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Question For WomenDreysunTheOne/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:05 PM
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CMVDreysunTheOne/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:37 AM
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im a younger guy and i agree with you on this one, i dated a (much older woman) and never wanted to use those terms even f i thought they described her. guys will probably see it as "we are literally saying you are attractive" without think of the actual implications of the word. like cougars are called that because they are on the prowl for (presumably) young dick, its not a positive thing. its "mom id like to fuck", not "mom id like to settle down with and marry" when women say they like salt …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:23 PM
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bring us Idiocracy faster pls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:56 PM
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yeah, bitches be crazy but i've never had a 'date' with a woman who was just going in on me trying to find anyway to make it not work, women have standards but I don't see them being militant on the actual dates. also I find it funny because most of my female friends are pretty confident they wont need or want a guy in their life aside from family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:01 PM
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"once a week probably to much" oh man I'll stay low value, that sounds lame as fuck. "a joint every few months with friends" lol your pocket pen protector is really showing here. exactly how white UMC is this sub again? are you 40? also women constantly defend their right to have close male friends, i don't think it is a red flag to have a close friend of the other gender as long as you respect your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:55 PM
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"female teachers that have sex with male students" its even better because that's what the headlines will say, NEVER will they call an "innocent" woman a rapist, no matter how many boys she's diddled it was always be "had sex with"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:32 AM
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we're all replaceable, worthless, and harmful, until suddenly a woman needs us for something. really gets my "empathy valve" wet, I tell ya what
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:28 AM
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Being held accountable for the historical actions of your peers is not oppression. It’s literally just people trying to learn from history to prevent repeating it no, actually, its called fucking bigotry lmao And you get to decide with whom you identify. When there’s talk about “men raping women” are you able to separate yourself as (presumably) someone who’s never raped a woman and empathize with the victim? Or because you’re a man and someone says “men rape women” do you think they’re automati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:17 AM
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hickory dickory dock ehh? EEHHHHH?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:39 AM
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probably not i frontloaded a lot of major dating mistakes at the start of adulthood because i was hung up on my virginity, lost almost all respect for women from the first relationship. found a good girl but didn't have "enough passion" for her (I would never really be kind to her because I thought she was just using me too), we dated a while but eventually the "no passion", ruined our relationship, and then my bitter ass nailed the coffin on our friendship. and now I'm forever bitter and just f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:05 PM
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Just saying this isn't larp and women are really weird. Even better women don't understand equivalent exchange (or understand it perfectly) and I've had to saving throw: self esteem for her because I didn't send a dick pic back in response to her in lingerie. Just like men women are also awkward and raised to believe directly asking for the things they want is sometimes shameful. I know it's hard to see reading ppd but (hetero) women still desire and are turned on by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:10 AM
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Is she the wife who helped me get to where I'm at? If so, I'd never leave that for anything, a woman who stays with you through the thick DESEREVES the thin 100%. If she's just someone I met on the way to getting successful I'd be way less attached. Men want to know a woman really loves him, it's easier to think so if she was with you even when you were a loser but stuck around because she believed in you. But if it's a woman who decided to "wife" me up while I was already in the middle of my gl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:06 AM
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Unless it's completely free and takes literally no effort from me, there is a 0% chance I fuck a woman I don't like. The bare minimum is being able to hold a conversation, If I don't like her enough to do that there's no way I'm going near her like that. Now If we mean a woman I may not like 100% PHYSICALLY, then it becomes a lot more variable, how much do I like her as a person, how well can we mingle, is the sex good? This is a very multidimensional question with not enough parameters because …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:59 AM
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Man there really are no arguments on the internet anymore. "I think the sky is blue because. . ." "Shut up incel I bet you've never even touched a woman xxx ddd" Great argument you changed mine, and everyone elses view.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:22 PM
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You got confused by the ops wording too I see. Nothing makes women more wet than being (a) powerful (man)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:01 PM
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Nah they can, unlikely but not even close to not happening. See it all the time, participated in it occasionally. Unless you mean obese like with a capital O
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:43 PM
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Yeah that's huge memes every OF shill I've encountered is broken beyond repair, too lazy to work, to bland to create anything. No girls are actually at home waiting wide eyed for the day they can finally sell feet pics on the net so they can afford an apartment, they failed being a functioning adult so they sell their bodies for feigned independence. This is the female equivalent of neet gamer men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:35 PM
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It's about the only way, if they want to use me as a one-sided friend I'm gonna atleast try for sex by lying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:03 PM
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for some reason I feel like when I click the link ill see a bunch of things (like the 3 examples) that are more in line with general narcissism than "things women do" never outshine the master: aren't a lot of rp guys lowkey butthurt women do better in college than them, -1. women only play this role with their male SO on occasion, and its because women know men really do like to explain things, sometimes and often to a fault. obviously there are women who play dumb because they think it will ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:23 PM
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If a girl is actually a "loner" like no friends, no social support no close family that's a massive red flag. Essentially just showing before hand she can't handle any type of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:50 AM
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Lmao dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:25 AM
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This guy gets it. It's primarily a deterrent for guys she doesn't want to hopefully shoo themselves away, but in reality it means squat and if you play your cards right you can most definitely still hookup. Or just lie and ghost her, which is probably more traumatic than a bad ons, but she doesn't want casual so what's a man to do? I quit using old earlier this year, at best it was an ego boost, but I don't think I'm one of the lucky ones who's going to find a real match on tinder, just dumps an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:07 PM
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You see, it sadly is rp fantastic that a woman will end up alone. First, she's probably not saying any of this to her husband, or irl at all hopefully. Secondly, no matter how terrible a woman is as long as she wants an ltr, she is bound to find one eventually. There's no "becoming" a crazy cat lady, sadly, it's by choice 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:52 PM
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Idrk how to answer myself I've always liked kinda bigger women. definitely like a nice ass. Idk how much of that is from hearing anaconda, or from my own sexuality. I also tend to find cute hotter than "hot" is, if that makes sense. Like at the same time I'm seeing these dolled up fake asses or curvy women, I still watched anime/cartoons, and women in anime only have like 2 body types and I'm not particularly chasing either of those (boy build skinny/over the top vixen) Good question but I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:43 PM
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Seems about right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:47 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:59 PM
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"Whatever the hell you(a woman)want it to mean at the time" I would assume
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:53 PM
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Or, men value loyalty because it's an admirable trait many women don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:43 PM
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I only see it a couple times already. If it's not a fuck yes it's a fuck no and drop that girl. Even if I haven't felt "true love" I've felt genuinely desired before, if she doesn't give you that vibe then she never will, EVER, short of you becoming a (almost completely) different person. If it feels lukewarm, especially during the "honeymoon phase" then it's only going to get worse overtime
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:16 PM
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Yo that's crazy one of the reasons my ex broke up with me is because she is "boyfriend romantic" as you described. A lot of girls are gift givers idk who you are friends with. I felt so bad she got me some guitar equipment, not crazy expensive but very very thoughtful and definitely not cheap. I got her some cheap fucking necklace . . . Obviously that didn't work out. I think at your age more women have learned to dial it back to not get bitter at mix matched expectations as seen above but women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:25 PM
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Idk man, it's one thing for a girl to really want you, and another to just be her arm candy. A lot of men think they want this situation but it's different from actually experiencing it. I'll admit the sex was even good most of the times, but it's really the same thing girls here complain about, most guys just don't get to be in the receiving end of being used as a "trophy" or "social proof" A younger guy most usually has nothing to offer a woman, he can't usually provide for her, even if she di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:11 PM
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"The sad thing is men think they’re hot shit when older women pursue them, but the reality is you’re just an ego trophy for an older woman who isn’t mature enough to recognize her behavior for what it truly is. Then again, most men are just happy to get sex from a MILF and don’t care if it’s degrading, so there’s that" Oh wow that's a massive call out. This is sadly how I lost my virginity. And 19-20 yo me definitely thought he was the hottest shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:00 PM
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I'm good chief Treating women like the bros absolutely doesn't work, at least for keeping a relationship afloat. I'm gonna say, I have a couple of those red flags you mentioned (I can get way over excited about my own interests and rant, I'm only a mediocre listener, and my teeth are fffuuucked because I didn't start brushing until I moved out of my roach infested childhood home) Even still I can get a relationship every few months after the depression from the last wears off, and it's not becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:53 PM
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Just don't take advice on dating from women, holy shit. It's really that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:40 PM
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Admit it's easier to date as a woman? . . It's painfully obvious that was the point of his comment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:34 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:56 PM
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Lilith is a reccuring meme poster here (she's actually 100% serious which makes it even worse). Lilith (biblical) is very cool though, indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:06 AM
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You're right we're doing too much for women we need to roll the timeline back to the early 1900s and try this whole "gender equality" thing again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:04 AM
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Then be a woman ig
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:59 AM
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Is it though? Most guys really just shotgun until tinder tells them to stop. There's no point actually reading any of the profiles until after you match anyway, good or bad it's completely irrelevant until you can actually text her. Most guys aren't getting to tell women "no I'm too good for you". The biggest thing being a guy on dating apps proves is that they downloaded a dating app, women practically control the whole flow of the platform
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:53 AM
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Why wouldn't they though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:29 AM
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Once again can't have a real conversation on this subject because it's too real for the ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:32 PM
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Theyll literally just play dumb. "What do you mean we were such good friends" XD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:18 PM
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But then they will drag you with them into every low they experience, they will flicker between being completely obsessed with you to actually hating the fact you try to love her at all. You'll notice quickly there are no "chill" days anymore. And again, the sex is phenomenal, but I wouldn't recommend turning a girl like this down if she initiates, they really don't take it too well. . . I wish there were a field guide for this it's not something boys should be learning on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:37 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:30 PM
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Just so you know I don't agree with op. But men usually want exclusive sex because they have to work a little bit to get some, some just want control I guess. But at the end of the day casual sex isnt something a lot of men are getting obviously, so they want the relationship. But an unexclusive relationship is hardly worth it, speaking from limited experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:05 PM
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You mean like the multitudes of women who say they'd rather be single forever. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:59 PM
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The fact men do want hookers and post shit like this has no bearing on me. You're really both right and wrong. The issue is men do need the latter but the only way they know how to feel those things is with sex (unhealthy). I realized this in myself and made it a point to make some deeper friendships where asking for a hug won't threaten my masculinity. It's obviously wrong for men to think this way but it really isn't JUST about sex, its about a lot of missing things and the only way they know …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:58 PM
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For exclusive sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:51 PM
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Nah, I've been in relationships, and I've thought I've been in love but if it's not till death it actually is just a waste of time. 24 probably will never find real love, happens to the best of em
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:24 PM
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Not really we can just type fat ass into the ph searchbar and see way more than still images of athlete's. He was wondering the logistics though, as was I.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:21 PM
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Oh wow that's really unfortunate that you think that way tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:57 PM
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Can women please stop being ems and firefighters then? She actually just said "equality for women, when it's beneficial to the woman" Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:26 PM
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That happened to me too lol, thankfully she never got pregnant by me, 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:24 PM
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Show me a post where a man has asked for a harem of cum dumpsters in the last month, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:08 PM
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A job making cellphones? Are you serious right now? No 4 billion women COULD NOT maintain the world as is alone. In reality if something like this were to happen you'd probably do good at first, women communicate pretty well so I'd assume you'd assort and reassign jobs, but ultimately the workload required for our current modern world is immense. I mean like you said lol the infrastructure is shit, if we can barely keep it nice by your standards WITH men, you think it would suddenly be better wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:13 PM
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"I don't enjoy infrastructure" is not a sentence you can really be typing on a modern device in 2022 with almost the whole world at this point terraformed so humans don't even have to walk on grass if they don't want to. Just stop. I really don't know why women can't just let us win on this one, YALL are not the ones keeping the world running. I'm not either, thank Jesus. But seriously time and time again this discussion comes up and women suddenly don't like living in a house with running water…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:38 PM
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Just build a bridge bro it's the same as the toothpick dam I made in elementary school right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:22 PM
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https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/02/160-examples-of-male-privilege/ this is actually a surprisingly good list of some things I don't really think about. (.-.) some of its kinda stretching because there are really tangible physical differences between the genders, that account for why phrases like "throw like a girl" are used, or why girls' bodies are seen as shameful in a school setting. overall I can admit I do enjoy many parts of being a guy. at the same time I do believe more people are will…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:26 PM
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We're all waiting to hear how men have it better socially than women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:41 PM
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I have never, ever, ever in my life thought about women as something to use and dispose of. I've just never found men to ACTUALLY think that very often, and its been more a thing you say to the guys to have a laugh. obviously to a woman its a very disturbing thing for us to joke about, but I see the men making these awful jokes doing their whole hearted best for their girlfriends and wives on a daily basis. in what way do men want to 'dispose' of women? really thinking about it we've kinda evolv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:47 AM
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I still don't know what advantage I have over a similarly aged female in North America current year. Like just that we don't get pregnant and can fight other men? I don't really think either gender is really the "privileged one", it's just that in the context of sex and dating women ARE so you'll see that sentiment here alot because it's true in context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:37 AM
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Man y'all really are crazy lol Can't even say "that's good" without it being a definitive proof that you're a woman hater. He literally just wanted to know if she also saw that there are women who are that, because many of y'all DONT, and will cut absolute flips to ensure "men are worse" (kinda like you are doing literally right now) Holy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:23 AM
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I actually had to completely stop going to 2x. So many women want men to stop being "bad" and hating women, and the way they try to get men on their side? Demonize them constantly of course. Given the usual talking points and attitudes displayed by so many women in the last few years it astounds me there are still male feminists. I would never support a movement that specifically says I'm the problem, and not just A problem, THE ONLY PROBLEM
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:17 AM
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Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:27 AM
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Yeah ok, but what's going on with women in the country you actually live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:47 PM
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Probably how much I like their company when we aren't fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:07 AM
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Lol think that IG. do you boo./bold/italics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:46 PM
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I would still date because I like to fuck. Most men would still date because they want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:39 PM
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I have no clue and personally don't give a singular fuck about clothes. Idk maybe 5% of dudes have a unique and complimentary fashion sense. ~20-30%have a complimentary fashion sense. Okay now what
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:26 PM
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this isn't a hatred phase lol. I don't hate women (well, some specific ones I do) I'm still not actually that sold that women really desire men, time and time again they show they value the status and benefits of a particular man more than they actually like "men" as a group. but I agree and have even said men and women's dating woes are foils of each other in what way do you desire a man that you have been unable to find a man to reciprocate that feeling? you can't find a guy who wants romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:54 PM
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your comment isn't making a point, tbh, i'm not the one confused here "I said a subset of men cycle out. It’s not static. Sometimes Chad is top tier. Sometimes he’s in a rut and middle tier average. Then he bounces back and gets his life together and feels and looks like a Chad again." again, relevance? we are talking about the bottom 30%of men here, a true chad in the incel sense "can't get in a rut" and suddenly be unattractive, that's what all the RP butthurt about single moms carrying crimin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:42 PM
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women DO NOT love clothes the way men love women, at least you saying "we don't the end" is honest but you saying it could simply be "solved" with fashion (i'm of the camp that there isnt really anything you can do about it, men have a much higher innate drive to find a partner and that's simply the reason men find women so much more attractive than vice versa.) is missing the main point, which is just the admittance that women dont want men as much as men want women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:29 PM
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The point we are making is that some set of men (larger than women) don't really have a chance and no amount of men getting better or cycling out will change that some men simply can't achieve the outcome they want. "Do you boo" Insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:44 PM
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Okay so your advice is for men to try harder. . . Again. Crazy, dude I've never heard a woman say that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:37 PM
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"We don't. The end" This is all he wanted you to admit in this whole argument and you actually just said it. Literally nothing else you wrote is even close to relevant or cohesive, there is no analogy to be made between men liking women and women liking clothes. Women gas up lizzo absolutely because of forced body positivity, and how easily women get addicted to celebrity clout. Anyone could dress like lizzo or (insert literally every fashion icon here, alphabetically), clothes are just clothes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:32 PM
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Modern Men's standards are not high, lmao. On a related note can I get your plugs name
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:15 PM
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Ok but your solution for the men in the bottom 30% is to get out of it. The reason I said you seem like you don't understand stats is because you're saying "they don't have to be stuck in the 30% they can improve" but you even used the term "cycle out" which is the point I'm mainly getting at. There have to be "worse" men, even IF they were all good. Like okay guy x has cycled into the top 70% but all that really means is everyone below where he's at now slides down the scale to make room for hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:08 PM
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It's kinda still appropriate, and I would assume the confusion comes from the saying last nail in a coffin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:01 PM
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If you really think men aren't more disposable, and are protected the same or more than women idk what to tell you really. Men are the disposable sex and no amount of virgin trading in the middle ages is going to make me or anyone else think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:50 PM
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I see this a lot but I guess you fail to understand how stats work. There will ALWAYS be a bottom 30% of men, if all the uglies fixed themselves up, all that does is shuffle the positions of the heirarchy, while also making it more difficult to break above the threshold because more dudes are "good" The issue is that women don't want a good man, they want a "better" man, you can change who the 30%, you can change what constitutes being bottom 30% even, but you CAN'T make women date the bottom 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:45 PM
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Nah it really doesn't work like that. If you want proof I have a line up of decently attractive single men too awkward to even flirt. But really I guess it's just something you have to experience. Even having women be pretty blunt with me I'm usually too dumb to get it (my ex was my shadow at work for literally a week before she got her friend to ask if I was seeing anybody)(one of my best friends is a girl, and recently she complained to me because I would never try anything even when she made …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:21 PM
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A lot of the guys here arent complete literal incels, they just have been dry for years or have never had a "good" relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:09 PM
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Can confirm, 6'1" easily 8/10. Literally get asked if I model, have women hit on me in drive thrus. All pointless because I can't take a compliment. Too awkward to really initiate, too anxious to really flirt. Even if I fixed the rest of my flaws I'd still be mid as fuck just because I'm a socially retarded person. I find it easier to get in a relationship than to keep one alive, matter how much I think I'm trying I can't really do affectionate or caring in a way women appreciat, and I can't "ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:07 PM
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just wanted to take the time here to say you really are one of the funnier people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:55 PM
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we can only hope, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:25 PM
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The issue with being a man is you have to fill your own man shoes before anyone takes you seriously, no one really cares about your happiness or well being even for dubious reasons, they just don't care. But after you actually get those shoes on, and show people you are a "good man" you have to go out of your way to lose that respect. It's why even though it's such annoying advice to hear "just take a break and work on yourself" (which I wouldn't give to a complete incel) it's almost a meme at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:26 PM
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Really still proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:30 PM
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tbf listening to women has never gotten me a relationship or laid ever, so that seems big stupid. like huge stupid more men would listen to women if they actually had relevant advice for men, but they don't. i would take the mysoginis1tic advice of my friends, who have wives and girlfriends over the advice of a woman who has never dated a woman (as a man) ever. you aren't really giving him any advice you are, in fact, just trying to demonize him. "- you don't even see us as human." hes right, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:19 PM
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a take only an 18 year old girl would have tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:00 PM
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No matter how many times this thread gets back up there is no way to make women see that men and women's "single status" are vastly different from each other. They really think men get the same support, validation and attention they get on a daily basis and as you said, brag, to no end about how strong women are for not needing a relationship. You still need a "relationship" the difference is that women can more easily find the pieces that make a relationship worth it separately outside of one. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:59 PM
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Honestly the sentiment stays the same. . . Regardless of the beds ownership. In fact I'll only use the pocket pussy at her house
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:43 AM
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No thanks she can take the lead a bit but I'm not going to take orders from a woman in my own bed. literally 0% chance a girl ever gets me to wear a cock sleeve. 0% chance she literally mentions cucking me and stays in my house at all. I'm not going to operate your dildo for you, fuck off, and go masturbate. Sadly I can't really suspend the reality of the power differential in bed to engage in fem domme or be 'forced' to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:29 AM
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They really could, inflation is a hell of a drug and everything used to be scaled in price specifically so the average joe could afford it. In the past there were more bustling malls, active arcades, drive ins, bars everywhere, and just more "hangout spots" in general. Me and my friends lament often that the only things to really do nowadays are just various forms of spending money. The exceptions to this are things most girls aren't gonna appreciate as much as your friends would (which is vario…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:21 AM
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Do you want equality or to be coveted (both is acceptable but pick one, for the sake of conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:53 AM
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Yeah I'm in this camp too, I'm way more worried about the girl I have to please than I am about how hot she is on a scale. As long as you pass a minimum attraction threshold, I'm turned on by behavior more than just straight visuals. I'd rather a girl who I can actually chill with than just a pretty face, and I find it harder to find girls with vibes than it is to just find a girl with a nice body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:50 AM
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Sex with a girl has been good ~60% of the time, and 40% I get either PNC, the sex is lame/awkward or very rarely I would have legitimately preferred jerking off. Women put a surprising amount of value on the male orgasm and think we are winning sex when we bust a nut, but in reality sex is often lukewarm for us too, our orgasm is just relatively easy to achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:40 AM
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Like 60/40
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:12 PM
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All I will say is, I just try to have a good time and get my dick wet along the way. Irl I'm really not like this and my care for this subject is quarantined in this sub. I'm not going to be able to change how the world is and what be made peace with that a while ago, so I do indeed just play the game and hate it. But I still think overall dating isn't that fucked rn, and it's just as bad as it's always been except now guys have to take the loss too from time to time. I've been with not very man…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:58 AM
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May I ask why you are a virgin? Because I think your answer is very different from the autistic men's answers, but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:28 PM
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Indifference is often worse than hate, and the true opposite of love. And regardless if it's hate or not, the result is still the same, which is large swaths of men unlovable from birth, through no fault of their own. The only reason I can even get sex is because sky daddy had the MERCY to make me attractive. But I can't see myself being able to maintain a ltr with issues in object permanence, low 'emotional intelligence', anxiety etc. As a woman you can't understand being undesirable in such a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:17 PM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:03 PM
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This too. Big one I was a complete virgin. Definitely not a "nice guy", but much so shy, reserved, laid back. Women hate those qualities, they are boring. I finally did figure out how to attract women, and it had nothing to do with being myself at all. Dating for men is either the most lax experience in the world, or a permanent reminder that for women to desire you, you have to pretend to be an entirely different person. "Man why are the men lying to get with me, why do conversations with him f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:40 PM
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The issue is that we absolutely can solve this "issue", but not in a morally sound way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:16 PM
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Do you REALLY think your mother didn't have a life. What is a "life" to you? What are "goals" to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:08 PM
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The meaning is that now YOU get to have a life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:49 AM
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Women can ABSOLUTELY abandon their children. We are done here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:21 PM
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That's not how dating works for men, we are the active pursuer almost always and women will practically never move anything in a relationship forward EVER, and then blame men for it. Take that shit back r/dating, no guy here is even remotely buying the "just have fun and be yourself" line anymore. Half the shit women think about relationships stems from the fact they aren't expected to do anything to get one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:58 PM
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But she can?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:25 PM
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If you want financial support fuck a dude who will stay, that simple, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:17 PM
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I don't understand how women can't get this. So much male anger towards women stems fr THIS and ONLY THIS. while it's a broad, vague complaint, most men who are rp or Blp are that way because they were force fed certain expectations on what to expect with the opposite gender, with our parents telling us women like to be treated like angels, just be yourself, just do well for yourself. And that advice works really well. . . For the people who never needed that advice at all. But now with the inte…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 03:16 PM
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Look, all the guys are saying is that they want the ability to give up rights to an unborn child within a timeframe that still allows women to make a choice with the added information. I'm sure there are men who really think Child support is legit evil, but most men just want the benefit women have of being able to dump off their kid, instead of it being forced on us. Women have a choice before during and after pregnancy on what they want to do with a child, and you are hyper focused on men only…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:39 PM
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It actually does but obviously nothing can make women see that. Women also have the ability to NOT LET men ejaculate inside her, did I miss that part of the manseminar? That I can MAKE a woman fuck me, regardless of her dreams wants or aspirations? Why is the responsibility not also on the woman to prevent pregnancy. What about women who tamper with contraception, lie about BC, etc? I understand a man not being able to force a woman to carry a baby, that is very much unfair. But you and many wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:40 AM
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So women should be forced to carry children to term under the same argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:31 AM
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Why should he have to pay if he doesn't want the kid though. Please just one real reason on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:41 AM
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The child won't have two parents though. He'll have a mother and an ATM they see every weekend. The "child deserves to have two parents" argument would hold up if there was a way to force parents to be together, but ultimately in such a scenario only the woman is really benefitting. The man still doesn't have real rights to his kids and the kid doesn't really have a dad, just a biological father.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:55 AM
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I mean you theoretically could on 100k depending on what you consider a sports car
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:37 AM
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You lost all respect for men because your dad talks shit playing dominoes? Fucking lmao dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:02 PM
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See this is exactly what we are talking about. . .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:41 AM
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It can be casual all day. When men say they are single they mean they aren't seeing anybody. If you are seeing dudes for drinks and dick appointments you are being fairly dishonest calling yourself single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:56 AM
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Sounds like a relationship to me, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:46 PM
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Mmhmm mhhmm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:08 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:49 AM
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but you're not actually single. "I have a high sex drive so I keep a few FWB."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:27 AM
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Where are these guys? I have plenty male friends. Only 1 is even remotely like this (literally just wants sex and someone to dog watch). The difference is men expect it in a way that is less all or nothing than women's demands. Like yes, it would be really cool if my partner were a bangmaid stripper sex mommy etc etc. But that's not reality, most guys can realize how much of the "dream" a girl can actually provide for him, and be happy with that. I'm gonna be honest, I have a fairly diverse soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:31 PM
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Rich girls are marrying poor men to have their babies? When dat happen sign me up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:56 PM
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Down bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:35 PM
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why would i like her int he present if she rejected me in the past. ​ you have still yet to answer a single why, so far all you have really done is call me bitter in multiple paragraphs. give me a reason? if i've grown as a person enough for someone who has rejected me to do a 180 why the fuck would i still want them if i could just get someone who's "always" liked me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:47 AM
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I should be happy to have someone who rejected me in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:06 AM
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I'm still the same person, regardless of if I 'changed' Who I was "back then" Is who I am now, character growth be damned. Thankfully this is all hypothetical anyways but a woman who rejects me absolutely gets no second chances EVER. Women get loved for just existing tbh, it's getting kinda silly how much we expect men to man up, and mature, while the female equivalent just gets gassed up more. We aren't even arguing anymore, you haven't really made a point this entire post or comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:20 PM
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for you page
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:08 PM
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That's dumb, I'll take both
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:16 AM
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Because they already said they didn't want you then lmao. And then they amass relationship experience and come back later like " sorry I didn't know I'd want you 10 years later we still cool?" Better yet, can you explain why this feeling "that it's valid to not want someone because they didn't accept you in the past" ISN'T valid. "Like ok you think I'm cool now that you've had all the flings you wanted to have, but where were you when I actually wanted you?" And the answer is they were pursuing …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:07 AM
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In what reality is this true? It's very usually the women pushing men away and not wanting to bother with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:53 AM
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i used to think that but then again I'm actually friends with some of these washed up women with nothing to show for their lives but a couple kids and a shitty apartment. obviously any attempt to say women may have a bad time later on will be seen as revenge fantasy, but honestly womens' struggle comes later when its not just about having fun but actually doing something with your life other than grinding the capitalistic system we perpetuate. i will say though any woman under 30 who has trouble…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:36 AM
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I'm just saying you don't have to engage with those women at all. It's not really THAT bad, but I get you. It is very irritating though, I will admit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:37 AM
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Both paths you list result in an unsavory outcome for the men in question though. Like they could wait until their 30s and find a desperate girl to hunker down with, or he can be a actual woman hating incel, but either way he misses out on the "fun" SOMEONE is definitely having. I initially came here because of a bad breakup. I have literally nothing going for me except height and I can still end up in women's beds. It could be larp but hearing "I'm 28, with an engineering degree, and several ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:35 AM
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Bruh then treat them like they aren't, they'll either fall in line or at the very least not be around you with that shit. I certainly won't treat a woman like she's worth shit unless she IS or there is sex on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:20 AM
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Women do not WANT beta bux, they want a secure easy life. Please stop capping on this like women "desire" 30 y/o balding men with stable careers more than the people they were fucking before they got older
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:16 AM
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You aren't giving guys advice though you're just telling them to give up until they are better, lmao. And then they enter dating 10 years late with a fraction of the experience and are supposed to settle down with women their own age? For what. You can't cut this deal in anyway that's going to appeal to men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:47 AM
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Cool another " just wait until you're 30 and successful then women will want you" As if there aren't guys younger than wy having sex and growing up will make me a completely different person women lol ve to be around. Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:48 PM
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Denied my girl sex ONE TIME ended with me having to put her in a headlock. Alcohol was involved. Never again, I'd rather she just call me gay, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:18 PM
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Not a woman, but you can't really think women don't have it kinda shit rn too. Everything you listed is the same most girls are going through, the only difference is they can more easily find casual sex (which most women use for validation and don't usually enjoy). Women haven't made rpg characters to describe their dating struggles, but many women envy "Stacy", wish Chad would love them and many wonder why they aren't good enough for xyz. The same way guys envy Chad and wish Stacy would fuck th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:12 PM
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Because they dont REALLY need to go on tinder to hookup, some just do it for convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:33 AM
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Actually that is highly encouraged, we just try not to subject children to our digital war
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:59 AM
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That Lazer tag will always be unfair short of legal ramifications for cheating. When me and the boys used to play it was all types of dumb shit going on back there, jackets over vests, laser pointers, collusion etc. Lazer tag needs referees is what saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:13 AM
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I think she was referring to the challenge type rituals that men used to test boys in the past, the crazy stuff like taking some peyote and wandering through the desert, or coal walking, or the fire ant gloves, or hunting a specific animal alone. The milestones you listed are celebratory strictly, while the coming of age she's speaking of is more the fantasy arc about 'becoming' a man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:43 PM
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Lazer tag has always been some bullshit, there are no sinners in the backrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:28 PM
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Most guys aren't really good enough to be players, in the first place. For a guy to be a player he has to have enough value that he can already attract multiple women at a time to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:46 PM
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I just want to say as a guy unless your body count is some ridiculously high number most men don't care. Even a virgin guy, would most likely be fine with you having had sex with 2 or 3 guys before if you're in your say 20s. There are more modes to female sexuality than nun and corner worker, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:39 PM
