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| 5 | How to be popular in high schoolif you weren't being outgoing and talkative your first year of highschool, you're pretty much screwed for the rest. by sophomore year, all the friend groups are established, the cliques are formed, and you're not getting into one. unless you find some stragglers that havent been picked up, you're fresh out. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Be thoroughly logical about what you want from women and what you're prepared to pay for itit's pretty literal. my luck is shit and my school is shit eod | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/19 02:09 AM |
| – | Be thoroughly logical about what you want from women and what you're prepared to pay for itmy list is literally: nice hair, green eyes, paints her nails. yours makes me look like i'd accept anything. i'd think with the list being so low tier, i'd be scoring all over the place. but, highschool is pretty much over. i just gotta keep hitting the gym and hope for college. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/19 03:14 PM |
| 5 | What if social media is causing permanent mental retardation for those who grow up with it?As an American highschooler, the whole "snapchat" phase is rampant. But, it's the best discriminator when making friends. I'll straight ask to talk to people and they'll refuse unless it's SPECIFICALLY on snapchat. I'll say, "why don't you just take my number?" and it's always the same shit, "I can just put your username in snapchat, it's faster". No. When people won't make the 10 second effort to open their contacts and add my number, I know they didn't want to talk in the first place. They jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How to Avoid Validation Trapsbecause i enjoy being the bigger person. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/19 11:21 PM |
| -1 | How to Avoid Validation Trapsbecause i want to brag to people | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How to Avoid Validation TrapsThat validation is absolutely needed though. I hate living life without any sort of goddamn evaluation. I don't want a girlfriend, I want a trophy. I want some good looking thing on my arm to make people say, "that's the man!". I want a huge friend group posseying around me all the time so people go, "hey, that's a big man right there". Those are the things that elicit a response from just being. Those are what everyone looks at first when they see a person. Unless someone talks to me, they woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What To Take as "No's" When Asking Someone OutI originally told myself the day after that my time was being wasted. But her friends started talking it up and convinced me she was actually busy. My bros even told me, "That's stupid, there's 7 days in the week, she could pick one". But, I decided to listen to her friends and not my own instincts and my friends instincts. I get my mistakes. You don't have to pound it. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What To Take as "No's" When Asking Someone OutI do. I'm primarily beating myself up cause I let my time get wasted and my grasp of my emotions fucked with. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Kino: How To See Where I'm Atgood point. thank you | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 12:21 AM |
| 12 | Being the Wolf & Being the Sheep in Wolf's ClothingI write 3 poems a month and am making huge progress on my poetry book I want to have by December. However, when people ask what I do, I only have poetry, working out, and my strive for mindfulness to talk about. I'm not ashamed of it. But, I know saying, "I have damn near a quarter of a book done" is less impressive than "I was smoking weed, I was at Football practice, I was visiting an Ivy League school". So, I usually refrain and just say I don't do anything. This post makes a good point on th… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Why are people pretending to busy?dude that's the worst thing to get obsessed on. I used to have full mental breakdowns because I'd get a number. I'd text someone who I know uses their phone 24/7 and they'd never reply or take forever to reply. I remember texting a crush and never getting a response. Two days later, as she sits next to me on my phone, she tells me it's broken and she doesn't get texts, while replying to a text. Don't let that shit get to you dude. It's not even worth it. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Fighting Self-Doubt in Getting a Numberyea, I'm good now. I came back from the gym and got it out of my head. If I look back at two years ago when I busted out in sweat trying to ask out the hottest girl in school, I've come way too far to be affected by anything less attractive. Every time I look at my book I'm writing and see my progress or I look in the mirror and see the muscle forming, I think, "I'm ready to get a girl". But, every time, I get a reality check to the face that says I'm not. I'm not going to ruin all the meditatio… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Fighting Self-Doubt in Getting a Numberdude, im sorry for bothering you so much with my wack replies. but, it went sideways. she told me she's got family stuff to do the next two weekends so the date'll have to be after that. I was going to tell her "it doesnt have to be during the weekend because movies play all the time". But, I remembered not to be needy and I also remembered trp saying, "if a girl likes you, she'll make a way to see you". So, I refrained, said, "great", and went back to talking to my friends. HOWEVER, I literally… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Fighting Self-Doubt in Getting a Numberok well, it's been 13 days. after incessantly thinking about finding the perfect opportunity to do it, i went fuck it. I asked her out in front of three of my friends and two of hers. i took the other dude's advice and bypassed the number and just asked her out. I made sure I established it as a date. but anyway she said yes, so we're going to a movie. i would've preferred getting food, because you can't really talk over a movie. but, it's still my first ever date so. date achieved. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Be a shitty alphaall good points. i'm currently reading all the books. I still have work to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Be a shitty alphaI spent two summers working on being ok alone. While I'm entirely comfortable with it, it doesn't mean I don't still want the opposite of it. But the interest from girls isn't coming. The last time I even interacted with a girl was valentines day. This girl got me pity chocolates then when her friends started asking her why she got me shit, she literally said that it was just a pity thing. I'd rather have gotten nothing. Beyond that, I'm sitting here hearing my friends detail their $600 senior t… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Be a shitty alphaI'm not going to lie, you're right. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Fighting Self-Doubt in Getting a NumberI did. Got to chapter 2 of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do. This is a good read. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Fighting Self-Doubt in Getting a Numbergot you. love your responses by the way. you and that vaandalen guy. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Fighting Self-Doubt in Getting a NumberI want to get the number so I can set up a date. logistics only, i know. we don't have any other time to chat, so i need the number first. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Be a shitty alphaI've asked four girls out during my years at school. I got 2 yes's, but i was too much of a pussy to actually show up. The other two were no's. So, I've been working on myself because TRP says it should draw the attention of someone eventually. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Be a shitty alphabecause it's not enough. it never feels like enough man, i can't describe it. in the moment it feels amazing, but the second it's over, I go back to feeling depressed. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 06:59 PM |
| 14 | Be a shitty alphayea but I'm doing all of this. I write poetry for up to an hour and a half a day. I've been accepted at 4 colleges. I talk to anyone and everyone. I lift. I wear good smelling colognes. I even do that thing they say here, "surround yourself with attractive female friends to make yourself look even higher valued". And, I don't get anything. The only attention I've gotten from a girl was three years ago, but I was too blind to do anything. I don't even want sex, I just want a damn hug, a pat on th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I graduate college in MayAH, i'm going into college this fall as a marketing major. what were the classes like? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 02:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First Onenah, i fold my legs and cross them at the back. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 11:57 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First Onedo people really struggle with pull-ups? I have no biceps whatsoever. I can really only do curls with 25lb dumbbells(30 on a good day). But, I can crank out 30 pull-ups like it's nothing. I see people half my weight struggle with pull-ups. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 10:17 PM |
| 29 | Building Discipline: focus on what you want to achieve first.As highschool arrives to an end, I find that I can't sit around when I know I have schoolwork to do. If I try to get up and watch a video before getting schoolwork done, I'll immediately feel guilty and start the work. But, when it comes to writing my stories and thoughts down or doing chores, I can't work up the effort to even open my notebook or grab some windex. It's crazy. I've convinced myself to write one short story a week and have been for two months. Though, it still takes working up th… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Asked Someone Out, Still No Definitive AnswerNot the best. I have social proof from my overly popular friends. And, I've never really cared how people perceive me so I've not really shown insecurity. But, my lifting has been on the decline lately. I've been sick 3 times in the last 3 months for about two weeks each. Now, my weights are dropping and I feel weaker. The only thing holding my smv down would be my looks. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Asked Someone Out, Still No Definitive Answeryea, lol. but hey, first time I made an attempt to ask someone out before valentines day. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Asked Someone Out, Still No Definitive Answerthat's a good point, although I said it a bit forcefully, it was more a suggestion than anything else. I guess I still have a bit holding me back. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Asked Someone Out, Still No Definitive AnswerI'm in high school. Again, there's nothing around here besides the parks, the local fair, dunkin donuts, or a movie. And, I have no interest in any of those. I only invite people to shit I already wanted to do so there's no losing if they say no. Would you suggest not doing that? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Are women checking out the reactions of other men around their man?I notice guys do that crap more than girls. Whenever I see people kiss in public, it's the guy that angles his girl around so he can watch the passerbys. Whenever I see people holding parts in public, it's the guy that reaches for ass and then grins at every around like he's a bigshot. It'd be one thing if they had a straight model. But, we're in the middle of Maryland. Ain't no one attractive here. You don't need to act like your 4/10 girl is the straight shit. That's not a girl you flaunt. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Rant. Not making progress.in addition to this, I'd recommend asking girls out to places you already planned on going to. For instance, I don't ask girls to hang out with me unless I'm doing something I already wanted to do. Like, I asked a girl to a fair because I wanted funnel cake. Whether she comes or not, I'm stilling getting funnel and walking around. The girl should be an accessory to an event you were already going to do so you're not losing anything if nothing goes as plan. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Advice needed on high school girls...buttfuck middle of nowhere, maryland. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 11:50 AM |
| 3 | What is your “mission?”Become established as a poet/songwriter Get my Masters in Marketing and become six figure marketing director at some company (Marketing directors make between 120k-250k) Raise some disciplined kids so they have the success I'm hoping to have in my later years during their childhood years. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Anyone down to discuss TRP topics in spanish?if you teach me spanish tortuga. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 03:25 AM |
| -10 | [FR] Want shit done? Do it in person, one-on-one.This is what I'm goddamn looking for. I'm not zoned for my highschool and my family is too poor for even a $60 a month minute plan. The drive to school is 30min. I literally couldn't get a date if I tried. I can't build attraction in a 45min class period and if I can't get a number, there's no way I could even set up a date. I need college to come so I can finally get serious about getting a damn date. I'm tired of my parents going "all you have to do is ask someone out". no it isn't. you don't … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What To Do When You're Aware You've Messed With People's Perception of YouI've reflected on it. I'm just going to keep moving forward, it doesn't matter. shit happens daily. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What To Do When You're Aware You've Messed With People's Perception of Youhighschool. you're right. it's just a temporary moment in time, I'll move on. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:28 AM |
| -2 | What To Do When You're Aware You've Messed With People's Perception of Youit's not big for most people. but my family cant afford phones, so the only time im able to talk to people is in school. it sucks ass. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Figure it out for yourselfThat's pretty much it. I'm sure most of us wouldn't ask those really stupid ass questions if we were regularly receiving enough attention to fuck up and fail and learn. But, when you're not, even the smallest thing makes you question it all. It's the difference between a man with a blueberry plant having his crop die some years and flourish others then finally learning how to grow the perfect batch. Versus someone who can't even get one vine(or whatever blueberries grow from) to leave the soil a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/19 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Summary: Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene. Chapter 2: Transform Self Love Into Empathy - The Law of NarcissismIt isn't in that way. Because you just showed you'll interact fully with some people. you're just selective. However, what I mentioned, was a person who talks to the same way to everyone no matter who they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/19 11:20 PM |
