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Lovely 😌👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/22 05:56 AM
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Kink 👏 shaming 👏 all 👏 the 👏 way! Amen sister! Wanting to abuse you in bed and / or out of it is a massive red flag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/22 08:36 PM
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"When you're with a man who's addicted to porn it's always about him. Sex is never about the two of you, it's always to cater to him." You've really nailed something here. There are so many parts of porn that are awful. But one important aspect is that women are literally in the 'servant role'. That's what payment / prostitution is about, control/ degradation, having power over a woman. And that utterly entitled attitude, that women are the servant, lower, caste bleeds over into other parts of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/22 08:17 PM
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'they're getting desperate' I agree!!! The male to female ratio on dating apps is increasing. Men love lying, tricking women, they want to feel like they've 'won' in an interaction, hence lazy, crappy sex, focused only on their enjoyment, and emotional abuse, negging, boundary pushing, and physical and sexual abuse, strangling etc. Even some confused Pickme's are withdrawing from this daring world, and so they are bringing out extra varieties of manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 11:32 PM
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Pervert shaming all the way!!! 🤟🤟🤟💕💕💕 Great post!!! xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:34 PM
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What a LOVELY post. Excellent points!!! I think it's really important to prioritize platonic love, the ancient Greeks (while they got a lot wrong - mainly misogyny) did identify multiple forms of love, and sexual/romantic love (eros) was considered an unstable form of love, philia (friendship) was considered a better, healthier, more stable thing to strive for. In a culture where, from childhood women are fed the idea that romance as the highest thing to strive for, and the culture clash and dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 09:49 AM
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Omg, 'a great relationship otherwise!!! '. No. This is an abusive relationship. This is financial abuse. Always 👏be👏 financially 👏 independent 👏ladies!!! 👏 No joint accounts ever. Save. Be frugal. Earn your own money. Invest. Stand on your own two feet. Have the dignity of independence. That is empowerment ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:38 AM
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I can barely describe how disgusted I am by all this. Scrotes have the audacity to call women 'dirty' for what, looking nice in a dress? Liking normal sex? Utter projection. The vast majority of them are DEPRAVED beyond words. I feel so much contempt for these PERVERTS. Good on you FDS for calling this out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:25 AM
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Older sex workers have actually come out and said how much the depravity and perversion they are now asked to do has gone through the roof since internet porn. It is absolutely disgusting and I am terrified for girls growing up in this sick pornified culture. I'm starting to think it's also just not safe for men and women to live together in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:12 AM
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No shame whatsoever. Pickme's enable it and those awful 'relationship counselors' gaslight and pour the shame on any woman who steps out of line and dares to bring up her feelings about porn/creeping other women on Instagram etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 06:05 AM
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She's madly following the lib-fem, pick me rule book and trying to resolve his pedophilic and emotionally abusive tendencies by cOmMunICatINg. I bet she's been following the lib-fem play book on BDSM, porn use etc. as well. To be fair, she's brainwashed by a culture, and a small healthy part of her subconscious is what got her to write in that query about his perverted behavior. It sounds like he calls her a 'whore' in bed as well. To me a word like that is as offensive as racial slurs. Women wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:26 PM
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I agree! I think it's important to be able to call out horrible behavior on the part of Pickmes/ other women. I also don't have time for women that cheat with other women's husbands. These women are part of the spectrum of sex workers if they are sleeping with old men for money. I have a lot of sympathy for the many women who are financially deprived, pressured and being exploited by 'Johns' etc. (this is why I support the Nordic model where the men are punished) but I do not have time for lib-f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:41 AM
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I just checked, grooming was made an offence in Scotland in 2005. Grooming counts when it's grooming any child under 16. The lingerie buying for the child's 16th birthday by definition happened when she was under 16. If I was the mother I would push for the grooming charge through the police and possibly a civil case. The grooming law means that sexual contact doesn't need to be proven - just the grooming: "A new offence of 'grooming' was created by the Protection of Children and Prevention of S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 11:07 PM
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Definitely! Never be financially dependent on a man ladies! Even if it means a more humble car and a more frugal life. Nothing beats the dignity of being able to close YOUR door to a scrote, to buy your own things, control your own life! Save, be thrifty, invest. That is real empowerment 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:41 PM
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Definitely!!! Contact his work, put up flyers with his grubby pedo scrote face on it. Absolutely horrific, a man in his 30's, when did the grooming start? When she was 9?,10?11?12?13?14?🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:38 PM
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Yes the daughter is 16 now, what age was she when this utter creep, pedo started grooming her? Hopefully she can get some evidence of this and report to pedo to the police. Disgusting predator. It's a huge red flag that the Mum was financially dependent, please do all you can to be financially independent ladies - be frugal, save, invest etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:34 PM
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They need to increase this and it shouldn't apply to caregivers! Disgusting!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:30 PM
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Interestingly, I read about certain times in the past when men that treated women badly were much more shamed for their behavior. Actions like this are how we bring about change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:54 AM