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I grew up with my older sister so I know what most products do and look like, and can really tell the difference between makeup makeupless makeup and actually being make up less. You rarely see women in public without foundation and eyeliner at least
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:51 PM
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Nah this is cap most men don't even know how much make up still goes on faces they call natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:00 PM
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The ghost of Chad 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:36 PM
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Yeah I get what you're saying with the first comment now, my reading comprehension was off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:31 PM
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Tbf paying for sex doesn't count. The whole point of losing my virginity (for me) was that I could prove I was worthy of physical love, if I had payed to lose my virginity I would STILL be a virgin in my mind because no woman had WANTED to sleep with me. That's the hang up on virginity, its not just sex, losing your virginity is a male coming of age still, and the guys who are 20+ virgins begin to think something is wrong with them. Ofc there are guys who honestly think that their virginity is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:36 PM
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Crazy how a fake dick isade of plastic and never cums and lasts literally forever
/r/PussyPassDenied13/09/22 03:47 PM
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Judging by dead bedrooms they'll accept it for years on end in some cases. I'm pro choice btw, just explaining what his point was. If you don't want kids with your husband what's the actual benefit to legally binding marriage left for a woman at all at that point anyway. I'm a pull out method advocate (ok gross), I'd NEVER put my dick in a girl I'm not in some way ready to deal with a pregnancy with. That's my perspective as the less affected gender. So whats the point in letting a dude hit if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:01 AM
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Yeah virgin killer tops were popular because they were so comfy and snug and not because they showed your entire back and side boob. TikTok leggings are popular because the pattern is just so brilliant and ergonomic and not because it contours a woman's ass more than leggings already did. Or at the gym, the shortest shorts they can find rode up with the crotch of the pants literally inside her fuckig vagina, and a top that shows off full midriff AND as my ch cleavage as possible. Both entirely e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:48 AM
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I think the point is that you have to fuck a man to get pregnant, I don't think a woman should have to carry a baby that's the product of incest or rape, but I feel like more accountability could be taken by the women wanting an abortion that is the product of consenting sex, if you were celibate the odds of an unwanted pregnancy drop to near 0. No one is trying to punish women for the crime of having sex (ok some dudes are) but you know that when you fuck, even with a condom and plan b and a IU…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:08 AM
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I think that plays into it a lot too, the "free" birth control aspect. And it isn't entirely hormone free I feel like I read somewhere that a lot of women have fluctuating libido because of their cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:35 PM
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The guys who say that are either having literally no sex or way too much. I couldn't imagine it being like brushing your teeth, I really enjoy sex, but I also REALLY enjoy the things that accompany it, I quite like a bit of foreplay, cuddling and there are few conversations I've had that make me tired giggle as much as pillow talk with someone I like. Idk it's not a super special thing, but it's definitely above things like brushing teeth or doing laundry, those are just mundane needs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:31 PM
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Leaked through a folder towel? I don't know anything about pms except the bare biological basics, but that's a LOT. and yeah a lot of guys surprisingly don't care that much, I know a lot of guys who claim at least to have redwing license
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:25 PM
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Sadly, years of chan browsing has turned me into an unfazeable degenerate, so I can't relate to being anxious around viscera either. She honestly barely bled and a towel or just being cognizant that there is blood has kept it from being too messy except the first time we did it. And that's very good, that you would. what's it like being with a low lib guy? If we lived in a world where masturbation was not capable of giving orgasms would the other things he brings to the overall marriage keep you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:34 AM
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Well every guy has had that one girl . . Who cares really deeply about your birthday when you first meet. . . And then next thing you know your chained to your bed because cancers are most attracted to domineering Scorpios or something. You Don't really have to do much more than google it to see exactly what men mean when they say "astrology girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:09 AM
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My chin was down? Anyways, enjoy the editing, I hate movies myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:04 AM
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Yeah, no thanks, Miss. I should probably stay away from anything you recommend for my own health
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:49 AM
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Mmhmm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:47 AM
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Yeah it's not multitasking, I'm just wasting twice as much energy as I normally do for the exact same task. Anyways, this entire half of our "discussion" was a COMPLETELY pointless aside to an otherwise coherent thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:45 AM
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For now men Ez clap thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:42 AM
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Wait you don't like to fuck on your period? Too painful? You don't have to answer this but after my girl found out I didn't give a singular fuck if she was pmsing or not, "shark week" became something I almost looked forward to lol. I really can't understand a low libido in men for the most part, but I'm glad you got it worked out, so if he had the higher libido would YOU initiate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:41 AM
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It makes it harder to follow the thread if it splits into 2 different arguments with the same person when you can just use the fucking edit button, holy shit. Yes I'm super ocd about reddit comments so please help me out because I'm literally melting rn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:36 AM
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What sex are sperm donors?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:34 AM
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Both my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:31 AM
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And the only thing sex with your partner gives you is orgasms and he initiates everytime?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:30 AM
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You've replied to my ok like 3 times now you okay girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:29 AM
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How do you have kids without men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:29 AM
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May I ask how old you are? what are you doing discussing dating as a single mother who doesn't care if she fucks a man again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:28 AM
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Try replying to the right comment babygirl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:26 AM
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how did you get the kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:17 AM
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why don"t you date women then? honest question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:16 AM
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ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:16 AM
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ok, don't then. I'll actually try broken again for 500$
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:11 AM
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i would hope a fucking connection holy shit. ​ edit: too dismissive to prove my point, aside from a connection and orgasm most people get validation (both physical and emotional) and a good workout from sex, and for a lot of people good sex can be a hell of a bonding experience. even if you reduce sex to only an orgasm sometimes its nice to do that with another person, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:10 AM
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For me, the only value of sex is for orgasms. broken
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:56 AM
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So it IS a big deal? You're saying that if he never initiated you would just masturbate until you die instead of initiating sex? "Do it for him" You saying this is pretty much the basis for why op probably made this post, the deep rooted idea that sex HAS to be initiated by the man and that you initiating would be doing "his job" for him. Do you get it better to retry to argue or is this a free W?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:17 AM
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It's not just that y'all don't answer how we want, it's the part I addressed near the end, the hypothetical IS the what if, then women add all these extra hypotheticals on top of it until they are responding to a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT scenario, and treat that as an answer to the original hypothetical. So your actual answer to ops question and hypothetical is "I don't think it's a big deal if he doesn't initiate"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:11 AM
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But relationships are complicated and different dude. A dead bedroom isn't a sexually healthy relationship, and while they are getting much more common, it's definitely not the norm for most relationships especially before kids and marriage which are the most common causes of dead bedrooms aside from improper vetting for sexual compatibility. I'm just saying how sex has gone for me personally, literally only verbally asked to fuck once in my life and the answer was no, lmao. Later on I invited h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:50 AM
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The point of this hypothetical is that the guy is perfect in literally every single way you want and need, EXCEPT for literally this one detail, that he never initiates sex. He does want it, exactly as much as you do, his libido matches yours to a t. he'll do exactly the things you like everytime, without fail, no matter how much that changes, if you're in the need for xyz then he's got your XYZ capital, same for a or b or 1 or 2, of you want/need it it's already done, you just have to ask. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:41 AM
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He enjoys it seemingly great for him he's ravenous doesn't watch porn, isn't cheating, doesn't have an instagram or spend time online looking at half naked women. Ummm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:30 AM
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Yeah bud, I'm gonna go with "relationships are fucking complicated" Like the only thing that kept me and my first together was that we were each other's escape. But it wasn't "healthy" or "functional" because we were replacing our actual needs and dreams with each other. There's are so many ways a relationship can be functional or dysfunctional, and it's really nuanced per, person per relationship. An outsider looking in would see us at the park chilling chatting and kissing, and have no idea th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:27 AM
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I originally wanted to put healthy relationships but none of mine have been that, so I added a qualifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:15 AM
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This simply isn't true. Like literally just been chilling at a friend's house and me and my ex would brush against each other the right way and it was time to go home. For the most part, how sex happens in (sexually healthy) relationships, is indeed about what those 2 described. Like y'all are just chilling on the couch watching a movie cuddling, then you kiss and it kinda just happens, because the attraction is there. Or you say something throughout the day to the other that's flirty or sexy, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:53 AM
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The point is he'll literally never tell you no, ever once, in this hypothetical. As soon as you ask it's off to the races for as many rounds as you want, literally all you have to do is ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:44 AM
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Cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:47 PM
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I think op could have been even more clear what he means, it's kinda tough to get what he's saying I guess. Op isn't just talking about "marriage", most women want to experience a marriage. Op is talking specifically about women who set out and try their absolute best to lock down a man when she is still a virgin, in her early 20s and then actively try her best to keep that relationship together until one partner dies. A girl who had a different boyfriend each year of college then married a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:25 PM
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Women who desire lifelong monogamy with a SINGLE PARTNER.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:50 PM
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Op said "strives to be with one man for life" which also would disqualify many post college marriages since many women do sleep around, even if only sparingly in college. I personally don't agree with op either I'm sure the percentage of the very specific set of women he is talking about is higher, but in this case he is talking about women who specifically marry as virgins, go above and beyond to find a good partner who they will then settle down with until one of them literally dies. Men who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:49 PM
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Something something 50% of parachutes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:52 PM
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Women use "trash, garbage, evil, dangerous" to describe men I'd rather be a soda can In the key and lock analogy both sexes are objectified
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:23 AM
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I literally eat ass, what's a Pepsi with a little 'me' taste to it gonna do. Yes, I would, wouldn't even break top 10 most disgusting things I've had in my mouth tbh If my car is still driving, im going to keep driving it until the wheels fall off, it's already my car, bro. My focus literally is doing the Cars KACHOW pose with how bad the frame is bent, tire grazing the tire well. BUT as long as I replace the tires erry now and then it still drives like a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:20 AM
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50% is trash, literally a failing grade
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:11 AM
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50% sucks though, that's a failing grade
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:09 AM
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All penis sizes listed at above average as per usual. Braggy brag time. I've had my exes have to tell me to slow down and not go as deep because at 6.5 (just bigger than "a little smaller") I would occasionally slam their cervix. Women are so bad with measurement visualization. Obviously there's somebody who'd do anything for everything, but most women wouldn't mind downgrading from 7" to 6", and going by a "law of averages" you would assume most women are at least "okay", with anything over 5. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:06 PM
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Ugh. When you are right you're right. Still I think the men here who are complete hermits is few. I tend do underestimate myself and think people are doing the same or better than I, even among my friend group, of pseudo autistic gamers (no shade, best friends I got) I'm the only "single" one (usually). Regardless I think if you met ppd men without knowing they post here from the rp side you would be able to get along with the, definitely not all but there are a couple level headed dudes here fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:52 PM
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It's more to it but DEFINITELY a primary factor. I'd say the main issue is our evolutionary mating habits haven't been able to keep up with a rapidly changing social climate. Men can no longer own women but still can't see them as full equals. Women don't have as much need for male protection and provision, but still seek it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:20 PM
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Jp is a little outworldy, but I can agree he is much more reasonable than many other manospherians. Still though you said men's spaces that aren't the RP. Jordan Peterson certainly isn't blue pilled, he just says the same things rp says with less obvious contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:15 PM
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If you are unlucky find an unlucky guy. Ez clap, at least easier for an unfortunate looking girl to be noticed, let's be real. Is it that hard to pass most men's looks threshold? Let's be completely honest with ourselves here. You frequently tell men to go outside and look around, I do, and I see that women of all body types and personalities have had a chance at love, I see men of all body types and personalities who have never even gotten the chance Ah yes time and time again "but they just wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:12 PM
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Maybe not here but twox seems to still exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:22 AM
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No matter how not hot you are if you are even decent you should be able to find a guy who will "enjoy your company". The part you're having trouble with is probably "don't repulse me" since that seems fairly easy to do. Also I fail to believe most of the dudes on ppd lack friends. In my experience pretty much everyone has an inner circle of 3-5 people that are they're strict friends, sounds like you want a guy with a lot of acquaintances for the entertainment value
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:18 AM
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You think Jordan Peterson is good but not rp? Lmao they're the same people consuming both XD. Jp is also the tiniest bit sexist and usually just speaks in word salad. I find it really interesting a girl would recommend him Never heard of Dr k, I'm not too deep in the manosphere or caring about this stuff outside of this sub and r/dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:09 AM
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A man is still going to be judged on his face and body even if he's famous. But I know what you mean. I'm just saying, most girls have an okay face and okay boobs, a decent ass. so you kinda just have to not be fat and wear some makeup. Where as most of the things women select for are either completely immutable, or extremely difficult to change. Like ok I guess a guy can just "become richer", that's definitely not a thing most of the country is struggling with. Sure a guy could build muscle, go…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:05 AM
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Name 2
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:53 AM
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but she IS saying just say hi and be normal though, which is also what I think works best for maintaining interest. I'm a very boring guy (imo), but I can hold a conversation without spilling spaghetti. but i do agree, women are better at giving the raw insight to their own behavior, but their dating advice is through and through trash. but you cant really expect better since they both don't have experience trying to pick up women, and women have pretty much no game. the female move is literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:39 AM
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idk i find older women attractive (though yes i obviously agree with you that you having a crush on him would be really weird), from a more objective not personal sense. if your friends are bullying you (colloquial you) because you aren't shaving your legs they aren't your friends. fuck social media, fuck family, the blood of war runs thicker than water. damn that sucks, I've got blocked because I didn't give her 10 for gas money before I told her my address. online dating is shit, what do you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:21 AM
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umm, what? step by step >>Learn how to read I never said the rock was unconventionally attractive correct I did misread that bit each guy pertained to a certain negative quality, oops. >>I’m not talking about arm hair, I’m talking about leg hair armpit hair and pubic hair. NONE of which men shave. I've stayed with my girls long enough to see them with and without hair in those places, as long as you aren't a hairy monster I literally do not care, women who don't shave can still get dates I'm sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:04 AM
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a lot of guys think it's a hook up app strictly. most women specifically have a variation of "no hookups" in their posts given the data here I would say most people use tinder for hook ups or casual flings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:48 AM
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yeah I get more good matches on bumble than tinder easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:46 AM
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guys since she wants to keep it a secret, it's Valorant. if you want to meet a QT gamer girl just be able to solo carry in Valorant. its that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:43 AM
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holy shit use the enter key. not hard to separate paragraphs pls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:34 AM
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tfw they are actually back on dating apps looking for a guy to help her with Billy. the number of single moms on dating apps just keeps rising and rising, I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:32 AM
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i used to do the stupid "say something interesting" and play the "give me your best pickup line" game. fuck that noise fr. tomatillo is right, literally just say whats up and if she doesnt respond shes not worth shit. it's literally that easy, and i've had much longer convos now that i just kinda text normally instead of trying to "entertain". if a girl wants to be entertained she can got o the fucking movies, don't be desperate and play dumb games. i mean don't message literally "hi.". but you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:25 AM
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Play the game or perish is how many dudes see it. Hook up culture does indeed suck but both genders are too concerned with fomo to ever try to change it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:58 AM
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Actually expected a fire truck after that one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:56 AM
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5'8 is just below the national (us) average of 5'9, making him technically short. Also considering white guys are the tallest race (on average) it makes it a little more obvious he isn't tall. Also women's definition of short is closer to "not tall" than it is in relation to the national average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:51 AM
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Zendaya is (just above) average, pokemane is (actually) average, Jennette McGurdy is (just above) average (cutest of the 3 imo).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:45 AM
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Bruh Tom Holland is average. I look better than Tom Holland, easy. He's really not all that, I rag on zandaya being considered hot by girls, but she looks better than he does for sure. I've seen a lot of dudes working service jobs, I'm sure you've seen a lot of dudes in your life too. No way you can tell me with a straight face you don't see men as or more attractive than him on a daily basis. I've seen 30 yo men who look better. T Holland is above average in the slimmest margin possible, if he …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:41 AM
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Tbf they are kinda average, they are actually famous for their acting more than their looks. Tom Holland is a cutesy dough boy with a meh jawline Micheal cera is literally incel material, with his best defining features being his height and eyes. He has a shit jawline, an overly slim build, and he plays himself (exaggerated) in all his movies. That awkward geeky mf he always plays, youth in revolt Micheal cera IS Micheal cera, he does an ok job of hiding it in the few interviews I've seen, but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:29 AM
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Every girl Ive slept with had hairy arms, don't even. XD the fucking rock is unconventionally attractive. Get out of here with that shit lol "This guy who does tik tok skits proves women like fat guys" "men hate fat women there's no fat girl doing tik tok skits about it". Really real talk, guys do not dislike fat girls, they dislike obese women. The line between fat and obese is tough but as another user said as long as you aren't convex ( ) you can find many guys who find you attractive. While …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:23 AM
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Who GIVES BIRTH THO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:11 PM
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Akktruuallly. So we know how males and females work in every other animal. We are animals. There are how many billions of people in the world again? I get what you're trying to say (I also acknowledged it's no easy in the slightest), but if they WEREN'T built to give birth were they built to just be perpetually pregnant? Regardless of the trauma it causes they are still "built to give birth" seeing as they have all the organs required to give birth to a live child. This is facetious semantics at…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:59 PM
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the first sentence is irrelevant, I just chose guns because its the first object that came to mind you could replace guns with literally ANY object and the rest of what I wrote is still entirely relevant. it was just to put an object to the subject a la word problems in grade-school, for easier visualization of what we're (or at least I'm) saying when we say that omitting virgins still makes the study moot to your claim in the OP. replace every time I say guns with "flowers", or "empty monster c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:10 AM
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thats something i think a lot of stem students dont really think about, is that those fields are constantly looking for bigger and better as the whole point of those fields are creation and improvement. medical obviously improves too, but each procedure makes you that much more experienced and if you specialize its very possible you be one of only a couple 1000 doctors who can do a certain procedure in the COUNTRY. nursing could pay a bit more obviously, but as far as being a MD? set for life, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:57 AM
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sadly, for all the ass men I see and know irl. apparently the most "attractive" female body type is stick thin with barely b cups. but seriously I think the reason for cowgirl on tv really is that its the easiest one to censor but still see a decent bit of skin. missionary under the covers is like, stuck up brit shit, the people they are marketing to aren't trying to look at man butt during a sex scene either. but we all know the best position is being able to hold her up by the fucking legs whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:52 AM
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if the heights don't match for normal doggie the guy can just stand up off the bed and sometimes it will work like that. if there's a will there is a way, brother, never forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:44 AM
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because stem fields often offer higher job security. like we will never need less IT people. people want better engineers to keep advancing infrastructure. I also think it's kinda weird to single out stem specifically though, when women do so well in medical fields from top to bottom (from nurses to doctors to dentists to assistants, women perform those jobs well) i think more importantly than specifically stem, its important to not get a degree in the arts, or "studies" as far as job security a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:08 AM
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the best answer I can give honestly is... organically? like my first girlfriend I met because she used to buy drugs from my uncle and didn't drive, so she'd pay me to either run something up to her or to bring her to his house, she was always bubbly and flirty with me so one day I (autistically) asked her on a trip back to her place "when we gonna fuck?". she was offended at first but maybe in 2 days she said shit why not and we met and got it on in my car at the local park. this led to a very a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:53 PM
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well every other guy claims to be an engineer or software dev; when it comes up, they swear its lookism that's keeping them from getting laid, not anything financial. and all the women claim to be making enough to where they don't really need a man, and that none of them are looking for providers. from what I've observed from posting here for over a year, most/many of the female users are college grads in their late 20s/early 30s. we recently had the "would you rather thread as well" and pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:15 PM
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Yes, hard agree "its just not seen as a bad thing because most men wont feel intimidated by a woman trying to grab his dick or otherwise not respecting personal space and boundaries."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:47 PM
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I wouldn't call it smarts though. he's above average mechanically and he has great game knowledge, but the man himself is a dumb gym bro. I'm saying you don't need to be able to do damage calcs in your head or have a degree in anything to be able to learn the game knowledge you need to climb. I'm fairly intelligent (i hate calling myself smart on the internet) and have been hardstuck bronze in league for ages, I taught myself excel, but can't teach myself to not step up to a bush I just saw a Si…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:34 PM
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oh yeah dota2 is cancer, the learning curve is so steep. I'd recommend sticking to gold efficient carries or cheese champs people haven't learned to play against, that way while you are learning you aren't just getting dumpstered on. these are juggy, sven, and bloodseeker. these heroes will let you get around most of the big brain aspects of dota2 while still learning essentials like map presence, farming, objectives, where to ward, etc. and importantly when you do struggle try to do a google se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:09 PM
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what game specifically though? and i think Tyler1 is a good example of not having to be that smart to play videogames well competitively, most of it is muscle memory and applying basic game knowledge. in reality exact numbers, damage calculations, long pattern memorization, etc. only matter at the HIGHEST levels of play.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:29 PM
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I was hugely stressing my virginity for a while from 16-18, and honestly, as long as you still find someone it doesn't make a difference if you are a virgin at 18 or a virgin at 24. I hope you don't feel as defeated as I did about myself, it's not that serious. unless the love is there (imo) sex is really not that special of an event. but yeah in most cases sex as a guy is a bit of a workout, and I think the difference between a guy who is good in bed vs one who isn't is a lot steeper than the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:25 PM
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essentially, which is why I put easier and harder in quotations. I don't really think either gender has the "better role" overall, there are pros and cons to both. men (especially men with not many female friends) fail to comprehend female problems and fixate on "but they fuckin' tho". most guys don't understand women get frequently talked down to, even by people they are literally better than. most guys don't understand it's hard to say no to someone with 6 inches and 50 lbs. on you. most guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:15 PM
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one of my nights ended with putting my girl in a headlock from an argument that sprung up from me not wanting to fuck her when she was as drunk as she was. in private y'all are indeed some creeps sometimes, its just not seen as a bad thing because most men wont feel intimidated by a woman trying to grab his dick or otherwise not respecting personal space and boundaries. I'm not even close to sexually successful and even I have stories of being woken up by my girl bouncing on morning wood, girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:04 PM
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the thing is most men are happy with ANYTHING OTHER than "laying there like a dead fish" mechanically speaking, men usually have to do more during vaginal sex, thusly they are the ones "performing". doesn't make me envy women's position in society and dating, just pointing it out though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:48 PM
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the argument isn't that y'all aren't understanding the data, its that the data has baked in bias to make it seem like men have more sexual partners "on average" when observable reality can tell you that isn't the case. by occluding virgins from the data it makess the percentage of men who are sexually successful higher than it really is, skewing the data upwards. copy pasted from my other comment: "for an analogy, again using out of the ass numbers I could omit non gun owners in a study between …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:39 PM
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sadly I have to almost copy mrs degree's comment. technically men's role is "harder", being successful, fit, being the bread winner, learning to lead a family, etc. and women's is technically easier, be pretty, agreeable, serve a man, birth children (which women are biologically designed to do btw, sick of this "you carry a baby then I'll be impressed" shit, you have wider hips and a cavity in your gut designed specifically to hold a baby, not saying its easy by any stretch, but you ARE built fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:06 PM
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all the way way down here, I'll try to politely explain what he's saying. for this study to accurately back up OP's claim that "men have more sexual partners than women" it WOULD need to include the amount of men and women who have had variable=0 partners. not including that subset is going to shift the data up for men and as others have said, when you look at the stats here, and add in the knowledge that they didn't include virgins, it does more to prove that 80/20 is correct than to make it se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:40 PM
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this man was almost spittin for a minute. until he said some stupid shit like white guys are hated by white women. literally the best rated race/sex combination across multiple OLD stats. if you think white women hate white guys you have been drinking the "alt right, white nationalist incel+" kool-aid for far too long now lmao. literally just go outside and see how many mixed race couples there are. its more than it was when it was LITERALLY A HANGABLE OFFENSE, but the stigma is far from gone. p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:23 PM
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there is no temporary fix for my problems, I'm glad your partner could learn to eat though. i got those solutions told to me too, ah you have a problem with structure just pick 3 things to do at a certain time everyday + get a planner. ok, sure I may always cook breakfast at the same time every morning but now what, where's my happiness at? difficulty with abandonment? get a pet, you said you like animals, it will teach you its okay to be close to things. okay cool I feed stray cats and have a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:52 PM
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Tbf most of the posters are either UMC or larping as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:56 PM
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I pay someone copious amounts of money for them to listen to my problems and then have them regurgitate the same advice I've heard my whole life. Seemed really stupid even when I was a teen who wasn't paying for it. All I got out of it was a cool contact and reference for applications. 3 years of therapy, literally no difference whatsoever in my outlook or behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:52 PM
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how many billion people are in the world? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:59 PM
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Physical: freckles are a tier, short hair is a tier, red hair is a tier. Deep (A-line) Bob cuts are God tier. Uncommon ones are I think a little bit of arm hair is cute, something about girls with a slightly protruding belly is perfect, also the eyes thing for me, or any eye irregularities for that matter, leaking pupils(idk the scientific term I just remember a girl whos right pupil looked like it was dripping into her iris) heterochromia is super duper hot. Behavioral: glad to see it elsewhere…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:46 PM
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I really can't get behind huge tits, like something to hang out to is nice but honestly am more attracted to a smaller bust as long as it isn't boyish. They stay perky longer for one, and I don't want to be paying for back surgeries in my future
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:18 PM
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No I'm just trying to give other people a laugh I don't actually eat that much meat, not do I eat out, as long as you aren't in my reality bitching to me about it I really don't care what you believe. And I said it there sarcastically, but I do hope the singles here find either a sufficient love, or the experience to find a better love, You included
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:52 PM
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If my morals eliminated over 90% of the population from being a viable dating partner, yes, I would date people with opposing morals. Yes, my first girlfriend was deeply religious and cried to me about her God and her sins often and I still kept seeing her. I've met one other woman who agrees with (most of) my politics and she's an annoying as fuck feminist, vegan, spinster. I don't think dating people who have conflicting world views is always impossible, and many world views can be compromised…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:27 PM
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To be fair about 100% of women look worse at 30 than they do at 21-25. And the niche minority is men who say there's no hope as a revenge fantasy, but almost ALL men would agree she's LESS attractive and desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:08 PM
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Crazy suggestion but people have a lot more personality than "eats or doesn't eat meat" and that compromising on just that would skyrocket your success by not occluding like 90% of men based on if they eat plant burgers or not. Honestly though, no offense (but actually plenty), vegans are notoriously annoying as fuck, so its for the best you find another annoying as fuck vegan to be cringe with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:02 PM
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Adding to this, every guy in doubt of 80/20 or general dating stats thrown by the rp side, should make a catfishing account to see the night and day difference between being a male or female user. Saw a YouTube short and a comedian did a bit about how he ended up making a catfish account, and inviting men to his shows for a "dinner date with Darlene". After the joke you see several men get up and leave, and him aknowledging one of the patrons who raised his hand when he asked if that's why anybo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:56 PM
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its a double edged sword, because while lack of compliments does hurt mens esteem, it also makes getting a compliment be seen as flirtation unless you somehow make it clear its not (or complimenting something non appearance related). do you but also be ready for compliments to lead to attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:46 PM
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that isn't quite how the friendzone goes down, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:12 PM
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she's saying the compliments she gets aren't things like "wow your dress looks really nice" they are more like "wow look at how big your ass looks in that tight dress" getting sexual "compliments every day isn't as appealing to women as it would be to men because women know we want to fuck them regardless of who they are. women appreciate those comments worded correctly from closer men, but not from randos on the street/at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:10 PM
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I mean like, you really could date an ugly girl. mens ooptions are limited but if you ask enough there is SOMEONE who will give you a chance. I hate to give advice to other guy here because alot seem to think they are completely unlovable trolls and I'm just below the cut off for "chad lite". but you COULD seriously date and try to fix an alcoholic, or drug abuser (I've tried that), or go for a less/not traditionally attractive woman, you COULD date single moms with no job, no dreams and no goal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:00 PM
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Nothing bad at first, I quit my job and a little later crashed my car (leaving from her house, slid on ice). She was already apparently hurt I wasn't showing enough interest, and that night when I finally got home I ended up telling her it wasn't worth it to see her that night. A few weeks later I still didn't have a way to get the car fixed and I asked her best friend to come smoke me out, and she should come see me. She have me a long speech about "it's impossible to love someone who isn't hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:24 AM
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yeah I guess me saying "cooking is easy" is easier to say when I have some natural talent with it. everyone has to be bad at something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:54 PM
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yeah some of the cook wear you need could be something you are missing. I can cook froms crath but my sister liked to order from a hellofresh equivalent, and I would cook them, since she can barely cook eggs. on more than one occasion I was like "yo, sis, we got a 2 foot wide wok hiding around here?" adult lunchables lmao, pretty much but yeah they are pretty good and can also make for a good surprise at home date, a nice cheeseboard and a good movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:52 PM
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fair enough, I've always enjoyed it because I like to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:55 PM
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yikes there are still some eyebrow raising stats in that census report, but I'll admit it's not as bad as I stated. "And 1 in 10 father children with more than one woman." hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:54 PM
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you should try ordering delivery meals (not doordash, like hellofresh). the instructions are VERY straightforward and they give you almost exact measurements for what you are trying to make. alternatively cheese boards can be snacked on for a minute, and are also good palate cleansers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:48 PM
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girl cooking isn't hard, you don't have to go above and beyond for crazy meals, just learning how to make some basics throughout the week so you don't have to rely on other people to feed you is enough. a lot of men are better cooks than they'd like themselves to believe, though, so you could try looking for some of those
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:44 PM
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my toxic trait is I just want the one girl back and use women in the desperate attempt to feel love like that again after failing to appreciate it. I'm not shy, per-se but I find myself to much at peace in solitude to really engage women the way they want. emotionally distant, I don't like to talk about myself that much, because for the most part my life has just been trauma and "boring" hobbies, so I have trouble connecting with people even when I do love them, this goes for friends and family …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:35 PM
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it is claimed that only 40% of men reproduce while 80% of women do. obviously the 80-90% claimed here is extreme but clearly IT IS a minority of men getting MOST female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:49 PM
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difference of perspective, you just want people to look down on, its okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:21 PM
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literal models are not attractive for the same reasons porn stars, for instance, are attractive. they have stunning features, slim bodies and above average height, usually a more sculpted jaw, and honestly as far as figure goes they have the slimmest possible hourglass that qualifies, with usually not much ass or tits. they are chosen to model not because they are "perfectly attractive" but because they make clothes look good. a lot of guys just don't like the body type, models are paid because …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:37 PM
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"i grew up in a system that oppresses people so others can be happy and live in luxury, so there couldn't possibly be another way."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:19 PM
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just pointing out you saying "males" like guys say females isn't the dunk you think it is, I can't think of a single guy that cares about the semantical difference between men and male. scrote, on the other hand, makes even me furrow my brow for a moment. stick to that one if you are trying to make men mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:48 AM
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this guy thinks he's gonna get a response other than virtue signaling and "who hurt you". poor lad. I'd much rather they just say it sucks to suck and it's always been like this (it has btw, anthropologists suggest the number of men who reproduce has always been the minority) than to cry about how "that's so sexist" "so women are just supposed to be property again?" sadly at this point to change it would take a massive societal shift, either women have to be put into arranged marriage again, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:44 AM
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the mass uptick in depression is from our society going in the wrong direction for some 50 years, as far as we've come making "people equal" we still wont abolish class structures and tying happiness to externals, like jobs/money, relationships, and possessions. imho. everyone has access to social media so one guy may be broke, and see all of his friends with a house and new car, and be sad and depressed. another may have a house and new car, but he doesn't have a wife/gf, so now he's sad and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:23 AM
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as the other commenter stated. I'll go with aggression and violence, nothing wrong with boldness. also the built in want for a man to "take the lead", which goes against the hard pushed modern dating rhetoric of words like "partner" and "equal". obviously no woman likes when her man is violent TO HER but to say that a large sect of women don't subconsciously adore many of the same traits they often try to call out is just being obtuse. women certainly don't like timid men, and sadly going to hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:16 AM
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yes, but women here will never admit that some "toxic masculine" actually do turn them on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:41 AM
3

