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| 13 | This is why you should always have your own money. Men can be very scary. | I AM A GARBAGE | DrippingWetPeach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:07 PM |
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| 43 | Very yikes. They actually do think that not being a monster entitles them to everything.They are empathetically devoid animals that can't control themselves... Personally, I wouldn't go so far as to say that. I just think that men sometimes think women are these one-dimensional objects. That we don't have active negative urges, or sexual ones. That we can only receive violence or sex and not actively participate in it. Or have urges to do so. We do have them. We are just conditioned to not act on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 171 | Very yikes. They actually do think that not being a monster entitles them to everything.What men don't understand is that women practice restraint too. If I wanted to, there would be a lot less men around. And yet... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:00 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them?Instant break up material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 19 | If he wanted to, he would!Happy birthday 🎂 I'm hope you enjoy your day. I'm glad you at least rid yourself of a toxic person❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:04 AM |
| 106 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?I do, but preferably to a woman. A man is plan C, generally speaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 11:42 PM |
| 7 | My date before vs. after FDS + vettingHappy for you. Keep vetting! I'm rooting for you🤞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 14 | reminder. none of us like this. but...(if you are serious about wanting a relationship with a quality man) you HAVE to meet a lot of men 🤢. finding hvm involves luck. if you go on as many dates as possible 😢you will increase your bleak, terrible odds.Have fun! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:51 AM |
| 19 | Very weird pre-date invite condition/terms given. Thoughts? Anyone else come across this before?Code for fucking on the first date. Block and delete. He already gave you a hint in the first message by suggesting drinks. Good luck out there😉💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:55 AM |
| 10 | I don't feel shame when I look in the mirror anymoreThis is so sweet. I am so happy for you💞 I love women💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Responses to drink datesI just politely declined someone! Yay! Thanks for the encouragement. I am so proud of you! I actually get a sinking/disappointed feeling when a guy suggests "getting to know each other over a drink". Even before learning about this subreddit. Trust your intuition! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | On how lundy bancroft ruined cinema for me, in a good way.Santa Clarita Diet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Responses to drink datesEither decline politely and block or simply block. Good luck out there 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 06:28 PM |
| 10 | What age range should I be dating in?It is between 2 years older and 4 years younger for me. So I date 21 to 27 usually. It is my preference, there isn't really a rule I adhere to. I just mostly think men in those age ranges are most beautiful to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 4 | Men will say crap like “Marriage is something serious and needs to be done after more time has passed”…Honestly I also never understood those types of women who had kids with their bfs. Even before FDS. You are willing to commit to someone by having his child (who is most likely going to be named after him, because of how laws around surnames work), while he's not willing to commit to you? Any pregnancy that may develop inside me outside of a marriage is getting aborted. I'm not even telling him. My health insurance covers it anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:00 AM |
| 5 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.Honestly, next time just block. Men like that are not worth a reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:45 PM |
| 92 | I have never met a HVM in the context of dating… how common is this?I have, actually. Not dated, just roommates or friends. I think it might be location related, idk. HVM do exist and they do treat women differently than non-HVM. When I tell them about how I've been treated by some men, they are shocked and it is actually because of them that my standards are so high. The main filter for me has been without a doubt, porn and/or politics. I do want to mention though, it is more than okay to be alone in a romantic sense. Men are the oppressor class in patriarchal … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:10 AM |
| 156 | (UK) NVM throws acid in the face of a woman. These past weeks have just been filled with gender based violence. Stay safe ladies.People like this should lose their professional licenses. Like, if you are using acid to cause bodily harm, how are you qualified to practice medicine, a discipline where having empathy is important? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:11 PM |
| 115 | The first page of this book: The Gift of Fear by Gavin de BeckerIt is interesting that Why Does He Do That? similarly has a male author, who has a similar chapter in his book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:14 AM |
| 64 | "Young men without hope, without a path, without anything meaningful to strive for become dangerous to the societies around them."Just mentioning that there is some truth to the statement. Choice or not, women have been able to pass on their genes more often than men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:53 AM |
