Drive-By-Cuckers Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Single life is great		Drive-By-Cuckers	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 02:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What pill info do you agree with the most? Take the nuance pill. Lots of men are shitty and shallow and lots of women are shitty and shallow (for dealing with these people redpill and sometimes blackpill makes the most sense) For most people however, a healthy mix of the blue and red pill is best. You are NOT perfect as you are like the blue pill states, but you also won’t be happy in a relationship where you’re acting like someone else to be attractive to your partner. You have to work on yourself in a lot of ways to get a healthy relat…	/r/AllPillDebate	29/07/23 12:07 PM
1	Is there anyone here who was blackpilled who has been helped by therapy? It’s worth it if you believe in it and have mental illness (some people who aren’t mentally ill can benefit too especially if they have childhood trauma or are simply going through a traumatic experience like the death of a friend or family member or the loss of relationships/friendships) It’s not worth it if you don’t want to change your mindset or behaviors. Then you’ll just be paying for someone to challenge your beliefs while you actively resist, and you’ll be left feeling exhausted and anno…	/r/AllPillDebate	29/07/23 12:02 PM
1	You think women will try to understand? In my experience (I’m a man) the people I know who have had sex with prostitutes have also had sex prior to that that they didn’t need to pay for. It’s just that they were horny and drunk and wanted sex but they had failed to get it that night or just saw it as too much effort to try. Typically the latter, I know a few people who have had girlfriends before but just don’t see women as good for anything other than sex (and see sex as inherently transactional because they think them talking to a w…	/r/AllPillDebate	29/07/23 11:57 AM
2	CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it. The quality of everyone has gone down… 1/3 of people between 18-34 live with their parents. That wasn’t the case 70 years ago. Most of the problems are economic, but also men seem more likely to be giving up and just becoming NEETs so then even within the “lives with their parents crowd” they’re not good enough to get a date	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 04:16 PM
3	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity I mean crying on the first date about your parents is definitely a red flag regardless of gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 04:12 PM
3	Most attractive men know they are attractive, and the whole “you’re probably not as good looking as you think you are” nonsense is just a deflection and shaming tactic to once again divert attention from reality The ones I know are matched pretty well. It’s the chronically single people living the hookup culture lifestyle that primarily have unrealistic standards Which for both men and women often comes from people going out, getting wasted, and settling for people they wouldn’t sleep with sober, causing said people (and other people who see this) to have inflated senses of self. Ie: “well if he was willing to sleep with HER, then obviously he would want to pursue a relationship with me because I’m bett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 08:13 PM
0	What % of women don’t care about height? Yeah lol men are on average 5 inches taller than women at least in America. She’s already right around her percentile height wise, and people think she’s shallow because this one woman whom they don’t know has anecdotally said that she wants to date someone taller than her and that makes her off the table for some people 5’8 is taller than 90% of women The same dudes who complain about height gaps like that will say they don’t want to settle for anyone below what they perceive to be their exact …	/r/AllPillDebate	14/07/23 12:46 AM
1	The Jonah Hill texts seem to split people very passionately down ideological lines. What are some other specific examples in news/history/fictional media where a person's reaction serves as a great litmus tests for romantic compatibility? Lots of people, the mainstream media has reported on him before People still read news articles	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 12:44 AM
1	The importance of having a deep voice as a man is severely underrated Idk most male pop stars have weirdly high voices compared to the average man, only some genres like some styles of country, rap, and rock music often have people with very masculine deep voices I think it’s because higher pitched voices are non threatening to both men and women so they do well with both genders People like Bruno Mars, Justin Bieber, and Maroon 5 were like every teenage girls fantasy for years	/r/AllPillDebate	10/07/23 06:23 PM
1	Post I made about incels that gets censored off other subreddits Dude literally every theory of child development posits that positive interactions with the outside world are beneficial and that negative ones are not No psychologist thinks it’s going to make your kid better adjusted if you abuse them and their peers hate them and honestly any person who thinks that shouldn’t be allowed to have kids Freud’s theory (pretty stupid) focuses heavily on sexual milestones, erikson’s is a little more general and focuses on social dynamics in general, other theories l…	/r/AllPillDebate	10/07/23 06:02 PM
1	Mixed sex schools causes inceldom. Their abuse? None of the studies cited that as a reason for the difference It could just as easily be that the boys are distracted by the girls because their biology drives them to want them, which has nothing to do with any malicious intent on girls’ part	/r/AllPillDebate	08/07/23 11:19 PM
1	Are average guys really “struggling”? I mean you’re literally describing my favorite influencer kingkobrajfs but go off	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 08:04 PM
1	Mixed sex schools causes inceldom. But the study showed that it didn’t have an effect on household level outcomes. It literally says that in the study about boys financial outcomes And if men already earn more than women then further increasing that gap (when it doesn’t effect household income) is bad for single and lesbian women and benefits all men (but especially gay men) in terms of household income So why would it be good to make women poorer and men richer? You just want women to be more reliant on men economically? And wou…	/r/AllPillDebate	08/07/23 04:24 PM
1	Mixed sex schools causes inceldom. If we don’t have the budget to invest in kids confidence more (which would benefit everyone) then we also don’t have the budget to segregate all the schools by gender (which would only benefit some people and impact other people in negative ways) I’m just saying if we have money to spend on education reform it’s better off getting spent on things other than segregating schools by gender because there are a lot of issues in the school system that would only have positive effects and no negative o…	/r/AllPillDebate	08/07/23 03:03 PM
-1	Mixed sex schools causes inceldom. Most people could be able to date in high school. Also the top mixed gender prep schools are on par with the top single sex prep schools in terms of educational success and workplace outcomes after high school so clearly the problem is how the schools are being run and not the genders being mixed If schools invested in making every kid feel confident then they could do that they just don’t give a fuck about it because the school system is poorly run	/r/AllPillDebate	08/07/23 02:20 PM
1	Mixed sex schools causes inceldom. I mean cool but if it doesn’t effect household level outcomes it doesn’t really matter on a societal scale That means the average couple has the same wealth regardless And if it would significantly hurt female workplace performance and positively effect male performance I don’t think that is necessarily good. It would have a neutral impact on society as a whole but cost a bunch of money so in the end it would just be a waste of money. There’s no reason we should be spending extra money on it if …	/r/AllPillDebate	08/07/23 02:16 PM
-2	Mixed sex schools causes inceldom. It is still sheltering them from dating and relationships Kids should explore relationships in high school because that helps them become more mature and learn how to date	/r/AllPillDebate	08/07/23 01:37 PM
-3	Mixed sex schools causes inceldom. That’s just a recipe for disaster, they won’t know how to talk to each other or what the dynamics between men and women are other than from what they see on tv which is often not a good representation Also sheltered kids tend to fuck up when they first get to college, they don’t know their limits and have never had freedom from their parents so they stay out all night drinking and have never had to take care of themselves so they end up making mistakes It would be the same with dating if kids we…	/r/AllPillDebate	08/07/23 01:25 PM
-2	Mixed sex schools causes inceldom. Lmao thinking less mixed gender socialization will cause better gender relations is delusional All of this can be solved by holding kids accountable for their actions, which schools don’t seem to do anymore	/r/AllPillDebate	08/07/23 01:10 PM
0	There is some amount of "truth" in every pill- and it's backed by science Oh my god it’s almost like there are different world views and different world views are conducive to different people in different situations	/r/AllPillDebate	07/07/23 03:26 PM
0	Why do people deny the Black Pill? Growth hormone causes growth, there’s a reason doctors prescribe them when you’re not growing and they do make a difference Working out causes additional growth hormone production. I don’t know what more proof you want	/r/AllPillDebate	07/07/23 03:04 AM
0	Why do people deny the Black Pill? That’s literally wrong Exercising causes increased testosterone production and facilitates growth https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8614759/#:~:text=Exercise%20can%20facilitate%20statural%20growth,GH)%20and%20other%20anabolic%20hormones.	/r/AllPillDebate	07/07/23 01:15 AM
2	Any man actively TRYING to have a son is committing child abuse. I mean it’s not abuse but like it’s weird when people obsess over the gender of their kids like goddamn if you’ve squeezed out three sons and haven’t had a daughter yet then idk maybe adopt one You don’t get to pick how your kid comes out and if you care about it to the point where you throw a fit over having the wrong gender kid then you’re probably not mature enough to have a kid in general because you’ll be too controlling. God forbid the kid comes out with a disability, if you would’ve resen…	/r/AllPillDebate	06/07/23 01:38 PM
1	Men are absolutely stupid when it comes to red flags. I feel like 90% of gen z fuckboys have the exact same story They fall in love with a girl in high school, they get their heart broken after a short-medium length relationship, they go to college and reinvent themselves as a party animal, then they try to skew with as many people as possible because they think it will make them feel better, then they treat women poorly because they actually still resent that girl who made them feel inadequate and are ultimately afraid of commitment because they k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 01:34 PM
0	Why do people deny the Black Pill? Lmao the jocks in high school definitely worked out, that’s why they were athletic. If you have twins and you have one of them work out every day starting when they’re young with running and then have them start lifting when they’re almost around puberty age they’ll end up taller and with broader shoulders than their identical twin Yes genetics are important, but epigenetics are a thing too, within your lifetime, your body decides to activate or suppress certain genes based on the amount of vari…	/r/AllPillDebate	06/07/23 01:08 PM
4	What leverage do you hold in your relationship No it’s emotional abuse to cheat on your wife and threaten to leave her if she doesn’t adhere to your standards	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 08:00 PM
1	What leverage do you hold in your relationship Damn bro you’re a complete sociopath, you’re out here speaking your truth like you’re revealing some grand realization to the masses but in reality you’re just Dennis explaining the DENNIS system to the gang Yes if you emotionally manipulate people and do not care about their emotional well-being or happiness you are able to extract the maximum possible value from your relationship with them Why stop there? Why not just take her on a boat and she won’t say no because of the implication? Why not …	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 06:04 PM
-1	Blackpillers of this sub, how do you explain the anomalys which definetly exist in dating where a „not attractive“ dude is doing well with women? Yeah I mean some people just have IT, whatever it is and they can magically disarm people and put them at ease People call it a lot of things, charisma, it factor, big dick energy, etc. but there are some people who just happen to have way better social skills than everyone else to the point where comparing them to the average person is like comparing an average person’s social skills to those of someone on the autism spectrum	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 05:50 PM
-2	Blackpillers of this sub, how do you explain the anomalys which definetly exist in dating where a „not attractive“ dude is doing well with women? Yeah I mean personality actually does matter. Lots of male celebrities are 4-7/10, they don’t become sex symbols but people watch them because they’re funny and charismatic Those qualities will make some people want to be around you and be interested in you and you can build a connection with them if you’re not significantly below their level of attractiveness	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 05:43 PM
2	Asking a woman for relationship or dating advice is like asking a fish how to catch a fish. You people? I only ever give genuine advice I can’t speak for other men Women also give bad faith advice to try and separate people who they’re interested in so they can have a chance. 50% of people are below average in moral reasoning skills regardless of gender, 50% of people are below average intelligence. When you put that together, 25% of people are stupid and good, 25% are stupid and evil, 25% are evil and smart, and that only leaves 25% of people who are going to give you good advice.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 03:00 PM
2	The Price for Women's Sexual Liberation is a Broken Economy and a Dysfunctional, Dangerous Society. Lmao failing at life to prove a point to women isn’t going to help The collapse of the dating world is a symptom of the larger collapse of communities and upheaval of the social order. Everyone’s value was way more defined before, not by law, but by culture. Now culture is more or less globalized because of the internet and social media and everyone is compared with everyone Think about it like pre free trade economies vs free trade economies. Before global trade businesses competed with other l…	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 02:31 PM
3	recent GSS data about singleness among young men and women, it is showing far different results from the pew one. Honestly makes sense, the 30% gap was way too big and inexplicable, this article quotes a new study that showed a ten% gap between men and women (18-29) in relationships with ~50% of women and ~60% of men having no steady relationship. This effect is probably caused by a subset of women dating up in age (average age gap is two years) so it can be assumed that a good portion of women who are 28 and 29 would have partners outside the age range of the study. And it may also be caused by women being…	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 02:25 PM
0	Women invade men's spaces and sexualize themselves immediately Lmao I started gaming again when i finished my finals and moved out of college for the summer and I don’t think I’ve encountered any women in voice chat but maybe it’s just cause of the games I play	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 02:12 PM
1	Asking a woman for relationship or dating advice is like asking a fish how to catch a fish. I don’t think most women follow mens’ advice when dating to begin with It’s kind of strange to ask someone how to date as your gender when they’ve never done that, obviously it’s going to be different for men and women and even though this subreddit is probably not a good representation of the general populace, I think we can see the vast majority of people don’t really understand what it’s like to navigate life as the other sex in any meaningful capacity	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 01:51 PM
1	Why do women cry wolf about beauty standards when most of them end up partnered? That actually would explain a lot… I think other studies have shown gay men tend to have more partners on average than lesbian women so if lgbt people were sampled at a high rate, it would make sense that the data showed fewer men in self defined relationships Obviously there could also be a separate effect but the data would definitely be skewed if that were the case	/r/AllPillDebate	05/07/23 01:47 PM
2	Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking. I don’t think that should be considered boasting, in both cases they’re lying because they’re self conscious about their body count. it’s just that for men they’re self conscious it’s too low and for women they’re more often self conscious that it’s too high because those are the expectations society sets	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 07:38 PM
1	Making women feel safe around you is apparently the biggest factor in attraction? Feeling safe from the guy they’re seeing isn’t what they mean when they say that (obviously that’s important too) but they want to feel like you could keep them safe from external factors as well A bunny is safe but it isn’t going to protect you walking home at night. It also isn’t going to be able to support you if you lose your job or get pregnant. Most people want security and safety when it comes to long term relationships, physical safety is no different. I think it’s more so so the appeara…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 01:24 PM
2	Bluepillers telling autistics to "socalize more" and to "be fun to be around" need to check their privilege. Yeah I have a feeling a lot of the people who say they’re autistic online anonymously are self diagnosed or just don’t know many other autistic people One of my good friends is autistic and loves being the center of attention at all times and sees himself as the life of the party. He’s around other people pretty much all the time (me and him are roommates with 9 other people) and is in the army reserves Obviously not all autistic people are extroverted but I think for a lot of people introversio…	/r/AllPillDebate	04/07/23 12:01 PM
2	"Just Have a Good Personality Bro!"--Stories and Thoughts Honestly I think not knowing about your autism for a long time hindered your ability to develop and you probably could’ve been even more successful from a younger age had they told you and tried to help you with therapists and socialization It definitely goes to show that although being neurodivergent can make a lot of things harder, that there are always ways to improve your life and be happier. So many people use their neuro divergence as an excuse to not work on themselves and overcome hardsh…	/r/AllPillDebate	03/07/23 03:03 PM
1	Male Behavior Is Often Just As Bad As Female Behavior. I think also women just skew left politically and are on non-anonymous social media more and thus will repost more articles about civil rights, protests, and minority groups on accounts with their name and face so it gives an illusion that women have this sense of solidarity with tons of groups when in reality I think it’s more of a surface level virtue signaling for a good portion of people Whereas for men, who are less active on the non-anonymous social medias and more active on things like Re…	/r/AllPillDebate	03/07/23 02:54 PM
1	I really don't see any incentive for man to contribute to society that doesn't care. Because having a shrinking population is bad because you need growth for the young to keep the old alive But once the larger generation dies you will have an abundance of resources and more young than old people rather than a lack of resources and more old people So eventually populations will grow again but first they have to shrink	/r/AllPillDebate	01/07/23 04:09 PM
1	I really don't see any incentive for man to contribute to society that doesn't care. And an aging workforce They will see a recession but the good news is once that recession ends and the larger older generations die off, there will be rapid population growth in an already industrialized country and they’ll recover due to their isolation The only nation that Japan has to worry about is china and china has the same problems and will have a recession too also invading Japan would be hard even for china	/r/AllPillDebate	01/07/23 02:29 PM
1	Women, why do you expect men to put up with women who carry heavy emotional baggage from previous relationships? I mean in general to a certain extent it’s part of dating someone to help them with their previous baggage Obviously if someone is really crazy or unstable they can’t put that on you, but like most people have a little bit of trust issues and need a little reassurance now and then. Obviously most of dealing with your trauma is your responsibility but if your partner isn’t willing to have a conversation about both of your past trauma and how to make sure that your relationship stays healthy movin…	/r/AllPillDebate	28/06/23 02:01 PM
5	There is no hook up culture Hookup culture isn’t something that everyone participates in but a large portion of the population, more than half of high school graduates (higher percent for women and lower percent of men) go to college now And out of that ~60% probably around half are living hookup culture, and another good chunk of them view the party culture as their primary way of dating but aren’t so engrossed in it that they spend all their time partying and trying to hookup Since people who go to college control a larg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 01:28 PM
4	There is no hook up culture Nah hookup culture =/= fucking constantly. Hookup culture is college students going out 4 or 5 nights a week to frat parties and bars and drinking and hoping to meet someone they like For the people who participate it’s deeply ingrained in all aspects of culture beyond dating. For many, it’s their only social life. For women especially hookup culture doesn’t necessarily mean sleeping with a new person every time you go out. Sure there are outliers who do sleep around constantly, but on any given…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 12:12 PM
26	Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties? Idk personally I think my older brother has a more attractive face than I do and he hasn’t dated in years is unemployed, never went to college, and lives off disability money and my parents Meanwhile I am in a good college and have a girlfriend My mom doesn’t resent my dad and doesn’t think any of my siblings should be struggling but she definitely does wonder what she could’ve done differently with raising my older brother so that he wouldn’t have ended up where he is now	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 01:41 PM
1	CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to them I think although there are a lot of red pill behaviors that are attractive to a lot of women there are also behaviors celebrated as red pill behaviors that put off the majority of women at least for serious relationships (you could argue that these men don’t want relationships anyway so they’re winning, but nobody wins when society erodes and many of them will be old with no kids to support them, no social security because the other people in their generation didn’t have kids and dwindling savin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 06:20 PM
2	CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to them Because you shouldn’t not respect all the people you envy... I would like to be smarter and yet I respect people who are smarter than me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 05:24 PM
5	CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to them I think there’s a combination of things, boys are conditioned to treat girls too well by their parents and teachers, but at the same time media conglomerates promoted movies and music about how treating women poorly and bragging about it will make them like you and since those media producers then became rich that was seen as social proof by young boys Effectively giving them two competing worldviews, the so called red and blue pills. In reality life is way more nuanced and providing kids with o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 05:22 PM
2	CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to them I don’t think they’d be unhappy to the point of radicalization, that only really happens when they’re completely socially ostracized or self isolate due to people bullying them If schools did a better job of promoting social cohesion and teaching kids empathy and respect, then the number of radicalized young people would be astronomically lower. Maybe not 0%, but I think very very few people are so far below society’s expectations for attractiveness that they actually couldn’t have a social life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 04:31 PM
6	CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to them Because the boys weren’t conditioned to not do that. They grew up on media that encouraged boys to do a lot of those things, many of them had terrible role models for fathers who encouraged that behavior or no role models and then all of a sudden they were told it was wrong. if parents conditioned their kids to have positive views of and respect for the other sex, almost nobody would harass anybody and women wouldn’t shame men or bully them and men wouldn’t shame women or bully them and things w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 04:15 PM
11	CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to them I mean yes but acting like the only options are the status quo and what came before and that gender politics must always be a continuous march towards increased societal investment in women and decreased societal investment in men is disingenuous Most men who complain about modern society when it comes to dating don’t want things to just be like the past again. They just want to have equal social power in most scenarios to women, which means society needs to invest equally in young boys to help …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 03:49 PM
2	Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men. I don’t think that’s really true, especially with political opinions. Lots of people I know will voice their opinions to trusted friends but would still lie in anonymous settings to push whatever narrative they want A lot of people have views that contradict what they want, they might want one thing but for the sake of a generalized study, want the data to show another thing Like for instance a man or woman who is shallow but doesn’t want other people to think that all women or all men are shall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 05:52 PM
5	Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men. Because the internet has crazy high standards for morality. If you say basically anything that isn’t meant specifically to confirm the approved narrative you get roasted Lots of dudes will lie on anonymous surveys about having sex or dick size too, even when people know they won’t receive judgement since something is anonymous people still don’t like to admit to things deemed bad by society because they don’t like admitting it to themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 05:21 PM
1	CMV: A pill for loneliness would be beneficial for society Isn’t that just drugs?	/r/AllPillDebate	20/06/23 12:17 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean when there’s a forum with the name incels it tracks that people would think the opinions on it would be the average incel opinions Tbh y’all should make a new term for nontoxic incels	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 02:17 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It doesn’t even matter because the men who are not dropping out are equivalent to the women dropping out and won’t be picked by the women who are still in the dating market who are higher value They can listen to “alpha males” all they want but they’re listening to it because they’re socially impaired and it’s not going to help them, if anything it will just add an additional off-putting barrier in dating since most women who find out you listen to Andrew Tate will leave	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 02:14 PM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Ehhh everyone in politics is selfish otherwise they wouldn’t run for office. You have to be a narcissist to a. either think you can change the system yourself or b. Want to profit off of it like the rest of congress. Men and women politicians both don’t do anything other than dangle policies we like in front of us like carrots so we keep voting them in, then they let the bill get killed and pretend it was the other side that stopped it from happening. It’s all a distraction from the fact that th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 01:28 PM
