have chosen shitty men. You're saying they're not bad guys, but they're clearly contacting you looking to cheat. You picked bad men. They don't regret their choices. They're trying to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:19 PM
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I want to know how this comes up. Why is he telling me this information? This isn't have you been single very long or why have your past relationships ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:10 PM
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Manipulators lie. I would prefer to meet her, but that's unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:38 PM
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I would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:02 PM
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Not bad? You called her old and desperate and neither of you wanted to be together long term. Do you really think that a woman that actually wants marriage waits 10 years to bring it up? You were also a place holder and now either of you have actual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:02 PM
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She's old and desperate NOW You're still with her because you can't do better. 😂 This was not the flex you thought it was having to settle for a woman you consider a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:52 PM
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Bro, come on. You don't have better options if you spend a decade with a whore you call old and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:44 PM
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This is sad for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:20 PM
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5'8-5'9 is ideal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:16 PM
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I prefer men that are only slightly taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:09 PM
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Under 5'7 is probably where it gets extremely hard for men to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:07 PM
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I will directly ask his intent with a playful tone if I think a guy friend is trying to genuinely flirt. I'm not here for all of that and you're no longer seeing me as a friend. It's time for both of us to move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:30 PM
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Those against casual sex or age gaps would certainly not like it. I personally don't care. If I were single I would only be interested in casual with no relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:39 PM
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I wouldn't care as long as he wasn't manipulating or lying to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:11 PM
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When a guy and girl in our friendgroup spend time together without us we assume they are going to start dating Y'all are really sitting around saying people are going to date because they decided to hang out once without everyone? That's dramatic and weird to be discussing as adults. Are you teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:30 PM
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Feelings and displaying those feelings aren't the same thing. No one assumes anything has changed unless a conversation is had or someone starts acting differently. People still hang out one on one quite regularly as friends. They go grab food, they go do activities, and they invite each other over without either person thinking it's a date invite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:14 PM
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Most people don’t worry about avoiding confusion because they know it just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:53 PM
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Yeah thanks 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:18 PM
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I haven't used apps. I've been with my partner since 10th grade and weren't dating at all. We were hooking up and I didn't care that he was seeing other people at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:57 PM
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It's not when you have been hanging out for the last 3 months, drinking, going out, eating, and not even flirting had happened. That is a friend. If you invite a female friend over to hang out does she need to ask you if you're suddenly trying to fuck or date her or if you're still cool? Should she do that every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:25 PM
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Guys: we've been hanging out as friends for 3 months Also ppd guys: How didn't she know that the 10th casual hangout is automatically a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:06 PM
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Fucking flirt at least. He was her friend. Even other guys on this thread agreed with what I said. He doesn't even mention having flirted with her. It's not just that. You invite friends over. That's normal. It's not normal to invite someone to dinner at your house for a first date. She had 0 reason to think it was a date at that point. All of these things are what they mean when they say read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:56 PM
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You don't know the difference between come back with me and would you like to come over for dinner. That's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:40 PM
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He also doesn't understand the difference between do you want to come back to my place and would you like to come over for dinner on Sunday. He thinks they're literally the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:32 PM
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I agree with you and I don't see why she wouldn't be surprised by that. He doesn't mention flirting once.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:23 PM
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So you have no idea what inviting her back to your place means. Okay. "Do you want to come back to my place?" It's literally that. It's not code. It doesn't mean to do you want to come over on Sunday for dinner. It means come back with me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:22 PM
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I casually met this girl three months ago, and we hit it off right away. We went out for drinks, laughed a lot, and attended concerts together with my friends. We had an amazing connection, and even my friends mentioned that the vibes between us were great. After three months of awesome experiences, getting to know each other, I invited her over for dinner at my place. I cooked for her, she brought some beers, and we had a great time talking, laughing, and sharing our dreams and hopes. At the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:13 PM
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After three months of awesome experiences, getting to know each other, I invited her over for dinner at my place. I cooked for her, she brought some beers That doesn't sound like a romantic dinner. That sounds like their previous relationship only it was only the 2 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:05 PM
