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FeminismDrougent/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:10 AM
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44

LOL probably the only factual answer
/r/MensRights03/02/24 07:01 PM
28

Men need to start standing up against the ridiculous slander women like her try and paint on us.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 03:16 AM
6

What's wild is they demand help from men and everyone on any issue they face. This is one of the first issues to crop up that men ask for help and that's their response.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 02:28 PM
4

I had an ex who wanted sex daily and was above average in terms looks, so it wasn't hard. Unless I was doing physical labor, didn't get enough sleep, etc. Then I'd be just too tired to want to, she'd get upset and usually yell and demand it.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 01:13 PM
4

Bro's living the dream.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 01:47 AM
15

Yeah I noticed this too. In all the hobby groups I’m in there’s a common trope of “my wife won’t let me ____” or “how to explain to my wife about this purchase”. I feel like if I got to a point where I had to do that, I'd honestly just get a divorce. I'm not spending my one life trying to beg / allow someone else to buy myself things that make me happy, especially when I bust my ass off to make the money to buy them...it's actual lunacy.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 04:49 PM
58

Basically their motto is that they claim to help men but it doesn't come from a place of genuine care for the men, but for the women. Of course, if it helped just men they would feel it was taking away help from women. If women aren't benefiting somehow, they're not interested in helping men. I've literally asked multiple feminists that, if it's about equality, what does it do for the inequalities men face? An they routinely say things like "It's about taking from men to help women"
/r/MensRights23/01/24 01:37 AM
32

Even more laughable, they claim they have TOO many options to choose from on dating apps it becomes OVERWHELMING and therefore JUST AS BAD as men who have LITTLE TO NO matches. As if somehow the few that men are able to match with are all perfect.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 01:13 AM
3

Because parental certainty should be a normal thing we do. Women already have it, men should as well. 10% of men end up raising kids that aren't theirs and the number realistically is probably higher, which is scary.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 01:14 AM
7

The point is it's not normalized. If a man says he wants a paternity test everyone goes "Omfg he doesn't trust you? Break up with him! RED FLAGS!" Paternity tests should be normalized.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 08:28 PM
11

Yeah, I knew a someone who claimed her bf abused her (she put makeup on to look like she got hurt) I accidentally touched it to feel it and it started wiping off. The funny part was when she fake recoiled in pain.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 06:40 PM
7

It should be common practice to the point of it being weird if a woman claims she DOESN'T want a paternity test. It would be a tell tale sign of "Okay, so why not?"
/r/MensRights20/01/24 05:34 PM
21

It's shocking to me that something like parental DNA tests aren't mandatory at birth to mitigate such a potentially catastrophic problem. Yeah, I just saw a post about a woman being upset that her boyfriend said if they ever had a child he would demand a paternity test, even if they were the only two people stuck on an island when they made / had a baby. You know exactly how the comment section went, basically dragged the dude, told her to break up, he doesn't trust her, etc.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 05:31 PM
23

Seriously, I always thought that when they get older they'd all mature out of that kinda phase but it seems like many are forever stuck in their terrible 2's, they're just 5'4" toddlers running around terrorizing men and running into curbs for eternity.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 07:32 PM
10

Yep, I've asked tons of feminists what feminism does for men. The answers are hilarious. "Men don't need anything, it's about taking from men to make women equal" Like, why does it have to be taking from men? Why not just make women equal? Because obviously that's not what it's really about.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 09:07 PM
1

Yeah it sucks, but you just have to come to that realize that's how society is and live it, or spend your time trying to find niche groups that won't judge you for how you want to be.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:49 PM
1

I mean it would be good to know the statistics for women and men being rejected and how they act death, harassment, assault, etc. if such statistics existed.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 08:23 PM
1

Care to show us how frequently it happens to women? The frequency of women being murdered for saying no?
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:48 AM
1