| 151 | "Young men without hope, without a path, without anything meaningful to strive for become dangerous to the societies around them."More women than men have contributed to the gene pool of humanity since the first modern humans walked out of Africa around 70,000 years ago, according to a study. Though the laws of biology state that male and female DNA should contribute roughly equally to the next generation, they are silent on how many of each sex must be involved in the business. Researchers in Germany found that throughout human history, mothers have regularly outnumbered fathers, meaning that more women have passed on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:17 AM |
| 163 | Ladies, please stay safe! This was couple of days before the British incel Jake took lives from people.Yet, do they call women emotional. This is what kills me. The word "hysterical" is partly derived from the Greek word for uterus. Yet it fits men so much better. Men live in patriarchal societies, yet still commit the most violent crimes. Like what does it take for men to behave civilly and rationally? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:44 PM |
| 356 | Ladies, please stay safe! This was couple of days before the British incel Jake took lives from people.Men can never make up their minds. The amount of men who have told me to smile in public and now this guy killing women because they're "looked happy". It's interesting that the guy mentions that the murderer wasn't getting any matches and got his feelings hurt. Like if that was me, I would just delete the app. Mantrums, smdh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 386 | Confused pickmeishas on social mediaMen will try to divide women over the smallest things, it's insane. Like, it's just fake nails, sis. It's not that deep. It says absolutely nothing about her sensuality whatsoever. Also notice that the one that is most inconvenient to the woman, is the one getting praised. Some men will want to you to aspire to a type of hyperfemininity that is difficult, painful, time consuming and expensive to maintain for mens pleasure with you only getting their worthless attention/validation for it in retur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:54 AM |
| 14 | He proposed on our 1st anniversary. Success story!Happy anniversary and happy engagement🥳🥳 Hope you had a great time! Your ring looks gorgeous 😍 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 13 | Tonight…Cheers, your dinner sounds delicious 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 02:59 AM |
| 25 | Don't be afraid to get that ring!That's amazing! You're an inspiration💖 I also really like your nails💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:37 AM |
| 9 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.They're sweet and sticky. Very delicious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 17 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Omg, stopppp, I'm hungry now😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 08:34 AM |
| 43 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Cashews and dates🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 07:56 AM |
| 38 | Chrystul Kizer, sex trafficking victim accused of killing alleged 34 year old abuser when she was 17, wins appealFinally, some good fucking news. I hope she has bright future ahead.💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:21 PM |
| 59 | A guy that I'm seeing sent this to me in good humor #niceforwhat?Cute! I'm rooting for you💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 08:46 AM |
| 12 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.The last few are feminist ones, BTW ❤️ Also as a bisexual woman, I love the one with the women kissing. I want that as a poster💙💜💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 08:31 AM |
| 240 | A guy that I'm seeing sent this to me in good humor #niceforwhat?Love men that can take a joke at the expense of men/patriarchy. Hope he turns out to be nice💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 08:27 AM |
| 5 | Got myself some roses 🌹 🥰They look so unique. I wouldn't think that orange roses would look odd, but they actually look amazing! Happy Valentines Day 💕💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:33 AM |
| 5 | HAPPY VALENTINES DAY QUEENS!! I got my first vday gift ever! I would give each of you a flower 💞I'm so happy for you💖 I hope you enjoy it 😘🌺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Being low maintenance just doesn't work.Don't travel for a man. Let him come to you. Otherwise you get situations like this 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:33 AM |
| 3 | i have no words , i can’t believe she’s trying to not hurt his feelings about his hygiene when he doesn’t even wipe his butt ??? and this is a man she’s probably having s*x with ... all the possible bacterial infections he could give her . She needs to leave ASAPAgain: candidate for r/BOBeau. I am so glad I'm into women as well. At least we shower🚿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:19 AM |
| 147 | Just another day on r/dating 😳😳This idea of 'Giving men a chance' needs to die. You're allowed to set your standards as high as you want. Also: nerdy guys are no less misogynistic than other guys. There are nerdy guys worth dating, but nerdy guys like this who think their degree/intelligence makes them something are not worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:21 AM |
| 139 | Actress Margaret Qualley caught conspicuously making out with Shia LaDouche after he was sued for abusing FKA Twigs and giving her an STD. Pick Mes Need Psychological Help.A book to read for those who are interested in how these traitors to their sex think: Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them. I tend to excuse behavior from young women, women who are bad at picking up red flags or those who simply don't know their men long enough. However, Shia and how he treated FKA Twigs has been all over the news. No excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:55 AM |
