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I see around me, every day, short men with women. I mean: you can pretend I don’t see that as much as you want bro. It’s not going to make you taller or right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:47 PM
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Sorry are you mansplaining what I see? I have eyes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:41 PM
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I don’t care if a man has money. I’m not marrying some dip to support me. There’s nothing untrue about my initial comment but then I can’t follow clown logic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:51 PM
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Yeah well I don’t date to marry, I date to get bounced off the walls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:48 PM
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I didn’t say homeless. Would You date a homeless woman? Jesus. All I’m saying is that I’ve dated men who still live at home. And some men who work low wage jobs. Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:44 PM
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No. Without the desperation of having to cling to a man for any assistance with my survival, I have so much more freedom. And I love it. It also means I’ll date a man with any amount of money. So it frees shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:11 PM
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No I don’t blame any man or woman for having whatever standards they deem is “high value” as long as they’re not shitheads about it. They can have their fun, but when I have MY fun, I’m honest and transparent about what I want (casual sex, FWB, NSA). As long as everything is above board? That’s the way it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:36 PM
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Keep them nice and trim. I think if you go to a salon you’ll LOVE a pedicure and manicure. Part of being confident and attractive is to do things for your body that you love and that take care of your body. I’m mostly thinking of just looking “well kept” If a woman sees you’re well kept she won’t think she has to take care of you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:16 PM
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Why do you assume that? I was bullied. I’ve been rejected MANY times. But I learned from them/ and I became my own person. Now when I’m rejected I’m like, ok thanks for not wasting my time move out of the way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:40 PM
2

Whatever man. You’re talking to someone who was bullied in school, and had to learn to become desirable: shaves their legs, had two nose jobs, gets jabbed with filler and Botox, Color my hair once a month and has spent a fortune on fancy underwear, fancy clothes and diet. I have a multi step skin regime and a dermatologist. I don’t feel sad for men who don’t put in as much work as me. I work fucking hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:07 PM
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Agree to disagree then. Because I don’t think men are incapable of being desirable. Maybe one out of a thousand is irredeemably undesirable. And you keep saying height - like bro: look outside: lots of short men are with women. You might be seeing what you expect to see because you’re insecure. Also I don’t know if you understand that there also (looks around) are SHORT WOMEN out there! Some shorter than you! Everything you’ve said has been resistant to even the idea that desirability is possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:51 PM
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Lmao at social repercussions. You act like rejection is genocide. Like : get rejected a few times. It’s not that bad. Practice. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:45 PM
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The initial point that I was addressing was the claim that women just glom on to desirable men because they’re superficial and shallow. My point is: if given the same conditions and men were faced with being expected to date people they’re not attracted to, would that make THEM shallow? And I’m saying; stop thinking about the person who is doing the chasing. If you want to be chased, you will have to work to be both a nice guy AND ALSO desirable. Otherwise the women will look for desirable men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:38 PM
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Oh so you want a CERTAIN KIND of woman. Well men that have standards that are too high (maybe you can only attract a 250 pound woman) why aren’t you compromising?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:13 PM
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Because women attempt to be in constant peak physical condition until they die
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:12 PM
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To keep his woman???? I mean dead bedrooms CAN happen because someone gives up trying to be attractive and desirable. Why does that have to stop once he secures a woman ? A lot of women will walk away now because they will not settle for someone doing less than them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:39 PM
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Because I see short men with women everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:38 PM
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By the same token, your perception that your shortness is what is turning off women, though it might make you feel better to blame who is rejecting you, doesn’t make it true. Edited for clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:19 PM
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That sounds a lot like manifesting a self fulfilling prophesy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:12 PM
3

Can you explain how? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:52 PM
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I feel almost like you and I are on different planets. Are you suggesting in your first paragraph that kind and faithful men cannot and will not go to the gym and dress well and be faithful ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:34 AM
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I don’t consider my partner owned
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:49 AM
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I think women want a man that works at making himself attractive; his desirability to others is ancillary if it exists at all. Typically with love, it doesn’t. But if choosing between a man who goes to the gym and barber, dresses well, looks confident and reliable, and has a great personality, versus someone who just feels like he’s really nice and faithful … they’ll date the former to see if he can also be the latter before dating the latter. Doesn’t that make sense ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:06 AM
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I don’t know what you think your response proves: that you’re a good guy? You seem to suggest that when you try to date, you behave like one of those “nice guys” we hear so much about, who play at being “nice” expecting that if they put in enough nice coins the sex might pop out like a candy machine, while they refer to women as fat or non-fat (like cream) or cum socks. You want a kind woman? Try saying kind things and being a kind person. We didn’t make this so-called “economy” and we certainly…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:30 AM
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I kind of think all men competing with being alone. And most women will take being alone than most men. So it takes a lot to crack through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:04 AM
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And you don’t have a nice, non-fat girlfriend? You seem so charming!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:03 AM
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We didn’t make the market. We just live here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:02 AM
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And women who just want casual sex are happy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:02 AM
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Counterpoint: women who want casual sex are shooting as high as they want/can for it. Just like men would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:01 AM
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My god, do you act this way at your job? Try to look at flirting and courting women as a job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:00 PM
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Still Doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:51 PM
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Ew don’t call me dear. It’s Dr. Don’t tell me what I’m obliged to do until you show me your credentials, boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:03 PM
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Inanna was as least as old as Enki
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:51 AM
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You’re incorrectly interpreting what I’m implying and being pedantic. And you still haven’t said what’s postmodernist about working from a theory from an actual study by Gimbutas and contextualizing her theories and how they relate to the scholarship of others. Women have no barrier to research, historical and archaeological evidence and history themselves. Grow up. I’m not a postmodernist, you turkey. I’m not an archaeologist or a scientist. But I’ve read vetted, published, scholarly works that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:45 AM
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Then why aren’t you sharing pro feminist content?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:17 PM
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What makes me postmodern ? I’m curious to know. I’m a realist. With a Phd in English with a specialty in Encyclopedias and Ordering systems, who reads Archaeological works by women who ARE reconstructing the past based on material evidence. Come at me. I will go toe to toe with you, with receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:11 PM
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No not really. Enki and idols and pictures of enki came after the idols found by Marija Gimbutas. And the cultures she’s re-constructed are thousands of years before the Assyrian gods. You can read actual archaeological works if you’re curious but you’d probably prefer just to sit on the patriarchal history your brethren, their tribes and rules and cults bulldozed over us with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:45 AM
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lol 😂 you’re talking in circulars. My logic is patriarchy? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:40 AM
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Yeah the exceptions are Marija Gimbuta’s archaeological work. Read some work NOT by the victors and come back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:39 AM
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Another sexist with selective reading who thinks men are the only recorders and arbiters of history period
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:04 AM
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You don’t think the victors of invasion and genocide kept the records of the vanquished do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:03 AM
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Bro history cannot be re-experienced. It’s past: it’s reconstructed and it is a social science
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:43 PM
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You do know that literally all history is reconstructed right 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:30 PM
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lol I love the moving goalposts: the same men that say women have worked since the beginning of time will claim that men did all the building of civilization. And yes some Italian universities did, but you know, my Nonna and Nonno had an arranged marriage - arranged between my Nonno and her dad. Not all was free and fun and games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:29 PM