2	Reminder this is who you are arguing with. I mean equally as okay as I am with dead adults which is not okay… it’s weird you are okay with seeing dead adults but cool I guess What makes me a fruitcake? That I don’t want to see dead adults? Is it a straight people trait to want to look at dead adult bodies? You’re insane, you like looking at dead people, and think it’s weird to think posting dead people is gross, because in your mind it’s only bad to post dead children and fetuses but dead adults are fair game? Grow tf up and stop acting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 01:18 PM
3	Reminder this is who you are arguing with. I mean it’s weird you see a difference, a fetus and an adult are equally sacred forms of life. It’s not any different. Life is life and death is death	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 01:11 PM
5	Reminder this is who you are arguing with. I mean it’s not any worse or any better than posting a dead adult if that’s what you’re getting at. They’re both morbid and both exactly what would go in a subreddit like that Like is your point that it’s worse to post this picture than any other equally gruesome thing? Cause I don’t understand why you would be okay with posting dead adults but not this	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:59 PM
6	Reminder this is who you are arguing with. I mean it’s weird to post an aborted fetus but it shouldn’t be taken down from a subreddit for images of morbid things. That’s morbid, it fits the bill it’s kinda what those places are there for. Not that I’d ever go visit that subreddit but it seems weird to create a forum for morbid pictures and get upset when someone posts something morbid	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:47 PM
–	Do people here understand how preselection works? If you had had sex before you’d know this isn’t true. I enjoy sex, but none of the happiest moments of my life that I’ll look back on before I die were sex. There are way more fulfilling things than sex. I also don’t think that kids who have sex early develop better, I think it’s that kids who develop better have sex earlier because they also tend to develop earlier and are undergoing the normal hormonal changes before other kids. People don’t really want to have sex until they’ve already somewh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 11:35 AM
10	Men that are called trash by women are actually attractive enough to get women to give them casual sex in the hopes of a relationship in the future. It’s what used to be called dating. Back in more conservative times, people used to date multiple people within a short period or even have multiple people they’re dating at the same time. The difference was the expectation was that sex didn’t really happen the first few dates and was something that generally meant you had decided you actually liked someone after several dates. Now if you say you’re dating someone in this generation, it implies commitment. So basically gen Z has a new word calle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 11:11 AM
2	Two Kinds of Men (based on what men in pill forums say) There are also normal people, who are actually the majority of men. A good portion of us are attractive and a good portion aren’t, lots of us are good people, lots of us aren’t. Our lives don’t revolve around fucking as many people as possible and they also don’t revolve around not fucking people Incels and fuckboys are both outliers because their entire lives are centered around their sex lives or lack thereof.	/r/AllPillDebate	14/06/23 01:09 PM
1	The state of the dating market I mean it kinda makes the problem obvious, it’s that people can’t have the living standards they used to	/r/AllPillDebate	14/06/23 12:58 PM
1	The level of delusion seen in today’s women is beyond reproach, women’s inflated self images and ridiculous standards have gotten wildly out of control I mean if you’re a wannabe influencer you kinda have to say that. They’re people who want to be famous without having any unique talents or skills so they have to just do things for attention on camera. They can say incorrect things all they want, they just have to say entertaining things. The worst thing you can be if you want to be famous is normal or average. Being narcissistic and conceited is better than that if your goal is getting famous on YouTube or reality tv. Internet culture and soci…	/r/AllPillDebate	14/06/23 12:57 PM
1	No dude is “jealous” of Pete Davidson, they are annoyed that women are picky as fuck and then end up with guys who look like that Above average face? I feel like depending on which era of Pete Davidson it is he’s either an average looking dude or he looks like he just overdosed because he probably just did	/r/AllPillDebate	14/06/23 12:52 PM
2	Ladies' Men Ehh I know a mix, a couple of my fraternity brothers are like that, nice dudes, fun to be around, attractive enough, go to parties, talk to people and just are charismatic. They usually find someone they’re interested in at a party and talk to them for a while and then decide whether to start something from there Another few of my fraternity brothers are successful with women but are not nice people, objectify women, are often nice to women they like but will be mean to others, but are the life …	/r/AllPillDebate	14/06/23 12:44 PM
1	The state of the dating market Not among the wealthy	/r/AllPillDebate	14/06/23 12:35 PM
1	People refuse to acknowledge that women do approach. Most guys just don’t create that desire though I mean did you read the post? The guy said he goes out/puts himself in social situations 1-2 times PER YEAR. There are no conclusions to be drawn from this except for that op is a shut in.	/r/AllPillDebate	14/06/23 12:16 PM
1	Women can't grasp that a man could respect a woman he's not attracted to; because women are innately disgusted by men they're unattracted to It’s both. Your brain decides whether it likes someone within a second or two of seeing their face. people who are attractive are automatically considered more trustworthy and more likeable. People are also more likely to trust and like women than men to begin with	/r/AllPillDebate	14/06/23 10:56 AM
-5	Men are far more hostile than women to guys who have trouble getting laid Like half the people on the internet are either robots or people larping as the people they want to look bad in a bad faith attempt at discrediting them. Half the people tweeting shit like that are doing it not because they believe it but because it’s free retweets and likes and clout since all press is good press when you’re a wannabe influencer Nobody is walking up to their male coworker and saying kill yourself or approaching strangers outside to tell them they should die because they’re shor…	/r/AllPillDebate	11/06/23 04:19 PM
-2	Men are far more hostile than women to guys who have trouble getting laid Lmao I’ve seen things be stolen from people, that’s a ridiculous common occurance	/r/AllPillDebate	11/06/23 03:41 PM
-6	Men are far more hostile than women to guys who have trouble getting laid Literally never once seen a woman tell that to a guy	/r/AllPillDebate	11/06/23 11:02 AM
3	why females always HAVE to post stories on instagram They’re bored lmao, imagine if instead of scrolling Reddit when bored and on your phone for 5 minutes between classes/work/whatever you responded to your friends stories and posted your own to which they’d respond. It doesn’t need to be important or impressive or whatever, just like communicating with people for no reason like how people used to make small talk with strangers while waiting for the bus It’s like that	/r/AllPillDebate	09/06/23 07:23 PM
1	Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary? They’d all lose their jobs overnight if the government paid people to watch their own kids. Why would you work and pay someone else to watch your kids if you made the same amount of money watching them yourself and didn’t need to pay someone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 12:43 PM
1	Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sex They have gone up, but MacBook Air was cheaper than MacBook Pro and was released after. The iPhone SE was released after the iPhone 13 and is cheaper. The version that most consumers will be buying will be different than the current one. It will probably have worse specs. Also once they start mass producing them in more facilities, the price of the expensive one could go down too. It just depends whether they think the increases of sales will outpace the decreases in revenue per sale.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 12:37 PM
–	Women largely objectify themselves for validation and profit and pretend it's empowering. I mean at this point we’re reaching antiwork territory, if doing your job requires a space, and you do not own a space. It is not unfair for a portion of your earnings to be going to the person who owns the space you work in. And if your job also requires security and protection from potential dangers, then security needs to be paid as well and if there are many people working out of one workspace, then it makes sense for money from all the workers to be pooled together by management, and the wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 12:30 PM
–	The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime. The issue is there are two cultures in America (more than two but two main ones). In college cities, young women outnumber young men 55:45-60:40. In those places, especially colleges with more or less prescribed social lives, due to an abundance of women and lack of men, men are able to treat women worse and sleep with more of them because women have fewer options and because there is a seemingly endless pool of single women they can move on to if one stops hooking up with them. In these environ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 12:10 PM
–	Men are more superficial about weight than women Yes, that is definitely true. I think even when men dislike Amy Schumer for her comedy, they’ll insult her for her looks because looks are so much more prevalent. If they want to rip on her, they can just take a random not good photo of her and caption it and make it about looks. If they want to criticize her comedy, they’d have to actually watch it, then screen grab the bit they want to share and then actually think about why her comedy was unfunny It’s the same reason girls on tiktok post vide…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 12:01 PM
–	Men are more superficial about weight than women I’m in a frat and lizzo routinely plays at our parties, i’d assume college age boys are the demographic people think is shitting on lizzo online but it seems like it’s just the same incels who shit on all women doing that. I hope she doesn’t look through what the internet trolls are saying, but at the same time, nameless faceless basement dwellers aren’t really the arbiters of mainstream society. Nobody gives a shit about what some guy on .is says about lizzo, but people do read magazines like v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 11:56 AM
–	CMV: Guys here will claim “men teach discipline” but don't actually want disciplined males. I mean science has shown that 1. boys and girls develop differently at different rates, 2. The traditional way schools have functioned is not geared towards boys. Boys tend to be a little more ADD/ADHD than girls, even the boys who are neurotypical are on average fidgeting or getting distracted more than girls in a classroom. Nobody is designed to sit in a chair and be talked at for 8 hours a day, but boys tend to have a biological compulsion to move around and be more physically active than gir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 11:46 AM
–	Men are more superficial about weight than women I mean that was clearly different, she had a camera crew following her life around and the instances I’ve seen where someone tried to date her seemed like they might’ve just been clout chasing or chasing a pipe dream like maybe if I do weird shit in front of the tlc crew they’ll follow me and give me a show	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 11:33 AM
–	Men are more superficial about weight than women Idk I think it really does depend on the person and their humor. I’m a non fat man, I don’t particularly relate to Melissa McCarthy or find her attractive but I do think she’s really funny in general movies with her are pretty well received and people think she’s funny. Compare her to someone less fat and probably more attractive like Amy Schumer, who is universally disliked for being unfunny and for stealing jokes and it’s pretty clear that consumers actually do care about the quality of the me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 11:29 AM
–	Men are more superficial about weight than women I don’t think it’s really true that people hate fat actresses more than fat actors. Neither of them are likely to be cast as a superhero or a love interest in a non comedic romantic movie. But people seem to like a lot of fat actresses like Melissa McCarthy, queen latifah lost a lot of weight but people loved her before that, and I know Lizzo doesn’t do acting as much but society as a whole generally celebrates her Usually it does seem like for both male and female actors, being fat makes it har…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 11:26 AM
1	Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sex They’re gonna sell them to companies first so that development starts. Corporations will want them for business applications. And once the people using their platform develop lots of useful apps and maybe some games, they’ll work on lowering production costs and release a new cheaper version for consumers. No consumer wants a new headset that nobody has made a single game or app for yet. They don’t want a failure like google glass which was released to the public way before the ar technology was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 11:00 AM
1	Neurodivergence is way worse than being ugly, and it shouldn't even be debated. I mean you can do drugs that make you act more normal. Plenty of people have debilitating anxiety but are perfectly capable of socializing because they’re either on a good medication that works or they do a mix of self medication self care and mindfulness as well as doing things to combat their insecurity I used to be cripplingly anxious during high school to the point where I’d wake up every day at like 6am on the dot and immediately puke before pacing back and forth until school started. Anywa…	/r/AllPillDebate	08/06/23 01:29 PM
1	Who has more control over their relationships? I mean no, maybe other game show hosts will hear about it and won’t want the contestant on their show, but like nobody is getting fired for making bad jokes (non offensive ones obviously) or for staring directly at the camera (this makes people like tv less) so no negative consequences. If they cut the episode they’ve just wasted like 50-100k and they have one fewer episode to air. So negative consequences. Yeah more people will come and you can film another episode, but it costs resources and t…	/r/AllPillDebate	08/06/23 01:18 PM
1	Dating app Survey -Heterosexual Males Your survey doesn’t even have an option for being in a relationship it’s just single, married, divorced, separated. You’re gonna get shitty unusable data because some people in relationships will likely click married and some will click single, and then you’ll have random length and commitment level relationship people mixed in with chronically single people and mixed in with people who are married Remake the survey with a dating option, and add another question that asks how long they’ve been t…	/r/AllPillDebate	08/06/23 01:11 PM
1	Who has more control over their relationships? I mean in a way they do. The contestants have other jobs and don’t have to be on the show. The host is by default a part of the show and cannot decide not to be in the show without losing their livelihood A contestant could spend the whole show trying to make the show worse if they wanted and it would have no effect on their life, it would only negatively effect the host	/r/AllPillDebate	08/06/23 01:03 PM
1	Do Women Really Not See How Ridiculous Thier Standards Are? Tbh other than the asking out and the sex, I did none of those things for the first date and am in a happy relationship that has lasted over a year Like yeah I’ll plan dates now but like, the alternative is not doing the things I wanna do and doing the things she wants instead or just staying home. Like my girlfriend is unlikely to decide to take me to a football game or to go play paintball but those are both things we did together because I wanted to.	/r/AllPillDebate	08/06/23 12:47 PM
2	How would you feel if there were considerably less men than women in the world? I mean if there were less people in the world it would be better for everyone who was here in general. Resource competition is a thing	/r/AllPillDebate	08/06/23 12:42 PM
1	If you aren't Red Pill or Black Pill are you Blue Pill by default ? That implies there are 3 worldviews and nothing else	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 08:06 PM
1	Women have stricter body standards than men do in dating It’s literally a funny quote from sunny it’s not meant to be true	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 07:42 PM
3	Women have stricter body standards than men do in dating “Everyone knows men have four acceptable body types: jacked, skinny jacked, dad bod, and fat… if you’re funny. Now unfortunately for women, there’s only one acceptable body type: SKINNY BIG TITS!!!!!!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 05:45 PM
1	Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt is The housing market crash made the middle class shrink but pushed the upper middle and lower middle class away from each other and further towards the upper class or lower class. Lots of people had everything in their home and lost it, at the same time, some people had capital and not a lot of money in their home and were able to capitalize, ending up with more real estate and better lives in better suburbs I don’t think it’s the 25 year old people paying off student loans who are buying suvs and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 12:46 PM
–	The women that go viral are not representative of average women They select for people who will get them views. There’s also self selection. The vast majority of people wouldn’t participate in an interview about gender relations They probably also interviewed more than the number of people shown and edited it down to just the ones they wanted to show.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 10:50 AM
1	JBW on the =< normie level It’s because they’re all incredibly symmetrical due to being averages of tons of faces and that is one of the most important components in facial attractiveness	/r/AllPillDebate	01/06/23 10:06 PM
1	CMV: Most men should pursue serial monogamy, not casual sex. Ehh in a lot of workplaces people will mostly be married at a certain age, studies show your boss will be more likely to promote you and pay you more and hire you if you’re married (at least for men) It could change, society changes constantly, but I’d say most people will still look for long term relationships as they age because of the stability they provide emotionally, sexually, and financially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 05:34 PM
2	CMV: Most men should pursue serial monogamy, not casual sex. Believe it or not, in 20 years your social status will be higher if you’ve been happily married a long time than if you’re a sociopath who doesn’t know how to have a successful relationship and isn’t emotionally invested in his wife Your kids will turn out better and more successful, you’ll have more financial stability, your married friends wont not go on vacation with you just because they don’t want you to be third wheeling, you wont be the only one showing up at dinner parties without a spou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 05:11 PM
7	Why do women only sing about love songs or some alpha who left them Tbf most male musicians also rap or sing about sex drugs and money and maybe some heartbreak It really depends what you listen to. There are and have always been good female musicians who make inspired music. Gillian Welch is one of the best songwriters ever in my opinion, the only people I’d put above her would be Jason isbell and Neil young	/r/AllPillDebate	15/05/23 04:04 PM
2	Ugly women have no conscious, and are selfish. Natural selection will be harsher with gene editing because the government will make sure only some people have access to it and a small minority will get better with every generation while the majority of people will get worse as the best genes have been removed from their gene pool. It will continue until there are two culturally and genetically distinct populations within the country which are segregated like a caste system. There will be zero ways for social mobility between the two groups b…	/r/AllPillDebate	13/05/23 02:51 PM
0	It appears that women don't want men Honestly what I think it comes down to is that some genes are X chromosome only, which causes women to have two copies of some genes men have one copy of. This is why women’s brains are more symmetrical and “stable” than mens. Men’s brains are more likely to go off in strange directions during development, schizophrenia, schizotypal, and antisocial personality disorders are all way more common in men than women This likely also means that during unconventional times like quarantine, where people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 02:07 PM
3	Question for Socialist/liberal/marxist/whatever bluepillers how do you believe we live in an economically unfair world, but a socially fair one? Is society responsible for making society fair? Also what is the metric of fairness? Is it equal opportunity (everyone gets the same chance to succeed but success is determined by actions)? Is it equality of outcome (everyone gets the same results regardless of what they do and the choices they make)? I don’t think equality of outcome is fair because someone who is is a great partner shouldn’t be forced to be with a terrible partner and a terrible partner doesn’t deserve a good partner I also th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:44 AM
1	Is there too much pressure on men to enter romantic relationships? Because inability to ever get a woman despite constantly thinking about sex is a red flag, so is constantly fucking every woman in sight. Normal people exhibit moderation and don’t think about sex constantly and are progressing in their career while dating in their free time	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 02:38 PM
2	Is there too much pressure on men to enter romantic relationships? Yeah I agree, I’m in a frat which are typically more “fuckboy” than your average group of friends. Still, the biggest fuckboy in our frat is constantly having sex and constantly trying to flex on other brothers or put them down because he wants to be the “alpha” and he’s one of the less respected people in our whole active brotherhood. He ran for every important elected position and won none of them The next biggest fuckboy is just averagely respected, he helps plan parties but isn’t really aske…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 02:37 PM
2	How important do you think teen love is? I mean my teen love definitely impacted my life in a negative way but now I’m in a relationship that feels much healthier I think it helped me learn how to not take shit and what to not put up with though	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 05:30 AM
3	The only way to reverse or weaken the most normalized form of racism in the 21st century (i.e Gendered Racism) is to promote couples that are the target of negative gender racism. Bro this is the nazi tier racism. Half the shit you said is made up. Chinese men were not denied the ability to do manual labor, they built a good portion of the railroads out west and worked in mines on the west coast. You literally want a soft eugenics program that manipulates society by “promoting” dating certain race gender combos. Everyone should just be free to fuck whoever, we need fewer ads, fewer promotions of anything. People need to be freer to make decisions with fewer people trying …	/r/AllPillDebate	22/04/23 02:11 PM
0	Do you think paternity testing should be made mandatory at the point of birth? I mean they’re scum anyway right? Like fuck people ditching responsibility, idc how they feel about it. Everyone should be responsible for their child if their child is born, if you can’t support it abort it or wear a condom or use bc which is now available for men and women. Just like I don’t care about murderer’s opinions on whether murder should be illegal I don’t care about the opinions of dudes who have kids they’ve never met	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 06:05 PM
0	Hookers customers are the equivalent of promiscuous women None of them are in relationships right now	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 07:25 PM
-1	Hookers customers are the equivalent of promiscuous women A number between 5 and ten	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 07:13 PM
6	Hookers customers are the equivalent of promiscuous women So many normal dudes who I know and I’ve seen be in relationships have done a bunch of drugs and hired prostitutes before and it doesn’t seem to have affected their life It’s only people who can’t get laid if they don’t pay that are looked down upon	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 06:45 PM
2	Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzoned I mean yeah most women you become friends with won’t be dying to date you, but some of them will. normal healthy people have multiple friends of both genders and date only one of those people	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 05:45 PM
5	normies really think they are better than inkwells. Cope and seethe, surely it’s not you who is unhappy, it must be everyone else, surely nobody is doing well and being successful because you’re not	/r/AllPillDebate	12/03/23 02:32 PM
1	Locking women out of the Workforce could tip the scales again Yeah the economy would totally be fine if like half the workforce disappears overnight	/r/AllPillDebate	27/02/23 04:50 PM
1	the blackpill is mostly men's fault tbh It’s mostly evolution’s fault, we’re literally a bunch of apes who decided to sit in one spot instead of moving around constantly and decided to put clothes on The main thing separating us from apes is the capacity to comprehend larger social dynamics and the capacity for language	/r/AllPillDebate	27/02/23 04:35 PM
4	Could Mainstream Blackpill media change society? Not in a positive way…	/r/AllPillDebate	27/02/23 04:11 PM
1	getting a gf/wife/fwb is NOT BASED ON MERIT Charisma is merit though, it’s a skill like any other	/r/AllPillDebate	27/02/23 04:07 PM
4	The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at all Lmao a lot of my male friends will consistently shoot above their attractiveness, they’re not successful more than half the time but it doesn’t stop them. A lot of my female friends are also sleeping with different people every week or two and they’re not all above them socially They’re also not asking for much in return usually it’s like “take me to a date night or party” which costs 0 dollars and has free alcohol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 03:53 PM
1	A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman? I feel like a relationship where you’re forcing yourself to like someone is already doomed. I’ve been in a relationship where I didn’t feel as strongly as the other person and it sucked for both of us	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 05:16 PM
0	A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman? Why not wait until you like someone and then be in a relationship rather than logically picking a rando and then forcing yourself to like them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 05:09 PM
0	A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman? When you decide you like someone, do you have an argument over whether or not you like them? Call me old fashioned but I just like feel emotions and then based on those emotions I know I either want to be with that person or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 05:01 PM
1	How would you react if your (potential) girlfriend/boyfriend saw your posts and comments on this sub ? My girlfriend and I are both here but neither of us know each other’s Reddit name	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 09:03 PM
1	why are women more blackpilled than men I mean it’s systemic by definition since the government subsidizes corn syrup which is now in like ever product	/r/AllPillDebate	10/02/23 06:02 PM
1	Men who are 50/50, how do you plan to compensate for child birth? I mean that’s not the way I nor most of my friends were raised. It might be different because I’m genZ and younger than most people here, but both my parents commuted and worked 9-5 while I was young and my grandma took care of me during the day My parents both cooked depending on the night but my dad is a huge perfectionist and always cleaned the kitchen a second time after the kids did because he wanted it cleaner. When we had outdoor space (we moved to a city later) my dad did all the gardeni…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 06:10 PM
1	There Would Be Less Angry Men If Equality Was Reintroduced Because a society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they shall never sit	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 06:00 PM
1	There Would Be Less Angry Men If Equality Was Reintroduced A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they shall never sit	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 05:58 PM
