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Dreamlancer/r/askTRP17/11/19 10:14 PM
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There isnt enough information here to give an honest and actually informed answer. Most guys don't just randomly suggestion a threesome with their girlfriend and their best friend without some pretty obvious hints being dropped. Have you had 3somes with your friend before? Have you done 3somes before and told him about it? Have you told him you've done things with your friend before? Has your friend suggested you all have a threesome? Is this something that has ever come up in conversation among…
/r/seduction20/05/26 05:37 PM
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I think this thread goes both ways. And I think it misses the point of the message. The people that are making that argument are making it around the idea that if you build it they will come. And the argument is generally made towards people in their youth. Time invested in yourself is time well spent. Because of all the variety of paths you can take in life whether that be partners, career opportunities, changes of scenery. The only common denominator in that, is you. Having regrets about misse…
/r/seduction20/04/26 08:20 AM
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At the dinner table when you're sitting across from them saying "This isn't working out I'm breaking up with you." Wait at least a couple minutes before pulling out your phone and swiping.
/r/seduction18/04/26 04:26 AM
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Lol. It's not rocket science dude. If she is real. Get her number. See if her place is free logistically and go there. If not, do either of you have cars? If so. Still easy. If you don't have cars or places. Little bit more difficult logistically. But still easy. When there is a will there's a way.
/r/seduction22/02/26 04:41 AM
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Part 4, I'm finally done: I hope you get the point here about dates, physical chemistry, you shouldn't have to guard a chick that is interested in you from other guys. She'll generally curve them herself or with minimal effort from you. The issue is that by this point she wasn't super invested in you as anything more than a friend, because you haven't done anything for half a dozen dates that was remotely sexual. And that's seriously evidence by the fact that you've now finally got her back at a…
/r/seduction22/02/26 04:08 AM
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Part 3: Now that hopefully you understand the breakdown of generally what is a bad date, and what is a good date. And what to look for on a date. You need to circle back and ask yourself honestly on those 5 dates - Where you only started even talking about sex on the 5th date? Which is crazy to me. Naughty conversation, innuendo, or sex, etc is generally date 1 material. Does that mean that you tell her you want to bend her over a barrel of hay? No. Does that mean go through your sexual exploits…
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:46 AM
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part 2: So here is a recommendation for the future. Bit of game for anyone else reading. First dates should simple and low commitment. But ideally they are on a day where you've both decided you have a meaningful amount of free time. That way when you say: "Hey meet me at this coffee shop that I know." Ideally you go there and people know you. But its low commitment. Ideally that coffee shop is not too far from a park. So it becomes: Hey, we got our coffee but its still really hot to drink. Mayb…
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:29 AM
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I'll do it here. The point of these type of posts is so people can learn. Know that this isn't a public flogging. And its really just my own opinion. I'm just a guy on the internet, take it with a grain of salt. Starting: You're in your late twenties, but you've only had one partner. Meanwhile, you mention this woman started having sex at 21(if that's true), with no other mention of her age. But I need to start by saying if she is like 22, 23. And you're 28, 29? The expectation is generally goin…
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:07 AM
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There are other comments here that are of great value to you. But the easiest thing to do here is cut your losses. Its one thing to have a friendship with a girl, and hanging out, whatever. But if you're hanging out with a chick and going on 'dates' with a girl, but getting no action while she is throwing it around everywhere else. Its time to cut your losses. (Should have cut them a long time ago to be honest.) Look being in your late 20s and having a body count of one is tough. And its going t…
/r/seduction22/02/26 02:05 AM
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You know the answer to this. I bet someone has told you the obvious answer. It's just not the answer you want to hear. So you're here. Why has the promiscuous girl that sleeps with anyone not sleeping with me in spite of having all these opportunities? Because she already decided that your attention and being a drinking buddy to vent to is more valuable that betting folded on the back seat. That might suck to ehar but it is what it is. Sometimes the only way you win is when you stop playing. My …
/r/seduction22/02/26 12:49 AM
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What an odd question. But assuming you're looking for a serious answer? Technically? 0. Practically? Enough to pay your bills and have a gym membership you're actually using. As long as you're putting a comparable amount of effort into yourself/your appearance and have your own life loosely squared away? You don't need to have a lot of money. You just need to not be boring and actually have meaningful interests or pursuits in life. Which I think some guys don't really get. Just don't have the ex…
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:59 PM
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Awesome. How is this helpful? You do realize that you can't control human nature right? To the degree that this even happens to celebrities. There are stories all the way up to touring bands and all the way down to highschool friends where someone brings a girl around and then she develops an interest in the lead singer, or the guy on the football team etc. This doesn't take away from you. It doesn't take away from your friends. But that's sometimes just the reality that fame, charisma, and soci…