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lol you act like the victors don’t write history. For people who are interested, start with Marija Gimbutas archaeological text The Goddesses and Gods of Old Europe or Elizabeth Gould Davis’ The First Sex. Hard to reconstruct a history that has been systematically erased
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:37 PM
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Thing is, Women have periods. Periods are tied to cycles. The moon is tied to cycles Women were the first at connecting the moon with cycles and creating a calendar. The first to grow and yield crops based around calendars was women. They understood the nature of seasonal change because they would have been experiencing in an ongoing and acute way. The first objects of worship were icons of women. Serpents were related to women because of their relationship to renewal and rebirth, as the serpent…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:03 PM
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I dare you to give us a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:06 PM
0

Exactly : don’t hate the players, hate the game 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:39 PM
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You know, no one can make you desirable but you. I don’t understand why you’re externalizing this locus of control, nor why you’re blaming other people when they don’t even know you. Girls are broken every day. We get broken into high heel shoes. Broken down to feel so ugly that we need makeup and cosmetic surgery. So you’re not alone man. Don’t hate the players hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:34 PM
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Tell us how you really feel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:26 PM
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I also say right from the get-go: “non-monogamy totally is not for everyone and that’s okay! You can change your mind at any time and I won’t feel offended, and until then, feel free to date to find your forever person.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:24 PM
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I don’t date to marry so there’s that. I tell my partners that. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:21 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:55 PM
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So it’s just a double standard then. Ok for men to. Not okay for women to. Also: I’m not bragging. I’m stating a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:51 PM
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Yes. I feel like I’m living as a single woman, the way an ethical single man WOULD date. No lies. No coercion. No games. Just good times and good vibes. And men haaaaaaaate that I even have this option. Considering the only reason I have it is the birth-lottery of being born in a country that still allows women to choose their partners and the ability to even STRIVE for equality, I’m very grateful and I don’t take it lightly. I’m good to my lovers and the idea of a break up is foreign because FW…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:43 PM
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“Since when is surgical work related to a persons intelligence?” Ok I’m done. This is the dumbest bad faith argument I have ever wasted my time on. Have the life you deserve! I’m out ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:04 PM
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That’s your checkmate? Good grief. You are ridiculous. What about the fact that Woman Surgeons consistently have better patient outcomes? You know, something that matters 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 11:39 AM
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IQ tests are a myopic western creation wrought with any other politics that favors the prevailing hegemony
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 11:19 AM
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You realize that women in the western world were excluded from universities until the late 1800s right? And we’re also perpetually kept pregnant, right? Does that fit into your selective worldview? There are still nations and countries that don’t allow women into school TODAY. (Boko Haram is literally no Books). So there could be other factors in that data you’re not considering
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 11:09 AM
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You bring up an excellent point: most jobs that are exclusively men are because we are encouraged out of these jobs. We are told to do something else. Pick something different. Has nothing to do with ability which we also have. Why do some people assume women are as lazy and entitled as they are? I think this is projection from some kushy living-at-home toilet warriors who haven’t lifted a heavy load or worked a day in a mine in their lives. Like I’ve got men telling me women can’t sling garbage…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 09:32 AM
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You aren’t a woman. Women do gross things all the time. Do you really think that if all the women disappeared, men would let every elderly person with a personal support worker to bathe and change their diapers (usually women) just die? Of course not. They step in and they pick up the slack. They do what needs to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:48 PM
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I wish men were smarter but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:29 PM
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Women do awful jobs all the Tiiiiime!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:13 PM
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lol if men don’t do jobs and no one is picking up garbage you think women are gonna just let garbage fill up like a bunch of babies? We aren’t men! We do what needs to be done. I mean please! Leave the workforce! Let me show you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:55 PM
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lol it’s like “women can’t do SMELLY jobs!” What bruh? GTFO 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:46 PM
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This woman just got punched in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:46 PM
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Money bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:45 PM
1

Bro your imagination isn’t based on reality lol but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:31 PM
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If men didn’t do them, women would, you silly billy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:22 PM
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Well I work In an Aviation MRO and we’ve got women mechanics here 🤷‍♀️ maybe Canada is more equal opportunity than where you hail from. You’re delulu if you think women can’t do men’s jobs. What the heck do you think women did when Men were drafted during WWII? Literally all the men’s jobs 😂 Also you may want to check out the ISWA But anyway: I know how much men want to think they’re special snowflakes but these day and age: women can do your jobs. Probably as well or better tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:19 PM
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You think if a bunch of men leave the workforce women won’t fill that space? And yah: I do think we are expected to dress and look stupid for men lol. We agree about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:56 PM
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I’m pretty sure that there are plenty of Becky’s slinging garbage, and if men went away, I’m pretty sure women would care less about their nails and maybe more about doing what they want to do with the money they make working haha Also you’ve never seen a woman truck driver or mechanic with long nails? Sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:36 PM
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Oh. lol. I guess my lived experience and the lived experience of all my post- breakup women friends. Also if it wasn’t true, why are men complaining no one will date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:35 PM
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I love the Korean 4B movement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:30 PM
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lol I think men and women define pain differently. Women complain about abuse. Men complain about the pain of women ignoring them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:29 PM
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If this was such a huge factor, then why are so many women foregoing those options and opting to chose their solitude over all the options ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:28 PM
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I’m pretty sure nothing genital prevents women from being electricians or waste removers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:27 PM
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As someone born ugly, and really unattractive until 23 or so, I disagree. It takes work. It takes money. It takes a lot of indoctrination. It takes trips to services like hair salons and nail salons and lash salons and etc etc etc. It might be easy for a small few but you’d be surprised how much work and money goes into “effortless” looking hair and “no makeup” makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:26 PM
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“Freely” 🙄 that’s the thing - it’s work to make your normal self attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:36 PM
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I endorse that approach too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:07 PM
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Soiling someone’s loins? Maybe men should focus on getting unstuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:56 PM
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Become attractive. I’ll tell you some ideas you can use but you aren’t gonna like it: Clothes that fit and compliment you: your Color, your size and shape Nice grooming - get your hair done at a barber and trim facial hair nice Go to the gym. Let’s not pretend that very out of shape individuals are considered conventionally attractive. Walk with confidence. Take pictures like a model or influencer and not someone who looks like they’ve never seen a camera before Don’t say mean or gross things ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:11 PM
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No, because she isn’t attracted to him. That is different than saying he’s not attractive. You can be a perfect package at the wrong address at the wrong time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:07 PM
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Wow you were successful. Mea culpa
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:24 PM
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“I think I’m more successful than most men in knocking up smart beautiful women” Maybe knock boots with someone who can teach you idiom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:15 PM
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He’s not smart enough to realize that “knocked up” colloquially means “impregnate”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:13 PM
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I know it’s hard but if men don’t see reality and stay stuck in their entitlement they’re not going to improve and become more desirable partners. Logic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:15 PM
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That’s a cute cosplay you got there toilet warrior
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:29 PM
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Sir, until you’ve been in a fuel tank on a hot day on the tarmac, take a seat. You don’t know. I mean I love how much every man thinks they’re the expert in everything they’ve ever googled on the toilet but that’s not reality. Keep dreaming, toilet warrior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:22 PM
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Do you ever get tired of moving all those goalposts in your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:19 PM