2	Society tells men to step up and be better but then actively prevents them from doing so. I don’t think that’s true… as time progresses in a capitalist or pseudo capitalist society, the wealth accumulates eventually. Early capitalist societies have much smaller wealth gaps and they grow over time until poor people cant eat then there’s a power struggle, new people take power and the cycle repeats It’s exactly what happened in the French Revolution and Russian revolution It’s not a critique of capitalism it’s just an understanding that transactions, and therefore economic growth, won’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 05:29 PM
1	I think a good solution for women would be to stop having sex with men. Idk my girlfriend and I both browse here	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 03:32 PM
3	How will society change as online dating becomes the dominant form pairing? I mean if you’re in a top school and getting laid you’re high value anyway regardless of drug use and promiscuity You think the people on Wall Street are gonna care that she got a few year head start on her coke addiction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 03:31 PM
1	Fuuuuck single mothers! I mean in like half of the states	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 04:18 PM
15	This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out. Most dudes don’t think their girlfriend is ugly… if they do then they should leave…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 04:16 PM
1	Onlyfans girls are no better than foreign scammers preying on elderly people I mean as far as grifts go it’s pretty lucrative and relatively unharmful There are other grifters trying to rile people up about insane conspiracies, racism, and general divisiveness. There’s also grifters in congress who just say whatever they’re supposed to while voting the exact opposite way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 04:09 PM
21	This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out. Lmao no the kinds of men who buy sex dolls don’t put women on a pedestal they’re the ones who stay inside and don’t leave the house to ever talk to a woman The people who put women on a pedestal and worship them (not online) aren’t gonna suddenly drop that to buy a robot because deep down they feel validated by doing nice things for a woman and getting affection in return even if they aren’t being treated well in a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 04:02 PM
5	Men love women more than women could ever love men. His manager at Guiginos probably doesn’t like that he’s spinning the plates while bringing the food out	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:54 PM
4	Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards Hisssssss there is no world outside my room	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 04:04 PM
1	Gen Z dating habits It’s a pretty good range in terms of attractiveness but we are also a fraternity so there is also a very easily accessible social life through scheduled parties and mixers and charity events plus community service	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 10:55 PM
1	Remote work - one more thing that is killing family unit. Lmao dumbass, remote work means getting paid and being able to fuck while you’re taking a break and as soon as you’re done you can start drinking or smoke a joint with no need to drive home, hell you could even drop a tab or two and come down by the time you gotta work again the next day I got a remote job for the summer I’m just gonna live in the poconos with my girlfriend, start a garden, go fishing, drive my atvs. I hate having to be in the city all the time for work/school	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 04:12 PM
1	A lot of you people don't understand what personality is I know someone with high functioning autism in my fraternity who gets laid more than most of my brothers Despite this, he says he doesn’t really enjoy sex, but he likes the validation of being wanted and feels as though it improves his social status	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 04:03 PM
1	Would you ever date a fellow PPD user? Lmao not if she agrees with most of the people on here	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 04:00 PM
0	The reasons women show for not wanting to date a bisexual man are pretty similar to the reasons behind not wanting to date a high N woman. But somehow only the second case is sexist. Good thing there’s a vaccine that’s 98% effective for hpv. If you get hpv it’s your own fault for not being vaxxed	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 03:56 PM
1	The reasons women show for not wanting to date a bisexual man are pretty similar to the reasons behind not wanting to date a high N woman. But somehow only the second case is sexist. I mean yeah but they make tests and in a monogamous relationship, nobody should be acquiring new STDs	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 03:55 PM
1	Gen Z dating habits Idk man I’m gen Z and left a ltr about a year ago, had some fun being single on tinder for a few months then started a relationship with a woman I matched with who I had met in high school and had been seeing for a couple months. I don’t have much experience dating cause I kinda jumped from one relationship to another after less than 6 months of being single Honestly most of my friends (all gen z) are single and enjoying college life and hookups, a few are in long term relationships, and there’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 03:51 PM
2	True wealth is mostly invisible, so how does "getting money" improve your chances if it can't be seen? I mean it’s seen in what college you went to, what clothes you wear, the car you drive, where you live, even how you talk and walk can signify whether you grew up with wealth or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 03:39 PM
8	Has evolutionary psychology got any application or use for modern dating and relationships? Lmao evolutionary psychological theories are really fucking accurate. The reason people like having someone run fingers through their hair is because primates’ primary social interactions in the absence of language is picking bugs and parasites out of each other’s fur which is known as “grooming” The reason babies crying is so fucking annoying is because you’re hard wired to recognize that noise even if it’s faint so that you can go save the baby from whatever danger it’s in The reason people li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 03:38 PM
1	Men who crave a relationship, to raise children & have a family unit are not masculine Masculinity isn’t defined by activities it’s defined by the way you carry yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 02:55 PM
1	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing I think honestly it’s less about relationships and more about the case of if you’re hooking up with someone and then they tell you they’re pregnant with your kid, in that case you may really have no idea whether it’s yours and if you show up to the babies birth, you’re likely getting listed as the father and paying child support even if it’s not yours	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 03:49 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well yeah but survival doesn’t require meaning. You can enjoy being alive and want to be a live and still not believe there’s any meaning or reason in life	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 02:59 PM
2	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. It’s different people complaining who are telling you to pull yourself up by the bootstraps	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 09:47 PM
7	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? I mean in reality both pills are somewhat true. You’re not going to have a healthy relationship by being a really kind pushover and you’re not going to have a healthy relationship by being an asshole who happens to lift weights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 04:07 PM
1	You’re not good enough to be average I mean averages are pretty stupid. There’s a large portion of people who are massively obese that swing the average in one direction. People who go to walmart is also not a good sample because it will be skewed The average walmart shopper in a rural town =\= the average Whole Foods shopper in a coastal city. There are no “average people” there are way too many variables for that	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 03:58 PM
1	which pill do you think would be the worst for society as a whole if everyone believed it? Blackpill obviously If everyone was pessimistic and gave up on improving their status, society would just collapse. Work needs to be incentivized otherwise nobody will grow food and there won’t be food to eat	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/22 03:45 PM
1	Question for women: would you support making male births more rare? I mean it’s a violation of bodily autonomy to genetically modify people’s reproductive cells without their consent It would also be dangerous and a bad use of genetic modification. If you’re gonna take the risks associated with genetic modification of humans, then at that point why not genetically modify them to be more physically capable? If we gave anyone the power to do this they’d have the power to modify everyone to be less intelligent and more physically powerful so that the population wou…	/r/AllPillDebate	14/10/22 05:13 PM
6	Drew Afulao is a problem amongst young women and needs to be cancelled Idk man, sounds like she’s making a bunch of money on a good grift She’s winning, just make your own TikTok and say shit that TikTok’s target audience wants to hear and you too can be rich and do nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 04:49 PM
1	Does porn really mess with your brain? Everything you do affects your brain, your brain is you, the entire universe the way you perceive it (which is unique) is in there Porn, tv, video games, reading books, doing drugs, eating food, having sex, thinking about things All that shit changes your brain chemistry and structure. The younger you are, the more it affects you	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 04:47 PM
1	What value does a man bring to a modern relationship? Just be better and you’ll do better Equality of outcome is a myth there’s no way for everyone to be equally happy when dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 04:44 PM
9	Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not. Bruh I’m an undateable mess and I have a girlfriend, just don’t stress it, and play to your strengths	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 04:41 PM
2	If you’re a single guy who’s struggling/trying to find his stride, nightlife and dating apps are the absolute worst places to go Idk imo nightlife is a good way to meet people, it’s probably different because I’m in college and a much higher % of people are going out each day than in the general population	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 04:41 PM
3	How can women both be too picky, have too high of numbers, yet you are also not willing to wait? Idk I feel like a good solution would be to just try to be better so that you get a better deal	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 04:38 PM
2	According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men. I keep telling my pledges they need to be better but they’re so shitty Worst pledge class I’ve ever seen by far	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 05:38 PM
3	According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men. Just be better	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 04:42 PM
1	What gender cheats more? Depends on age, young women cheat on young men more in relationships than young men cheat on young women, older men cheat on their wives much more than older women cheat on their husbands	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 03:19 PM
1	The Number Of Involuntarily Sexless Men Is Less Than Often Thought Idk it definitely depends what school and what you study, most of my classes are 50/50 or have more women than men with the only exceptions being my stat class and behavioral economics My psych class is like 70/30 women	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 03:17 PM
1	Most men should work on looks, money, and status when it comes to getting women instead of game and cold approach. Easy, wake up at 730 am, go to school/work, return home to shared house at 5 pm, begin drinking with friends, 6pm eat some dinner, 7pm make lower status men (pledges) clean the house for you, 8pm invite women to the house, party until 130am, go to sleep Wake up and repeat If you get tired do cocaine, if you can’t sleep smoke weed and drink more	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 03:12 PM
3	Unlimited sex partners prior to marriage How do you know though? All of the books were physically created much later than that. The Catholic Church has been the wealthiest organization on the planet for over a thousand years and much of the documents were likely altered for political purposes They allowed divorces, but only with special permission from the pope himself. This was likely created as a means of maintaining peace between Christian kingdoms and also giving the pope more power at the same time The Protestants were right to le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 03:08 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean statistically with prices adjusted for inflation, it is more expensive to get housing or rent an apartment than it has ever been There’s more than enough homes for everyone to have one though, next time the economy crashes we should just start giving them out on behalf of the banks	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 02:55 PM
1	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. That’s not true lol if a girl people aren’t interested in is aggressively flirting with lots of people at a frat party you can watch and see how they put physical distance between them and make an excuse to go walk somewhere else and talk to someone else When you watch aggressive flirting going the other direction, there’s generally a lot less a woman can do in that situations except for leave the party entirely	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 02:45 PM
1	CMV: Dating for hetrosexual men isn't about getting a girl it's about finding someone who you are compatible it I’m an alcoholic and also there’s not a lot of women who are fraternity brothers so it’d be rather hard to find one lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 02:37 PM
1	artist do not get girls unless they are famous or have money. I don’t think that’s really true, if you play the right music well enough people will respond to it	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 02:34 PM
1	why is the paranoia of ''settling'' or ''cucking'' so prominent in women when men cheat more? sociology is a somewhat useful science it’s just misused constantly, it’s not really meant to give you insight into people’s everyday thinking, that would be psychology, which is incredibly useful Sociology is the study of how the structure and organization of whole societies changes over time	/r/AllPillDebate	21/09/22 07:41 PM
1	why is the paranoia of ''settling'' or ''cucking'' so prominent in women when men cheat more? Actually statistically men are only more likely to cheat after around 30, when people are younger than that, women cheat more often than men Basically for men, the worry is that your wife settled for you and would rather have been with someone else but now wants stability, whereas for women, the worry is that your husband leaves or cheats as you both age	/r/AllPillDebate	21/09/22 07:38 PM
6	Are women less emotional then men actually? Neuroscience actually kinda shows the opposite trend. Higher levels of testosterone suppress prefrontal cortex activity, making people make decisions quicker and more based on emotion rather than logical thought https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0956797619851753#:~:text=By%20demonstrating%20that%20testosterone%20influences,these%20findings%20extend%20previous%20research. Women when compared to men, especially young women compared to young men, are better at planning ahead, whereas yo…	/r/AllPillDebate	19/09/22 08:07 PM
0	Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overall Personally I have a lot of friends and a girlfriend and still feel lonely from time to time because I don’t always feel like I can open up to them anyway I think part of the loneliness men feel stems from the feeling of being in competition with one another and not wanting to appear weak which prevents us from communicating our thoughts effectively	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:33 PM
10	College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is? The left: ThE rIgHt WaNtS hAnDmaIdS tAle! The right: ThE lEfT iS pEdOpHilE! Average student: so like is there gonna be jobs when I graduate or no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:01 PM
6	Why is it wrong to want to marry someone who treat you like a queen? It makes the rest of us look bad when dudes simp	/r/AllPillDebate	01/09/22 02:35 PM
1	What is the most controversial opinion you hold regarding sex/relationships? I mean I don’t know how you’d get women to just start asking their dads to vet their prospective husbands if they aren’t currently doing so. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a daughter wanting her dads approval to get married, in fact that’s a good and wholesome gesture and I’d hope a future daughter of mine did so But how are you gonna implement this on a societal scale? You’re not suddenly going to make something the norm without enforcing it legally (which is what I have a problem wi…	/r/AllPillDebate	01/09/22 02:04 PM
1	What is the most controversial opinion you hold regarding sex/relationships? I mean yes if you legally give the power to deny his daughter marriage to the father, inevitably some fathers will accept bribes to choose people. Lots of people are shitty and corrupt	/r/AllPillDebate	01/09/22 01:02 PM
4	What is the most controversial opinion you hold regarding sex/relationships? Why do you think we enforce ratio at frat parties? When you put a hundred dudes in a house and get them drunk around fifty women they all start fighting each other, when the numbers are reversed, everyone is happier	/r/AllPillDebate	01/09/22 12:52 PM
1	What is the most controversial opinion you hold regarding sex/relationships? Yeah unfortunately there’s no money in the schools to educate people on drug use and safe sex because city public schools are massively underfunded	/r/AllPillDebate	01/09/22 12:48 PM
0	What is the most controversial opinion you hold regarding sex/relationships? Ah yes let’s have the system where men sold their daughters in exchange for financial gain again Lmao we can’t just go back to pre industrialized society	/r/AllPillDebate	01/09/22 12:39 PM
6	Do you feel that an intellectual criticism of women's suffrage is promoting hate? I think this has especially come to attention as Ukraine is drafting its men to fight in their war. The right to vote is tied to one having signed up for selective services, yet there's no expectation for women. I mean the idea that women can vote isn’t harmful it’s the idea that women shouldn’t be drafted but men should be The draft should be equal or not exist at all because otherwise there’s discrimination on the part of the government, likewise, voting should be equal otherwise the government is still discriminating Honestly gendered language should just be removed from legal codes (kills two birds with one stone since it also affects people who don’t conform to gender binaries) and that way everyon…	/r/AllPillDebate	30/08/22 04:28 PM
5	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating Yeah but narcissists who are constantly unhappy because they think they’re ugly and expect themselves to be a 10/10 without effort are still narcissists just in a different way. Self importance is the negative trait, narcissists don’t always have positive self image	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 10:52 PM
9	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Yes men need to go out there and meet women, but people will like you more if you appear to have your life together So if you’re so focused on finding love that you neglect yourself, then you aren’t going to be interesting when you meet somebody you’re interested in. You have to do things for yourself, in your career, in your social life, and with your family. You do these things so that you can be happy on a day to day basis, at which point people will want to spend more time with you because y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:46 AM
1	Why do women have to have a hoe phase Idk why do young boys sleep around in high school and college? Teenagers and people in their 20’s are the horniest people due to hormones and they have more free time and less responsibility than older people… If you go to college you’ll see there’s actually way more women who stay in the library on weekends and study than guys who do the same thing	/r/AllPillDebate	19/08/22 01:57 PM
3	The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy. Cosmetic surgery in general is stupid. I don’t think anyone would really be happier being an inch taller or having bigger titties or whatever they want instead of spending that money on something cool like a boat or investing it or like going on nice vacations. You could probably build a pool in your yard for under 30k. That’s a much better use of money	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 01:43 PM
1	Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? Well yeah but the other thing will make you feel content and fulfilled and help you not fuck up your relationships I have no problem getting into relationships, it’s the not being a dick and hurting people part that I’m bad at	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 01:18 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread There’s basically only one side anyway. Sure there are some guys who are owned by big oil, and some other guys owned by big pharma. Sure some of them are woke and some of them are anti-woke They’re united in the intentional cause division through the culture war because it distracts everyone from real issues that matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 01:55 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lol that’s only the far far left people who do that. Most women I meet in college are textbook neoliberals who will vote for any democratic candidate with no knowledge of their policy they also don’t have tons of piercings or dyed hair, they’re all trying to be doctors and shit You’re describing the woke, “the liberals are too far right” leftists	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 01:28 PM
3	What’s the solution? Stop wasting money trying to ban the things you feel like are wrong with society ie: abortion, drugs, and underage drinking. For every law that exists, additional money is wasted on cops, judges, trials, and holding prisoners. Instead put the money that we’re spending on enforcing these laws into fixing the root issues that cause them: poor drug education (stems from the disaster that D.A.R.E. was, poor education in general, poverty, and mental health awareness/treatment	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 08:26 PM
3	I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually is Lol who has their own fucking insurance at 19? Most college students aren’t impressed by a 401k and a stable career. They just want you to take them somewhere nice and buy them drinks or to go to parties Being interesting and having a social life is vastly more important for dating as a young person than money is. Money and stability become more important as people get older and realize that they’d rather set themselves up for the future rather than seek immediate gratification	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 07:47 PM
1	About Feminism Lol an alcoholic drug addict who gets shit done and functions in society is infinitely more useful than a sober man who lives in a basement and plays video games like some of the guys arguing about society on Reddit Why should our resources go towards punishing people who aren’t hurting anyone? Any restriction of free will requires enforcement which requires money. Meaning if you want women to not be allowed to work and to be housewives you’re gonna have to hire more cops, build new prisons, bui…	/r/AllPillDebate	10/08/22 03:45 PM
2	About Feminism You can absolutely have a child right now just adopt one. “After ordering my career” I don’t get why it’s shocking that women would want to order their careers as well before having kids. The overwhelming majority of people can’t afford a family on one paycheck and it’s cruel to have a child you can’t support Also the second time we fought a war for autonomy was absolutely about tyranny from within. One class of Americans enslaved another class of Americans	/r/AllPillDebate	10/08/22 03:24 PM
2	About Feminism Okay but that’s still you chasing your dream albeit with compromise. If you restrict women’s autonomy don’t you realize they couldn’t do those things? There’s a difference between “woe is me I didn’t have the career I wanted but I work closely with those people in the same field” and “I wanted to be a doctor but I wasn’t allowed to go to college and was married to some dude instead” Hopefully you realize that people deserve autonomy, we fought like two wars about that already and one was the mos…	/r/AllPillDebate	10/08/22 03:02 PM
2	About Feminism It’s nature for a peasant to serve a king and yet if I was born a serf I’d be rebelling… It’s unnatural for anyone to desire to be subservient. If I was born a woman I sure as hell wouldn’t want to just be a “helper” for some dude. Just treat others how you would want to be treated in their situation, that is the golden rule of life	/r/AllPillDebate	10/08/22 02:46 PM
2	About Feminism Lmao feminism is a specifically liberal ideology. Soviet Communism is centrally planned, meaning the government tells you what the fuck your job is and when to do it and how much you get payed Feminism is specifically about women being given more autonomy. It originated in a democracy. It also has nothing to do with redefining nature, just societal expectations, which are the opposite of nature	/r/AllPillDebate	10/08/22 02:34 PM
3	Why a man’s life is worth less than a womans and why feminism is a crime against humanity!!! Women don’t want kids because they don’t have houses and husbands and they don’t have houses because the economy is in shambles and they don’t have husbands because of a massive artificially created cultural divide that is turning young men into misogynistic and often racist assholes who can’t think for themselves while turning young women and some young men into whiney liberals who can’t think for themselves If you wanted to fix the dating crisis you’d have to restructure society in a way that …	/r/AllPillDebate	09/08/22 05:31 PM
1	Why a man’s life is worth less than a womans and why feminism is a crime against humanity!!! I don’t think that would be the case… In reality they’d probably just all be fucking each other and be polygamous with the exception of those who sickly and frail or otherwise severely disadvantaged Our closest relatives as humans are chimps and bonobos Chimps typically have high competition between males, but multiple males typically mate with each female (sometimes males will mate-guard a specific female, and occasionally pair bonding occurs, but you never see harems like what you are talking …	/r/AllPillDebate	09/08/22 05:22 PM
2	Why a man’s life is worth less than a womans and why feminism is a crime against humanity!!! No need to apologize I didn’t think you did I just wanted to explain the context in which I was making my point. I wholeheartedly agree with you that it would be good to make positive changes to society that helped people who struggle with dating but I think there’s a fine line between uplifting people who are struggling and leveling the playing field by restricting everyone else’s autonomy	/r/AllPillDebate	09/08/22 05:11 PM
2	Why a man’s life is worth less than a womans and why feminism is a crime against humanity!!! I have gad too then I went to college and now I have gad and a poly substance abuse problem Making therapy more available is a great idea but that’s a positive change to society (adding something) which is a lot easier than a negative change (taking something away) in simple terms, prohibition doesn’t work. If you ban drugs, people do other drugs. If you ban contraception like that guy talked about, people will still have sex when they can’t support a child, the only difference is the child will…	/r/AllPillDebate	09/08/22 04:34 PM
6	Why a man’s life is worth less than a womans and why feminism is a crime against humanity!!! Idk I feel like giving more responsibility to people who are struggling financially is generally a bad idea. Most people in their 20’s cannot support families… I feel like everyone exists the way they exist and there’s no reason to try to equalize the playing field. Some people are really smart and some people are really stupid. Some people are attractive and some people aren’t. Some people are men some are women. You just have to play the cards you were dealt in life rather than changing the ru…	/r/AllPillDebate	09/08/22 02:57 PM
1	"Women don't owe you anything." Women aren’t more likely to get into college anymore. Tons of private schools are mostly female and get mostly female applicants, especially liberal arts schools are more likely to accept men than women with the same grades	/r/AllPillDebate	09/08/22 02:46 PM
3	Not how girls work, they say... well, only 83% anyway. Short guys have girlfriends in America too lol just not always 3 of my brothers who are 5’8 or under have girlfriends and 3 of us who are taller than that have girlfriends The other thirty some guys in our frat are either perpetually single or massive fuckboys	/r/AllPillDebate	06/08/22 01:06 PM
