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| 6 | Soft Power is still power | DriveByTroll | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/23 04:08 PM |
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| 2 | Wedding rings?The why of the strip club is answered by the why of any married person at the strip club, chances are good they are happier for the attention with stable freely moving income. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 11:40 PM |
| -5 | The pain is unbearable - thinking of quittingHappa kids are human beings too, worth fighting for just like all these alabaster babies in your minds eye when reading in this sub. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 11:38 PM |
| 3 | The pain is unbearable - thinking of quittingGoing to be really quiet from the "western women" anti-feminist crowd. Bad people are bad people, everywhere. You get more for your $ in Okinawa. Ask Japanese literate friends to help you find bank owned low-cost properties. A puddle jumper flight removes an excuse from your baby mama. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 11:36 PM |
| 8 | Wedding rings?Gifts are hers. Keep yours to wear at the strip clubs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/23 02:36 AM |
| 2 | My hoarding has been cured!Marie Kondo the entirety spouse away when they don't spark joy | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The r/ask post about "why so many dads abandon their kids" is outright nonsenseSexist and racist systems | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Why a Cat is a Divorced Man's best friendOne thing to remember is that cats also affect your living situation should you choose/need to rent. Not to discourage it or anything, but property owners charge extra or outright refuse pets. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 08:24 PM |
| 0 | How Do They Turn It Off So Completely?Agree 100%. All the naked misogyny is the exact other side of the same coin of the trajectory you described. Masculinity is doing what needs to be done in whatever way you can if/while you are fortunate enough to be able. Modern keeping-up-with-the-Joneses is exactly what you are describing: shedding personal responsibility and wrapping yourself in victimhood-- whether it's in an intellectually dishonest veneer of third wave feminism or red pill brainrot. This is a social contagion-- a communal … | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/23 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Confused cheaterSuffer alone, my dude | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What did you do with your ringWear and recharge that ring at the strip club like the green lantern corps. Things are basically beacons indicating neglect, and you can interact with a bunch of single working moms. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Custody Mediation TomorrowTake notes, ask questions, be engaged, and coolheaded. Don't take the bait and react to microaggreessions or try to get little jabs in. Go in with an opinion and justification on why this schedule is the best for your kids, you'll be asked and should be able to articulate. I suggest defer to letting your stbx answer first to avoid her answers being arguments about your perspective. Establish a prior position on important holidays/birthdays and exchange preferences (time, location, etc). | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/23 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Therapy is not for menNo problem. Beware the militant incel pipeline. All paths lead to raiding the Capitol and losing your small business. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/23 11:51 PM |
| 22 | Giving up custody after divorceSack up for your kids. They didn't ask you to exist, you have a responsibility to them and society. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 07:12 PM |
| 6 | Would you date a woman who initiated her divorce?fwiw, that poster was a fella | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Therapy is not for menThis is the most fragile, bitch-made, baby brain worldview. More men should attend therapy and BECOME therapists. Women enjoy power and respect, turns out those things are tremendously validating. There is too much in the real world outside of your locus of control, and smart people seek external perspective to process that reality objectively. All kings had counsel and advisors; all the conquerors and all the inbred anemic effete dandies born from concubines and effete dandies. James Bond didn'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments."identifies as" for both would be a legit conundrum for TERFs | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/23 02:01 AM |
| 1 | You guys might enjoy this interview, weakness is a choice.And Carlson is simply the legacy media video tabloid version of an unprincipled shit salesman from the yacht class-- perpetually and pathologically victimized, injecting anger and fear into the hungry veins of the lower and middle class. Carlson loathes you, he loathes all of us. This interview is 2 dogs of.l the same breed sniffing each other's butts triumphantly for pissing on the same fire hydrant spanning multiple generations of reach. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | You guys might enjoy this interview, weakness is a choice.The mainstream media isn't any more responsible of presenting those ideas than public schools are. I would argue that the life feels like a school of hard knocks because of an education gap for applicable civics and personal finance. One of the primary drivers of that gap and mainstream media's incentives are aligned: keep people angry, stupid, and consuming. Tate preys on the insecurities generated by the above, because the market inefficiency to exploit there is hope and exceptionalism. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | You guys might enjoy this interview, weakness is a choice.Occam's razor. He committed crimes, admitted to crimes, bragged about crimes, and said he moved to Romania so he can pay police to look the other way when committing crimes. This infinite benefit of the doubt endowed by wayward men is farcical. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 01:00 AM |
| -2 | You guys might enjoy this interview, weakness is a choice.Carlson sure does love platforming sex criminals. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Just had to lie to my daughter about a photo of my ex-wife naked with another man.If the situation was reversed do you think a Judge would be nearly as magnanimous? Their digital production being made cloud accessible feels like a custody risk to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/23 04:02 AM |