fr if its not a "fuck yes" get out of my face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:45 PM
4

don't cap you know that there's girls for a good time and girls for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:41 PM
8

thank goodness she's a girl so it doesn't matter as much if she does or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:40 PM
0

yeah I'm definitely going to take the advice of someone who says that children aren't a burden because the wording "makes him feel bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:36 PM
3

lol, ok bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:31 PM
2

No, it's probably a man https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jo%C3%ABl\_Robuchon
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:28 PM
8

to be fair children are a burden, he didn't say it isn't worth it to raise kids, but he correctly stated that it is cumbersome. to raise a child well, aside from the massive financial hit, you have to devote time to helping your child grow outside of the classroom, be this sports, seeing family, play dates, etc. from the ages of 0~3 they need essentially PERMANENT supervision, the only time you shouldn't be watching them is when they are asleep (and even then an adult should be nearby because ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:07 PM
3

mmm that's close to home
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:52 PM
1

just saying anecdotally the best cooks in my family are all men, top to bottom (old to young). between me and my sister she can make an omelette, spaghetti and follow microwave instructions, I can do anything from charcoal grilled meals to fine seafood dinners, I have catered my own last 6 birthdays and it was a hit every time. my uncle was a better cook than my mother by a wide margin and he's who I learned from, their mother taught him, but she learned from her husband. also just an aside that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:40 PM
3

a bad joke, sorry. I can see how that would be taken at face value on this sub without the /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:22 AM
4

she did, in fact, say, and mean petty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:45 PM
5

nah girl its way worse when a woman does it. no reasoning needed /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:43 PM
3

the BDSM they are talking about goes well beyond rough sex. they are talking about BDSM where them screaming and telling you to "stop" or "let go" or even cry or scream is unavoidable BUT they don't actually want you to stop unless they actually want you to stop, hence the discussions on safe words, "I'm okay with x but please don't do y while I'm tied up, gagged, and compromised", etc. as the above poster said you are clearly not aware of what goes on in hardcore BDSM communities and why commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:50 PM
0

well I'm not the best physical wall, but my s.def and speed stats along with psychic normal typing make me a decent wall to common meta sweepers s.atk sweepers in OU right now im good for setting up barrier and spikes and usually take a couple turns to bring down even when only setting up for the nasty plot baton pass. I make a good switch in too, being able to take close combats face without much struggle while having enough raw hp to facetank most non boosted attacks at neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:22 PM
1

get a better personality, take a shower, get a hobby, learn how to talk to men. I mean duh, its your fault, just figure it out or leave men alone, jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:26 AM
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this doesn't track with my personal experience, maybe I'm a special case but older women fucking love me. I find them easier to talk to, more open to flirting, both casually and with romantic intent, more experienced in what they do and do not want from a man, and more willing to settle (within reason). “Wow, you just sort of go right in there eh?” this sounds like actually a good thing, assuming this story isn't LARP I would have absolutely continued the conversation. she was maybe surprised bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:44 PM
1

thats not what i'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:43 PM
1

if they weren't willing to take the gamble too the 24/7 gas station is just up the road, you act like this is one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:25 PM
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"Guy 1 (27): I´m super attracted to him and the sex is great. But I don´t share any hobbies with him, and our political views are like night and day. He is kind, generous, helpful and likes to cuddle. He also wants to settle down and start a family." Guy 2 (30): I connect intellectually and emotionally with him. But I´m not attracted to him - so I´m not sexually satisfied. He also lacks a "future" plan, but is creative and resourceful. He understands me and makes me feel seen. and of course she …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:18 PM
0

pull out game on point. 0 kids/ 2 years is a decent rate of return, I only wore a condom twice in my life. my first time and with a ONS I COULD have gotten unlucky, but I'm a bit of a gambler. it really doesn't feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:03 PM
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this has to be LARP right? r-right? I guess thank goodness for reddit in this case, she would've ended up a long term abuse victim and still be making excuses for him! "I mean he cut off my airflow in just a playful way for a while, but I didn't think it was funny, does he just have a bad SenSe oF HU-MOur?" I'm not trying to make fun of this girl, but women will really swear up and down that they can't see the red flags in the "lovely and wholesome" men they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:55 PM
3

Given the structural barriers in the workforce for women (doubly so for POC women) ​ why does just about every woman here supposedly make much more than their spouses?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:06 PM
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I'm not trying to shame her kinks, I don't really care what she's into. BUT she's clearly a special case whos looking for a very specific type of man and her advice shouldn't really be taken seriously, and I assume the man doesn't really give a fuck who she's seeing or what she's done if he's trying to find a girl who will play by "daddy's rulebook".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:39 PM
2

check her posts and everything she's saying makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:25 PM
2

the Japanese absolutely murdered the funk era (in a good way) glad you enjoyed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:29 PM
2

flying beagle - Himiko Kikuchi (link is probably a couple seconds in lmao) mint jams - Casiopea Cosmic Slop - Funkadelic especially the title song, track 05 "cosmic slop"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:08 PM
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haha, how'd that go. I've had older people ask if they could just watch me and my girl and I declined, I don't think I could perform with the pressure of so many eyes on me. especially not with another woman and HER man's eyes on me. I knew a friend who recently got commissioned to do as such, they paid for him to sleep at a Hilton hotel and gave him 200 cash. I'm not really one for fetish shaming, but i truly cannot see the appeal in another man fucking your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:47 PM
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"accidentally bump into you physically or at minimum stand uncomfortably close when you talk to them" this really is most women's bets move, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:40 PM
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the amount of women who's answer is "instead of xyz just find another woman who treats you better" shows they can't relate to men's dating struggles. they really think we can just "get a better girlfriend" on command like they can, it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:37 PM
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but in their view they see us as the 50% of the population that doesn't have to work hard to be treated as an adult or respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:07 PM
2

to be fair I had a phase where I thought this and I had to have several eye opening experiences involving women before i learned to empathize, and even then there are still things about y'all I'll never understand. I believe my first post here even was a "woe is me" along the lines of "what benefit is there to being a man in modern society" and then a huge envy ramble.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:57 PM
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kinda any bruh, we really don't notice it as much because its sometimes hard to recognize your own privilege. but people in general really do still believe men are more competent than a female counterpart before they prove themselves. sometimes even after a woman proves herself she's still seen as "just a girl" in the workplace. without clicking to see the answer though I'm gonna assume tech or engineering which is full of guys who don't really respect women's achievements, and always assume the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:42 PM
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I feel bad about female musicians who get attention only for their bodies. the reason I chose to learn bass was a combination of watching FLCL as a kid, wanting to thump with my family musicians, and seeing Anna Sentina thump(even though her fingerss are kinda long for a woman her size). that's when the male gaze is most depressing to me, when a woman's appearance overshadows achievements like composing music or inventing things and all men can see is that she has nice tits. in annas case she ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:37 PM
2

No I don't like to share. but from hangin out with a decent bit of swingers the most common participants are married couples in their 30's and 40's who have been married for a while and agree because they are bored of the sex but still want to have a happy marriage, usually for their kids. so maybe if that becomes me ill see it differently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:20 PM
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diabetes isn't that serious, mainly just price gouged in America. it would be a struggle but I thought you meant like she had a heart disease or severe sleep apnea, and even then its probably a yes if I really love her. I stayed with my ex after she had a stroke and lost movement on her right side for a couple months, took her to the doctor a couple times and helped her out a little extra at her house since she was the one who had to mow the lawn and cook and shit before it happened. really the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:17 PM
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if women can fuck guys because they "don't respect them" lmao ​ why cant men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:27 AM
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I mean have fun with that but its tough when most of the rebuttals to what guys have to say is just "you're a loser get over it". like you can be one of the ones who tries to be understanding, there's a couple of y'all. but a non zero amount just take every thread as a way to call the guys here socially inept instead of trying to refute anything said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:31 PM
2

you didn't actually say that in your initial comment, which is why we are having this conversation i thought "the way you worded it made it seem like this happened once or twice before, and then you made it a plan to not help male friends out in the future for fear of that happening again."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:31 PM
1

idk maybe if my age range was higher i'd be seeing what you're seeing, but girls my age on OLD are mostly students at the college close by. OFC there's the occasional "I have 3 babies at 21, not looking for hookups, where are the real men who wanna mine and dine first?" but most of them are pretty standard women, either working a job or in school. but I swipe left on TOO hot women on OLD, the only reason they on there is because they want a hook up (which probably wont be me) or they are so toxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:29 PM
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nah, do what you want. it wasn't supposed to be a rebuttal or anything, just pointing out that you have dropped male friends after a rough time. the way you worded it made it seem like this happened once or twice before, and then you made it a plan to not help male friends out in the future for fear of that happening again. the point still stands, and as a guy I've seen it happen many times, that women will OFTEN drop you if your life turns south. the only women I see stay with a guy whos going …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:04 PM
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Personally, I’ve never really dropped male friends who were going through a rough time because I “loathe losers”or couldn’t deal with a man’s feelings. It was more so that I didn’t want to give them the wrong impression. In the past, when I had tried to help out a male friend, over time, they started to see it as me taking interest in them or even if they did not like me before, they liked me now because I helped him through some of dark periods in their life. These situations got awkward really…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:31 PM
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bruh please stop making this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:04 PM
6

just let them think its brilliant, no matter how stupid it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:52 PM
1

if they aren't going to pay me more ill take the experience and leave for better pay though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:14 PM
2

why not exactly? the only way she could be more socially calibrated in this situation is to get a restraining order. maybe not make memes about it, sure, but the dude is quite socially inept and continued to implicate violence. "let me just come over and prove how not violent I am" while sounding right maybe in his mind, is definitely NOT how you talk to somebody who just voiced concerns with your abusive behavior. she just wants him to mail the key and be out of her life, and he's like "i know …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:37 AM
1

for thinking that companies give raises to people who stay there long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:26 AM
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gotta make that line go up! invest now!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:26 AM
2

I thought there was a rule about asking questions for women as a woman. biased mods biased?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:16 PM
1

to be fair love is a huge part of the equation but a lot of men have different standards for love that they find acceptable. what one guy finds clingy another will find adorable, and what one guy finds to be too avoidant might be another mans perfect match. even aside from this you have to prove your love in more ways than just spamming "i love you" and that goes for women too. even when it comes to sex, body types aside different girls are into different things, they could possibly share your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:42 PM
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nah man if a girl is desperate for you and wants your attention and you aren't too good at taking notice; they crowd your space, rub up against you and make some really awkwardly timed flirting attempts. there are weird creepy girl the exact same way there are weird creepy guys, men just don't care because women aren't typically a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:34 PM
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they are mostly just here to try dunk on men and call them losers tbh. most of the female posters are married, over 30, and middle or upper middle class, they literally just come here because they are bored and it cheap entertainment, maybe 3 or 4 are willing to have a real discussion, but occasionally you can post something that makes one mad and they'll suddenly bust out the quoted 6 paragraph post describing why you are wrong, you're an awful person and you don't deserve to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:31 PM
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I don't think I would really care, I don't really say much crazy shit here or elsewhere, the worst thing I've posted on an account was honestly posted by a friend, and maybe some woe is me shit when I was still giga salty over losing an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:06 PM
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i disagreed because i guess i just never payed attention but just googling, men with eyeliner. . . holy shit you're right. literally everyone looks better with liner and shadow or a nice wing. can we normalize this or is that too much to ask for?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:13 AM
1

lol some clovers have 7 leaves on 'em so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:58 PM
3

lmao, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:17 PM
2

okay then don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:33 PM
1

I as well only agree witht he stuff being blatant consumerism to be a red flag out of these. some are things people actually can't change about themselves (baby voice, what?) or things that are preference, some guys like tattoos, some hate them, some think abnormal piercings are gross others think they are hot. the only tattoo I ALWAYS don't like on a girl is the stupid tinkerbell a lot of girls seem to have on their calf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:13 PM
6