1	What pill ideology do you fall under, and how did it affect your standards? I have no pill, I’m just enjoying my journey like a leaf floating on the wind	/r/AllPillDebate	05/08/22 03:30 PM
3	Q4W: How does women being able to"smell misoginy" line up with women who end up being in abusive relationships? I mean yeah but I also as a man can tell that some men and women are assholes, like isnt part of being a socialized member of society, being able to distinguish people who are being nice from people who are being mean? Idk I feel like nobody can tell with 100% accuracy but if someone is just generally being rude to people and complaining a lot they’re probably not very fun to spend time with	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 03:24 PM
3	“Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountable Honestly I think the best advice to everyone is that we all try to be better both in terms of our own value but more so in terms of how much we contribute to the greater hope of our larger community People are so isolated, but if they got out and did things in their local communities that made them feel good they’d make more lasting connections with people and have less negative interactions with strangers	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 02:48 PM
15	What topics would be banned on PPD that can be discussed here? Idk I’m here cause some dude dmed me and said join this subreddit	/r/AllPillDebate	30/07/22 09:25 PM
1	Heightism against men on Bumble (the feminist SJW dating app) is real Lmao it’s almost like when the only thing you have to base your choices off is photos then you’ll pick the best people based solely on looks…	/r/AllPillDebate	30/07/22 08:13 PM
1	Various types of posters on PPD What about those of us who are just trying to stir the pot and cause arguments because we have nothing better to do	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 06:46 PM
3	Womens body count Idk having more sex is good for you everyone should just fuck more, everyone would be happier	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 02:05 PM
1	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? I’m tall I go to a prestigious university I’m in good shape I have a lot of friends and am in fun social circles I’m the chair of philanthropy for my fraternity so I host charity events and fundraisers for local and national charities I can play the guitar pretty well Cons: I drink a lot (I only drink socially, but I’m always with my friends or girlfriend so that’s still almost every day) I smoke weed every day I do hard drugs occasionally I have to be at my frat to help throw parties twice a we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 07:15 PM
-1	Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them? Idk I do also think men generally are comfortable with worse standards of living than women Check out r/neckbeardnests Many young guys never leave or clean their rooms and are unhygienic, bringing down the “average” for men That’s why the average man tends to be unable to get the average woman, men on average are putting in less effort than women into their hygiene and appearance and men are more likely to not go to college so those men are often not desired by educated women. (obviously some me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 02:57 PM
8	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? I think the biggest issue is a cultural divide between young men and women, women often don’t wanna be approached by strangers in public (shocking I know) so guys need to be in situations where they meet women mostly through mutual friends, mutual activities, or through work. But way more young women are college educated and live in cities and way more men aren’t and live in rural areas. Young women and men are also doing different things for fun, and having less non-romantic contact with each o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 01:19 PM
5	Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard. Touch grass, we’re not npcs we don’t have scripted behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 04:04 PM
56	Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard. I mean generally the amount of respect someone deserves shouldn’t go down as they age…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 02:58 PM
1	What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average? Damn did you just blame women for consumer culture?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 06:56 AM
2	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Idk society is collapsing anyway just fuck off to the woods and start growing your own food. Then you’ll be rich when society falls apart and you’re one of the few remaining producers	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:04 AM
5	i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly. Idk I feel guilty enough having a drunk indoor cigarette at a party without some asshole coming up to me and telling me how I’m killing myself slowly like I don’t already know it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 01:35 PM
1	Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women. Think about this next time you go on a date. A good meal costs at least $20 a person. Plus you’re gonna buy drinks most likely. Maybe this date lasts an evening, but ultimately it’s forgettable With just $20 you could buy two tabs of acid and have a way more interesting date that lasts at least 12 hours plus neither of you will be hungry so you don’t have to buy food. The date will be unforgettably good or unforgettably bad but either way you have a good story to tell	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 11:40 AM
2	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? Stay mad or be chad Or just live life on a whim and don’t worry about this stuff until it happens. I’ve just been winging it my whole life and I’m happy and in a decent place	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 10:19 AM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young I feel like this is already the standard strategy for college educated women who wanna focus on their careers	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 12:34 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’ve been to both, Paris was beautiful when I was a kid but it’s gotten less and less appealing. It’s really packed with tourists and because people don’t like the massive amounts of tourists, they can be rude to you. Also just in general not always the safest city. Rome is beautiful, there’s always more stuff to see because the city is so ancient. The food is also really really fucking good in Rome, I mean it’s great in France, but in Rome like any random little cheap restaurant will cook you d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 12:23 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean yes because the women are doing so because of religious values that were created by patriarchal misogynists. I think the idea is just that there are sexist institutions that still hold a lot of power and influence in America, so while society itself isn’t wholly mysoginist, there will always be sexism spreading because of people pushing fundamentalist beliefs on them. If society was reduced to what the law says, then there’s a lot less sexism than people think. But it isn’t. Society is al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 12:15 PM
1	Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite that If you manage to swallow any pill in its entirety then I envy your ability to reduce the world to a black and white set of rules. Everything to me just looks like one big subjective gray area with some loose guidelines and tons of exceptions	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 12:00 PM
–	Why do women insist on having male friends? Idk I have female friends and a girlfriend, not sure why my girlfriend wouldn’t have male friends too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 11:48 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m 19 i look forward to my annoying years with excitement	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 11:33 AM
3	Sex, Drugs, and Rock n' Roll Mega-Thread Dmt has given me the most profound experiences and by far the most intense ones LSD is a really mixed bag that has given me some really crazy experiences but I definitely can say I enjoy it Shrooms I need to revisit cause every time I do them I don’t get visuals and just feel really stupid and high I think I’m just not eating enough of them	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 01:13 PM
3	What are ways to affirm a man’s “masculinity” that aren’t tied to “dominating” or “subjugation”? Confidence, brotherhood, humility, responsibility while still taking risks (there’s a difference between responsible and meek), and occasional competition (as long as the competition itself isn’t toxic) are all good ways to embrace healthy masculinity. If you wanna talk about joining a program to help you or a friend, I’d say a good thing would be having a coach so being on a sports team, joining the peace corps, becoming a merchant marine, joining the military (if you’re particularly patriotic)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 01:58 PM
2	Sex, Drugs, and Rock n' Roll Mega-Thread I haven’t had sex while sober in about a year, come to think of it I haven’t really done much while sober in a while. Anyway best drugs are lsd, dmt, shrooms, weed, caffeine In that exact order My girlfriend knows I do drugs and is fine with it but doesn’t really do them with me	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 01:52 PM
5	Are men really worthless? Idk men also have a greater likelihood of having atypical brain structure (3:1) and babies on the spectrum tend to prefer looking at objects and shapes to peoples faces. This could’ve skewed the data along male/female lines and the twin studies are almost exclusively based on one data bank from Denmark so the study really needs to be replicated before we can make conclusions like this	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 01:14 PM
1	Flaws of the 80/20 rule It’s literally changes in the economy and cultural divisions becoming more prominent	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 03:48 PM
1	Jan 6th Hearing Mega-Thread It’s hard to say cause it wasn’t very organized and the people protesting in Seattle are different than the people protesting in Philly, etc. they also went on for a longer period of time and they weren’t all over the same thing, they’d kinda stop for a while then start back up again when people were angry about something. They were really more of a series of protests about different events that happened mostly because of the initial backlash to the first protests when our government overreacted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 03:28 PM
18	Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating? Yeah idk my girlfriend knows about my drug problem and we haven’t been together that long but I also haven’t opened up much about my mental health and the reasons I have a drug problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 03:19 PM
1	When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky. The city of brotherly love	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 03:18 PM
3	Jan 6th Hearing Mega-Thread Idk the George Floyd protests were pretty chill too for the most part. Only one in my city resulted in any property damage. I went to four of them, and got tear gassed at one of them which had been totally peaceful. Idrk I think some cities had it much worse but I also think the media did just as much fearmongering with those as they did with Jan 6 so it’s unsurprising to me that people think they were way more violent than they were	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 03:16 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I feel like things are pretty even tbh. There’s tons of high quality men with low quality women and tons of high quality women with low quality men. Especially when you factor in everyone’s personalities, there’s just a lot of incompatible relationships in general. There’s also a lot of relationships that look incompatible on paper but are really healthy and strong though. My female friends complain about dating just as much as my male friends although they’re usually complaining about different…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 03:12 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread One time I smoked dmt and I saw the room around me but perfectly symmetrical across the y-axis, then I shot into space like a rocket then saw an infinite snake with weird writing on it moving around. Then I felt myself fall back into my seat. My girlfriend was sitting on my left knee but also she was sitting on my right knee because my vision was perfectly symmetrical again. Then I went outside and threw up and I felt better. please interpret	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 06:17 PM
1	Did being in a relationship make you more proactive or more complacent? Depends whether it’s a healthy relationship lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 12:32 PM
14	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think I agree that a good portion of women are attracted to that behavior, however I will say that there are a ton of people who seem like fuckboys, who are confident and brash and constantly intoxicated, but are good hearted people and aren’t cheating on their partners. And a lot of them also have lots of success with women. I think from the outside looking in, especially through the eyes of someone envious of their partner, people you don’t know as well as your friends seem like worse people than th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 02:12 PM
1	What's the alternative to "be yourself"? Be yourself means to stay true to your values and not change them to better fit society. The opposite of that would be to forsake your moral compass, your core beliefs, and your passions, and focus your life on clout chasing so that you can climb the social hierarchy. It doesn’t mean tell everybody you meet about a really niche thing they don’t care about because that’s the only thing you care about. You can change your interests and your taste in music and still be you, the things that you need…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 09:00 PM
3	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread No in terms of morality. It’s less bad to accidentally kill yourself than to intentionally kill someone else	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 07:15 PM
6	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread Because obesity is people killing themselves unintentionally and school shootings are people killing others intentionally There’s a big difference in terms of morality	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 05:35 PM
1	Wars throughout history through a purple pill Lense Actually wars generally went like this for most of history. Land becomes overpopulated people are starving and angry, king sees lots of hungry peasants and realizes he has a big army. King invades neighboring city, thousands of serfs die, city is no longer overpopulated. King has more land and rebuilds conquered territory which then becomes prosperous and eventually overpopulated. Cycle repeats until all of the tiny kingdoms are consolidated into a few larger ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 02:58 PM
1	What are the chances the men in your lives are hiding their “true selves”? I smoke weed and drink every day and do a lot of other drugs. Do you think I act the same at work as I do at my fraternity? It’s no different than that. I try not to reach high levels of belligerence around random women because when people get drunk and start doing stupid shit like stealing from other houses and throwing eggs at the library it usually gets people to leave a party.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 02:50 PM
1	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. Eugenics isnt the same as letting people make their decisions naturally. Sexual selection isn’t the deliberate elimination of unfit genetics it’s just something that happens in nature	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 12:02 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I barely post but am just constantly tagged in other peoples so it works out	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 04:59 PM
1	What were you told about attracting the opposite sex as you were growing up? Told by my mom that women deserved tons of respect just for being a woman and you shouldn’t ever insult them like you can with guys when you’re angry. My dad mostly told me women were confusing and a headache sometimes but that any woman you love is worth it. What I would say to teenagers (I’m also a teenager but I’m almost 20) is that the internet has broken everyone’s brains and that men and women are more similar to each other than they think. Everyone is lonely from time to time in college a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 03:41 PM
1	No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of women There’s two types of people. Those who believe in pills and make themselves suffer and those who just live their life and be happy. Just wing it, life is too short to waste it being unhappy. If you go your own way and find happiness yourself someone may come along and like who you’ve become or they may not, but it won’t matter because you’ll already be happy	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 03:37 PM
0	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. I don’t understand why anyone would disagree with this. It’s overall better for humanity to allow sexual selection to work its magic without cultural barriers. That way in like a few hundred years everyone will be beautiful, taller, more athletic, and smarter, and have more genetic diversity meaning they’re likely to have immunities and protections against more diseases	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 03:33 PM
2	If a guy says, “What more do women bring to the table than looks and pussy?” he means he loves worthless women. Not with all of them. When I did stop being friends with someone it was because someone I was dating was jealous	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 04:22 PM
1	Men are frequently referred to as entitled yet no one talks about the way women behave when they don’t get what they want or how often the ugly friend cock blocks when there is a genuine interest between you and a girl Depends which brother it is tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 03:50 AM
1	FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social Status Yeah how do people with full time jobs have time for this shit? The only reason I’m on here is cause I don’t feel like going to class	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:57 PM
26	If a guy says, “What more do women bring to the table than looks and pussy?” he means he loves worthless women. Yeah I mean even the women I’ve had very casual relationships with have been really interesting people. A lot of them live more interesting lives than a lot of my guy friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:45 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m an eagles fan so it’s pretty easy for me to pick a favorite super bowl. That one is probably my second favorite though, definitely one of the most entertaining and also one of the first super bowls I remember watching	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:32 PM
8	Men are frequently referred to as entitled yet no one talks about the way women behave when they don’t get what they want or how often the ugly friend cock blocks when there is a genuine interest between you and a girl I mean like taking care of your drunk friends is absolutely a necessity. I do this for my drunk guy friends. When pledging a fraternity I got asked a lot of hypotheticals on what to do in certain situations. One of them was “your brother is way too fucked up and sitting on the couch and some ugly chick sits next to him and starts trying to make out with him, what do you do?” part of being a good friend is making sure nobody takes advantage of your friend. Especially in environments where people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:20 PM
0	Men are frequently referred to as entitled yet no one talks about the way women behave when they don’t get what they want or how often the ugly friend cock blocks when there is a genuine interest between you and a girl Grammar isn’t required to be correct when you’re commenting online or speaking. I use words like ain’t and y’all and hella all the time, none of which are words. Even my lit professor doesn’t use “proper” English every time he opens his mouth	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:14 PM
7	Female Dating Strategy Mega-Thread I think this was them shutting it down themselves so they could profit from their third party website which I think has ads. If it was Reddit banning them then that’s kinda stupid I don’t really believe in the banning of subreddits unless they’re breaking actual laws rather than just offending people	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:09 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m a foot taller than my girlfriend, I have no idea how much she weighs but I can pick her up with one arm so I think if I just stopped eating I’d die before I weighed less than her	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:05 PM
17	Men are frequently referred to as entitled yet no one talks about the way women behave when they don’t get what they want or how often the ugly friend cock blocks when there is a genuine interest between you and a girl Yeah I mean if I hung out with a girl and she called my friends fat ugly and stupid I’d just leave. I wouldn’t blame a woman for doing the same thing if a guy insults her friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 03:53 PM
1	Do more prudish/absitent societies have more "satisfying" sex lives? Yo I’ll go ask r/amish	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 09:08 PM
1	Men would live longer than women if they had healthier and safer lives This is just not true Being shorter makes you live longer - women are generally shorter Having two X chromosomes may make you live longer Having more estrogen also allows women to keep weight on easier in old age when people start rapidly losing weight There’s probably more reasons but I’m too lazy to think of them	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 09:05 PM
2	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates I mean yeah but only with people who are trying to get more followers… why not just be popular in the real world by having lots of friends? Then you’ll like actually make connections with people	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 08:59 PM
1	What is confidence really? How does it have any real effect in your dating success or failures? I haven’t been very confident at all since my last long term relationship and that’s my biggest hinderance tbh but now I’m in a relationship again and it didn’t really take any confidence to get here so maybe it’s not that important	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 08:56 PM
1	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy Ah yeah I guess I take for granted having Uber and being able to walk everywhere	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 04:33 PM
1	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy Who drives to the club?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 04:06 PM
1	If women on Female Dating Strategy acknowledge dating is a strategy then what is strategic about a High Value Man staying committed to one woman? I mean being tall and having an aesthetically pleasing face are also generally characteristics that don’t change that much over your life It’s significantly more likely you meet a tall hot dude that doesn’t want commitment and changes his mind later than it is that you find a short ugly dude who loves commitment and happens to get taller and more attractive after you start dating him	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 09:20 PM
2	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Texting and social media are low effort but not the best for meeting people to actually hang out with The best way to meet people will always be parties though, it’s a good mix of people who are your friends and people who know one or a few of your friends and a some random people who just kinda ended up there I don’t go to grocery stores because I don’t buy groceries so I guess that’s why	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 09:15 PM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. it certainly isn’t helping	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 09:10 PM
2	If women on Female Dating Strategy acknowledge dating is a strategy then what is strategic about a High Value Man staying committed to one woman? I mean plenty of tall attractive men with money and status are married with kids but ok Like you can say that if you were those things you wouldn’t be in a hurry to get married but other people are different than you, that shouldn’t really be a foreign concept	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 08:42 PM
2	If women on Female Dating Strategy acknowledge dating is a strategy then what is strategic about a High Value Man staying committed to one woman? I mean no lol only if he’s hedonistic Plenty of high value people want to be good parents and raise kids and be in stable relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 07:12 PM
1	What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers? Yeah I mean that would make sense. But most marriages where you make it to 75+ aren’t going to end in divorce because neither of you are going to care about your sex lives very much and you’re both likely retired and no longer trying to gain more money in life since you’ve hopefully planned for retirement So it makes a lot of sense that for older people, they’re a lot happier married. The stressful aspects of marriage like raising kids, making money, and worrying about your leaving you for someo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:59 PM
1	Most people are in denial about ‘platonic’ friendships I mean yeah things got kinda awkward with my closest female friend because after I went through a rough breakup I didn’t have any other support at college and so I slept in her bed with her almost every night for like a month while I was depressed but then she kissed me but things got really awkward because she wanted commitment and even though I did find her attractive, I was absolutely not ready for a relationship But now I’m in a relationship with someone else and now I feel like I can’t go t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:52 PM
1	People who say men aren't vulnerable/don't open up emotionally/aren't as good at expressing/processing their emotions: what are examples of what this would actually look like? I tried to do this but then I caught feelings and now I’m in a relationship with someone who is convinced they can fix me despite the fact that I haven’t been sober for more than an hour in a good five months She baked me cookies though and bought me lunch and dinner last time we hung out so I’m pretty content	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:43 PM
1	What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers? Married men live longer and are happier and the difference between their level of happiness and unmarried men’s happiness increases with age This is also true for women but to a much much lesser extent. There’s tons of studies going back about 140 years on mortality rates and marriage that all corroborate this although many scientists are convinced that this is mostly because of the support that cohabitation provides, so it may be the case that being roommates with a really good friend would be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:40 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Every girlfriend I’ve had has been a few months to a year older than me I think. I also always looked a little older tho especially in high school	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:35 PM
1	What are some basic differences in advice between the "Red Pill" and the "Blue Pill" Idk “love finds you when you aren’t looking” is pretty true, you’re just thinking about it wrong. You have to be actively looking for hookups or dates in order to meet women, but you don’t have to be looking for long term commitment in order to find love. I’ve never like set out with the intention of falling in love or being in a relationship, I’ve just lived my life and sometimes what starts as a casual relationship just turns into something really great and meaningful	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:31 PM
1	The majority of women who try to "fix" their partner don't truly love their partner, they love themselves. I’d say everyone does this type of relationship when they’re young and it goes both ways. Mostly because every guy I meet is a complete degenerate and most women I meet are only slightly less degenerate This kinda makes it so if you want a relationship you’re gonna either have to put up with lots of dumb shit or try to change your partner Or you’re the person that’s being fixed	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:28 PM
1	What exactly forms a man into a "natural" ignoring uncontrollable genetics and circumstances? I used to be the captain of a wrestling team and part of that responsibility was being a role model and shaping younger guys into upstanding people Similarly I recently finished pledging a fraternity. A big part of that process was learning what it means to be a man and embracing the brotherhood of all men. I think the most important qualities you can believe in are Simplicity (honesty to both others and yourself) Perseverance/courage Integrity community Equality And humility through service (he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:25 PM
