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| 6 | An endless cycle. | DrewRemington | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 02:49 PM | |
| 0 | Im in the military, Deployed (so it's LD) dealing with my subs (wife) bullshit and over my head. | DrewRemington | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 03:55 PM |
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| 2 | Im in the military, Deployed (so it's LD) dealing with my subs (wife) bullshit and over my head.Solid reply. As of late, I have been trying to stay super positive. I hate complaining about work, especially to her. Do i hype things up a bit, make them seem better? Yeah. Is it stressful? Yeah. Maybe I should have her understand that her poor behavior is effecting my work, it wont be tolerated in the states and it won't be tolerated here. I like the idea. Thanks brother. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Im in the military, Deployed (so it's LD) dealing with my subs (wife) bullshit and over my head.I should add that I'm only in an LDR because of the deployment, it is temporary. I should have added that. She usually responds very well to this kind of training. She has not threatened a nuclear option yet (or ever), but, she has made threats of not accepting my money (which she no longer does, as an allowance for her), has sought financial independence, and i believe she is looki at TBP (or similar) options. I think you're spot on about being reactive. The second she acts like a child I'll sh… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | An endless cycle.I should be more clear, I'm only in an LDR out of necessity. Im deployed OCONUS for work (for a few months). I am completely against LDRs normally but this one was unavoidable. Hope that helps. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | An endless cycle.I've reflected hard and have zero clue as to why she wants test me. Usually I'm okay at dissecting my errors, using rational thinking to dissuade her testing me, only once things cool off. I think your advice is pretty solid. I'll try and use this thread to keep people posted. She is a good wife, she is stressed and not being able to communicate with me is hurting her, no doubt. Maybe the best course is to discuss the misunderstanding but, remind her that poor behavior and name calling is unacce… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Im in the military, Deployed (so it's LD) dealing with my subs (wife) bullshit and over my head.I'm not in the states. My internet connection here is near dial-up speeds, I will take better care to click "post" once. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 04:19 PM |
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