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I read the thread. 3 months of hanging out with his other friends. Concerts, beers, and all of the normal friend group stuff, so not really an acquaintance at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:04 PM
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Where does OP say it was a romantic dinner? Candles? Flowers? Music? Or did he invite her over they ate dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:58 AM
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Do you assume a male friend is trying to fuck you if he invites you over? Just the 2 of you? No, you don't. Why would a female be different if you haven't been flirting and bantering? Don't ask for sex or a relationship doesn't mean don't flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:50 AM
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more free and fun and less strict and rules That's definitely not true for my kids. Parents are required to act like parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:32 AM
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You're lucky, because she's crazy as hell and claims every ex sexually assaulted and abused her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:14 AM
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Looks like a girl I know named Hayden
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:12 AM
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I'm raising my kids. My house is paid for, by me. He pays his child support. That's enough for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:22 AM
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Good for you. I didn't care that l supported him and the kids for 7 years while he got an education to make that 6 figures. I paid up front for that education so he didn't have interest accruing loans. I will expect the same from him regardless of his financial situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:15 AM
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We do not and will never share finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:55 AM
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This attitude is why I would never be a traditional SAHP and why I don't have shared finances. I will never have a partner that thinks going to work for 8 hours makes him entitled to not do half of the parenting and necessary clean up at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:11 AM
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So 50/50 is fair enough when he wasn't working and was a student and I was working, but not fair now that he's working? You said that was fair enough. Look at your last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:52 PM
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Why shouldn't it be an equal split of duties when you're both home?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:36 PM
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I do dishes. He cooked. His working has nothing to do with it. It was the same when he didn't work and was a student.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:32 PM
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I expect him to do half of the childcare and half of any clean up that is needed when he's home. It's what is was when he wasn't working and what it is now that he makes 6 figures. A job doesn't change your parental responsibilities in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:28 PM
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If it's based on fact, is only a stated opinion, and doesn't impede on the rights of others? Sure. Then it's simply an unpleasant truth, not sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:20 PM
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A prejudice is a false belief not based on facts. That's the definition. It is a fact that men are the number one physical threat to a woman's safety. That's not a prejudice. It's not discrimination either. You don't know the meaning of sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:17 PM
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Explain to me why you feel that people are being sexist by stating that men are dangerous, when in fact men are statistically dangerous to women and even more so to other men. Are you saying these women are wrong when the statistics say the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:32 PM
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You think verbalizing statistical facts about the fact that men are dangerous to women is sexist when it's factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:56 PM
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You're not engaging. Statistically men are the biggest physical threat to women. Statistically black people aren't criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:52 PM
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Are 41% of black people arrested? Because 41% of women are victims of stalking, sexual assault, or physical violence by a partner. Is that a small minority of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:49 PM
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Statistically black people aren't criminals. Statistically men are dangerous to women. They're the number one physical threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:43 PM
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You want to be sexist thats fine just admit it. That's not sexist. Do you consider it racist to say that most convicted criminals are black? That's not racism and this isn’t sexism. It's statistical truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:30 PM
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So we can talk about the many factors involved but thats a different conversation The conversation is women say men are dangerous and you do not like it, but men are the number 1 physical threat to men. Facts don't care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:24 PM
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Okay so no one gets fired for racist speech Do the majority of people making racist statements get fired? No. Do you have a protected right to work there? No. Is there any other recourse against those people? There is not. we have no laws against racist practices That has exactly nothing to do with free speech. People have a protected right to spew racist bullshit. They do not have the right to infringe on their rights as people. There is no right to not be offended by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:22 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ss93zgeyavld1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3e7647a0757b48df094e80b08444861f531bed5f Even chatgpt disagrees with you. The biggest threat to a woman is her partner. As you know most women only partner with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:16 PM
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Why cant you answer that? Are you illiterate? How many different ways can I say that racism is openly accepted in America? It's shamed, but it is not shamed by the majority of society. I have asked very simple questions you ignore and im the one not having a discussion. No, you have done what you always do and pretend someone hasn't answered because you don't like their answer. Racism is accepted. This country wouldn't be such a shithole if it wasn't, but people have that right. It's protected b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:12 PM