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Dummy who do you think works on the planes? Do you think they don’t have mechanics? Heavy machinery mechanics? You’re too dumb to argue with. I can’t have a conversation with someone who is a “smart” dumb person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:13 PM
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Does that mean that women don’t want to work? Or that they’re not being hired? Because the I work in aviation: it’s a sausage fest here. I’ve seen the most mid fat-headed pig-bellied dropout dummies get promoted faster than women who could skip circles around them intellectually. I’ve seen women in this industry out perform the men in their training and credentialling and somehow the industry is still a huge sausage fest. It’s not because women don’t want to work and don’t want these jobs. They’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:05 PM
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Who says they won’t do blue collar work? (Looking around)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:32 PM
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Oh it’s not a few. Do some reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:14 PM
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I don’t think you have any idea what it’s like being a woman so you couldn’t possibly know if that’s true. Wishful thinking! Also ylu know we get paid less for the SAME GODDAMN WORK right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:52 PM
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Men didn’t choose what was hard. They were stronger than women and were able to control and circulate them by virtue of having the incentive to procreate and also the incentive to sex. Did you know before the major abrahamic religions came about, the original gods of worship were women? Inanna is older than any of the male gods. In the past the bio-dad was a sperm donor aand the child’s “social” or “real” father would have been the mother’s brother or someone from the mother’s family. It was tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:49 PM
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Yes. They do. They also develop self control and find ways to channel that energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:42 PM
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On what planet do you think women don’t work? Don’t you wonder why you can’t get one to depend on you for survival ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:42 PM
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The thing is if you’re a woman you can be as busy with dating as you want to be. So you make it what you want. No need to juggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:26 PM
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I do not believe for one second that you wouldn’t explore your options 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:21 PM
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Is that what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:20 PM
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We aren’t talking about sports my friend. You’re right, nothing is implicitly fair but you also can’t have “free” women who are going to just for the heck of it hook up with “losers” as you call them. That seems fair to the losers but what about the woman? What’s fair in dating for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:54 PM
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Unfair to whom????? And what is the answer?? Like you can’t have it both ways: you can’t say women can be free to choose and also that it’s way too unfair who they choose. This is why competition instead of despair is going to help men out. Anyway … you can’t make “equitable” “partner distribution” without forcing some people together because losers are always going to exist. Ideally they’re not entitled to a partner, they should work just like everyone else. And before you say women don’t work …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:06 PM
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But the son can choose and veto So how do you make partner distribution fair? What happens to the losers? How is this different than now other than instead of men arranging marriages between young women and non-loser men, the women just get to choose their own? According to you: It’s fair when the parents arrange relationships.s But very UNFAIR when women choose their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:40 PM
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And? I mean that might be the case but then unattractive women are still getting laid tons by attractive men. Including dates that involve dinner and movies and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:18 PM
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Define fair? What is fair in terms of people dating? Collective decision skews towards fairness usually leads to arranged marriages so every man gets a woman provided to him instead of competing for her interest, isn’t it so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:57 PM
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I think it’s relevant. Because there’s a sense that when I try to explain what a woman may actually feel in this environment, men are resistant to accept it. And straightforwardly rejecting that reality isnt going to help men with having better dating outcomes. So I’m wondering… if we gave men all the benefits of the doubt and let them make all the rules (like they used to… ), what would their ideal situation be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:06 PM
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Explain regarding relationships. What would you take from these traditional societies and implant into western women’s minds if you could?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:50 PM
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So you think arranged marriages are better for gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:12 PM
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Oh wow. So … you think men will just exert power over us and force us back into relationships again? Is that coming down the pipe?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:47 PM
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I’m not thinking about it in terms of winning or losing unless losing for a woman means being stuck with a man you don’t want, and losing for a man means being alone instead of having a woman provided for you. If that’s the case winning is for women to select who they want (like men would love) and for men to also select women they want To level up, I think men need to start looking at competition more seriously and work on it. It’s the only way they can stand out other than through shaming : bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:24 PM
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No, I don’t think you’re right. I think the analogy would be : Pay check analogy only works if Women weren’t even given MONEY before; and now we have some extra cash and a choice of where to work. Men have the same amount of money, always had a choice of where to work. Problem is there’s more competition now for positions. Their increased competition feels unfair but truly it’s rectifying a previous unfairness (that of the entire amount of money and opportunity belonging and being exchanged amon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:10 PM
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You’re so resistant to empathy that you literally can’t even CONCEIVE OF this perspective ? Like I know you can’t relate…. but I can feel you ALMOST understanding. Use your imagination. Flip it all around and use your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:01 PM
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???? You’re derailing. Put yourself in the situation of the made up scenario where this is all reversed…. I’m not trying to get you in a “gotcha” moment ; I’m trying to create a space for you to consider dating from the angle of someone who has opportunity that is not even a right, globally. Just CONSIDER what it could be like to be confronted even with having to decide among too many great options… that’s all. Think of what that does to a person. Also you know the west allows child marriages to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:48 PM
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My Nonna was proposed to at 14 and married off at 16 to my 18 year old Nonno. It was an arranged marriage ya turkey. It was arranged by my Nonno and her father Also I’ve dated Indian guys who are perfectly capable of getting their parents to establish an arranged marriage for them. So now add that thought to the thought experiment: You’re selecting your choice of women - from hundreds - and many are perfectly nice and beautiful and want to just have something fun and regular. And literally 2 gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:41 PM
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Who says you have to meet “many?” You can meet as many or as few as you want and be entirely open and still have options. Ethically? Checks out. With all that freedom and options you wouldn’t just enjoy meeting people and seeing where things might go with them? Linear dating is weird; it’s like everything has to be a dealbreaker or not. Why not date in a solar system where people might orbit in and out of your life as a lover here and there? Not many: just a few really great people ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:24 PM
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Speak for yourself. Again I think you should consider the market from our point of view and ask yourself if you’d REALLY be as ethical as you say. This is considering the fact that only recently (and only in some parts of the globe) women have had the choice of partner. When left up to men, they don’t even give us a dating OPTION. They just pass the girl from dad to homie. I’m sure when men had their pick of women as objects they didn’t give honesty and integrity much thought
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:22 PM
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Okay where in the situation above did I mention leading hoards of people on? You can be fully and fundamentally honest - that’s not leading anyone on. Also you might want o consider not calling women bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:02 PM
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Can I propose a thought experiment? Imagine: We are in a world (for the moment) where it would be reversed: women are vying for the opportunity for dates, and instead of the women being in demand, it’s the men in demand. So men in this imaginary world have the options that women have in this reality: just flip the genders. So as a man, you open up your dating app. You instantly have a notification that says “+100 likes since you last opened the app!” And you see this every day so you just don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:24 AM
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I don’t think porn is cheating. I don’t think videos of sex are necessarily bad. I dont think sex is wrong or bad at all. But I know, and any sensible and compassionate person with eyes who can read the news and interviews and research knows, that the industry is more than rife with trauma, with suicide, with pain, trafficking, underage girls, revenge porn, intimate videos shared without consent, prostitution, coercion, desperation, violence, public shaming (In that it can preclude you from gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:15 AM
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It’s a class system. They need two classes of women: the “lower” class they can mock, abuse, and masturbate to (which is part of the arousal - the degradation, which is why ‘innocence broken’ is such a prevalent porn genre.) The second class is the “good” class of women that they might masturbate to but also must outwardly show public respect. Make no mistake; most men think any girl is a potential sex conquest if they have enough money. This is a belief system. Every girl is a potential prostit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:22 AM
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I think men just equate their thoughts with rationality first and by extension the woman MUST be irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:47 PM
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😂 walk away?
