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She blew hers, that’s a great perspective. I’m going through something similar. It all boils down to this. You do not value enough of yourself to leave. She see’s this too. She wasn’t that attracted to you. Continue to work on yourself and value yourself more.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:28 AM
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I really like this post as I'm a nice guy and sometimes I choose not to do the nice thing because I feel sometimes it's going to make me look weak. I really have to calibrate and see whether the action may perceive to be only doing it for sex or that you're actually a caring person.
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:34 PM
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Thank you so much for this lesson learned.
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:44 PM
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Thanks for this attitude adjustment. I too was getting hung up, but realized, we're both just trying to have fun. This was really helpful.
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:44 PM
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It's the first one. Also the guy was a bit weak to hang out for 2 years.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:18 PM
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This guy was about to ruin it lol
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:44 PM
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Aye I also saw a Tiktok where the girl said "Five things that make a guy hot: He goes to Therapy." Was one of them.
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:39 AM
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Not in contrary to what was stated but to have a bit of nuance, I've been doing 2 or 3 hobbies for the last 2 years, worked out and tried to maintain friendships. No hookups, no girls. I then read a book to talk to girls and started flirting with anyone I can see. I've made out with at least 10 girls and sex with 4 of them in the last 3-4 months. They are not mutually exclusive. I can say that the centering and belief in myself paid off, but honestly, after I got with girls, my clothing, my conf…
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:41 PM
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May I ask does the last part of your statement actually mean to explain that the first part is very difficult and although it has merits, to not really focus so hard on the whole act?
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:49 AM
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Yes occasionally there are genuine plans and genuine exhaustion. However, just ask them twice, make sure they are at least a week+ apart and if they don't give you a time or a day, it's time to move on. That shows strength.
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:24 AM
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Did you get my email about the 10PM meeting for kissing?
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:39 PM
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Ah gotcha, that makes sense. Don't want to use words even associated with incels.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:59 PM
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On the other hand, can a real chad call some guys a simp? Or is that bad too?
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:35 PM
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When I started picking up girls I was called a player. I would be flattered to be called chad. This is the same as saying there's a smoking hot 10 over there holy shiiiit. But Chads are usually called by the nerds that has no game.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:17 PM
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1000% bro, don't let anybody here tell you otherwise.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:37 PM
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Copy that brotha.
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:02 PM
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I'll know next time I honestly have lots of questions I want to actually post there instead of here.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:45 PM
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Sorry about that, I didn't know that existed.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:35 PM
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I get you, she was just a good communicator, she was being her feminine, no matter what I say although masculine and joking and bantering, she saw that I was being just the same as her, rather than shrugging it off and waiting for the date. I think I got some closure man. I am open to critics and I appreciate you bro. Even though it hurts to hear.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:11 PM
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I get that. I should have played it cooler. Not let all that texting sway me. The things I were saying were very anti simp though tbh. I even said, why don't you explain that when we see each other instead, it's getting late. But it's possible. I see what you're saying. She was texting through the roof, trying to get some love and attention. If I reply enthusiastic no matter how much the banter is, that's what she wants. She got what she wanted. I know what you're saying. You guys are harsh but …
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:06 PM
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I guess making a plan next week after she called it off was too quick. I don't know. I could have given it off, but tbh I think I was really good at hiding what I felt inside. She kept texting really well like I said.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:03 PM
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Between or before dates. I mean, she's bantering a bit, and we only had 2-3 exchanges within the hour after that. And zero for the next 3 days.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:59 PM
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Yes sir, I wrote that just to show you how enthusiastic she seemed. And that's why I didn't even text her between the dates.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:55 PM
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Bro, this post cannot come at a better time. Just dated objectively a 9-10 and she's an actual modal, whatever happens I'm fine. Then I dated a crazy girl most people would probably not find attractive but I really liked her, I'm emotionally heart broken right now. Some girls are from the streets and they stay there that way.
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:43 PM
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Hey, this is awesome, I really get it! I was wondering does this type of talking and self love extend to flirting with a girl? For example, hey, hope you’re doing well today, that type of loving talk help flirt?
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:25 AM
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This is actually great advice.