| 8 | Summary: Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene. Chapter 2: Transform Self Love Into Empathy - The Law of NarcissismI know a narcissist. I was friends with a girl last year. fun person to talk to. she was a narcissist then, but she made the attempt to ask others about their lives and listen to what we had to say. over the summer, she started going to parties and shit. usually, when a guy does it, they become super chill as a person. but, for her, it sent her narcissism into overdrive. other girls would constantly call her out on being narcissistic and say she was stupid or irritating. during that time, she re… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/19 05:14 PM |
| 3 | State of Mind Mastery Part VII: Confidence is a Stain You Can't Wipe OffI maintain eye contact but whenever I laugh I have this nervous twitch of swiping my chin and looking away. I do it so often that I think people can tell it's a nervous reaction. But, I don't know how to get rid of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/19 02:27 PM |
| 7 | Being a manlet among taller people: raise to meet the challenge amd succeedI don't see a problem with what you've said dude. I don't even get the downvotes. I've been 5'7 since 6th grade and I've never thought about. It doesn't intimidate me talking to tall boys or girls, they're just people. If someone really cares about your height, then you shouldn't include them in your life in the first place. This is trivial shit that wastes time. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/19 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Hard next this bitch?You never tell a male friend when you have a problem or issue with a girl. that's like rule number 7. they'll always do some beta shit and try to tell the girl "Hey he thinks xyz" or "He doesn't like wkj". you fucked up the second you told your guy friends what's on your mind. never tell anyone what's bothering you, male or female friend. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 02:29 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How To Break A Plate In Three Months - Pt. 2Can you teleport me into one of these situations so I can start fucking up and learning for real? I've been working out, I've been writing, I've been clearing my headspace, and nothing's happened yet. I'm really getting pissed working on myself and reading these articles. I'd love to be making the same fuck ups. I literally wouldn't mind fucking up. But, I'd like to experience it at least. Does shit like this pick up in college? Is it because I'm in the ass crack of Maryland and everyone's alrea… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/18 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Intergender friendships can be worth your timeI don't make female friends unless they come to me. I don't see the point if there's no chance in me banging. Maybe it's worth it in the real world. But, in highschool, there's no damn point. You attract more girls being around super popular guys than you do around super popular girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 11:25 PM |
| 2 | There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approachI don't. I approach people for the sake of building confidence. However, you're lying if you say you ever talk to a girl just to talk to one. I don't do shit unless I expect to get something back eventually. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 05:13 PM |
| 5 | There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approachi want to cold approach this girl in my class. but, the only chance i'd have would be afterwards when she walks out. sadly though, i have the same class for two periods. so, if i left to try and talk to her, it'd obviously look like i was trying to flirt. but, besides this girl, i've had a lot of fun cold approaching. although, i've done 10 and it still takes me a day or two to work up the nerve to approach someone. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 01:44 AM |
| 49 | “All vaginas are the same size~!!11” and the Unequal Nature of EqualityYou believe the vagina size thing too? Lmao, being the insecure fuck I am with my small dick, I've been telling myself for the last 4 years "Gotta find a short chick so in comparison it looks better". Love your point though. I remember all the constant girl talk in school. All my science teachers in middle school giving extra help to girls and constantly saying they'd achieve great things. shit didn't stop until highschool. Haven't heard it since then. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Girl being a huge fucking tease. Do girls get off to this shit?"water is wet". this is debate fuel | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What's the lamest/the most pathetic thing you've done in pursuit of a oneitis?eh, I thought it was pathetic because she was initially really into me. Hugs, would flirt with me, asked me to walk with her, would hold my hand. Being ignorant, I basically had no idea it meant anything. But, one day I was talking to my parents about life in general and mentioned I enjoyed hanging out with her. Of course, they were like, "dude she likes you". Then, they proceeded to give me a bunch of beta advice which i followed. It immediately killed everything and I became an orbiter. Had I … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 02:55 AM |
| 9 | What's the lamest/the most pathetic thing you've done in pursuit of a oneitis?I battled through sweat, stuttering, and pure uncomfortableness to get a girl's number. I texted her, she never replies. Next day in school, before I even say anything to her, she just randomly says, "I barely ever check my texts cause my phone is so damaged. I just hardly use it". Now, she says this as she's on her phone watching Netflix. I wasn't even going to ask her about it. But, the fact that she already had an excuse ready told me I needed to fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 02:14 AM |
| 5 | A Developmental Milestone: Aquiring (Above) Average Pussy on a Consistent Basisluckily I lowered my standards for no reason cause I can't even get 5's. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/18 01:51 AM |
| 3 | How To Seduce Women With The Power Of Your VoiceI always find myself lowering my voice around others unless I'm actively aware I'm doing it. I was talking in this high voice to a girl once and then she brought up a topic I enjoy so I started speaking normally. She flinched super hard and lowered her own voice. But, that only happens when I first interact with a girl and not when she gets to know me. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Your favourite hobbies/time investmentsI share a car with my parents. I've applied to Cheeseburger & Paradise, Moe's Bar and Grill, Petco, Petsmart, Wendy's, Chipotle, Kohl's, Mcdonald's, Walmart, Target, Walgreens, Dunkin Donuts, Chik Fil A, Harris Teeter, and the local movie theater. None of them replied except Walgreen's, Kohl's, and Chipotle. But, walgreen's said I couldn't sell cigarettes so they couldn't hire me. Kohl's and Chipotle never said why. All the other jobs just denied me outright. So, until I turn 18, I can't apply t… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 02:10 AM |
| 0 | Your favourite hobbies/time investmentswhatever. have a nice day friend! | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Your favourite hobbies/time investmentsnever did. we can take this to DM's if you truly want to waste time though. but, I've got a college essay to write rn. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Your favourite hobbies/time investmentsI'm black. I've applied for Mcdonald's, Wendy's, Chipotle, Cheeseburger Paradise, Bob Evans, Olive Garden, Red Robin, Dunkin Donuts, and Panda Express. None of them called me for an interview except Wendy's, Chipotle, and Dunkin Donuts. They never called me back afterwards. I'd love to be making a quick buck at these places. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Your favourite hobbies/time investmentsmcdonald's is never hiring. it's been the same hispanic and black kids working there since sophomore year. the odds of them hiring are the same odds of buffalo wild wings reducing their application age to 17. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Your favourite hobbies/time investmentsI've applied for everything around here. I've had 3 interviews out of the 8 jobs I applied for. The only other jobs available require you to be 18. Since my b-day is a year early, all the other seniors are 18 and I'm 17. Not to mention half of them got their jobs because their parents were friends with a manager or two and they were able to bypass the whole interview process. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 11:46 AM |
| 9 | Your favourite hobbies/time investmentsI wallow in self-despair due to my lack of a car, phone, gym and access to pocket change. Then, I have a jimmy neutron brain blast and begin writing a poem about some random shit. Then, I lose my self-despair and start hating the fact that the winter formal is coming and I don't have a date. Afterwards, I get motivated and do 5 cold approaches. Then, I realize I'm cold approaching for no reason since I can't get a phone number. So, I write some more. This is what I do with my time. Not to mentio… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 02:18 AM |
| 5 | What we can learn from the conga line of female teachers who are having sexual relations with their underaged male students.I never sexualized a teacher until that year. I think the better question is... where are these schools with attractive teachers? All my teachers are in their 30's. But, they look so worn out by their jobs that they look 40. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/18 04:50 PM |
| 7 | What we can learn from the conga line of female teachers who are having sexual relations with their underaged male students.Let me explain, highschool has been nothing but the awakening of bullshit. I was arrested for standing up to a girl who was bullying a socially awkward kid after she claimed "he said he was going to murder and rape me". I had my seat moved away from the cool kids in one of my classes because I made fun of some kid pretending they had a peanut allergy then claiming "he said he was going to kill me with peanut butter" (girl of course). I've been suspended 4 times because a teacher asked my opinion… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/18 02:15 PM |
| 10 | What we can learn from the conga line of female teachers who are having sexual relations with their underaged male students.I had a teacher freshman year with huge tits and amazing feet. I wouldn't write a whole article about her though. I can't wait to get out of highschool. Why would you ever want to think back to the highschool power dynamics, pussy-slaying, childish cliques, and bullshit? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Don'r watch porn just get a girlfriendI wish it were that easy. I'm practically doing TRP on impossible mode. I'm a senior in highschool without my own car, I never have cash on my prepaid plan for more than a week, and I don't have access to a gym on my own time. Not to mention, I've applied for 8 jobs, have had 4 interviews, and have been declined for all of them. I literally can only cold approach just to talk. I don't have a phone half the time to even ask for a damn number. When I do, I take the risk of running out of minutes a… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Chatting Her Up: So I Met A Nude Modelrandom question, I've been doing the whole "get a girl to talk about herself" during cold approaches. But, when I go to talk to a girl a second time(because she was either neutral or recipient), is it ok to repeat the same stuff? For instance, I cold approached a girl and asked her about track, because she's on the track team. She instantly went into "talk about myself" mode. But, if i approach again, could I mention track to open her up, or is it one time only? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/18 07:49 PM |
| 11 | Small penis, very good endurance.everyone over here calling 5 inches small. meanwhile I've got a 3.5 inch dick and I don't worry about losing my virginity | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Should I bulk or cut? (Imgur)those nipples could cut diamonds | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 01:27 AM |
| 2 | How many people have you pissed off?Three. One because she's a bully and I had no respect for her insulting a socially awkward kid. The other because she tried to claim credit for a project when I did all the work. Basically told everyone she was a lazy bastard when it was time to present. This was in 6th grade. I'm a senior in highschool and she still scowls at me everytime I see her. The third was some freshman who thought she could claim I was threatening her. Luckily, I'm more articulate than her and her petty claims. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Keeping Your Mind Off the Unnecessarylolol, the first is a book, the second is a poem. both are in the process of being made. who needs a six figure job when you can have 6 figure royalties. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Keeping Your Mind Off the Unnecessarywell, there's mainly two. in one, im just walking around a made up city helping people with their problems while dealing with internal conflict. the second, I made up two girls that talk to me when I'm alone and really feeling like I am. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Keeping Your Mind Off the Unnecessarygeneral life fantasies. I don't do sexual fantasies unless I happen to have a wet dream. these are just random worlds I created back in middle school. I've had ongoing plots in them since 7th grade. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 11:48 AM |
| 15 | Oneitis for this cashierthat's straight savage though. he's had conversations with her before in english. then, instead of her just saying "no", or giving the "i have a boyfriend", she said she doesn't speak english. that's next level | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Thots are getting audited for tax evasionI agree, the existence of these sad men are the reason they're making money. This is like a lunchroom argument where a middle schooler screams, "no you". it's not powerful, it's sad. I'd rather we come up with something better than this. It just looks petty. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Once you're unplugged. You'll see it everywhere.there's a rule about "no lyric analysis" | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/18 01:04 PM |
| 14 | How Beta is it to give up time travelling to your girlfriends place?If you invented time travel just to see a girl, that's the most obvious case of oneitis I've ever seen. True alphas would use their time machines to get rich. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Should I be embarrassed about getting into martial arts at 18?I took pottery for 10 years and I still brag about it whenever I get the chance. Why be embarrassed about martial arts? | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Women can touch muscular men but men can’t touch womenI wish. Everytime I touch a girl I'm immediately met with "why are you touching me" or they flinch extremely hard or jump unnecessarily. Meanwhile unattractive people with rock solid frame are getting touched by girls all the time and touching them back without a single complaint. I'm at least a 6, my frame isn't unbreakable but it's strong in average situations due to years of bullshit happening to me. I'm waiting for the day some girl comes to me and wants to be touched and fucked around with.… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Question for the big boob fanatics here (like me)as a foot fetishist, i've seen ugly as fuck girls with insanely cute feet that jumped them from 2's to 6's. but, for me, attractive body parts only put you in the 6-7 range. they'd never trump 8-10 range. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 02:12 PM |