/r/seduction28/01/26 05:56 PM
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You keep dodging the question about your age whenever someone asks. The reason people were asking is that this is some of the most immature bs that they've probably read in awhile. And I don't understand how you couldn't put yourself in her shoes before writing this post to know where it went wrong. If you rewrote this post and it read. 'There is this girl I really like from some dating app. I'm super into her. We went on a couple dates. I tried to sleep with her night 2. She declined. I tried t…
/r/seduction28/12/25 06:00 PM
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Jeeeez. I haven't seen a post from this sub in a long time. But are you seriously asking where you went wrong? Please reread through what you just wrote. Then read it again. And then I urge you to read it a third time. You start off by saying she's a 5/10 you're not interested. You meet up for 2 dates, one of which she tries to have sex, and you shoot her down, even when she offers to have you spend the night. The next time you meet up, by your words, you weirdly stick it in her but then don't a…
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:59 AM
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The thing you don't differentiate between your point of view however is that you likely don't want to never be approached by any guy, particularly one that you would deem a great dating candidate. I am sure you would want them to approach you. And if I am wrong about that, I think we can at least agree that your personal experience/opinion in that regard likely wouldn't be a common one shared among many other females. So if you would want to be approached by a guy that you deem of substance, aga…
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:49 AM
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It has nothing to do with you being a women and has everything to do with it not being great advice for a 24 year old young man. And I think I was very fair in the response I gave you that you otherwise ignored by replying to this comment again. Being able to separate personal experience and bias from the advice you give is paramount. You have a personal opinion that approaching is solely for finding a candidate for dating. But there is a huge difference between the practice men have to put in t…
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:05 AM
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No, your advice is just laughable to a 24 year old kid. How about you answer this, the guys that you decide to approach. Are they well dressed, carrying themselves with confidence, seemingly sure of themselves? When you engage with them, are they clingy and talking your ear off at a moment's attention? Or are they pretty casual as if the conversation is no big deal. When you choose to remain in the conversation - is it because they are fun and a joy to talk to? Is it because they don't seem nerv…
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:32 AM
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No offense but this is so dumb to me and off base and an incredibly female perspective. Generally speaking in life a woman doesn't have to get the skillet to approach men. And when they do approach men, it is so rare that it's a welcome change of pace that it's almost never shot down with a cold shoulder. They don't have to get over the nerves and jitters associated with being just one guy potentially approaching a group of girls just because there is someone that you'd want to talk to. So you c…
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:15 AM
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The point I'm trying to make is there are going to be uncomfortable situations when dating. And you'll never be able to properly tackle them if you don't take the time to get experience with them. If this girl said "hey OP we are going to have a date at a bar 1 on 1" Sure be annoyed with this girl if you want. If you both said "Hey, do you want to meet up at xyz bar tomorrow at 9?" and you said sure. This isn't strictly a date or setting the expectation for one. Given your admitted lack of exper…
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:52 PM
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I replied to OP already. But he just needs more experience. It doesn't matter if it's good or bad experiences. He just needs experience so that he is no longer uncomfortable in scenarios like this in the future. There are a load of scenarios that can make a guy have nerves. But the amount of people in this thread saying. "The girl you were going to meet was in a group of girl friends after you agreed to a night out? Gtfo you did the right thing OP." Is ridiculous. Women on nights out in general …
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:18 PM
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Just seeing these responses. But to people saying that you should have just left aren't actually helping you get better. You admit yourself you haven't had much success with women. You admit to yourself you are new to this and you don't have experience. You admit to yourself that the situation made you uncomfortable. Okay. GOOD. The truth that I haven't seen any of these replies tell you is that approaching and dating randoms is always uncomfortable when you first start out. Especially when unex…
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:10 PM
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I don't typically reply to these from this account. But it sounds like you were meeting up for a night out at a bar, and not a planned dinner date or anything like that. Chances are she brought her friends as a fall back/safety net. Is it sort of lame? Sure. Does it ultimately matter? Not really. All you had to do was say hi, shake a few hands, crack a few jokes about having to meet the entire family for a first date. Wonder if her mom and dad are showing up as well(playfully of course). Then se…
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:44 AM
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But regarding the guy? As a chick all you really have to do is just tell him. It can be as simple as just watching a movie and then touching him while you cuddle. Or as bluntly as telling him to stand in front of you while you're sitting down and then just giving him naughty eye contact from down there as you pull him close. The truth is that assuming you're both into each other in some way? And it's not like you're into him but he's gay or has no interest in you? The only things that would hold…