It also happens to men too, though...
/r/MensRights14/01/24 02:26 AM
1

If you can, go pursue a life without this nonsense in it. Go outside, get hobbies, yada yada.Don't let you're mind be filled with this nonsense as even "entertainment." It's a waste. I'm only here because I'm basically bed ridden and have tapped out many other forms of entertainment/distraction. You realize you can do both, right? I go to the gym 5x's a week, I disc golf, I play volley ball, I fish when I can and I have a full time job. Hopping on social media once in a rare while to see some du…
/r/MensRights13/01/24 06:11 PM
1

It was a repost she posted
/r/MensRights12/01/24 01:53 PM
3

I mean I'm not even disputing that the picture is correct in a way. Yes, there are crazy men who would go crazy if you told them no. But the prevalence and acting like it's a normal occurrence with EVERY woman ALL the time is just weird. That's like a man saying "Do you know how common it is for men to genuinely be terrified of divorcing a woman just in case she reacts a certain way? A simple "no" and they're putting their life at risk, I hate this world"
/r/MensRights12/01/24 12:04 AM
2

We don't have to shit on women's issues here, it's not a competition. Agreed and I wouldn't make it a competition. Women definitely face harm from saying no more often than men. But to act like you're constantly in fear for your life all the time from men is so extreme and bizarre.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 11:31 PM
5

Yeah, it's sad when a woman agrees and other women try to tear her down by calling her things like that or "pick mes" like, do they HONESTLY think a woman has to agree with a man for them to pick her...? Which is ridiculous, because I'm sure if you asked them about men they'd say men are desperate pigs that will fuck anything that moves.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 10:38 PM
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I've suggested that, learning to defend yourself. Literally as if in chorus you get "WOW, VICTIM BLAMING?!" which it's not even fucking blaming them, it's just saying "everyone should know how to defend themselves, it's good"
/r/MensRights11/01/24 10:18 PM
3

Yeah, I think men are starting to finally "wake up" per se. I honestly never thought about mens rights or anything like that until my late 20's and saw some valid points about challenges men face and started to realize how society as a whole treats men like a disposable populace.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 10:17 PM
3

Mmhmm. Women gain power by proclaiming they have none.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 09:17 PM
2

No doubt it's true, I've seen some of the weird dumb shit dudes DM chicks.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 07:55 PM
6

Damn, sorry to hear. I would hold onto it as well, that's insane.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 07:20 PM
4

I've lost a lot of interest in women because of these experiences. Dude that's what happened to me. I was single for 2 years and felt no urges at all to be in a relationship or to be in one, it was actually really nice. And we don't really tell younger men that this can happen so they just walk right into this shit Dude, seriously. Like, men just accept that it happens and will happen. Like when Johnny Depp case was going down my father was like "Oh what did he do wrong?" I asked why he thought …
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:02 PM
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Yep, we were together for 4 years. Never once did she pay for any monthly expenses until near the end. I asked her to pay an internet bill (roughly $70 / mo) and she acted like I was stealing from her retirement after the first few months. An yeah, she'd yell at me for literally an hour straight because I didn't immediately do the dishes after dinner (which she would make a mess making and I didn't ask for) I'd try and leave the house sometimes and she'd literally grab onto my clothes (almost al…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:43 PM
3

So 6 figures, 6 ft tall, and a decent body? I got one, working on the other two.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:39 PM
9

Oh I know, I've had the experience multiple times. One particularly crazy ex who wanted to steal my childhood home because she helped me put some flooring in once claimed she walked in on me cheating and I told her to go away and told her family (many of whom I was good friends with prior to us dating) and all sorts of other crazy things despite the fact that I offered to let her live at my place for a month to get her stuff together. She ended up stealing about $2k worth of stuff / cash.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:28 PM
9

For entertainment, of course. It's always hilarious to see people post dumb takes and make subtle joke comments.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:09 PM
13