| 3 | I feel so guilty because of my previous addictiondamn, you were about that omegle life too? I used to have 5 girls sending me live nudes multiple times a day for free. shit was great. frankly, i'd rather have that than the nothing I have now. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 02:38 AM |
| 7 | Chivalry’s mortal enemy: Toxic masculinity.If she won't take the last name, then I'm sure she won't let the children have it either. What's the point of having kids if they don't take your last name? In that case, they might as well not even be yours. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Do I have an issue with porn/jerking off?I'm not happy with my life at all. i dont jerk off because I'm horny. To be frank, I've only really been horny about three times this whole year. I jerk off when shit isn't going right in my life. I get angry and do it like 3 to 8 times. So, if that sounds like you, I'd say it's unhealthy. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Gonna try and plate this prostitute.. thoughts?I'm not the wisest person in the world, but you don't see it? if she knows you're in the military, you're a meal ticket. she's giving you all that extra shit for free in the hopes you get attached. because if she gets with you, she doesn't have to be a whore anymore. or at least that's my opinion, who am i though. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else with a deep voice struggle to talk loud enough?i have a fairly deep voice, but most of the time i talk in a higher pitch because I notice people tense up when I speak in my natural voice. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | People think I’m an assholegirls call me rude because I tease and dismiss the stupid things they say. just don't let it bother you. be you, but add a joke or two like abeham said. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 01:45 PM |
| 4 | 6'0+ guys, what were your lifting PRs when everyone could tell that you lift?damn, how do you guys get your freakin bench up? i just hit a 305 squat last week but my bench is still 155 | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid alcohol while being social?as a teen, can I ask what that tastes like? does beer still have a flavor without alcohol? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl responded 2 days later and i don't know if i want to replyI think it's an smv thing. Most girls don't text, they'll use instagram or snapchat. But, they'll make the exception to text people if they're high enough in smv. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | This Girl Is Really Trying to Get Me To Orbit Her (A Question About Nexting)sounds like a plan. I've always been good at faking interest, so I wasn't sure if it was acceptable in that case to let it be known I'm uninterested. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 03:20 AM |
| 2 | This Girl Is Really Trying to Get Me To Orbit Her (A Question About Nexting)I completely understand that. I'm talking in the case of little to no reciprocation. I spent years trying to make friends even when there was complete disinterest. Now, if I notice my actions repeatedly aren't reciprocated, I stop. it's not insecurity, it's self-respect. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 02:48 AM |
| 0 | This Girl Is Really Trying to Get Me To Orbit Her (A Question About Nexting)I have many rules like that: "Give people respect until they prove they don't deserve it" "Give all people 2 chances" "If my actions aren't reciprocated, cease interaction" | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 02:00 AM |
| 18 | LiftingFirst, I'd like to say that everyday is leg day since I can't bench over 155. Second, my posture is crazy now and girls comment all the time about it. Third, my friend wanted to say I couldn't squat her ass and I did. Now, she gives me that mad respect. When I whip out the quads, I leave girls in wads(of wetness). | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | The envy check shit testI read it and understood it. but, the "True Nature of Women" article one of the mods linked in the comments was even better. I favorited it. It was a really good piece. Made me understand that other people experience this too. I feel a lot better about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/18 11:51 AM |
| 1 | The envy check shit testI know. i've been working on it. it's like any validation or accomplishment I do for myself is noncomparable to the joy that comes from someone else saying "good job". one day, I hope to change that completely. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 11:37 AM |
| 3 | The envy check shit testI struggle with the "girls talking about other guys" thing in general. I hate it. Of course, like you, I just say "mhm", "okay", and "yep", when it happens. On the inside, though, I'm dying. It hurts like hell hearing a girl obsessing over some guy knowing you've never been in that position. And, truly, until I've confirmed some girl has talked about me in the same way I hear girls talk about other guys, my insides will continue to churn. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/18 11:01 PM |
| 7 | Girls say I have 'psychopath charisma'. But I am actually NOT confident, so I really want to know what makes them think thisand also with this, it means you think before you speak. i've been struggling with that for a while. I'm trying to be where you two are and talk slower. don't be afraid to talk slow, it means you're thoughtful. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Red pill memes subthis reminded me of a comment on some dude's post: The virgin baseball vs the Chad Badminton | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 02:07 AM |
| 1 | My Teasing Is Excessive and My Kino Aggressivemakes sense. I usually do just keep going forward. I'll try balancing it out from now on. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 10:47 PM |
| 0 | My Teasing Is Excessive and My Kino Aggressivenot really. I get to like 4 days, then relapse. I've been feeling really horny the last month for some reason. I haven't been this horny since 6th grade. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I've Become Extremely Guarded Under TRP and I'm Losing Faith in My Journeynice nice. I'm trying to get to 315. i'm at 285 now. squats are my favorite lift. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | I've Become Extremely Guarded Under TRP and I'm Losing Faith in My Journeyhow long do it take you to break a 400 squat? | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Genuine IoIs vs just being friendly - how can you tell the difference?lol = leaving out lissbitch IoI = inches on inches | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 06:09 PM |
| 3 | If you liked a female friend and they got angry that you hadn't talked to them for a while, does it mean they like you?I hate that shit. Girls will say, "why haven't you talked to me" and I think to myself, "You've got legs, a phone you're always attached to, and a mouth. You engage me". | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I've Become Extremely Guarded Under TRP and I'm Losing Faith in My Journeydamn, nice nice. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I've Become Extremely Guarded Under TRP and I'm Losing Faith in My JourneyWhat are your max numbers | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Growth requires recognizing when we are below averageI'm glad you mentioned lowering expectations and being below average. My expectations used to be super high and unachievable. But, it hurts even more when you lower your expectations just for them to not be met. It's not even about sex for me at this point. It's about the trophy. I remember thinking about the idea of a trophy wife as trashy and degrading. I was wrong. I only want a girl to be able to say I have one. To be able to say, "hahaha, look what I have that you don't have". It's one of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/18 08:56 PM |
| 3 | How Peanut Butter and Jelly Made Me Realize the Importance of Frame(My First Test of Frame)i literally dont use jelly. my pb&j is 2 scoops of pb and one small drop of jelly. with the wheat bread, it's about 27g. i just rounded to 30. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 11:26 PM |
| 2 | How Peanut Butter and Jelly Made Me Realize the Importance of Frame(My First Test of Frame)it's art class. i eat for 15min. spend the last 30 on the sketches. then, i get my B- and leave. art is required in highschool. i took pottery for 9 years so i begrudgingly sit there every day learning how to draw. drawing is not my thing, it's pottery and writing. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 11:24 PM |
| 2 | How Peanut Butter and Jelly Made Me Realize the Importance of Frame(My First Test of Frame)good point. i could've held my tongue. i just hate being challenged when i'm in the right. next time, i'll shut the fuck up. but today, i learn from my mistakes. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 11:22 PM |
| 7 | How Peanut Butter and Jelly Made Me Realize the Importance of Frame(My First Test of Frame)no, but afterwards, I wanted to lol. you dont understand how much i'v fallen in love with peanut butter. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Girls at gym who just don't give a fuck and wear practically nothing and position themselves directly in front of guys are beginning to make me feel disgusted. Yes I boner, but I just think like "so..is that ALL you have to offer or?". Am I gay?I never got what that meant until recently. I agree with this dude, you'll find it funny and it'll give you a good chuckle one day. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Anyone want to mentor me?deep. It's sad people have to think this way. I used to have high expectations. I used to always think people could change. Then, I learned to not expect shit and focus on changing myself. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Gaming seniors as a freshmansenior guys date freshman girls all the time. but, I've never seen a freshman guy with a senior girl. not to say you can't do it, it's just seniors usually have the girls locked down. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 01:37 AM |
| 2 | If I don’t nut soon my dick will explodeare you a real human being? | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | When Do You Become Comfortable With Nexting?yes, so ignore my emotional response up top. it's stupid. it's petty. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | When Do You Become Comfortable With Nexting?I realize that. But, it's more about the level of accomplishment at this point. After the first 8 cold approaches, I was no longer getting a boost of fulfillment from them. Now it's more of a "welp, it happened" thing. I want the reach out because it's tangible. It's short-term. It's a quick confidence boost. The cold approaches are a long process that, after who knows how many, will eventually lead to a relationship and or sex. I realized after posting this and thinking about it, that it's just… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 01:08 AM |
| 0 | When Do You Become Comfortable With Nexting?I'm trying to get into writing daily. But, all my works are on google drive and I don't want to copy them to my notebook so I can keep working on them in school(it'd be copying about 80 pages worth of works). When I'm in school, I don't have much to entertain me when I'm done with work. By the time my ap and honors classes are over by third period, if no writing ideas are flowing, I usually just anticipate seeing if she'll reach out. In the meantime, I cold approach people. It's just harder to f… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 08:17 PM |
| 9 | Adding value to your lifeagree. the quiet that comes from the gym is ridiculous. it's like you're one with your body and shit. it's the only time I don't need music or companionship to enjoy myself. no thinking, no nothing, just me struggling. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 06:52 PM |
| 9 | Favourite askTRP postsanything posted by u/XXXNINETACION | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 10:53 AM |
| 7 | What is your mission?my mission is to write myself into being a millionaire and opening a bunch of low cost "creative resorts" where people can go to use free art supplies, writing utensils, sound booths, and etc so they too can achieve their creative dreams. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 10:46 AM |
| 6 | What is TRP consensus on pornography?between you and vaandalen, i cant tell who leaves better comments. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Can Snapchat be dug through in the future for important “legal messages?”no. but there used to be a modded snapchat app online that you could use on android devices (or jailbroken iphones). it let you screenshot pics, vids, and messages without signaling the other person. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | What's the reason of tits fetish?hands are the most sexual part of the body. if a girl has wack hands, she can't meet my demands. dont @ me | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | I'm such a fucking pussy. Help.I don't know if this'll work for you, but this is what I do. Whenever I find myself avoiding approaching a girl, I do this. Think about something besides the girl for a good 30 seconds. Then, while your mind is still on something else, turn around and say something to her. It doesn't give you enough time to overthink or consider every word you say. More likely, you'll say the first thing on your mind and the convo will flow from there. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.I've decided to stop being passive aggressive and be aggressive with it. The next time she interacts with me, I'm going to tell her we're going out. Otherwise, I'm hard nexting. I can't be bothered to deal with the small talk and shit if I'm not getting a date out of it anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/18 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Expecting to LoseI like your point, but this has already been established. What you could've done, is explore how to not get caught off guard when you're not entirely confident. Some people don't expect to lose, yet, they don't expect the best result either. Then, when they get the best result, they're caught off guard and their frame wavers. I think that'd be cool for someone to talk about. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Advise on approaching her?Tell her you're a champion at rock paper scissors and you want to see if she's any good. Have I done this? Yes. You shouldnt have to think about what you want to say. Just say whatever is in your mind first even if it's autistic. You won't learn otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Can't Stay Focused When Talking To GirlsI'm not going to with this one. I asked her out three days ago and she gave an excuse. So, I soft nexted and today, she came back with the walk and arm tap. I'm going to continue with my next and wait for another initiation. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Can't Stay Focused When Talking To GirlsIm mad because when it happened, I immediately thought what you just said, "arm around her and listen". But, instead I let my mind go crazy and didnt do it. Now, I have no idea if she'll do it again. At least I'm making these mistakes with unimportant people, so when the real catch comes along, I won't make them again. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Ex starts in my school next year, what should I expect/do?ignore her. most alpha thing you could do. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Can't Stay Focused When Talking To GirlsI'm mad because those were my first two thoughts, "put your arm around her and listen". But, even though I thought it, I hesitated and ended up letting my mind go all over the place. Now, who knows if she'll do it again. At least I made the mistake with a girl I'm not serious about versus a girl I actually think is attractive. That's the only real bright side to it. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Can't Stay Focused When Talking To GirlsI'm mad because those were my first two thoughts, "put your arm around her and listen". But, even though I thought it, I hesitated and ended up letting my mind go all over the place. Now, who knows if she'll do it again. At least I made the mistake with a girl I'm not serious about versus a girl I actually think is attractive. That's the only real bright side to it. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Can't Stay Focused When Talking To GirlsI'm mad because those were my first two thoughts, "put your arm around her and listen". But, even though I thought it, I hesitated and ended up letting my mind go all over the place. Now, who knows if she'll do it again. At least I made the mistake with a girl I'm not serious about versus a girl I actually think is attractive. That's the only real bright side to it. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Can't Stay Focused When Talking To GirlsI'm mad because those were my first two thoughts, "put your arm around her and listen". But, even though I thought it, I hesitated and ended up letting my mind go all over the place. Now, who knows if she'll do it again. At least I made the mistake with a girl I'm not serious about versus a girl I actually think is attractive. That's the only real bright side to it. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:29 PM |