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You're not here in good faith. You're here to convince people that statistics about men don't apply to men and shouldn't be verbally acknowledged because it hurts your feels. Oh well. Plenty of men acknowledge the truth women are saying and realize they're not talking about them. Facts do not care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:09 PM
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Is the majority of the country also living on another planet where racism is generally shamed and unacceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:04 PM
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Cool you win lets all be racist as fuck Again, acknowledging a situation and their rights to be that way isn't the same as supporting it. how about you go up to a minority and call them a slur. I'll do that the next time I see a mirror. I am a minority. Do you want to have a discussion or just screech? You're not having a discussion. You're making personal attacks and assumptions that go against all available data and real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:02 PM
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I hope this chart can help you since words seem hard to understand. Racism is being more acceptable. https://preview.redd.it/etnby99l7vld1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=67fa92ec97fb576a09bc4a9eef5407c9a1c4d799
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:57 PM
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You're telling me that Trump wasn't the front runner despite being a racist? You're saying half of the country didn't vote for him? You're saying the country fought back against his ban on Muslims? You're saying that people aren't racist against Mexicans? You're saying that there's not a plight of black people being murdered by the police? Where is the majority of people against the police You're? You're saying that violence against Asians hasn't be rising? You're saying that white men are compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:54 PM
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Cool so youre a moron. Again with the personal attacks. I never said do you i said why do we (meaning societal) shame racist language. Except we don't shame racist language as a society. That doesn’t happen. Where is this proof that the majority of society is openly shaming racism? Do you have any? Is it half of the country voting for an open racist and not rebuking his language? You can't claim something that doesn't exist as fact and say that everyone not agreeing is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:48 PM
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Do you not understanding the question. I understand the question. Do you understand that not everyone shames racist language? Is that a hard concept? I don't shame racist language. You're free to say whatever you want and I have a choice to engage with that attitude or not. Are you a moron or just scared? Already resorting to personal attacks? Gee wow, look at my shock. I don't care about racists. I'm not a snowflake that attempts to police the language of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:36 PM
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Not everyone does, Trump is proof of that. Why are you speaking like everyone or even most people do that? They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:28 PM
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You are absolutely moving the goalposts when you say that respecting their first ammendment right to freedom of speech is encouraging people to use racist language. You shouldn't need that explained to you. I am also pro choice. I am not encouraging people to get an abortion. You have black and white thinking and that's not conducive to any conversation. It doesn't back your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:12 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/nu6br527xuld1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=afca4d9422e4f2bb5e38555c11454beea92103bc Do you support it or do you not know what those rights are by nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:59 PM
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Don't try to move the goalposts. I wish they didn't have those opinions, but they're certainly entitled to them. Those same rights give me the freedom to tell them go fuck themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:46 PM
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Do you think youre all of society? Do you also believe those statistics are not society? Maybe these facts can help you. https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/ending-violence-against-women/facts-and-figures Right and plenty of racists will say those fing nwords are all thugs, but not the one black person i know. And? Freedom of speech and thought. Get the fuck over it, especially on a sub where one of the tenets is ALL MEN AND WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. You don't like people to have the freedom to voi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:41 PM
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The problem is i am talking about culture and you want to talk about youre personal life. You absolutely trauma dumped. My personal life is not statistics? Is it? Just admit that you don't want women asked that question because the answer doesn't suit you. You would have no issue with my personal anecdote if I said no, of course not, because my family is amazing. You wouldn't be bring up cultural vs personal life. You would be saying, "See, men aren't the problem. Why do you feel that men are da…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:31 PM
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You literally said ask them if they should fear their fathers/brothers/sons. You not liking the results isn't trauma dumping. I will not engage in any conversation. You don't engage in conversation. You don't know how to engage in conversation. You get pissed off and resort to personal attacks. You whine that nobody can debate with you because your arguments can't be proven wrong. You refuse to engage with facts. The biggest physical threat of violence to a woman comes from a partner or family. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:20 PM
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You asked and I answered. Now you say women that have been abused by those closest to them, which aligns with statistics, are not capable of debating the topic? Were you hoping for a no? Yes, we have reason to fear those men too. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:14 PM
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Ask them if you should fear your father/brother/son. Yes, my father attempted to kill me for defying him. I was removed by the state. That same man told me men are dangerous. He wasn't wrong. The men closest to us are the biggest threat to our safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:06 PM