Seriously, she's somewhat above average for the most part and is always complaining about being single / going out on dates all the time. I personally would rather just be single than risking my life, but I guess then I wouldn't be able to complain about everything if I did that.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:08 PM
2

Yeah for sure. I think it actually does very good that we all are aware of the ridiculous takes of some folks and how to call them out on it.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:05 PM
18

Right? They think it's the perfect response when they have no legs to stand on "well at least you don't have to fear being raped going to the grocery store!"
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:57 PM
13

Oh no doubt there are and fuck those kinda dudes. But to proclaim you're always in fear for your life when dating is just wild.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 06:11 AM
340

What's wild is, the woman who posted this almost a week earlier was putting a dude on blast for suggesting to take her to a farm as a first date because it's cold out, shouldn't she have been fearing for her life...? And also was bragging about how she has her mom do background checks on guys for free and everyone should. I was so tempted to ask her "Oh? When's the last time a dude killed you for saying no?" but she already threatened to delete me after I laugh reacted the post.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 05:12 AM
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Yeah, what just boggles my mind is...when women face issues or problems men and women come together and help try to fix them. When men have issues or problems, women literally call them incels or say "why should women help with a male issue?" Woman gain power by proclaiming they have none. Trying to have honest discussions with them always just turns into "wEll at LeAST you Can go to ThE groCeRY STORE wiTHouT feaR oF bEiNg rAPeD" or other equally ridiculous things.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 05:45 PM
1

Are you kidding? It's awful being smoke bombed! You can't breathe, your throat closes up and sometimes you can't walk properly. Bro, you're acting like smoke bombs instantly fill the entire room. Literally just move away from it before it even hits your nose. Are you paralyzed or something?
/r/MensRights09/01/24 07:16 AM
2

u/Early_Inspector988 is probably wheel chair bound, dude.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 07:15 AM
3

He didn't throw it at her face? Wtf? She threw BOILING WATER on his face and it wasn't even the right person...
/r/MensRights09/01/24 07:14 AM
2

He literally got 3ird degree burns you psycho
/r/MensRights09/01/24 07:13 AM
3

Let me guess, if she didn't want to get raped she shouldn't have wore sexy clothes?
/r/MensRights09/01/24 07:13 AM
3

Yeah, a woman I was friends with and hanging out with forced me into a kiss during a night of drinking before laying back on my pool table and tried to pull me onto her. I kind of just froze up and "went with the flow" I was pretty drunk, eventually I stopped and had her go home. The next day I was sick to my stomach all day an wanted to just live in the shower, never talked to her again.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 04:08 AM
3

Women are strong and independent when it fits them, other than that they're damsels in distress and victims of anyone else they can blame.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 10:00 PM
12

Because feminists find examples of men just women hating without explanation and proclaim any man who dares object to what they say is a misogynist. It's easier to win any argument you proclaim when you just nullify your opponents opinion with "HES A WOMAN HATER!"
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:28 AM
3

Just normalize talking, hanging out, doing stuff, etc. with other dudes. Out at the bar? It's chill to just chat it up with other bros, not everyone's on the prowl for pussy. I chatted with a guy for over an hour once at a bar just chillin' an he bought me a beer at one point, was super dope.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 07:53 PM
4

That's funny, just saw a feminist page posting about this one Facebook. It was full of comments like "we can create sperm in labs, there's no reason for men to exist" Like even as a joke it's so cringy 🙄
/r/MensRights02/01/24 02:26 PM
0

"Nice guys" are these weird entitled dudes who act like, their experience as a dude, is somehow unique to them and being too dumb to realize ALL dudes experience the same shit so they feel like they're being slighted and feel the need to let everyone know "I'M A NICE GUY! GIVE ME A CHANCE!"
/r/MensRights31/12/23 10:48 PM
1

Let's just shift the goalposts a bit. Not shifting, explaining my point. I mean, am I wrong? Yes. Regularly. And that's a piss weak example. More so than women? Come on, let's be real. I'm a mens rights enthusiast as much as the rest of us here, but really?
/r/MensRights23/12/23 12:26 AM
0