| 7 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.I asked her out and she said "I don't know. It'll be cold". So, via the advice at asktrp, I'm soft nexting. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.soft nexting for now. can't put all my efforts in one basket. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 06:23 PM |
| 5 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.I know a girl exactly like this. She lets me put my arm around her, touch her hair, her hands, I've pretty much touched her entire body besides her ass. She doesn't show any sign of enjoying it or being disgusted by it. She just either grins or does nothing. It's weird. I want to take advantage of it but like you said, I don't want to do anything stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Did I Play This Right?alright. will do, thanks man | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Did I Play This Right?So, next and don't interact with her tomorrow? | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Did I Play This Right?I thought about skipping the part where I ask her what she'd be doing. But, I decided to stop thinking about it and I ended up saying the above instead. Next time, I'll use a bit more thought. I also wasn't going to give her another day, however, she seemed really thrown off and starting stuttering afterwards, so I thought I'd give the benefit of the doubt. Not trying to nullify what you said. Just wanted to show my thinking. Thanks for your advice man! | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Why You Should Love Rejectioni did it and got a "I'll think about it". so, I took your advice and said, "Give me an answer tomorrow so I can make plans with other people". | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/18 06:28 PM |
| 20 | The Pledge - I won't talk about myself to anyoneI don't tell people whenever I'm feeling happy or achieve something. All anyone can do is say, "Well, other people did this" or "That's not the best thing ever". I got fed up. So, I provide my own sense of accomplishment. Don't tell people what, how, or why you're doing something. Just do it. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to nudes?I immediately change the subject. It makes girls question their bodies and it makes it so you don't seem needy or beta. Usually results in more nudes. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 05:26 PM |
| 24 | Would it be possible to escalate on hb9 Muslim chick who’s big on prayer?My dude, you're a straight goober. First, talking about toes, then your "fetish" for hispanic girls. Now Muslim girls? What a goon | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 03:26 PM |
| 10 | Why You Should Love RejectionI'm going to ask someone out for the first time tomorrow. I've set it up so if she says no, I still had plans to go alone or with my bros. So, 50/50. First success or rejection here i come. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/18 01:02 PM |
| 9 | Seeing former crush tonightIt sounds like you've got work to do. I had a crush I thought was extremely pretty. Of course, I was just an orbiter. But, I swore that the next time someone as attractive as her was in my presence, I'd have the confidence, body, and ability to game. Now, there's a difference between that mindset and the mindset of working on yourself specifically for her. So, you need to start working on yourself. Realize there are better or equally attractive girls out there. Realize that at your current state… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 12:32 PM |
| 12 | Witnessed the Power of Preselectionthis is covered in the sidebar. you can work on your smv as much as you want, but if a girl doesn't glance at you and say, "damn, this guy is everything I physically desire", then you're working backwards essentially. pre-selection is your foundation. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | What are the characteristics of high value women?"cute toes" this man right here. what a goober. I can't lie though. A girl that always has her nails painted or at least that clear nail polish shit, instantly becomes 1.5 units higher on the 1 to 10 scale. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Would You Guys Move Forward With Plans Even If Interest Wasn't There?I went and used your advice. This is why I'm responding to you. I kinoed: touched her arm a few times, hand around the waist multiple times. She didn't react to it. Didn't say anything. Just had an extremely neutral face. I'm just going to take my shot and ask her on an actual date and make my motives extremely clear this time. Thanks for the advice my man | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Would You Guys Move Forward With Plans Even If Interest Wasn't There?She asked my friends 4 times after I asked her to come, if they were going too. My friends, knowing what I was doing, said they weren't. So, today, she asked them again, "are you guys coming too", they said no. She turns to me and said, "it's just you?". I said, "I'm the one who asked you to come, why would they be going?". That's why I started analyzing and assumed she wasn't interested. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Making Moves, But a Little Concernedyou're right. i restated that it was just going to be us and her enthusiasm dropped from an 8 to a 2. what a waste of my time. would you still go or would you leave her hanging? | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Making Moves, But a Little Concernedalright. i'll reiterate the fact that it's just me, today. if she says "guys" again: should i just not go and leave her hanging or show up and just not do anything? | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Making Moves, But a Little Concernedlol | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Making Moves, But a Little Concernedhmm. I'll take that into consideration and see what she does friday while I escalate. thanks man | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is showing class participation by raising your hands and answering questions a sign of high smv?it shows confidence. It warrants respect. I barely raise my hand. But, when I do, I say something loud and smart. Not in a smartass or know it all way. Just in a well-spoken, intelligent way. A lot of kids didn't know who I was until last year. However, they said I seemed extremely smart. One girl said she hated speaking after me because I was always so outspoken. Depending on how you phrase/do things, I don't think it shows smv, but it establishes you know your shit. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Teasing / Negs.I tease to avoid having a girl talk about herself. It gives control of the conversation because most girls get immediately flustered. Clear example, last year this girl interrupted my conversation with my friends to talk about art class (we weren't even talking about art mind you). So, I pulled her art project (which was on her desk) and said, "why are you carrying around art you made in elementary school". Since that day, she's never been too dominant in conversations. Whether that's just her o… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 10:33 AM |
| 3 | How do I make people respect me more?think less about your actions. think more about what is it people are communicating to you and what your response should be. don't be reactionary, be calculated. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 01:56 AM |
| 21 | PowerNerd reference incoming. In Avatar the Last Airbender, there was water, fire, air, and earth bending. However, there was also spirit bending. In order to bend someone else's spirit, the avatar had to have perfect control over his own spirit. That resonates exactly with what you're saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Trying Not To Mentally Masturbateyou're right. I'm going to gather my thoughts and make a move on one. I had the opportunity today, but I started speaking before thinking and missed it. I'm going to actually think before I speak and secure a date this time. thanks man! | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Trying Not To Mentally Masturbatein person. math class and spanish class. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Trying Not To Mentally MasturbateI've been solidly chatting with one. I'm comfortable with her because she's not attractive to me, just fuckable. The other two are attractive and I still get warm and my heart still races from simple small talk. I know it's cringy. But, I'm just trying to get comfortable with talking to attractive people. I can talk to unattractive girls all day because I don't care what I say to them or what they think. However, the idgaf attitude doesn't carry over to attractive girls and i need to work on tha… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Trying Not To Mentally Masturbatewell, one thursday because there's a football game coming up. also, because I'm comfortable with her and we actually chat. I don't find her attractive but she's fuckable. the other two have really just been small talk. but, I actually find them attractive and I'm still uncomfortable talking to them. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Trying Not To Mentally MasturbateI'll going to go back to working on my writing and college essays. Try to keep my mind off it. I'm just feeling really elated today due to my trp successes. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 02:28 AM |
| 36 | Chatting Her Up: Using Subversive HumorI want to get back in the groove of making the occasional sexual joke. I'm just too used to living on the safe side now. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 01:49 AM |
| 5 | How are you in large groups of people 8+ in the same physical vicinity?I just get them to talk. I remember being the kid who sat around waiting for someone to talk to them. I always admired those who approached first and kept interacting with kids who weren't socially adept or were weird or shy. So, I became that person. I talk to people who wouldn't talk. I get them to interact with others. I kinda coach them on how to be social. I break them out of their comfort zones. When I needed someone to do that for me, I didn't have it. Now, I've done it and I can do it fo… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 09:15 PM |
| 6 | How are you in large groups of people 8+ in the same physical vicinity?depends on if I created the group. I currently have a ton of friends who were orginally non-talkative. I pretty much lead every conversation. However, in groups in which I'm the outsider. I accept that they aren't my people and usually stay more held back. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 09:06 PM |
| 0 | I Went To The Gym For The First Time In My Life1200 calories and 20lb dumbbells? I eat 2500 a day and curl 30lb weights. I can flex my legs but I can't flex my arms lololol. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girls in high school?girls in my highschool(senior here), love conversation. I literally walked up to a girl one time and said, "do you play connect 4?". We had a 30min convo about board games after. Highschool is a great time to approach. It makes you realize girls don't care what you're saying as long as you're saying something. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Approach apathy?the last 4 times I cold approached, it worked. I haven't been able to do it otherwise. I just get myself angry and do it as fast as I can. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Approach apathy?don't use your horniness to work up the desire to approach. I use the leftover anger from the anger phase to approach. don't know if it'll work for you, but you gotta find a better source of motivation. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 01:34 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys motivate yourselves to lift?I just love lifting. It sucks ass right now though because I could be making crazy gains. My family cant afford a gym membership right now. My friend's dad has gym equipment. So, I help him with his work and get to use his stuff. But, it means I can only workout 3 times a week when I could go 2hrs a day fr fr. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Stuck in asshole/clown mode, poor resultsI have the same issue, I neg and tease constantly. I never make actual attempts to sexualize conversation or kino. When I do, you can tell it's extremely forced. It isn't natural or situational. Before I improved my social skills, i was socially awkward. I touched people all the time and would sexualize shit if It popped up. Now, I look back on that with disdain. For me, It stems from being afraid of pushing further. I start worrying about, "is this the right moment" or "will she walk away". Mea… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Lmao how do I respond to this?girls have memories that can reach back to their ancestors. she didn't want to talk to you. but, she knew who you were. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 11:42 PM |
| 3 | What differences do you notice when you slack off on your lifting routine?i notice I drop from a 275 squat to a 255 squat. I enjoy squatting. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 10:30 PM |
| 7 | Do you think it is possible for a guy and a girl to be friends without one or both of them ever having any romantic or sexual thoughts/desires towards the other person?I have sexual thoughts about every girl I encounter. But, that's from years of thinking I'd never get a girl. I try to abstain from that nowadays. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 10:14 PM |