/r/MensRights19/02/24 10:10 PM
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Interesting. I insist 100% condom rule, no exceptions. Yet I’ve been stealthed once, and I’ve been asked by men MANY times not to use them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:05 PM
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Bro we all know a beautiful woman whose troll fugly husband cheated on them. But if I said that, you’d not believe me either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:33 PM
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Because that’s not even a logical thing : look at Beyoncé, look at Rihanna, look at every beautiful powerful woman … they’ve all been cheated on! It’s a fallacy that attractiveness keeps someone from cheating. Try again. What’s another example of something that is true, verifiable real-life “leverage” and not merely a metaphor also: “using attractiveness to extract resources” isn’t a concrete example. It’s another what-if. Give me a real example. I’m a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:22 PM
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For real: can you give me a living example of what having an upper hand looks like? Because this is a metaphor I’m not seeing playing out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:09 PM
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Okay but can you tell me how that actually manifests in reality and not your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:46 PM
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What is the hand?????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:46 PM
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What do you mean “to maintain the upper hand?” What is that hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:34 PM
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I’m not moving shit! What have I moved???? Weak. Have a great day bruh wish I didn’t have to think about the stats and facts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:24 PM
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But it’s not 0.1:0.1 the math ain’t mathin that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:17 PM
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He was a rapist. She was weaker than him. So if she was trying to hurt him in self defence while he was raping her, she had no chance. This is a fun loophole that doesn’t allow women to legally “defend” themselves from a domestic abuser because “self defence” is contingent upon being “in the moment” of assault and “proportional” in response, right! She did it because he was a sick rapist. She did it while he was asleep because it was all she could do. And she became a villain and a national joke…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:17 PM
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Why don’t you not worry about me so much. Lady posits that women deserve our bad rap. Presents a bunch of feelings. I’m saying: here’s some facts and the result of what happens when people openly, and truly, hate women … and it’s not other women doing the evil
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:56 PM
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She literally started with “I’ve been hit, choked and assaulted” um…..😐
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:49 PM
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Where does the body count go tho? In terms of the dead and murdered by the other partner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:39 PM
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Wait what? lol Kamala Harris?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:36 AM
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You will burden her with your age, yes. You get a nurse. She gets to fend for herself anyway once you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:05 AM
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YES EXACTLY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:06 AM
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Omg every day we stray further from god. 🤢 JUST SEE A THERAPIST
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:06 AM
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I’ve met men in their 30s with ED 😬😬😬
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:02 AM
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Yes! 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:59 AM
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Oh sorry I thought you were complaining about the how fast things moved. I haven’t had my coffee yet mea culpa
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:57 AM
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All I’ll say is that my married friends are leaving their husbands and dating. Women are realizing that having a partner isn’t a flex. Actually having your own life is. The partner turns out to be more of an anchor than a flex. The idea that men will and have been providers and protectors is dying, as women are making money and becoming independent. We don’t depend on men anymore so now we get to make the same dating decisions as men, but with a bigger pool of potential partners to draw from. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:52 AM
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What kind of power do you mean? If this were true, actual people in powerful positions would be young women. Not usually old white men. Power isn’t how she makes you feel, sir. Power is an actual accrued - you don’t feel it. You accrue it. So you might think young women have power because you see yourself as having some external Locus of control that doesn’t involve you. And frankly? The Prof I personally dated had my grades. My boss who cornered me and made me go for dinner with him two weeks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:45 AM
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That’s fine that they don’t look attractive to you. They’re still attractive to others. Way more than you. It’s not all about you. And you’re wrong - the majority aren’t in committed relationships. I think that’s an easy cop-out. Maybe the men need to start thinking of being attractive at an older age and they will have more attractive partners to choose from. If you went out and she talked about meeting her parents - you weren’t up front enough on your dating profile about what you want. There …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:39 AM
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Look women, despite themselves, will ALWAYS be desirable. And if they WANT to settle down there’s still an ocean of men who will. Scarcity is a myth. And actually the people who are having a lot of casual sex and meeting a lot of people just have a higher chance of meeting someone compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:36 AM
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True. I agree. I think these forces that engender our actions are not conscious nor are they necessarily malicious. Girls don’t inherently mature faster. They’re sexualized younger so they’re forced to reckon with adult sexuality sooner unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:59 PM
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Generally yes. 🙌 young men can be relied upon for NSA sex. Young women that want NSA sex are out there too… but I haven’t had to look for them. Old and otherwise unattractive Men will PAY for youth. But casual sex with fully developed cerebellums where there’s no weird power issue with an age gap is not inherently bad (you’re a smart cookie you can extrapolate from there). I go on a dating app, set my age range, be very honest about wanting something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:58 PM
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Not when you have a power imbalance. That makes it quite easy to attract or prey on young women .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:42 PM
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lol it’s not charity. I own my home and car and I have friends and nieces and nephews and friends. I’ve seen friends grow old or get sick and some even die. From what I’ve seen working in the health care industry: girlfriends and family will do 100% more than a husband/boyfriend. In fact statistically if a partner comes down with a serious illness, women are more likely to stay, and men are much much more likely to bail. It’s science.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:41 PM
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Sksksksksks here come the downvotes! God FORBID a woman have an ethical good time!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:23 PM
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Who wants to settle down? My goal is to have sex till I’m bored with it and retire and take care of myself with my social network. A man frankly would fuck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:22 PM
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We’ll see what other women say. Other women who have actually dated older AND younger men. And you’re making a false equivalency: my 40 year old prof was my professor. I was his student. He had my grades. In my relationships, I have no professional or personal connection to these young (delicious) men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:21 PM
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No because we only have sex. But I’m not coy about my intentions. I will say I’ve had many men touch-base with me months and even years after a relationship that I felt was strictly sexual, saying that they missed our conversations. This has happened more than once so whether or not I’m aware of it, I’m making some sort of impression 🩷. My motto is to be honest and leave them better than I found them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:18 PM
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Considering I’ve never had more action then I have past 35+ I’m beginning to think the scarcity issue is a myth. Women tend to be critical of age gaps between men and women because when men date younger women they tend to do so because they can’t pull anyone their own age. They also like to have someone they think is less smart, to mold. I’ve been the younger woman in a may December romance - and there’s a massive power differential usually as well : my lover was also my professor in university.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:09 PM
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Woah woah woah - lol no need to get defensive. I mean depending on who you ask, it’s the men with the big suicide problem. But the difference is that helpless men who commit suicide um… are more successful at killing themselves and more likely to take someone with them. Women just attempt suicide themselves. And don’t succeed as frequently apparently. So…When women don’t get what they want and they feel helpless - yeah, they hurt themselves. But also : a LOT of women have poor mental health and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:39 PM
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I think men also blame this on an external locus of control. Like it’s women’s fault somehow. When women don’t get what they want, they tend to hate themselves, work on themselves, hurt or injure themselves…. But when men don’t get what they want, they externalize that hate by blaming and hurting others - even punching a wall You know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:59 PM
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No, women just get beaten to death for showing their hair in Afghanistan and Iran, and both Israeli and Palestinian women have been brutalized, raped and murdered in war. And literally no one cares. It is happening to women . Women have been filmed having their breasts cut off and being shot in the head while being raped. So this is very very sad, but let’s not pretend women aren’t getting chewed up, raped and murdered in this mess.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 07:04 PM
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Well it’s very very sad about how it affects men, but since they are the ones who get to decide how to behave, I don’t want to forget the women and kids who die as collateral damage because sad men don’t know how to cope.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 07:02 PM
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You don’t seem capable of rationality so I have to have a little fun to keep myself interested.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 06:59 PM
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Hahahaha but don’t forget the wife filing for divorce is also at a huge risk of violence merely for TRYING to leave. I wish the men who off themselves due to marital sads wouldn’t take women and children with them
/r/MensRights11/12/23 06:45 PM
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Sorry about the innuendo. Do you think you’ll ever recover?
/r/MensRights11/12/23 06:39 PM
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Okay but generally, if kids aren’t taught how to behave to kids, what would happen realistically? We aren’t talking about you personally
/r/MensRights10/12/23 02:19 AM
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If boys weren’t taught how to behave to girls, what do you think would happen, realistically?
/r/MensRights09/12/23 07:19 PM
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The owners and CEOs of Spencer’s Gifts which owns Spirit Halloween are all men, however. Don’t they have a say in what they produce?
/r/MensRights09/12/23 07:17 PM
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I’m not saying it’s anyone’s fault, bro. I’m just saying that those are the objective facts. 🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights08/12/23 11:14 PM
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Are you saying there’s no link or connection between the percentage of homicides committed by men and maybe how some men are socialized? You don’t see murder as being 98% a male thing? You just see 100% murder? I mean : if you were going on a flight and you have airlines to choose from. Of all the plane crashes over the last 10 years Air Canada was responsible for 11%, and Westjet is responsible for 98% of the crashes. you’d just flip a coin and get on either? You trust both airlines equally? It…
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:42 PM
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Which ant, objectively, has caused the most damage? lol
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:30 PM
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No I’m not. Re read what I wrote
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:23 PM
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No but look. Let’s say we get red ants and black ants. 100 red, 100 black. And the red ants and black ants live together but they notice that over the days the red ants and the black ants start killing one another. It is noticed by the scientists that the red ants killed 89 ants altogether. The black ants kill 11 ants altogether. Which ant would you consider to be the deadlier of the two? Males were convicted of the vast majority of homicides in the United States, representing 89.5% of the total…
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:01 PM
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Oh. How does “men commit most violent crime” Not translate into men are the problem? We aren’t talking about relative safety even. Let’s just look at who is THE MOST REPRESENTED DEMOGRAPHIC CONCERNING MURDER problem… but I reject your framing. So I guess we are gonna agree to reject one another
/r/MensRights08/12/23 04:49 PM
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My point is that men overwhelmingly are the perpetrators. For the record all circumcision is genital mutilation and i don’t believe in it. But I think we can allll agree that no matter who the victims of MURDERERS are the perpetrators are overwhelmingly men
/r/MensRights08/12/23 03:51 PM
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Mhmm. And? So we admit men are the problem?
