DrissDeu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Stuck? Just stop focusing on women I've tried lots of drugs, even actual cocaine and porn is by far the one that has the more addiction potential for me. If I just have a session I'd have to restrain myself or force myself to go outside or otherwise I'll start a binge. So basically I cannot live with porn in my life. I'm glad you can balance that out	/r/seduction	05/08/22 09:02 AM
17	Stuck? Just stop focusing on women If I weren't horny I truly could live without a partner. I love women as friends, I hate them as a couple lol. And living without porn doesn't help as it makes you extremely horny but having porn in your life is like visual cocaine so it's no option either 😓	/r/seduction	05/08/22 02:04 AM
1	I am in madrid for 8 days starting today, whats better tinder or cold approaching? You never to that lmao	/r/seduction	13/07/22 02:55 PM
1	I am in madrid for 8 days starting today, whats better tinder or cold approaching? Don't use tinder much, it's pretty much fucked up everywhere on earth apart from Asia lol	/r/seduction	12/07/22 07:14 PM
1	I am in madrid for 8 days starting today, whats better tinder or cold approaching? Idk man Europe in general is more conservative when it comes to talking to strangers. Even though Spain seems chill af, as a Spaniard our politics are a shitshow rn and feminism is pretty much a thing here, so you might seem as a creep talking to random people, specially women. You have the guiri (white foreigner/tourist) card but there's so many tourists already that I don't know if that would work out. Also, Spaniards are pretty bad at languages, so don't expect them to talk in English. I'd re…	/r/seduction	12/07/22 07:12 PM
2	What to talk about on a date? "I find behaviour in people fascinating, we think we're so advanced and smart yet we're reduced to monkeys in the appropriate contexts. Dudes trying to impress girls and girls trying to look hot not saying anything, same goes with peacocks in their mate dances or baboons being really agressive because of testosterone. What do you think?" "Oh so you have lived abroad? What's a culture shock of being back?" "Wow those tattoos are amazing. Do they have an inner meaning?" "By your accent I think you…	/r/seduction	03/07/22 02:17 AM
1	What to talk about on a date? Hope that's for a club date or otherwise I'm not built for girls lol, I would never ask that I would get bored to death	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:51 AM
11	What to talk about on a date? I actually find these kind of questions incredibly boring, as well as shallow and over simplistic. Not that I want to shame your convo style but I'd prefer asking something more tailored to the person once you've broken the ice. No need to straight away ask something, just express yourself as you would normally do or listen what she says and explore some the concepts she's referring to.	/r/seduction	02/07/22 08:09 AM
48	Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend? I was in a club in Spain last week and I got for the first time the "ew" type of rejection. Rejection didn't bother me that much before but now, being humiliated by an average girl just because I expressed I wanted to dance with her made me really apathetic to make an effort to pick up girls lol. The fuck I already work and feel exhausted but I also have to spend a lot of time and effort hoping that a girl will finally "give me a chance"? Fuck that I'm out of this. Take advantage that you're a w…	/r/seduction	04/03/22 12:53 AM
3	Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet. For me it's almost every time. Not gonna lie, I'm sweeter than sexual.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 02:55 PM
27	Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet. Brilliant post, I also wanted to write something along the lines before. When you're alone and sad, it's easy to daydream in almost a toxic way, like going to the gym just to make girls chase you, or become a fuckboy/player just to fuck 500 girls and not ever contact them again (and making some of them sad in the process). Once I found my ideal one, all of the aforementioned shit became pointless. You discover that it's better to have sex with someone you love than hooking up with 100 random gir…	/r/seduction	19/10/21 01:17 AM
2	[deleted by user] Yikes.	/r/seduction	29/09/21 02:39 PM
1	Is my energy off? So fucking true. I'm so tired of the same answers again and again on this sub, almost all saying "it's your fault, change this or that". Don't get me wrong we have to aspire to be the best version of ourselves, but not in the context of getting a girl. Life's more than that.	/r/seduction	26/09/21 09:46 PM
19	If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way. For me, I assume you're constantly checking your social media or spend way too much time building the perfect life online whereas irl you're incredibly basic apart from your looks. Of course it's a warped vision, but sometimes it really is like this.	/r/seduction	18/09/21 03:34 AM
3	[deleted by user] Don't be so hard on yourself man, we all have been there and I think it is a vital experience as a man. From now on you will never ever simp again.	/r/seduction	12/09/21 04:05 PM
1	How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night? I'd say neither chemistry nor making contact at the start of the party is that important. It's true that it makes the chase a hell of a lot more enjoyable and easier, but in the end you just gamble. As someone said, "it's kinda random". So in order to gamble you just have to escalate and try to be smooth and that's it. Per example, last time I was aiming for a chick I haven't seen in a while, so I'm there making her laugh and getting to know each other well and all that stuff. At the peak of the…	/r/seduction	01/08/21 05:05 AM
4	Does she spark something in you, or are you trying to force chemistry for your own validation? Your level of authentic attraction is also crucial for success Now you made me scared as fuck. My gf lives in another continent and I'm soon to move out, though I'll never live in her city, I'd just visit her for a week and that's it. The thing is, everything was great at the start but my attraction towards her faded out pretty quickly (now I feel we just don't have a true chemistry), so whenever I'm turned on or I'm jerking off, if I think of her I'll lose the boner. I just can't imagine her sexually anymore and I'm not sure if I'll be able to satisfy her …	/r/seduction	23/07/21 03:00 PM