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:59 PM
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Thanks for the guide!
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:44 PM
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Nope. Face it, you change your behavior depending on the women too. Should you feel ashamed of that?
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:02 PM
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Hey is 5'7" that short? Lol. I mean what about for an Asian as we are generally shorter than lets say, white or black guys.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:25 PM
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-Albert Einstein
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:21 PM
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I was being a bit dramatic and sarcastic btw too though lol, I hope nobody took it too seriously.
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:04 PM
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Yeah attraction is like an MMO. I should know I've been the leader of a few guilds in WOW, but we weren't the most popular on the server. You pick a class, grind a bit for exp on some low level girls until you level up. You eventually get married, but sometimes you have to respec and change your clothes/skill after a divorce. Everybody knows it's much harder for an Engineer to get laid too so your profession is EXTREMELY important, that's why I opted to be a sports player. Nobody else sees the p…
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:38 PM
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Because as a guy our limit to reproduce is based on our access to girls, while a girl's limit to reproduce is access to resources, so there is already a clear dynamic of difference that most people subconsciously accept.
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:20 PM
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Why don’t you just say “totes good, I’m chill bout dat, hmu or lemme know boo, wbu? cuz I ain’t trippin.”
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:36 AM
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This is the answer, you weren't overthinking.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:25 PM
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Does anyone else find this sort of predatory? Pretend you are being used so you can have sex with them?
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:31 PM
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I feel very confident in certain ways, helping others succeed, and be kind to most people or at least I try to. My biggest weakness is worrying about other's perception. It seems to snowball from this fact. Is this also the biggest crux of the issue for anyone else?
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:24 PM
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Seriously, I mean if it inspires the OP great, but it should mark as a beginners motivation to just get started. Honestly, when Hitch was making his moves, he just kept making meta analysis of their interactions. Not only is that a very weird and difficult place to start a conversation, I guarantee you if you're not as handsome or as charismatic as Will Smith is, and without the big screen camera angles, you're going to come across as extremely creepy.
/r/seduction15/11/21 11:09 AM
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Ordered a Sixepnce through Amazon, it's going to come tomorrow. Does color matter?
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:40 PM
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It's arrival tomorrow through Amazon. Going to try my Sixpence and report back.
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:39 PM
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Social media and online interactions have replaced genuine friendships and social skills, this is why you see OP being a 21 year old feeling like they've wasted their entire lives. They've seen probably 15 years of social highlights from someone else. Social skills, interacting with others in real life has been gone from many lives.
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:09 AM
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I think you should have made a poll.
/r/seduction19/09/21 10:06 PM
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No. I can almost guarantee you, it has nothing to do with your height.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:21 AM
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Did you remember the 2 cockblockers were Asian? You know how they are amirite?!?
/r/seduction18/08/21 03:27 PM
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Why do you think he's even here lol
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:51 AM
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They brigade us and make posts about how we are idiots for trying to "fool them" into liking men. Lol
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:51 AM
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You have been banned from r/ askwomen.
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:49 AM
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Then what the hell was the point of this thread it was upvoted and everything and everyone agreed?!
/r/seduction13/08/21 05:33 AM
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I have to ask everyone here, is once/twice right before bed everyday too much?? Or is it more "normal" or less of a libido killer to do it once every few days/weeks?
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:56 PM
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Hey thanks for relating man. It's better to just peel the bandaid off and accept it, and do your best!
/r/seduction11/08/21 08:40 PM
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This is the right answer. You're being tested constantly. No she's not going hm, let me put this guy through a TEST. She's probing and seeing and learning.
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:52 AM
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Can you post a picture of what your body looks like? I also have a lot of progress as well but I want to know at what body type did you achieve this success.
/r/seduction09/08/21 10:17 AM
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Just wanted to correct you and hope you're not sour about life.
/r/seduction28/07/21 06:01 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement brotha!
/r/seduction28/07/21 12:47 AM
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Returning eye contact doesn't mean they're going to sleep with you, what's wrong with you lol
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:53 PM
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Okay, thanks I guess.
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:51 PM
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Nope, his understanding was exactly what I was looking for, I knew I was missing something and he got it. I'm really tbh, re-read and read your post over and over again. And because it doesn't actually relate to what I'm thinking or feeling at all, like I'm literally just in shock over what you're thinking that I'm thinking. You're feeling one way and I'm telling you it's not, like there's no issue here bro. You can feel whatever you feel, I just want to tell you it's not true.
