Droi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	The case for men's sex drive		Droi	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 04:58 PM

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14	On attracting a guy who is "not looking for a relationship" You have a lot to lose... You are 30 remember? Time is your most valuable resource, and spending it on an upfront casual relationship is going against what you are trying to achieve.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/15 07:58 PM
23	Coping with Hitting "The Wall" Aging? You're mid-twenties.. Sounds like you are missing the male attention after settling down with a guy. If you don't like your "aging" (weight gain and haircut), go ahead and do something about it. It seems you are looking for a kick in the ass from your SO and you're not getting it.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/01/15 06:52 AM
23	The Red Pill made me depressed. What did it do to you? Share your experience! Agreed. OP - makeup videos, a fresh hair style, a better fitting wardrobe, and a whole lot of gym work are guaranteed to make you more attractive than you are now. It is almost impossible that you are at your self-improvement limit, it is more likely that you cannot improve with what you know anymore. Especially considering you are so young. Hell, in an extreme case, a nose/boob job can make a huge difference. Remember you have a huge advantage. You know so much more than women who haven't taken…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/01/15 08:00 PM
0	Recent breakup, no prospects, not sure how to improve - CCW my life? You are not at the point where 90% of the things you mentioned matter. If no one has approached you in such a long time, there's something else wrong. I don't know what your face looks like, but your body is very nice, in my opinion you shouldn't lose any more weight - too skinny isn't good either. If it's your face, try to learn about makeup techniques. The only other thing left is being approachable. If you look extremely closed, shy and scared it may deter guys from coming on to you. Try to s…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/14 11:38 PM
17	First Date (field report) One date with a guy from pof and you have a captain? Asking if something is a normal behavior in a restaurant when you're a couple? It seems like you are not very experienced, and you can't wait until you find someone. Take your time and don't fall head over heels just yet... so he's polite and has a Cadillac... You should need a little bit more than that to advance into exclusivity (on your first date no less - seems like a red flag).	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/14 04:44 AM
2	How do I get this "male unicorn?" You can improve as a woman - but like dana told you, it's more about your physical appearance. You can work out, you can improve your make-up skills, you can get nicer or more attention grabbing clothes, you can improve your hairstyle. As far as getting a specific man, that would be harder. The only advice I can give you as a man is that talking to someone doesn't necessarily mean a romantic approach. You can accidentally bump into the guy or nonchalantly ask him something quick about your class…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/14 12:34 AM
4	It isn't hard for a girl to be of decent quality. Here's what they have to do (x-post from TheRedPill) So basically kind, reasonable, and likes sex with her partner. Yep, that's what we want.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/14 05:47 AM
2	can someone who is better at understanding men than I am help me figure out WTF is going on here? Committed relationship? The guy wrote you a card with doodles and inside jokes.. do you think every guy does that?! You are really underestimating how much this guy likes you (probably due to lack of experience). You are right that he should be the one escalating, but maybe you are not showing enthusiasm and it's hard for him to push ahead. He left you because your parents make it hard for him to think there's a (healthy) future there. He sounds like a man who is on the soft and gentle side, and…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/14 04:03 AM
1	Should I stay in a relationship with my SO whose future is uncertain? 1 - It's possible she the she wants to break up with him and have it his fault in her mind. Still doesn't make it wrong to break up with him. 2 - It's also possible that she has over time realized he is not the man she thought he is, and is now conflicted because of it. Do you think that never happens? Are all breakups bad? Do women not get a right to break up because they are not happy anymore? It's her SO's job to make her feel secure and that he will be a good leader for a future family. If h…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/05/14 04:06 PM
1	Should I stay in a relationship with my SO whose future is uncertain? Actually that only implies her parents are talking to her about him. Which may mean there's reason to believe this guys isn't really that great. I can play the assumptions game too. We don't know if she backs him up in front of them or not.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 08:30 PM
1	Should I stay in a relationship with my SO whose future is uncertain? Why is he automatically poor? 1) It's better for her to discuss it here than with people who know him. 2) How is this hypergamous in any way? Who are you to decide what reason people should break up for?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 07:00 PM
1	Should I stay in a relationship with my SO whose future is uncertain? I think reddit is the perfect place to discuss these issues. We will never know her bf in real life, to us he's just a virtual character. If she discusses this with her friends she may not be able to be sincere about his qualities and what she really feels about him as to not exactly because she wouldn't want to expose his weaknesses to them. We should not bend the truth here, there's no point. If she didn't say what she really think about him we couldn't help her.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 05:29 PM