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Great point! 😌👍💯 , I'm so sick of disgusting misogynistic slurs being thrown around, often by the same guys that denounce racism and wouldn't use racial slurs. The worst pickmes use it themselves. I won't tolerate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:14 PM
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Skillful zig zag! Woot woot! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:00 AM
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Awesome 😎 it's so so great that you stuck to your boundaries. You definitely missed a huge bullet!!! Sorry to hear it hurts of course, but I think you've been really wise! 😌 He was putting on the 'nicey nicey' show and when he didn't get his 'reward' (that he felt so entitled to) after 5-6 dates, which isn't that many really, he does that. He's not nice, he just told on himself. Someone that really cares would want to be with you for you, just being together and enjoying each other's company, re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:54 AM
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It's interesting, Pickmeshas will put up with incredible amounts of crap and abuse from men, and put them on pedestals, but another aspect of their internalized misogyny is the way they treat other women, i. e. like crap/servants. You see this where pickmesha mothers favour boy children over girls. But back to your 'friend' or 'exfriend'. Good on you for not putting up with her horrible behavior. Queenie of you 😌👑 high five
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:33 PM
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Back in the bad old days I used to work soo hard. Now I don't work for guys at all. They do the work and the running around. Queen like, I let them court me, kiss my hand (if they are very very good 😅). You should see the things I get on valentine's day 😅 I am sure this forever girlfriend of 20 years turns a blind eye to his only fans, does degrading stuff and lets him cheat then cleans his toilet like a page 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:13 PM
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It just sounds like petty resentment stuff... at the end of the day, she's got an unhealthy relationship by the sounds. Maybe they'll break up, or they will stay together with little significant change. It sounds like she's reliant on him however. IDK, I'm starting to wonder if it's better for a more revolutionary approach to relationships, what if we had women's unions, women's support groups, women's financial institutions where women could get business loans, financial support, women's co-hou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:53 AM
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What an odious piece of trash! Don't giggle and enable ladies... turn on your heel and walk right out that door
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:08 AM
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Yes, I find family guy incredibly sexist or should I say misogynistic, there is a lot of misogyny in the Simpsons too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:06 AM
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He has a nerve!!!! He's pressuring her to cut her other expenses to stay in a place she can't afford, and shaming her for not being able to afford it. He quite happily pays only for a place with multiple roommates but spends a ton of time at hers. The TERMERITY!!! This is classic financial abuse - telling her how to spend her money, in a way that suits his tastes (at her expense), while saving his own money. He is controlling, entitled and exploiting her financially. I think she should... block …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:38 AM
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Terrific analysis of all the red flags!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:01 AM
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Yes, in addition, some clients will also just pay not to use a condom. Also, the reality is that plenty of 'John's' will 'stealth' sex worker as well - it's a myth that the sex workers boundaries are always respected, the reality is they are NOT. The lib-fem fantasy version of prostitution is that the 'empowered' sex worker gets to have safe, respectful sex and showered with money. The reality is that prostitutes are servants to the most degrading abuse of men, and often have their boundaries vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:25 AM
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Haha, this is awesome. This guy has such AUDACITY! Cheats on his wife, lies to younger partner (he's preying upon), and has the termerity to shame her about her house! She did well calling him out and blocking him! 😊👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:06 AM
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Good work Alexa! If he wasn't yours I'd totally date him too 😅😅😅 Leo on the other hand, uggh, soo gross. He's like a yucky leftover with a 'best before' date of 1997... and it's gone all yucky and puffy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:41 AM
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Lol! Yep. I had a guy friend with a 15 year crush on me that got so mad about a year ago when I told him I dated a male model. I blocked and deleted him (the ex guy friend, not the male model 🤣).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:38 AM
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Yes!!! I am 40 now and I am constantly getting male attention. Just minding my business, not dressed up, I get stared at, tooted in the street, I have to put lots of guards on my online dating apps because otherwise I get inundated. I honestly have no idea where the crap about having less interest comes from. It's truly insane and I cannot emphasise how much of a lie it is. I have male friends who are in their 30's and find they get much less attention than when they are younger. Something in me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:32 AM
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Alexa and Orson both look hot and I strongly approve of women being older in relationships (personally I think it should be the norm). I think Joachim genuinely loves his wife, he looks like her grandad, but he seems like a nice guy so I'm gonna forgive that. Leo on the other hand, looks like a creepy old pot bellied troll from under a bridge that somehow cast a creepy spell on a series of young sprites. My guess is he's a phallic narcissist. He does not care about any one of them and they are o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:27 AM
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Uggh... he's absolutely gross. I bet he's a gamer who stays up all night eating pizza and drinking beer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:23 AM
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Omg horrifying. Definitely an important post!!! I had an (ex) male friend who I blocked and deleted after he was creepy to me. I'm so so sorry that you went through this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:31 AM
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The horrible sex buyers know this too. In 'Paid for' by Rachel Moran she said there were only two times in 7 years as an escort she actually wanted to have the sex because the guy was attractive. The first time the guy rejected her when she declined payment, and the second time the guy said 'you don't have to pretend to like it' and she described how she disassocciated... they LIKE that it's coercive/abusive. With discrimination, pink collar work, uneven division of labour etc. etc. Women earn a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:59 AM