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33% of adolescents in America are victim to sexual, physical, verbal, or emotional dating abuse.<sup>[The</sup> NO MORE Project. "Dating Abuse Statistics." www.loveisrespect.org. Accessed April 22, 2014.] Females between the ages of 16 and 24 are roughly 3 times more likely than the rest of the population to be abused by an intimate partner.<sup>[The</sup> NO MORE Project . "Dating Abuse Statistics." www.loveisrespect.org. Accessed April 22, 2014. .] 1/3 is fringe behavior? That's on domestic vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:12 PM
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No, we won't get it because we know that fantasy is anime shit that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:05 PM
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There's a lot of cheating that goes on in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:02 PM
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What is the number one violent threat to a woman? It's a man that's in her life be it her partner or a relative. Why do men not accuse other men of hating men when they teach their daughters these things? This stuff doesn't pop out from nowhere. Why is the response to violence against women other men saying that they're more in danger from being attacked by other men? That in no way helps prove that men aren't exactly what those women are saying. It's not all men, but it's enough to be a problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:45 PM
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You're not entitled to that. Be grateful that those men and women exist. They defend your country, your cities, your homes, and they will risk their lives to help others. That's not useless or stupid. That's what bravery looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:34 AM
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Risking your lives for strangers without getting any rewards for it is just useless and stupid How many firefighters and ems personnel do you know in case of an emergency? Would you expect them to be stupid and useless for your family or should they decide you're not worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:27 AM
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I'm hysterical and he's comparing my happy brother to a fictional superhero that's written sad. Wtf is happening right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:25 AM
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If you're gonna debate with this aggressive attitude then there is no use speaking with you Aggressive attitude? You're the one saying he shouldn't be doing the thing he loves, that saves lives, because you don't see him getting anything out of it. He doesn't need a pat on the back. It makes him feel good knowing that he did something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:19 AM
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Saving other people while living constantly a depressing life with no joy , do you think it's worth it ? He has a happy life. He loves his life. I hope that you never need the services of those people, because your logic says they'd be idiots for saving you or your family. You won't hold the same opinion if your own family needs that assistance. They'll be heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:16 AM
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He knows he's saved people. He knows their families aren't crying in grief. That's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:12 AM
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You have to admit that even if you don't give a damn about the men you think should risk their lives for strangers, you don't want the men who are useful to you to die or end up having jail over a stranger. My brother is a firefighter and was a Marine. He's spent his entire adult life risking his life for strangers. I'm proud of him. I would be devastated if something happened to him, but I would still be proud of him for doing everything that he could for other people without asking for anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:54 AM
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And what do women get? Extra cleaning to do, bearing children that will ruin her body, a man that disrespects her every time he follows another thot on social media, a man that doesn’t even provide for her. You know that you choose your partner, right? You don't have to choose that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:42 PM
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You need to stop drinking if that's what alcohol does to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:30 PM
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You should try those lines on your wife and see how long it takes to ever have sex again. 😂 Do it for science!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:27 PM
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What does a man really gain from this? Nothing. I never helped any person in my life, friend or stranger, and questioned what I would get from it. To me that's a huge problem. You're not obligated to help anyone, but that's the wrong mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:18 PM
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Now he's accused of trafficking minors and back on house arrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:07 AM
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It keeps finances totally separated from our personal relationship. That's the number one thing people fight over and we removed it. We have a peaceful home focused on what is best for our children and those decisions have been made while we're at our best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:41 PM
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No, we do not share finances, which was my decision. We're getting married next month after a decade together. We won't be sharing finances then either and we have a pre-nup. His child support is what I use to buy groceries, including for him and I too, and for their clothing needs. He buys them whatever he wants. I don't ask him for a dime. He pays the utilities as his contribution to the house that he lives in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:33 PM
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No, we're not married, but we are together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:18 PM
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It's a joke because paternity results are always 99.9+ in the results. He's aware that the kids aren't more or less like him. I can't believe I have to explain this to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:48 PM
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What part repulsed you? His joking about which one is most his. Yes, it's a joke. I didn't have kids with a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:05 PM
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Okay, you can be repulsed by a man joking about a test that he HAD to take for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:03 PM
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I hope you are doing well with your other parents, that must have been quite painful. I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm glad your life is lovely now, as it sounds. :) No, a restraining order was put in place to protect me and I have no intention of speaking to my mother again. My father passed away this year. We hadn't spoken since I was 16. Anyway, I only meant to refer to "Bio Parents" as "other parents", since what (I thought) you considered your parents were the ones who came in later. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:00 PM