1	Should I stay in a relationship with my SO whose future is uncertain? She is not committed to him. Just because you date a guy doesn't mean you should stick with him for life no matter what...	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 05:25 PM
1	Should I stay in a relationship with my SO whose future is uncertain? Good advice - wait for 20 years...	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 05:07 PM
1	Should I stay in a relationship with my SO whose future is uncertain? That's true, but the fact that you say Even if I love him now, even if he makes me crazy happy now Means that he doesn't.. at this early point in your lives.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 05:06 PM
1	Separate activities with friends Well like I said, I think you should only show your support. Don't make an issue where there isn't one. A man can't ask for more than a supporting partner, the rest is up to him. And it sounded like he isn't organizing stuff himself from: so he doesn't really hang out with them solo I was just warning of overextending there ;)	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 05:04 PM
2	Should I stay in a relationship with my SO whose future is uncertain? If you're contemplating leaving him, you don't really love him. It may work out, it may not, but if you were extremely happy with him none of those issues would phase you.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 04:55 PM
3	Separate activities with friends Why are you worried about his playtime? If he doesn't want to spend time with his friends so be it. In any case, I don't think you should set him up with anything. He's a man - he should be able to arrange any kind of activity he wants by himself. The only thing you should do is make it clear that you support him and that you have no problem with him spending time with other people.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 04:45 PM
9	Little help RPW This post makes me cringe hard. Why would you mention your 15 year younger ex-gf that you "put off dating", the fact that she broke up with you and now you're "very very red pill again", and that she will want to get back together, when you ask where to find a "quality red pill girl"? Also congrats on the "great 8-4 sales job".	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 01:46 AM
9	Red Pill mentioned on MSNBC. The funny thing is Rodgers was anti-RP... he was a (dark) white knight. I read his manifesto (amazing read, from a psychological standpoint), and he was too shy throughout his life to ask a girl out. At the same time he thought he was a "magnificent" man, and girls should be flocking to him. He did hate women because he couldn't understand why they didn't throw themselves at him like he thought they should. And he hated men because he was extremely jealous of the fact they had the lives he could…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/14 12:28 AM
1	What made you into a "red pill woman"? Amazing stuff! You seem to have everything sorted out (a lot better than many "normal" relationships I've seen), and I wish you all the best with this arrangement. People can be extremely negative and close-minded about this sort of thing, but you seem like a strong woman who knows what is best for herself. Good luck with the kids, I'm really curious and hopeful to see that everything turns out well. Thank you for your detailed and honest answers.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/14 02:32 PM
6	New to RPW but not to the ideals. Need some advice on how to start. About where to meet guys, off the top of my head I can think of 1) a pool hall. A girl clumsily trying to play pool is cute and will attract guys that want to teach her (well if shes hot). 2) a sports game, you are likely to have good guys to girls ratio. 3) University library, or any other place where you can be approached and there are normally more guys than girls.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/14 06:32 AM
2	What made you into a "red pill woman"? Well I appreciate your honesty and openness. It's a very interesting concept. If the men don't mind, you are basically getting double the advantages (until there's another wife). The men get a part time girlfriend (I know that would work for many guys) who is usually there when they need her. The only problems I'm seeing are 1 - sex, some people do enjoy seeing their SO have sex with someone else, so if they are that sort it should be ok (except the necessity to satisfy both of them which may be…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/14 03:56 AM
2	What made you into a "red pill woman"? Woah ok, I guess I imagined it a little different in my head - like splitting your time between them. Do they consider themselves married to each other as well? It sounds like it. Are they bisexual? You all sleep in the same house? room? bed? Do they tell other people about this arrangement openly? How do people react? How do their families treat you? So many questions.. I guess you made me curious.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/14 02:30 AM
2	What made you into a "red pill woman"? Interesting. I wonder how one can be both RPW and Poly. I mean RPW is based on a monogamous relationship, where you get the guy, commit solely to him and get him to stay. Doesn't having another partner naturally lower the man's value? Do your husbands have other wives? I would say that's the one of the only ways this would not affect their manlinesss.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/05/14 11:20 PM
8	Reminder of something that is frowned upon here I agree with the no bashing part. But I do think people should not be discouraged from disagreeing with RP or any other ideology, that is a dangerous path. Discussion and critical thinking are what drives us forward.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/14 08:47 PM