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:35 AM
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You've been orbiting for two years. She takes days to reply to your texts. She has a boyfriend. So what're you doing? The easy answer ghost. You need to not waste your time that could be better invested in yourself or other women. She only wants your attention now because she's used to having it for free, and now she doesn't. Spending your time on forums and other avenues asking about this girl you're hung up on that you clearly want but never made your intentions clear over two years and asking…
/r/askTRP07/11/21 10:43 PM
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Did you try to form the most selective hearing response you could fathom? The problem is not Asian girls. And who cares if it's blood relation or not? The issue is that you're desperate for pussy. The post screams it. And the issue with your aunt is that you're so desperate that you're considering blackmailing your aunt who is clearly in a relationship with your cousin just so you can get your dick wet. There are billions of women out there, and I guarantee a lot of them are hotter than your aun…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:35 PM
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I can't cite your previous posts easily because I'm typing this on my phone. However I'm going to be Blunt and honest with you. Women don't like you or want to sleep with you. This is unlike your friend. It's likely as plain as day in the way you carry yourself, just like on Reddit with your post history on display. You're creepy, desperate, jealous, and pussy starved. It's clear for everyone to see in the way you type. How do you think it comes across in person where you have no time to filter …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:37 PM
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You either want her to find the girl, or find a girl that will make her the center of attention and be cool with that. In my experience with threesomes both good and bad, the biggest indicator of a bad threesome is someone feeling left out. For example if you find a girl more into guys and she is climbing all over you, feels great in the short term. However your girlfriend watching that happen will only make her self conscious or spiteful in the longterm regretting the whole ordeal. And this is …
/r/askTRP26/09/17 09:05 AM
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I don't see the problem. In fact, she text you back about her coming to family gatherings again. You don't need to bring it up at all frankly. However the fact that she brought it up to you is really just one of the two: Either she is still interested, or she just doesn't want things to be awkward for future gatherings. Either way as long as you aren't still actively trying to get into her pants without thoroughly assessing which way the wind is blowing, it shouldn't be an issue at all.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 04:34 AM
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I don't understand what fantasy land this is. They are flat out not going to give you a portion of their company without forking up cash. But then secondly, lets say your magic fantasy scenario works out right? Now you have majority control over this company, and you have 10% of the company. What happens when the other owner who gets screwed says "Fine, since you guys want to run everything, I'll let you do just that." and sits back with 45% ownership of the company, doing absolutely nothing and…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 08:06 AM
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This person just posted as a guy on RoastMe...
/r/seduction13/07/17 10:53 PM
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I'd more likely say that he probably does masturbate, and just tells you he doesn't. If he can't get an erection at his age there is more than likely something mental going on. It could be physical, but I'd say its more likely in his head rather than something like low testosterone.
/r/seduction13/07/17 10:46 PM
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I suppose I'll post here, but I did send you a PM to keep the conversation private if you wish. First and foremost, I will agree with most of the people in this thread. At 18 years old if you aren't happy with your relationship and it isn't satisfying you in ANY way, there is no harm in leaving. At this current age there is a very obvious gap between the two of you. When you were 16, he was 20 dating you. You don't often find 18 year olds and 22 year olds doing the same things. It's almost like …
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:36 PM
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There are probably just more subtle ways than used condom/wrappers.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 05:45 AM
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Situations like this frankly aren't easily repaired. Just because someone is related to you doesn't mean that you owe them anything. Unfortunately after working in the car business I see that you fell into the same trap I've seen many couples which is you bought a car with someone else of unreliable character. My advice is purely going to be in regards to the car since it seems to be one of the main things holding you back. Did you cosign for the vehicle? Is it essentially a straw purchase? Are …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 11:42 AM
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Honestly the top comment says that you seem like a decent lad with his shit under control. That's fine. However my personal judgment from the way you express yourself here is that you aren't as outcome independent as you should be. It likely has been clouding your judgment. Additionally, and this may be from my experience in sales, but you should be able to know what you have pretty quickly. Escalating is just moving to a close. You need to always be doing that, but you should be able to tell fr…
/r/seduction12/09/16 06:49 AM
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Yeah, you just need to be comfortable initiating. It's pretty easy. Just go for it.
