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I used to take offense at your replies. Now all I see is the truth. Listen to this man.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/15 10:12 AM
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Less words works like a dream. Last night the wife had attitude with me in front of our 18 year old niece who lives with us while we were playing cards. One raised eyebrow with a look that portrayed exactly how I felt was all it took. Silence from her for a few minutes then her hands were all over me which I ignored. Finished the game, showered and got into bed with my back to her. She again had her hands all over me so I turned over and told her I didn't like how she was behaving earlier, liter…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 09:51 AM
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Well I regressed to a BP beta this week. Monday morning the wife left early to go to gym, I left later to take my niece to work and when I get to work I decided to phone the wife to make sure she got to work okay. No answer on her work phone or her cell phone. Try again on both phones and after about 5 minutes again on her cell phone. She phones me back after a bit and I didn't keep frame, I allowed myself to get angry with her for not answering (there was some cheating that happened before I we…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 09:03 AM
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I'm imagining my mom as a goblin sitting on my shoulder now - best motivation ever not to listen to any of that shit she sprouts.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 08:19 AM
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I understand where you are coming from but you don't know the entire story. I'm assuming you used to be BP and you weren't happy with your life and you discovered MRP and certain things in your life changed? When I was BP I did almost everything around the house (cooking, cleaning, ironing - you name it I did it) while my wife would for the most part sit in front of the TV and enjoy the fact that I was allowing her to be lazy. During this period she picked up a lot of weight and he attitude towa…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 06:51 AM
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Yeah, look, she has really started pulling her weight since I started mrp and she is my First Officer so I do understand how I could have framed this. In the heat of the moment I wasn't where I should have been and I probably could have changed the way this panned out. That being said, I picked her up from work and there was still tension, a bit of small talk and she put her hand on my leg again so I placed my hand on hers most of the way home. Arrived home and first thing she did was put some m…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 04:13 PM
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Thank you. It helps to have an outside perspective on things. In my own head I sometimes second guess too much so to hear I'm on the right track makes a world of difference. Funnily enough just after reading your message I get a message from the wife saying she hopes I am having a good day. Confirmation that things are looking up :)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 08:33 AM
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This is worthy of gold. I can relate to a lot of what you've written out for us. I traveled 6 hours to meet my first girlfriend and told her I loved her after spending one weekend with her then I was crushed when after a few months she told me it wasn't going to work. I alienated most of my male friends after meeting my wife however looking back I'm not unhappy I left some of them behind. My one friend that I could have called a Morpheus left the country not too long ago. Still, thanks to MRP I …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/15 01:08 PM
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She is on Serdep 50mg now and I can honestly say that it took roughly a week before I noticed a change in her attitude towards sex. She initiated and wanted it and I was taken aback at first at how quickly things changed. I was also transitioning to RP at that stage so maybe it was a combination of the two that sped the process up but I'm really happy none the less. I got so used to frequent sex that when my wife got ill recently I was getting grumpy because of the lack of sex but then I remembe…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/15 01:54 PM
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When I was still BP my wife and I were always fighting - She'd complain about one thing and I'd explain why I'd done that thing and she'd bring up my parents. I'd tell her to leave my parents out of it and she'd bring up the cat - it didn't matter what she was arguing about as long as it was an argument. I eventually had enough and told her that either she sorts herself out or I was out. The doc put her on Anti-depressants and in a week she was a totally different person - so much so that I coul…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/15 08:27 AM
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Lol.. Okay a boss you'd have to approach differently. My boss will never make me coffee but I can ask him to back me up on an idea or ask him for fishing tips or life advice. If he's imparting knowledge to me then he's still giving me something I've asked for and in his head he thinks he likes me more.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 06:19 AM
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My wife is my first officer now and I treat her as such. More often then not I'm right but there is the odd occasion when she will suggest something that makes a hell of a lot of sense. Part of RP is constantly improving yourself so if she suggests something that will help me improve then I'm all for it. Obviously there will be shit tests and those ones you stop quickly but if what she is suggesting is beneficial then I say she is doing it for your betterment - embrace it (and then shag her sill…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 07:26 AM
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I think a big problem with fapping is that more often then not you're fapping to porn or fantasizing about a women other then your wife/LTR. I used to fap almost every day and if the wife went out I'd hop onto the PC and search for all kinds of weird stuff to fap to and the result was that I ended up with a weak erection when we did ever have sex. Since becoming RP I've become more attracted to my wife because of how its changed us and she's been losing weight and because I'm not watching nubile…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 10:22 AM