7	Reminder of something that is frowned upon here Don't use the Isla Vista incident as a way to attack current gender differences. If anything, that incident happened because the killer did not understand how attraction works, which is exactly what RP is trying to explain. And about your question, you can't be a traditional old fashioned woman anymore. The internet has brought what men and women always closed up inside into the open. You will find too many conflicts in your reality.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/14 08:43 PM
5	Reminder of something that is frowned upon here The church?? Where you are actually formally disallowed from advancing in the ranks towards god solely because of your gender? That's a far far worse "demeaning" example than the secular society where you get equal options and treatment.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/14 08:36 PM
13	Had a bout of upset about a pretty controversial topic that I think may have damaged our relationship. You're not an emotional idiot. If anything you are more logical than the women who would act based on their feelings for the guy instead of realizing how devastating this could be for a future family. That said, I don't think this is a deal breaker (yet). You've made your point perfectly clear, the ball is now in his court. Keep an eye on him and remember this incident for a while.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/14 01:26 AM
0	I have a couple if questions... Are you aware of how strong men's sex drive is? I just posted a topic here recently: http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/24yqmz/the_case_for_mens_sex_drive/ I'm a guy, I've talked to hundreds of guys in my lifetime about these things. 99.9% of them have this goal. You can think I'm lying, even though I have no reason to. If you really need to live in a lie... go ahead. About how to use it to your advantage.. How about thinking about that yourself?	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/14 10:30 PM
2	I have a couple if questions... Oh you sound pretty naive. Life is not a disney fairytale, and pretty much all men have the same goal. You fail to realize that men all around you think about you that way, unlike women of the past you actually get a glimpse of how we think. Instead of reacting emotionally, you would be better off using that information to your advantage.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/14 09:53 PM
5	I have a couple if questions... I think many people forget that RPW and RP are not the same thing at all. At their core, they are logic and proof based (the best kind!) strategies for your gender to accomplish its goals. There's a reason these subreddits are not shared, and that is because men and women have different goals. Men, and young men especially, set their goal as having sex as much as they can. Some men want a long term relationship, some only want to increase their success rates with women so they get the choice. Th…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/14 02:56 AM
12	Are Men Ever Really Intimidated by a Woman? It's really extremely simple to know if a guy likes you. Women often forget that 99% of the time we do not hang out with females outside of a romantic context. If we want to spend time with you, we most probably like you. Now, don't mistake what I said to "you should also date guys with no balls" - if a guy refuses to make the move for a while just let it go. If he ever comes to his senses you will get a chance to choose, otherwise carry on with your life. Of course, you can make an advance your…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/14 08:44 PM
37	Are Men Ever Really Intimidated by a Woman? I like how women who never need to put themselves in that vulnerable position judge ALL men so easily. You never have to risk rejection, you are passive and (in this phase) risk free. Honestly, it's disgusting. Just like the dismissal of men's sex drive, the underrating of the fear of approach is just hypocritical. I promise you that the MOST "alpha" guys have had many many times they wanted a girl but didn't approach or didn't make the necessary steps forward. And it could happen because of a m…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/14 05:05 PM
1	I'm a 20 year old college student looking for an introduction of RPW. Can you all help? Did you take up any of the guys that wanted to hang out? How would you know otherwise? (note that guys don't usually hang out with female friends) It's hard for me to further help you through the internet, I recommend asking an honest and experienced female friend about your appearance and what should be improved, and about your interactions with guys.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/14 06:40 AM
2	I'm a 20 year old college student looking for an introduction of RPW. Can you all help? "I've never been asked out on a real date" Does that mean guys have shown interest in a sexual relationship with you, or no one has shown any interest at all? Attraction for men doesn't work the same as it does for women. We look at your face and body, and we are either attracted or not. End of story. And while not all guys would do that, if you have made yourself attractive, at least some men will act on that attraction and try to initiate a conversation with you. Based on that and the seeming …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/14 05:34 AM
1	RPW: What is the benefit of marriage to a high earning male? I was responding to the dialog I set in place there (which you didn't say), so don't take offense. The garbage analogy suggests that if you have a high value, you can ignore any request by your SO, ("neither parties are high value ... the man was able to be coerced" - a man cannot be coerced to do anything). Who are these cream-of-the-crop women? I don't believe I've ever met one, and I've met many women. Women generally look for that strong emotion called love, once they have it, they will do a…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/14 02:21 AM