7	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy Relationships are always more work than not relationships. That level of work is not constant, and changes depending on who the relationship is as well as fluctuating over time. It’s a trade off though. You get someone who will put in that effort when you’re going through a tough time, and in turn you support your partner when they need you. You should both give and take support, it doesn’t need to be 50/50 all the time, in fact there should be times when you put in more work than your partner b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:13 PM
7	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy I’m a degenerate frat guy and I wouldn’t have sex in a public bathroom stall. I understand having sex in like a random room you found upstairs at a party, but like why would anyone ever want to fuck in the disgusting puke/coke room. Plus you gotta do it standing up and like with very limited space. Honestly sounds terrible just wait till you get home	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:10 PM
11	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. I eat like one or two very unhealthy meals a day and I have a girlfriend so idk what you’re talking about I have no money either. Last time I took someone out to lunch it was at my college dining hall and I used one of my meal swipes on them Your attitude is probably the problem cause you seem bitter	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:04 PM
26	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. But like I meet women on a consistent basis. Do you just not leave your house? Social networks are how literally everyone meets everyone. I’ve never once made a new friend by just going up to a stranger at the grocery store and talking to them. Pretty much everyone I’m friends with I met through social networks whether that’s at a party, at work, at school, or in some social club. There’s a few exceptions like people I met on dating apps or at a bar. Having strong social networks is like the sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:01 PM
1	Women are more abusive than men in relationships and don't think that they could be because of society's messaging - "Men bad, women good" Abortion isn’t murder. I’ve killed things that are way more sentient than a fetus and that isn’t murder. If you’ve ever killed a living breathing animal by hand you’d know what it feels like to take a life. It weighs on your soul, and will give you new perspective on life when you have to kill something in order to eat when you want meat Ive terminated human brain cell organoid cultures that are 100% human and more structurally complex than a fetus while studying them in a lab. Theyre not a live…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 05:04 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread At that point we’re just building full on androids that simulate people in every way. I don’t know if you’ve seen blade runner or read “do androids dream of electric sheep” but Phillip k. Dick already imagined this world in the 60’s and it gets pretty bleak pretty quickly	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 02:50 PM
-1	Yes, many women overwhelmingly do not like it when "beta males" attempt to succeed, improve themselves, or learn to stand up for themselves . Being nerdy is definitely not a bad thing unless you’re also boring. Nerdy can’t be a personality but a lot of people are kinda just that and nothing else. Most of the people at my university are pretty nerdy even the athletes and frat guys. They’re just also doing other stuff in their free time	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 05:24 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Although this is true, you have to factor in receptor sensitivity which changes in response to dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin. Basically if your brain produces more happy chemicals, you’ll be less sensitive to them and your baseline level of happy chemicals will feel “neutral” to you, making you require a larger surplus to feel happy. Having constantly high neurotransmitter levels doesn’t actually make you happier and in some cases can be bad for your brain. It’s short spikes in “happy chemic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 03:30 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread It would become this within minutes because people be angry for no reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 03:22 PM
-4	How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters? Because you have a small dick and you’re complaining about it, hence linking the trait of insecurity and the trait of small penis	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 02:40 PM
7	Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades. I mean u could just be in the same relationship and not be abusive and that would probably be a happier existence I think is the point But you’d rather feel the sense of control you associate with manipulating someone else because it makes you feel more secure in the relationship. Unfortunately control is only an illusion and in assuming your girlfriend wants to leave you you will fulfill your own prophecy and push her away because you don’t trust her	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 02:39 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Anger is sometimes kinda horny but sadness is almost never horny Confidence however is horny all the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 06:58 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I choose to believe everyone else saw it too	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 06:49 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I did a bunch of acid a little over a week ago and saw lil yachty in concert and then fought some dude at an afterparty and when I swung my fists they had little trails of light behind them it was pretty cool to see	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 06:07 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lookism isn’t a thing everybody prefers aesthetically pleasing faces even babies. Attractive people seem more trustworthy, kinder, and more intelligent. Scientific evidence shows that people just like attractive people more	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 06:56 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread That’s just like not true. Imagine if we never had Ulysses S. Grant second most badass and first most alcoholic president. Your argument is shitty cause there’s just as many unproductive people if not more who aren’t drug users as there are unproductive drug users. You should measure peoples worth based on their contribution to society and not what chemicals they choose to ingest	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 01:27 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lmao lots of people do drugs and have sex. Even congresspeople do drugs and have sex. I do drugs and have sex. Professors do drugs and have sex. A large portion of people throughout history have always liked drugs and alcohol and also contributed to society. It’s easy to think of historical figures who did great things but were also alcoholics/drug addicts and those are only the most severe cases that we’d know about because most people who drink and do drugs don’t outwardly present that when in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 12:59 AM
2	Women's two primary mating strategies (hypergamy and monogamy) cannot co-exist on a large scale in society. What can we do about this? Is this the ear you can’t hear in? George Bailey I’ll love you till the day I die	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 11:19 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread No I don’t really want anything I just kinda wander around and live my life and when I click with someone I sleep with them I couldn’t care less whether my friends only ever wanna sleep with me or whether they sleep with me and also other people	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 09:10 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I support mandatory abortions for everyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 09:05 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not in 3rd grade but in like 5th and onwards. My little brother actually did go to a private school where he learned about sexuality and gender in like 2nd and 3rd grade and he’s a totally normal kid. I might be biased cause the only one in my family who ended up being transphobic and homophobic is my older brother and he also never went to college, never has had a job, lived at home way too long, did lots of drugs, hit my mom once, and is just generally insufferable. He also is kinda racist som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 09:02 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Idk tbh I’m more concerned about all the nonsense I was taught in the one week of public school education I had in the south I had to learn about “the war of northern aggression” meanwhile in math they were still teaching 3rd graders how to multiply things I got taught all about gender identity and sexuality and whatnot in private school as part of a very comprehensive sex Ed class and it didn’t turn me gay or trans. Unfortunately I think teaching kids that the civil war was about the north tryi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 08:45 PM
1	It's possible for you to become a high value man If u go on TikTok right now you will see tons of videos of dudes saying “a good lock is only opened by one key” but “ a good key opens many locks” or whatever weird version of that analogy they wanna try. Most girls parents I know were significantly stricter than most guys parents I know. Most girls I know couldn’t have serious boyfriends in high school. Most guys I know were just given a talk about safe sex and sent on their way. Why? Because society is more protective of women’s sexuality Ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 08:31 PM
2	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Oh nvm they’re buying you shit idk why I read it as you buying them dinner and gifts	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:57 PM
2	Women's two primary mating strategies (hypergamy and monogamy) cannot co-exist on a large scale in society. What can we do about this? A new magazine! I never saw it before	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:38 PM
1	It's possible for you to become a high value man Ima be real with you nobody tells you that in the real world. Online, masculinity is seen as the enemy but the moment you step into any random party you will see dudes with their shirts off drinking and yelling at each other and trying to impress scantily clad women. I somewhat recently ended a ltr and came out of a long period of depression, and now all my girl friends are encouraging me to raise my standards cause they saw me deal with so much bullshit on account of previous relationships. Non…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:31 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Sex isn’t voodoo magic the only thing that gets released is his semen and some oxytocin	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:24 PM
8	Single women, what are you looking for in a relationship? Alpha and beta males don’t exist but yeah anyone who would describe himself as a chad is probably insufferable. Pretty much anyone who believes in the whole alpha/sigma/beta thing is insufferable in general and also genuinely brain damaged	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:19 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah but why would he feel any more confident after wasting his money on a rando hooker who’s been payed to sleep with him? You’re never going to feel more confident unless you work for something and that work pays off	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:15 PM
3	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. I mean pop off queen. To me it sounds like you’re wasting money and making assholes happy while showering them with free stuff so it seems like they’re kinda actually winning in this arrangement though. Personally I think you’d be better off just like spending that money on yourself or investing it and just forgetting about these randos who wouldn’t leave their basement had you never spoken to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:12 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Terrible advice. Take the money you would’ve spent on that hooker. Invest it and forget about it. Go to a party and find someone to have sex with for free	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:08 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’d say experiencing crushing guilt after jerking off is a red flag in it of itself. That would let me know someone doesn’t have a well defined moral compass and has repressed their desires out of fear of being judged by others	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:06 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Some drug dealers are really good kind and upstanding members of society who help out their local communities and donate to charity I’m not gonna pretend like that’s all of them. But like the only drug dealers I’m friends with and hang out with are pretty chill Then again they also aren’t the ones pressing fentanyl and doing drive by shootings	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Simping is kinda for simps	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:00 PM
3	Women's two primary mating strategies (hypergamy and monogamy) cannot co-exist on a large scale in society. What can we do about this? And I’m gonna have a couple of harems and maybe three or four wives Whoever can tell me what movie this line is from or who said it without googling it is a g	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:58 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread There’s always Ash Wednesday right? I’m seriously asking though I also don’t know when or what that one is until I see ppl with ash on their face	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:52 PM
1	Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example. My parents are really happy together. It’s my brothers and my grandparents that stress the two of them out	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:50 PM
9	Two studies on effect of responsiveness on the the sexual desire of men and women. Thoughts? It’s incredibly difficult to get involved in like legitimate psychology research at a lot of top universities because so many people apply for every lab which results in lots of students running their own studies to get publications. When students run experiments themselves they usually aren’t given much of a budget and so they literally can only get participants by putting up flyers and like asking their classmates. That’s been my experience lol. I work in a neuro lab, but I participate in a lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:49 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread If u work in academia you can just pitch a fit about any holiday you wanna celebrate and they’ll let you go. Everyone I know gets Passover off even a lot of non Jews ask for it off and just go to Seder at their Jewish friends houses. I got extensions and got out of class for Good Friday last year and I don’t even know what that is	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:42 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I dated my high school sweetheart for over three years but broke up with her during freshmen year of college because I didn’t like long distance I talked to her pretty recently, we’re both really different now and I’m not sure we’re as compatible anymore anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:35 PM
1	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? That’s not true lol everyone wants to be your friend pretty much. Or they’ll try and pretend to be your friend. Either way people are nicer to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:56 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I go to the same college as her and we don’t even talk about her that much tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:52 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean I’m a genZ guy in college and we talk about politics all the time. My fraternity gets into really heated political debates with lots of yelling and sometimes fighting when we’re all drunk. Doesn’t help that there are a couple of guys from Russia who just came to the US for college in the frat who were pretty supportive of Putin in the beginning	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:51 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your flair could make this difficult	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:47 PM
14	Daily Community Chat Megathread They’re upset that other people are doing drugs and fucking each other because they’re too high inhibition to put themselves in situations where they can do drugs and fuck people	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:46 PM
1	Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down. Yeah I don’t fuck with opiates or needles in general. Need to lay off the study drugs weed and psychs mostly and to keep my nose clean	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:32 PM
2	Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down. Idk maybe that’s the case. Luckily I don’t think I have much of a problem with alcohol, I only drink maybe 2-3 nights a week. It’s the other other stuff I do too much of	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:08 AM
5	Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down. This is me right now I don’t wanna date because I know I’d be a shitty boyfriend. I’m high all the time and live in a frat house. I care more about school than any person and I’d never spend any money on anyone because all my money goes to concert tickets, alcohol, and drugs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 01:41 AM
1	Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the time Most men and women are undateable I don’t know how anyone could disagree with this	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 02:38 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread How randos treat you isn’t really an indication of failure or success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 02:34 PM
1	Almost all gender behavior differences boil down to socialized behaviors and different hormonal cocktails. And yet they’ll still share many aspects of their personality relative to their respective cultures. Sure the guy in the Middle East will probably be a different religion and speak a different language and be culturally distinct from his twin, but if one is generally agreeable, it’s likely the other will be too, if one has trouble controlling his anger, it’s likely the other will too. If one is diagnosed with schizophrenia the other one has a literal 50% chance of devolving schizophrenia as well…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 05:09 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Im a dude but other guys pretend to be friends with me all the time to try to gain access to my social circle and it’s really annoying tbh I try not to talk to randos unless I have to	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 10:42 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean yeah anyone should just shake it off, it’s not harsh but there’s also no reason to do it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 10:36 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean yeah eye rolling is just generally disrespectful. Like if you’re talking to a person and they’re asking you a question it’s rude to roll your eyes at them in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 10:17 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread If I’m a prize I’m like the goldfish in a bag at the carnival. Sure I look cool and it feels good to win me but there’s no way in hell your parents will let you keep me	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 02:59 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not all of them lmao I’ve definitely talked to some boring people	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 02:56 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s preferred lol wtf is this question	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 02:55 PM
1	Acting/improv classes can help you get women I mean I think there’s a difference between masturbating to the point of having erectile dysfunction and being on perpetual no nut November mode. Why would jerking off make you afraid of approaching women? That makes no sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:45 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean neither of them should feel lucky because neither is getting what they want. Idk why anyone would think otherwise Having women tell you you’re husband/boyfriend material but wouldn’t date you would be like if your job interviewer told you you’re overqualified for the job so they’re not going to hire you Id imagine having men only want to sleep with you when you want a relationship would feel similar to having people pretend to be your friend just to get other things from you like party in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:43 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Fuck you! Go birds!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:26 PM
1	Clubs are a phenomenal place to pick up women and most people don't talk about it. Clubs are just cleaner frat parties that cost money Change my mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:07 PM
3	Acting/improv classes can help you get women Lmao semen retention I never understand this. If people who are successful with women have lots of sex, then how would it make sense for nutting to make you less successful??	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:57 PM
1	Acting/improv classes can help you get women Lol therapy can be helpful it helped me buckle down and get good grades during quarantine when I was depressed and it got me a prescription for weed which is pretty cool if u ask me	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:56 PM
1	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. Every guy I know including myself does this too tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:52 PM
0	In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer. Yeah that’s me lol like I’ve been talking to people or been fwb but been unable to continue cause they started to catch feelings or hint at commitment and I got scared	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:49 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I just kinda invite people to parties and see what happens, no reason to actually ask people out when that costs money and time. I have to work the door or the bar during weird hours on weekends so I usually just try to have people tag along since I sleep thru the day a lot on weekends and don’t have time for dates really	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:46 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean some of them yeah. There’s definitely a few guys in my fraternity who have tried to sleep with brothers’ girlfriends but you’d be surprised to find even the majority of frat guys wouldn’t sleep with their brothers’ girlfriends	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:42 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You mean like the mixer? Homie out here drinking straight mixer	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:33 PM
1	Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself? What about a 6’2 poly drug addicted Ivy League frat boy who sleeps two hours a night and has cocaine for breakfast?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 04:27 PM
1	Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself? Nah I could do better	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 04:18 PM
1	Most men present themselves poorly in public. Idk i feel like with the amount my pupils are dilated at the moment, no set of clothing would benefit my appearance	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 04:44 PM
25	Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about it Stealing and committing murder are issues because you’re taking something from someone else either an item or their life. Having casual sex isn’t inherently bad like theft and murder are. If you think those three things are on par with each other you’re not a very good person	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 04:37 PM
6	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys Did your parents not have parties where there’d be like 30-40 drunk and high adults?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 04:23 PM
1	Regarding the post about women being “paranoid” about assault, what are things that women do in this regard that upset you? I’m not upset lol women should take precautions, I don’t know if things are just different in different circumstances, but I’m in a fraternity at a college where about 1/3 of people are (we have a ton of different frats), and I have unfortunately heard all kinds of horror stories. One of my friends luckily wasn’t assaulted because we were there for her, but her drink was spiked with something and she completely lost consciousness and fell and we had to carry her home. Honestly I’m shocked by how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 07:22 PM
2	Single life is great I am hustling, I’m in college lol getting my degree and working in a lab I still have time to party at night lol I don’t have any classes or work after like 8pm ever and I barely sleep	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 03:17 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Male, I get good morning and good night from roommates and friends and I love you’s every now and then from friends and family	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 02:18 PM
3	CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating advice Make lots of friends in general. Also why are you making friends with ulterior motives? Here is some good advice with which to live your life: When you meet a cool person that you enjoy spending time with, become their friend When you meet a cool person you enjoy spending time with, and you’re attracted to them, then date them	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 02:11 PM
1	Porn is the epitome of cuck culture. I mean yeah I’m not saying I’m not soft, who do you think I mean when I say everyone? You think I’m not including myself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 05:50 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Why do u need prostitution to do that? You can pay for sex via taking someone out on a date. That’s basically what dating is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 03:44 PM
5	Porn is the epitome of cuck culture. Both parties are producing pussies. Men are getting weaker. Most democrats and republicans my age know nothing about policy or economics and just wanna root for their team. They spend most of their time chasing women and drinking. Conservative teens call themselves Christians and act like their better than you because you break their rules, while breaking their own rules Woke teens do the same thing but with accusing you of being racist/homophobic/transphobic The culture war is the most fragile …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 03:39 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Major smal dick energy right here	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 11:20 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread “Totally ducking unnecessary” Actually they were pigeons	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 08:38 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean it’s not really cruelty. Like what do you think happens to chickens before you eat them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 07:48 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I mean I did it humanely Also pigeon meat is surprisingly delicious Frogs, however, are pretty disgusting	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 06:52 PM
-1	Daily Community Chat Megathread My pledging is officially over guys, last night I killed seven pigeons and three frogs for our feast and had a big meal. Then we went for a nice 7 mile run before we started drinking and I don’t really remember after that but I did good because I am a brother now and that’s what matters	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 06:48 PM
2	Was cuck culture more normal among older generations than it is today? No I mean you won’t be you’ll be shamed if you say to someone “I don’t wanna date you because you are a slut” or something along those lines, but if you just respectfully turn people down nobody will be mad	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 12:36 PM
21	What is there more of; people with great looks or people with great personalities? Honestly in my experience attractive people are nicer to me than unattractive people	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 12:33 PM
4	Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women? Both parties exist to make money for congress and politically connected businessmen. Republicans are a little more honest about that Democrats just do the same things while virtue signaling and pretending like they’re trying to do something else and the republicans are stopping them	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:10 PM