In certain scenarios, I think they are. I've almost never heard of a mans drink being spiked, have you?
/r/MensRights23/12/23 12:07 AM
0

You acknowledge they're biologically weaker? Weaker targets are automatically going to be targeted more so than one that's not, you know this?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:53 PM
3

I'm just tired of women bringing up "disadvantages" and and cons of being a woman and completely ignoring the benefits of being a woman. "Women weren't even able to vote!" yeah, before you were even alive. "I want the same rights as men have!" Okay? What rights exactly are those that you don't have? There's a plethora of things I've seen all used as an excuse to invalidate men's complaints / issues even when being completely irrelevant to the discussion. Honestly, go to a feminist subreddit and …
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:14 PM
3

I think if women want to be seen as equals, have equal rights, and truly be equal it is extremely harmful. They need to start being treated like equals. Men no longer need to play protector, supporter, etc.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:00 PM
4

Because I 100% acknowledge women are weaker, face more dangerous predicaments in certain situations, etc. The problem I have is when they ridiculously proclaim ridiculous things like "Men are LUCKY to be able to WALK AT NIGHT without FEAR!" to invalidate any men's grievances when it comes up to gender issues. It's overboard and obnoxious. Men don't walk at night unafraid or unable to defend themselves either, it's dangerous. It's also just used to derail discussions.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:40 PM
4

We aren’t talking about marriage or dating or whatever. We’re talking about women being scared of all men in general because they don’t know which will attack them or not. Yes and if you're honestly that scared of all men, all the time, you sound like you need to go to therapy. That's like me being afraid every women I encounter is going to falsely accuse me of rape. If you want to live your life that way and are scared of all men, that's completely fine, but to try and tell everyone else they s…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:57 PM
4

Depends on the type of bear, if they're hungry, if they have cubs, tons of factors. A man's not going to attack and eat you if he's hungry. A mother bear with cubs will DEFINITELY attack. A hungry bear will DEFINITELY attack. Do you get into relationships with bears? Do you talk to bears? Do you go on dates and marry bears? The analogy is picking out a specific point to make, but completely ignoring all the other ridiculous things it brings along with it. Comparing men to wild animals purely to …
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:12 PM
3

I know and I think personal responsibility in being able to defend yourself is a huge thing. Complaining about being a perpetual victim and refusing to stand up for yourself is just weird.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:07 PM
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I mean, how would you feel if you were being compared to a wild animal that knowingly would attack a human? I get you're trying to make a point, but you can't just make up a shitty analogy willy nilly and expect everyone to agree with you.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:01 PM
6

I'm sorry, but comparing men to a wild animal that ALL of which would attack a human regardless the circumstances unless they were trained and even then, still have attacked humans....is fucking ridiculous. That'd be like men comparing women to snakes. Just because a snake bit me doesn't mean I hate all snakes.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:00 PM
3

You could always just do as they do and blame THEM for their own grievances "Oh, you think every man is a rapist? Well, maybe you should go to therapy and stop complaining about it"
/r/MensRights22/12/23 08:56 PM
2

I mean I can see the point of women having to worry about it more than men, they are biologically weaker and more likely to be targets. I get it. It's when women go on about "I can't walk at night without fear of being attacked!" that's not something exclusively women have to worry about. I live in a nice neighborhood and I wouldn't go wandering around in the middle of the night without a way to protect myself.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 08:54 PM
3

Yeah, I see no point in arguing with someone who is afraid of being raped every time they leave their house. I personally just suggest that they just go to therapy and go along my business.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 08:51 PM
3

No, but there's an uncomfortable amount that do or don't acknowledge it as an issue. I also don't blame them, even as a woman if you do try to acknowledge these kinds of issues you get attacked by women "way to be a pick me!" it's fucking stupid, people apparently aren't allowed to just be logical these days.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 08:50 PM
7