0	RPW: What is the benefit of marriage to a high earning male? Because he would not usually settle down. Maybe he wants her specifically so much that he is willing to make that step if it is THAT important to her and he wants to keep the relationship going - he likes what she brings him that much. Also it does not have to be coercion, if the woman acts like a grown up and says "Look X, it's extremely important for me to get married, I just don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to get married", it's stating a strong preference. Just like a man could…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/14 01:09 AM
4	RPW: What is the benefit of marriage to a high earning male? Ever heard of divorce? Why is the unbreakable "wedlock" such an advantage for a child? "I also believe it is wrong to do it" is not a reason, it's an emotion. Your last point is actually the correct one. Because the woman wants it. If you're in a relationship with a woman that will not back down and wants marriage, well - the advantage is being able to keep the relationship. This is not necessarily a good strategy for a woman, it is gambling on the wishes of her man, and could cause losing him. …	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/14 09:25 PM
5	RPW: What is the benefit of marriage to a high earning male? Sorry I'm going to have to come in with some logic up in here: 1) Pick a good woman - that has nothing to do with the original question of why a man should marry a woman. 2) Getting a good woman - I'm really not sure what this means, if he is already in a relationship with her, he already got the "good" woman, she isn't going to get any better. 3) Putting yourself on the line or nothing is gained? You can easily start a family with a good woman and have no reason to get married. There's certainl…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/14 08:29 PM
2	The case for men's sex drive Absolutely. Keep in mind that the scenario you are describing is not the norm, and there will always be exceptions. The important thing is to understand the mechanics that are in play, if everyone are satisfied then there's no problem.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/14 04:49 PM
0	The case for men's sex drive You don't understand the context here. I was looking for the term on google (like any person that wouldn't know the expression) and could only find definitions for solipsism. That means most people would misinterpret the term - and we all agree here - it's definitely NOT solipsism, it has a different meaning. But you prefer acting like you know shit.. you're not impressing anyone buddy..	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/14 03:01 AM
1	The case for men's sex drive Cool, so we agree - it's all about the "get it to catch on" part, which I think it didn't and you think it did. That's fine, it's opinion based.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/14 02:59 AM
1	The case for men's sex drive First, my advice is don't be so hung up on sticking to the rules of avoiding any kind of action that might make you look like a "woman" or a creepy guy or what not. Life is not black and white. Almost everyone won't care / notice if you commented last. Now, I have no previous knowledge of the term female solipsism. I searched for it on google and found what I found - which is why I am saying that most people (like me) are not likely to delve so deep to articles to find the usage that may be used…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/14 12:03 AM
2	The case for men's sex drive It's not about criticism, it's about understanding that men have different needs. She doesn't have to have negative feelings about male sex drive to misunderstand or underestimate it. You're correct that it's basic, I've just had a few comments here that sounded like I'm overestimating it. About your husband, sorry to hear that. I could try to give you a male pov.. has it always been a problem for you two, or has something changed? if so can you tell since when?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 11:49 PM
1	The case for men's sex drive You're also funny :P All of what you said is great. But by respectable source I mean someone who is looking for a term and for some odd reason does not know danabanana9 and has no way of trusting a mention of it in some random blog.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 11:41 PM
7	The love of my life said I lack "drive" More of your drive? Do you know what most people do at work? sit around in meetings and bullshit other people. What you do sounds like a hell of a lot more effort than that. If I had to guess, his comment has an underlying reason. He may have a problem with your relationship, but can't or more likely doesn't want to point it out exactly so he uses that as an excuse to display his negative feelings.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 11:30 PM
1	The case for men's sex drive If a google search does not give me a direct definition of a concept from a respectable source, I don't count it as established enough. I see where you are coming from, but I think to use that word in the expression is a bit of a leap to what you and I agree it means. Perhaps it needs a better name heh.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 11:23 PM
1	The case for men's sex drive I point you to this: http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/24yqmz/the_case_for_mens_sex_drive/chc93tb If you do mean "female solipsism" as an idiomatic expression like Dana is claiming then you should be specific to avoid confusion.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 11:19 PM
1	The case for men's sex drive Good read but I completely agree with this comment: "I object to the use of the word solipsism here. As I’m sure you’re aware, solipsism means that the subjective mind ignores the existence of all other subjective minds, they not only believe the world revolves around them, but that they are the only consciousness in existence. Please note that women are primarily social creatures, more so than men. Women crave praise, affection, confirmation more than men do, and thus implicitly accept the fact…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 11:06 PM