2	should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one? It’s definitely better than just staying with the first person and cheating imo. I’d say the only reason you should marry someone is for genuine love, and the only reason you should get divorced is if one of both of you are no longer in love. I’d say if you’re falling for someone else then you’re probably not in love with the first person. So I guess the best course of action is to leave them. If you are in love and still choose to break up with that person in order to marry another person whom …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:05 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Idk man have you tried just being better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:02 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s been two more days lol we played wheel of misfortune, then watched 3 movies, had a nice restful one hour of sleep, then woke up and ran. Last night we played family feud and drank a lot then watched another 2 movies. I got about 45 minutes of sleep to the song baby shark. Im starting to enjoy the process more with every day but I’m not sure if that’s just the sleep deprivation starting to set in	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 03:08 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread I brought drugs and a positive attitude	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 09:26 PM
2	Why is sex important or significant at all? Digital beings suck and animals are chumps. My only task is to get obliterated every weekend so if you wanna be a medical futurist you can make yourself useful and build me a new liver	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 08:16 PM
2	Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide. If I didn’t have women friends who would take my stat tests for me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 08:13 PM
1	Is cuck culture prevalent in our society? Yeah I’m in college tho so idk if that’s not the norm	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 05:21 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread On Saturday i stayed up all night drinking jack daniels then got hosed down with cold water at a frat house in my underwear for two hours. Sunday I ran a half marathon on 3 hours of sleep, and then I was locked in a room overnight with Britney Spears “Toxic” blasting on loop over and over and with strobe lights flashing to keep us from sleeping. We then had to run again today at 7. I haven’t slept in almost 32 hours and I am about to crash. It is currently 11:45 please god let me wake up later	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 03:45 PM
3	Is cuck culture prevalent in our society? I know more adult virgin women than adult virgin men	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 02:55 PM
1	What's your strategy to get what you want from dating? Im just tryna improve my life for me. Im not looking for a relationship. I work out every day, I have no job right now because im a student but I do have savings and money in investments and a Roth IRA for my future so I can at least say im somewhat financially responsible. Im definitely not the best version of myself in terms of behavior and character but I’d say in terms of life goals and fulfillment I am doing well	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 02:50 PM
1	There is something wrong with RP mentality. No I mean I think elements of the redpill and blue pill are both right. The redpill is all abt self improvement from what I understand. Average dudes can punch above their weight metaphorically when they are interesting, charismatic, put together, and work out. Blue pill is also kinda right because you can also definitely win some people over by being overly sweet to them, but obviously like any normal well adjusted person is just trying to be the best they can be in all aspects of life so reali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:59 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Atm women bring sex, sometimes some alcohol, sometimes they’ll buy me some food. I would like some more emotional availability and like for them to pretend to be more interested in me as a person beyond the idea of me they have in their head	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:53 PM
1	The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot. I mean idk why you’d be living your life without trying to be both fit and wealthy even if you were asexual It shouldn’t have anything to do with attracting a partner. Be successful either for yourself or to spite someone else lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 10:44 AM
5	If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you. I mean sure but college is my life right now and my grades are more important than any woman or any “career” I could have right now without a degree or dropping out and going to a trade school. Not sure why you’re shitting on college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 10:42 AM
1	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men Like 50+ out of maybe like 60 guys I talk to. Im only friends with 8 guys who I know for sure have never been in a relationship. Mostly everyone in my fraternity has been previously, some of them are not the relationship type though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 11:31 PM
2	What do you think about Gratitude ? Yeah that makes sense. People should be grateful. If you are healthy and have food and a roof over your head you should be grateful	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:54 PM
1	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men The overwhelming majority of men I know have been in relationships before. They’re also mostly all like 18 or 19 so it’s not like they’ve just been in the dating game a long time. Average people are totally capable of dating, it’s just not quite as easy as for someone more attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:45 PM
9	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity The assertiveness is what gets them women not the toxicity. Assertive, confident, attractive guys who aren’t toxic but are otherwise exactly the same as the other guy do just as well if not better	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:44 PM
1	Would you rather be in a relationship with someone hot but poor, “below average” but ambitious and financially secure, or be celibate for the rest of your life? Why not both? They both suck and are one dimensional straw men created for the sake of this hypothetical. Their feelings don’t matter If you’re as uninteresting as either of these guys you don’t deserve love sorry not sorry	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:31 PM
1	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) I’m 6’2 and just under 200 lbs. I’m in pretty good physical shape, (I’m running a half marathon tmr). I have a great social life with a lot of friends, and I go to a great school where I’m doing well. I also have some fun hobbies and am in some clubs at my university. Lifestyle wise, I may be a little sub par, I am a student so like even tho I have money I do live in a dorm and eat dining hall food. I also drink and smoke (mostly weed, tobacco smells bad so I only smoke it when I’m drunk) and do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:29 PM
3	Issues with accepting highly promiscuous people in LTR (male/female) I mean how high a number we talking? Like I’m gonna be confident, cause if they’re with me they’re with me and I’m gonna believe they care about me unless they cheated which I’d know about because I’m pretty smart and I can generally tell when people are lying to me, especially people I spend a lot of time with. Maybe if their number is like in the hundreds I’d be intimidated tho cause like damn she’d have to be really busy if she’s around my age	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:22 PM
16	Intelligence and personality matter A LOT There’s more than one kind of intelligence. Sure some people can do calculus in their sleep, but if they aren’t well spoken that doesn’t matter. Even if they’re well spoken, if they can’t read social cues, they’re still gonna have a hard time. There’s also people who are artistically gifted or incredibly physically coordinated beyond how normal people are. Both of which might make you interesting and help your career, but in general won’t help your people skills	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:19 PM
2	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men They just wanna be able to wear heels when you go out together. That’s not that big of an ask lmao. It’s also usually not a dealbreaker for most women I know. One of them is obsessed with a dude who’s 5’6 and she’s 5’4. As for dark. Idk if you mean in skin color or personality cause I’d say neither is very applicable to the majority of women’s tastes. Personality wise I’d say yeah a good amount of women like guys who are, but I think there’s just as many women who want a guy who’s really sweet a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:12 PM
1	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men I mean you don’t have to wanna bang people. You can wait for a special someone and be a virgin until you meet them if you want. It’ll just take longer than if you play the numbers game	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:08 PM
1	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men I mean yeah who wants to date someone who’s not good looking and doesn’t have status? I’m not gonna date some girl who I don’t find attractive and who is disliked by my mutual friends and peers. Not every woman can be that selective lol, I know multiple who have crazy specific tastes and are chronically single and yet they don’t wanna be. They’re just more okay not getting laid for long periods of time than most men are, that’s the only reason they can afford to have such specific standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:50 PM
1	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men Most men are average. Most people just don’t wanna be with someone average, myself included. Most average people like average people tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:43 PM
0	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men Literally all my friends get matches every day, my female friends definitely get a higher percentage of the people they swipe on, but that’s just like how the tinder demographics work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:42 PM
1	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men Most men are average, that’s how statistics work. Standard distribution means 68% of men are within one standard deviation from the mean. Women are more selective than men but they have more specific tastes and don’t all find the same people attractive. Like when’s the last time you met a dude that only wanted to fuck ginger women? I’ve met several women that did. I know women who only date guys with short curly brown hair. I know women who try to only date baseball players. Dudes tastes are jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:41 PM
3	What do you think about Gratitude ? Im a really grateful person. I love incredible and passionate sex and am grateful to have it when I do. Obviously my education and career are more important to me than sex, I’m very grateful in general to be where I am in life, but why do you think it make me ungrateful if I enjoy sex? Shouldn’t that make me more grateful since I’m enjoying it more?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:25 PM
1	Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men Well most men are average so it will help most people	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:23 PM
0	Which group are the real winners: Men who have sex, or men who have children? Adoption is pretty natural. Most social mammal species will happily raise the young of others around them especially when it’s the children of their cousins or siblings or just others in the social cohort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:21 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread They don’t mean they can tell whether someone would be a good wife or girlfriend within a few moments, they mean they’ve already decided whether this person is attractive and charming enough to start dating. Both men and women generally decide whether a person is attractive within 3 seconds of looking at them	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:19 PM
1	What can we unanimously agree are dealbreakers in a relationship? I’m a dude here are my dealbreakers for women: In debt/asks for money (no freeloading I ain’t you sugar daddy) Must be okay with me disappearing for days at a time Judgmental of others Disrespectful to my family Is willing to go out to my social scene with me every now and then Is okay with me doing drugs and drinking even when they’re sober Doesn’t care about school or career Must like dogs (because if ima marry this woman we’re gonna own some dogs)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:13 PM
2	Despite popular rhetoric, it is women not men who have extremely inflated self images I’m a college kid who is single by choice and just comes here to start/watch drama Obviously the reason half these people can’t get laid is that they legitimately resent the other sex and spend too much time talking online with people who are the other sex and equally spiteful which just confirms both of their pre existing opinions about each other	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:09 PM
4	Despite popular rhetoric, it is women not men who have extremely inflated self images I love your username Shabbat Shalom	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:05 PM
1	Getting fame for most men will solve most of their dating problems. It’s a lot easier to get a girlfriend than be famous lmao. It’s probably easier to just convince people at parties you’re famous than actually getting famous lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lmao acrylics are hot af idk what you’re on abt Also the feeling of nails digging into your back during sex is very enjoyable Also the feeling of someone scratching your back with long nails as you fall asleep is amazing Also they can give you asmr I will die on this hill	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:01 PM
1	Hobbies Mega-Thread Drugs, grappling, urban exploration, running (who else running the LOVE Run tmr?), and playing the guitar lmao They’re all good hobbies and I’d recommend them	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:56 PM
2	99.99% of men hate women (and why it's a good thing) Because everyone is like you? Lots of people don’t hate women and are normal, but you can just ignore those people if it fits your worldview better ig Also let’s just follow this absolutely retarded train of thought: “this all boils down to women being weaker than men, which is why they deserve to be hated” Do you hate everything weaker than you? Do you hate puppies? Do you love everyone that’s stronger than you? Wtf if you hate women for being weak just go date a larger man or a donkey or like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:53 PM
1	SMV is an Free Market Social Credit Score (Dating Service?) Okay but you also have to factor in too many things to give an accurate rating. For instance, I’m pretty attractive, tall, in good shape, go to a really prestigious university, and have a good social life. I look like a good person to date on paper. I am however a complete shithead, and despite the fact that I spend drastically fewer waking hours sober than intoxicated, that doesn’t really come across when I’m deliberately put together and going on dates, meeting people’s parents, in class, etc.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 07:01 PM
1	Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ? I actually know more women who are just trying to have fun than doing what you’re describing. Maybe it’s a generational thing since I’m genZ and that’s just the scene in college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:54 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread What drugs is he on? Some will boost his ability, some will take away from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:51 PM
1	Hollywood is guilty of influencing men to bend over backwards for women who aren't that into them Who still watches movies tho? I only have the attention span for short tv shows so I basically only watch Sunny, New Girl, Rick and Morty, Community, and Euphoria	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:48 PM
1	What is your personal definition of “cheating” in a relationship? I mean some people have varying definitions of intimacy. Like I’ve had female friends I’d sleep in the same bed with and cuddle with but I wasn’t romantically or sexually interested in. Some people would definitely see that as cheating if I was in a committed relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:44 PM
1	What is your personal definition of “cheating” in a relationship? Yeah that’s definitely not harmless lmao. Harmless flirting is playful and not sexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:40 PM
1	What is your personal definition of “cheating” in a relationship? Okay what if you’re playing a drinking game and you have to kiss someone? Like you’re really just gonna expect your man to accept defeat? Idk about you but I couldn’t date a loser	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:38 PM
1	What is your personal definition of “cheating” in a relationship? Immanuel Kant would like to have a word with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:37 PM
1	What is your personal definition of “cheating” in a relationship? What if he makes it himself tho? Like is a man who paints nudes off the table?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:36 PM
1	What is your personal definition of “cheating” in a relationship? So like if I platonically sleep in the same bed as a woman and cuddle with her then I’m cheating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:35 PM
1	Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective? I have had one really bad relationship with a girl who was really manipulative for a few months when I was in early high school, I had a couple short relationships after that that never really got serious, then I had a great relationship that lasted over 3 years but fell apart due to timing and distance and just growing apart (I still talk to her sometimes). That ended somewhat recently. Now I have a very casual relationship with a friend that’s nice and I get along with, but we’re not particula…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 06:28 PM
1	CMV Men should emulate avoidant attachment styles in today's dating world if they want massive success. I wouldn’t wish having an avoidant attachment style on anyone. It ruined the happiest relationship I ever had tbh. I’ll often disappear for a couple days and not talk to anyone when I’m struggling and nobody can really tolerate that. Being avoidant isn’t like a strategy, that’s called being manipulative. Being avoidant is something that makes being in a relationship a lot harder	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:50 PM
6	Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society. You wouldn’t say that to Dennis if you were on the boat tho… because of the implication	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:42 PM
2	Are women just more queer than men? There’s an interesting study that was done on identical twins in Denmark which found that being gay had more of a genetic factor for men than for women. If a man’s identical twin was gay it was more likely he too would be gay, even if they were raised by different parents. For women, the genetic component is much less, but still present. Basically identical female twins are more likely to be different sexualities than each other. So basically yeah it seems like nature plays more of a role in men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:44 PM
3	Hobbies Mega-Thread Wrestling/Judo/grappling sports and fighting sports in general. I co lead a fight club at my university that does mma and grappling fights. Definitely an A+ tier hobby because it keeps me in good shape and I feel safer walking around the city cause I have fighting experience. Also i get to put it on my resume I love fishing, easily an A tier hobby because it’s super fun, not too expensive although there’s always the option of dropping lots of money on better gear, and you can even catch yourself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:39 PM
1	If western dating is not working for you try somewhere else What about Kelly Oubre tho🥵	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:26 PM
2	Women aren’t innately innocent because it’s their nature to exploit men Lmao of course I do not tell them I love them. Talking to people isn’t being emotional support. That’s like what human interaction is. Have drinks, have sex, watch some tv on the couch, smoke some weed, have sex again. It’s not a bad way to spend a day. Like you’re trying to imply I’m being manipulated but I’m just doing what would be my normal daily routine with another person there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:26 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah it’s a shame insurance won’t cover this, especially when the type of inpatient facilities that people end up in mandatorily are much lower quality and don’t help nearly as well. My friend had tried 3 other rehabs before all of which didn’t work, but after this one he went from living at home to having his own apartment, and has been totally sober for 6-7 months now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:19 PM
1	If western dating is not working for you try somewhere else Damn she doesn’t watch enough basketball ig	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:14 PM
3	Women aren’t innately innocent because it’s their nature to exploit men Lmao I got a drug habit and plenty of mental illness to go around. I hardly think women are using me for “stability” in fact if anything sometimes they try to fix me	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:12 PM
1	Who came first: simps or entitled women? You have the same flair as me on pcm ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:10 PM
1	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? I was super skinny (like 6’2 170lb) after a shoulder surgery a little over a year ago. Since September I’ve gotten back into shape and put on about 20-25 pounds (obviously not all muscle) but I started training for a half marathon recently so I’m still decently lean now. The difference has been drastic, idk if part of it is just confidence but I think ppl can tell	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:09 PM
5	Women aren’t innately innocent because it’s their nature to exploit men In none of my relationships have I ever been providing for another person… I’m a broke college student there’s no money for women to manipulate me into giving them. Just don’t date gold diggers and you’re good lmao. Plenty of women like sex and will wanna have sex without you buying them things. Like all you gotta do is be fun to hang out with	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:04 PM
1	Is there a way to hold frame so that if someone like Dan Bilzerian came knocking you'd be able to keep the girl you're seeing? Okay but he’s probably never had a real conversation with any of those women. I can’t spend time with ppl who aren’t interesting and I don’t generally get along with. I’m much happier sleeping with people I know and care about than I am when I’m sleeping with a random hookup even if they’re more attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 01:51 PM
1	Being promiscuous after you have children is not morally ok A family is more broken if it’s 2 parents who don’t love each other stuck with each other being abusive than if they just separate and are happier and treat the kids better	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 01:43 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The only thing I can think of that’s kinda like that are like inpatient/rehab/overnight wellness facilities. My friend did one when he was struggling with addiction and mental illness where he was staying in like a cabin with other people in the woods and they focused on exercise, eating healthy, and being outdoors, combined with cbt and life coaching as well as group therapy. Idk what your situation is but you are asking about therapy. I think it’s not worth dropping the money on one of these p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 01:35 PM
7	Women aren’t innately innocent because it’s their nature to exploit men I mean there’s just as many dudes on TikTok telling you to cheat on your girlfriend and preaching “toxicity”. If you cherry pick things and only look at examples of women being bad partners you’re just being a misogynist. the only acceptable point of view is that both men and women are capable of both good and bad actions and should be evaluated on an individual basis	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 01:27 PM
7	Women aren’t innately innocent because it’s their nature to exploit men I mean there’s a percentage of people on both genders who have terrible morals and are okay with cheating on partners, manipulating people, and sometimes even murder. People kinda suck sometimes. You just seem to imply women are somehow morally inferior to men and are more likely to wrong you than men are which just isn’t true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 01:07 PM
0	Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ? I mean it really depends. If you get drunk and sleep with someone you may not have learned anything. If you develop 30 genuine connections with interesting people over the course of a couple years and sleep with all of them, you may have matured a lot from that. There’s lots of types of sexual relationships and there’s no reason you can’t learn life lessons from people you have casual sex with	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 03:03 PM
1	How many of you would be pleased or displeased if your son or daughter married or seriously dated someone like you? Thanks for you concern. I’m well aware of that though	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 02:45 PM
1	How many of you would be pleased or displeased if your son or daughter married or seriously dated someone like you? I am a college student in a fraternity where I’m around drugs all the time. I also go to a school where people party pretty hard and do a lot of drugs in general. I don’t think I could stop using drugs at all and still have the social life I have because I couldn’t be sober in a room full of people doing drugs and enjoy it. Im not really dependent on any one substance other than marijuana and coffee, but I use other drugs on and off on the weekends and I drink maybe 2-4 nights a week depending o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 01:57 PM
1	How many of you would be pleased or displeased if your son or daughter married or seriously dated someone like you? I mean I’m like functional I go to class and do well in school and I have a good social life and stay in shape. I don’t really plan on stopping anytime soon tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 01:31 PM
1	How many of you would be pleased or displeased if your son or daughter married or seriously dated someone like you? I consume a lot of drugs and I don’t want my children to consume said drugs	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 12:00 PM
1	Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner? The whole idea comes from wolves who don’t actually exhibit said behavior in the wild. Humans also aren’t that similar to wolves. It makes more sense to compare human society and dating to chimpanzees or bonobos which are the closest related species to us. Chimpanzee females often mate with multiple males when there are lots of males around and fewer females. Their societies however are quite complex. Males often try to “mate guard” females and prevent other males from sleeping with them in high…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 03:37 PM
1	How many of you would be pleased or displeased if your son or daughter married or seriously dated someone like you? If I have a daughter she’s not gonna be allowed near anyone like me	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 01:42 PM
5	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Most men are capable of finding a relationship where that’s not the case. Most men should not give up. Some may not, but they were still probably capable, giving up will inevitably result in them wondering how things could have been.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 06:32 PM
26	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Idk yeah on the one hand this is positive because it’s wrong to shame people for being unable to get a girlfriend, but at the same time it’s kinda a fucked up worldview of you to have that some in fact most men should be encouraged to leave the dating pool because they’re not appealing enough to you. You’re basically promoting incel ideology (blackpill) but as a woman and trying to make it seem positive I really agree with the paragraph about expectations in average relationships, and I think lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 01:44 PM
1	You should pay for what you order when going on a first date Lmao who tf takes someone out to dinner as a date? I’m not giving them the chance to make me pay for something. Invite people to parties, it’s a lot easier I just supply pregame materials which costs virtually nothing bc let’s be real I’d be pregaming and going to the party anyway. And then we go and drink other people’s alcohol all night, it’s like a cheat code for dating while broke	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 03:01 PM