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I reckon he supports sex work because he gets his girlfriend to run an only fans site, tidy the house, make his meals, while he jacks off to other women online and plays video games 🤡 she is self gaslighting to try and keep the relationship going and damp down her own subconscious resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:55 AM
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Yes the idea that women in prostitution WANT to do that gross stuff is a male fantasy that is part of the job that prostitutes have to sell. Men WANT it to be as degrading and abusive as possible. Prostitutes are commonly hit and strangled. They get off on the power of money effectively forcing their way into women's bodies. And pornography has led to even more degrading and cruel practices like having to suck a dirty penis after being sodomized. For your job. Is that empowering? It's a cruel jo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:21 AM
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I think they must just be looking at us as objects. The dead eyes is the only way to describe it. Empty of empathy, hollow eyed lust... shudder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:18 AM
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Good grief. This is such an example of a pornified abusive society. Sickening. I'm glad that she's getting help. It just scares me that so many women and girls are literally accepting being hit and beaten and abused as 'normal' because porn says so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:26 AM
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I agree!!!! Not okay, total discrimination!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:07 AM
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I should put up videos encouraging girls to go to uni and be professionals! Maybe I should get some money from the bank or something, lol. Seriously though, I wonder if we could do radical feminist public service announcements 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:49 AM
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Indeed, talk about DARVO. The misogynist abusers that do a thousand horrible things to women, and then tell us that we are 'against' sex workers for wanting to help them to escape prostitution's clutches are trying to gaslight with this ridiculous, nonsensical phrase. We want SW's to have happy independent lives, and those misogynistic LV low lives want them to be verbal, emotional, physical, sexual punching bags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:40 PM
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Heck yes... I LOVE long flowing locks... Like Health Ledger with his beautiful blonde curls... I would NEVER go for a bald guy!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:15 AM
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It's basically a threat. If they didn't have the option to coerce or threaten us, they might actually have to behave like decent human beings. They WANT the exchange to be as abusive as possible. They don't need it, they just want to be able to abuse women with impunity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:13 AM
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Yep. I had three brothers I was not only expected to do more house work, but also wasn't able to have a social life, had to provide narcissistic supply for all and be an emotional punching bag! I used my work ethic to build my career, and invested in therapy/healing now I avoid my abusive family of origin, I have an amazing independent life that I build for myself. I travel and have my own money and serve noone but myself. Feels good 😎💃💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:04 AM
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Two steps ahead of you 🤷💅💃🍸👬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:31 AM
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There are a lot of modern day cosmetic / plastic surgery procedures that are very dangerous and expensive, in some countries with a caste system / internalized racism those awful dangerous skin lightening creams are popular, and apparently butt implants are the most dangerous type of cosmetic surgery in the world. I feel like plastic surgery is pure internalized misogyny. All those comments about your appearance, guys emotionally abusing you, a culture that frequently reduces us to what we look …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:43 AM
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What incredible work you do, it sounds like you are an amazing woman. I'm so sorry about what you are going through. I think my main piece of advice as you asked I would say for now, is to take good care of yourself, do what you need to to start your healing from PTSD. Take a break if you need to, somewhere beautiful where you shower yourself with care. And then yes, there is a lot you can do. What if you wrote letters for papers like the Guardian about your opinion, and some of what you've seen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:18 AM
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WTF has happened to our culture... I'm guessing I'm a bit older than you... this... this didn't used to be a thing. Goddam choking people during sex is NOT normal and is totally from porn. Keep telling people you aren't into it, and report guys to the police that do it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:11 AM
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I think a big part of the dislike is any potential limitation on their quest for new vagina. They resent needing to be sneaky when they scrawl tinder, look up porn or visit prostitutes. Pick me's intuit this resentment so enable - they tag along to strip clubs as support while their husbands / partners oogle other women, pretend not to see the gross stuff on their boyfriend's search bar, wash their boyfriend's clothes that smell like other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:34 AM
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My male 'friend' clearly had no respect for his wife. I think he just decided it was time to have kids. He'd go to swinger parties and was obsessed with porn. He liked one of his two kids better because the child reminded him of himself, and he disliked the other one because he reminded him of his wife. He hit on me so... I blocked and deleted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:28 AM
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On a practical note - first thing I would do right now (and have done myself) is pick up the phone for a fertility clinic and get an initial fertility test booked in. It isn't widely known but female fertility varies widely between individuals and isn't solely about age. You might have a bit more time up your sleeve, or you might need to work faster. A test usually involves a scan and a blood test (it measures your ovarian reserve). It will help empower you with this knowledge and you can have a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:58 AM
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