I would say look at the majority of male kpop and krap artists, their makeup artists do crazy work and it ranges from subtle toning for blemish removal to full blown artistic patterns
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:09 PM
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only a few guys could really pull off eyeliner, but I think some foundation and toner would make a lot of men look much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:56 PM
2

"usually heavy make up" its very rare these days to see a woman with her face off unless y'all live together or she takes a shower in the morning before she leaves your house. they are talking about the girls with the clown make up on, way overdone blush, tik tok eye make-up (overly designed eye shadows, too much eyeliner, some women are practically wearing war paint) "beauty standards or fashion trends" I for one want my girl to have her owns style and wear clothes she feels comfortable in beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:51 PM
2

"how many men are women going to have to fuck" do y'all like sex or not, the way women talk here it seems like its one of the worst things a man could do to a woman. anyways, the sad but true answer is "as many as it takes" some women seem to get it right first try, others seem to need to swap out their man every month. sadly humans can't read minds, and you have to take risks and have some bad experiences to grow as a person and figure out what you do and don't like, and what is and isn't accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:23 PM
1

aren't y'all the ones who say we need to go down more. just be glad someone is getting the good stuff, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:52 PM
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those girls are curvy, not as good looking as the one first posted when we got on this overweight women binge earlier, when I'm talking about obese women I'm not thinking about these girls here with ass and thighs that look good in yoga pants, I'm thinking about the girls who are ball or fridge shaped, who you wish would wear jeans and a jacket in the summer. whoever said 'chubby girls were up' was right on the money, that's some good stonks. I just think its funny I have these gals telling me I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:33 PM
5

but they don't respect him OwO think of how much respect women give male virgins, that's why they are drowning in no sex. sex bad, why would you want sex like chad UwU
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:22 PM
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'No, I'm going to have sex with her last and take her as my bride after everyone in the tribe has sex with her!' based and cuck pilled lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:18 PM
3

if that makes it easier to understand the benefits of being chad, then yes. chad is to normal women what normal women are to normal guys. why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:16 PM
1

you prefer virgin men because you yourself are a virgin, correct? that's pretty much the only time women respect male virginity, in any way shape or form. its more accurate to say you "want A virgin man" but me thinks after your first time you wont prefer them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:06 PM
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they have to find someway to fit it into their "just" worlds. I would say its projection but men aren't usually making a respect based judgement when they go on a date and it leads to sex, if they didn't want to fuck you they wouldn't have even agreed to a date. I wish there were a way to really explain this to the other sex but they are stuck on repeat with this men=bad women=good shit, its impossible to have a discussion in any sort of good faith since they are just waiting for you to say some…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:03 PM
7

now I'm confused men who have casual sex should be shamed? I'm lost
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:56 AM
3

I didn't have any of those, can't relate. hate to admit I'm usually the emotionally unavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:57 AM
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if that were the case I wouldn't have gone through the many many stupid things I've gone through to keep my exes (and still turn up empty handed). even if I could get sex easily with attractive women I'm sure the novelty would wear off quickly as I continue going through holidays without a special person to share them with. even though I'm pretty sure I will never feel good bringing children into this world I still want to write my own chapter of family history and meet someone to grow old with …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:34 AM
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oh noes women are USING Chad. very believable very believable. think about the objectification chad must face being seen as nothing more than a dildo, so scathing, so devastating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:55 PM
2

female sexual competition exists to SECURE the TOP MALES, correct
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:30 PM
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that's not the argument being made though women's dating lives are easier because they have many more CAHNCES to find what they want than a man of the same general value. at least one of the 1000 hard dicks pointed at you is definitely good enough and wants a relationship, and until you can find that one you can have as much or as little sex as you want in the meantime for validation. like I know women are incapable (pretending to be at least) of understanding this point, and will rearrange the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:12 PM
3

its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:06 PM
14

we are all telling you we can't just do that though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:41 PM
7

idk vet better lmao, my work is done here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:38 PM
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but the end is still you finding the love of your life and having options I've heard all this a billion times its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. its that simple. but you are so right, woe is womenz
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:56 PM
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"his breakdown was already pretty good tbh but im sure that even if i wrote you a book explaining it you would just say "but they just wanna fuck me, wah! wah!""
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:29 PM
3

I have no idea what it has to do with anything at all have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:21 PM
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that you are more likely to find a man who is also willing to try a relationship than the other way around. you already have a foot in the door for a relationship and sex you meet a guy, he's cool. you begin to like him romantically and try to drop hints. it is more likely that he also shares those feelings than if we reverse the genders. his breakdown was already pretty good tbh but im sure that even if i wrote you a book explaining it you would just say "but they just wanna fuck me, wah! wah!"…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:20 PM
8

tfw women legit say that on this sub regarding men. ​ omegalul
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:09 PM
2

oh yeah, everyone always did something worse on reddit. I'm sure it was snowing and uphill both ways. try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:03 PM
10

"you should be blessed you even get to exist in a timeline with women at all misogynistic incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:02 PM
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oh yeah I forgot bang-maid too, and every woman to have the last reply, always a baseless ad hominem and then the guy just giving up a true victory
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:21 PM
1

why would a man EVER want to prove his virginity. do you know how much virgin shaming is pointed at men? no? neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:18 PM
0

a mans virginity absolutely determines his (lack of) value. thinking anything else even within the discourse of this sub is complete and utter bullshit. come on now ladies you can do better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:17 PM
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there is literally no point in trying to argue it anymore, even though pretty much every girl here is in a relationship with the "love of their life" or whatever. "dating is super hard for women, i had to go through like 5 guys before I found the love of my life" ~women here "dating is hard I literally cant get a girl to even message me back" ~men here expect to hear the terms fleshlight, just casual sex, meaningless, and fuck boy atleast 80 times each before this thread is over. same shit diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:11 PM
1

car sex husa husa car sex husa husa friends house husa husa friends house husa husa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:39 PM
5

thank Jesus for car sex. here's a funny thought tho 6'1 me trying to have car sex in a 2003 ford focus zx3. difficult sure, but we are innovators out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:32 PM
1

what is 15 miles away, not everyone lives in the suburbs girly. so walking at a constant speed of 15 MPH (Ussain bolt runs this fast) i would get there in an hour. did you try thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:46 PM
1

absolutely right have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:19 AM
1

I was hired from many applications to a job I have to commute to, I live 15 miles from the closest town as a baseline, I could not get a closer job than that, even if I wanted to you're not really gonna argue that access to a motor vehicle in 2022 is on the same level of importance as a relationship rn, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:10 AM
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I literally could not make it to my job without getting in a motor vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:02 AM
1

I mean I agree with you, this girl would probably rock these angry virgins' world. I'm just saying that apparently these guys ARE talking about these types when they say fat. I'm equally surprised pikachu
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:01 AM
0

yeah but you kinda have to drive in modern day america you DON'T have to date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:47 AM
2

damn, now I know why you're a virgin bruh. thanks for clearing that up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:46 AM
2

inb4 most men in this thread say she looks dangerously obese and nasty oh wait, they already did whoops
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:40 AM
1

just clarifying FUPA is spelled FUPA, and stands for Fat Upper Pussy Area not a foopa, which looks like a pokemon name
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:38 AM
1

bro its your fucking flair, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:34 AM
1

cause I've been rode by a bigger girl (around the same weight) and am most definitely frailer than you if you claim to work out, and I've never experienced pain from the weight of her riding me If your a person whos going to threaten to ignore me, then honestly just do it, you seem like a pansy and a half edit: thank jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:30 AM
1

he saying that they don't though. they both date and complain about the dates they get he's saying either date and accept the risks, or don't date because you are scared of the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:25 AM
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it's: choice comfy pleasing warm soft cozy I can understand not liking fat girls who have so much extra weight that they don't have a shape, but I'd take whoever this girl is over any of the models people were trying to push in the thread a couple days ago, any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:15 AM
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bruh I know you capping about exercising " like my current gf isn't that small around 170 and it can be painful enough to lose interest in the sex." what pain bruh, is she jumping from the fucking turnbuckle on your dick?! are you tiny? I need someone to explain this to me I can't relate at all, and I'm legit just a skeleton with skin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:13 AM
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I don't know if this is you trying to trap a bunch of guys or you are seriously asking But that girl is bad as fuck. I would really hope she's not what guys are talking about when they say "overweight women" because she's one of the ones who has curves in all the right places. I'm guessing the guys hating on chubby girls have never fucked one and are still hung up on having someone who is stereotypically attractive by media standards to impress other males. but that's just a theory . . .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:07 AM
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stop them from entering a woman's body by blocking them with his own, is the usual trope. subduing the gunman himself. I'm certain not many women want their man to actually do any of that, but they would certainly not be too fond of him just running away without securing her safety in someway. I don't know where you got "punching bullets" from my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:22 PM
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usually enough gaslighting to make sure she sees herself in a negative light, so she eventually tells herself "no one would take me, I should be lucky to have him." this mind fuck is how most abusers keep their wives and gfs around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:00 PM
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there's been a mass shooting almost every month for over half a year now. as statistically unlikely as it is the possibility it comes up and you die for a woman who moves on in a month or so to another man doesn't really seem worth it. in a crisis scenario I'd do my best to save US but I'm not just going to play hero and die. besides, this is just discourse on "what if". all these guys saying they would or wouldn't protect their woman in a crisis scenario have no idea how they would actually beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:40 PM
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and a good day to you as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:57 PM
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Being fucked by men who dont like you has zero parity with romantic success. then why do so many women keep doing it? are they all hoping they will hypnotize a man with her coochie?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:20 PM
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from what I understand, its more of a "this guy is gonna snap one day and it's gonna be on the news." type of vibe. Obviously after people get to know me they realize I'm just a chill stoner type, but I've had those comments follow me since middle school so I must have some sort of dark aura about me. my family tries to tell me its because I'm tall and black, but I HIGHLY doubt that's the reason, maybe one day someone will tell me in a way that actually makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:07 PM
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even as a guy who's kinda facially attractive and tall, I still get a comment at every new workplace that I give off serial killer vibes of some sort and am intimidating to talk to the first couple times. people who know me say it's because I'm quiet, spend a lot of time in weird places to be alone and decompress, and have a strong resting bitch face that makes me look either angry or disappointed all the time. still weird its a recurring theme in meeting new people for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:06 PM
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it is a myth, the vagina is extremely elastic, enough to bounce back in time from having a baby pushed through. you might be barely looser over time than when you were a complete virgin, but if you are having sex and your shit stretches out enough to become "too loose" for sex, i would see a doctor, that's not supposed to happen. same vein of myth as guys think protruding labia minora (when guys talk about roasties and "meat curtains") is a sign of a lot of sex, when in reality different vaginas…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:51 PM
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this is where I'm at too. I was a girls first and it was not the experience I was expecting. it left me feeling awkward, wanting and like I ruined her first time for her, even trying my absolute fucking best to be accommodating and communicating to the point of killing the mood multiple times. the only guys who actually want the experience are other virgins, or guys with a weird sexual bucket list. speaking from awkward, painful (I can only imagine how it was for her if it kinda hurt me) experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:13 AM
1

how many men do you think that reasonably is though. who are in both camps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:42 AM
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I personally don't really care. sadly there's no way the guys who take issue with it can stop the guys who support it from paying so that's kind of a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:34 AM
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if you aren't a virgin prepare to put on your patience glasses or be disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:29 AM
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because I don't believe the religions of any churches so me going there to pull pussy would be immoral as fuck and spitting on the principles of the churchgoers for my own personal gain? Only to find someone who disagrees with me about something as society splitting as religion? mm no I don't know why I don't do that, good point I feel awkward enough when I have to stand in as the bass player for my cousin, if god is real I don't want him to see me mackin' in the pool pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:26 AM
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bringing up sexual experience as a guy here usually just gets you called a liar, so I never really do, unless specifically asked, or its relevant to the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:20 AM
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these guys aren't thinking about what happens after she stops being able to maintain an only fans fanbase. they assume that when that happens she'll just be able to marry some lonely guy in his 30's whos been beggin' for anything. and to them the worst part is that they probably will, and they wont ever get the revenge fantasy, the woman ends up with a pseudo(porn work is weird and if you only find success in a niche you have to do weird stuff to keep that niche) free pass on life. they didn't r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:13 AM
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believe it or not I don't watch television, if so I never would have got that reference. I thought he meant Hadrian's or Antonine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:58 PM
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forgive me if I'm retarded, but that means you're Scottish right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:05 PM
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I can see the horrible acting already tell me more about this "big heavy package"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:53 AM
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are they "all"? or is that just the excuse you're using?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:50 AM
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yeah broke, ugly women? The men aren't high caliber either, and somehow, they bump low caliber uglies without feeling like they are better than each other. dating within your league is a huge step in the right direction to getting a healthy relationship. Not everyone can be "the best", most people can only be THEIR best you don't have to be fit or attractive or have money to have a social network. most normal people have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:43 AM
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"I 'woulda, shoulda, coulda' . . . " anything that follows after is usually drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:28 AM
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>>"what you see outside" is how the popular guys at school are generally the athletes, (especially football/basketball), or the frat guys. if blind popularity is what you are worried about in adulthood I feel kinda sorry for you. and like I said, working out will certainly help you both look good and hopefully build some confidence, so I think its a overall good thing. "looks, money, status" is kinda oversold and over rated. broke ugly people literally have the most kids by a landslide
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:27 AM
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if they were genius manipulators I don't think they'd be playing the long game on PP fucking D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:22 AM
3

A whole year???? wth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:20 AM
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yeah I pointed that out too. women use weird phrasing talking about sex like "get her" and "let him", etc. Like sex is something that is done to them and not something they are an active participant of, seems sad and weird to me. she clarified it was weird wording but it seemed like a freudian slip to me, I've heard sex talked about like that a lot from women here and irl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:19 AM
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>rugby now, where exactly in England are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:14 AM
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who cares about heart throbs on tv I'm talking about what you see outside and yeah, planet fitness is a joke, but that's the reason for the stupid alarm there are plenty of guys who are not fit and have girlfriends and wives, and there are plenty of gym bros who look good as hell but couldn't get or keep a woman if his life depended on it. there is obviously more to it than just being muscular and being able to lift things. not saying men shouldn't try to get in shape but doing so will not insta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:12 AM
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well when men say women are playing on easy mode we are talking about these girls. they wont know until they are losing their looks at 30 that they should've done something with their lives, but sometimes these girls get enough clout to switch to other mediums and ride the popularity. as women here often point out most TRPers are talking about these women; these are the girls who bang chads and then settle at 30, these are the women who only fuck alphas, these are the women they are honestly jea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:06 AM
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my answer is still no, but as you can see its different for every guy. I don't mind waiting a bit if she is clearly uncomfortable with it, either. I like to think I'm pretty sex positive, if a girl wants to have sex I'm not gonna think less of her when I myself want to have sex, that's kinda stupid. If i asked for sex on the first date I'm asking with the intention of having sex, not to hit this girl with a "gotcha!" But guys are always gonna worry if his girl is loyal and being that quick to ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:56 AM
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Kinda this. like these dudes don't have to simp after these girls or give money to them, they may be lonely but that's still their choice. ESPECIALLY if they are donating. you could take that money and actually go out somewhere to potentially meet a girl instead of throwing money at someone who will never know your name. these girls ONLY exist because there are dudes desperate enough to pay for the illusion of connection, more guys need to learn to take their ball(s) and go home. and it's even w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:37 AM
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women are so annoyed by guys lifting heavy shit "inclusive"gyms have rules against grunting don't forget the famous planet fitness lunk alarm. also ignoring how many women are still into the popstar look, mostly lean and skinny, kinda undefined muscles. just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:34 AM
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I agree stockiness makes your height more noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:32 AM
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nah they can pull those 20 year olds because they still act like they are in college, but they can also validate some women's need to "feel mature" when they come of age. you have no idea how overused the line "you're so mature for your age" is used by men and how much it makes a girls eyes light up if she is having issues finding herself mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:20 AM
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its EXCEPTIONALLY easier to date as the primary race in your country. I've been cockblocked more than once by racism alone. usually along the lines of "my daddy wouldn't really like it if I was with a (not white race here) guy" only once has a woman ever stated she simply wont because of my race and other races women (except for specifically black women) pedestalize whiteness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:16 AM
1