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:50 PM
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Thanks bro for the confirmation, so much nicer than mr.hate up there.
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:42 AM
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So much hate lmao, why am I looking at others if I have no intention of approaching? Who said I will never approach? I’m practicing general confidence and demeanor, so when I do have an interaction that isn't from literally just walking by someone, it would be easy. Just wondering do you think the only time you should make eye contact is for approaching...? I’m practicing eye contact. Such as at a bar when I initially pass by someone I maintain eye contact let them know I'm cool. Then when I see…
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:38 AM
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Lmao, this post is the right answer friends. You gota find the needle in the haystack. Edit: I mean the OP has the right answer...
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:59 PM
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SOLID ADVICE BROTHA. Coming from another Asian.
/r/seduction10/11/20 03:49 AM
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I'm so glad I'm not alone. I thought everyone was able to make all their friends in college and then stay with them. I still have friends from college but distance makes it very difficult.
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:36 AM
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Brb, I'll make a video of me using those same lines. Then we'll see.
/r/seduction20/10/20 09:37 PM
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It's simply not creepy, however, be careful. It will look like you just go for anyone. Make sure both parties are interested in the flirting, don't over commit too quickly. You may wind up being dismissed by everyone in that group.
/r/seduction20/10/20 03:02 AM
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Brother, the interaction sucked, they didn't like you, but that's OKAY. The point of you going up there was brave. Keep doing it. Improve of course, but keep doing it. Nothing to beat yourself over. That's besides the point.
/r/seduction18/10/20 09:17 PM
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I assume the different Thinkpads he had.
/r/seduction16/10/20 10:44 PM
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I like what I read so far! I can see a lot of attachment behaviors I use to seek approval, like working out and having nice clothes. However to what extent should it be only for yourself? Obviously working out for yourself purely for yourself is great but to be honest we work out so that it's attractive. So is it okay to have a bit of both?
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:01 PM
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Holy crap, your videos are so professional, and they're so good they almost seem like they're going to stop and ask you to pay. Which I'm assuming you eventually want to start doing, however, maybe make it worthwhile for free but include even more bonus things in the paid version. I always though videos that showed nothing and told you to pay first was a a bit of a turn off.
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:05 PM
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So what do, go with this strategy or not!? XD
/r/seduction13/08/20 04:22 PM
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Absolutely, true on #3, I realized I've been brainwashed, thinking I have to be the truest of true gentlemen and must tip toe around a girl, maybe take my jacket and put it over the puddle for her.
/r/seduction09/08/20 09:25 PM
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100% - I recently found the same results.
/r/seduction21/07/20 08:23 AM
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So are you saying if she's eating alone, you CAN talk to them??
/r/seduction19/05/20 08:17 PM
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Wait what, he has a bunch of free content on what he did. What's wrong with that? He just decides to monetize it because hey, since he has what you want, why wouldn't he monetize it.
/r/seduction08/05/20 09:13 PM
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SOLID ADVICE MY MAN!
/r/seduction05/05/20 11:16 PM
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That's a part of my conversation topics, I tell them about my flaws and how I'm working on it, that's a part of my personality.
/r/seduction28/04/20 03:59 PM
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having a partner with high social ranking is very attractive, but a long-term relationship requires more than that to sustain itself, and hookups aren’t going to be deeply satisfying over the long run Great point. If you have emotional and confidence issues, and you managed to attract a woman with social status and body, once your lack of substance comes out, they're scared to hell and going to want to leave. Broadly speaking, somebody trustworthy and supportive who satisfies emotional needs you…
/r/seduction24/04/20 03:28 PM
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Hey man, I'm a bit confused, you seem to be contradicting what OP is saying. He talked about self-improvement, differentiating between internal and external, both are important, as it gains mental, and physical strength, confidence from yourself, rather than being confident by what others perceive of you. Contrarily, you talked about how it's all about being "validated in society." Whoa...to me, that's the opposite of being centered and self development. Being validated and deriving confidence t…
/r/seduction23/04/20 11:50 PM
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Here's a typical comment that gets upvoted: "JUST BE YOURSELF #SWAG!"
/r/seduction14/04/20 10:06 PM
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You mean like this? Smile
/r/seduction14/04/20 05:26 AM
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Crap! You mean to tell me I've been arguing here for nothing?!
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:46 AM
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There were no examples except to "just do it." Lol...
/r/seduction14/03/20 09:30 PM
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Do what you want. -Albert Einstein
/r/seduction10/03/20 08:45 PM
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She might be interested in you both, she wouldn't mention it to you that might hurt your ego come off as rude, many reasons. Best not to think about it in a negative way, which is exactly what she's afraid of. Let it roll off your back and keep going.
/r/seduction09/03/20 05:39 PM
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Well, she doesn't owe you anything just because you texted her right? Why couldn't she talk to other guys? Your mindset should be, take action now, because she might go with someone else. If she chooses someone else, that's her loss.