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:39 PM
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Okay this opinion is slightly different than the ones already posted here. If she is on your bed, and stuff isn't happening pretty much immediately. You made a mistake along the way. Don't transition to the bed unless you are 100% certain that something is going to happen. Because once you bring her to the bed, you can't leave the bed. My advice to you is the following. You bring a girl back to your place. Ideally you are both having fun touching each other as you make the way back up to your pl…
/r/seduction18/04/16 07:04 PM
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If it's a shorter girl, you can just ignore it. It doesnt mean shit. Dont be phased and act like she didnt even say a thing. If she keeps bringing it up, she is looking to get a rise out of you. Guage the girl and reply. "Its new for me too. The girl i was formerly seeing was going to the gym as much as me. It will be fun being with a girl who is more huggable." Bet that shit test wont come up again as you pull her into a hug. Alternatively if she is taller, dismiss it. I like to have fun with t…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 07:55 PM
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This entire post is blowing things way out of proportion. And all of the analogies being thrown around are ridiculous. I'll say this applies to both male or female for the sake of the argument. Whether this kid ended up finding a penis or boobs on the phone is irrelevant. Here a teacher had a phone on their desk, which is their private and personal property. A phone is something personal that is near universally carried by anyone in developed countries, so much so that you can ask anyone on the …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:47 AM
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I think its "A man cannot remake himself without suffering. For he is both the marble and the sculptor."
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:36 PM
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See then you come back with these flawed scenarios. TRP is sexual strategy, it's stated over and over again no matter how many people try to treat it as a whole new lifestyle choice. It's sexual strategy first. So with this in mind, lets tackle the issues you brought up. Gays in the 50s? Gays in the 50s were being beaten to death for standing out and saying I'm gay and I'm proud. The ones that survived were the ones that knew the concept of being openly gay was not openly accepted. They hid it f…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 01:58 AM
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There is a lot of circle jerking in this thread by the OP trying to justify this law is bad, no matter what extent he needs to go. A school of fish are swimming down the blue paint river. One fish decides to swim against the current, and the blue paint it blown off exposing his red scales as other blue fish take notice and pass him by. One of two things happen. He continues swimming opposite of the school, and the entire school leaves him behind and he is left alone. Or he decides to go back to …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 08:55 PM
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Alright I'll be the one guy to go against the grain here. These aren't bad lessons to teach a kid. All of these skills individually are fine and frankly should make the act of a future date a lot more simple right. (I'm sure at some point anyone reading this was that young guy looking at a receipt like an owl with no idea what to tip) There is also a lot more that can be taught in these lessons. Now where the problem comes in is that this is likely all he'll ever learn. He won't have the male fi…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 02:19 AM
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No worries, I hope it helps.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 08:45 PM
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If we are giving life lessons here, I'd tell my son the following. Life isnt fair. We live in a world that vilifies fighting but tolerates bullying. No one blames the lion for eating a gazelle, but the moment a gazelle fights back against the lion it is the highest viewed video on youtube. I am not raising you to bully, because i expect more from you. But I am also not raising you to be bullied. You must stand up for yourself in life, in all things. This isnt a choice, but an obligation to yours…
/r/askTRP20/12/15 02:04 AM
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I'm sorry, a lot of people on this sub love to stroke it to the AWALT vibe and let go of all accountability for their own actions because they have been previously slighted by some girl. Here is a guy that has gotten into a LTR with a girl, and the girl cheats on him. Instead of hard nexting her and continuing on with his life he decides to stay in the relationship and share the space with this woman. Now here he is sneaking out of his house at 2 in the morning to just screw a plate because his …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 02:29 AM
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"Get the cute one's number for me." Edit: Figure I should at least explain the point behind this. Her actions are to get a bit of a rise out of you. If she wanted to cheat, she would have kept the guys to herself. So in a way it's a bit of a shit test, but also her hamstering a bit. "Oh he know's I'm with them, so it's fine, nothing will happen." The above statement shows you don't care who she is with, but the fact that she felt the need to note that it's with guys merely amuses you. "Get the c…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:47 AM
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If there is one thing I wish I could go back and do while I was in highschool, it's lift weights. Start now.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 07:22 PM