/r/MensRights08/12/23 03:49 PM
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Sorry? I’m just saying rape precedes a lot of sexually motivated murder. Because witnesses and men being afraid of being accused
/r/MensRights08/12/23 12:42 PM
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Would you rather be raped and murdered or just murdered?
/r/MensRights08/12/23 12:09 PM
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They have a lot in common tho: women at the hands of men are usually killed because they’re women…. they’re not randomly killed in crossfire or in run of the mill theft or whatnot: they’re killed because they’re trying to divorce, or they’re pregnant, or they’ve upset their partner in some way. Some are sexually motivated as well, which is a lot less in the male murdered population. Anyway femicide is a thing.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 11:18 AM
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By men, yes. Your point?
/r/MensRights08/12/23 10:41 AM
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Who said male victims didn’t matter? Also do we de facto strike every fact or comment delivered by a feminist? This is how men’s rights work?
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:07 AM
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The homeless shelter I know (Mission Services) is a men’s shelter. There is more than one in my city
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:05 AM
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You know in Mexico 10 women are murdered a day right?
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:04 AM
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cool . here’s statistics Canada. breakdown is pretty clear
/r/MensRights07/12/23 10:04 PM
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Oh I see. Are government sources acceptable? Journals? What sources can we work with here?
/r/MensRights07/12/23 10:02 PM
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Fair. Agreed there
/r/MensRights07/12/23 10:01 PM
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Sorry what? What are DV rights? Circumcision is optional. You have that already. Education and sentencing are certainly issues but what “civil” rights of men are being violated regularly? Why aren’t men making homeless shelters for one another? No one is stopping them. I’m talking civil rights?
/r/MensRights07/12/23 09:56 PM
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Wait what rights would men’s rights have in the Men’s Rights City That they don’t have now?
/r/MensRights07/12/23 09:38 PM
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No, but men are more likely to be abusers or homiciders The proportion of women killed by an intimate partner is eight times that of men.. Hard to find stats of the percent of ABUSERS because few men have an interest in seeing those numbers
/r/MensRights07/12/23 09:13 PM
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As a woman, I see men more as cops. Here’s why: Cops, like men, will protect one another with a code of silence Cops, like men, embody the structurally male-centered-and-built system of law Cops like men defend property and see everything as property to be defended Cops, like men, are terrified of their “criminals” even though they out-number and out-weapon them by multitudes. They tend to overreact and like, taze and kill their charges by excessive force Cops use and exploit and blackmail sexua…
/r/MensRights07/12/23 10:25 AM
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This is a success how? For whom?
/r/MensRights06/12/23 07:36 PM
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What about all the mass shootings? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:56 PM
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Most of the time I feel merely invalidated. I need a third party to feel seen. Men always assume the right of the court of public opinion (of their minds)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:42 AM
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“Competitiveness that drives progress” And yet I see SO MANY men hating the free market when it comes to dating! Based on what I’ve see? Men don’t want to compete. They want the old systems that will relegate a woman he can “take care of” and she can “serve”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:31 PM
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Oh so you see breakups as failures. You are only dating to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:19 PM
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But women aren’t rotten food. And you can tell by smelling and seeing rotten food that it’s rotten. And rotten food harms you. So that analogy doesn’t work. Maybe if I reframe the question: what is it about a sexually experienced woman that turns you off? I’m assuming their sexual experience. But why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:53 PM
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No, you’re eliding something and going in circles. WHY do you find it undesirable, is it because you believe it’s a predictor of infidelity? Or is it evolutionary instinct? If it’s evolutionary instinct than infidelity wouldn’t matter because you wouldn’t be thinking of it. If it’s because you think it’s a predictor of a licentious infidelity? Because that is a conscious decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:16 PM
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I’m finding this logic hard to follow. Can you summarize why YOU, not doctor buss, (no references required) prefer a no/low body count. This is all I’m asking. Not proof why it’s a good reason: just the reason it is important to you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:01 PM
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So to sum up your position: women who are virgins are the unlikeliest to cheat? Or the potential to cheat increases with the number of partners? It’s the CHEATING you’re worried about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:15 PM
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Hey new best friend 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:01 PM
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You’re my biggest fan and I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:38 PM
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When your experience is invalidated so frequently, it becomes difficult to remain objective. So folks look outside for an external barometer. Also girls and women are always told to give everyone a chance. Give 10 chances. Give 100 chances…. So to answer your question, the OP is trying to see if the invalidation they are feeling is justified by sharing the story
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:32 PM
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This isn’t a perfect comparison, but think of UFC fighters. GSP is a clinically precise, studied, successful fighter. But those aren’t even always the “best” fights! The “best” fights are sometimes a little sloppy! A few wild haymakers, and some real MEAT in the unpredictability. An up-and-comer’s fight, when they get a small number of SUPER PROMISING moves…. That’s EXCITING
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:22 PM
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How many men have you had sex with? How on earth would you know? I assure you my data set is stronger than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:08 PM
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I honestly didn’t know with my husband! I found out after we had sex, and because the sex was totally great anyway, when he told me, I figured Amazing: this is only gonna get even better!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:35 AM
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“Inexperience will be seen” sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy to me . I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:01 AM
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Why do you say that? I married a man who had sex one time before me. At that point I had had nearly TWENTY partners. (Yah. I’m THAT body count woman. I enjoy sex. I’m the kind of women men hate because I enjoy sex.) Anyway long story short: sex was great. It was almost as though humans have had it figured out since the beginning of time. In-out. In-out. Kiss kiss, squeeze kiss, change positions, in-out in-out kiss kiss squeeze squirt etc. I think some men will try to find any reason to PRE-REJEC…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:28 AM
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It’s called a double standard. And basically this one doesn’t exist. Women truly don’t give a shit. If it’s not brought up (it won’t be if you’re normal) then no one needs to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:23 AM
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You can have a woman who can be monogamous, who has never cheated and has never divorced … with a super duper extensive history…. then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:14 PM
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Tell me why you prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:07 PM
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Sorry: grammar is unclear. You rejected a woman with an extensive history? Or you WOULD reject a woman with an extensive history? What if we took nuance out of it. You only have a choice between someone who has no history, but is ugly by YOUR standards (ie you do not find her attractive) Or Someone who you are attracted to, very much, with an EXTENSIVE history (assume she’s healthy) Both the same age. Or: alternatively : no one. What would the choice typically be for a red piller? What would you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:18 AM
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Not all men!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:29 AM
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That wasn’t the question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:29 PM
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Look: I can’t control what other people like or want… but I can make the generalization (something we all do) that men that “prefer” such a dumb concept are expressing—with this preference—their sad sexist hangup marks them as immature, retrograde insecure authoritarian weirdo simps. It’s possible men who have this so-called “preference” aren’t any of these things…. But nothing has demonstrated to me that this is true. So you do you. Godspeed. People are gonna shame a dumb “preference”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:28 PM
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Because someone tricked them into thinking it MATTERED (ding dong - it doesn’t)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:22 PM
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This is shame worthy. Because the premise is that a woman loses value by her “use” as a sex “object” which is inherently sexist. Sexism deserves our derision.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:15 PM
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No - desire does not equal correct lol that’s a real sketchy way of seeing human behaviour You’re not a teacher to your partner - you are an equal . Your perspectives are EQUAL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:38 PM
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Thank you for answering ! Im still fascinated by these communities that hate me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:28 PM
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What is desired in a partner can’t be correct or incorrect. It can differ. A teacher child relationship is certainly a power imbalanced one where there are correct answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:27 PM