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He was pissed when he took the test request from his parents like that, but they knew it was needed for future child support. His parents also immediately took me in and finished raising me. They 100% financially supported me just as they did for their other kids and completely supported the baby while I finished high school. Before the test was ever done they had spent thousands of dollars on me no strings attached. I wasn't about to be offended over a DNA test. They wanted to know and that's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:27 PM
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Sounds like they provided help Sounds like they provided help They instantly adopted me as one of their own children and treated me as such. They put me into therapy and paid for it. They taught me to be a parent while allowing me the space to finish growing up. That's not providing help. They became my parents in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:17 PM
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We wanted a boy and a girl. It could have ended at 2. Blame his boy making ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:00 PM
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I wasn't offended at all by the request. We were both minors. His parents took me in and supported me. They supported our baby too. My parents tried to kill me. The paternity test was nothing. My boyfriend took the reasoning wrong. His parents are amazing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:23 PM
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But getting de facto married and having children at 15-16 and then going on to have three more with the same man is definitely way out of sync with modernity's thought on the matter We weren't in a relationship let alone de facto married. We were kids hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:18 PM
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Was marriage out of the question? 🤔 I was against marriage. We're getting married next month. A notarized statement of acknowledgment of paternity is considered enough. It's the law now, but I was in no way offended. We were kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:17 PM
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You can technically leave for any reason, but in practice you need to be a little forgiving if you want to sustain a marriage for the long term. Cheating is not a small accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:16 PM
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Also, thanks for calling me a dumbass, even though I'm asking LEGITIMATE questions about comments you chose to share online. So, I think you're mean. You read that wrong. His dad said that to him. I don't have experience with parental law etc, but you must have been in your 20's by child 4, right? All 3 younger kids were born in my 20's. Was paternity still a legal issue with his parents after probably more like 6-7 years? Their father is a weirdo that likes the percentages shown on the test so …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:15 PM
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That has nothing to do with blue pill. It's a legal matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:55 PM
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No, my kids understand it's a joke, they're all half him, and he loves them equally. Not everyone is out here looking for problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:53 PM
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You choose what you will tolerate. He's not wrong for leaving her over an accusation of cheating. Those are his boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:46 PM
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I was 16 when I got pregnant. He was 17. We needed the test for child support paperwork and his parents asked if I would be okay with it. My partner was actually really unhappy about their request, because he said they were accusing me of being a whore when I was a virgin when we got together. He said looked at him and said you need the test for child support you dumb ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:44 PM
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I was 16 when I got pregnant the first time. It's totally natural and warranted at that age. We also needed it for child support. Then we got the results. They come in percentages. I have chosen a very special type of man that wants to know which child is "most his" by the highest percentage so he can claim that one as "his baby". He just likes the numbers, but they are necessary for child support too. Edit: Jfc people, it's a joke. He's not claiming one of the kids as his actual favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:42 PM
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I do disagree. My partner and I share everything, including pass codes. We don't ask to get into phones or computers. We also don't snoop or feel a need to check on others. There are consquences when you make an accusation of cheating. I get that she's emotional and insecure. I have been pregnant 4 times. It's not an excuse for those feelings to turn into actions. My kids have all had paternity tests too, but he wouldn't have 4 kids if I ever felt for one second that he was accusing me of having…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:07 PM
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He was justified in leaving the moment she started accusing him of having an affair and demanded he prove himself, not by looking through the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:59 PM
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Violence is an act on their part, not a result in harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:56 PM
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For real? We should add violent and stupid to that list? Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:38 PM
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Please refer to my screenshot. Women are soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:57 AM
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That's looking at men never married until the age of 50 and it's still only that low. Yes, the majority of men will be married at some point despite not being a model and they will likely have an average sex life of sex twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:40 AM
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We're calling 25% average now? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/202009/record-number-of-americans-have-never-married-and-never-will YOU look at the fucking studies I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:35 AM
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Good thing the average married couple has sex twice a week and isn't in a dead bedroom. Those are outliers. Go look at studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:33 AM
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Women enjoy sex. Just only with around 5% of men, the most attractive ones Go outside. Women are happily with men that aren't models everywhere. You don't think they have sex? They have kids with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:31 AM