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I dont like to ask anyone for anything (but rather expect them to do it on their own, which they dont). This was me for ages. Please stop doing this and get into the habit of asking your wife, and other people in your life, to do things for you. With regards to your wife, she is your First Officer and in order for the captain to run the ship he NEEDS to delegate some of the responsibility to his First Officer. Your wife will be so happy to know that you want her to do things for you and it will …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 10:06 AM
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Shame bud, I've been through the BC=no sex thing and it was terrible. I've also been through the Depression Meds=no sex. Unfortunately I was pretty much BP while my wife was on the BC so I don't know how differently things would have gone if I had taken the RP back then. I do know others that have great success by changing brands of BC. My wife is still on depression meds however she changed about a month before I went the RP route so I can't for sure say that it was the change in meds that help…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 07:13 AM
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Women want sex just as much as we do, her "No, do you not respect me?" was a shit test and unfortunately you failed (though just walking away was better then wining or pouting about her not wanting you) Responding to her something along the lines of "I'll respect you a lot more once my cock is inside you." with a shit eating grin and then carry on taking her pants off will get her wet as hell. You are showing your dominance and totally ignoring her shit test. She will respond to this but dependi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 05:59 AM
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I agree with you completely. RP works wonders pretty quickly but its easy to get into the mindset of "I'm invincible! I can do anything with this" but it is a learning process and that is why I am so happy I found this subreddit. A place like this were we can ask questions, get input from others that have been through the same thing we are going through is invaluable and I am so thankful for it. I come to this subreddit to catch up before I browse anything else on Reddit :)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/14 12:15 PM
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I've always wanted to know how you guys did that lol
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/14 11:39 AM
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I'm also new to this and I read through the book without doing the exercises. Would have no problem helping out if needed. Email would probably work best.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/14 09:01 AM
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Lol, I finished it last week but I need to read it again soon once I've finished the rest of my TRP literature.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/14 01:59 PM
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For us we have to drive almost everywhere and I like to be in control so that is why I've decided that I'll be doing the driving now. As has been pointed out this really shouldn't be an issue really and if you want your lady to drive then that is how it should be. There really isn't a right or wrong answer here, its all about what you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/14 12:49 PM
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See, that is something I've had to learn to let go of. Beta me would do so much around the house partially because I always felt I did everything better and partially because I felt that I was doing all these things for her so she wouldn't have to and that would lead to her loving me more and all that crap. Now I've learnt to let go and ask her to do things and its working out great. She does seem to get gratification from doing things that I ask her to which makes her and I happier. I just wish…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/14 12:45 PM
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You're right, it isn't as important as I previously thought and its not a battle - If I want to drive then I'll drive (which will be the majority of the time) if I'm tired or wanting a break I'll throw her the keys and tell her I need her to chauffeur me around and I'll reward her for it later on :)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/14 12:38 PM
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Thank you, you've made perfect sense and seeing how you put it now makes perfect sense. It should never even be an issue at all. If I want to drive I'll drive. If I want her to drive then I'll ask her to. I do feel that I will be doing most of the driving from now on though. Seriously, thank you for putting this in perspective for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/14 12:34 PM
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Yeah I must admit I do feel strange when it does happen but that is because I'm so used to driving everywhere. But that's just how I feel - I want to know how this will affect my marriage. Am I appearing Beta to her or am I making her feel good because she feels she is helping me out by taking the chore of driving away from me?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/14 07:53 AM
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Thanks for the updates. I am learning every day and you sharing helps me maintain frame when otherwise I would entertain my wife's emotional outbursts. Most of your accounts I can relate to in some way and it really helps a brother out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/14 09:58 AM
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Thanks for this sub. TRP has always fascinated me as I was brought up by a very smothering mother and my dad was hardly around and had no real balls of his own so I always went with the flow and I've always been the nice guy because I thought that is what women (and people in general) wanted. I'm am still very set in my beta ways but I am wanting to change for myself and to make my marriage what it should be. Luckily I am still young (33) and we don't have kids yet so I can make the changes befo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/14 07:24 AM
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