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The red pill is about living a life that you can agree with. If u don't want to pay for your dates, then don't. If you are looking for specifics right now. You already brought up the pay issue. Next time meet directly at the bar, not hanging out first. Order your drink either beforehand or when she arrives. Now I'm not looking to give you line for line dialogue, but this is generally how I feel the exchange should be handled if it comes around a second time. Some amused mastery, some dread, and …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:25 AM
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I will only speak from personal experience here as someone mixed growing up not quite in a rather run down area, but very close to it. (Oakland if it matters to anyone) I feel that culturally black culture is very expressive. This is both physically and verbally. In men this can promote great qualities. This translates to sports, game, and can translate well into success. However in women I found the qualities were not things you want to see. You don't want a girl that is quick to argue, and qui…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 05:40 AM
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I guess it depends on how cool the guy is about it then. Although regardless numbers should be easy. Or saying you'll come back by on your lunch. If you play it right you can tell her to make you something, then if she agrees its pretty much an easy in.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 02:46 AM
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Really? You can't game a girl lounging about on the floor likely in shorts and a tank top already in her house with a bed provided for you? Honestly it's drive, the only thing stopping you from hooking up is you. Now idk how well job security will be for you if you make a habit of that, but those should at least be easy numbers. Think girls checking out fit guys at the gym but they don't approach because they appear to be busy. Well here she has an excuse to be in your way and get your attention…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 02:08 AM
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I'm saying oral sex in general isn't as dangerous for the receiver. A lot of stds just don't pass via saliva. Although the giver can obviously get some stds via sperm. However herpes is herpes. Don't stick your penis in a place you wouldn't kiss, and you'll largely be alright.
/r/seduction04/05/15 06:38 AM
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Well since no one gave you a legit answer, I guess I'll give one and put an end to the circle jerk. STDs from a blowjob while possible aren't very common. The majority of STDs aren't passed through receiving oral sex. The one you need to be mindful of is oral herpes(HSV-1). The virus is actually very common and many people have it in America, but it stays dormant showing no signs of the infection. Without signs of the infection, passing on HSV-1 is significantly low risk. However with visible co…
/r/seduction03/05/15 07:30 PM
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Ah well that changes things a bit with that information. Word choice. I wasn't going to expect "Girl" to be used for a woman significantly older than a 23 year old that has also been divorced with 2 kids. I think my idea for execution still stands if you want, although obviously there are already red flags going up for a woman with kids and divorced for someone at your age.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 06:08 PM
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This may not come off as entirely redpill, but first what is your issue with her presently? Do you not care for her anymore? Do you not want to be with her? Or is it simply that you feel that you cannot work on yourself while she is in your life? To me it sounded like you still feel much of the former while you are also thinking of the later. I believe what you said just here is perfectly reasonable for turning your situation right here into something you want. You can cut this girl cold out of …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 05:05 PM
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Not to be that guy, but just In relation to your title. The rules of fight club are 1 and 2: don't talk about it. The first being don't talk about it. The second being Tyler breaking the rule by talking about it so it gets others to talk about it and their numbers grow. Kinda the opposite of what is preached in the post following
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 12:52 AM
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If you have to ask? No. You aren't confident enough in your own capabilities.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 03:47 AM
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Well I hate to break it to you, but long distance pretty much never works unless you open up the relationship on both ends. Although at the end of the day, that makes her more of a plate that a ltr. As for her following you cross state? It can work. I won't get into strong frame or anything like that, but very obviously she will feel that she has invested a lot into the relationship doing that. That alone can be a bad seed to be planted as well that will from resentment if not tended with care. …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:48 PM
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This post actually made me laugh a bit. I mean I get where you are going with it and I understand. But I'm a guy and I've done the exact same thing to strangers before. Admittedly I don't try and press the idea if the ride to work or where ever is out of their way. Although I do remember the first time I asked a random stranger for a ride. I had been walking to work and around town as of late because I needed to fix a part on my car which I didn't have the money for. I walked outside at 6 in the…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 06:31 PM