/r/seduction09/03/20 05:26 PM
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Awesome, keeping it real.
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:08 AM
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Here's the thing, why the fuck does a women getting divorce at a higher rate have anything to do with seduction? And most likely the girl feels the guy is not enough for her or she can do better so she leaves, what's wrong with that?
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:35 PM
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Yeah or maybe there's men and woman that are pieces of shits and it's got nothing to do with gender.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:33 PM
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Oh yeah I was more on your side than his. I don't know why you were downvoted haha
/r/seduction05/03/20 07:27 PM
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I'm going to be honest with you, and to the commenter above, EVEN if it's initiated by females, why do you think the female left? Maybe the man is a piece of shit? Maybe he cheated on her? Maybe he's manipulative abusive? I'm really not arguing either way right or wrong, but just saying divorce is initiated by females, and whether that's even true, is misleading.
/r/seduction05/03/20 07:23 PM
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Agree totally, although you have the occasional person like /u/phatfather who just argued with my statement "how can anyone love you if you don't love yourself." Arguing that you can still love a car even if you can't love it back. Lol...
/r/seduction05/03/20 07:21 PM
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He feels threatened, look at his replies.
/r/seduction05/03/20 06:00 PM
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I've gotten great success after reading this subreddit not before. It was a learning process and I learned a lot from here, I appreciate this subreddit a lot and will continue to contribute and speak up on disinformation like yours. I am receptive and will continue to learn as I am ever growing.
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:56 PM
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I'm just glad I got my point across so disinformation like yours doesn't get perpetuated in this sub. I've gotten great advice and success from here and thought I'd speak up about these weird ideas like yours.
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:41 PM
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First, let's talk about what how a person loves you. Your mom loves you, no matter what, and you want a girlfriend that loves you like that as well, that's fine. Here's where you don't get it, a girl doesn't love you in 5 seconds, she looks at you, and amongst MANY factors find out whether you are even worth learning about you at all. Eventually understanding you as a whole person she MAY love you with your flaws. Here's the kicker, when you try to date an attractive girl which is literally the …
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:29 PM
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So I can never call you out because that would always be an opinion? What is your idea again? Btw, this is in response to you calling MY stance "retarded." Did you say anything constructive? Why would a girl love you if you show that you aren't proud of yourself, happy with yourself and is a depressed? You countered with nope I love my cars and cars can't love themselves LOL. Is that an opinion too? Then I'm saying your opinion is SHIT and shows that you do not have an understanding of love. Als…
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:09 PM
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Oh since you said I haven't called you out on anything, let me say and call you out again. I'm saying nobody will love you if you don't love yourself. You countered with you love inanimate objects that are incapable of loving you. Now let me call you out: That is a SHIT idea that shows you DO NOT understand love. You have issues. I didn't want to call you out this blatantly but there it is. I hope anyone who reads this don't get your SHIT impression. Let me know if that's called you out enough. …
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:01 PM
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Why are you telling me what to do? I'm asking you about your stance and I simply repeated it 3 times asking for a discussion. Quite concerned about your idea of love and how it relates to seduction, given this subreddit is to discuss these things.
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:00 PM
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I'm not surprised you're annoyed at having someone call you out on your ideas. It would be hard to grow for you if you find anyone that has a different opinion about something for you to only dismiss and become annoyed. You obviously don't understand what it means to love yourself given the statement you've wrote. I expect your comments will be deleted soon, which is usually what happens when I call people out around here.
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:57 PM
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I'm just repeating your argument to see if I get it straight, you're trying to compare someone loving YOU a human, to loving an inanimate object right?
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:41 PM
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Let me get this straight, I said a person needs to love themselves before others would love them. And you said b..b.but MATERIAL OBJECTS don't love themselves AND I STILL LOVE MY OBJECTS...lol...you're really awkward man.
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:28 PM
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Hahaha, bro, you started off with "if she had love...", how can ANYONE love you if you do not love yourself? (Being proud of yourself is loving yourself if you needed me to spell it out for you)
/r/seduction05/03/20 07:14 AM
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Although it is true IF she spoke little, and she starts with i have a boyfriend right away I should probably leave, that did not happen in this case. I asked questions or talked, and SHE was mostly the one talking about herself, she barely knew that much about me honestly. Like I said she still didn't even know my race. Lastly it was after 3 weeks when I finally asked for her number, then she said she had a boyfriend.
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:41 PM
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That's true, she knew haha. Thanks man! Yeah gota move on...will be fun talking to her though.
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:17 PM
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I get it now, thank you!
/r/seduction19/02/20 08:29 PM
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I know the title was "shit test" and this story's got zero focus on the shit test LOL
/r/seduction19/02/20 07:26 PM
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Can you explain the "shit test" and whether your reaction is what you wanted? Should you have not given her the phone? Was giving her to call Uber correct? Please elaborate.