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Prison gay is very much a thing. Women have VERY, VERY high standards for attractive, only being attracted to around 5% of men, almost entirely due to unchangeable genetic qualities. That doesn't mean women don't enjoy sex or seek pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:29 AM
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? If you think women's safety is more important than men's hurt feelings, why be a hypocrite now and think women's feelings are more important than men's safety? You expect, "trust me" behavior only from men towards men. You realize women are every bit as much scum pieces of shit as men are right? My kids were tested. You're barking up the wrong tree. I tell men to get tests. This came up because you said you can't say men are this or that while you act like hypocrite and do it to women. If it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:27 AM
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Men want a hole. Women want a partner they're attracted to physically. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:25 AM
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Okay, and? That doesn't mean women don't want or like sex. They'd rather masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:22 AM
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Being mad because your partner values their safety over your hurt feelings makes you soft. Tell that to the men screaming over man vs bear. Tell that to the men saying child support shouldn't be a court issue and should be up to the man and what he wants to pay rather than security for the mother. 😂 I guess men are indeed soft. You should probably stop saying it's a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:20 AM
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<image> But not soft. Women are soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:13 AM
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You don't think women orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:28 AM
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Are you that woman that says women can't feel sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:24 AM
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She has a job. It's not a relationship offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:12 AM
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Why are men paying for sex from stranger if they tie love and sex together? They wouldn't. Sex work is done outside of a relationship for a man they don't want. We like sex. We only like sex with men we want. That shouldn't be hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:10 AM
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Yes; and I provided the numbers that "moving on" like this leaves a man only with 30% of initial potential dating pool even if his looks threshold is non-existent. Not saying it's something bad; saying it is what it is. That man has to decide what's important to him. So, "vasectomy" was just a knee-jerk response that you copy-paste randomly whenever you locate a guy with opinions, or what? A man should get a vasectomy if he's worried about paternity fraud or he's out there sticking his dick in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:35 PM
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I have no idea how getting a vasectomy is supposed to help a man who wants to raise a child that is his own. Not getting married isn't going to help him either. You say you want tests for your future kids. She agrees or you move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:24 PM
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That's what I said. Don't get married. Get a vasectomy or don't have sex. It has nothing to do with marriage. Ffs imagine if 29.8 percent of women were tricked into flushing their lives down the drain to raise the children of their husbands' mistresses. I wouldn't be shocked if a significant number of men had mistresses and children getting money from married men that their wives know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:18 PM
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Yes? This is based on the same paper that I am citing. You can look it up yourself (the paper itself I mean; it is available on Researchgate). 1.9%/3.7% is the estimate for high paternity confidence subsample, not for general population. Most of these men are in fact the fathers of their putative genetic children; only 29.8% could be excluded as biological fathers of the children in question. That's a far cry from 55%. Not an issue at all; potential dating pool is slashed in half. Do you care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:53 PM
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https://www.discovermagazine.com/the-sciences/the-paternity-myth-the-rarity-of-cuckoldry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:37 PM
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I don't see how it's sexist to say meet your expectations as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:34 PM
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It's men that go on endlessly about how a man is being stoic, capable, strong, a leader, and is logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:29 PM
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They care, but not as much as they care about getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:24 PM
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55 is upper estimate from test labs (USA); "unknown confidence" estimates are between 10 and 30. Let's go So 30% of the tests where the man suspected he wasn't the father? That means 70% were the father despite their suspicions. 1 in 2 will go ballistic at a suggestion of paternity test despite having nothing to hide. How is this an issue? Move on, but no, your dick or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:23 PM
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They contain terms that if not met are grounds for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:16 PM
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"She won't fuck me if I do that." Oh well. Stop bitching, man up, and grow a pair. It's a conversation. Men, the rational logical gender. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:07 PM
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It won't get you a DNA test while married. It's not enforceable to a marriage. It's only used in a divorce and anyone can get a DNA test in divorce proceedings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:03 PM
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Finding some attractive and finding them sexually attractive are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:57 PM
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They're both crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:55 PM
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I would say not true. "Women may consider resources." A hot man has never been asked his career before a hook up. That's all you need to know. Yes, some women will settle for money. Some men will settle too. They settle for women they don't like or less attractive women for what they also provide. "Men look for fertility and health." Men will hook up with fat old women. That's neither youthful, healthy, or fertile. People are people. Don't overcomplicate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:49 PM