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Well your comment to her in the text was pretty ballsy. I personally wouldn't have gone for that in your shoes, but I suppose in for a penny, in for a pound. I know you don't want to hear it anymore, but I wouldn't have said things like that without having escalated to near the point of sex. Because if you follow through with what you said, it looks like you are just telling here, "We are going to have sex." Which isn't bad. However if her mindset is already considering you as a friend, it can l…
/r/seduction11/01/15 06:17 PM
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You're young and dumb. You don't need to isolate to kino. If she is equally as inexperienced as you are, you can just act like some young dumb couple really wherever you are. Honestly if you aren't touching, you are becoming a friend. You can skip out on this advice if you want to, but she will lose interest. Escalation is really the name of the game. Nothing else matters if you don't know how to escalate. You don't even need to isolate her to kino, you just need to create a bubble with the two …
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:32 AM
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The I don't know probably really hurt you last night. Either she wasn't interested anymore and she was trying to tell you that subtly. Or she was gauging your interest, and you shot her's down. If you meet for a 3rd date and she doesn't stand you up, I'd be mindful to make it that you are close to each other where you can physically escalate quickly. The fact that you are getting to 3 dates, and you have only kissed can be a pretty bad sign. Any girl is willing to sleep with someone on the first…
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:39 AM
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Don't settle for the friend zone if you don't want it. She is beating around the bush with her words. Giving her a direct ultimatum in turn will give yourself your answer and save yourself time. "Oh I think we should just be friends." "I have enough friends. I want something more with you." This will solve the problem outright. As for what you should have said in the moment. I don't like your response because it didn't have control. I can break it down word for word if you like. EX: People more …
/r/seduction11/01/15 07:59 AM
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Glad you brought these up, because all of the answers in regards to this post are also humorous. Why do they defend low value jobs? Well the truth of the matter is that the value of a job is defined by the value it gives you. It should push you and at the same time be something that you love. Yet your friend is only 25, and went to a bar scene largely dominated by people in that age range and younger. People from ages 18-25 often wont have their dream job yet. They are still in the grind finishi…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:40 PM
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Congrats then. Thanks for sharing your opinion. You have left it impossible to have any real or meaningful discussion.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:13 PM
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So the point of this post is not to have any real discussion. It is just you saying "Hey I went out the other night, and all other men are losers." If her attractiveness or value is not the point of the post, then why are we even talking about low value men? You won't even describe why she has any value at all. With no information, there is nothing to discuss. If you feel the need to go on reddit and stroke your ego about how awesome you are, and the hot friend you have oneitis over that you are…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:56 PM
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This is the thing that is laughable about the entire argument. "Why is she high value?" - "Because I say so." "Why are the men at the bar low value?" - "Because I say so." Lets look at the facts we have. You have a "Hot" girl who is only capable of going to a bar and finding raw sex. She has been unable of finding any meaningful deep attraction when she goes out. In order to find deep attraction she requires and enlists help for her to find it rather than actively being able to pursue the goal h…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:10 PM
1

You know what makes this entire post incredibly obnoxious(And to my shock, it's still going.) You have taken this "Hot" friend of yours out. Yet she is incapable of going out on her own for more than raw sex. She can't even introduce herself to guys that she finds interesting, so she has you do it. She already sounds like this incredibly socially awkward person. Then we have you in her corner judging every guy for any negative quality he has. That's fine if it's your prerogative. However here is…
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:46 PM
70

Okay others have said it, but seriously what is your problem? Let's just look at this post for a second from top to bottom. You take out your "9 out of 10" friend to find a guy. Then you go out one night and say all men suck and are little bitches. Crappy jobs that they aren't passionate about? Sometimes people have shitty jobs so they can work towards things they are passionate about. There are plenty of guys and girls out there that fall into the drinking, humorless, bad dressed, fat category.…
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:19 AM
8

As someone who has worked at a starbacks as a barista, this is some of the worst advice you could probably ever hear. So just to list off and be completely straight up against the bullet points. Customer service and being receptive are not always the same. This is the only sound advice here. In my experience working at Starbucks, most people are there as a place to work while they get through school. Starbucks is a stable job, and a lot of the time the people working the job aren't single. This …