/r/seduction19/02/20 06:09 PM
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Oh yeah exactly, I think its quite detrimental for newbies...and will cause a ton of confusion.
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:36 PM
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This nuanced answer is not coming across clearly in OP's post. I do not approve this thread.
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:02 PM
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Thanks for this reminder, I don't get cocky, but I do see a girl here and where I feel I just settle sometimes. But to know that you being 6'2" blonde and still have a tough time sometimes to find a new girl, I really need to check myself haha.
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:54 PM
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Absolutely! I had this in my head but was difficult to write it out. This was an amazing post!
/r/seduction17/02/20 11:12 PM
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Awesome reply! This is the truth and it's sometimes hard to hear, but take this in a positive manner.
/r/seduction13/02/20 07:25 PM
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Awesome! Good reflection, although it wasn't slam dunk, you can totally learn from this.
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:46 PM
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Just to understand the journey, did you start of pretty successful already? How long did it take for you to achieve results? Were there a long period where you weren't successful?
/r/seduction10/02/20 05:56 PM
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Good for you! I think the key is that 1st interaction. How much do you think practice/natural talent/clothing factored into this interaction?
/r/seduction10/02/20 05:51 PM
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Yes, agree apart of a whole.
/r/seduction07/02/20 09:26 PM
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If that's how you feel you. Go ahead. I can't relate to how a man feels if he thinks he's judged by his looks and has no control over it like you do. You do you. I'll let you explain. My personal perception of the world is looks are very important, an important part of a whole. I'm no panty dropper but I've had great success improving myself as a whole person.
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:48 PM
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I wouldn't want anyone to use that excuse to not work on themselves which saying humor/smarts/muscles/money is a DISTANT second will do.
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:36 PM
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Yeah, but not like end all be all, everything else is a close 2nd as well.
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:33 PM
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I haven't done it myself but I thought being horny would make me even more anxious?
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:38 PM
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Agree! Nothing for you to be anxious about!
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:38 PM
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This is great advice, thank you.
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:37 PM
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Don't get the number till the end man, she wanted to be seduced!!!
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:36 PM
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I wouldn't say its a hard never pay for the date, but splitting is not a bad idea.
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:35 PM
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Nice post, I don't know where my self-esteem issues came from, but once I realized I didn't love myself, I started to love myself, slowly. One such issue I faced for myself was judgement. I judged others a lot, and not think about what others are going through, which in turn I had this feeling that everyone else was also judging me, and then I judged myself, causing me to not love myself. As posted below, insecurities too. But you may ask how do you get over insecurities. I don't personally know…
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:22 PM
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If you literally asked to be on a date, don't ask to split it. However, I'll gladly pay until she said something like that. Perhaps it was just the chemistry wasn't there. Also as a strategy, asking to split it is way better. If you offer to pay for everything it can make you look desperate, or that you want something in return. Just do it with class. Did you ask her out?
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:06 PM
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Okay, a few things I personally do is Yoga, get to know people there, the instructor the regulars, the guys, at the same time it's really meditation for yourself too. Also people there are generally really fit as well, and half naked. But I've haven't been talking to a lot of girls at Yoga I didn't want to come off like I'm just there to pick up girls so I just work on my own body/meditation and I love it. Other things could be develop more friendships, invite co-workers etc who may invite other…
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:32 PM
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May I ask where you find the term chase framing? Anyways it's a bit overthought, but yes the lines above seemed quite flirty and I like it.
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:22 PM
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Lol, I disagree with the suggestion you should literally move and change jobs, come on. You sound like a hard working and efficient person, which is why you make good money. Now listen, think about the poor minimum wage guys getting all the cute girls. You have to sacrifice a bit. You said you know you need to go out more and get out your comfort zone, but you don't want to waste time. You're going to have to. You're going to have to fail when you get out there you can't be 100% efficient. Find …
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:20 PM
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This sounds tough. But let's put it simply maybe if I change the words it would help. You don't love yourself. If you loved yourself, why would you say that about you? Does this hit the core? Answer these questions, why aren't you deserving of love? How can anyone else love you if you can't love yourself? Things you like about yourself is a start. Let me try this approach. What part of you do you NOT like about yourself? Are you selfish? Judgmental? Do you love others despite their flaws? Well y…
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:16 PM
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Hey bro, she might have been, or she may have just been smiling to be nice. Either way, don't dwell on it as it's unhealthy and unproductive. Maybe go do something that has more opportunities with girls.
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:06 PM
1