I still haven't gotten a good bj. that shit is made up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:02 AM
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oh shit you wanna buy some more? I have two foot pedal ones and a travel machine with the case and all trying to get rid of all this old junk my family has collected over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:59 AM
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damn I wasn't a huge fan of her but that's kinda lame. hopefully her daughter finds a less scummy guy and she can come back to us
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:57 AM
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bruh she's 10 can you think of any women who would've legit wanted to carry a baby to term before she was out of MIDDLE SCHOOL she literally isn't old enough to have taken a sex ed class and you're worried she might have wanted to keep the baby wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:49 AM
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nah, I wish I didn't cut my dreads though, regret it more everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:45 AM
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I would assume its a bit less scary as a guy. it's probably scarier for the girl to wake up with some random guy in their bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:36 AM
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most of the guys here don't really know what they want, they're just angry/lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:26 AM
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No "lets you have sex" toxic way of thinking. If we want to have sex we have sex together. Its getting really sad y'all see sex as something that solely "happens" to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:08 AM
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since I can only list famous people pretty much unironically: warframe game dev, Rebecca Ford Anisa Yanet Garcia Jennette Mcgurdy (now, you fucks) fucking pokimane lmao lots of others, but none close to my ideal body type Rebecca or Mcgurdy is probably the closest. sadly my ideal body type doesn't show up in actual media much because there is an obsession with girls being exceptionally thin, much thinner than I'd like anyway. I'm of course talking about raw sexual attraction and not this weird "…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:10 PM
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oh no I'm a bad person again. oof it's not both you just really want it to be for some reason "body shaming" I now know everything I need to know about you, have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:57 PM
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stop I can't do skull emojis on my computer lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:53 PM
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I'm lost, do I have a small dick or am I making fun of them? and yeah I laugh with them when they show me johnny pencil with no head, or the guy whos whole dick soft is literally just his foreskin, can't help it. I kinda wish I was mad but this is par for the course, pretty average ppd "debate"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:49 PM
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damn bro a whole fruit by the foot of penis. I mean maybe he was 7 feet tall
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:40 PM
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3 inches is not a normal size, who told you it was? either piv matters or it doesn't. when it suits your argument "it doesn't even matter man women don't cum from piv" when it doesn't "nah, penetration feels great" "communicate better. be with someone who's honest with you and isnt going to fake pleasure if what youre doing isnt working. let her guide your hands, let her tell you what she likes. learn your partners body. its fun and brings you closer with the person." that's nice and good and al…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:29 PM
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"the women who feel better with smaller mean they like the normal size, they don't mean they are searching for a man with a 3 incher to please them right." "and on that note if Piv is so unimportant why is there a market for dildos in the first place??? its all about the clit right???" "A man can communicate but as far as exact stimulation, he can't compare because he can't feel what you feel; you know the exact spot, angle and speed that feels the best and are in full control of it at all times…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:06 PM
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funny how you didn't actually address a single thing I said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:02 PM
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yes sex with a woman with a bigger ass feels better and is more visual appealing. lol I didn't out myself on anything, sadly, you just want to attack people when you lose an argument. I can't even be truthful here because it will just be seen as boastful lying, so I guess take your huge W "I called his pp small he is defeated" "haha you bad at sex argument over" - literally you rn A man can communicate but as far as exact stimulation, he can't compare because he can't feel what you feel; you kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:59 PM
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i've had enough of my female friends roast dudes for having a small or oddly shaped penises to know this whole thread is complete cap. you literally can't convince anyone but the most desperate incels that women don't care about size. this is hilarious and I can see why OP jumped ship off this thread. no amount of "well actually women want" is gonna take back me having women literally show me a dick pic and roast the fuck out of the size, shape of his head, or having foreskin. a non 0 amount of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:36 PM
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nah man something something the motion of the ocean. you can't kayak in the ocean if your pp is too big, only small dicks can learn good tongue game. its like how the blind have super hearing bro didn't you know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:21 AM
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how the fuck do you not like watermelon. its sweet water with texture? ​ you tried S a Lt? at least you get to enjoy one of the goods brother, cant say i get this god character too much myself,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:18 AM
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i think this is ultimately my endgame as well. I have terrible object permanence and I infantilize women a ton, getting the initial attraction and having a honeymoon phase is awesome, maintaining the relationship is much less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:13 AM
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before I see the answer I want to put in the guess that you are maybe a hardcore conservative and put women off with your ideologies, I don't buy it, you got the package your personality has to be shot in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:03 AM
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only the guys are really having dating failures, most the women here are 30 y.o.+ and married and just come here to try to make men mad. funny how all but like 2 female posters are in a relationship "there are no issues with dating, I'm in a relationship" anyways i have to agree, if you are sexless or even worse never even had a relationship there has to be a reason other than that the other gender is trash, introspection goes a long fucking way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:59 AM
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lmao I remember when I let my friend post this on my phone account. it was funny then and it's even funnier now that the shade wont come my way. fucking lamoocow dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:53 AM
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don't cap no amount of tongue work is gonna help micropeens. "Penis size is similar to height. If a man is 5’1, it doesn’t matter how alpha he is, women won’t truly respect that man. If a man is 6’4, that man can put a women in her place and raise his voice and she will at least consider what he’s saying and make a change. A women will respect you more for having a big dick then if you had a small one. That’s literally it…" ​ literally wtf is this get off the rock bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:51 AM
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"there's three good things on this earth fellas, god, pussy and watermelon." undefeated he says
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:48 AM
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we get it you don't care about men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:23 AM
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we get it you don't care about men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:37 AM
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lol ok bro literally "there are many girls I could find on the street I'd rather fuck than her" "impossible standards" lmao, just lose an argument bro its not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:32 AM
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and I'm not saying women should stop getting their kicks either, I'm explaining why some men take issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:30 AM
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its not though I still find plenty of women attractive, I'm saying that models are not attractive to me she has a different kind of beauty than what I like. my post is proof I PERSONALLY like women with curves and she doesn't have them because it would make clothes fit differently on her than what fashion designers are trying to achieve. men have anything BUT impossible standards and there are many girls I could find on the street I'd rather fuck than her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:27 AM
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how is your opinion relevant to dating in the social climate of 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:18 AM
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again, models are not exactly what men find attractive. they are paid that much because they make CLOTHES LOOK GOOD. objective attractiveness past 6 is impossible because it becomes more about personal preferences, if anything there is only objective unattractiveness and we try to rank people down, not up. 24/30 is pretty fucking good, but you aren't gonna tell me her man ass jaw is "perfect" I didn't even know we were only talking about faces (even though 80% of a girl isn't her face). i still …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:11 AM
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I mean her face is great, full lips thin eyebrows, everything fits pretty well. if its just face I can give her a 9. She looks kinda weird now though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:05 AM
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I can judge women on their appearance and still be attracted to average. I'm not trying to date only 10/10s anyway, and I like my women to actually have something to grab na'mean? first, you have to understand that 1-10 is a flawed system anyway there are billions of people on the planet 10/10 is perfection, no flaws, possibly even not really identifiable because what counts as peoples 7, 8, 9s are different. 1/10 is a bridge troll, no redeeming qualities, no sexual appeal, you'd never even real…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:02 AM
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it's really not she looks more attractive pregnant than she does on any of her runway shoots to me, she looks good i guess but as the other user said it's such a specific look i had to really flip a coin before i gave her an 8 rating above. she's like an alright pretty girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:47 AM
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WGHERE AR HER TITS?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:45 AM
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looked up romee strijd. what's the hype other than that she's thin and tall? too much jaw going on there, no jiggle at all, board thin with average breasts and a standard white girl ass. eyes too far apart, and in all her pics they even seem to have a kinda 'crazy' look to them. lips too thin. she IS an 8 at most still wish we went to the 1-30 model she sits cleanly there at 24/30 she's like an alright looking pretty girl, but doesn't really do it for me personally. models aren't chosen because …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:44 AM
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I can't stop men from being womanizers either, I just try to give my 2 cents. I know that being a woman is far from constant sunshine and rainbows and y'all have a very different set of problems to deal with, in the dating world and in the relationships after. I'm usually just trying to explain the why without using too much red pill rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:24 AM
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I'm just explaining why some men are upset about it, ultimately do what you want. but again when you say "have fun" and "find yourself" and "learn who you are" a lot of guys just hear "have a bunch of casual sex". getting a degree is a life experience, seeing new parts of the world is a life experience, making friends and enemies are life experiences. jumping dicks is not a life experience, as long as you aren't having crazy amounts of sex and calling it such guys don't care. of course the senti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:19 AM
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well certainly make sure you aren't burned out on life before you start trying to meet people, it puts you in a bad mindset from the jump. as the women here do say (but usually don't follow) you need to make sure you are happy with yourself, or at least working on getting there before you ever even try to start dating. a relationship wont fix problems like being unhappy at work. ​ but either way, ask one of your bosses about something not work related and see if you can have a genuine conversati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:08 AM
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because so many men cannot "have fun" and "find themselves". to guys those terms literally just mean fuck a bunch of people btw so just clearing that up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:46 AM
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I mean the solution is to free humanity from techno feudalism but I don't have a say in that and the people on top seem to be having a pretty good time surfing the waves of fire. there is certainly an issue in how it's becoming impossible to a growing number of people to have even the basics of happiness when everything has a price tag that keeps rising every fiscal year. for the most part both men and women have been tricked into thinking they can have it all. OLD has ruined the dating field to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:18 AM
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that's not what a religion is but if that's what you have to tell yourself to stay in yours ​ ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:04 AM
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that way of thinking IS applied to many individuals struggling. and many people cannot fix it with the hand they are dealt however some of the things you listed are systemic shortcomings, as well. Of course it is problematic, but I wasn't born the king, I have no recourse to fix it, only complain with the choir singing to the void there's a lot of nuance here anyway, I, for example had MANY chances to lift myself out of poverty before coming ultimately beholden to it, but I chose to play vidya a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:06 PM
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shop OUTSIDE of your entourage then. 50% of the humans in the world are female, if a loser like me can do it you can too. and I DON'T have my own place or a job, or even a car at the moment. the only edge I have on the average guy is that I'm 6'1" and even then I'm deathly thin, like clinically underweight, figure it out homie. there HAS to be a reason that isn't just "bitches crazy" for how you've gone from puberty to 30 without fucking a girl, figure out the reason, fix it, or perish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:21 PM
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if one more zealot tries to convince me that evolution or the big bang are religions I'm gonna blow a fucking gasket. you are so right, I worship the big-bang and sacrifice goats to the fucking LUCA. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:15 PM
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or be able to argue around "could god make a rock he couldn't lift", or explain the flood, or why god wouldn't just destroy evil. or why god wouldn't just make new humans and get rid of the the tree of good and evil, or explain the mythical beasts in the bible, or why he couldn't just forgive humans instead of impregnating a virgin woman so he could have his own son murdered, or how him dying on the cross forgives anyone else of sin, or why he would allow disease to exist at all, or why he does …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:13 PM
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I try not to because it leads to stupid arguments I've heard 1000's of times before, as has already happened below. I guess I need to go back to my old policy of just saying "ok" anytime anyone says anything about religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:37 PM
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I don't have any religions except my jeans bro. I've definitely heard that rhetoric before, I have a personal vendetta against any religion that pushes hate and breeds violence and war in the name of it's deities. I think a level of spirituality is good and you can achieve that level of thought without a god who "hates the gays" now as soon as you tell me the superhuman or supernatural force I follow and worship I'll concede that I have a religion, but until then it's just an overused trope reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:34 PM
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well that's certainly awful to hear, especially getting bullied doesn't really lead to a healthy outlook on people and relationships so i can see how you ended up browsing this dumpster fire of a sub. do you work? I'd start off by trying to make a plan to go out somewhere with a coworker you are close to., or least distant from. It can be anywhere, the main thing is learning to ask people to do things with you and follow through on your end. secondly id learn how to atleast fake an approachable …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:26 PM
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it also perpetuates sexism, the hatred of "the other", empowers extremist groups, and gives people negative views of homosexuality, sexual freedom and anything considered deviant to the church. it also permeates our schools leading to children ignoring sex-ed and biology classes, and shapes the way history is taught and learned. there are more than a "few" reasons religion isn't the solution to the problems in the dating world, and in many ways leads to stupid people who are more likely to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:30 PM
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if you don't mind me asking how exactly are you special needs? you can dm me if you don't want to share here, that's sad to hear and a definite case of life isn't fair. for all my aneurotypicalities I'm decently good at pretending to be "normal" and was always cited by others as being exceptionally intelligent, so I'm sure I can't relate, but I'd be happy to listen and try to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:17 PM
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mmm_try_again its probably because it's easier to keep a happy family and good social habits if you are already upper middle class and didn't have to deal with extra societal pressures associated with poverty. But that's just a theory . . .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:13 PM
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its hard to find that sense of community elsewhere because practically every other form of socialization has been monetized and price gouged. I play bass for my local church every couple Sundays when the guy who normally does it (my cousin) is sick or busy or whatever, and I was involved in the choir well after I stopped being a believer, I do agree with you it is a good place to network and meet interesting people. I was mainly pointing out that the studies that show people who go to church are…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:10 PM
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how can you expect to have a romantic relationship if you cant even maintain friendships? I also think just saying, "be friends with women" doesn't help the guys here who seem to need a work infomercial to explain how to get a woman. but seriously walk before you run, if you cant have a multitude of friendships and maintain them how do you think you'll be able to entertain a woman for any amount of time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:54 PM
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I'm kinda wondering the lifestyles some of yall have where you straight up do not meet women. I'm fairly reclusive, I spend most of my waking hours playing videogames or rehashing bass riffs, and still I can have friendly conversation with women I meet in public when I do go out, and still have some female friends hanging around. did y'all completely drop everyone after college/highschool. never hung out with former coworkers or anything? I just don't understand how its this hard. like I still h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:17 PM
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not here bro let them believe in sky daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:08 PM
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is that maybe because MOST people who attend church regularly are middle to upper middle class white families who grew up with both parents in the suburbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:08 PM
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I did this and ended up dating the managers daughter because I couldn't tell they were related until we had already hit it off. thankfully, he liked me, that coulda been very very unfortunate for me. don't work there anymore anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:04 PM
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i dont even want to crank it up, i just want to legit be myself and that be good to go. most women are so sensitive, and feel like everything is a slight against them. the main draw to girls I like is the ability to take things a little less seriously then the norm, and not feel the need to prove themselves or protect their image or pearl clutch. all that shit is annoying as fuck. having to sugarcoat normal conversation because if you don't she'll get all in her feelings is super lame, and I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:12 PM
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we are all evil creatures brother, ever opened the bible?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:01 PM
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for me it came down to personality more than physical appearance. I'd still much rather have an "average" girl i click with than a 8+/10 whos main draw is her appearance. i mean obviously "both is good" but if i had to choose one or the other for an Ltr I'm going to choose the interesting personality with similar interests over the pretty face every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:20 PM
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were you just staring at your inbox spamming refresh to respond to anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:01 AM
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watch out you gonna get a long winded research paper about how women are equal to men because they can swim long distances better and that makes up for the massive amounts of physical difference between even the weakest man and the strongest woman. women can train to be strong, but they can't train to be stronger than a man doing the same thing. there's a reason we don't do co-ed sports, even dodgeball in high-school was unfair. there's a reason the girls bench bar is angles and lighter, there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:58 PM
1

Amy Schumer is funny. Not her jokes, but the individual herself gives me a good chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:33 PM
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smelling good is a tool of the patriarchy as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:27 PM
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I've honestly just heard it repeated so many times and I agree with the premise so I've just ran with it so far. I usually don't, but when I do, I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:32 PM
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holy shit you're . . . right? damn son where'd you find this. I'll still turn down girls under 18 for moral reasons but right is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:11 PM
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sorry i was pretty much making the same joke as below. if you've worked any retail job you would know that customers definitely aren't above lying to get what they want, where applicable. stolen valor? putting your own hair in food? there are stories of people bringing roaches from home for the same purpose as well. lying is a thing liars do, be it in dating or when buying something. dishonesty is a human trait many possess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:28 PM
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wanna run that by me again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:14 PM
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ooooo, spooky. there certainly couldn't be any biological or societal reasons for those traits being popular or sellable. its a mystery to me why there are no companies selling you anti toothpaste, that rots your teeth, or hair gel that makes you bald. or supplements that make you lose muscle and shrivel up. I've been manipulated by Mc'Amazon-Gillette-Axe-Eagle-21-chevy, into thinking that being tall, with good teeth, nice hair, decent style and having money are attractive. You woke me up, I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:57 PM
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ok if you want to ask, ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:33 PM
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you asked for reasons why you could be disappointed asking about her past relationships and that was one examples I gave. if it doesn't apply what's the issue? IF you want to ask her, ask her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:22 PM
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question: if you were around back then, do you think you would get in? "notable patrons of studio 54 *list of patrons of studio 54* "probably not" " lmao. and again, no, I'm pretty much never on here complaining about lack of pussy, try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:18 PM
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you deduced all of it but you couldn't see where I said that based on the notable attendee list that I probably wouldn't get into studio 54? excellent deduction skills my friend, keep it up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:09 PM
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since you are unable to read or follow a discussion, she asked "if studio 54 was around to day do you think you would get in, i then listed people who attended studio 54 in its hay-day. if you don't know what it is, use google? I'm a much more pleasant person in real life, believe it or not. I think my troubles with women stem from my avoidant attachment style, and lack of set goals up to this point, but you can psycho analyze me based of your inability to follow a thread, if you want. *facepalm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:04 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:50 PM
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did you read the thread or did you just look at the title. try to piece it together, I'm getting sick of spoon feeding people, who wont read otherwise I guess it means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:46 PM
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Ever heard of Studio 54? If you lived back then do you think the doorman would let you in the door? I have no idea what the point of this reply is, I have trouble reading too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vhqad1/does_sex_equal_attraction/ enjoy this thread, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:10 PM
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notable patrons of studio 54 Woody Allen[32] Bella Abzug[32] Mikhail Baryshnikov[33] John Belushi[34] Leonard Bernstein[35] Jacqueline Bisset[33] David Bowie[36] Truman Capote[32] Gia Carangi[37] Allan Carr[38] Cher[33] Pat Cleveland[24] Roy Cohn[39] Salvador Dalí[40] Divine[41] Faye Dunaway[42] Doris Duke[32] Farrah Fawcett[36] Ric Flair[43] Betty Ford[44] Tom Ford[45] Diane von Fürstenberg[46] David Geffen[47] Martha Graham[44][24] Richard Gere[37] Jerry Hall[48] Halston[46][44] Victor Hugo[48…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:05 PM
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but bro haven't you heard women just do those things for themselves. every now and then you have a good take
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:00 PM
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get real, you know that a man who is 6'+ with well defined features is better looking than a man who is all around average. while I agree with the general sentiment here, that you shouldn't give up just because you aren't conventionally attractive, you can't deny women aren't going to be GENERALLY more attracted to a guy with a strong jawline, good hair and of decent height. no company is trying to sell you height my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:59 PM
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not everyone is a native english speaker. if he left out the "lols" and texting shorthand it would probably read a lot better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:54 PM
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that applies to other minors. I live in NC which has age of consent at 16 and strong romeo juliet clause. the age of consent 16 thing is mostly so that guys who are 18 and 19, going to the same school as a girl aren't prosecuted for dating them. not really applying to dudes with 10+ years of adulting and relationships under their belt. edit: oops
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:02 PM
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they can keep doing it. its more on men to disregard their advice if it doesn't line up or, honestly, just try harder to figure out yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:58 AM
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because your biological urge to have a virgin woman who only knows "you" will over ride your ability to understand her situation or if she really thinks you are attractive you will begin to question her, yourself and the validity of the relationship. even if she only tells you bad things they did, you will then start to wonder how many of those things you do and be less authentic. if she tells you anything good about them, natural jealousy will take root, even if only for a second. then there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:50 AM
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this is EXACTLY what women do already. just don't get caught bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:42 AM
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come on now, you could put this under a LOT more than my one comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:34 AM
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my soggy knees! my soggy knees!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:33 AM
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what are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:42 PM
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nah 1-10 is ugly 11-20 is average 21-30 is hot like zendaya (or however you spell it celebrities are bleh, people just bring her up a lot) is like a 17 an attractive average girl. while Mia Khalifa (with her bra on) is a 25 an average hot woman most girls who people would rate 10 still have a slew of women who are MORE attractive than them. like highlander, there can only be one 30 in the world at a given time, maybe 2 but you know . . . highlander
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:45 PM
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big boobs are horrendous. a lot of guys are tried and true ass men to the grave, its not about your itty bitty titties, there has to be another physical trait you are lacking or you have a bland personality. perky is more important than big anyways. I of course could be way off, but I actually like, hangout with guys y'know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:39 PM
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that works for me most people do be npcs, just trotting through life doing fuck all at their shitty desk job until they die
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:35 PM
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lame, performances are dumb and I greatly prefer being made to notice, instead of the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:34 PM
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what is a 5.5 bro. why don't we use the kotaku scale, 1-50 seems like a more broad range and allows for more accurate discussion. I personally rate women on a 1-30 scale
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:32 PM
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also want to add that just from what I've gathered from posts most women on here appear to be bored wives in their mid 30's, and most of the men seem to be gamer dudes in their early 20s many of the women here mention having been married for years, having ex husbands, talking about dating before 2010 (I was 12 in 2010) and are mostly just here on off time to laugh at struggling men. most of the guys here talk like awkward teenagers who just entered adulthood and are wondering where there mate is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:30 PM
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can we please normalize calling women "wen" its literally an upside down m cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:07 PM
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embrace it bro it's here to stay, as you can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:52 PM
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mhm mhm Edit: I'm something of a poet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:06 PM
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oops?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:06 PM
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it shouldn't, it's been this way for awhile, get your sex, don't commit until SHE says it's exclusive, this is why guys say spin plates, because women are too. if one is worth commitment it will show, escalate on your own terms and if it doesn't work out drop the plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:02 PM
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most guys literally can't escalate. did you see me try to give advice to the guy who struggled to get CONSENT for a first kiss?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:57 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:52 PM
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and you would never tell him that? of course. do you think he was too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:50 PM
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"I know tons of guys who say „she’s really pretty, but I like them with some meat on their bones“ about women who are athletic/slim/‚curvy‘ (the way guys mean curvy"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:49 PM
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Don't worry I'm not going to change my dating patterns over this, I kinda just wanted some admission that it is indeed shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:46 PM
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were you seeing other men while y'all were dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:44 PM
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sorry about that, I can tell you do a lot to go against that grain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:43 PM
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nothing you were the one who got defensive about the definition of curvy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:42 PM
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oh man you got me, I'm so offended, I've never heard that before after I've won the argument in my life, ever. y'all telling on yourselves bad on this one, usually you do a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:38 PM
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how are you and your man doing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:35 PM
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I wasn't disagreeing with that . . .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:35 PM
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using the word dating every time gets boring, sorry. and yikes, girl. at least you got your man, so no harm done. thank you for being honest though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:34 PM
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you are aware that this behavior is why men don't want to commit though right, and you are self perpetuating the thing you don't want to happen to yourself. I'm okay with it, because you've at least admitted that this behavior is shitty, and goes against trust in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:32 PM
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were you fucking another man while your husband was courting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:29 PM
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so you think everyone should be out for their own happiness and if that means lying then so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:28 PM
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so far all I've got from you is "only be out for yourself" "everyone of the opposite sex is probably soft cheating so you might as well, too" and "it's okay because women don't usually get caught"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:27 PM
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because it will hurt some guy you are trying to start a relationship with? Y'all truly are some selfish creatures, sometimes. but thanks I'll move forward with that. never been a fan of duping women but it seems women don't have the same ideal, might be time to change that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:26 PM
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what I'm getting at is you don't want your men to do this, so why do you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:24 PM
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the way men mean curvy is the opposite of what you wrote, it means she DOES HAVE MEAT ON THEM BONES *facepalm emoji*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:23 PM
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and you think men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:22 PM
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you said "if he was fully honest about his intentions, i wouldn't have kept fucking mark" so until HE PROVES to you that he's honest about his intentions, you would KEEP fucking mark. why not just fuck mark
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:21 PM
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yeah I'm starting to see that if I want a happy relationship I should just lie to get what I want. instead of actually looking for a happy relationship I should do everything in my power to have my cake and eat it to, and assume every woman is soft cheating on me for the first few months of dating. great worldview to have bro, keep it up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:19 PM
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but you would have kept fucking mark until dylan committed because you love him so much? man this thread was an easy one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:17 PM
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this about why you SHOULDN'T be having sex because you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:15 PM
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why wouldn't you be okay with it, its just sex, he loves you, doesn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:14 PM
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oh yeah, she gotta keep those mark digits under mary for the next couple months to "make sure" dylan is good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:12 PM
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"but I deserve it" "we usually don't get caught" most women are this awful only a few are worth your commitment, don't wait for a woman, ever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:09 PM
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so you would be ok with Dylan doing this too, and it's even ideal that he do so and pretend to be committed to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:07 PM
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but what you want matters a lot? very clean worldview, not telling at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:03 PM
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all I've learned is that I should start lying to women for my own happiness and just try not to get caught. sounds good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:02 PM
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so you would have told your hypothetical Dylan that you were fucking another guy for the first couple weeks you were talking after he proposed a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:00 PM
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and you get them to trust you by lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:58 PM
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most asian men are taller than asian women still though? and their dating culture isn't going fantastic either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:56 PM
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I feel like the women who like fat men are most probably fat women. if I had to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:55 PM
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I mean for most women they are, why should it matter, you clearly wouldn't want to date them anyway if they had this belief
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:54 PM
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curvy means meat on them bones, in the right places. its women who misuse curvy as a descriptor, more often than not. speaking as a connoisseur of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:53 PM
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why did you marry him then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:49 PM
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why would you be upset though you could just keep banging the guy you were already banging than try to trick another for selfish reasons? does your partners happiness or trust matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:46 PM
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just drop out of the gene pool bro "all the kids are doing it, these days"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:42 PM
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looking around they don't seem to care that much if the dad is around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:41 PM
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you are kinda just confirming the negative view of women most of these guys have. I mean you do you, but don't be upset if it doesnt work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:29 PM
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yeah I just don't do lies anymore, it gets me what I want in the short term but it makes it NOT LAST in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:27 PM
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yikes girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:22 PM
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yeah its hard to understand in the same way women defending fucking a guy while another is on the back burner is hard to understand for us. If she doesn't make me want to commit in a truthful honest way, by her own nature and our shared compatibility then it is obvious to me the only thing we could possibly do together is fuck. this whole sub has no bearing on a healthy solid relationship, if she's really for me, she shouldn't have to lie about her actions to keep me. obviously not all guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:20 PM
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as everyone here says, its up to you to decide what you want to do, for as much as I say "only fuck women, never commit", I'm a highly commitment oriented individual in relationships. my issue has been more with my distant attachment style and the want for something that feels "easy", and not sexually but just a more lax relationship in general. I actually love going on dates and spending time with my girls. but everything in moderation and women get very in their feelings when you stop being he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:01 PM
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do I need to put /s on XD now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:24 PM
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I haven't needed a conversation so far, if I have to coax it out of her we simply aren't compatible. I'm lucky enough to have been proposed by women myself, and to have had at least honeymoon phase sexual attraction without a conversation about why we aren't fucking. You are free to use whatever method you want but if a girl is into me, she should be wanting that intimacy with me as much as I'd want it from her. Of those 3-4 dates were awesome then that should be even more reason for her to want…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:20 PM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:06 PM
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that excerpt is agreeing with you sentiment. which is why I posted it under auto mod, since this a cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:03 PM
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you're lost homie, i hope you find a beautiful woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:02 PM
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No I care about the success of women who care about mine. otherwise you are just a potential fuck I probably wont have, not a love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:39 PM
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I'm quoting a song, I'll make it more obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:36 PM
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so you are saying jenny is ugly in one way or another and the only way she can secure commitment is by hiding the truth about herself from men, why not just serially FWB then, at that point? it couldn't possibly be that she could be honest to dylan or at least have the decency to not wait for weeks until dylan asks the question to *adjusts glasses* not fuck mark twice a week still for 2 weeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:36 PM
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yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:33 PM
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she's literally not even reading the thread, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:32 PM
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it must be Dylan right, don't you want the lovies and lies, and the constant burden of performance for less reward? ​ sounds like a dream come true, why'd i want to just be a dildo for a woman /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:31 PM
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so you'd rather base the relationship on a lie than just trying to get commitment from the man you already have? ​ spin plates boys don't commit only, fuck women. the right one will bare her heart out to you and give you no choice but to commit, not lie to you while seeing other people to make it "feel special" even though it ISN'T for her, at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:30 PM
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never bring it up if you aren't putting hands on each other sexually within 3 or 4 dates it isn't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:27 PM
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ITT women confirm they have an even stronger Madonna/whore complex than men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:25 PM
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nah, decent women who aren't literal serial liars get commitment easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:25 PM
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yet me have a woman in 'ere now trying her damn best to die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:24 PM
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only fuck women never commit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:23 PM
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and we are telling you it's shitty and if you get found out you will lose the guy you apparently love so much quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:23 PM
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if you have to lie to the person you love you are probably doing something wrong. good relationships aren't based on lies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:22 PM
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"I wanna hide away in the back of a cave, at the top of a mountain, where no one can hear me, and no one can see me so I don't have to deal with them and nobody deals with me Relationships are over rated, sorry I might just be tired and jaded but I'm sorry I just like myself more than I like you" - Days 'N daze, Misanthropic Drunken Loner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:20 PM
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most men need more than just beauty and if that's all you need, it speaks for your experience and maturity level quites a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:17 PM
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it sucks thinking you don't have friends because they are different. but you do have people you talk to regularly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:03 AM
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"don't" or "sorta"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:23 AM
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well as I said before I think the writers of cosmo have very different sex lives than the average man. I wouldn't take the dudes here super seriously either, but having no opinion would probably be better than thinking cosmo is a reflection of what men are going through. do you have many male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:29 AM
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probably because it IS the norm for the women who read Cosmo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:07 AM
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you probably shouldn't base your view of men's dating lives on Cosmo LOOOOL ​ who do you think writes that stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:43 AM
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there is another poster here who uses the "hes just a dildo" as if he's somehow losing in the situation for not having to have a relationship to fuck her. I'm just used to that, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:42 AM
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oh man, is that right. downright stupid it makes me. 2 years and many (probably much more compatible) women, passed up because the sex was just that good. I dismissed it at first because she was the one who took my virginity, but after having sex with others its still no comparison. hopefully I can find someone like that again who isn't like, a trainwreck of a person (as much as I hate to call her that), maybe, someday, when I'm not. pretty much my only dating hope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:39 AM
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I want to know how many men here are actually kissless virgins in there 20s+ I assumed that most of the dudes here were just butthurt about a breakup (since thats what brought me here) if you cant find a single woman, whos not even great, or that compatible with you, to fuck you, it speaks more about yourself than anything. theres a couple guys here i know get a pass, but like. man. you cant find anyone youd want to fuck who'd also want to fuck you in a world with this many people in it. blows m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:33 AM
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I need way more than just beauty, I need to actually enjoy being with her and doing things for her or its simply NOT going to work out. obviously there is a looks threshold, but after she breaks that she has to at LEAST be pleasant to be around and contribute to conversation meaningfully. i'm not a fan of being the guy who has to lead conversation 100% of the time because there aren't wheels turning in her head. even if she's enthusiastic about something I don't care about, she has to have hobbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:29 AM
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you might have been the best he's ever had, that thang can definitely do men under. I was down BAD after I broke it off with the single mom. but as you said, good sex fixes literally nothing and no matter how much we banged it was ultimately a toxic relationship for us both. didn't stop me from wanting that great sex for a while though. still the best I've had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:21 AM
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this here boys is a dunk post, congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:16 AM
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I feel like I've been pretty realistic in my standards and expectations for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:13 AM
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virgin was a good partner and really fun on dates, but an awful lay. I would take the whole relationship back and just be her friend if I knew how not great women were at sex for the first time. lost a great friend in exchange for some of the worst sex I've ever had, or probably will ever have since I'm NOT doing that again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:10 AM
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in what way does the internet make you believe men are having casual sex with women, when the most vocal men, right or wrong, are all saying its a struggle to even find dates
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:04 AM
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"noou, look, I'm just saying, if you clean your ruum, you will feel so much better abooot yourself, and abooot society, theres a certain admiration . . in having the. . . tenacity, to clean, ones own ruum. . . and the impact it has on ones life, it is something . . these young men really need to learn. . . *insert 9 more minutes of literal nonsense that has nothing to do with the topic at hand* . . and that's what i think is wrong with these young men, and society, and I'm all aboot fixing . .. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:02 AM
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I'm a man and I'm gonna say yes YUUUUGE yes Jordan Peterson is just a sad snooze fest, who sounds like Kermit the frog "you need to clean your ruum, bucko!" Joe Rogan is everything wrong with gym bros in one person one makes me want to Kermit myself to a fucking psych ward, and the other one can listen to Degrasse Tyson talk for 5 minutes and the only thing he can muster is "broooo. BROOO, the universe maaaaan"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:57 AM
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yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:52 AM
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oh no he's a walking dildo for these women, what ever will he do. huge LMAO everytim
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:50 AM
1