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:30 AM
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Well I will take a stab at this because I wasn't a big fan of the answers you were receiving. A lot of them boil down to therapy, but realistically you have seen this therapist for 10 years, and yet you are still here. So first off I will say I didn't have the same situation you did regarding sex. Mine was an issue with committing to relationships, and the issue lasted for over a year(And I am someone who can generally bounce back from hard times. So this was tough for me.) It stemmed from the f…
/r/seduction03/01/15 07:27 AM
5

Not to be a dick, but it seems like your issue is staring you right in the face. Would you want to get into/stay in a relationship with someone when you begin to blatantly see that everything about them that you initially found attractive is fake? No. So why would you expect people to want to stay with you in turn. You really need to sort your own personal shit out, and stop playing a role all the time. If you play a role, then you will only persuade those that fall for it until they learn the t…
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:55 PM
9

Honestly the best way to get your answer isn't on here. Next time it happens, just be polite to the person and explain you aren't gay. Then also add politely if you can ask them a question. Note that you have been approached quite a few times by men that assumed you were gay, and just ask him if he knows why that is(because he assumed the same thing as well.) This will be how you receive the straightest answer, because there is only so much people will be able to say online without actually seei…
/r/seduction11/10/14 03:17 PM
3

Yeah I mean for me when I was younger, I picked things up really quickly and could be the best in a lot of school activities. Yet as a grew older and my world expanded and I found myself among people with more experience then me, I realized that I couldn't always be the best. This mentality also bled into things such as my sex life. Yet the striving to be the best at something you haven't done yet is hard and often will never happen. Like any new task you take up, you must learn it. Just as with…
/r/seduction07/10/14 01:48 AM
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I am a bit late to this post, although I will give you my analysis. This is a bit long winded though. This is coming from someone who has been where you are, struggled with it, and has overcame it with time. As for the reason I fell into it initially was just a bad casual sex experience(Not necessarily on my end) but it left me not really trusting girls on the first encounter. Since then however I have overcome the issue, regrettably with a couple failed relationships along the way. A lot of peo…
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:54 AM
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Pyre said it best. Just assume attraction, and proceed. You can just roll with it at that point. But keep in mind there is a difference between a girl who says they are up for everything, and is being forward flirty because she is attracted. And another girl who is simply being spiteful for spiteful sake. The former you assume attraction. Frankly I have no time for the later.
/r/seduction26/05/14 12:25 PM
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I must agree with something that is likely already being said in this post. Congrats on finding getting the girl you have wanted. Ballsy move of spilling your guts about her being your crush for five years. Honestly, I'd leave it at that though. Frankly no need to over invest on the fact that you have really spent all of this time pinning after her, even entering a long distance relationship with her friend just to be close to someone else. The amount of power she has over you is absurd. I am ha…
/r/seduction07/04/14 07:11 AM
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Bottom line? Be bold. If you want tips or tricks to try and do it? A pretty decent one when I was living on my own, was have other areas in the room where you can sit. Computer desk chair, other chairs, whatever. But then put a box or something of stuff on the chair so that the only available area to be is on the bed, where at which point is pretty smooth sailing from there. If she followed you back to your place, there is interest there. And you should have been escalating the entire night alre…
/r/seduction13/02/14 12:26 AM
2

A lot of talk about people and puppets here. Yet in many cases people do act like puppets. Now some of you may be sitting down shaking your head, but bare with me and assume that I am right for a second. People always try to coast through life with the least amount of effort necessary to succeed. Left unchecked these people rationalize away the reasons they should do their best, or even do at all. What keeps them in check is the judgment of others, people they care about. They want their parents…
/r/seduction08/10/13 05:22 AM
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A lot of these are more so ideas than a solution. The bottom line is this. You don't need to make eye contact before you approach. If the girls around you are walking around with their heads aimed at their feet? They are going to be surprised that someone will try to initiate a conversation with them, because most don't. A simple hi, or asking to talk to them for a second will frankly get the ball rolling. It is here where you can establish eye contact. And better yet, you have already separated…
/r/seduction10/05/13 08:29 AM