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Yeah I guess except values aren’t necessarily correct or incorrect - they merely differ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:17 PM
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lol you’re not understanding me. You CANT control what they do. So all you can DO is say “I don’t like how they acted towards me” And YOU need to decide if it’s a dealbreaker. Or else, initiate the discussion to figure it out. But you can only manage yourself and your reactions. You can’t expect to dictate your partners actions, even if you’re married! Because we are free human beings. We have to keep communicating and deciding whether our values align. That’s the healthy way: not to presume to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:11 PM
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Do red pill guys prefer a so called ugly virgin? Or a hot woman with an extensive history? Assume they’re the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:03 PM
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Some freedoms yes and some no. But what that looks like will be negotiable for every couple… unless you’re like, in the Taliban
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:53 PM
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As a woman who was entirely monogamous with my husband, and all boyfriends, I can say this is largely a paranoid delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:55 PM
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Ewwwwww who is still pining for the idea of a “virgin”???? 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:47 PM
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If the guy loved the surfer girl and said “I can’t handle you being sexy on the gram” and she does it and he leaves? He’s done her a huge favor. Some boundaries are dumber than others. But : we are all entitled to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:45 PM
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Yes! That’s the boundary. “I’m not comfortable with this.” Is a boundary anyone can have, and it’s okay to walk away if it’s been broken. It’s okay to say “this is my dealbreaker”. It’s even okay to say “I didn’t realize this would be a dealbreaker, but after thinking about it, I realize it is for me” We can’t control others. We can’t control what others will do. All we can control is how we respond
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:39 PM
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You’re not understanding me. Yes, relationships have boundaries. And dealbreakers. But if the person breaks those boundaries it’s YOU that leaves and makes other choices. Or say, like in your example, you only will date someone if they Don’t have an OF. They agree. But then they change their mind? That’s within their rights. It’s YOUR boundary, so YOU get to leave and find a new partner! People are allowed to change their minds/ and you’re allowed to date who you want. But you can’t effectively …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:18 PM
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Indeed : for one’s self. Not for others. For example; if your boundary is that you don’t want your girlfriend to dress sexy? You get yourself a girlfriend who doesn’t dress sexy. It’s YOU that changes, not the person who doesn’t need to change. My boundary might be that i won’t let someone yell at me. That doesn’t mean my partner can’t yell ever - it means that if they yell at me, I will leave. Boundaries are for YOU. They aren’t to control others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:10 PM
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Boundaries are things you put in place for yourself. It’s not telling someone what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:59 PM
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I’m really just trying to use the same standards for both
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:52 PM
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If the individual living their life doesn’t consider themselves the main character, who are they supposed to see themselves as? Your SUPPORTING character? Please break this down
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:36 PM
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But what was he WEARING? Was he DRESSED in such a way that SUGGESTED he had a lot of money? Maybe he should dress so rich-like. (Also spending $40 to have dinner with someone you’d never get the chance with normally would still be better than being date raped)
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:33 PM
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That’s not what I said at all. Functionally, until the 70s, and maybe until the 90s (where rape laws really took hold) women were property and so this is the first, maybe second generation of men who didn’t get an easy transition into woman ownership. Functionally, men lived alone, women were their property they took care of, and as long as he was a good man to her, all is ok. She managed his empire and built his army. But that presumes things like rape, battery, abuse, financial abuse didn’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:48 PM
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We haven’t won until women aren’t being assaulted and Black people don’t have to fear the presence of police. I really don’t think we are there yet. The exhaustion to which you refer is the manifestation of the pendulum swing for better or worse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:53 PM
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The irony is that the same men that will say : “You can sleep with whoever you want so there’s no problem” Will be the ones saying, when you admit to having a happy sex life: “Those men just see you as a trash bin c** dumpster” Which is it? I’m a whore or a victim depending on how a man feels that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:32 PM
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That brings me sincere joy to hear I do often feel like the cards are stacked against us in terms of being believed and that me too has had a viscous cultural pendulum swing the other way that has really hurt women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:30 PM
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Yeah and a bike with three wheels is a tricycle You’re not getting my point: she will not be seen as a victim by men. And he won’t be seen as a perpetrator. Qualify your buddies all you Want but every time you qualify it (didn’t follow the trial, poo poo jokes, both were bad) you’re admitting that what I’m saying is true: Men will not see women as victims and most women won’t see women as victims. Men will defend the actions , motivations, or past behavior of someone (or even just excuse them fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:23 PM
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That’s different : Abused each other is not understanding that Johnny Depp was worse and had more power and money and physical strength. So saying “both sides” isn’t the same as supporting Amber Heard as a victim. I have yet to see a man do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:17 PM
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They may know about other men and not do anything. They certainly don’t go out on a limb to defend a woman - can you imagine???? I literally can’t imagine a man being like “that Johnny depp always struck me as being abusive…. I’m sure he deserves to be in jail” Even when we tell our partners and fathers and police that we’ve been assaulted… they don’t believe us Which implicitly means they’re already aligned with their brethren. It’s a cartel in some ways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:09 PM
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It’s not about that; it’s about whether you’re believed as victim. Men will defend and believe other men, generally speaking. Women will not do the same for other women, generally speaking. It sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:49 PM
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Sure. Agreed but I was answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:41 PM
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Um. Well you don’t have to be native to be at risk of being murdered as a woman. Some risks are greater than others, but rest assured that one woman is killed every third day in Canada - CANADA! - from their intimate partner. In Mexico a couple of years ago it was 10 women per day. In America it’s three women per day. It’s almost 2 a day in Korea. “Seeing how femicides happen over a 10-year period allows us to see the patterns that repeat, grow, and diminish when it comes to the killing of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:40 PM
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Not necessary to live. Women can’t depend on men for survival. When we do: bad things happen. So if everyone gets to the point where they see a partner as a teammate and not a possession or a right, we will be in a better position. But boys are still being raised with entitlement and girls are being raised to be people pleasers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:31 PM
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Many women don’t have a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:30 PM
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Men compete for women but they defend one another’s reputation to the death
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:28 PM
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Disagree but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:28 PM
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I want them to actually do an autopsy on the term redistribution because they don’t get what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:27 PM
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Lmao 🤣 really! You think women are going out on fake dates for food? lol
/r/MensRights25/11/23 12:26 PM
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If that’s your model than raising any kids is grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:25 PM
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I’m not moving the goalposts. You said it’s common for women to mock men who are virgins or lonely. I’m going by this framework If this is in any way true, shouldn’t the evidence be very available?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:16 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:08 PM
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Where are they being mocked FOR being virgins or struggling to get attention? I’m going by your description. I just need an example and not some paranoiac projection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:05 PM
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If it’s true is it an insult ? Was he asking for a rating? What was the context?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:54 PM
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Unfortunately I think we will have to raise the boys that believe women, and raise the girls to believe one another. We aren’t there yet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:50 PM
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Well there you go. Men will believe all men before courts. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:45 PM
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Look, that’s not an insult. That’s her opinion. It wasn’t directed at a specific man. It’s Not All Men, remember???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:40 PM