| 148 | That's why you vet, vet, vetLove her for that correction. 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 8 | NVM digs through wife's computer, gets upset that she existed before himDon't share your dating history with men, ladies. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:45 PM |
| 9 | 44yo GROWN ASS adult CRIES over GFs sexual past. This is sending me 😂Never tell men about your sexual past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Feel like a hypocrite sometimes ...If you want to know how to help her, I think Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft has a section on what to do. I don't remember what it was exactly, but that book is a must-read anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 11 | FDS for women loving women?r/lesbiandatingstrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 12:04 PM |
| 14 | FDS for women loving women?r/lesbiandatingstrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 12:03 PM |
| 12 | Imagine being such a pickme that you flex that you post your nudes for free and hating on girls who wanna get paidImagine not understanding and having compassion for your fellow women who do what is commonly referred to as "survival sex work", simply because you have the privilige to do it for validation only. The nerve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:11 PM |
| 84 | 👑Right? So gorgeous! I love women. We look good in everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 132 | 👑So pretty! Who/What is in this picture? She is beautiful. I want to have her veil! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 7 | What is your opinion on this?Conservative/religious women are by definition pickmes, because what woman would follow a religion/ideology in which she is inferior or has her freedom/agency reduced/taken away? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 86 | He thought I would take the last line as a complimentNever trust a man that badmouths other women as a whole. The way he feels about women will eventually reflect how he will treat you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 10:48 AM |
| 45 | Girl's fiance stales and spends their entire savings to buy a gaming pc, plays with it all day ignoring her, house chores and his work from home. People in comments "how are you going to trust him with money again?"She needs to get to a small claims court to get her share of the $8000 (!!!) back and needs to find a new place to live ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Might be jumping the gun, but this is a really good sign of genuine interest in me as a person!I hope it works out. I'm rooting for you💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:19 PM |
| 18 | Apparently I'm "anti-feminist" now 🤧😒In men's eyes, women are never allowed boundries, unless those boundries were set for her by a man. Good for you, standing your ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 44 | A note on women-only spaces/subreddits:It's why I always tell women to start their own companies and to try and become financially independent so they can retire early. You can focus on yourself instead of focusing on a company that will never value you. Look at r/financialindependence and r/personalfinance, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | LVM alert!Again: r/BOBeau. Men are terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Dude is upset that his girlfriends wants him to pay his fair share of the bills because she makes more money than him.Her first mistake was dating someone who doesn't earn at least as much as she does, her second was moving in with him without being married. The first will make him resent her, the second will make him take her for granted (especially if she does more household chores than him). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 26 | Unreal Pickmeisha / LVM comboThis is the type of woman who would look the other way if her SO ever touched their kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | She is to pityIt's actually kind of sad that she has to go through such extremes to get her BF/husband to spend time with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 42 | My dad reminded me why I need to vet men even harder than I ever did beforeOne of the worst things as a woman, is having been raised by a bad man. It makes it hard to ever look at men the same way again. I'm so sorry your mom is going through this. You are a sweet daughter for taking care of her and I hope she's better soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:24 PM |
| 9 | Pathetic m*le cries when girlfriend refuses to have sex with him because he hadn't showered in MONTHS and offered to 'use more febreeze'Collection of male SO's tormenting their female partners with their unhygenic selfs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:08 AM |
| 22 | Pathetic m*le cries when girlfriend refuses to have sex with him because he hadn't showered in MONTHS and offered to 'use more febreeze'I will link this sub till the end of time it seems: r/BOBeau. Why is it such a common thing for men to neglect their hygiene, while women are physically micro-managed by society to the point of developing complexes that last untill they're senior citizens? We need to start bullying unhygienic men, imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠r/BOBeau | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 09:45 AM |
| 26 | My BF wanted me to feel powerful, healthy and valued, so he decided to help me without me knowing it.That's so cute! I'm very happy for you😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:41 PM |