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Its a balance. Yet there are different scenarios. With girls, the more eye contact the better generally. 90% on, 10% off if you really wanted to have a number. It expresses confidence the fact that you aren't afraid to look them or anyone in the eyes. Strong eye contact is powerful. However without the occasional break, it becomes creepy/intimidating. Use your breaks from eye contact when a subject that isn't particularly interesting to you comes up. For example, if she mentions her ex. She has …
/r/seduction10/05/13 08:03 AM
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I just want to say that it isn't the bike, and in reality the bike isn't going to help you. The bike may be eye catching, and it may spark an initial interest from a girl. Yet at the end of the day, if you can't follow up on the interest? You won't get anywhere with girls regardless of your bike. Don't get a bike for girls. And I won't even say to get one because you love riding. It is just that the bike is not important. Some idiot that buys a bike to get girls is going to be sorely disappointe…
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:46 PM
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I agree with mostly everything in this post. Here is my one grip with the post entirely. Sometimes you need both the explicit and implicit communication. In the scenario with the girlfriend that is flirting while you are out on a date? Sure you can pull away silently, cut the date short. Implicit behavior is the aged old saying that "Actions speak louder than words" and they do. Because if you are going to talk the talk, but never change? What is there to stop you or anyone you have a problem wi…
/r/seduction20/04/13 01:20 AM
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Then if she is feeling that way? Then giving your number to her does nothing for either of you. She won't call you, so what? You have moved on to someone else regardless. This is for if she does still have interest, then she will call you later, and you aren't closing doors with people due to laziness/not trying to keep your options open.
/r/seduction08/04/13 08:29 PM
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I actually have a story for this one. But it was my dad when I was younger. Anyways my dad is cruising down the freeway smoking a cigarette with his window open and we are coming up to the bay bridge's toll booth. Beside us is a pretty good looking blonde chick who was probably around 23 or so. My dad would be in his early to mid thirties at the time. She rolls down her window and yells across to my dad "Hey! Can I have one of those!" My father nodded at first surprised by the crazy question, bu…
/r/seduction07/04/13 05:42 AM
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Hmm... Not a ton to be said that hasn't already been touched on. However I feel that leaving a number with Molly wouldn't have been a bad choice. I doubt you were going to want to hang out with Nate again after the night. However Molly being able to reach you wouldn't be a bad thing, particularly if you were just going to head off in search of other opportunities at that point. It was evident that she wanted you, but Nate made her change her mind. Fine. You did the right thing, carried on with y…
/r/seduction07/04/13 01:43 AM
2

Some things that have been left out from the initial post for anyone wondering. The are in Japan and the OP can speak fluent japanese. In response to "OP is probably good looking", HB8's friend considers the OP to be cute. The combination of good looks, and mix and matching two languages like he does here would be similar to like the stereotypical european gentleman hitting on a woman in a club/bar. Using bits and pieces of his foreign language that sound extraordinarily good as the icing on the…
/r/seduction30/03/13 06:24 PM
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Well just my 2 cents before I go to bed here. And this is more my personal life advice than anything. I always figured you should be striving to be the best possible person you can be. And in that process you will grow as an individual. You will exceed your own expectations of what you thought was possible for yourself. And you in turn will grow confident. You may ask why? But doing such a task isn't easy. It takes an extraordinary will to want to change yourself and to be the best possible pers…
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:07 PM
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Doesn't really if you are going to read it like actual conversation. Although it does dismiss the "I have a boyfriend" shit test right off the bat, as you are essentially brushing the concept off in a fun and playful manner. As mentioned above, compliment, a neg, and a joke all in one.
/r/seduction25/10/12 11:24 AM
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I see what was done there...
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:08 PM
2

Sorry for the late response. I wouldn't recommend doing anything serious in a text, it often leads to problems. The idea that texting is any real way to have an actual conversation is a bit ridiculous. What are you going to do if she simply texts back "Well what is it you want to talk about?" Are you just going to say "It's important, and we should talk in person?" Bad idea. I would not recommend text at all. You are just going to make her uncomfortable. Or you will cave to her asking about the …
/r/seduction21/02/12 02:50 AM
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You are inexperienced, not inadequate. If you have indeed been seeing this woman for several months? There is really two obvious situations. 1?: She only sees you as a friend. And your inexperience is interpreting her friendship, and how much you seem to like this girl as something more than it actually is(Sexual tension). 2?: Or perhaps it is indeed sexual tension. And she really likes you and continues to come around in hopes of more. However both solutions to the problem in my eyes are actual…
/r/seduction20/02/12 12:02 AM
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