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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Picked up & hooked up with a woman sitting behind me at restaurant.If the socializing is that bad, what you'll need is a dating coach & more approaches with people out in public. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 3 | No bs answer - how can I become a player?That numbers game aka cold approach method certainly isn't for everyone. If you fear rejection or if your ego gets shit on, then yeah it's certainly Not something you should do. Aside from that, the initial user gave solid advice. | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyActually if you've got the finances, a dating coach might be what you're looking for. I'd recommend that instead of therapy like how other redditors mentioned, generic therapy talk isn't really going to help in this situation. Understanding and solving childhood trauma in therapy, sure that can be done but Flirting, seduction or inner game work has to come from a dating coach who've usually done thousands of cold approaches in person to understand how or where you go wrong in seduction. | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 04:10 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallySo basically, we've got to just sit around doing nothing and one day that one person will somehow magically fall into our laps from the sky? Yeah right... Sounds like some make believe nonsense. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?I started with 5 approaches a day for 30 days to build it as a habit. I don't have fear of rejection or ego, but the issues I noticed: # Spotlight effect: Feeling like everyone around is watching you approach, especially in crowded areas. # Excuse avalanche: Your brain will find a dozen reasons. She looks busy, wearing headphones, bad weather, walking too fast, not my type and such. # Social conditioning: A lot of guys are raised to think approaching strangers is bothering them which keeps you s… | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Meeting girls at a conventionNeither. I went on all the apps and I don't get shit back except some trans/strange individual 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 03:08 AM |
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