| 34 | What in the hell? "These hoes ain't loyal", my ass! LVM ain't sh*t.Propaganda and gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | A 30 something comes to a harsh realization,starting to realize it may be too late for love// Basically men jerking of a crying woman that she cant find her love.In her later video she introduce her new boyfirend,men in the comments still attacking and harassing herOmg, they're cute😶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 36 | Husband is sexually attracted to teenage babysitter and is jealous of his own son for having her attention. “My husband hates our neighbour’s daughter (16F) playing with our son (7M)”Wow, the woman is making a lot of excuses for her husband. Throw them both away. I feel for the teenager though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:26 PM |
| 48 | I literally posted a book about myself on another dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.He's like 15 years your senior. That alone should be a dealbreaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 09:34 AM |
| 49 | Used to date much younger men. Hvm will judge?Keep your past relationships to yourself. Keep it vague and short if he asks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:54 PM |
| 46 | This is a good comeback for all the creeps that say age is just a numberMurder is just an action. (Kill all pedo's and rapists 😘). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | I finally decided to post after lurking on this sub for the past few days. Am I being a pick - me?Men who are MRA's are legit dangerous. Leave him. Do you genuinely think that if you wanted an abortion, he would be there for you? Or that if you ran a household he would pull his weight? Or if you were to have a child with him that he would pull his weight? Or that he would plan ahead and make sure you and your child(ren), would be taken care of in case anything ever happend to him? Or that he would keep you in mind when making big decisions/plans? If you were to ever split up, would he pay hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Husband is upset that his wife had a double mastectomy due to breast cancer, is masturbating to big-breast porn, and is pushing her to have breast implant surgery DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE IS NOT IN REMISSIONAlso a bisexual: I second this sentiment. Goddess, I'm glad I'm into women too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 13 | How LVM show appreciation to their gfs on social media nowadaysEW. Girl, take your child and go. (Btw, she looks gorgeous. I am bisexual and I wish was with a girl that beautiful. I wish I had a girl, period, but still.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?I mean female solidarity over male ego, right? Let her know and block him. Also, I'm very happy that you are engaged and happy! Congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:10 PM |
| 18 | Do we just say anything now to get men to like us?Right? Omg. Bootlickers of all bootlickers.😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 07:25 PM |
| 125 | Do we just say anything now to get men to like us?I don't understand conservative women like this. No one is stopping you from not voting. If you don't like feminists, stop making use of the rights they gave you then. Practice what you preach or stfu. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Holistic health guru killed inside Manhattan wine shop by her fiancee after dumping him (trigger warning ⚠️)Omg, this is tragic. 💔I hope her family gets justice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:59 PM |
| 85 | Wtf is this guy spewing? We were having a nice intellectual conversation until he started going off this tangent. (he also supports Jordan Peterson) I only talked to him longer than I should because he’s anti-porn and anti-sex work. He also compared revenge porn to an aunt not liking her toasterIt is literally called REVENGE porn. You know, so they can get REVENGE. How is it a gift? There is a reason most revenge acts are illegal. Is he braindead? As an aside, remember a while back a girl reacting to the whole 'Men are less petty and more logical than women' and all I remember from her response was: 'Men? The revenge-porn-gender?' and now everytime I think of men, I think of that frase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.Good luck, hope he is what you're looking for💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Times Up Joe BidenMods, please sticky this! It's gross and needs to be seen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:38 AM |
| 5 | I have HAD it with people telling women with FILTHY partners that it’s because they’re not trying hard enough to TeLl hIm So. What man’s filthy ass problem isn’t a woman’s responsibility to fix?? Throw the whole man away.r/BOBeau | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?I'd like to bring your attention to r/BObeau | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 06:45 AM |
| 23 | Figures a male in his 20s would fight with me on this. (a post about this womans LVM's ex being scared to even drop his car off, get her stuff, and him constantly shit talking her at every chance)This is actually something that Lundy Bancroft points out in Why Does He Do That : If he only ever talks badly about his exes, he most likely is an abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Someone posts time lapse of plant perking up after being watered. Man comments to compare it to...his dick? Do they think about anything else?I love plants. Do you have a link to the plant gif? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:27 AM |
| 5 | My ex is dating my best friend and crushing us both emotionally.There is actually a part of a chapter in the book 'Why Does He Do That' by Lundy Bancroft about men who don't commit and who pit the women they sleep with against each other. Stop talking about him and move on. Let your friend make her mistake. If she is smart, she will figure it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 05:20 AM |
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