What? I'm using that as an FOIL to what that person said. I don't ACTUALLY feel exactly that...lol. I'm sorry I came off as super desperate, I'm actually doing fine currently because of the positive encouragements I've gotten on this subreddit. I'm talking to someone right now, doing hot yoga, building my body, girls have been telling me I'm fit, and getting positive vibes, getting a ton of matches on my dating app, and I barely even care to talk to them. So I mean. I hope you don't read too muc…
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:01 PM
1

Maybe she changed her mind. Maybe she was shy. Maybe she thought you were actually ugly not hot LOL (half-joke). I think you shouldn't talk to her but try to get some eye contact again next time and see what happens. Relax.
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:56 PM
1

I do this all the time.
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:53 PM
1

You should probably be reported so we can save your username and the FBI can subpoena Reddit for your account information. You probably don't understand that being creepy isn't about you. It's about how you're affecting other people. You probably don't have enough empathy to care about that. You sound quite selfish. This is quite disturbing.
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:49 PM
2

I feel like both is true, attraction + game. You can develop both, at the same time.
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:47 PM
1

ROFL here it is perfect example of what I'm talking about... "Least amount of effort, time, and money?" REALLY?! I'm here trying to know how to show the girl I'll love them to the ends of the earth, if you only give me a chance. Come on...
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:02 PM
1

This one? What? Are you the people I'm talking about lol...
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:01 PM
1

Thanks for this perspective, I didn't think of it this way.
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:27 PM
0

How do you know what she said was actually honestly false or that she was just being on her high horse if you didn't even know the example? How did you come with that assumption?
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:30 AM
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I'm asking you dude why are you talking about all this crap. I'm saying I noticed an influx of girls attacking us. That's what I'm saying to reiterate my initial post. I'm just really confused why any of what you said was relevant.
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:00 AM
0

Hahah, why did you just comment with something completely unrelated to the topic. Are you stressed out man?
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:34 AM
2

To me, if you were really looking into each other's eyes, and she was looking at yours, and she didn't have a uh I'm so confused why we're looking at each other look, the deal was done. You could have commented on her face or lips or something, and moved in for a kiss. You said she also couldn't be around soon or something? That might have been like, uh we need action soon and now. A girl said she couldn't wait till next week to do anything gota be today. So I don't know what you need but you ne…
/r/seduction06/02/20 12:31 AM
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Well done brotha, that sounded hot. Next time escalate!
/r/seduction05/02/20 09:51 PM
2

I do this, absolutely. Can't be so serious. Then maybe eventually answer later on.
/r/seduction05/02/20 09:42 PM
3

That's a good one!
/r/seduction05/02/20 09:37 PM
3

I see your point of view, I did try to inform her.
/r/seduction05/02/20 09:30 PM
1

Aside from Chemistry, I think it was a bit weak to have just blocked you without saying anything. She could have been so much classier.
/r/seduction02/02/20 04:43 AM
2

BRO, YOU'RE 6'2 WITH A GREAT SMILE LIKE THAT?! Don't worry man, when you figure it out, you'll never look back. You're definitely not doing something right. Your smile seemed a bit fake haha, and just to put it out there, you're not on the spectrum or anything are you? That can be difficult I know. I'll read the thread and give you feedback in time.
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:19 AM
1

Upload to https://imgur.com/ my brotha.
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:06 AM
1

Bro, you already have a TON of things people can't ever achieve, such as being 6'2. First, looks can easily be overcome no matter how ugly/bad you look. However, would you send us a pic? Just to know if you're REALLY bad or are you just in your own head.
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:29 AM
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You're saying asking your partner how your progress is and giving you feedback? I thought you meant using your partner as a scale for how much progress you have, like if they're pretty then you are succeeding.
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:18 PM
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I'm not trying to completely disagree or argue, but why would you use someone else as a reflection of YOUR progress. This contradicts the first few OP points which is the value of yourself. You are your own barometer, not someone else. I would say using your partner, friends or family as a measure of your own progress is unhealthy.
/r/seduction29/01/20 05:48 PM
2