1	The case for men's sex drive Thanks for the link, interesting stuff. I read as much as I could (some people don't have a sense of proper length for an online entry), and I can see where the author is coming from, but there are some really big leaps from behaviors to conclusion for "solipsism". What he quickly declares is the result of solipsistic thinking (a woman trying super hard to work on a presentation and then apologizes compared with a man doing half assed work and not really caring what others think) could easily be…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 09:10 PM
1	The case for men's sex drive That's a good way to think about it, and one I try to use when explaining it.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 06:13 PM
2	The case for men's sex drive I think it's not as strong as that, just a pretty standard way of thinking: others probably feel, need and think the way I do. It's ignoring the fact that men are completely different biological creatures, with different goals and wiring.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 05:34 PM
1	The case for men's sex drive That was the original conversation. Here I'm only addressing the general sex drive question, not its results and effects. No need to defend anything :)	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 05:30 PM
1	Long Distance Relationships... Can they work? I don't understand. Unless you are there physically how are you going to satisfy him from a distance? Virtual blowjobs? Send over a prostitute? Let him have sex with other women?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 05:05 AM
0	Long Distance Relationships... Can they work? Hehehehehe that's a funny question. Yes, our needs are usually extremely different from yours. Assume men are horny all the time. It's like being thirsty or hungry for us. That feeling haunts us from our teens or even earlier. I'm not sure it ever fades away judging by all the horny old men I've met in my life. Adding value to a man is great, but it doesn't quench our thirst or silence our stomach. That means we will still look for it elsewhere if we don't get it. Of course not all men are creat…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/14 12:18 AM
1	Long Distance Relationships... Can they work? Huh. That is a really weird argument. How can one be open minded about men's sexual needs?	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/14 10:54 PM
1	Long Distance Relationships... Can they work? Short answer: No. Reason: We want sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/14 09:49 PM
0	How do you build the courage to talk to a man you like? You missed all messages about context? Why did you even give this example? Is this what we were talking about? Ignoring you when you try to talk to someone. Jeez, how hard is it..	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/14 03:39 PM
1	How do you build the courage to talk to a man you like? I think you are a very disturbed person. I hope you can find help with some therapy.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/14 07:01 AM
1	How do you build the courage to talk to a man you like? I'm not sure about what you mean by reframing. It's exactly what I was referring to, so if red_cherry meant it in another context it's her problem... It was also not male-bashing.. like I said alpha males won't give her the time of day, which would undoubtedly hurt her feelings. I'm a guy myself and I'm not sure what you are so offended about. About men doing it exclusively.. I never said that, butthurt much? Of course some women do it too.. they don't usually hang around these parts though.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/14 05:10 AM
1	How do you build the courage to talk to a man you like? Luckily women are more attracted to character than to looks, so her attraction levels can change. I'm talking about the guys she didn't pay attention to, but could still be great for what she is looking for.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/14 11:45 PM
1	How do you build the courage to talk to a man you like? Well the context was trying to start a conversation with them..	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/14 08:11 PM
1	How do you build the courage to talk to a man you like? When someone ignores/disregards you, you feel neutral? I highly doubt that.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/14 03:58 PM
2	How do you build the courage to talk to a man you like? You want an alpha male, but you want to be the one approaching him. There's a problem here as you can probably tell. You say no one approaches you. Now, I'm not here to make you feel bad, but I can give you honest advice. If that is really the case, I think you should start up a conversation, but not with the guys you think are attractive. They will probably turn you down, or make you feel bad, that's just what they do. Instead, go for the ones you didn't notice before. The ones you didn't think…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/14 06:24 AM
3	Men want to feel desired? Maybe he doesn't, and puts up with the show of it for keeping the lady around? Maybe he wants his wife not to cheat, but for him to have a freedom to do whatever he wants. It's hypocritical, but not unheard of.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/14 09:30 PM
1	How do I find a Redpill man for an LTR? I'll add a pinch of salt. Sometimes it's not about you. Either the man isn't looking for a long term thing right now (he could lie about it as well), or you are simply not what he wants for long term - the physical standards are different. Often, you can't change those things, so it's not wise to fixate on a man before you know he is there to stay.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/14 03:37 AM