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Women unfortunately don’t have one another’s backs in the way that a man will defend TO THE DEATH the reputation of a man he’s never met lol 😂 It’s a safety mechanism. Some women think that if they throw other women under, somehow it will protect themselves. It’s pretty antithetical to feminism, but then again, feminism should be defending and supporting all women as a class. I wish there was more solidarity there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:37 PM
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Example? I literally haven’t seen women making fun of men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:28 PM
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Where are terminally undatable men being mocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:21 PM
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We just don’t want to be murdered in our homes by people that say they love us but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:12 PM
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I’m doing better than ok. I own my home. I am single. I date who I want and when I want. But I don’t need to DEPEND on anyone. I have the choice. The definition of freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:11 PM
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There are far more kinds of intimacy than just sexual intimacy, and men are starved of platonic emotional intimacy and platonic physical intimacy as well. Agreed That's what I was pointing at when I said that most men are emotionally neglected and emotionally illiterate, they don't have the tools or language to even frame their own issues properly, and are unable to see that a ton of things they want in a relationship, could be had with regular friends, if there wasn't such a toxic expectation p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:10 PM
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I just mean I date without having to think about them. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:55 PM
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I don’t even think about red pills tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:53 PM
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Since you never answered me before: Was there a question? Betty Friedan noted that the “final frontier” of feminism would also include freeing men from patriarchy, as men =/= patriarchy but are still affected by it the same as women are. I proposed that sex positivity needs to advocate for people who are not sexually active, so assuming that society has progressed to not equating people with their sexual activity/number of partners and divorcing these concepts from gender, I’d actually say a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:45 PM
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Hahahaha good luck with that buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:41 PM
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Okay but look: Oh that's absolutely 100% going to happen. This is not a solution for all men to find dates. But isn’t the question above about what happens to men when they don’t even get ONE (1) shot at intimacy? Men aren't lonely because they can't find women to sleep with. Men are lonely because they're largely told that the only way for them to get their emotional and physical intimacy needs are with a romantic partner, so they are starved of emotional and physical affection their entire lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:30 PM
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I feel like lonely men will be outbred thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:24 PM
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Well isn’t the question about how men are gonna survive without even ONE (1) girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:24 PM
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What if after all this there are still men who are seen as not datable? Let’s say after all this there is still a demographic subset of men that no woman wants to share their life with. Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:46 PM
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I believe you. But nearly every sexually active woman has had a guy lie to get sex.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 07:40 PM
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Why? Can’t you live without kids and a partner? It’s rad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:38 PM
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Mostly through our experiences with men who try to have sex with us
/r/MensRights24/11/23 07:15 PM
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So assume every woman is sympathetic and empathetic and TRULY TRULY understand how hard men have it. Then what happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:03 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:06 PM
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Are you American? Canadian? Who is drafting you to fight? To die? Women live longer than men because they take care of themselves. They DO go to doctors and engage in preventative medicine. So yeah we use social services and that’s why we live longer duh. They’re there for you too. Anyway : since you can pay for sex and aren’t getting drafted what the hell are you weeping about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:00 PM
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Women don’t exist men into wars. That’s on you dudes. Also can we take a moment for the women raped by the very same soldiers ? Also, being a soldier doesn’t involve getting fucked. The nature of the profession is different. Also soldiers get free medical care. Sex workers dont. Also soldiers haven’t been drafted in Canada or the states so it seems like a “choice” to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:55 PM
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Okay how can women help unfuck men enough so men can have the intimacy they want? And what are the issues Male depression; women aren’t therapists inherently. This takes men getting help and giving help to one another if they want to lift one another out of depression. This is what women do/. Male loneliness : right now men have never had more access to women. Aside from forcing women to sleep with un-dateable men, or paying for their consent, men could try making friends with women without tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:29 PM
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Hence the word *imply
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:15 PM
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So your solution is to PAY to have women who otherwise are disgusted by the client to have sex with them? Pay for consent? That seems like an okay thing to do? Where will this stream of trafficked women come from? What if every woman decides to refuse? Then what? Anyway what you’re describing is pretty well what things are like now so why the complaints? The only thing different (and it has nothing to do with sex) is that men currently pay child support - to women they’ve had kids with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:57 PM
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lol 😂 Well maybe us Canadian women can live without marriage and kids then. We are increasingly divorcing and leaving our husbands and our birth rate is lowering accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:55 PM
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It isn’t beside the point actually, not if you see women as humans who don’t deserve to be made to have sex with or be intimate with anyone. Does a man’s human right to sex outweigh a woman’s human right to say no? What if he has money and she still doesn’t want to? What then? Throw her in jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:52 PM
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Oh so your solution is to pay women to do it. Pay for them to consent to touch someone they don’t want to touch. Better than nothing but not ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:44 PM
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What if, after all of that, we have egalitarian dating and there are still men that can’t secure any intimacy or girlfriend? What if, all else being equal, some men just don’t end up attracting women…. then what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:37 PM
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Holy shit what country?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:23 PM
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I think it’s a mistake these days to assume women want a man and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:57 PM
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At least we are happy! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:57 PM
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Men can prostitute as well, bruh. You just wouldn’t like who is gonna pay for you. (Like a lot of prostituted women)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:56 PM
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Omg really I’m snorting at comparing men to disabled children… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:55 PM
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What is your idea of a solution? Force women to be intimate with the men with whom they don’t want to be? To force women to touch men they don’t want to touch? Really to imply that it’s human right to HAVE a girlfriend or intimacy, you are also implying that if no one wants them, someone has to be forced right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:03 PM
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In what way was what I posted misandrist?
/r/MensRights23/11/23 12:29 PM
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You can disagree with me and downvote me it’s cool. Doesn’t make an uncomfortable truth incorrect
/r/MensRights23/11/23 11:56 AM
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And he succeeds too!
/r/MensRights23/11/23 09:47 AM
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This would be great for men and women. Then they can have truly egalitarian relationships that have no coercion due to need for protection or money or other forms of dependence, don’t you think ?
/r/MensRights21/11/23 11:40 PM
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I never said they were useless. I wasn’t asked about whether women were clean or whatnot. All I suggested is that someone should be right with themselves before being in a relationship with a woman. Otherwise, we get what we are seeing now: women leaving relationships where they’ve being asked to be mothers to their partners/ Anyway. Just trying to help.
/r/MensRights21/11/23 11:38 PM
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Well, considering I haven’t tried to make anyone question their sanity, and I’ve provided an asked-for response to “what do you mean by exist independently” I can’t understand in what way I’m gaslighting you. Have a nice night
/r/MensRights21/11/23 10:41 PM
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Don’t need permission, sorry !
/r/MensRights21/11/23 10:13 PM
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Um because I’m not done dating ????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:08 PM
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That’s sad. I live alone. I have family and hobbies and friends and I’m never lonely or bored. I’m always busy with people doing something. I look forward to nights where I can relax alone
/r/MensRights21/11/23 10:03 PM
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Sure but you know what women do? When we are lonely we seek out our mom, our aunts, our grandmas, our sisters and our family and friends … men don’t need to be lonely ; but they need to expand their social world to include peoooe they’re not sleeping with.