| 22 | Lean or Bulked Up?don't be like the kids at my school, leaning before bulking. boys have noodle arms but a clearly defined six pack. I'd rather have the arms and look chubby, frankly. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Why am I so reluctant to approachThe easiest way for me is to either force myself to think about how regret is worse than not doing anything. Or, I'll do something to get my mind off of approaching, then approach really fast before I can remember, "this is a bad decision"(not really). | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:12 AM |
| 29 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Training Bitchesfavorited. I've never tried negging or being indifferent when making requests. I do the whole "small requests to bigger request thing". but, when a girl says no, I get whiny and guilt them into doing it instead of being indifferent. Thanks for the guide. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 07:28 PM |
| 10 | The Parable of Mark and LaurenI like your point. But, I think this is more along the lines of something I noticed. In highschool, a lot of girls use sex to get a guy, then they expect a relationship. Even though the guy makes it clear he's only there for sex, girls believe sex is the gateway to dating. Some girls believe sex is just sex and will use their bodies to get it. But, I think your story proves the point that some people we'd call slutty, are mistaken in believing they can progress from hookups to a relationship wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 07:19 PM |
| 3 | I need help to fix my autistic and offensive social scriptBe it for me to help you, but here's my take. I'm a senior as well. Kids love to shout out things in class. However, there's a difference between someone popular doing it and someone who's not. When a popular kid shouts something out, even if it's not funny, it warrants laughs. When an unpopular or weird kid does, it's met with awkwardness. So, if you want to be the class clown, raise your smv. Otherwise, do what u/r_u_a_badfish2 said and shut up. This is among the same lines as vaandalen's "not… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here who use to be afraid to voice their opinions in fear of losing friends? How did you get over it and start to assert yourself more?this. my friends still have no idea what any of my views are. simply, because i don't agree or argue when they talk politics. just stare and go "mmhmmm". if they can't see that you dont care then switch the subject, they aren't worth being friends with. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Qualifying, bragging?I walk away from people when they start talking about themselves. If you let a girl do that, it means she's in control of the conversation. Now, there's a difference between just stating things or bragging. It's all about attitude. But, you need to be able to discern the two and act accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Advice needed on high school girls...I don't know what highschool you're in but I can't walk into a class without hearing some girl talk about sex. Last friday, this girl I was sitting across from literally told her friend, "I texted a guy and asked if he wanted to hook up but he said no". Last year, I heard a girl literally say, "I know this guy doesn't want me, but I think he's cute. I know he likes feet so I've been wearing flip flops and trying to get his attention". LAST LAST year, this girl said she sucked some dude's dick fo… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 02:38 AM |
| 10 | What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media?everything this man said is true. i love finding a socially awkward girl because I get to talk about myself and watch her struggle to redirect the conversation. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How To Approach Girls That Appear Occupied?I got it. Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How To Approach Girls That Appear Occupied?alright. I'll try to be a bit more assertive. I actually walked beside someone while they were wearing headphones and started talking to them. but, looking back, I realized I came off as a creep that was following her. so, it scared me into not cold approaching for the rest of the week. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Always been insecure about my sick sense of humor. But recently ive been thinking who gives a fuck. Is this the right mindset?you know, I truly subscribe to the "If you're attractive, it's not offputting" mindset. I made dirty jokes all the time because my friends did and i learned to love them. When I made said jokes with girls, it always fell flat. But, my friends, who were track members and football players, could straight up make a joke about a girl's tits in front of her and the girl would smile and giggle. So, depending on what you look like, I'd say do you and don't care. I've completely given up on dirty jokes … | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Is This An IoI?i could easily say, "walk with me" after class. but, the last time I did that to a girl, I didn't have anything to say so we just kinda walked side by side in silence. you have any suggestions on that? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 12:14 AM |
| 2 | How to get her to lower her gaurdalong with this. just talk at her. you talk at a girl long enough and she'll eventually start initiating shit. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | i think i found a youtube series that shows off serval red pill theories. how do you guys feel about itI prefer my man Heroic Concepts | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Mods of TRP Would You Make A Subreddit For Small Successes?I don't think I'd manage it well. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Mods of TRP Would You Make A Subreddit For Small Successes?that's a good point. but, at least the idea is there for when this is all over. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 08:15 PM |
| 27 | She Sells NudesI remember this tweet I read one time. This guy was replying to this streamer(girl) who broke up with her boyfriend. She basically realized that beyond boobs, she isn't attractive and went on a rant about how guy's expectations are too high. So, this guy replies, "the worst mistake on the internet was letting 2's believe they were 10's". I completely agree with that. I will even say I'm jealous. I cannot believe unattractive girls can sell nudes, used panties, bras etc, for $30+ and people buy t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Saying What You Want and Believe, Without Trying to Change Other's people Beliefstrp isn't gone though. it's just quarantined. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 12:26 PM |
| 21 | [FR] Date ended on a sour note after she resisted escalation multiple timesalso too, the part where he turned around and said, "you aren't going to say goodbye" sounded pretty cringey/needy. should've just walked away and seen if she followed. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Questions about eye-contact and mobile phoneI'm not able to give you sound advice. I just wanted to drop my opinion to see if it'd help you make a decision. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Questions about eye-contact and mobile phoneIf it were me, I'd stop talking to her. I agree that that's disrespect. Especially because I see it all the time. Girls use their phones as a buffer when they either don't like you or are socially inept. But, as soon as someone they do like shows up, the phone is dropped and they sit struggling to carry conversation. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Do I Drop This Girl as a Friend Now?I get what you're saying. I'm going to ignore and move on. It used to hurt like hell losing friends. However, I'm finally at the point where having friends is just an add-on in life, I don't physically or mentally need them. So, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Do I Drop This Girl as a Friend Now?i never wanted to make a move. I just enjoyed her company. However, I'm going to take the other dude's advice and move on. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Do I Drop This Girl as a Friend Now?lol my dude, I haven't been an emotional tampon in years. the first time, she just happened to mention some guy was cute. but, today, it was the full blown shit. so, thank you, I will be moving onward. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 12:03 AM |
| 4 | TRPers, what's your ethnicity and what ethnicity of women do you attract the most?I'm black and I only attract hispanic girls and really introverted white girls. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Validationschool and in person. I did some really beta shit with her last year. this year, I'm torn between continuing to interact with her as a friend, pursuing(and possibly coming off as needy), or just continuing to ignore to see if she initiates again. So, I've been defaulting to the latter. but, either way, it's a learning experience. Attention is everything for girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Met girl in court. Used 2nd language. Fuck 1.5hrs later. Plate.I want to know too. You speak three languages? How long did that take you to learn? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 06:58 PM |
| 18 | ValidationI did this thing one time with a girl where I straight told her, if she wants me to talk to her, she has to say hi and ask how my day is going. I was tired of initiating and felt like she should pull her weight. She didn't talk to me for a week after and I ignored her. The next week, she starts saying hi and asking how my day is sarcastically, so I kept ignoring. Two weeks later, she drops the attitude and the sarcasm and says hi and asks how my day is going(still a facade of genuine interest, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How to approach Freshman in high school?same. good start though friend. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Any Tips For My First Cold Approaches?good point. I make these posts to kinda document each step i take on my rp journey. so, I usually ask a vague question. but, someone may still provide a good point of interest to lookout for when approaching. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 12:03 AM |
| 8 | Why are my posts being auto removed from TRP for lack of karma when I've posted on it with the same account several times and been fine?he's already showing neediness. this is proven oneitis. he needs to check out other subreddits. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How to approach Freshman in high school?ok good, now be free my friend. just approach and stop thinking. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How to approach Freshman in high school?anything, the point is to just start talking at someone. I'll bet you $5 you won't. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:33 PM |
| 2 | How to approach Freshman in high school?your smv is already high because you can drive and you're a senior. just do what daddydraper said. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:13 PM |
| 2 | A quick word on liftinglol i know. I'm trying to reach the 315 mark. but, my point was to still be proud of yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/18 10:52 AM |
| 6 | A quick word on liftingI tell my friends I squat 245 and none of them believe me. I never played sports from middle to highschool. But, I started going to the gym and never told anyone. I come to school one day and am like, "I squatted 245 last night guys". None of them believed me. My friend who took track for literally a single year back in 9th grade(we're 12th now), keeps trying to say a 245 squat is shit. Even though it hurt at the time, I learned that I don't need other people's validations or eyes on me when I l… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 11:25 PM |
| 2 | LTR started dressing more slutty and socialising more, staying out later - how should I respond?did she used to call you on your cellphone? lol i had to make that joke. but anyway, why would you care? your value is way higher than hers at this point. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 08:58 PM |
| 6 | Lessons Learned on What Kills Attraction from a Weekend Trip with a HB6I was never able to ignore people. last year, I tried incoporating trp by ignoring this girl, but I'd always end up saying something. this year, I have no problem ignoring them. I see the game before it even starts: a girl talks when she has no one to text or her friends aren't there, but when she's got people to text, she ignores you. I don't entertain it anymore. This one girl comes to class everyday expecting me to say something to her because I was being beta last year by entertaining her. N… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 07:35 PM |
| 21 | What "watching birds" with a girl really meansyou don't give up your friends because they're blue-pilled. you give up your friends because they're shit. my friend literally paid for a girl's prom ticket, bought her dinner, got her a ride to prom, then had her spend the entire night with her other girlfriends and their dates and never even had sex. does that mean I shouldn't be friends with him? no. he's always got my back, we hang out all the time, and we have the same sense of humor. however, that doesn't mean that I don't change. I contin… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 07:27 PM |
| 131 | I Fucked Crazy..either you don't understand what hypothetical means or I don't | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | how to end my internet addiction the redpill waythat spanish rap though. delicious. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 11:46 PM |
| 9 | I can't sleep properly with my girlfriend next to me.you give no shits about anything. you're basically like "If this person isn't benefiting me, I don't need to talk to them". | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Advice for innocent homecoming date?from what I hear through the grapevine, if you're trying to fuck after prom or homecoming you need one of two things. Pre-plan your fuck with the girl or the classic "I've got weed/vapes/whateverthehell, back at my house" then drive her there. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 10:32 PM |
| 15 | No more available friends left. Hard finding new ones...I'm a highschool senior, so I don't know how this will help you. But, don't be afraid to go out alone. This weekend, I wanted to go to the fair with my friends. They had to work though. I was fully prepared to mope all weekend and not do shit. However, I went and had a blast. It was just me, my food, and my thoughts. You gotta enjoy those periods of time when it's just you. Also, learn to talk to people you don't want to talk to. I went through all of highschool saying, "I don't want weird frien… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Should I send this message?It sounds like she's already made you aware that she's only come back to use you for a place to stay. I wouldn't send her anything. In fact, when she contacts you, I'd tell her shit has changed and your place isn't available. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 12:29 PM |