1	The Myth of Female Intelligence That's not an attack it's a fair analysis of your position. I don't care what "RP" is supposed to say, and I would advise you not to treat it (or anything) like the words of god. What you are describing is exactly that, excessive emotional behavior.. it has absolutely nothing to do with the ability to talk and share with your SO. I certainly didn't mean or say whining is fine, but among the other things i mentioned, to be able to admit that you're sad or down is not a weakness, it's a strength.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/04/14 08:59 PM
1	The Myth of Female Intelligence I feel sorry for you if you don't feel comfortable doing those things with your partner. Sounds incredibly insecure in your manhood.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/04/14 01:29 AM
7	The Myth of Female Intelligence I think you're over-fantasizing about some fairy tale man that just wants a hot meal and a blow job. Don't get me wrong, we definitely would. But that's not how the real world works, you can't just get everything else from your friends. We need someone to confide in, we need someone that we can feel free to show our emotions with, we need our SO to be able to appreciate the things we do, and what we are passionate about. You can live without it. But I don't think that's a recipe for a very happy…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 08:13 PM
1	The Myth of Female Intelligence Yep, that's exactly what I was saying.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 08:09 PM
1	The Myth of Female Intelligence Well I certainly can't disagree there. I will only say that I am very anti-feminist, and the very smart women that I know are intelligent enough to not be obnoxious and combatant. It's funny too, one of the smartest women I've ever met liked to refer to herself as Dana banana...	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 08:07 PM
7	The Myth of Female Intelligence Honestly, it's subjective. I can speak of myself and the guys I know, and can definitely say intelligence matters in relationships. I just completely disagree with this article, that says that intelligent women rarely exist and that it is unimportant for us.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 08:04 PM
5	The Myth of Female Intelligence No... this isn't about attraction. I think everyone here agrees male attraction has nothing to do with intelligence. We are talking about getting a successful relationship. Why do you think anyone would want to spend so much time with someone that doesn't understand them?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 07:12 PM
8	The Myth of Female Intelligence Don't let go of your intelligence just yet. It's not going to improve a man's desire to have sex with you, but it will definitely make him want to stay with you. Do you think a man would enjoy to spend his life with someone he knows just doesn't "get" him because she is too stupid? That would be incredibly frustrating. We want a real partner. Yea, you don't need to be a genius, but being smart and logical can only make us appreciate you, and assume that it's easier to live with someone who can a…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 06:48 PM
5	The Myth of Female Intelligence This is absurd. You are confusing attraction with relationship potential. I definitely don't need a girl to be able to even put together a simple sentence to want to fuck her. I absolutely do need her to be able to keep up and discuss thoughts, decisions, strategies, and plans if she is to be my partner in life.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 06:43 PM
6	The Myth of Female Intelligence Intelligent enough means valuing intelligence, which is exactly the point that was made here.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 06:40 PM
1	Did I ruin things by having sex too soon? Ok, so now it's "somewhat sure about commitment" and an odd subjective definition of "appropriate" (does making out count?). So about commitment, it comes down to how well the man lies / how gullible the girl is. Because guys will want sex, and they will easily pretend like they intend to stay even though they are not really sure or even know they wouldn't. But at the end of the day, you are risking losing a good man if you hold out too long. How much exactly is a tricky question. Depends on cul…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/14 08:52 PM
2	Did I ruin things by having sex too soon? Why buy the cow if the milk is for free? Men are the gatekeepers to commitment while women are the gatekeepers to sex. Are you saying don't have sex until you have a commitment? How long is that exactly? Who says the commitment is truthful? Who says this man wouldn't just go to one of the many other hot cows?	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/14 03:49 PM
6	How to attract a male friend? Create a scenario where there is a high chance of physical contact, nothing turns us on more than the touch of a new woman. Maybe watch a movie together and sit close to him and see his reaction. Ask him for a back rub and see his reaction. Return the favor. If he is attracted to you and can see that you are open to him, he will make the move. If he doesn't... I would suggest moving on. Despite how you feel right now makes you think, there are plenty of other great guys out there.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/14 04:00 AM
18	I am having conflicted feelings about my partners preferences towards my appearance. I know as a woman you immediately react to the way your man makes you feel, but that's actually not the way to objectively judge his opinion. If you want to know what he really thinks, all you need to do is look at his actions. Does he initiate sex as much as before? Does he show as much affection as he did? Give you the same level of attention? If the answer is yes then his words were truthful. That sense of insecurity you have could be because he simply doesn't know how to make you feel the wa…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/14 03:49 AM