1	How I Solved My Failing Situation With Pretty Women And Trying To Find Someone Who Has Done The Same Better yet: start living your life as the protagonist, and not like a secondary character. People sometimes hope that things will eventually fall into place over time, when in reality you have to take action, begin to accept that you're the one that has to act in order to get something and not the other way around. Once you have accumulated a good amount of experiences, skills and muscle, things get so much easier and it just feels like all these weird and exciting things that are happening spon…	/r/seduction	13/06/21 03:59 PM
1	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? Don't worry man, you will eventually find someone that values you as a whole and not only as a fuckable piece of meat. Lemme tell you a story. A couple of months ago I (19 yo) was pretty angry and depressed. I had worked so hard on myself to be the best version of my persona, only to find no one to share my accomplishments. Being a virgin, I just wanted to get laid. I was pretty sure that I'd be dying without a relationship in the end. But suddenly I reconnected with someone I haven't met for mo…	/r/seduction	12/05/21 12:54 AM
9	What you say when people ask you if you have a girlfriend? Then work hard on yourself till their comments switch to "wow that's impossible, you're so attractive and interesting!"	/r/seduction	02/05/21 02:10 PM
68	Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it. Yeah I feel this. I've improved a lot from where I was a year ago cause I had started analyzing in what I was lacking as a man and what I was doing wrong. Needless to say, I've had some encounters in where I felt I did everything right, I also felt sexual tension, I had a great time and still, I later found out that the chick wasn't interested. Or the time that I invited this girl to hang out twice on different ocassions and she forgot each time, but nowadays she still messages me a lot even tho…	/r/seduction	31/03/21 11:43 PM
7	The game is simple.. try to get rejected I know dude. I did all my best helping a couple of them with some tests, giving them a couple of exercises that we had as homework and so on. And even though I "talk" and exchange memes with some and I have got some reputation within the class, nobody there is truly a friend. Every time that they have planned a party, I don't get invited, and then I get the same reply over and over again: "that can't be bro you'll come with us next time, be sure". I'm not trying to give you excuses, it's just th…	/r/seduction	25/03/21 04:58 PM
25	The game is simple.. try to get rejected As the new guy in school, it sucks on a whole new level. I'm actually getting depressed due to isolation.	/r/seduction	25/03/21 02:10 PM
1	You attract what you are. If you play validation games, you will attract other people who play games. Ich hab gedacht dass du Deutscher bist wegen der Übersetzung lol. Jedenfalls Respekt bro. Wie findest du das Dating-Market in DE?	/r/seduction	13/03/21 02:45 AM
5	Things you can do to become more attractive Idk why but this is also on point. I used to be so low energy and people kinda felt that. Sometimes I still struggle with it. But nowadays with sport and a good mindset you usually seem a lot more content and joyful and people love (both men and women) seeing someone who seems enjoy life even in the downs, and ultimately it also bumps your confidence that things will normally work out. Fake it till you make it baby.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 12:48 PM
28	Rule: if she flakes, she's out Sadly lots of young adults don't act like adults. :):	/r/seduction	16/01/21 02:56 AM
2	Pivotal Reminder: You're Taking Her Too Seriously Not necessarily though. I have been lifting for the past 4/5 months and I started only for the girls. Now when you start seeing some improvement and how your body keeps on looking better by every week, those priorities shift as well as your confidence increases. Nowadays I do it 65% as a reminder that I can change and I will and 35% for the girls.	/r/seduction	13/12/20 03:20 PM
3	Absolutely deserved it DU KLEINER PRÄCHTIGE HURENSOHN!!	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/11/20 05:03 PM
7	You guys got it all wrong Gotta agree with that. Our society has morphed the internet into this hypernormalisation where looks and fake reality (where everything is perfect) are all that matter. Yeah you could argue that it's a numbers game and you will eventually find someone who wants to spend time with you, but based on my experience, if you have standards, most of the time you won't pursue that opportunity. So instead of blaming how our society and reality works (even though it's important) we just have to accept and…	/r/seduction	21/10/20 03:20 AM
1	The most common mistakes guys make in the field I've been in this situation and there could be three main problems. 1)You fail to escalate. You might be super funny, interesting, charismatic and all, but if you don't make things clear and if you forget to let her know every now and then with your body language and the way you look at her, it would not work. You should get good at being quiet and maintaining a certain posture in those precise moments. Those are vital. So next time there's a moment of silence take them as a chance. But also, so…	/r/seduction	07/07/20 04:03 PM
2	Notice good looking women are nicer to guys who look similar, anyone else? Maybe 'cause white privilege (? Considering that specially in Southeast Asia and India the popularity of whitening skin products has risen a lot in the last couple of decades, it's no wonder that these countries see white people as more beautiful and even superior than even themselves. There are lots of factors about why this phenomena happens, but the point is that maybe you have no privilege with dating in a western country, but rather on Asia.	/r/seduction	24/06/20 04:38 AM