| 7 | Is it normal to daydream about conversations to old friends and such a lot?depends on your definition of normal. the true question should be: is it healthy? that answer would always be no. I'd practice mindfulness. Living in the past isn't fruitful. For me, after months of avoiding thinking, I've finally stopped lingering on the past. I feel better. I react faster. I'm a bit more vibrant when not socializing. However, I still need to stop creating fantasy situations and playing them out. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 12:27 PM |
| 2 | 2 parts of the RP that have been difficult for me to unlearn, anyone else?I have problems with two all the time. It's like, I get that you should let them talk, but I don't want to hear them talk. On the other hand, I'm not good enough socially to lead the conversation. So, I'm stuck in a loop where I'll either let a girl talk and get bored, or try to lead the conversation and see their interest fade. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Hitting a plateau on stronglifts 5x5lmao, my arms are shit. I bench 135 now. I want to get my bench to 185 soon. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:26 PM |
| 0 | Hitting a plateau on stronglifts 5x5everything is still rising for me. i one-rep maxed at 245 on squats last week. I deadlifted 265 today and I finally got my bench above 95. have you done the whole "add 10 pounds each week"? I think it said if you couldnt hit 10 pounds more, then add 5. Not sure though. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Got Girls Number; think I Might've come off as needy. Need HelpI've never seen someone define logistics that way. A paradox of day vs yes/no. I'm jotting that down. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 11:00 AM |
| 1 | "Why are you so angry"I get the same thing but in the form of, "What are you doing/thinking?" and "Are you ok's?". I have a lot on my mind, so when I'm not talking to people I'm usually thinking or, as I say, "just being". Don't feel like you have to be that dumbass that walks around smiling at people and high fiving randoms everytime they go somewhere. Don't feel like you have to be responsible for entertaining people when they come into your space and ask what your problem is. Blow it off. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Advice to improve my phone gamethis. I found out the hard way that you can do situational teasing but teasing a girl about a personal problem or issue is a surefire way to get her to stop talking for a while. also too, if bored and I can feel the judgement in your texts, you can bet she did. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 01:59 PM |
| 16 | Advice to improve my phone gamewhat's with all the hahahaha's? that's creepily uncomfortable to read. also, it looked antagonizing the way you called her out as if she has a drinking problem. that's probably why she didn't respond to the last one. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 01:13 PM |
| 10 | How to game girls who don't speak English?hit her with the juiciest line you can: "Hola, ¿como esta?" | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 07:02 PM |
| 25 | Do you greet everyone in the room?to comment on this. since I discovered trp, I've made the attempt to talk to people in class I'd never talk to. The amount of girls and guys I see turn around and start watching when I do it is ridiculous. It works. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:52 PM |
| 5 | What car do you guys drive?A 2010 Corolla I share with my mother. but, I can sure as hell whip that shit around a corner like a god. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:43 PM |
| 6 | What to do when a girl sends you a nude?now, I'm nowhere near alpha. But, when I used to get nudes, here's what I did. Basically, ignore them and change the topic. That really fucks with a girl's head. In fact, 9 times out of 10, it'll make them send more because "you didnt make a comment". Girls expect you to either sext afterwards or compliment them. When you don't do that, you break their frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here familiar with South American women? Are they fucked up like western women?my man, pick me up before you go | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 10:57 AM |
| 8 | People are looking at methe only time i notice that is when I leave the shitstain that is Maryland. then, I get tons of girls noticing me. but, in your case, it's probably cause you dress nice. even guys notice when a dude is dressed well. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Mental Fitnessgod, I hate ap lit right now. they switched teachers for me. now, instead of a whole year of reading poetry, we're doing a whole year of greek plays. do you have any poet recommendations? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/18 07:58 PM |
| -1 | How can I stop my mind from playing tricks on me? How can I develop a positive mindset? How can I forgive myself?that's beautiful | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | “Not Good Enough Yet” Mentality145lb squat? I got my squat to 235 in two months. But anyway, I have this mindset a lot. I always think, "why approach girls when I'm not there yet". I'm still working through it. However, I think it's all a part of self confidence. Something I truly lack. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Sexual Capitalismbilly beta isn't working on himself to get to that top 20%. that's why we're all here. I don't mean to be selfish, but let them be left behind. the more room up top, the better. if new markets appear or current markets rise, let them rise. that's even more opportunity for men who are in trp to profit off their beta habits. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/18 09:13 PM |
| 3 | I freeze up in conversation a lot of the time, particularly when I’m trying to implement the conversational principles of TRP (amused mastery, agree & amplify, holding frame, etc.) - how to stop?This usually happens to me when I start going in my head during conversation. Most notable time was: I'm in class talking to this girl I liked. It was the smoothest conversation I ever had. She's laughing, touching me, smiling. Then, I think in my head, "what the fuck? I'm really doing this". and I freeze. You just gotta avoid that. Don't plan or be in your mind when you speak. It sounds like you're realizing what you're doing and it's overwhelming you. Just be yourself and keep your feelings in… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Handle Taking Shit Tests From People You Cannot React To?I dont want to accept that, but I will begrudgingly. I'm deleting this thread. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Handle Taking Shit Tests From People You Cannot React To?fine. I'll accept. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 11:21 PM |
| -1 | How Do You Handle Taking Shit Tests From People You Cannot React To?It wasn't a matter of respect. It was a matter of, no one said I couldn't get my stuff, I had free time to get my stuff, I needed my stuff, so I proceeded to take 3 steps over to my desk and grab it before sitting down again. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 09:47 PM |
| 0 | How Do You Handle Taking Shit Tests From People You Cannot React To?she said, "I'm giving the class 30 seconds to think before we move on to the next assignment". I used that time to get my stuff because my shit was two chairs back. My actions dont control anyone else's actions. If that was the case, I'd be fucking the entire class. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Escalation Without Being Over The Topalright. I didn't really care how far it escalated. I dont necessarily find her attractive, but she's extremely easy to talk to and receptive to that type of stuff. Like, it's extremely easy to get her in your frame. I just wanted to practice and see where it takes me. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Escalation Without Being Over The Topthe only opportunity for even a semblance of isolation would be the hallway. at least there, there's no one specifically looking. I don't think my abilities are good enough to suggest we eat lunch in one of the empty classrooms together. Nor, do i think I've done anything to warrant her saying yes to that. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Good arm exercises?what did you do to correct your form? I've gotten to 25 pound dumbbells but I dont want to keep going with the wrist pain im getting. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Not returning my calls, and not answering texts.you shop at gucci? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test?i wouldn't reply to it. it sounds like she's waiting for you to inquire further in order to get a rise or some attention. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test?I take every text as a shit test. If the conversation isn't about me or logistics, then it's almost 90% about her, her friends, or whatever wack thing is on her mind. If the conversation is about her, then idgaf and ignore. I used to think I needed question every text a girl sends. I used to think I had to type paragraphs as if we were in a real life conversation. I used to always think I had to have something funny to say. Don't be like that. Remember your K's: Okay, K, and Nice. Let them get t… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are emojis ragged on so hard?beautiful | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 11:40 AM |
| 30 | Mission First, Women Alwaysi tell myself all the time, "you've gotten your body right, now you need to get your mind right". I know it's cringy, but this anime intro used to start with, "a sound soul lies within a sound mind and a sound body". My only real purpose is to get my mind, body, and soul sound. Whatever happens along that journey happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | [Shit Test] Who is this?if it's been a couple of days and you got this number from a cold approach, is it not valid that she'd ask "who dis"? Especially if she was expecting an orbiter who'd text instantly. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 12:38 PM |
| 2 | having read Daniel Roses' Sex God Method 2nd editionwe all have. it's called the anger phase. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 12:09 AM |
| 2 | I realized I shit test / tease others a lot - is that normal?I think we're in the same boat. I noticed I spend a lot of my time with girls teasing them about the stupid shit they say. It's good when you first meet a girl. But, they get uncomfortable and bored with it after a while. I would say it's a personality thing. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 11:25 AM |
| 67 | The unicorn fantasy that even TRP men have the hardest time letting go.you see that especially in guys who get girls their green card. they love them to death while they're trying to get them into the country. then, once they're here, they're done. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 06:21 PM |
| 11 | So short guys 5’6 below. How do you deal with girls who are alot taller in heels."I thought'd you be taller" is kinda funny. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Why does every thick girl with big tits have short hair? Short hair is fucking ugly. [shitpost]long curly hair is hot. there used to be two girls i'd see all the time with hair half-way down to their backs and curled to hell. it looked great. curls for life. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 09:06 PM |
| 219 | Bouncer Tales 5: Jerry's blues"One guy told me he thought it might be a permanent tic from years of dodging cum." wow. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Field Report #1 Highschool Seniorcompletely irrelevant... but when i was 9, I went to see the Lorax. Dude two rows ahead spent the entire movie rubbing this girl's thigh and cuddling her. By the time the ads were over, they were making out. 45min into the movie, they left. If this dude could make the best of the movies. I'm sure op could. Unless of course, that wasn't a first date. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Why in tv shows and movies are unattractive male leads always getting hot girls?I see it in high school all the time. I used to sit there and hate on it day in and day out. But, one day I actually noticed what these unnattractive guys have. Like dude below said, they had humor, they were witty, they domineered conversations, they ignored/bypassed most shit tests, and they were generally chill guys. It really depends on what the unattractive person is like. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 12:45 AM |
| 3 | On finally fucking a girl after 18 years of celibacyi dont even want sex. i just want to grab someone's ass and hold a hand. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 11:50 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop giving a fuck about what others think of my appearance?this. additionally, when you look in the mirror and find yourself attractive, you'll know you've stopped caring. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Changing Mentally But Not In Your Actions?you're right. I'm not going to argue that. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Changing Mentally But Not In Your Actions?I'd like to. But, I don't want to go through my last year of school being alone because I chose to do that. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Changing Mentally But Not In Your Actions?I'd like to, but, I've also come to rely on interaction for happiness. So, I don't want to just, all of a sudden, drop the charades and start being who I want to be. But, I know I'll have to. I'm trying to figure out how to push myself to that point (also partially dgaf attitude I'm working on). | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 04:56 PM |
| 5 | What's up with young girls hating androids?nokia 520 here, mad respect. I want get rid of this shit. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Stop Experimenting and Start ExperiencingI disagree with calling him out, but I agree with the headline. My first time trying to use this shit, I was too worried about getting my prethought lines out than I was about paying attention to the girl's reaction. It sucked. But, you live and learn. Now, I know what not to do this year. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 12:02 PM |