Sorry for the late reply. I'm not sure what issues you are dealing with, for me I had to first admit certain things. Such as my lack of confidence is manifesting though things like my need for approval/validation from others, putting too much weight into their opinions. My selfishness. My lack of empathy. Just for example, you walk into a room, or work, and instead of going, how am I going to be the most popular/funniest guy in the room, you can go, what can I do for others here, how can I enjoy…
/r/seduction27/01/20 01:05 AM
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Nobody generalized I put brackets around that statement for the very reason. I know you're triggered though. You being triggered isn't going to help the OP, nor this sub. Honestly you're being kind of selfish right now.
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:11 PM
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Thanks brotha!!! Yes, she purposefully twisted my words to be negative. When I meant it in a neutral to positive way.
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:07 PM
1

Yeah I did actually, you didn't even begin to touch on them because of your preconceived notion of misogyny. You just glossed all over them. This is exactly what I knew would happen, You're not here to discuss anything. You're just here to spout out your opinion. You can't even understand what I'm saying because you disagree with it so much. Despite your attack on me I still offer for you to PM me if you want to discuss what I mean, if you're actually interested.
/r/seduction26/01/20 09:26 PM
0

Exactly, because guys want a relationship to have sex, that's why after sex, the guy might feel bad because they realize they don't love the girl. They don't mean to do it it just happens. You literally just proved my point...
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:54 PM
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Not even remotely fragile, if you're actually interested in understanding what my point of view is please let me know. But if you're going to be very snowflake and offended by words like pussy then you're not going to like whatever I say, and try to twist my words into ridiculous perspectives. I too was drinking the Kool-Aid years ago regarding these social justice talking points like you, as a guy. Then I realize men needs to be men. Guess what happened after, I got some pussy under my dick. I'…
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:50 PM
1

At a basic level yes, would help you understand and avoid those terrible decisions OP made and shed a light on how women think. Sorry it's too sensitive for you. You being insecure about this idea is why you're here. I literally have talked and discussed with girls about this, and every one of them agrees with me. Not in the crass way you're trying to frame it of course. Why don't you talk to some girls and figure out yourself. Ask them that psychologically guys are trying to develop a relations…
/r/seduction26/01/20 11:23 AM
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I'm not sure why this isn't the top comment. Working out is a given, break up or not, but I can't emphasize enough how much giving her a card was a mistake. You were suppose to escalate sexually. Writing a card is what kids do. You want her sexually let's not forget that, she wants to earn your love by giving you sex (at a basic level). You have already given you all her love in a card...she's like uh...psychologically she's thinking...how much value does this guy even have, it's so easy for him…
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:12 AM
1

Well being autistic is difficult. I know you may have difficulties with empathy, I'm not autistic but sometimes lack empathy and it makes me act terribly. You're comparing yourself to other people like that kid, but the thing is do you judge others a lot too? Do you think they're comparing themselves to you? Also why don't you appreciate how gifted that person is. Admire instead of jealous. That's a part of feeling empathy look how hard people worked for their success maybe they had tons of sacr…
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:43 AM
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Yes, a few days ago I told everyone you need to develop real confidence through understanding your insecurities and developing more empathy, and that I personally did the "fake it till you make it" method for years and it actually hindered me for the long term. And I got people arguing that we should keep faking it. A year ago this would not have been "controversial."
/r/seduction25/01/20 03:19 AM
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I'm just using a job as an example lol, man. Just take the idea of what I said and run with it dude. I literally stopped three four paragraphs in because all you talked about was about jobs. I used it as a freaking fringe example. The specificity and how much effort you use to type this tells me you might need some help in confidence dude. Now you're going to not take my idea because I used a bad example for you? I'm saying faking it is not as good as having real confidence. And sometimes in my …
/r/seduction24/01/20 06:30 AM
3

These moves were smooth bro
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:57 AM
2

I agree, I don't think we have a different viewpoint here. It's difficult to explain but let me try. Positive statements like "I have it all together" is a great thing. When you fake it and take it as face value, thats terrible. For example, let's say you have a good job...I don't know 50-60k a year? You're not confident, and you tell yourself you have it all together, I'm so good. A fake confident person would be happy of that goal. A REAL confident person would go, I'm way better than this, I …
/r/seduction21/01/20 09:06 PM
2