| 2 | What would you do?Her still loving you seems like something her BF and landlord should know | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/23 11:54 PM |
| 12 | 9 YEAR ESTANGED WIFEUh, she kidnapped your kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | My spouse wants to get a divorce in a different state with different lawsTriflin | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/23 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Research Topic Suggestions from You for YouDivorce to extremist/hate group recruitment and pipeline | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/23 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Come to the realization and its not goodRedpilled means you date dudes on accident but also hate dudes that date dudes on purpose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Come to the realization and its not goodDon't judge an entire population on one bad apple. That's what I tell myself about racists and cops, but I repeat myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Jonah HillNone of that is any of my business. Insecure partners shouldn't police the behavior of their significant others unless it negatively impacts them, but they don't have to pretend to like it either. Adorning pearl clutching displeasure in the patina of counseling language is lame, but so is petty public airing of grievances to deflate a happy moment in their life. Fact is, I've literally never heard of this person until this was amplified by Hill's celebrity, and if they thought this was their me-… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 11:32 PM |
| -4 | DeSantis ends permanent alimony in FloridaCasey DeSantis had to pretend not to understand how to pronounce Thai food. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/23 01:23 AM |
| 8 | My xwife is in a lot painWhat you're doing now seems like the right thing to do- listening without judgment. Have you considered that you too are collateral damage in her trauma? You don't owe emotional labor. Even if you make it available, your scope of influence here is limited. They probably need help from a licensed and experienced professional. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Pls help me not read too much into thisYou don't owe anyone your friendship. Consider this might threaten or preclude future relationships. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/23 08:06 PM |
| 6 | I have a question.Paternity test. Don't abandon your baby. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/23 11:39 PM |
| 3 | i fought for, and got my 50/50 custody. Its looking like i may have to admit defeat and take 70/30.Daycare can be a good experience | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/23 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Ex-wife (38F) introduced kids to her new boyfriend of two months, am I (39M) wrong to be mad?You're totally right. I believe, to some degree, even unenforceable clauses are declarations of expectations on what is best for children. Most people would at least think twice about violating an agreement. Easy and reasonable concessions to mutual understanding move the process along. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Ex-wife (38F) introduced kids to her new boyfriend of two months, am I (39M) wrong to be mad?Divorce agreement doesn't have a paramour clause? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 01:11 AM |
| 5 | What can a law team tell from internet records?Uno reverse card, those were HER browser histories | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/23 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Happy Father’s DayIllinois Railway Museum with boy | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/23 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Wife doesn't want to agree to a parenting planIf you earn, aren't abusive, and are capable parenting, why would she believe she would get full custody when 50/50 is even an option? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Should I go for 50/50?Watch out for seeking concessions to zany things like fully financing graduate school. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Should I go for 50/50?You want answers? You can't handle the truth! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Video Games in your 40s?arcade1up | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Dating after divorceNo offense, but this bitter red pill absolutism is delusional. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 02:02 PM |
| 5 | Forgive the rant but I need to air all this out.Longer you wait, the more expensive it becomes. Not just financially, but socially and emotionally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 01:40 AM |
| 9 | Walkaway WifeYou're not a mind reader; don't let somebody convince you that is an expectation. The uncorking thing is just seeking an audience for their catharsis performance, ideally someone temporary who is obligated to not judge them, otherwise it isn't sufficiently satisfying to people with a main character syndrome. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Advice for dealing with manipulative exBJJ | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 02:27 AM |
| 22 | Update: Stbxw want to see my apartmentCPS isn't going to do anything just because Mum wants to measure dicks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 12:34 AM |
| 7 | Splitting assets and material possessionsBarter for whole items, not fractional hypothetical values. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/23 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Are these good enough reasons for me (31M) to divorce my wife (31F)?Even if infants fly free, your adventuring days are at best on pause. Speaking of pause many spouses have a difficult time feeling attractive during and after pregnancy. Keeping up with the Joneses posts on IG is fairly common, and her feed is likely a stream of kiddos at this stage of life, but envy/FOMO is not a great reason to start a family. Trying to conceive becomes a duty more than an expression of love, and can be frustrating for many. If you're already worried about the bedroom, maybe t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Questions for Divorced Men : Startup Event (early stage, urgent need for responses)Same reason why this is being posted here, everybody wants a free lunch | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/23 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Divorce Anxiety! How to manage?Meticulously track your childcare routines. Check out local martial arts clubs (it's an activity that defeats intrusive thoughts). | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 05:45 PM |
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