| 18 | Women and Their AnimalsI remember the first time I had a real 1 on 1 conversation with a girl i had oneitis for. I was tired so I let her carry the conversation. All she could talk about was her brother and her pets. I sat there with this blank face thinking, "you can talk about your whole life story, your weekends, your goals in life, the stupid shit on your mind, the jokes you have, and do it all with personality when you're talking to your girlfriends. but, with me, you're acting nervous and talking about dogs." It… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers of average or below average looks before applying TRP, how has your life improved since swallowing the pill?with this in mind, I'd say both sides get what they want eventually. TRP supports men being dominant and confident enough to get those girls aged 20-30. It's those girls that TRP says are easy to snag because they still want that dominant guy, that party lifestyle, that fuck n go mentality. TRP also says that after age 30, women want the bp. They realize they want a stable future with money and relaxation. So, at some point, the red pills get what they want and the blue pills get what they want.… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Highschooler looking for date locations.i just found this the last month of school. so, i havent had the chance to implement any of it yet. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Highschooler looking for date locations.As a highschooler, there's not really such thing as a "Date". My friends all say they either meet at school games or simply go to their houses or a common friend's house. At least until they get vehicles. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Good places/situations to meet girls in highschool?Having a car just gives you a one up over the kids that don't and are single. But, be warned, when you get a car, it'll be ass. 9/10 guys who date girls that don't have cars, are stuck getting their girlfriends food in the morning, driving them to their friends' houses, and taking them to places they want to go. Take that as you will. On the other hand, most of the people at my school who are dating, met at school games, after school clubs, or live in the same neighborhood. You're out of luck in… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Free time activitiesthe jobs and perks you can get from doing high school sports is wack. the swimmers lifeguard for $18 an hour. The soccer kids referee children's games at the park for $50 a game. the football kids get free use of the school gym all hours after school. the baseball kids get homework removed off their grades because "baseball training is so tasking and lasts so late at night". it's ridonkulous. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Going on a first date with a girl I matched on Bumble. Do you all have any advice?I've never been on a date, so if someone with knowledge happens to reply, thank you. but, why go the extra step of a park when you can get everything you need at the coffee shop? shouldn't those be separate date ideas so you don't have to think that hard the next date? don't you want to vet her before you go the extra step of hitting a park? idk. it sounds good, but the park seems extra. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Before TRP I was consistently having sex with a new girl every 2-3 months. Now I'm on a one year dryspell after internallizing TRP concepts and can't get laid to save my life. What gives?how do people get unmotivated to hit the gym? every time I go, It feels like the first time I walked in | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Hit a plateau on my squat weight. What changes should I make to continue to lift heavier?oh, well, i dont want to be corny. but, just push yourself. I was stuck at 105 for months. finally, i said I wanted to be able to squat 300. so, i started putting on heavier plates. I would start off my work out with 10 pounds more than i could do, then drop down to weights I could do for more reps. after about 3 or 4 months, i can squat 235. I'm no fitness guru, but that's what worked for me. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Girl deosent want to looksmatch.did you even look at the side bar? women are always looking to trade upwards. (that felt disgusting, how do ya'll say to read the sidebar all day?) | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Hit a plateau on my squat weight. What changes should I make to continue to lift heavier?350 pound squat? shit, nice as hell. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | My quick realization after mingling with an older woman at the barCan I just say, I'm jealous? Not because of what you wrote. Because of the number of posts here that mention hispanic girls. I love hispanic girls. They're easier to converse with and they love it when you touch them. I could be going to a school full of them. But, I go to a middle-class, all white school for the better education. It sucks. I'd never desire or want to talk to any of the girls here. I see how they behave, what they expect, and how they interact with guys. It makes putting any of … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 05:40 PM |
| 74 | Bouncer Tales 4: Bartender Beat-downthe saddest part about this is: she could've been a 6ft tall girl, built like the one that kicked ronda rousey to the face, and he would still be sitting in jail for hitting back. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Pissed the fuck off about lifting, need some pointersthat's what I was thinking. I haven't physically become different. But, my weights are definitely rising. it could be the same for him, just might not be at it long enough. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Should I go to a conselor?everyone calls me a "crazy man that doesn't want help" whenever I tell people that. I don't want someone who's being paid to listen to me, to be listening to me. I can go to a friend for that shit. I can talk to my parents for that. I'm not sitting in front of someone just to have them nod their heads, write stuff down, and occasionally suggest some bullshit. I can do that in my room for free. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 06:03 PM |
| 14 | Maladaptive Daydreaming - The root cause of mental masturbation and miseryI used to do this. Now, I can't keep my mind focused enough to do it. All of my fantasies have just stopped. Even if I want to think about one, the plots have all ended, there's nothing left to imagine. All the characters I used to dream of, embodiments of the things I wanted to be, all reached the highest point of character development. They've all reached perfection and I haven't. So, I guess my mind shut them off. Now, when I do daydream, it's only when I get stressed. I miss them, but I don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I'm an incel. One week into the redpill.i hit 2500 calories a dy and 120g of protein a day. im eating pretty healthy. i'm not saying i havent seen progress. i'm saying there hasn't been bodily changes. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 02:50 PM |
| 2 | I'm an incel. One week into the redpill.keep that 2. I've been lifting since junior year, 3 times a week. all I have is a small bicep and sore triceps to show for it. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Ironically the only true Red Pill you’ll ever find herethis sub is about self-improvement. it's about becoming the best you can be. it's about being able to have girls come to you because you yourself have become better. sure, there are a few that might hate women. but, the general consensus is: self-improvement means self-confidence, a strong frame, and the ability to have women notice you. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Young man approaches woman and gets rejectedI saw this one time during valentine's day at school. This guy, who was already dating this girl, brings her a ton of chocolate and flowers. She takes it, kisses him on the cheek. Then when he leaves she calls him a pussy and says "I didn't want all this shit, how am i supposed to carry this all day?". If that wasn't beta I don't know what is. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 05:33 PM |
| 20 | Calibration: The Most Important Tool In Your Arsenalcan't worry about that now. if she comes back, she comes back. I got my squat up to 235. I'm trying to get to 250 by next week. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How To Stop Smilingthank you, you're right. I guess I saw it as negative because i do it when things truly aren't funny or interesting. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How To Stop SmilingI'm still working on that. But, I feel like progress is slowly coming. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 12:45 PM |
| 1 | How To Stop Smilingsounds like a plan. I think the main problem isn't exactly the smiling, it's pretending to find something funny or interesting when it truly isn't. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Started high school and girl spreading dumb rumorsWhen I was in middle school, I wouldn't let this girl in my group take credit for the work that I did. She starts calling me a freak to every girl she knew. From 6th grade to 8th grade, no girl in her, almost infinite, circle of friends would talk to me. Eliminated half the school. It's now 11th grade and every time I walk past her, she still whispers, "he's such a freak, what a fucking weirdo". Except now, her friends aren't real and mine are. I get along with everyone and have genuine friends,… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 02:10 AM |
| 17 | Calibration: The Most Important Tool In Your ArsenalI got those taps 3 months ago lol. I was testing a bunch of red pill principles on a girl. But, I did it excessively and came off as an ass. I saw she was uncomfortable. I didn't adapt. I tried kino: touching her hands, face, hair, at first she was ok with it, but because of what I said before, she started pushing away. I tried push and pull, at first she was really into it. But, then, I didn't know where to go afterwards and she got bored. Last day of school, she pats me on the shoulder and say… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Bouncer Tales 3: Mate Guarderwell, I would've stopped waiting for people to interact with me first. the reason I was eavesdropping in the first place, was because my two friends were out of school. I had no friends besides 4 people for the first 2 years of school and they only became my friends because they came to me and started talking. I was in a class with 15 girls alongside two boys. If I was practicing cold approach and abundance, that wouldn't have phased me. In hindsight, I would've been doing that. Instead, it wasn… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it a strong frame or looks that attracts women?Why does it matter how he pulls them? It sounds like you're taking up mental space for a situation that doesn't concern you. Just find middle ground and say both. What really matters are the principles you're taking to heart in getting women. Finding what works for you and all that good shit. But, that's just my opinion, I'm not fully trp alpha yet. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 04:56 PM |
| 11 | Matriarchy And MotivationI've thought of TRP as a big brother since I've gotten here. The way the people here treat each other with a sort of "tough love" is very endearing in a sense. In the real world, tough love is almost completely absent. You're never told you can't do something even when, for whatever reason, you can't. It's all about, "you can do anything". When I'm at school, no one ever checks people on the stupid shit they say and do. It breeds stupidity. It makes people normalize their inadequacies. Here at t… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 03:21 PM |
| 54 | Bouncer Tales 3: Mate GuarderI remember one time, my crush was sitting next to me. She started talking about her prom date, some senior (we were both sophomores at the time). She started talking about how he took her to smoke weed afterwards and how, "nothing happened, she just walked home". Then, her friend was like, "didn't you suck someone's dick the last time you got high?". I walked out of the room like the blue-pilled bitch I was. Shit, but if you don't learn, what's the point? I discovered trp afterwards. I hope this… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 02:13 PM |
| 5 | I want to create a brother Redpill subreddit. Would appreciate some mod response.if you do, make a discord. they banned me from r/spanish's discord and i want practice | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 04:04 PM |
| 12 | Control Your Mind; Control Your LifeOne of my goals this summer was to practice mindfulness. I read a bunch of TRP posts and being mindful was a recurring theme. After a long summer, I can't even think at this point. I used to fantasize all the time. I had a whole world of plots that I'd think about. If I wasn't thinking about this world, I was fantasizing about having girls. 10th grade year ended and the fantasies were over. But, I kept trying to force myself to keep them going. This summer, I completely dropped them. Now, I cann… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys dancejust Safety Dance. if your friends don't dance it with you or dance at all, well, they're no friends of yours. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Indian girl on kink website writes post titled "My Absolute Favourite Time Being Hit on By A Man Ever in Forever." Can you guess what the guy looked like without reading the post?What he said sounded entirely beta. But, of course, you can say the most beta shit if you're attractive. Let someone unattractive approach a female like that and they'd be called a creep. Point taken, I guess. I don't think anyone here needed this proven to them though. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/18 07:17 PM |
| -1 | Question regarding getting rid of pornr/pornfree or r/nofap | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 12:10 AM |
| 4 | An Issue with Cold ApproachI remember my first cold approach. Really cute girl, I asked her for her number. I didn't realize how cringy it was til afterwards when I thought about it. I sweated through it, stuttered, kept pacing, stood at a really awkward angle (I was practically leaning over her). Basically, it sucked. She was sitting alone watching netflix, I asked her, "Whatcha watching", then proceeded with, "Well, since you have your phone out you should text me". Wasn't a bad way to start, but, if i had more confiden… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 11:05 PM |
| 17 | Submissive women can have their downsides in relationships tooAnd also, how does that look on you? I used to imagine that in my bp fantasies. Having complete control over someone (don't call me psychotic). But, I remember watching this documentary one day about just this. Some serial killer preyed on this submissive girl, had her sign a slave contract. She forked over the right to any decision she could possibly make. They described their relationship and the guy controlled what she wore, ate, who she talked to, everything. He ended up killing her because … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | (Serious) what can a girl do to prevent oneitis for a guy?Well, if you keep thinking with that mentality, it will be hard. Just put yourself out there and stop bullshitting yourself. What are you? What do you look like? If the answer to those questions aren't "Needy" or "Ugly" then go do you. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 03:09 PM |
| 2 | (Serious) what can a girl do to prevent oneitis for a guy?I think what everyone here wants to say, but isn't, is "what the fuck". Girls have options oozing out of their asses. How can you develop oneitis? Additionally, if you do have it, then fuck him and see if it stays. From your replies to other questions, it sounds like you're not fucking him. It also sounds like this dude is practicing abundance. I mean, you have the sidebar right here telling you everything he's probably doing. If you want him, get him. If you still have oneitis, then go get othe… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 02:10 PM |
| 2 | "You're so annoying"I´m going to have to agree with all these people and say bad. I really fucked up push/pull and teasing my last few months of school. When the girls stopped laughing and touching me (because I was too ass to see I should've amplified), they started calling me annoying and ignoring me. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How did you learn to reflexively answer questions with funny remarks, opposed to actually answering?but, isn't that contradictory to the red pill mentality? I mean, I get analyzing. however, if you're doing it every conversation it gets unhealthy. I did that shit constantly. Ended being a pissed asshole whenever I talked to someone. This reminds me of the pickup artist post in trp that was posted last week. In fact, it's exactly that post. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | How to respond back to “thanks for raising my self esteem”I see you comment so often I think you're a mod | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 04:50 PM |