for all my bad, harsh takes I'm ultimately on target nearly every time. the military gets a bad rap because its part of our school pipeline system but its honestly a good thing for most men and teaches them self worth and gives them the skills they may have missed to be successful in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:21 AM
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I don't think there is an ethical solution and I think it is for the better that men learn how to find value in themselves instead of through the eyes of society at large. I'm also starting to think men should be required to do 2 years of military service straight out of high school to give them a purpose instead of telling them they can do "whatever they want", and then getting lost on the tracks when it turns out that really they meant to do "whichever of these specific jobs that pay well enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:09 PM
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industrially it only has to be as clean as required for the job, anymore is honestly just nitpicking. I don't think homes need to be as schools, and schools don't need to be as clean as hospitals. all a warehouse needs at the end of the shift is a good sweep, anymore is just being stupid knowing its going to get just as dirty by the end of the next shift. I agree women care more about general cleanliness than the majority of men who only seem to have 2 modes "good enough" and "absolute neat-frea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:55 PM
1

cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:51 PM
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It would still only work if essentially all men did it at once, as long as people are playing the game, all women will do is gravitate still to the ones who produce the most or are the most attractive. I'm pretty sure I wont live to see the tipping point when everything starts to get "better". I'm certainly still going to play the game because I like sex and not sleeping alone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:48 AM
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I feel like just this sub is a good example of women trying to prove at every turn how much better they are than men, in addition to what I said before, many female achievements become a talking point and "proof" men aren't really needed. this is type of speak is thankfully still mostly bound to the internet but it comes up often enough when conversation does veer towards gender dynamics. its is mainly the growing want of women to prove that they "don't need a man", even if they societally need …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:44 AM
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none of that is what I said. you saying there are other metrics than personality IS you agreeing with my original statement, which is it's silly to assume a better personality is all these guys need to be be successful. talking to people here is like pulling teeth dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:54 AM
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I thought this was a discussion, I didn't know I had to BE a deep sea welder or high rise construction worker to know those jobs exist and are excessively male dominated. the only job I listed I've done is large event warehousing. I was quite bad at it, almost killed people, decided not to do that. taking the ASVAB tomorrow so we'll see how that goes, I want to be a mechanic. edit: also I know its not a competition between men and women, but do women know that? they seem to be the ones trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:51 AM
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so you understand there are other metrics women use to determine if a guy is worthwhile other than personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:47 AM
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every woman has different standards. ill take that as a roundabout way of you conceding my original point and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:32 AM
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from the 7 billion and growing population? I don't even care to look up how big the number is anymore. I woulda assume we would get the men from the men, currently on the planet. where are you going to get the women who can load artillery shells though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:15 AM
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weird to throw them under the bus, but I didn't date any of those girls. that's not really the point im making either ​ only drops 50%, not too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:13 AM
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I don't really want kids aside from a minor biological twang. so that doesnt apply, I definitely don't want multiple. I have had to do girls' laundry before, while working a full time job (not that I've worked any particularly hard ones in recent years). I do agree it is silly to expect one person to do 5 peoples worth of housework though. >"gender roles will now commence" lmao, I wish. I'm starting to think I'm not as sexist as I think I am, really paying attention to this sub after finally not…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:15 AM
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the point I'm making that others have ALSO made is its a lot more than personality that goes into attraction. you saying just have a better personality is kinda dismissive of the other things women most definitely care about. if my behavior here is any indication I have a kinda shitty personality and yet i still have women interested in me because of a number of other factors, including my height, race fetishism, access to drugs, etc. of course they SAY it's my personality that attracts them but…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:04 AM
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use tinder? I ain't using no tinder, lol. paying for dates really isn't that bad and i'd rather do that and have multiple sex sessions, and potentially someone to show off, than pay a lump sum for a single night with an escort. the only date that really makes me question if its worth it is the fair, but going to a fair with a girl whos even half decent is a pretty good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:55 AM
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if another woman tricks me into a relationship i will continue to my own laundry, and I'm not above doing hers from time to time, its just clothes and it takes so little time out of my day I just can't really see it myself. but women complain about it constantly so I have to believe it to be true even if it doesn't apply to myself. I'd do laundry 100% of the time if it meant I didn't have to wash dishes, I don't know if its a fair trade, but I really hate washing dishes. I guess most guys just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:51 AM
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Hey this person gets it, the issue really isn't men or women, it's the fact that most jobs and careers have been devalued or shipped away to the point the only "real" work is office jobs that provide no real value to society except furthering a single mans bank account. ​ no /s, you are right on the money. for men not born into a family that can help land this type of job its a hard uphill battle to carve out a niche (or several) to be able to provide for ones self. there's no more being a black…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:47 AM
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oh yeah women can do it all man, practically the exact same upper body strength and general tenacity as men. ​ no difference whatsoever, that's why women's bench press starts 30 pounds lighter, is because they are so equal they don't even need to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:23 AM
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ah you dated a fat short balding stay at home etc etc etc etc. guy because you were attracted to his personality. oh yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:18 AM
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why do that when you can dupe women for free (not that id EVER do such a thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:17 AM
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is housework, like hard? that's just a thing I do (albeit minimally) because I don't want my space to look like a tornado lives with me. I really don't believe the men do no housework narrative, even when I was living in a motel with my best friend we did laundry by hand and dishes in a bathroom sink, I can't believe guys are incapable of using a washing machine or dishwasher
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:12 AM
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it goes both ways, while I've seen my fair share of the "you live like this" meme, I've also seen women have some of the nicest rooms I've been in, with hanging lights and a good "feng shui". guys usually have the same amount of "how much does this matter" clutter. men are much better architects, usually, and I think that's attributed to male practicality . ​ men's purpose will always be more stressful and taxing, regardless of if women care at an individual level, at the macro level men's (cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:09 AM
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no because, capitalism still forces those men to work regardless of if they are getting pussy or not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:02 AM
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I sew in current year by hand better than any woman ever could, if only I could get my pedal machine to work again I'd have another fun hobby. the best cooks are men, how many women CLEAN INDUSTRIALLY THOUGH, even most school janitors are men? the issue is that guys can easily do those jobs, women can not easily do the dangerous jobs men do. professional fishing boats? deep sea welding ( my favorite to bring up)? metal ore refinery? warehousing (and not amazon, a real warehouse with 45 foot long…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:01 AM
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nah dude girl power, they will be in the sea welding oil pipelines for sure. I've never seen a female road worker do more than flip the stop//slow sign, but I'm sure they will get around to fixing all the roads just the same without men. and i'm sure that they would be happy to replace the vast majority of standing military that allows their way of life at all, women are the primary victims of war, after all. I would say truckers too but i know a female trucker and she makes good time, i dont kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:50 AM
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"personalities"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:38 AM
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because he likes heterosexual sex? ​ hurr durr
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:33 AM
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you mean the countries the US OF A forced to fail to promote "democro-capitalism" crazy how that is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:30 AM
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literally just fuck women if you cant pump and dump just drop her. only way for happiness with a woman at this point, personally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:27 AM
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always was
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:23 AM
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don't ban my amateur porn please
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:56 PM
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Ah you think Mcdonalds is your ally? You merely adopted the big mac. I was born in it, molded by it. I didn't see the Subway until I was already a man, by then it was nothing to me but tasteless!”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:55 PM
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yes, tik-tok is actually a problem. watching people flip for hours and hours and hours is kinda retarded, especially considering how people view video games. video games at least have a sense of progression and the option for social activity. tik tok is actually just mindless scrolling, its everything wrong with tv on crack
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:53 PM
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I don't want a model tier woman, as long as she isn't insanely overweight and has an ok ass I'm more attracted to behavior than the body. no point dating a model tier woman who is insufferable, no point dating a 10 if her personality is a fucking 2. smart but not argumentative. easy going, has her own hobbies and friends so I don't have to be Cedric the entertainer every fucking night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:51 PM
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no there's a reason the relationship ended, if she didn't want me then she definitely wont want me later. 0% chance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:39 PM
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probably 5'10 180lb if i had to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:35 PM
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damn the projection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:11 PM
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any excuse not to take a paternity test huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:07 PM
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ok good on you but not every girl is a 40 something in a loving, committed relationship. shit happens yo, and I would like to know for certain if a baby is mine, especially if it doesn't look it. take a second, step back. this isn't about YOU, this is about everyone else. try again. I personally do not give a single fuck if you, in particular, are faithful. try again. ​ what about the men who WOULD NOT be happy with the results. which is really what we are talking about here. those situations, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:02 PM
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that's my point - if she's willing to lie and carry another mans baby and pretend its mine so I don't kick her to the curb, what's the point of the relationship. ​ agree or disagree, women do sometimes cheat on their husbands and have kids by other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:51 PM
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I actually kinda liked going to the movies and impressing my girl at the fair. courting only sucks when you don't really like the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:40 PM
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yeah id feel horrible. id more so hope when I find that special someone I'd trust her enough to not need a paternity test. If I'm that unsure the baby is mine the relationship as it were is probably over anyway. but yes haha, men are heartless, I wouldn't even feel bad slam dunk you get 'em girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:38 PM
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because a sexbot cant give me the "look" with those weary eyes, doesnt shake and quiver to my touch, and definitely wont falll asleep peacefully in my arms after watching some shitty late night programming. the few women who've been good to me have been addictively good. ill take the trash out any day for a chance at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:17 PM
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okay but what if she did cheat and now im just supposed to raise this kid that isnt mine? ok bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:14 PM
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does this apply to younger men w/ older woman or do women need extra help as adults
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:43 PM
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men are known for their vast amounts of options in the dating market. yes, simply go find another one, brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:50 AM
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like what even are these argument anymore dude I gotta take a break from this shit Im blowing a fucking gasket
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:39 AM
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even men committing suicide proves how EEEVILLLLL men truly are. women will infinitely try to one up us in victimhood anytime a man has a grievance, its getting really tiring at this point. Why is it SO HARD for women to admit that on the average they have the easier life. if this was pre 1950, sure, its tough, ya'll had nothing, you were property for a long time. That isn't reality anymore girl, grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:27 AM
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you win, I lose. ​ Goodnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:54 AM
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yeah you should go through my history or something, you're putting a lot of words into my mouth over a single sentence you were offended by. I am personally not upset with how women treat me, this has nothing to do with me (you, you you you you you. you . .) honestly, you really aren't even arguing with me at this point but: I am low value, I don't blame women for my unexciting sex life, this is now the 3rd time I've called myself low value on this sub. I've had a single relationship, fucked it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:02 AM
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I HIGHLY recommend EVERYONE on this sub who hasn't, to look through gimpgirl's profile. she's a basket case but I would wife her up no problem. Her husband is lucky as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:14 PM
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the link was already purple, I was like, what dumb meme shit is this, that I've seen it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:52 PM
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I'm sorry I can't type sincerity into my posts, but, really, I'm happy for ANYONE who thinks they've found a good match. My edit was rude and dismissive, and I apologize again, though I wont change it. I believe all of the women in this comment section who said they had trouble dating, and I STILL don't think they have it as bad as men of a similar caliber. I actually do feel bad for women who think (often correctly) men only like them for their bodies. Obviously men and women will treat attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:04 PM
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says biology? kids don't come from nowhere. I don't know her particular situation but if she has 3 kids there was probably at least one man in her life, good or bad. her choosing to not be with said man could have been the greatest choice she ever made in her life, but its still a choice. without knowing the woman personally that's my stance. she also had 24 years to find a man between 21-45
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:31 PM
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sure thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:23 PM
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sorry probably because family name is passed through men in China* what does who passes the family name have to do with countries being conquered?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:30 PM
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if she has 3 kids, she kinda is single by choice, even if it was a good choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:27 PM
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>45 >overweight >3 children >divorced how is that an average woman on the dating market exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:26 PM
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sorry, it was pretty rude. to all the women who think I'm just ignoring their experience, I really do feel for you. I'm happy you found something specifically just tired of seeing the argument brought up men only want pornstars when that's clearly not the case. pretty much all the women who commented found something (yourself included) or are legit happier men don't give them much attention. I'm not telling you to can it because I don't think your experience is real. I'm telling women in general…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:15 PM
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probably because family name is passed through men in most cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:25 PM
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don't try to use biology as an argument. they cant see that men being the "breadwinner" and women being "homemakers" is biological, and laws and traditions of old were made with that in mind who the fuck do you think "hunted" and who do you think "gathered" women weren't going out jogging, looking for animals to kill, I'll tell you that how many stay at home dads do you think there were in ancient Egypt lol. if you point any of this obvious shit out you are sexist now, deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:20 PM
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"no more, 'manage to do damage', no more" - eminem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:13 PM
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i shredded the stats, don't worry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:07 AM
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women usually lie about being perpetually single, they perpetually spin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:02 AM
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completely irrelevant advice that will not help the guys I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:36 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:00 PM
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are you currently single and/or sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:35 PM
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you got the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:32 PM
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you think all a man has to do to get a relationship is fucking introduce himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:46 PM
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having any options is STILL better than no options ill reuse this and touch it up a bit: you have 2 booths, one with a single male and the other with a female accepting date applications 50 atrocious god awful men step into line along with 1 good match. you may have to go through 20 bad options before the guy you want is at the front of line, but he still got there the guys booth only has a Marty robot come up. many men get literally NO female attention. you can argue the %s all you want but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:42 PM
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it is always brought up in response to average men saying they are invisible to women it is almost always used on here to devalue the male experience. "its tough for average men" "nuh uh, its tough for women" ​ we arent upset you are "having a hard time" too we are upset you think that a woman's hard time is in anyway comparable to the men having a hard time on the dating market. the female responses clearly show that: average women get plenty male attention (a couple have said too much) the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:35 PM
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I think everyone thinks they look ugly in pictures because they are used to seeing themselves in a mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:59 AM
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non advice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:58 AM
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nah just being a good friend to a woman who cares for you back isn't actually simping being a good friend to a woman who doesnt give a fuck about you in the hopes she'll drip pussy juice in your eyes is being a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:01 AM
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you and the hubby got a nice savings? are your other jobs also manual labor intensive chainsaw lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:59 AM
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at least you aren't one of the ones stuck in the 50s who thinks having a penis means something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:44 AM
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I'm not gonna keep going just to try to trap you in a hole. not knocking you but the jobs humans do keep getting more and more boring. there's a guy somewhere who just twists the cap on toothpaste all day bro. that's what he has to tell people when they ask him what he does. what type of signs, like traffic signs, or the huge tower signs like fast food chains use
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:42 AM
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god this post was gold
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:30 AM
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yeah I'm friends with "the men out there" the reasons are usually: short not enough money fat not toned enough women just have to not be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:30 AM
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those "pink collar" workers are definitely beating my dollar hand over fist with the same level of education, so I don't know about that. if I wanted to match the ones around here without getting a degree i would have to work the soul crushing 3rd shift warehouse jobs around here. government work or do you work for a contractor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:25 AM
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it was a yes or no question that wouldn't actually require to talk about your sex life, but I respect your choice. >I’m all about equality between the sexes and I don’t necessarily agree that one gender has it more difficult overall. so you believe it is equally as hard to be a woman, as it is to be a man, in current year
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:21 AM
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so they are invisible to you interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:05 AM
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wow its been a while since I've seen a girl so pretty it stopped time (not a joke, good way to put it) so you are happy to not get male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:03 AM
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like in high school? what were the "lesser parts". sorry for the rude question but like, did you only recently lose your virginity. >But I will concede that there are people who get less than I did how hard is it for women to say there are *LOTS of men* who get less than them ​ the people you are talking about, who get way less matches than you, are men. and you probably had a little strategy to your swipes, men have tried just exhausting all likes, trying to read every bio to find soulmates and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:00 AM
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its not about how often they lead to an ltr or marriage, its how often you get the chance to actually interact with the opposite sex. if you have a line of men trying to message you, even if literally all of them are shit, you have a better chance of finding a partner than a guy who gets literally 0 matches. even worse, 1 match in a blue moon and its a bit. ly link you literally said it verbatim: Any decent-looking woman can get matches you cant be "invisible" (like how most men are invisible to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:51 AM
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the intention is to make it seem like you have PLENTY matches, which you did when I was using online dating, deep in the doodoo, I had hinge tinder and bumble. over the course of 6 months I got 2 matches that weren't bots combined, and both only responded once and then ghosted, one on tinder one on hinge. even if a guy would hypothetically find his dream girl with a single match (which is obviously stupid) if he never gets that match, its the same as him needing 1000 matches to find said girl, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:48 AM
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its not a problem, all of the wrong answers are helping prove my point in this case. your name is shygurl so this thread might have seemed like a callout, you get a pass regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:37 AM
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if you have a current boyfriend you aren't invisible to men not only did you get 6 matches, but it only took 6 matches for you to find a decent partner no? men don't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:35 AM
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you can still help. ​ do you notice a marked difference in how men act and treat your average non Stacy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:06 AM
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I'm making this specifically to see if there is a large subset of women who are "just average" that men don't notice. I and most men posit that you pretty much just have to be not overweight to get attention from men. I've heard the argument a few times now men don't see average women, and the reason for rising sexlessness is that all men want is an 8+ Stacy, and will accept nothing less. This comment section is disproving that claim pretty easily
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:04 AM
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as someone who has huge problems with being seen as a threat just because I didn't choose to be born female, in addition to (mostly resolved) body image issues as a teen, it is indeed much privilege. how do men "shit on" you? ​ completely random aside, that obviously isn't how are you doing financially, what type of work do you, about how much does it pay? women also get the privilege of easy jobs tailored for the female experience that pay way more than the physical labor jobs a man with no exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:55 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:45 AM
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he saying when you finally get looksmaxxed you will then find most men unattractive because you'll have choices. once men realize you are pretty their validation wont be special in anyway. you will find all the men you thought to be attractive beneath you and lose good men on your journey for "the one". just my guess though idk what he meant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:55 PM
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so you aren't invisible and men definitely give you attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:51 PM
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if you aren't wanting to be in a relationship, again you aren't invisible I'm asking specifically for 5,6,7 women who claim they get no male attention and WANT a relationship to tell me why they think that is I also thought all you had to be was not ugly and you were pretty much good to go, but she insisted that men simply dont engage with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:23 PM
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aren't you in a relationship currently? that's not invisible you are one of the ones here I actually want to meet in person, even though im not a fan of your redditing (or maybe because). you must be doing something wrong if you keep choosing such awful guys but if you have to sort through men, you aren't invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:11 PM
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you put 4 d's so I assume you are 40+ can you think back to when you were actively trying in the dating market and answer my questions. or give me some insight as to why you think you were invisible to get to this point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:04 PM
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made sense just fine, the important part was if you shared the common race are you entirely dateless? the girl that prompted this said she was a hand holding virgin. you are just barely older than I am, when did you move to the states? enjoying our hell hole? what was the response to your direct proposal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:00 PM
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i'm starting to think this sub is just full of buys and gals who don't want to admit they are average men's complaint is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:53 PM
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sorry I thought I selected everything correctly, thanks for fixing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:50 PM
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do you feel there is anything you could do to change your situation? asking your girlfriends for help, looks maxxing etc do you find the advice you get is just as useless as the advice most guys get?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:42 PM
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how is it not her argument has always been, "if guys aren't getting laid, its because their personalities are shit" okay. . . what about his personality is shit is he too controlling, not masculine enough, too awkward and what about someone personality being shit matters in this scenario "hello ma'am, I saw you from across the way, and wanted to introduce myself . . " "eww, no thanks" thats where most men get stopped, it has nothing to do with personality, fuck off, most women don't even let a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:32 PM
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most women on here's sentiment is "fuck men" in general, as much as they try to deny it I'm sorry your tender experience was awful, I don't use dating apps either, just wondering like, he actually laughed at you or he nervously didn't know how to respond to being propositioned. the one time I got a confession from a girl I thought it was a joke as well, and ended up hurting her feelings by not taking it seriously, but I didn't laugh AT her, like she was a clown for thinking I would date her. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:10 PM
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I see that now, but it still baffles me as thirsty as men are its just hard to imagine0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:56 PM
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especially as a tall black guy, can never be too careful I posted another story here about how I met one of my female friends walking from her boyfriends house back home like a 3 mile walk. I picked her up and the first thing she said was "please don't kill me." Its hard to find love, or positive traits in women, when any attempt to interact with the other gender is met with disbelief and mistrust. I was taught my whole life to be kind and respectful to women, to treat them well, if not better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:04 PM
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rip :( now I feel really bad, I was hoping you would say "no, fuck men" so I could say "okay, no problem then." I wish I had advice to give, but the one relationship I did have was entirely dumb luck. do you use dating apps? do you drop hints to the guys who do interact with you? you might have to do what no woman wants to do and look for a man yourself instead of hoping a good one will drop into your lap. have you ever tried outright letting a guy know you are interested? are you a part of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:47 PM
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does it bother you that you are perpetually single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:25 PM
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honestly around here most 6's have been pump and dumped to the point they cant even trust your love so there's not even a point in trying to date them. the only thing I deal often with is bitchy, most women aren't "golddigging", they just want their partner to be more successful than them financially. "wholesome" 6's don't want the guys here, they also want chad. i could "find" any number of girls, up to the female population, of various personalities and backgrounds, doesn't mean they want to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:17 PM
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sorry , I have to join and ask (again) if you are overweight. If you are amiable, and go out, there is no other way you get NO male attention. it just doesn't add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:52 PM
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most legit nerd women are tomoko
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:47 PM
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literally worked for the government without pay bruh So they chose a dude to lead them and if that guy was good they would dominate the poor fuckers around them and live happily so now instead of random farmers squabbling over who gets the last 40 potatoes, a leader forms a gang and takes all the potatoes from all the people around him and say that they can either serve him or starve. nice. But Bezos was born without the burdens of poverty, in an upper middle class home with 2 loving parents, ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:22 PM
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I think we are talking in circles so let me try to break it down if I'm thinking about divorce, it is in the context of ME getting divorced, SHE leaves me. I'm not worried that we will mutually divorce, or I will leave HER. if I'm getting married, I intend to die with this woman, do anything in my power to keep HER happy. if she's thinking of divorce, in my (admittedly self centered) mind, its in the context of her divorcing me, again SHE leaves ME. She is worried I'm not enough for her and she …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:04 PM
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idk if a girl started bench-pressing me I would get quite aroused. Guys are kinda weird and get sexually aroused by almost everything an attractive woman does* its because we don't share lizard brains, but pretty much any activity performed by an attractive girl will be arousing to men you ever seen the music video for foxtrot uniform charlie kilo? even construction work becomes sexy when a hot girl is doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:33 PM
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the stats are so skewed, its obvious to me if she's thinking about divorce, it's because she's worried she might have to divorce me. if there are risks for both partners and the arrangement is fully equal why do women want marriage (and divorce from those marriages) more than men? im just keeping the joke alive i don't know why but that term kinda cracks me up, i would really hope my partner can do more for me than cook, clean and fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:25 PM
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worrying about winners and losers yeah, like I said too far gone only 70k he evades taxes and is racing into space and you are bootlicking I am fairly young, even if I miracle success into my life, even with so many odds stacked against me, my views wouldn't change and I would use my success to permanently leave this country, if not try to find ways to actively disrupt it. are you perhaps a ~30 year old white man who grew up with both parents in a red state, since we are making assumptions We've…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:18 PM
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you can calculate BMI, I just choose all 6'1 dudes because it makes it easier to compare since we are missing variables like body fat percentage, bone density etc. you are correct though muscle weighs a lot and now that i look myself there isn't much difference in appearance between 165-190 at a low body fat % I assure you that most women don't like skinny guys, and definitely not one who weighs less than them, I don't weigh enough to join the military if that tells you anything. If I was really…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:02 PM
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covid has complicated things and private hospitals have their own systems, but for the most part a patient could whitelist a certain number of people to see him. I think about getting divorced, not divorcing my wife, is the difference. the girl I marry will never have to worry about me initiating a divorce unless she suddenly becomes evil personified. the trade off is having to wait until I feel completely secure in our relationship to marry. I don't plan on leaving the country for work in the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:45 PM
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it was my impression women thought hyper swole lifters were kinda disgusting i'm 6'1 and would reach 25 bmi at 190 (189.5 but whatever)looking kinda like https://myprogresspics.com/progress-pics/3521/6-foot-1-male-18-lbs-muscle-gain-before-and-after-165-lbs-to-183-lbs https://myprogresspics.com/progress-pics/1741/33-lbs-weight-loss-before-and-after-61-male-198-lbs-to-165-lbs on the right is a 6'1 man who got pretty cut and slimmed to 165 at ~22 bmi I would say the fit male body starts to look wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:18 PM
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you can denote your emergency contacts at the hospital, you simply tell them you want to give your s/o the ability to see you in case of emergency, and they add it to your list, but not having to do that saves some time I guess? I would only want to split things 50/50 if we actually contribute evenly, again, I wouldn't mind after 2-3 years marrying a girl if I see she's willing to go even with me for the rest of her life, or better yet, not leave because I lost my job, become disabled etc. if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:52 PM
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its been 2 months and i just realized i never switched my phone back to my actual account, same guy. what does marriage actually give a modern woman though? if I lived together with a girl for 2-3 years (the minimum before I would ever consider marriage) doing husbandly things (fully committed, fix the house, make sure all family vehicles are maintained, running errands and favors that only benefit me because they benefit her) what difference does it make if the law acknowledges our union. If I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:12 PM
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you dont need to be morbidly obese to be unattractive, anything outside of the 18-25 bmi range is never going to ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:55 PM
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ending world hunger, water purification plants, eradicating student debt, more mental health institutions, more funding for k-12 ​ not even getting into the amount of smalls businesses that could open up under their own name instead of subservient to amazon I don't want some pussy socialism, anarchy is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:54 PM
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yeah it seems all the currency and raw materials they need to rebuild keeps showing up at our doorstep huh if only they were more capitalistic, then they wouldn't have so many social problems
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:20 PM
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I didn't ask for Bezos to run the us government, I said solve social ails, which he could absolutely do https://mkorostoff.github.io/1-pixel-wealth/ the graphic helps show how insignificant an amount of money he would lose to solve each problem, and quite a few fit in the box. " . . . rapacious Wall Street raiders who believe people exist to serve markets and that destroying a community or company to make profits is good for everyone long term." textbook capitalism the whole concept shifts the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:14 PM
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its 2/3rds a foot, that like taking 3 bites off a subway sub and trying to fit it. no way anything far past 7 isnt gonna be off putting to a girl who is 5'4". it would be longer than her fucking head
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 10:58 PM
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I'm not going to sit here and explain to all y'all why capitalism is evil, its off topic and if you actually cared you would already be on my side, but its okay bro, laissez-faire the countries I'm talking about still hate America, and their governments didn't "fail naturally" cars and smartphones do not equal a quality life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:47 PM
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I think Bezos actually has enough personal liquid funds to solve every social ailment, capitalism is a scourge to humanity. the richest Americans are trying to rocket into space for R E A S O N S while the general population struggles to even get a foot hold on earth. they can move funds to evade taxes, ruin entire cities economies, and they control the house and senate. Our whole government is a cult of money, and you shouldn't let details like life expectancy and smartphones make you think the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:39 PM
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>without being forced into capitalism by America like I said dawg, wrong sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:25 PM
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did you really call me a drug addict for taking ritalin? you are far too gone, sorry bout that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:24 PM
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I understand, that's why I don't talk to women in public unless queued
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:17 PM
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This isn't the sub for this. I always forget most people are brainwashed by American history curriculum. Not every society actually does need a poor and a rich, it actually seems to cause a lot of problems Todays poverty is still poverty, and todays wealthy are the offspring of yesterdays wealthy, generally speaking. Where has capitalism eliminated poverty? And no, exploiting poverty doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:14 PM
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i think the average person in America actually is fat, statistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:04 PM
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yeah I'm not going to start "having friendly conversation with random women" if they don't want me to talk to them If I complimented a man on his dodge charger, he would probably say "thanks bro, its sick ain't it" (he had a mopar plum charger, true story) if I did the same to a woman she would probably ignore me, reach in her pocket, and lock the doors again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:01 PM
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they get laid though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:54 PM
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I'm pretty sure Billy-Beta is a programmer, or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:49 PM
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where has capitalism eliminated poverty, show it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:43 PM
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yeah I don't want my systems reduced, I want to take a pill in the morning and not have issues with focus during the day. I don't care what your yogi said, she LITERALLY said salad causes autism, and you are defending that. please rethink this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:35 PM
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Idiocracy explains the phenomena pretty well, in its opening scene. essentially stupid people are too dumb to actually do risk analysis and just pump out babies because fucking is cheap entertainment people who have critical thinking skills would weigh those risks and continue to put off offspring, until their life is in working order. but since sperm goes bad and women experience menopause, it may be that they only have 1 child in the time frame a stupid couple had 3-4. ​ edit: I literally repe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:29 PM
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she might have a career in standup legumes dude, legumes GIVE you A U T I S M
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:20 PM
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and because you feel different i should be convinced? edit: fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:37 PM
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because women suck as leaders? because women are weaker than men and such a civilization would have been wiped out by male dominated ones a thousand times over? weve seen matriarchal societies and the ones that made it to now are still in the stone age. how would women have met the needs of the stone age better than men have, to the point humans are a multi billion strong species of primates with nearly double our natural life expectancy as our average. if women were in charge in those days men …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:11 PM
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i agree, fap or pump and dump, no inbetween
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:57 PM
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both. a matriarchy would barely work on a village scale much less national. regardless of the scale corruption in power is inevitable, it doesnt matter if its men or women in charge, what matters is people are in charge, and they are corrupt. if you think women being in charge would have solved our issues in the past instead of keeping us perpetually in the stone age, you would be very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:47 PM
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yeah that's why I posted it, not because you think women would not only make a national government, you think that women are devoid of corruption in power, and imply that the only reason the government is pro-money pro power, is because men designed it. cmon girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:33 PM
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yeah i don't systematically shit on women, i just want a date to go to the arcade and split rent. I literally do not care what men are saying about women, like, at all there is NO viable alternative to feminism women would want because that already is feminism. women keep all of their rights and freedoms from the previous culture, as well as complete entry into male roles, as well as preferential treatment in almost every aspect of life except from individual men who don't like women. men should…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:22 PM
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men bad women good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:44 PM
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for years real life portrayed men as only flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:36 PM
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literally willing to marry the next girl who does that thing I like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:34 PM
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I dont have many options and I know there are (nearly infinite) better options out there guys all agree, waiting is big gey, unless you are waaaaay wayyy waaaay out of my league and even then shes probably making me wait so she can cheat before its official.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:21 PM
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*even higher maintenance these are the types who ask a lot of "what are we?" and "do you still love me?" type questions with a hell of a load behind them if you don't immediately fire off the correct answer. regardless of attractiveness, insecure women in general need HYPER validation, at least 3 more cubic tons of it, compared to your average woman. if shes hot anything you point out that could possibly misconstrued as a fault of hers will either be fixed immediately, or she will interview you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:57 PM
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wait this this is a problem? but i'm broken too? I gotta FIIIIIIIIIX HER
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:45 PM
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the real reason is because society coddles women and has shelters across the nation specifically designed to help them get back on their feet if they somehow manage to fall through the cracks of our gynocentric nation men are discouraged from seeking mental help, mostly by other men sure, but also by women who view you as less of a man for having emotions. since men have no/little in the way of a support network, a single event could completely decimate him (Car repod, evicted, lost job), where …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:37 PM
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i know lots ​ now what
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:27 PM
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Then you realize all men can't be top men. But almost any woman could be average
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:02 PM
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After you aren't in your youth you were still better trained to both understand your biological place in the world as well as given the tools to circumvent it. In men's case, a large amount of media is created to hide how shitty being male is as an adult, if most young boys knew their place in the world they would opt out of society before highschool. Aside from trp mgtow manosphere, women past their youth are still held on a pedestal compared to men of a similar age, (the 30-35 group of men is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:01 PM
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I'm a feminine man and I don't do good with women /Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:10 PM
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how do you cuddle while playing go fish A cruel joke. Obviously I don't. But that would fall into the "if friends or family want to" and it has always been a fun talking point when I told girls that they should pick the movie because I've honestly only seen a handful We don't live close anymore, I was her stay at home maid for a few months because of issues with my guardian. We don't talk much anymore but I know it's because shes bogged with work, we keep in touch on big life events though I'm s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:27 AM
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Vidya is gaming sorry for the stupid lingo. I don't really play that much anymore, just when da boys are grouped up since we can't meet up very often anymore. I don't watch movies intentionally, just when friends or family put something on. Playing go fish is more entertaining, since most movies are painfully predictable after you realize the validity of the "monomyth" The only time I went to a trivia night it was with my sister and we were too busy dominating for me to convert that into a fling…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:04 AM
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My looks aren't the issue here I'm at least above average. I just have no confidence or direction in life ATM. I also only really seem to attract women in what I assume is your age bracket (30-35 "waited until I was 30. . .") My hobbies are very male dominated (mtg, vidya, darts and History trivia) so I don't really meet women in the right setting to ask anyway, always a work related exchange. I do notice when women are attracted to me occasionally but I'm still very much afraid of being intense…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:37 AM
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I really, really do. At the moment my life is only worth living for the hope the world gets better or I do. If I don't even make enough to support my awful habits and live alone I don't really need non platonic love anyway, I need to change. I just post here because it's fun and some of the people are simply ridiculous. This is the second most pleasant exchange I've had here though, so congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:23 AM
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If it's enjoyable even moving a mountain wouldn't be labor. I know what you mean though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:04 AM
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I have to change my whole life to even be worth talking to a dog would be awesome but i want a house and more than 1.2k a month. then I can provide my bangmaid with shelter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:49 AM
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sex is the exact opposite of labor in every sense of the word for me with a woman in my arms the world fades away around us, all the problems and pain gone for just a moment to sate myself with her beauty you saying its labor makes me feel bad for even wanting sex honestly. i mean not enough to not want it, but you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:40 AM
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and the cost for that labor is more than its reciprocation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:30 AM
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constant existential dread ill never find love again says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:16 AM
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no im saying "L" because that was the end of the argument in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:12 AM
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wtf I love giving women head, i have no idea how good i am but im ENTHUSIASTIC about it, its not a chore, at all, I fucking love pussy of all the assumptions to make about me you had to have made the WORST take literally without even looking at you there is a 80% chance i would give you head unreciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:09 AM
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hopefully next life i can be a girl with a dog ​ and it would be good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:54 PM
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sex with men is like training your dog ​ im putting words in your mouth but damn. wish i were in your shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:46 PM
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but how was it labor if you obviously enjoyed it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:38 PM
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How much effort is Enthusiastic sex for you. Without writing cringe erotica the difference between enthusiastic sex and hum drum sex for me is, well, how enthusiastic we are about the encounters. Is it that hard to enjoy sex that you have to act EXTRA hard like you like it to compensate? Please explain this isn't bthe first time I've heard this I want to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:17 PM
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"sex is labor" There is no hope they fucking hate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:12 PM
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If you agree to go on the date that IS mutually deciding to meet, brainlet. I'm a guy who doesn't really mind paying within reason, but you have to understand dudes are already investing their time just to get you to agree to a date God damn abundance of dick has destroyed dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:09 PM
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L
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:04 PM
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I was groomed to hate myself tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:00 PM
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Man back when I was 13 I got my hair braided (tight cornrows) and I lived the getting hit on by old guy nightmare. Cpared to most guys I'm pretty feminine, but I'm flat as a board, I don't even see how he could think I was a girl except for the fact I was wearing skinny jeans and hadn't talked yet. It was in a subway, and a guy in his 50+60s came in behind me and said "you are awfully cute for a black girl" Queue shock I turn around and say "what" in my still prepubescent voice He says "oh" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:53 AM
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Not an issue at all I just wish girls my age have me the same attention. Yes, my longest relationship was about a year or so with a woman in her early 30s I've only slept with her and a ons with the manager of a wings to go Its also a fetish of mine, but I don't think I tried any harder with either of them than I have girls my age. I started the first relationship by legit asking "so when are we gonna bang" in response to our usual flirting pattern (she said no then but called me back the next d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:41 AM
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All older than me, that's about it Like even friend group is 30+ and I'm 22
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:21 AM
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LIZARD BRAIN MUST COOOM
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:46 PM
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Yo, you can't also be a shadowy figure in a frog suit Change it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:14 PM
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Too many steps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:03 PM
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There aren't actually any, it's vague shit like smiling and flipping hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:00 PM
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Idk lilith ARE kids involved? we will say no, maybe later
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:48 PM
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"Missionary only for the expressed purpose of procreation"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:08 PM
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I will 💓
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:00 PM
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His money and status lmao. Marriage is only for tax cuts and divorce rape. Even not married he's still risking his income having a child, regardless of if he stays with you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:23 PM
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Obviously not, try to think about it. Do you actually need a contract to ensure commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:13 PM
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But you could even be married, without being married. Commitment isn't exclusively determined by marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:57 PM
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You can provide for your children without getting married though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:25 PM
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Your money is completely irrelevant to me unless you plan on taking ME out. You can not be Stacy and still have it all, any girl with a decent personality and a feminine form (you don't even have to be skinny, just correct proportions) can pull guys all through their 20s and still get some billy beta in their 30s Men either are hot, and they get actually reciprocated steamy sex in their 20s Or they aren't and the only sex available is from women who need something from you Anything else is dumb …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:20 PM
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The issue is when women do both actually, at the worst possible time, to the point it's obvious how toxic it is. If you spend your entire 20s partying and having children out of wedlock, and suddenly decide you 'need to make a change', and begin trying to appeal to the exact type of men you would have rejected when you weren't devoid of the ability to pair bond, had no kids, had your youth, etc. . . you are EXPLOITING those MEN. Just like you banged those attractive men to feel validated in your…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:37 AM
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He doesn't think that because literally NO women prefer that (not 'literally' but c'mon)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:19 AM
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She simply can't compute an answer that won't make her say, outright, she would never be with a man who doesn't put in 75 to her 25. Women mainly view men as stepping stones to validation, status and comfort, not as partners I'll wait in patience for her 'honest' answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:17 AM
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what does that mean He literally used the word subsidized, use Google to figure out what his sentence means. IF YOUR BOYFRIEND MADE YOU WORK TO HAVE NICE THINGS IN LIFE INSTEAD OF HIM BUY THEM FOR YOU WOULD YOU BE FUCKING HIM
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:12 AM
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Never once from me dog. Take it or leave it but I'm extraordinarily accommodating and truthful to anyone who calls me friend. I wouldn't want to ever become a boy who cried wolf at his own honesty, that's fucking stupid. And if a woman is honest with me, I can actually make a conscious effort to change myself or mend the problem, possibly compromise. Men literally only play "the game" because women make us, please understand we don't actually like lying and dancing just to feel valued by a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:07 AM
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A woman who makes 'as much as you' will most likely think your 'enough' isn't enough. Asking for a prenup has ruined relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 11:58 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:54 PM
1