People blame everything on men. Literally had someone tell me men are to blame for their own high suicide rates because they beat women and use them to unload mental baggage 🙄
/r/MensRights22/12/23 08:13 AM
3

I've never participated in dating per se. All my dates just came from people I'd known for a while. I recently started going out on the weekends, getting a few drinks and some food and have flirted with women but I wouldn't really even consider that dating. I'm not looking to be in a relationship with any of them. I wouldn't mind dating, but it has to be more than it's worth and if it's just a headache it's obviously not worth it. Losing the freedom to just casually talk with people of the oppos…
/r/MensRights21/12/23 04:20 PM
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Yep, basically they feel attention would be diverted away from them to help men. Can't have that.
/r/MensRights06/12/23 07:35 PM
1

True, last two women I dated had kids 😩
/r/MensRights03/12/23 03:41 PM
0

Except they started before the march even began when she first talked. Acting like this isn't an extremely common phenomenon in voip games is straight up being delusional 😂
/r/MensRights28/11/23 02:15 PM
0

Why even voice chat with toxic people? I never once used voice chat to talk. I don't and have never owned a mic. I have in the past used it to listen, for raid stuff. I'm sorry, have you never played a modern day multiplayer game? How the fuck are you supposed to know if random players are going to be instantly toxic or not? And I'd you've never used voice chat and have no clue what I'm explaining, why do you think you should have an opinion on the matter? 😂 I'm a trans woman. And being seen as …
/r/MensRights27/11/23 03:32 PM
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Guys get told they're basement dwellers, gay, someone fked their mom, their sister, themselves. For no valid reason whatsoever. I've been gaming since I was a child, online multiplayer gaming, especially multiplayer, is toxic AF. But I've never had people say anything like that PURELY because I'm a male and was talking, it's generally triggered by someone just being an autistic spaz, someone making a bad play / not knowing how to play, or just general competitive PvP banter. I'm not saying men a…
/r/MensRights27/11/23 05:10 AM
1

I get that there’s s#it guys out there (feminists seem to want to deny that there s#it women). I guess it depends on what the discussion / topic is about, but I do tend to see guys acknowledging that "yes there are bad men" an not often the inverse, true. I do, however, wonder if the whole Gamergate issue has stoked resentment and suspicion of the intentions of women who enter these “spaces”. I think it just happened due to women regularly coming into gaming spaces in general, then resentment to…
/r/MensRights27/11/23 04:38 AM
2

The page is "spray is the way" on FB if you're interested.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 02:59 AM
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I've been gaming since I was a kid, it's literally ALWAYS been like that. You either get guys who geek out and start simping or guys who just start being assholes just because they talk. I can completely comprehend women getting upset / discouraged from gaming because of that kinda shit.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 01:48 AM
1

Changing ventilation filters, changing water jug on cooler, driving places to pick up things, taking notes, etc. What's silly though is every office I've been in, everyone's on salary...so technically you're getting paid for anything you're doing, regardless...
/r/MensRights27/11/23 01:13 AM
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I think they do and in some cases, better than women. I'm part of a gun camo spray painting group on Facebook and a guy had gotten drunk and was posting about how he just broke up, etc. everyone was trying to convince him to spray paint his gun (like they do with everyone) and he spray painted a heart on the back of his glock. Everyone was being extremely caring, friendly, compassionate, etc. one guy even said he wish he had the money to pay for a two way ticket so they could kick it. Another gu…
/r/MensRights27/11/23 01:04 AM
3