1	Do any of the pills apply to polyamorous/nonmonogamous people? Idk I haven’t tried to actually date anyone in a while I was in a ltr that became a ldr due to college. I’ve been single for like 4 months now and tbh it’s pretty enjoyable, I have sex just as often as I did when when I was with my ex before long distance. There’s definitely like an aspect to being alone that is hard and it’s that I don’t feel like there’s anyone in my life who is like required to listen to me complain when I had a rough day. At the same time I’ve gotten a lot closer with a lot …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 02:54 PM
1	The reason women appear like vapid whores is due to statistics, most women are decent just like men. Is ethical really the opposite of shallow? I’ve known some really kind and morally good women who were complete thots. I also know a few really mean and petty jawns who have never slept with anyone so idk	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 04:55 PM
1	Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could). I mean both are worthwhile, if you’re not sleeping around at least a little bit and putting yourself out there, it’s a lot harder to get into a relationship you’re comparable in	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 04:50 PM
1	Q4All: If you were given a clean slate tomorrow, what would you do with it? Tbh I can’t be at university and stay sober, I’d probably go right back to the lifestyle I live now	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 04:48 PM
1	Is there really a decline in masculinity? Idk I wrestled in high school so I kinda fought people regularly. I’ve also done mma and a few martial arts. The amount of actual fights outside of sports has only gone up for me since becoming an adult and going to college tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 12:13 AM
1	Personality matters, but don't conflate it with virtue Money will make your life better, not everything is about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 12:26 PM
1	Why would you expect women to be attracted to guys who do the easiest thing, live the path of least resistance? Lmao you’re still you after the gym just slightly stronger	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 12:25 PM
1	Why would you expect women to be attracted to guys who do the easiest thing, live the path of least resistance? Be yourself doesn’t mean don’t change. It means change in the ways you want to change for yourself, but don’t change yourself to fit someone else’s expectations. I assume you don’t want to be the way you are if you just described yourself as a pos	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 12:24 PM
5	Anthropology research on 'homosexual societies' This is also in part the way homosexuality existed in Ancient Greece and in the Roman Republic. Powerful rich men would often own younger boys since slavery was allowed. It became taboo during the Roman Republican era but it continued to happen. Basically they became really homophobic but only towards the submissive one and even invented a slur that only refers to the less dominant man in the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 12:16 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Do you really think most men are fine cheating on their partner then going back to them and just never mentioning it for the rest of their life? And most women are also fine with it, but once they cheat they’re just no longer attracted to the previous guy? If that’s what you’re suggesting, I think your assumptions about people’s immorality just says a lot more about your immorality than anyone else’s	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 06:41 PM
2	Q4A: Do you believe in the "sex for pleasure" realm? Ur just like a little blip in the timeline of the universe. Nut as many times as you want. You’re not entitled to anything, but you are the master of your own reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 06:40 PM
2	Discussion: what are the dating dynamics in your social circle? I’m 18M, live in a big city on the east coast. I go to a top university, but there are a lot of other colleges around as well. I was in a 3 yr long relationship until recently and now am single. I have a lot of older friends, especially through my fraternity, who have long term relationships. I’d say about 1/4 of the older guys in the frat have LTR’s, they all met them in college, none of them are married, one couple is engaged. Everyone at my school is really successful in school for the most p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 06:37 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Okay but like all that says is that men are willing to sleep with someone then go back to their old partner and pretend like nothing happened and lie to them whereas women are more likely to have a moral compass and won’t be comfortable sleeping with their partner after cheating on them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 06:21 PM
2	Men and women are walking right past each other when they talk about being attractive I don’t really struggle with dating that much I just like reading other ppls thoughts tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 06:17 PM
1	If women don’t want to be approached at the gym, the grocery, the bar or in the dms - where are guys supposed to meet women? I mean both people are being stupid. The law doesn’t say that you can’t have sex when intoxicated, it says that you can’t consent if you’re literally unable to resist. Like goddamn some dudes really act like they can’t tell the difference between a woman who has had a few a few drinks and a woman who is absolutely hammered. Like I practically live in a frat house so this is a topic of conversation a lot, since part of throwing parties is risk management. I really don’t get how people can’t tell …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 03:12 PM
2	Being a "beta bucks" is better than being an "alpha". Attractive people make more money than unattractive people and get promoted more. If anything there’s a positive correlation between being attractive and successful	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 03:03 PM
6	Introverts are more likely to be involuntarily single. Thus confirming that you have to 'put yourself out there' in order to meet people and develop interactions that turn into relationships. This is a hard truth for many Yeah I have once. Tbh I most use them for validation/to feel more confident or I just swipe when drunk. I prefer to date in person. The girl I met on there was really nice, I was anxious the first time but we had some drinks and it ended up being really fun. I still hang out with her pretty often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 05:30 PM
14	Introverts are more likely to be involuntarily single. Thus confirming that you have to 'put yourself out there' in order to meet people and develop interactions that turn into relationships. This is a hard truth for many I have an anxiety disorder that causes me some issue but dating apps have helped tremendously since Im less anxious texting lol. Alcohol helps a lot too or xans just don’t mix them lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 01:34 PM
1	Excessively erratic enthusiast enjoys exceedingly easygoing euphoria, exalting Epicureanism. Except expecting espousal, ergo expanding extra ecstasy else existing enchantment ends. Extreme enlightment exhorted. This isn’t bad lmao she has only had sex with 4 people that’s not so many as to be a red flag. I haven’t had sex while completely sober in like 8 months, idrk what I’m saying other than drug use =\= promiscuity. Ive met sober people who’ve fucked more people than I have and a literal crackhead who was a virgin before	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/02/22 06:35 PM
1	High-Value Men Are The True Gatekeepers Of Sex I think they just need to do the same things but be more persistent to be noticed. For most people I’d guess it’s a numbers game since they don’t have as many options so they just have to do all those things while dealing with more rejection in between dates	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 05:34 PM
1	High-Value Men Are The True Gatekeepers Of Sex I’d say an ordinary amount of work to get a date with a girl would be talking to her for a long enough time to get a read on what she’d want to do for a date and then inviting her to do that thing. And also keeping up with work you should do every day, like school/work, working out, keeping your room tidy, and being decently well groomed	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 05:01 PM
8	How many people in FDS and TRP have sociopathic leanings? Both FDS and TRP attract specific types of people but there’s definitely a difference. There is probably some overlap in personality disorders though between the two groups. First, both groups attract narcissists, while not everyone in either group is a narcissist, a disproportionate number relative to the average population are likely. This is because both ideas are inherently about raising your standards and being more selective which appeals to people with inflated self value. Other than that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 04:33 PM
2	A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year. Dating isn’t about like finding the person who is worth the same amount as you from an objective standpoint. It’s about being with someone because you care about them. I’m a broke college student and I’m seeing a girl whose parents run a charity named after themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 04:25 PM
0	Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements? In build and drug consumption yes In style and general personality definitely not lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 06:37 PM
1	Women use the mean, men want to be judged by the median I had a stat midterm yesterday you’re giving me a headache lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 06:33 PM
1	Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements? Not a lot of requirements but I definitely have preferences. I generally prefer women taller than 5’3 because height difference can make things annoying. I also usually like long hair, I’m not that big of a fan of red hair, but I’d say I like the other hair colors equally. I also like girls who like to go out and go to parties and stuff so they can come spend time with me on the weekend	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 06:30 PM
2	What is the point or purpose of having a hook-up? Idk it’s just momentary happiness. People generally don’t always make the best decisions when drunk and that’s typically when people choose to hook up with people they don’t know well	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 06:23 PM
2	There is one thing I still don't understand. Why do men cheat? I’ve never cheated but I have a couple friends who have in the past. One is just an asshole who is in a relationship for “status” (direct quote) and actually isn’t really able to cheat very effectively because most women don’t like him, despite this he did cheat on her once and has tried to many other times. He thinks both having a girlfriend and cheating on her makes him cooler and is very concerned with what other people think about him. I think that motivates most of his decisions. My other f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:51 PM
2	Red Pill Coaches Are NOT Making Alphas - They Are "Building Better Betas" Yeah lol not that alpha beta bullshit pseudoscience actually means much, but in my experience the people at the top speak softly and carry a big stick. That is - they are respectful and kind because everyone can tell they are successful without bragging and everyone can see they’re dominant without them flexing	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:41 PM
1	Question for TRP: What type of man do you consider a "Top" man or High Value Man? A high value man makes you feel like a high value woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 03:06 AM
2	[Q4A] Does a Lack of Relationship Experience Early On Significantly Impact Relationships Down the Road? I had a long term relationship that started in high school and went into college and a couple shorter ones before that during high school. I’m not in a relationship now, but a couple of my friends who never had girlfriends in high school are in relationships now so idk. I do think having experience helps you maintain relationships, but honestly I feel like experience being single is what helps you initiate relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 03:05 AM
1	Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR? Correlation doesn’t have an inverse, the inverse of negative correlation is positive correlation. I think you are thinking of causation. I’m not saying being neurotic makes you mentally ill. The cause and effect relationship is the other way around, being mentally ill can make you more neurotic (depending on what mental illness you have) if you do a statistical analysis of people in the top 10% of neuroticism, they will have significantly higher rates of certain mental illnesses than the general…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 09:36 PM
1	Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR? I mean yeah but mental illnesses are spectrums and nobody is completely neurotypical. The more neurotic you are, generally the more likely you are to have a mental illness	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 09:10 PM
1	In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys? Ye I mean but I’ll admit I’m not wealthy by my own means	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:33 PM
0	In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys? Lmao I ain’t a peasant wealthy people do drugs too we just have better taste in them	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:21 PM
1	Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR? 2.8% prevalence is incredibly significant. You also said neurotic people, which is generally a group of its high rates of people with some form of mental or behavioral disorder be it anxiety, bipolar, schizotypal personality disorder, or aspd, all of which cause “neurotic” traits	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:19 PM
1	In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys? I mean yeah but I’m not like a super good person and yet I’m still not an insufferable cunt to people like you are. You can’t deny that bill gates has been more beneficial to the world than you have, even if he has made a killing in the process and been motivated by his own ulterior goals. Some people understand that doing the bare minimum is better than nothing. And some people turn bitter and stop contributing to society and other people’s well-being all together. Like in my life I have known …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:16 PM
3	Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR? Idk I’ve met some very neurotic women who were very forward. A lot of bipolar women (and men) engage in lots of high risk activities and casual sex during manic episodes but don’t otherwise	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:10 PM
5	Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR? That’s what I’m doing as a guy… that’s the ideal strategy for life. May as well have fun with it while you look for someone you’re compatible with	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:07 PM
0	It's too risky for a woman to be with a Red Pilll man. Statistics show most women don’t wanna marry?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:04 PM
1	In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys? Lmao you really can only think of monks and martyrs as examples of nice people who were successful? Also you can continue to profit while being nice, look at bill gates, he’s making billions of dollars and giving some away constantly. Even Teddy Roosevelt, the most masculine and badass president of all time, knew that a real man speaks softly and carries a big stick	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:01 PM
1	It's too risky for a woman to be with a Red Pilll man. Lmao I’m in college so 0, I know nobody that has been married since they were 15 or younger	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:23 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Idk I recently lost a long term relationship partner of 3+ years and have looked for a lot of ways to replace that intimacy. I have a couple friends with benefits who have somewhat begun to fulfill that role in my life, but tbh I have a female platonic friend who I am much closer with than either of my fwb. I sleep in her bed with her like 50% of the time cause I don’t like my roommate, and we cuddle platonically. It’s more similar to a ltr in function since she gives me the emotional support I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:23 PM
1	It's too risky for a woman to be with a Red Pilll man. Most people in general want a partner who loves and respects them that they are attracted to. I would agree that most women don’t wanna be housewives, but I don’t want a housewife lol. I think a lot of women (at least all my women friends) say they want to get married eventually even if they don’t want kids. And they’re more relationship focused than guys my age	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:14 PM
2	In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys? No the people at the top (above the group of people just below the top that you’re thinking about) are nice cause they have nothing to prove. True happiness is being content, sure sometimes people at the top are mean and that gives them momentary happiness as the compare themselves to others who have it worse. But if you’re content, you’re nice because you’re happy about where you are in life and you don’t feel like you need to constantly compare yourself to others or put them down. When you see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:11 PM
1	Q4W Out of the 10 guys listed below, how would you rank them from most physically attractive to least physically attractive? I guess I’m most similar to guy number 2 cause of height and build. I don’t think I have movie star good looks lmao but I’m definitely closer to pretty boy than leading action hero	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:05 PM
4	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? Sex isn’t about gaining access, it’s about getting absolutely annihilated by drugs and alcohol and then experiencing your sense of time disappear for a while while you forget about all the meaningless shit you have to do that day for one fleeting moment of bliss. Nobody should feel like they need to prove themselves or earn anything. It should just be between two people attracted to eachother who wanna have fun	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:03 PM
5	In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys? Kindness is a virtue that the world could use more of. happy people are nice because they don’t have a reason to be angry, and nice people are happy because being kind makes them feel good inside	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 06:57 PM
1	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? Lmao they’re both sexist assholes. You can be neither a player nor an incel, in fact like half of people are neither	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:57 PM
0	CMV: Women don't even know what they want, they have to be told by society and other women as to what is attractive in men Lmao there’s a xan pill flair? I might need to go get blackout and steal that	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:54 PM
2	Follow-Up to "Red Pill and Blue Pill Are Both Correct": An Analysis of Likes and Matches Why would you sign yourself up for free labor though? I don’t get why you’d spend time and effort making videos for people who aren’t giving you money in return	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:48 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You’re really antinatalist lmao that’s some dedication to the movement in your post history	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:47 PM
2	Follow-Up to "Red Pill and Blue Pill Are Both Correct": An Analysis of Likes and Matches Tf? They are definitely there to make money. If you think having an onlyfans will make people really wanna date you I think you may be mistaken. Like Id be able to casually see someone who had an onlyfans but I think a lot of guys I know would be turned off by knowing a girl they liked made content there	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:43 PM
1	Follow-Up to "Red Pill and Blue Pill Are Both Correct": An Analysis of Likes and Matches Are most guys really only getting a couple matches a month?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:40 PM
1	Follow-Up to "Red Pill and Blue Pill Are Both Correct": An Analysis of Likes and Matches Only fans isn’t a dating app, it’s an independent content creation website like being a YouTuber but for sex work. Women are on OF to make money, not to find guys to date. The system also feels pretty fair tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:25 PM
0	Is there something wrong with nice guys and what exactly ? Lmao men hate on nice guys more than women do. Some of my women friends will make fun of guys who simp over them and feel at once validated, and bad for the guy. Redpill men however tend to hate nice guys the most. I have known guys who swore by “toxicity” and told people to cheat on their girlfriends and act like you don’t care about her because they view kindness as weakness and are deeply insecure in their own masculinity which makes them unable to be at once confident and kind	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:23 PM
2	Follow-Up to "Red Pill and Blue Pill Are Both Correct": An Analysis of Likes and Matches Yeah I feel like half the issue with OLD is how it’s designed for you to just keep swiping no matter how many people you match with and meet up with. It’s so addictive that I have swiped on girls on tinder together with a girl I met on tinder	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:18 PM
3	Follow-Up to "Red Pill and Blue Pill Are Both Correct": An Analysis of Likes and Matches Actually no dating apps have to favor women because there are fewer women on dating apps. And if there are too many men and not enough women the app will go out of business. It’s the same reason bars do promotions where they give free or cheaper drinks to women. Their primary customers are men, but in order to bring more male customers, they have to get women to come to the bar since men will be willing to spend more money when they think it will help them find a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:10 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I love you all no matter how warped your world views are. I hope you find a partner of the same pill as you	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 04:23 PM
1	It's too risky for a woman to be with a Red Pilll man. The really redpilled men will always be in unhappy relationships as adults because they don’t want a wife, they just want guaranteed sex and the social approval that comes with getting married	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:59 PM
1	Something I’ve noticed with the women here in terms of TRP The average gen z guy has definitely seen redpill content on tiktok and YouTube even if they aren’t aware of what the redpill actually is. My roommate doesn’t use Reddit or know any of the terminology, but is sexist and repeats common redpill talking points and analogies. He sees all of it on tiktok and Instagram tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:55 PM
1	Women facing long swathes of Involuntary Celibacy? Mine says let’s get high and take my dog for a hike lmao I feel called out	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:49 PM
1	Women facing long swathes of Involuntary Celibacy? Yeah lol idrk what people are talking about. Mostly I see people dating right around their own level of social status and looks. Hookup culture is another story though, a lot of women and men tend to aim higher when they’re meeting people	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:48 PM
1	Ladies which man do you prefer in this example. I’m curious If you’re at a club you better be off your ass on drugs and making a fool of yourself otherwise you may as well have just gone to a bar or stayed home You gotta get back to work/school in a day or two, there’s no reason to waste time trying to think about what women find attractive or whether or not you should be dancing, just enjoy yourself lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 09:53 PM
0	[Q4All] Do high value men use online dating? I am all of those things except for relationship minded and gainfully employed (I’m a student) and I use online dating. I think for ppl my age especially with students, it’s very common since a lot of people who are going to want to look for relationships in a couple years are still dating around. It’s also harder to tell who is high value yet tho since nobody has started their career but everyone at my school is generally really smart and I haven’t really met many people that aren’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 09:46 PM
2	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Lmao yes let’s give the government access to the one thing that is literally the blueprint for our existence. That totally won’t be used to plant evidence on people or to make sure rich politicians get away with crimes by framing someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 08:09 PM
9	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. It’s about the child lmao if you make a baby you have a responsibility to support it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 08:07 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean yeah but like that’s not a very good answer like if I asked you what a good movie to watch is and you just said “well it depends what kind of movie you like” then like you didn’t really answer the question I guess I should’ve been more specific I was kinda looking for anecdotal responses so im sorry if I was rude before lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:11 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You basically just said “it depends” lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:00 PM
4	Women who married shy/timid/cowardly men, how did it turn out for you both? Because if you say you are the top dog you’re already not the top dog. Real men lead by example. Typically the loudest most “alpha” guys act that way from a place of deep insecurity and a need to be liked by others. This is all anecdotal evidence of course, but I am in a fraternity and these are my good friends we’re talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:54 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread What’s a reasonable amount of matches to get per day on tinder?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:50 PM
3	How would you design a dating app catering to female sexuality? But I like tinder because half the fun is swiping mindlessly while I’m crossed and I can’t be wildly intoxicated on a video call	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:05 PM
1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? You must be a fan of good music then	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 01:33 PM
1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? Lots of my friends do too idt it’s that rare	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 10:27 AM
1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? I have one who is one of my best friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:59 AM
1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? Most of them aren’t tbh. I’m the 2nd tallest person in the frat and I’m 6’2. I have a friend who’s 5’8 and a friends who’s 5’6 both of which have girlfriends who are more attractive than them. The thing they have in common is they are both extremely confident and good people who are really interesting and competent. One of them is a former Hong Kong rioter who drops tabs like they’re breath mints and climbs cranes and skyscrapers for fun. We also run a fight club together. The other is president…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:52 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest F	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:37 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I mean your friend got roofied but that’s hardly a reflection of all women	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:29 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest Idk I think that there’s not a lot of guys that wanna be there that aren’t. They could join if they really wanted to. There’s a whole rush period where they get to party for free and meet everyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:01 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I don’t think that’s true lmao as long as you aren’t weird about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:54 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I live in Philly it’s all college students and all the colleges are about 55/45 women to mem	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:51 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest dates are supposed to be fun. Literally why would you waste your time spending time with someone if it wasn’t fun?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:50 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I mean yeah some of them. There are sorority mixers where there’s significantly more women than men since sororities are larger than fraternities. We have a lot of date nights where it’s on you to invite someone, but nobody ever really has trouble finding someone to go get drunk for free. Our regular parties don’t really have ratio requirements if a brother knows you they’ll make sure you get in no matter what. Or if people are willing to give me money or drugs they can sometimes make a convinci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:38 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest Idk I think plenty of women are still looking for men at least at my age. Most of my friends are A lot of the parties i go to have more women than men or are about even but it depends what kind of party it is and who is working the door tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:26 AM