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You might want to change your flair. Red pill says women are attracted to status and resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:31 PM
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I feel the same about child support and yet men flip the fuck out over it. That man is a piece of shit if he feels that a woman shouldn't have that security for their child. It's also the number one reason that a woman should get the test done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:22 PM
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I know multiple men that do that. Most guys don't require someone to drink when they're drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:53 PM
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I don't drink. It never limited my social options. I went to tons of parties. There's nothing weird about drinking a soda when everyone else has a beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:41 PM
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We have one account and it is a picture of us. We're not big social media people. It's used for family living far away and close friends. There's no real reason to have 2 accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:32 PM
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I don't judge people by statistics, which my partner is grateful. Imagine if I held the statistics of black men in America against him. Maybe that's wrong since he's from Nigeria. Oh wait, they're worse for the treatment of women. It's a good thing that l see him as an individual, because he's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:57 PM
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Also, these men exist. They actually have a term. Introverts. Lol. Introverts exist and l don't find them attractive. Introverts also have friends. They prefer small social settings. Introvert doesn't mean friendless. I like a man with a social life. I like social men that fit in easily and make friends. I like that I can him to a party and he can have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:59 AM
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Your hypothetical man doesn't exist. He's texting her, calling her, venting EVERYTHING to her, doesn't want her to go with own friends because he's happy that way. Why can't she be happy with him too? It's a compatibility issue. He has no other social life and it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:55 AM
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You can't have one person who is your entire social outlet. It's too much on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:51 AM
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Because l need a partner with other social outlets and a life outside of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:48 PM
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The cost should absolutely not be funded by taxpayers. The couple can split the cost between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:57 PM
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I think it should be available, but not mandatory. My kids all have had tests. Which could also bring up the question, should men be forced to father a child they did not intend to have? Mothers are also forced to pay child support when they don't have an abortion because the man wanted the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:47 PM
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It might be the biggest issue for women voters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:31 PM
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Having a small social circle isn't a red flag, but having no friends is a red flag and a complete deal breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:12 PM
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Like a legal guardian? Like a partner. Why am I with you if you're not my partner? It seems as though women care about the relationship between partners more than many men. Men seem to care about what is provided to them in a relationship in regards to sex, house chores, and cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:18 PM
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I would end a relationship where that wasn't the case, because why am I with you if I don't consider you to be the most important person to me? Why are you not the opinion I value the most? Why are you not the person I can go to and rely on for anything? That's a broken relationship to me. It happens or it doesn't. A relationship where we're not that to each other isn't worth it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:58 PM
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https://ibb.co/HtL2Bff These are your responses to me straight from my history. Notice how nowhere in any of your responses did you mention that. "Maybe it's the way you worded it." Wow, totally sounds like l was calling him names, right? I'm supposedly name calling and the worst you can say is that my wording made me seem critical of his standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:32 PM
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You're thinking of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:08 PM
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So the majority of women don’t care to control their diets that means he needs to stfu and put up with it? Tell me what that has to do with what I said. Is he not cutting out the majority of women. He is and l said his standard is fine. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:38 PM
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Interesting that you say that he was chewed out because I said his standard cuts out the majority of women in the US . Is that how that works? That's chewing someone out? Well okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:05 PM
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Murica
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:06 PM
3

It's very weird. Disney lied to me. My mom said I was cute. Why won't you treat me like someone l'm not? Society is about to collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:00 PM
2

You need a visible gun rack.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:52 PM
9

I wouldn't say settling. They like them for more than pure sex appeal. Men do the same damn thing. Men literally pay for my attention and to watch me dance in a club. No touching is allowed at all. Are the women they date being fucked over because he's not throwing thousands of dollars at her? He can't like her? He can't want her? He has to be settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:51 PM
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You're asking why women won't treat you like you're the hot fun guy. You're not the fun hot guy from their past. Why won't men treat a 45 year old single mom like their dream girl? Because she's not their dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:04 PM
2

Planned a weekend trip to Vegas for him and his best friends while I stayed home with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:14 AM
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