Yeah, I was part of a gun camo spray painting group on Facebook and a guy had gotten drunk and was posting about how he just broke up, etc. everyone was trying to convince him to spray paint his gun (like they do with everyone) and he spray painted a heart on the back of his glock. Everyone was being extremely caring, friendly, compassionate, etc. one guy even said he wish he had the money to pay for a two way ticket so they could kick it. I was honestly shocked at how amazing everyone was being…
/r/MensRights27/11/23 12:40 AM
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Thing is girls do feel more affected whereas guys get that shit non stop as well we just tune it out They feel more effected because they ARE more effected. A guy can talk and not instantly be hounded because of their gender. I've never said one word and had another man or woman say "Fix my car for me!" or instantly try and antagonize me purely because I'm a man where as people openly do that to women gamers. Like I said, I've had multiple gamer girl friends and the amount of dumb shit people sa…
/r/MensRights26/11/23 11:55 PM
1

Agreed, I don't know why he got downvoted for that. It's hard for me to want to agree / get behind fellow dudes when their basic words are misspelled or grammar is awful.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 10:57 PM
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Men definitely face more bullying. Anyone who use internet and game online can't deny this. Unless they are extremely biased I agree with what you say for the most part, but you know this is absolutely a lie. A women literally just talks in a game and depending on the game - she either gets flirted with (which is fine imo, although annoying for them I guess) but more often than not dudes will say the same ol dumb annoying shit "make me a sandwhich!" or go off on a tirade of sexism purely for no …
/r/MensRights26/11/23 10:56 PM
5

It's funny because I feel like I'm watching these conversations evolve online more often and the fact that men are working together to counter these ridiculous points they bring up is awesome. Men deserve to be treated as equals and pointing how ridiculous it is for women to downplay our grievances and try to derail conversation about how they suffer worse is amazing. All in all it usually just ends with women going to their only come back of "incel!" but at least we're making it known that we d…
/r/MensRights26/11/23 08:36 PM
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Cringe
/r/MensRights26/11/23 06:01 AM
44

feminists will tell men to leave women alone and make their own space. I got banned from one for this today. Literally all I said was "well any time I've seen men bring up their grievances women generally downplay the issues or try and explain how women have it worse as if it's some kind of competition"
/r/MensRights26/11/23 06:00 AM
5

Feminists love to be empowered when it fits them and then play suffering Olympics if men try and express any of their grievances.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 03:26 AM
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Sadly men are easily manipulated, many put too much faith and trust in people not being complete pieces of shit. Happened to me before and I didn't fully realize how bad it was until I broke up with her.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 03:11 PM
13

Exactly, their points are just jokes. Like lmk when you're forced to fight in a war, sweet pea
/r/MensRights23/11/23 12:40 PM
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Yes, they give tons of examples which are laughable compared to the issues men face, like our high suicide rates, parental uncertainty. They want a monopoly on suffering, too. 🙄 "people don't take us seriously" "people flirt with us non stop!"
/r/MensRights23/11/23 04:54 AM
10

They just think they're easy to manipulate, because they are.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 02:35 AM
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There's groups of people who say anything they disagree with is right wing. People were spamming the laugh react on ridiculous posts, the emoji was labeled right wing and they changed how it looks becuse it was "being used to bully people"
/r/MensRights21/11/23 12:14 PM
6

I wish there was a male version of feminism, we need it
/r/MensRights18/11/23 10:44 PM
9

Of course, because women can't even begin to comprehend other people suffering. It's all about them and how to make their lives better, even when they're better off than others in a lot of different ways.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 08:39 PM
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Undoubtedly. The fact that women regularly lambast and make fun of men who try to bring up any grievance about their gender as if it's some kind of competition and they can find something women suffer worse at is just beyond a fucking joke. Both genders can have grievances, you don't have to marginalize male issues.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 07:05 PM
20

Yep, it's honestly baffling once you realize it
/r/MensRights17/11/23 07:29 AM
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This. As long as there's men desperate enough that think they'll get laid by simping, it'll never change. I think it will require enough men to realize how shitty we're being treated which isn't easy considering society tells us to just man up. We're literally not allowed to air our grievances without being called losers, simps, misogynists, woman haters, etcc.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 06:50 AM
2