Agree! Thanks for the shout-out!
/r/seduction21/01/20 08:12 PM
0

Maybe, like I said, I faked it my whole life, to the point I BELIEVED I was confident. I couldn't even begin to understand the insecurities I truly had. I constantly patched those insecurities with my fake confident boosting mind. For me, I built no foundation from faking. I finally built my foundation after I accepted and worked on my insecurities, which excluded faking anything.
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:25 PM
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Short term gains vs long term goals. I'm saying faking it will never achieve what you really need. True confidence. If you're fine with being able to be fake confident and pick up a girl go ahead, then there's post about being an imposter, then there's post about how girls leave you after a few weeks. The insecurities MANIFEST its not just about being nervous, it's about ACTIONS, how you present yourself, how you offer your values to a girl. They will SHOW. Coming from a guy who's faked it his w…
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:15 PM
3

I absolutely agree, I just posted something similar to yours a minute after you haha.
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:03 PM
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I'm going to be honest with you, this is terrible advice. I actually lived my life thinking I'm very "confident" and this fake confidence shows up often as "cocky." There are nuances of true confidence that you don't understand when you're not actually confident, it means you haven't even understood that you have insecurities. Until I realize I was not confident, I didn't love myself, I wasn't able to take care of myself physically and mentally, and I wasn't able to do what a real confident pers…
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:00 PM
1

I wish I seen this yesterday, this girl really wants to meet someone but I thought you're suppose to be quick, thanks to people in this sub...now I realize what we need to achieve before that happens.
/r/seduction19/01/20 01:13 AM
2

Yeah I think he made lots of great points, but the one about how he can't sit in the middle of the restaurant was a bit a-holy LOL. And I don't give a shit if you don't agree. (Am I doing this right?).
/r/seduction12/01/20 03:01 AM
1

I get it now! I haven't been approaching enough 9/10 girls. Gota set my bar higher.
/r/seduction04/01/20 12:41 AM
1

Glad to hear you found success after failure!
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:13 PM
2

This is a pretty absolute statement. Change you is a broad term, can't 2 people improve each other? I wouldn't want anyone using this quote in situations like: "if you have any problems with me I'm not changing it because that's who you fell in love with." I mean, there are things we all can improve on no?
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:28 AM
2

This some high quality shit right here.
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:09 PM
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Isn't this the same game that Tyrion played in Game of Thrones?
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:26 PM
2

I really appreciate you guys calling this out.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:57 AM
1

Yeah, just like how Einstein is outdated physics. Oh wait. Not everything he said was outdated.
/r/seduction12/10/19 07:14 AM
1

So are you trying to say the 3rd type of person is the better method?
/r/seduction08/10/19 04:58 PM
1

Holy crap bro! You could have continued to be intimate. She may have to have intimacy instead of just banging...
/r/seduction24/09/19 05:23 PM
5

What does IOI stand for...?
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:16 AM
1

Yeah but what if you're actually not attractive. JK lol. I mean...I think I'm pretty attractive when I take care of myself yes, not SUPER just, not ugly but...I think there are people who are not considered "attractive" but there are many ways to counter act that.
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:22 AM
15

Although this story is inspiring, this man may already have naturally had confidence/attractiveness and may not have gotten it from /r/seduction. Thanks for sharing though!
/r/seduction13/08/19 03:48 PM
9

Broooo, come on man!!! You had all the right moves I think I just got blue balled by your post.
/r/seduction05/08/19 11:04 AM
1

Thanks for the insight!
/r/seduction05/08/19 05:42 AM
1

That's the goal of this sub right? To try to approach and flirt without being creepy. It can come off this way yes.
/r/seduction05/08/19 12:14 AM
3

She said next week is better, I think there's still a chance, ask again.
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:18 PM
2

Okay, I gota start learning how to hang out at these places!
/r/seduction04/08/19 11:08 PM
1

Okay, but what about as an Asian guy?! Lol
/r/seduction01/08/19 03:54 PM
1

No way, I just had a girl tell me so hard how my friend was trying to put a move on her, or just show some body language that he's into her (he's not, he's just practicing) and I was confused why she wants to tell me so bad she's not into him. But then again, she kept saying how she likes guys with facial hair and I don't have any so...-_-
/r/seduction31/07/19 06:51 PM
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I appreciate the point "if they're not ready for an adventure like this, they'll still respect you for trying." Often I feel like they may dislike the approach, however, if you're respectful about it, it should be okay.
/r/seduction21/01/19 11:21 PM
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