0	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? I mean you are the one who has replied to this comment twice because they’re angry about it and I’m the one who said nobody is right or wrong and I’m just sharing my anecdote	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 12:54 AM
1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? I never would’ve thought there’d be much overlap between tswift fans and dbt fans but I guess I’m mistaken lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 09:26 PM
0	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? Idk maybe you just don’t hang out with ppl who like casual sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 08:47 PM
1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? you must be a fan of good country music then	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 08:16 PM
1	Would you want your son / daughter dating a woman/ man like you? No absolutely not. I’m a borderline alcoholic I have smoked weed every day for the last two years, I do other drugs as well, and I am in a frat house most days of the week. Granted I go to a prestigious university and Im doing well in school but like that’s not a ton in my favor I’m not letting my future daughter throw her life away	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:57 PM
1	What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship? My lifestyle lol I don’t have time between school and social life plus I’m always high and go out drinking a lot and most women don’t want that in a committed relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:53 PM
-1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? there’s no winning I’m just sharing my experiences you are free to disagree. I just don’t think that there’s some group of guys banging like 10 girls a week each which is what op seems to think	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:47 PM
1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? Like moderately attractive. Some are more attractive than others but none are like 10/10. It’s mostly with fwbs. Being in a fraternity magically makes you some people’s type regardless of what you look like. Having communal alcohol and weed to share helps and generally being intoxicated half the time and around other intoxicated people lowers everyone’s inhibitions and makes it more likely	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:43 PM
1	What's the endgame for you here? For fun, idk I wanna hear other people’s experiences. I have no agenda and just saw a lot of angry people so I brought my popcorn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:36 PM
0	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? Most either have a couple of consistent friends with benefits who they sleep with, but a few of them just go for hookups at parties. Personally I prefer my fwbs to drunk hookups because I’m afraid of stds (my university has the highest rate of stds in the country) and I tend to stay out until like 4-6 am when I party so I’m usually too tired at that point lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:34 PM
1	In what ways has Redpill ruined your life? Idk a few of my friends are like really redpilled including my roommate, it makes them marginally more annoying to me I guess lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:28 PM
1	Why are you people so opposed to calling out shallow dating culture? My typical date is either a frat party or Netflix weed and chill lol I am broke	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:23 PM
-1	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? Most single guys I know end up having casual sex like one or 2 times a week, I don’t know how anyone would have time to be doing it much more than that unless they’re in a relationship and live with their gf so I don’t know how you think anyone’s getting like 80% of the casual sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:20 PM
1	Why are you people so opposed to calling out shallow dating culture? Yeah idk those places don’t really seem like the places to meet women to me I’m a little out of the loop as to how much going out the average adult tho cause I’m in college, but I would say I go out 2-5 nights a week (just 1 or 2 when I have a lot of work). You don’t even have to drink if you have stuff to do. I don’t always drink, but I’m able to drink in moderation a lot too so most nights I’m out I’m having like 2-4 beers and calling it a night. I only drink more heavily on the weekends and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:17 PM
1	"Just be yourself" is a terrible advice Nah being myself works fine it’s too much work to be anyone else. Except sometimes randomly when I’m tripping I introduce myself as Jonny Marmalade, I’m not sure why I started doing this but for some reason I don’t like telling people my real name when I’m really high	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:11 PM
1	Q4W: Do you dance and sing along to misogynistic rap lyrics? I only listen to rap music at parties and i barely listen to the words. I am busy playing drinking games and so high that the next day when I hear the same song I don’t remember it and I get to vibe out to it for the first time again	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:08 PM
1	Be honest, in your personal life, do you see more women punching up, or men punching up? I see a lot more dudes punching up, I’m in college tho so maybe that’s why. Lots of guys in my frat get with girls way more attractive than them at parties	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:03 PM
1	Why are you people so opposed to calling out shallow dating culture? You’re to busy to go out? Do you do anything for fun or just work/school? Just literally go out one or two nights a week and get drunk with your friends, you’ll meet someone	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:01 PM
22	Q4All: Would you support teaching the 80/20 rule in classrooms? Lmao if you think only 20% of guys are getting laid you’re a moron	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 06:56 PM
0	If age discrimination is okay, then why isn't height discrimination okay? Pop off queen we stan a woman who knows what she wants lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 06:24 PM
1	When it comes to dating and relationships, it's not primarily "female entitlement" that ruins the party, it's a subgroup of men, who is willing to simp for female attention. Lmao if some dude wants to venmo the girl I’m sleeping with money in exchange for literally nothing that’s great lmao. She’ll be able to buy me a more expensive dinner next time I see her. I don’t think this affects dating. Anyone who sends money to ppl across the country isn’t actively being considered by anyone as an option	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 05:17 PM
3	If age discrimination is okay, then why isn't height discrimination okay? Wdym isn’t every preference okay? You could tell me you’re only into men who are exactly 6’4 and no more or no less and nobody could fault you for that. You’d probably have more trouble finding someone the more specific your preferences are tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 05:15 PM
1	How long would you go without sex before cheating? Yeah lol this question is a lot more about whether you’re okay with lying to your partner or not. Whether you’re red or blue pilled you shouldn’t cheat, just talk to your partner, tell them what’s going on, and if you can’t fix things, leave your partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 05:12 PM
1	What is your opinion on women having jobs and income? I’m not sure what pill I am, if I had to choose I’m probably Xan pilled, but I am also in college and most women I see don’t have jobs and also both me and them are generally broke. Anyway I like intelligent and ambitious women (mostly everyone at my school is both) but I also can’t date anyone who isn’t able to relax and go out on the weekends. I think once I’m ready to settle down I’ll want someone with a career though, I feel like it’s hard for me to be attracted to people who don’t have high…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 05:10 PM
1	How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin? As a guy personally I would be hesitant if a girl told me she was a virgin because I would feel like I was a bad influence on them since most virgins are not experienced in other areas of life either and I’m constantly around drugs and alcohol. I haven’t had sex while completely sober for like 6 months and I wouldn’t want her to end up living that sort of lifestyle if she wasn’t already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 10:57 PM
1	Modern women are choosing the lesser of two evils Everyone should be financially independent. Be a boss babe or a boss bro. nobody wants to hang out with people that don’t have high aspirations As for relationships, it doesn’t matter whether you wanna fuck around or be committed nobody should judge you either way. Personally I have tried both mentalities but I find placing my full trust in anyone terrifying	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 07:19 PM
7	Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be? Idk I’m a guy and I’ve only experienced what I’d consider sexual harassment maybe 15 or 20 times in person and like 5 of those were from other men so I’d say men are more likely the ones harassing ppl in general Most women I’m friends with get harassed a lot at parties, catcalled, and get harassed even more online and it’s always by men I’ve very rarely seen women harass other women. Mostly the only harassment I ever see coming from women is directed at frat guys from really drunk sorority girls	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 07:15 PM
1	Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them. I think you did on another post	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 06:27 AM
–	The “privilege” of experience and confidence Why don’t you let them know about your drug use? How are you gonna find a trippy hippy girl that way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:28 PM
1	Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperation This x100. Having a strong group of guy friends that are close is really important. I struggled a lot when I got to college at first making friends, but I joined a fraternity and I feel a lot more confident and happy in general when I’m walking around because I have that sense of community	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:27 PM
2	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase Are you trying to convince me to want to sleep with prostitutes like what reason would you even have for that? Also no like I don’t wanna dp some random woman for money because that’s gross and I value and respect myself as a human being	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:22 PM
–	The “privilege” of experience and confidence Nah lemme tell you literally everyone is a drug addict. Preppy blond sorority girls love cocaine, hippie girls love psychedelics and weed, workaholics tryna be doctors pop adderall and drink constantly, the party scene has all the above plus additional drugs. We had a frat alumni weekend last sem and there was a literal 65 yr old businessman who brought his own coke to share	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:20 PM
–	The “privilege” of experience and confidence Lmao it definitely is one cheat code. You’ve clearly never been the only man with coke at a sorority mixer	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:16 PM
–	The “privilege” of experience and confidence I mean tbh that’s unironically good advice if you care about women more than your mental health. I’ve never seen someone turn down drugs and in fact at parties I usually do my drugs discreetly upstairs with my friends because random women come up to me and ask for me to share and it’s annoying af	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:14 PM
3	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase Lmao I give a good performance for free. I’m crossed like 90% of the time I have sex so I’m not really thinking about making money	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:09 PM
–	Are there other men who just want a significant other for the social status it gives you? It’s a fine mentality to have morality wise. But you’re not going to find a girlfriend with that attitude. You shouldn’t date someone because you want to date someone you should date someone because you want to date that person in particular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:06 PM
1	Paradox of male dating you need experience to get the experience That’s really fucked up you think you’d enjoy that tbh you sound like you’re not a very empathetic person	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:04 PM
2	Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them. I mean do what you want but from anecdotal experience you will have more fun if you put yourself out there. If you ask someone at a party or bar to do a shot with you 9/10 times they’re saying yes, nobody turns down free alcohol when they’re out for the night. Now your conversation has started and you aren’t strangers anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 03:15 PM
1	Older virgin women, why haven't you lost it yet/lost it later in life? Who said it was?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 01:33 PM
1	Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past? I know plenty of less attractive people than me who are more sexually experienced idk I feel like a lot of it just comes with age	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 08:58 AM
3	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase Then they wouldn’t have to pay…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 08:25 AM
1	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase If they were gross like the type of men who pay for sex then yes probably I’d complain but I’d accept cause I’m a broke college student who craves drugs	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 07:51 AM
2	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase I guess but tbh I’d feel pretty shitty knowing that whoever I payed to have sex was likely forced into said lifestyle in order to pay for addictions or survive and I don’t feel good about that	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 07:41 AM
1	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase Idk I haven’t had to so far	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 07:35 AM
2	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase 1% isn’t that much less than the percent of people I’d wanna sleep with in general. I’m selective anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 06:31 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m still up and drinking I’m at a frat even we’re playing survivor as a pledge class I say keep drinking	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 05:56 AM
1	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase It already happened so I’m not sure how you’re expecting to convince me it’s not possible. I have a fwb who swipes on girls with me on tinder lmao like half of women my age are bi lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 05:47 AM
1	Older virgin women, why haven't you lost it yet/lost it later in life? That’s probably something you should think about when you pick universities. I know I definitely considered social life when picking mine	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 05:31 AM
1	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase Lmao I have personal anecdotal evidence that this is not true	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 05:31 AM
2	Older virgin women, why haven't you lost it yet/lost it later in life? University in general, I’m in stem but I go to a university that has everything and I live in a city with a lot of other colleges so i just meet a lot of college students in general	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 03:52 AM
1	Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past? Thanks? Idk how you can tell over Reddit tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 01:30 AM
1	Do you have less respect for women you meet on dating sites compared to women you meet in person? No I’m on a dating app too so I’m not one to judge, women on dating apps tend to be more into the things I’m into and we’ve already shown interest by swiping on each other so I I like the way dating apps streamline the process. That being said I do also use tinder like a phone game sometimes and just mindlessly swipe while half paying attention during breaks in class and sometimes I get high and just tell my matches jokes or send them memes	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 01:14 AM
1	Older virgin women, why haven't you lost it yet/lost it later in life? I’m excited for drugs which are things that only alive people can do so I guess you could say I’m pretty stoked to be here	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 01:07 AM
2	Older virgin women, why haven't you lost it yet/lost it later in life? Dude it’s like the best time to be a man at least in college. There’s more women than men by like 10% at my college, 50 years ago it would have been mostly guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 01:04 AM
2	Not really understanding the whole work on yourself movement. Cause you should always be working on yourself whether you’re in a relationship or an incel literally everyone should always be trying to be better	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 12:57 AM
1	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase Because that’s impossible without me paying for it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 11:22 PM
1	Do you think lying to get money (gold digging) is okay? There are many types of grift in the world, just don’t get grifted. Don’t join a MLM, don’t buy things for people who are stringing you along for your money, don’t buy a timeshare, don’t get really into crystals (they don’t do anything). Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 07:09 PM
1	Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past? You’re allowed preferences, personally I don’t wanna sleep with a virgin because I would feel like I was a bad influence on them since most virgins are not experienced in other areas of life either and I’m constantly around drugs and alcohol. I haven’t had sex while completely sober for like 6 months and I don’t wanna get people into the kind of life I have if they’re not already partying a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 06:53 PM
1	Are there other men who just want a significant other for the social status it gives you? No. commitment is terrifying, and I can cuddle with my friends and fwb	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 06:47 PM
2	Why is the courage double standard fine but the purity double standard is evil? No it’s natural selection actually to all of those things. Survival of the fittest, get good or your bloodline ends here	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 06:44 PM
1	Paradox of male dating you need experience to get the experience This is a genuinely good take on confidence when it comes to dating. If you just put yourself in situations where you’re meeting women on a consistent basis and be both nice and confident you will find someone who’s interested in you. Just go out one or two nights a week, if you don’t have money for drinks go to parties and drink for free	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 06:40 PM
2	[Q4M] Describe your ideal hoe phase Why would I want to sleep with prostitutes as my ideal hoe phase? I’m in my hoe phase right now and it’s completely free my only expenses are my drug habit alcohol and wawa	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 06:33 PM
2	Straight women (or women that like men), can you name some examples of what makes a man "exciting?" Literally just do fun stuff. Women enjoy fun. Do fun things and they will either already be there or they will want to come with you. Like literally just go to as many parties as you can and you’ll meet enough people that one of them will think it’s cool how fast you can shotgun a beer or whatever other dumb party trick you can think of when you’re drunk	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 06:28 PM
1	There is no fundamental difference between a "fuckboy" and woman serial dater. A fuckboy isn’t a serial dater tho it’s the guy you hook up with at a party and then wake up in the morning and say “oh fuck” when you realized what you did hence the name	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 06:21 PM
2	Do your "adolescent to 20s" male family members have a social life? My older brother has struggled a ton with his social life and still doesn’t really do much and hangs around my family a lot. In high school he went through a phase kind of similar to inceldom although he wasn’t an incel. He was just really conservative slightly sexist and occasionally racist and was constantly insecure about everything I’m in college but close to home and while I get depressed it’s more due to mental illness and drugs and alcohol as I have a really active social life when I have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 06:20 PM
49	Most women or I should say people agree with a lot of the redpill claims when it is not framed in a way that makes women look bad & without the harsh choice of words. Those two statements don’t mean the same thing tho you can want the best possible partner and not be a bad person who abandons their partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 05:22 PM
-1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Don’t guys do the same thing? I’ve hooked up with some women who I would not wanna be in a relationship with, and I’ve been in relationships with women that I didn’t sleep with on the first date. That’s not like hypocritical people just want different things from different people	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 05:19 PM
1	I swore before girls like her create it I’m not sure there are better names, male specific toxic gender roles doesn’t exactly roll off the tongue. I guess it’s just because whoever came up with the idea just decided to call it that and we went with it	/r/MensRights	27/01/22 01:12 AM
1	I swore before girls like her create it Toxic masculinity is male specific toxic gender roles. You’re not supposed to be vulnerable because that would be un-masculine, hence this example of the societal perception of masculinity affects men in a toxic way. That’s really all it means. When people say toxic masculinity they don’t mean that masculinity itself is inherently toxic, just that certain aspects of society’s expectations of men can be harmful to men’s mental health hence being toxic	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 04:47 PM
1	A high school football star had a rape charge against him dropped after a sixteen-year-old girl confessed that the rape never happened. He spent six years falsely imprisoned and broke down when the case was moved to be dismissed. Lmao first lets put body cams on Congress so we can see all the crimes they commit. I’m sorry but nobody is convincing me to willingly allow the government to introduce a constant surveillance state, because it will inevitably be used to keep poor people poor and to keep rich people rich. If some rando is caught smoking weed on his bodycam he’ll go straight to a private for profit prison. Meanwhile the rich, famous, politically connected people can drive drunk and do drugs and nobody bats an eye	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 03:46 PM
1	I swore before girls like her create it Certain aspects of bro culture, like for instance I’m pledging a fraternity, and while Ive never experienced anything problematic I know that some other fraternities on my campus have had histories of defending brothers who had committed various crimes (assaulting other fraternity members, hazing issues, sexual assault) That and the way that both women and men reinforce the belief that men should not share their emotions and be vulnerable	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 03:39 PM
1	What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating? Happy to help	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 07:44 PM
1	"Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationships I’m a broke college student, I’d take a good business partner over a wife any day	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 07:38 PM
1	Compassion vs attraction Unfortunately you seem like you may be a sad boy, this would make it likely a bad idea for you to be in a relationship with another chronically sad person. I had a 3 year relationship with a girl I really loved and it fell apart due to developing codependency and relying on each other completely emotionally. Neither of us learned to live independently since we entered adulthood in a relationship and neither of us fully learned to manage our mental illnesses because we were reliant on each other.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 07:24 PM
1	"Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationships Idk she could give good advice, she might be funny or kind, you might just like vibe, she might listen to cool music, she could be there for you when you’re upset. If she’s cool she might have drugs and be willing to share Even if you’re not in a relationship, a woman can still be a good friend or a good business partner. You should try being less sexist lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 07:07 PM
2	What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating? Liberalism and conservativism are both capitalist free market ideologies. The differences are minor regulations. I think they weren’t talking about conservative and liberal ideology in America and were rather talking about the broader term of liberalism which just represents free market ideas, as opposed to a centrally planned state run economy. Technically from a political theory standpoint, conservativism and neoliberalism in America are both just branches of classical liberalism as it was ori…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 06:55 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Why is it weird to want to take things slow with someone? If I care about someone I’m more likely to want to take things slowly than if I meet someone at a party and am just looking for a hookup bc in that case I’m not worried abt a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 07:28 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. everyone gets one shot to find love and if it doesn’t work out they should give up? Lmao just hope that after high school you and your SO get into the same college otherwise you’re doing ldr and if you break up you’re never allowed to date anyone again You are truly living in a clown world	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 07:02 PM
1	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Lmao what if a guy wants to not have sex on the first date with a girl? Is he a clown for having slept with other people before? Or do u just have double standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 06:59 PM
–	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Lmao do you not do this as a guy? Like if I really like someone and feel like I wanna be in a relationship with them, there’s a lower chance that I’d wanna sleep with them on the first date. If I meet someone I’m attracted to at a party and don’t have an emotional connection to them, I’m much more likely to want to sleep with them because a. I’m not worried about damaging my relationship with them because there isn’t one and b. I’m drunk. Do you just think there should be different standards for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 06:52 PM
1	Deny the point of entry I mean in this case it meant, "even though you are physically injured, you need to do the heavy lifting because you are a man". Like if you're in a wheelchair, you shouldn't be expected to lift heavy things for women even if you're a man, because physical limitations exist and they don't make you any less of a man.	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/03/21 02:40 PM
1	Journalist who shared old Kobe Bryant rape story hours after his death is suspended Wait why does he need to be a basketball fan to know if somebody is guilty of a crime? Being a fan of basketball doesn’t just magically give you a lawyer’s understanding of the law because the crime in question happened to have been committed by a basketball player. Also don’t get mad at people for being born in another country, it’s really a bad look	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/01/20 12:16 PM
1	Q4Men: Do you feel as if being "nice" to women can hinder your "success"? As a man, who tries to be as nice as I can, I don’t think my niceness has ever turned anyone off. I’ve been in a stable and happy relationship for almost a year now, and my girlfriend loves it when I’m sweet to her. Personally I think being nice helps a relationship, and you certainly shouldn’t go around being a dick to people and think that they’ll wanna fuck you if you’re an asshole. I think that a lot of attractiveness comes from a good sense of humor, and good looks. I really don’t think tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/19 08:35 PM