,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:53 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:53 PM
2

Our only hope Never c**e Only mope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:36 PM
3

Lmao tell us what to do right then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:36 PM
0

The majority of relationships it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:28 PM
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Is it possible for women to argue about money without proving af/bb
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:27 PM
1

Use more soap?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:53 PM
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Nah dude clearly he hates all women because some woman hes trying to talk to tears him down for the umpteenth time and he just rips off. Like women don't abuse other women with 'hateful messages' over "Chads". But I would just say rip and move on personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:07 AM
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A series of 3d chatrooms. Famous for the amount of closeted gay men who found a way to enjoy relationships. Often effeminate gamer dudes use female avatars with or without vocoder to meet with other slightly less effeminate gamer dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:52 PM
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Get off my turf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:37 AM
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See, vr chat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:20 AM
0

I'm black below the mason Dixon line. . . Can I get a 'same'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:33 PM
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I want you to know when rp mean read 'life experience' it auto translates to 'cocks'. So just be ready for that when/if people do reply
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:28 PM
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Then why aren't you still with them? Also, missing the point entirely. I think both fds and waatgm are hilarious content The point is Shorter than average Vs Morbidly obese Being the indicators of "a hard time dating" for the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:54 PM
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Lol, what. I'll only call you a ball and chain if you weigh me down. We aren't saying it's HARD to plan dates and dinners, but it is DRAINING to be the sole provider of entertainment. You have no need to filter, you are married? Did you split the bill with your friend? Would your friend have gotten angry and left you if you DIDN'T plan a dinner? I KNOW I have no idea what it's like to date as a woman. The least you can do is PRETEND you don't know what it's like (to date as a man)and you are in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 06:52 PM
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I'm sure it seems easy and enjoyable when you get all the benefit Yes it happens on my end No, only 3 including, myself I'm sure a girl with 5 orbiters isn't unheard of lol. This just in straight woman hasn't experienced being a woman's meal ticket, I'm sure you have a lot of experience in regards to dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 06:35 PM
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So you want to passively receive free attention and choose who to reciprocate with. Nice really cleared things up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:55 PM
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I love how the response to standards placed on me is always "but men wouldn't date a 300-400 lb chick" Like you are aware at that size they would weigh a third of a horse You have to put something unreasonable to get the same reaction from men as you get from a woman hot on by a <5'9
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:51 PM
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Good shit, keep the dream alive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:16 AM
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She thinks 40 is prime age Are you married now though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:04 AM
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Stop, you are literally confirming it for these guys The whole point is. . . Nevermind Most of the guys on here are in the 20-30 age range, not really looking for older women And the ones who are are definitely fetishists tbh ( myself included 😉). Men in your age range are burned out completely, taken, or players, and if you are one of the untakens you must compromise somewhere or be SOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:44 PM
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Because the.ass.is.phat. Probably I think it's funny these women think all men just want bangmaids(so fun to say). Honestly the girls not that into cleaning and laundry would be more entertaining so we could play rock paper scissors or knock it out together Physical intimacy, the feeling of being wanted, extra body heat in the winter (huge difference), and maybe a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:28 PM
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Lol Nice one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:27 PM
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I've never heard a horse girl get mocked after middle school. Literally what
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:31 PM
1