| 55 | If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men?after reading this, I think girls will end up chasing guys again in Japan. But, not for a century or so of keeping that up. I mean, think about the U.S. We gave women voting rights and for years the majority of women still believed that staying in the home was the right thing to do. Japan is on its way to breaking the "men need to be available for women" mindset, but it's not going to happen rapidly. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 02:48 PM |
| 3 | FR: Daygame Session #4: Rain, Rain, Go Awayaah my man, I love hispanic girls. sadly, I've only ever talked to 3. I'm going to have to upvote just for that and hope by the end of this year I hit tons of cold approaches as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Update: Ashtanga Yogi and Marathon runner here. I finally took the gym membership.you had the balls to show a trainer a picture of Zac Efron and say, "This is what I'm trying to be"? pfft, I wouldn't have the self-esteem to do that. You're already doing half of trp right there. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Should I stay or should I go..?if you go there may be trouble | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Just lift... (Venting)we have minute rice, but I'd never eat it without chicken or something. takes horrible. what do you season rice with? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Just lift... (Venting)well, usually I eat I eat 3 porkchops, beans, chicken, beef burger, or really thin cut steak for dinner and that's 80g. the rest is eggs and greek yogurt and tuna. I only drink protein shakes on days I workout. Usually on those days I get about 150g of protein. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Just lift... (Venting)I feel like I'm wasting my time lifting. I managed to get my squat and dead lift from 95lb to 185 and 255. I can actually do pushups and pullups, I can sprint longer without getting tired. But, I feel like it's wasted because I can't get past 1,500 calories. I'm pretty poor, so food has been limited all summer. On average i get about 700 to 1500 calories a day. Everyday, I eat 120g protein. It's been 4 months, I feel like without meeting that 2k calorie surplus, I'm not going to get visibly stro… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Why would a girl cry after I initiated doggy?and now with the lines so blurred between what is sexual harassment and what is rape (thanks metoo), I'm sure even those stats are messed up. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 12:00 PM |
| 18 | How come I barely ever see guys flirting with random girls?I see it all the time. But, it's normally really weird, socially awkward kids that do it. Only to be called freaks and weirdos by attractive girls. However, @ me in 2 weeks, cause I'm going to finally try cold approaching. I'll be the weirdo flirting with girls. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 01:36 AM |
| 11 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanI snap very easily. If someone says something stupid or ignorant, I go berserk in my response. I've always said I wanted to be a chill, leveled guy. But, it's fairly hard when your life is ass and no one understands it. I remember last year in school. My family is poor, so I have a really cheap prepaid phone. Can't download apps or anything. Drops texts all the time. But, anyway, this kid wanted to contact me and I straight up said, "I don't have minutes". She says back, "Then, just buy some". I… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 11:59 AM |
| 6 | I fucked up my FWBs careeradditionally, she received the text. she didn't send it. why would a company, knowing how female workers are treated, blame her for "receiving" the text unless she was stupid enough to explain who it was from? I agree with this guy. It sounds like she's ass and needs an emotional sponge. It sounds like, instead of looking at what she's doing wrong and improving, she'd rather blame other people for her failures. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Bodyweight exercises vs liftingI bench 50 pound dumbbells and do squats with them. you can go to dicks and drop $100 on two 50 pounders or $90 on 40's, or $70 on 35's. Just buy heavier as you increase weight. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 02:07 AM |
| 56 | Men's Fashion - Basic Guide To Dressing Better!I only ever wear jeans and a t-shirt or sweats and a t-shirt. I don't need a variety of clothes and outfits when I can get 5 black, grey, and white shirts and 5 pairs of white, grey, and black jeans/sweats for $50. I mean, look around. People prioritizing looking good/unique/expensive, are the same people that can barely afford food or gas because they're keeping up with the Jones. I don't need that crap. Sure, I'd love a nice suit, but I'll worry about that when I have a job that requires it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/18 10:32 PM |
| 77 | Your "Classy" Oneitis is a HOE-IN-CHAINSso at 17yr you were crushing on a 15yr old? If she's 15 and you have a car and money you could've gotten her easily. In my school, at least, tons of juniors and sophomores were dating 18 and 19 yr olds because they could drive them places and give them shit. Pretty beta, but I mean, at least they get sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | She's nexting me while I'm nexting herYou let me make myself available and have someone tell me "well I couldn't wait, I went out with my friends". I wouldn't put up with that. I wouldn't have even responded. I would've gone home. It sounds like she's playing major games right now. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:10 PM |
| 5 | How do you remain unreactive / hold frame without looking sad / depressed?just being a smartass, I would've said "I only use lube on tuesdays". Tuesday is my go to come back for everything. Them: "Why are you being such an ass today?" Me: "I'm only an ass on Tuesday,". Them: "You don't think she's pretty, what are you, gay?" Me: "I'm only gay on Tuesdays." Them: "Do you like my makeup?" Me: "I liked you better last tuesday with no makeup and booty shorts." | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Need help figuring out what to say for this Tinder match... Feel free to Roast me, Help me and give advice on how I shouldn't care lol.I don't know if this is just me being inexperienced, but, this girl is on tinder right? The first thing she does is bring up her EX in her bio. I wouldn't touch that because it already sounds like she'll be comparing everything to her EX. That's that "The widowed girl will always want someone as good as her first alpha" thing I read on the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 03:05 AM |
| 4 | What would you tell your 17 year old self?I'd tell myself right now to stop jerking off and get my head straight. Every time I have the chance for success, it's snatched from me. Every time I have a moment of happiness, someone pisses me off. I'm not saying become a psychopath, but I need to become less emotional. I need to get off my ass and do something before December and I need to stop jerking off. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Feminist article calls out "sexism" on Riot Games and places blame on the "bro fraternity" style workplace where "women have fallen"Additionally, it sounds like she has a record of already "expecting to be successful" whenever she does something. If I was the owner of a big company, I don't care who you are, if you present something to me with an air of superiority or an air of "my presentation is the best ever presented", I'd cut you down. This article in and of itself shows she doesn't have the mindset to be in the upper levels of a business. There's a difference between being confident and being cocky. Cocky people don't … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 10:00 PM |
| 3 | First date failure, killed the vibe by jokingly insulting heras someone who got overly aggressive with a girl after reading those same posts, I totally agree. it's ok to lightly tease, but never insult a girl's character unless you're extremely close. i ruined a thing I had with a girl after doing that shit thinking, "I'm just doing what trp taught me". In actuality, I was misconstruing what trp teaches. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Don't Expect Shit Or Stay a Loser Forever.I enjoyed the elephant comparison. But, honestly, I thought you were going to be talking about expectations in general. I've yet to see a post about learning to not expect the best from the world or other people. However, you do touch on it with your relating of expectations with a "failure mindset". Overall the post is pretty informative. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 12:42 PM |
| 8 | Red Pill dynamics not applying to South Germany? Hottest young girls exclusively dating soyboys & losersthat's so much harder than it seems. I'm in the same mindset. people uglier than me, that work less than me, that have no goals compared to me, are the same people that have hot girls, jobs, and teachers passing them for shitty work. Meanwhile, I've been turned down at 4 different jobs and while I'm walking out of the stores, I see 5 or 6 people not even working, just straight socializing, and they've got jobs while i dont. It's unfair. It's hard to deal with. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 10:59 PM |
| 1 | The Friendship MythIf there's one thing I learned in hs, it's that friends don't last. I never had many friends nor do I strive for that. But, every year I made at least one quality friend. Even though I still desire to be popular, deep down I know that having that one quality friend, no matter how temporary, is better than having 20 acquaintances. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 07:08 PM |
| 11 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingPickup Artist Talk: I agree with the statement made that pickup artistry is "psychotic". In my mind, any person could drive themselves wild thinking of one-liners or conversation topics to "get" girls. But, imo, it's the fact that you're thinking at all, that makes it psychotic. I'm not saying it should come naturally or will come naturally. However, some might keep doing it and never evolve to where, it does come easily. If you're doing it and not evolving, then you truly are picking up a psych… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl getting mate guarded, good idea to try to move forward?based on your response, this guy sounds like he has serious control over her if he was able to put her in a "timeout". I wouldn't fuck with that not knowing if he's just some orbiter or a seriously dominant guy controlling his girl. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 09:51 PM |
| 2 | All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten Womenis not everyone here "preying" on girls? ya'll literally have guides on how to physically get a girl to do what you want and how to emotionally manipulate a girl into doing what you want. To any sane person, that would be a version of preying regardless of malicious intent. So, you need to be loling yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 08:16 PM |
| 43 | All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten Womenthis. I'm still in high school, but I see it all the time and it makes me upset. The muscular, athletic kids all have chubby girlfriends. The really average, entitled girls, have college boyfriends that drive them around and basically pay for everything they have. The below-average girls spend their time hovering around the muscular, athletic kids and the party kids because they believe that they should have above-average boyfriends. The above-average guys won't date these girls but they keep th… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some of your favourite songs?REM - Losing my Religion Daley - Look Up Simple Minds - All the Things She Said Josean Log - No Quise Calle 13 - Adentro | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 11:00 PM |
| 15 | Feminism can exist without a label: An overview on why Asian Men in general are perceived to be weaker than Western MenDoes this not exist in Western schools too? I remember everyday in middleschool. The teachers constantly shoved down our throats, "The girls mature faster. The girls are going to do great things. The girls are really smart". Never once did a teacher commend a guy for a good essay(besides me, because my natural ability is writing), never did a teacher commend a guy for playing his instrument well(one of my friends played sax extremely well, but the girl sax player who was ass, always got the supp… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 01:59 AM |
| 2 | How to control facial expressions?I'm coming back to this thread when you get more replies. I have the same problem, except, it's just my mouth twitching. I used to have trouble looking people in the eyes, now that I can, my mouth twitches like crazy. It twitches when I'm upset, It twitches when I confront people, and it's extremely noticeable. I hate it too. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | What Exercises do You Recommend?alright, I think I'll go with that. thanks for the assistance and giving me a heads up about the program! | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 12:38 PM |
| 1 | What Exercises do You Recommend?are you seeing growth with the whole "3 days only" part, or do you go 5 days a week? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Doing favors for people - what is the line between being genuinely nice and being a push-over?I never realized how entitled girls are until this year. Every girl in class assumes that the guy sitting next to her(me) should up and grab her assignments or put away her computer for her. Sadly, my friends do that shit all the time. I, on the other hand, tell them, "you got two legs". But, it's just sad that guys will literally get the most useless, lazy, girls whatever they need. Most importantly, it's sad that girls feel entitled to this. I'll get asked that shit by girls who dont even talk… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Overuse of AWALT: The hidden BluepillI had that moment last year during school. I had this girl giving me all the IOIs. But, by being my own socially awkward self, I was somehow using every redpill shit in the book. I would straight up ignore her to talk to my better friends. If she started talking to me, I wouldnt look up from my schoolwork to respond. One day, she was staring at me and when I asked her why, she says, "Maybe I want you to look at me". To which, socially awkward me, replied, "Maybe you should have something to say … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 12:57 PM |
| 1 | What Exercises do You Recommend?they deleted my post | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What Exercises do You Recommend?well, i want to achieve the "tour de france" body. some of the bikers have really defined legs and lean arms. i want that. i can't really describe it better because im not a fitness person. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What Exercises do You Recommend?5 sets of 10. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 03:08 PM |
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