/r/MensRights21/11/23 09:56 PM
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Have interests that don’t involve your partner (art, sports, friends etc) Be responsible to some degree for your mental and physical health: don’t make your partner or girlfriend your therapist. Don’t make them the reason why you’re healthy:: the reason is you!! Do you think you need a woman to keep a home, dress well, or manage life responsibilities? Then you’re not ready for a wife. These things should be managed on one’s own and you should expect to continue to take care of yourself and your …
/r/MensRights21/11/23 09:48 PM
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The best thing men can do right now is become independent. Many many educated and professional Women have become financially independent which has made relying on men for anything really moot. But men haven’t really got the memo that they need to be able to exist independently of women before they can be a good partner to a woman
/r/MensRights21/11/23 08:53 PM
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Sorry you fellas are losing me with the sarcasm and grammar : what is your argument here men ARE unacknowledged victims? Men are NOT victims, and therefore nothing needs to be acknowledged? Men ARE victims and they ARE being adequately acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:06 PM
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You believe that now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:42 AM
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No no this is good 📝 it shows you don’t care about the actual issues so much as shutting feminists up. So what are YOU doing to help men’s issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:38 AM
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So you only do it to (checks notes) shut feminists up. K. 📝
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:32 AM
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If you’re not rich enough for this to apply to, 😂, I wouldn’t worry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:45 PM
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I dont Who are you trying to convince, me? And I always bust out when normal guys talk about alimony 😂 you guys are deliuuuuse. We would sooner be poor and not live with delusional people who have a drowning grip on their own theories over the actual manifestation of lived reality. No wonder there’s a male loneliness epidemic. Anybooooooooooo : marriage rates are declining in America and Canada at least! It’s just a fact so … maybe get with the program before you die before meeting the “one”… be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:01 PM
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Also the cool thing is that women have enough options to use some men for sex and some Men a potential life partners. It’s really a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:37 PM
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I’d say fewer women want husbands than ever. Because they make more money now and don’t need to depend on them for survival (at the best of times at least) Most divorces are initiated by women. Most women don’t remarry after divorce. In the west at least, more women seem to be, when given the choice … less inclined then they have been historically - for WHATEVER reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:36 PM
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Ouch. Downvoted for being a good time!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:13 PM
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As long as any woman is unfree because she is a woman, the CLASS OF WOMEN is unfree. All women must be free with all options available to men (this is a generalization of course but I’m sure your big boy brain understands what I’m saying) Remember what Audre Lorde says “if I fail to recognize them [other different types, races, classes of women] as other faces of myself, then I am contributing to not only each of their oppressions but also to my own … I am not free while any woman is unfree, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:12 PM
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Well the cult of men who see women as fish aren’t going to go very far… but if that’s working for you, best of luck. May you find the woman you deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:01 AM
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As an older woman yes I agree. In fact I’ve had past dates reach out and say they miss our conversations, which to me signals that they are interested in what I think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:39 AM
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Luck isn’t equality. A little freedom isn’t freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:38 AM
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Everyone has their own type. Here’s mine: They take care of themselves, go to the gym, are a little vain, go to a barber and smell fucking good. They are busy with their own shit. They don’t depend on me (whew!!). When we get together we very honestly listen to one another’s week, and we gas each other up and validate one another over some wine They’re confident. They know what they’re good with and they don’t play games. Having said this; I’m very open to what I want from the get-go. I don’t sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:35 AM
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But why are you listening to a guys kooky theory instead of a woman who is actually dating?!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:47 PM
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That really seems like a lot of projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:15 PM
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I’ve been married and I left marriage because it sucked, I didn’t/couldnt depend on him - and now I just live my life happily 🤷‍♀️ If the measure is day to day happiness and quality of life: I’m doing Really great. Also my goal is to make it to the end WITHOUT a marriage. Everything I need in a guy I … kind of can get when I need it 🤷‍♀️ it’s a lack of dependency = more choices = free
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:12 PM
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If the relationship women are so common I don’t know what your issue is. I’ve watched the video. It’s a mess. A mess of wasted time. Listen to what women are saying and you’ll do better in the dating scene. I wish men would see their lack of success as THEIR problem and not ours. Remember : from the moment girls can read we are subjected to makeup, behavioural modification, and 101 ways to please / get/ meet /keep / your man propaganda. Men don’t have the equivalent: they’re just clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:11 PM
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There are still more men out there among the young bucks who are looking for relationships - they don’t disappear- there are probably more of them than just the NsA guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:05 PM
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Why do you assume the women aren’t using the men for sex? Just curious 👀 Men are like sales: there’s always another sale “Men should be like Kleenex, soft, strong, and disposable” - a genius woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:03 PM
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I’m saying if I want to find someone to settle for me, statistically it’s just more likely. No need to shame me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:00 PM
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Bro I am 43. I called a fwb who is a wrestler who is 25 to come over and bounce me off the walls before bed. I have another fwb, 34, coming over on Sunday to do shrooms and make love and make some art and listen to music. I have a black book filled with men and I turn down multiple dates per week. I don’t even sleep with all of them! They’re as available as skip the dishes. So I mean… you can convince yourself of that but I assure you the ladies are doing fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:49 PM
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Counterpoint: men, to have a partner that they can be contractually bound to for “life”, will settle for pretty much anyone as long as they’re attracted to them. As men get older they become more undesirable to women who are over the age of 25. Women, in contrast, always have an ocean of men (young) looking for cougars. They come into play as fast as men age. For every age group of women there will be a large body of male potential dates to choose from because every facet of women’s existence ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:46 PM
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Okay as a totally accredited slut let me tell you my perspective: Women aren’t necessarily dating to marry. I certainly am not anymore. This opens up a large potential pool of partners who are fun and wonderful with no strings attached. Women are making up more of the dating pool on dating apps, which is what I use, so I have a large variety of men to choose from. Tinder flattens people into pictorial objects. For good or bad. If I am dating many men, the odds of me finding someone who I’m compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:41 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:27 PM
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Who is self sabotaging? Lmao. Not us ladies 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:26 PM
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This is the silliest thing I’ve ever heard. You don’t think you can be sexy and also kind? Lmao. That’s a failure of the imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:19 PM
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Think what you want lol I can’t be bothered to worry. I have a date tonight 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:42 PM
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Actually I’m a really kind person ; no trouble finding dates here 💋
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:55 PM
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Then why do you deserve a woman at all? 😂 not nice OR kind? Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:50 PM
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Wow you don’t sound nice OR very kind lol but you do make a point which is that niceness and kindness are different . Kind is who someone is and nice is performative
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:39 PM
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You don’t sound very nice yourself tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:30 PM
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lol um hmmmm we ALLLL must be making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:01 PM
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lol or it could be whenever we’ve turned down a “nice guy” they don’t act very nice about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:40 PM
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Why are nice guys such dinks then? The answer is that they’re nice but not kind
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:16 PM
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Remember there’s a huge difference between niceness and kindness. Niceness is PERFORMATIVE. It can also be a means to an end. Kindness is an actual character trait worth waiting for - you can be kind and strong, kind and gruff, kind and generous, kind and also with integrity and honesty when it’s hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:00 AM
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I don’t think they should. I advocate very selective separatism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:33 PM
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Oh I know! I’m not arguing with you. I’m just adding on haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:33 PM
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How am I not supposed to interpret that behaviour, when it happens so consistently, as anything other than that many many men not only don’t want happiness for women, they’re actively hostile towards it? I’m not supposed to feel hated for being a woman when that happens?? Ooof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:04 PM
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Huh downvoted for not hurting anyone and having a healthy active sex life as a woman on Reddit … how strange /sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:34 PM
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Your assumption is that we date to marry still. There’s a growing number of women who did it once and won’t go back. So we just date for the fun of it with people that don’t have to offer anything other than superficially - it’s pretty nice. Everyone gets what they want and there’s no possessiveness, jealousy, entitlement or ownership. Just good vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:12 PM
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Was that the website that incited the mass femcel shooting that took the lives of 45 men?!
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:13 PM
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The woman consensus is that this is fine
/r/MensRights03/11/23 05:30 PM
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men raping all women is men raping one woman by that logic… maybe there are women who feel similarly to you, and claim men don’t take their feelings seriously. So when men are demoralized by being cast as perpetrators, women are similarly demoralized by being afraid of being victimized (1 in 4 are) and also dismissed. So it goes both ways
/r/MensRights29/10/23 10:29 PM
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I think they’re more discerning
/r/MensRights28/10/23 12:43 AM
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Same way I feel about women who have worked in the sex industry: it’s a shame when public opinion wrongfully follows someone. A shame that society can’t let someone move on even if they’ve done nothing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:28 PM
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Who are these women doing this?? On every date I’ve been on, both parties offer to pay, then they agree to split. That’s what’s done. That’s what people do. Except for TWO TIMES - when TWO SEPARATE MEN happened to FORGET their wallet or debit card so I had to pay FOR THEIR ASSES
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:48 PM
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What are some actionable things you’d like women as a class to do, to address men’s issues?
/r/MensRights22/10/23 07:57 PM
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I wasn’t gonna say it. It doesn’t go over well 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:27 PM
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Whether it’s anyone’s fault or not, the fact is every facet of women’s lived experience has been sexualized and fetishized, so, that, combined with the market being in women’s favor, there will always be someone that will find one attractive. Even if it’s a fetish. You can’t age out of men wanting to use you for sex. We’ve seen men will (and have) had sex with any woman in nearly every conceivable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:54 PM
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Wow that guarantee is pretty scary actually. What if they give money and then the escort refuses sex? Is that revoking consent or is it a business contract that must be honoured with her body? And if that’s the case, is it impossible for sex workers to be raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:32 PM
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“The difference between wives and whores is an old one; each one is thinking that whatever she is, at least she is not the other”. -Andrea Dworkin “One of the differences between marriage and prostitution is that in marriage you only have to make a deal with one man” -Andrea Dworkin Marriage is a silly sexist contract that patriarchy has used for centuries to compel women to remain functionally as property for men. Then we got educated and started making our own money and became recognized as , …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:30 PM
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But…. don’t you have friends? Nephews? Granddads? Cousins? People whose time you enjoy spending time with?
/r/MensRights14/10/23 10:29 PM
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