Napkins aren't reusable. Complete waste of tree, just folded, think paper towels
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:42 AM
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Aàaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:35 AM
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I have a funny story like that too involving handcuffs, a pizza place and a crazy bitch . . .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 10:13 PM
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I miss pillow talk nonsense a lot Falling to sleep in another's arms in bliss like Eden Been better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:33 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:59 PM
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I can understand why you don't understand. After years of being unwanted, you don't really need love anymore. The dating climate is creating more users who realize women don't actually care that much about who their partner is, and more about the status/money they provide. Personally I find it unsatisfying, but not being able to understand how is being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:39 PM
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Are you female?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:12 PM
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If they dated him then they could have gotten commitment. Now he doesn't need them so he doesn't need to give commitment. It's really this simple
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:24 PM
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Lol no. What's the point if there isn't attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:22 PM
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Why are you here, no offense. Dating reddits are pretty toxic, as long as you are taking everything with a grain of salt it should be fine. But a lot of us are already at towel throw in level, most unhappy, got a couple strong marriages (but mostly foreign women). And a bunch of larp. You aren't even an adult, plenty of time Still to build good habits and address insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:29 PM
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I think I'm in a decent spot in all this, personally. I'm not really into the game or seeking random hook ups, I'm looking for a very specific woman and am fine waiting until I can find one who fits the bill Anything casual I get I cherish, but it's not really satiating unless I can go to sleep with her lovingly clinging to my side afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:53 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 03:01 PM
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I think if I had the funds to move I would go be a Somalian pirate at this point. The living in a society thing isn't as awesome as they made it sound We have it here but it's only within counties usually, or greyhounds. On subject I think we both agree that commitment has boundaries but the boundaries we witness are too different due to viewpoint and culture differences that we're coming across poorly to eachother. Agree to disagree, in the most respectful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 02:56 PM
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12 dollars per hour lmao. If I was talking about time I wouldn't have put it in wage notation (the amount you are paid, over the frequency of "payment") I make 1.2k/month which is poverty in the us. I'm honestly baffled you think I make a decent wage, I've been getting shit on for years for being a loser who barely scrapes the poverty line Making that little money is (as evidenced by other posters in this thread) a very reasonable reason to leave someone apparently You not being american actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:22 PM
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This is exhausting, we are arguing nothing still. What did you mean by the first sentence You know 12/h is an amount of money, and not a schedule right. Lmao What about the coma, I mentioned both specifically because some people don't want to be a vegetable. How do you not have 2 cars but both be working, who drives who. I'm gonna say it one more time, and you can agree or disagree with this statement and we will be done "Commitment is doing everything within your power to stay by someone's side…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:44 AM
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Yeah sorry it was a joke. Any porn use is porn addiction as according to a select few women here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:27 AM
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"They are the women IM TALKING ABOUT THOUGH" then we aren't talking about the same thing, good day to you miss He gets a job but it's sub 12/h. He doesn't clean often, but he constantly works and keeps both family cars in good condition He crashes and becomes a vegetable, are you staying? What if it's just a coma and he could wake up at any time, would you stay by him a year Has he said he would leave you for the same reasons? If you are just going to entirely deny that there is a large group of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:18 AM
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lame, if you gonna be a porn addict at least actually be a degenerate fictional fetish or bust (but not really)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:45 PM
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what if I was a HOT broke dead beat loser why don't you get an economic equal, again? if the girl in question is also a sub 15/h wage worker, then she shouldn't be expecting anyone that much more wealthy than her to scoop her up, is all I'm saying. maybe women should also learn to stay in their own lane. . . ​ is all I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:35 PM
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I want a woman I can die for happily I'm using these worse examples because the good ones have already been posted to death, mostly regarding money (also status, health issues,shift in libido, new priorities) I also, Still agree that unconditional commitment is harmful and potentially dangerous but. . . Deciding to be together, having an agreed upon standard for the relationship and an agreement that the relationship can and will end if the standards aren't upheld. This doesn't mean throwing it …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:22 PM
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Bro, aight. I didn't say what he said was healthy either, I said it was closer to commitment than what you are describing. I would rather me and my wife abide by until death, rather than fake commitment. I'm talking about women who have been with a guy for a few months, gets bored and leaves to the next attention Gatling gun until HE runs out of ammo too. The reason for leaving is irrelevant, we are both referring to the garbage logic these girls give as to why they can't find commitment. Neithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:09 PM
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I mean your version of commitment is literally,' I'll commit, until I don't want to". So I think he's closer to the right definition here. Hamsterwheel all you want but if you commitment ends the moment something is wrong with your partner (not like, he's abusive, a murderer, a criminal, but like he's not being assertive enough or some failed shit test where he didn't actually want to pay for your 16$ shrimp plate) then you aren't committed, you are present. Oops
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:27 PM
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And what job is she working. There's a limited number of high paying jobs Not every girl can date A top quality breadwinner. We've been in a pretty long recession at this point Why don't you get an economic equal? To grow together with? Remember those days lmao Trying to sleep your way into a perfect life either way it sounds like Can you even put petrol in my car??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:08 PM
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I'm confused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:46 PM
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https://www.cvs.com/shop/ketologic-keto-meal-replacement-powder-13-oz-prodid-381613?skuid=307757&WT.mc_id=ps_google_pla_307757&cgaa=QWxsb3dHb29nbGVUb0FjY2Vzc0NWU1BhZ2Vz&cid=ps_nut&ds_rl=1270616&gclid=Cj0KCQjw-LOEBhDCARIsABrC0TmUgzq7pub3OdOLeM22zO7pMuRUEzhdFtL1ZI_L7mJ41x-fQliIZz0aAu3pEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:27 PM
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I'm asking what else you could hypothetically do for me other than carry my child. Yes, do you like card games, how about cars? wanna talk to me about card games and/or cars? Do you listen to any full albums or anything, show me some interesting music Are you a history buff at all, ww2 era engineering always fascinated me The point I'm getting at is that a lot of womens only listed qualifying, outstanding trait is just being a woman of her current attractiveness level. Like yes, I'm attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:24 PM
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Personal Attractiveness is hard to gauge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:08 PM
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I don't care about the womb what's behind door number 2
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:04 PM
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Step one to get a successful relationship: stand in various places Step two: luck out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:45 PM
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The womb is a part of your body installed for the sole purpose of incubation. Sacrifice something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:40 PM
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Bro this goes beyond shallow. They are literally excusing child rape because he looks good. Like. . . I can't even argue this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:27 PM
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Go drink a keto shake
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:08 PM
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If you have a child then yes Otherwise, I don't really care why you are single just to DATE
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:00 PM
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God that was cringe. B tier erotica
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:03 PM
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Guys He's just a place Places don't cry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:30 PM
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Being physically close to any woman also makes me incredibly uncomfortable and insecure, the amount of reassurance I need to be physically intimate is quite handicapping. I find it quite hard to read the signs to make a move, and even if I think I see them, I would be more likely to think I'm reading the situation wrong than think she legitimately wants my attention. Huge hurdle to overcome with my last, but eventually she learned to be more vocal, and I became better over time at reading her ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:06 PM
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Check my other posts here. I left my closest partner because I couldn't take care of her and her son the way I wanted to. I took her on dates and went to her family events; we confided in eachother for years before dating. But as our relationship evolved, the closer I got, the more worthless I felt because I couldn't "save" her. At the time I was working barely above minimum, and while I could buy "things" I couldn't secure a life with her. So I left her. Finding out more and more each day that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:41 PM
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Was he a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 03:21 AM
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He can't split the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 03:07 AM
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To be in a relationship obviously 😂. Or search far and wide for a man willing to coddle you as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:12 PM
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I just want to be attractive to women my age. Throughout highschool I was only reciprocated interest by seniors ready to go off to college, excepting my first girlfriend. After highschool the only women I could manage to respond positively were 27 and 32 respectively. Neither worked out because I wasn't ready to be the first girls savior, or the seconds makeshift father. The second in particular left me down bad, but I was who left so I have no one to blame but myself. I want a life partner I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 11:00 AM
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lmao, im sorry, it was a series of awful game references your shoma is your soul, as far as i can tell. the way you typed reminded me of neeko from league of legends who "will keep your shoma alive"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 02:01 AM
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if only it were wished of me to step up. "I DON'T date animals(redditors)"-keira, J:TPL not the attach! attach! thing. if I proteca u from the attachu, will you keep my Shoma alive? im not a reptile but i like reptilia so i think im disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:49 AM
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at all "any" maybe brain fart on the comprehension I want women my own age to like me, as much as women much older than me seem to her post has nothing to do with cougars, she thinks she knows what all men want, when most men just want a good deal why invisibility i needed telepathy pretty bad, if i never had to worry about intentions and being judged (if i know what they are judging i can could change or cope) life would have been a breeeeeze i feel invisible right now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:19 AM
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i just want to be desired at all by women my age, for more than how much money i make a year. maybe I just give off a "cougar chaser" vibe or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:48 AM
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I'm sorry you had to hear that cringe, that hurt to read if I'm saying anything its about her. unless we wind up in a position extremely painful for me somehow. "you've never seen a more lustrous cock in all the cosmos, say it!" mind posting a compilation of the cringiest things guys have said to you during sex, that would be quite amusing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:40 AM
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the singer of In this Moment IS the supreme object of my desire, yes. AE S T H E T I CA L L YD E L E C T A B LE
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:20 AM
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ew? I had no idea women liked awkward porn dialogue if I'm talking how can I hear her pant. I don't think i've ever asked a woman to say a specific line to make my dick harder real g's move in silence like lasagna, baby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:16 AM
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but it affects me personally, what? i can't not internalize it, its been drilled into me. it clearly means something about me if it means i have to be feared, it doesn't matter whos fault it is. kinda serious when I said I try to not even look at women, because its been drilled into me that my mere gaze is objectifying and uncomfortable to half of the human population. really makes my heart feel warm and fuzzy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:52 PM
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i'm glad you prefer math to gossip, gossip is boring, math gets us to the moon yes you are correct, a strict men are aggressive women are nurturing model is not what we have. im saying that is the broad generalization and expectation each sex is connotated and pushed toward in their formative years. if masculinity and femininity weren't a spectrum then we wouldnt have the lgbtq+ community as we know it I also have masculine traits: competitive nature, problem solving etc. as well as feminine one…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:48 PM
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Creepy fucking guys dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:12 PM
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Design as in patterns not blue prints, Designed as in conceived. We are the products of nature. I'm sorry my artsy language is muddying my intent. I didn't say nature had a plan or reason, I said we were designed,created,sculpted by nature But we also end wars, which is also an important part of that statement You might not have got me here. Mens brains want to build and do things, more than it cares about socializing and who they do things with Feminity doesn't mean doing nothing, it traditiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:56 PM
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What do you mean "earn love" What is your natural self. I don't think I'm loved for my natural self, who is very much boring to many women because I'm not aggressive Do you notice the emotional labor we go through either? Being loved will always take effort I should have said "women aren't born seen as threats by most people for the wrong coinflip at conception" Help me out here, I have all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:53 PM
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Evolution is nature's design, I'm not religious, I don't care about what genesis says in my day to day life So many vastly sexually dimorphic animals must have survived for a reason. No I think it should be equal, like yin and yang. I'm very much not strong, but I am decently logical, and I wouldn't want to just be "in charge". The idea is to build a life together, if she naturally follows me then awesome, if not, "why not?" And I'll follow her. Women are more attuned to feelings, social queues …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:44 PM
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Men and women were designed to be together? I'm all for lgbtq+ I don't care what other people are fucking unless it's my potential or current mate. It seems pretty obvious though that penis fits in vagina like most other animals do. Women's qualities are conventionally foil to men's aggressive, determined nature, and without eachothers company for extended periods of time we (men and women) become bitter, detached, and lost. Feel free to disagree but I very much believe that. It's like yin and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:36 PM
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Assuming she started at 14 that's still nearly 2 new dicks a year 30 by 30 definitely isn't normal for men, which is the issue when men and women start comparing post nocks Most of us see women are having a decent bit of sex, while a lot of men are deprived. 100 would be a clinical condition for women, or the actual embodiment of peak male physique and wealth having a smashing showing In college Men want to be loved for being men the same way women are lived just for being women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:06 PM
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That's a pretty bad take from this sub. Most of the men posting here from an rp perspective feel cheated, lonely and unloved, afaict. They are rejected time and time again during their youth by average women with overinflated egos, and expected to settle into a marriage with a woman after they are both in their 30s for "companionship" But women got to have several partners and sexual liberation during that time, while most men just kinda, wait. Women were never meant to be a prize, they are mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:59 PM
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Lol sure you dont
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:48 PM
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Why don't you just like, get those things then? The game is yours to lose, everything is already set up so you barely have to put in effort, just ask a guy you like out? I also want companionship and commitment but me asking for either is looked down upon, by both sexes. I definitely don't want to be hugged by a random woman, I would most definitely sperg out and assume she's trying to entrap me somehow I absolutely do not want to be anywhere near a strange woman without multiple eye witnesses p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:36 PM
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The only men who think they are entitled to good people are hyper betas who have had their sexuality(and sex) mocked and trampled their whole lives. Women on the other hand ACTUALLY ARE RAISED to believe they deserve a nice house, great husband, great car, great kids, great life, great job, a diamond ring and a personal bodyguard for literally having a vagina. Having a "good" life takes legitimate effort for all but the most privileged men, having to work your way up with everyone not liking you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:24 PM
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I see, my apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:30 PM
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It's pretty fucking nasty, but it's just cum on a jacket. Idk if it's ptsd worthy but I guess anything can be, and I just can't relate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:13 PM
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She got cum on her jacket
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 09:57 AM
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That Isn't What I Asked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 11:30 AM
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That's not what I asked but okay. If you DIDN'T WANT PIZZA would he still order the pizza or ask what you want. You said the latter in so many words to try not to say what I thought, which is he accommodates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 11:06 AM
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Aaaaaaaaaah The disingenuity is scalding. So if you said "no I don't want pizza tonight" he would say "well I want it so it's pizza time bitch" or "oh, do you have something in mind?" This isn't a hard concept to play out and understand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 10:55 AM
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You wanted data to back up women having more purchasing power, since you think it's because men don't buy groceries If there are more women than men then even being that most of them were on poverty wage (they aren't) they would have more total buying power than men. Ommiting bezos and musk ofc. Just because you don't live the trope doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It goes from what to eat to what car to buy. If a man wants something but his wife says "no I want this" the outcome is usually some v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 10:46 AM
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Have you bought a car yet? How did that situation go? How about your house? Essentially, the reasoning behind women controlling the household income is that men are expected (reasonably) to review large family purchases with his wife. However, at the end of the day, the man will most usually settle for the closest thing he can afford to meet her standards even if he had something much better in mind for "himself" Grown ass men don't just "buy" a prius, unprovoked. If my girl said she wanted an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 10:16 AM
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You know those annoying crossfitters biking on major highways for hours just to meet up for coffee with other "young, bright, progressive" minds? Usually higher class than the surrounding area, these people move (usually from the north) using dad's money, usually to go to schools If you live in NC, the unc campus is largely occupied by yuppies I don't know if it's actually how the word came about, but I picture a "yankee guppy".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 10:05 AM
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Easily would have been female with choice, The option to have almost no skills, personality, belongings/capital or he'll have literally nothing Just a fembot who walks and says yes and no when prompted, has a better chance of finding both short and long term partners, and if you get a long term partner with enough money, commitment and strength the rest of your life can pretty much autopilot. AND I would still have the option to be a breadwinner if I wanted As a man you just have to be successfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:21 PM
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I only said condoms, but I meant protection in general, including vasectomy, tube-tie or abortion if necessary Please don't create more single mothers and fatherless children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:41 AM
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It's the norm so it must be good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:33 PM
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Lol ok bootlicker
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 03:19 AM
1

Actually this reply made my day, in a weird way. No, my breaking up with her didn't have a positive effect. I was really hoping she would get back with the baby daddy, honestly. I truly believed that even though I could relate to the kid, I couldn't see myself becoming a great father figure. I had even met the guy, and he expressed genuine resolve in making the kids life better, but it wasn't until later I learned he only tolerated her because they had a kid together. She has another child, stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:48 PM
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All career paths in 2021 are shit, or require you to take on massive debt. Some people don't have the option to go to college straight out of k-12 The economy is just awful, but you make a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:45 AM
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I'm going to just say, while I think people should be more careful about procreation in general. 475/month is completely unsustainable by a low income worker. For many men child support is the ultimate brake shoes, and easily deletes half of their savable income within a month. But on that note, please remember to wear condoms until you can afford a child with someone. Because you do owe her 475/month
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:38 AM
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That's not what I'm saying at all but okay. I'm clearly talking about the women who feign interest in return for favors, very much outside of a committed relationship between us My last girl was the exact "toxic" single mom the manosphere shuns and I loved her with all of my heart. I (20 y/o att) would buy her anything she asked for, would drive her to pick up her kid (who was 14 and definitely not mine), go to the doctor, court, funerals, you name it, I was there for her. I left her because I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:38 AM
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Having your "back blown out" is another way of saying "fucked, well,(from behind)"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 12:05 PM
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Stopped at the first sentence. I want everyone to live happy comfortable, healthy, lives as a baseline. Health and mental well-being should be critical problems for us to address. We don't actually need to produce a ford f 150 every 10 minutes (I have no idea the production scale of ford motor corporation, this is probably lowballed) or a new iphone model every year. LIBERALS DONT want Communism, they are equally as brainwashed on the subject as you seem to be (picture box say Communism bad aroo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 03:41 AM
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As much as I like traditional values and honor systems, conservative culture is mostly bootlicking and enabling the capatilist machine. I abhor both political fronts in america because they are ultimately a co conspiring group of ruling class and "influencers" who's bickering is publicized to make the Public feel like they know what's happening. The liberals use identity politics to derail any sensible discussion, and destroy common sense approaches to most problems. conservatives use the bible …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 01:11 AM
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I would more so say they have sex they half enjoy, to get things. I think most women are normal or whatever, as the law of averages would have me think, but the seductress trope certainly stemmed from somewhere, seen in literature almost as old as the bible This isn't a deep red pill idea. This is normie talk show shit Women absolutely have sex they don't enjoy for: Money Class Promotions Shelter Favors Commitment That's, like, how I get the majority of my sex, by trading tangible benefit for in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:01 AM
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If you think most women have sex SOLELY because they want to, and expect no benefit, you are horribly misguided You may be an exception, but ignoring the rule doesn't really get us anywhere. Women use sex or the promise of to get anything from free rides to promotions, and saying that doesn't happen because you have sex for enjoyment doesn't erase reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:31 PM
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Lmao ok. Sure dude. Very agreeable subreddit I too, must be extraordinarily agreeable and self sacrificing, if fds is the image of people pleasing. But I do want to be worshipped. . . Unwrapping lollipop You son of a bitch, I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:45 PM
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They tried being likeable and bettering themselves and it didn't work. I expect to see a cabal of man haters who gather under a false flag, and am satisfied everytime I visit the sub. The few women who actually are based (in reality, and by the meme definition) are literally banned. It's not chasing men to make yourself a better person, you should just WANT to be a better person right? I want to go on the sub and see actual dating strategy and not "look what this scrote said haha. . . where's my…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:55 PM
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What's the focus of the sub? Edit: of the focus was on women, why are most posts about men If the idea is to put yourself first, why is SELF improvement RARELY doscussed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:27 PM
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If it's insurmountable it's not a choice àaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa How can you have such a wrong take A lot of things can happen that aren't choosen by the person "Sexless"? Do you deny there are sexless men? Glandular problems, defects etc, that aren't chosen that can lead to sexlessness as well Short guys?? A lot of things in life aren't changeable by choice alone, and many people just ride the waves of their life. But I'm admittedly a low-life, so we'll say your valid just to not continue thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:26 PM
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Then why don't they ever post on those topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:01 PM
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Will she worship me back?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:58 PM
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ÀaaaaaaaaaaaaaaAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah Men don't chooooooose aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah Honestly, how can you have such a bad take?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:57 PM
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She literally said to hit up fuck buddies so you don't have to fuck him. So she's definitely cool with me still fucking around, while we figure out if she "wants a committed relationship" "A friends only lead up period" As said above, rage inducing, cringe worthy The fact that you try so hard to rationalize a very obvious double standard, literally in the first type line, shows the harm of fds "make him wait," not "dangle the possibility of sex in his face and torture him." She actually said "ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:49 PM
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The "manosphere" is hard conservative for some reason, just ignore the random political circle jerks Surprised this only had -1 tbh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 12:44 PM
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but uber toxic drunk sex is the best. /s i feel this but i think i almost actively search it out for some reason im obsessed with fixing broken lives and people on some deeper level, and the thought i could take one of these depressive drunkards and transform her into a housewife gives me butterflies. similar to you though it never happens, i just get some sloppy sexums and an awkward ride to her house
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:10 AM
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Aight lol. Doesn't really prove anything other than hypothesis on a lifestyle, outside of huge injuries. "Highly mobile" "stayed in the highlands" I mean you can infer what you want, but I'm sure the gender roles of prehistoric animals were not very set in stone, and would mostly adhere to mating, and establishing leaders in their nomad tribes. I'm no archeologist though, and it says ".org" so it must be accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:27 PM
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Lol what. Do you think spiders have egalitarian gender roles? Most sexually reproductive animals are sexually dimorphic Humans are also those things. there probably wasn't a male proptosapian who said "unga, 'not-men-man' weak. wesa strunk, we bonk da AROOS, and protect da not-men-man's." But through further evolution and our societal tendencies, we embraced the dimorphism, just like most animals do If there weren't "gender roles" it would most likely be because men and women were identical, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:39 PM
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have to agree with the flapper, i was not great with dental hygiene growing up and it massively effects my appearance/confidence in my mind. keeping your mouth hair and face clean, and body odor down, makes you infinitely more attractive than the version of you who doesn't do those things proper grooming is for everyone and does make you hotter edit: since comedy is now how we teach thingshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GlKL_EpnSp8
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 04:50 PM
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I do and still disagree, is there something wrong with having humanly attainable standards? Your answer is yes, then, because it WAS a yes or no question (at least positive or negative). Do you want to be settled for, or do you not. "Everyone settles" isn't an answer, because first as you mentioned it's wrong (as many all statements end up being) because there are people with "low standards" (reasonable?). And it isn't positively or negatively describing your stance on the subject. If you are on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:50 PM
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"Everyone settles except those people who don't" yeah END THREAD Talking to you is more painful than slamming my head through drywall Stay safe girly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:17 PM
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I asked a yes or no question, and you still replied not yes or no, lol, that's the real redflag, inability to follow simple instruction. I don't give a fuck what some random comedian with a guitar thinks, as I said, I heard the song, now what? What I'm saying is that settling down with someone, and settling for someone are nuanced ways to look at almost the same thing, and one sounds much better If you would just say "yes dreysun, I would like to be settled for", this conversation would be over.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:58 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 10:42 PM
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You mean more money right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 10:14 PM
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So you do want to be settled for, and are fine knowing you aren't anywhere near your man's preferred female. Seems pretty lame, I'll stay on the good path, and hold out for a truer love than that You still dodged my question btw, the answer should be a boolean statement. I also don't think everyone settles, settling down with someone, and settling for someone are different and I think there are plenty of couples who think they e found a decent match If they aren't your ideal partner, why would y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:50 PM
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Who is stanley. Do you want to be settled for? Since you dodged my question
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:55 PM
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I never claimed to be interested in a family myself. I said in another thread also responding to you I believe "I just want some suck and 2 incomes" If that works out then we can squeeze in the family plan later. I don't want the responsibility of a child, but see clearly that society favours couples. I am quite willing to build a life with someone, and understand as I get older the harder it is to find someone who isn't already entrenched in a slough of problems. But I'm not just a wallet or di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:20 PM
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Believee when I say I will happily continue to fuck 5s in my beater hyundai until I find one that wants something more than my status I want a wife not a leech
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 12:15 PM
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I just said it's normal Alot of people settle I dont think that means that men do or should like it Bo "After sex I like women to be like my mailbox, outside my house" burnham Nice a comedian made a song about settling because a lot of people settle and it's relatable. Now what
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 11:49 AM
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I can't wait to pay for that loving family, infinitely more arousing than actual arousal. I'm an actual man, here to tell you, AGAIN, that men do NOT want to be settled for. Even the guys who are like "mm, yes kween, I'm happy to have even gotten a crumb of your later years" Lying through their teeth I'm also aware most people realistically are settling. Tell me lilith, would you find it attractive if you were settled for, your bf/lover tells you "just wanted you to know you weren't my 1 2 3 4 o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 11:39 AM
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I've been saying this forever. Sure, I know a bunch of random factoids and had high test scores. But if I was stupid at least I could think my average test scores actually meant anything If I was stupid I would probably still be a good Christian boy without a care in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:56 AM
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If you want to look at it like that but the police department can issue special expidited gun permits upon request. North Carolina, this is at least true Call me a dirty little liar but I would still check with your american police department to see if they can help you out. It's not hard to get a gun permit as a female anyway. I'm saying that there are special waivers for self defense firearms that you can ask law enforcement for if you are somehow unqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:02 PM
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Nah I just want some suck and 2 incomes. Most (true) incels do not crave casual sex, they are upset they are denied pretty much any sex. We want to not have to jump through extra hoops in the already hoop jumping process that is modern dating. "Chad" isn't a boogeyman, he's a real, statistically proven archetype of man. The 80/20 rule is pretty accurate, and applies to a lot more than dating. I hate to say not all men, but feeling "unquestionably masculine" is the literal last thing on my agenda…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:19 AM
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Not literally no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 07:18 PM
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It's not an official program, you essentially make a plea for an expidited home carry waiver. It's mainly for elderly felons but I think if you make a good enough case you can get it. Many ranges offer women's only lessons and women's nights, at a cheaper cost than regular lessons (required to apply for a permit) I don't know if there are actually women's gun permits, but the nra is happy to give them to women, one way or another
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:44 PM
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I'm sorry for you as well, I guess. Learn a martial art or take self defense classes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:28 PM
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I'm not giving it to YOU in particular. I'm saying 'you' colloquially. I'm giving this advice to anyone " who is legitimately afraid of being mollywomped by a neanderthal"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 01:11 PM
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I addressed those I'm sorry your country is shitty, they all are. Take a self defense class, or learn a martial art. You may not be able to take on excessively strong people, but could easily learn how to rock the shit of any average guy with bad intent And yeah, it'd be pretty nice if people were nice, but they aren't and we can both agree that you need a plan in case of bad actors. I'll edit my comment to be a little more helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:54 AM
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I mean that's the idea, I feel pretty safe myself, the knife is for good measure and splitting wraps. I'm sorry you don't feel safe, but I offered the only advice I really could. "If I ain't got a glock I'm bout to pick up a rock" If you feel legitimately unsafe then any weapon would be better than none as to give you a chance. If the situation became "this guy is trying to beat/rape/kill me" it would be better to have a weapon and a chance than just have it happen. If he's set out to abuse you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:26 AM
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I said a weapon in general, a gun is just the best option for a lone female to protect herself against a would be attacker. I work at an express lube and every other girl has some weird object they use as a club under their seat, or a gun in their glovebox I don't really know any other solution to give unless you want to get swole, miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 10:30 AM
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Who can't drive a car? These are really bad examples of things for a dad to teach Drive it Buy new ones Push splash "DAD!" I actually did have to teach one of my female friends in highschool how to ride a bike Take that shit to da Block Am I dad material
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 10:14 AM
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Sorry, bro. You can't have weapons on trains concealed in you country? you should take that up with your shitty government. I'm sorry I've never been a girl on public transportation, so i can't really relate. Did you ever try to tell a station officer what was going on? Again, I don't know about your country, but law enforcement will work with you if you tell them what's goin on before hand. Hopefully nothing happened to you after that, stay safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 10:03 AM
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Women can get special gun permits it's actually ridiculous how easy it is. Local law enforcement can recommend an expedited gun permit for people who NEED one for defense, this goes to my elder felons as well, the sheriff can still "hand you a gun" And yes, you should carry a weapon(in any country allowing it) if you are scared of getting mollywomped by a mutton welding neanderthal when you go out. I'm a bit more sure of myself in a combat scenario but probably not by much, I carry a pocket knif…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 09:47 AM
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Yeah, I'm aware, you did it first I thought this was larping
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 09:20 AM
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Maybe they should
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:09 AM
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or, and hear me out here really tough one to grasp how about, "yes."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 08:10 PM
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a) my dad is a renaissance man and my mom died when i was 7, black male in north carolina surprisingly has been bullied before. b) all but divorce and incarceration c) of course, that would be the trend d) i have a single close friend, and my aunt, who was my legal guardian e) i dont want to make this about race so ill skip it with an overall "no" f) no it would probably directly ruin my already failing mental health, actually g) only the one woman was an obstacle in my life, and getting past th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:28 PM
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1, a little longer than a year, ruined dating entirely for me. negative, i find it hard to maintain close friendships in general and have a single best friend, and many, many acquaintances. my sister(older) and i arent close anymore, but she let me crash at her place for about half a year, and she knows i would do anything i could to help her out, i have 3 other sisters but from my dads past relationship, and they all hate me, oops. my sister never really rode the carousel, much like me, she was…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:52 PM
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the hardest my dick has ever been, is when i pole vault out of my bed, she could be a solid -1/30 and be at the right place at the wrong time. seriously though, if shes actually trying to be attractive (the voice, intimate contact, a vibe of want) she would have to be severely over weight or deformed to fail to seduce me given we are already in a bed together. on a 1-10 ill say that you would have to legit be 2-1 to be unable to get me aroused in anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:26 PM
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And how do I litmus test "intelligence", exactly? Just go back to OLD and swipe right if she says she's intelligent? How about women In general be more receptive to unattractive nerds, instead of labeling them as low value, creeps, etc. Just because they aren't an 8+ on the tingle scale Most of these guys you are talking about are either so spineless they wouldn't cold approach, and the ones who are able to are most likely so jaded from past experiences that there's no difference between the 2 g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:08 PM
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