Sexual assault in jail has been the punchline to a joke for way too long. Male sexual assault in jail*
/r/MensRights16/11/23 11:20 PM
1

Male rape is just as funny as funny as female rape - it's not.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 11:20 PM
2

Yep "don't drop the soap" "keep your soap on a rope" is literally a gag line openly accepted by society. It's similar to the majority of male grievances we face, it's a joke. When women have issues they're facing, we as a society work together to help solve them. When men face issues, we laugh / joke about it and tell them to man up. In a world where we're trying to make everyone feel better and accepted about themselves, we sure are doing a super fucking shitty job of that for males in general …
/r/MensRights16/11/23 11:17 PM
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Society basically says it's not only okay, but funny to pick on and belittle men because it doesn't effect them. Women like men who are masculine even if society & women in general make fun of it and act like it's bad.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 11:12 PM
3

While you're at it, add in being forcefully drafted, not having parental certainty, higher job injuries & deaths, higher suicide rates, and the plethora of other issues men have consistently faced and is completely ignored / made fun of.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 09:52 PM
6

Seriously, the fact that everyone's just now realizing these days how skewed society as a whole has ALWAYS been in favor of women and against men in our day and age is interesting. A lot of guys don't realize it or even notice, because that's just how society has been. I'm honestly glad men are in a sense waking up and realizing how poorly we're being treated and that women aren't the only ones who suffer.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 09:00 PM
22

So can women, why is it necessary to say women 4 times? Oh that's right, because it's intentionally leaving men out...
/r/MensRights16/11/23 08:59 PM
2

Yeah, I wish I had when I was younger. I wasted my 20s floundering around playing video games working at a job I thought was going somewhere, big waste of time honestly. At least with armed forces what you do will stick with you.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 03:49 PM
2

Most men are lonely throughout their lives. It hits particularly hard after a breakup.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 03:28 PM
0

Imagine going up to an obese person and saying that and realize how dumb it is to say someone else's suffering effects YOU more.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 05:51 AM
2

If you make your voice heard you're just called an incel and attacked
/r/MensRights06/11/23 03:37 AM
1

Haha I remember that, so fucking ridiculous 🙄
/r/MensRights05/11/23 01:57 PM
2

People perceiving men as guilty and aggressors, and women as the victims is still problematic, even if it doesn't directly cause any legal lawsuit. This is a huge one. Johnny Depp vs. Amber was eye opening for a lot of people I think. I mentioned it to my dad as it was going on and he literally assumed Johnny Depp was to blame, I asked him why. He said "Men are always the ones found guilty"
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:56 PM
38

Don’t they have a term for that when men are desensitized by too much masterbation? Not sure, but it definitely goes both ways. Men can have a hard time staying hard but when that happens they're usually made fun of, blamed, or the women will spiral into thinking there's something wrong with her. Not surprising there’s no term for that for women even though they’re far less likely to be able to get off. Yeah there really should be a term to describe it considering it's prevalence. Only thing tha…
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:53 PM
25

It's still insanely low.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:41 PM
5

It's men in general, honestly. There's so much double standards against men when they're also suffering more in many cases from things in life. Work place related fatalties, being drafted, suicides, victims of assault, unable to have parental certainty of their child at birth. I brought all these topics up and I shit you not, I had women replying with things like "At least people listen to you!" "At least you can go to the grocery store and not be in fear of being raped"
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:16 PM
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Even if it was, do you think a guy feels great knowing he can't please his partner? And that it somehow effects his partner more? Dude's get nervous and can't even get a boner, how do you think this effects them?
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:14 PM
62

Seriously, the bar for women is so insanely low. This person is a complete joke.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:09 PM
36

Which is what I believe this is about, women have such a lack of penis they feel utterly humiliated to the point it effects them more.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:07 PM
169

God, please tell me you're trolling...dudes having small penises are the butt of every societies jokes, ridiculed, and made fun of. You honestly think that a man being treated like shit all his life for something he can't control effects women MORE? If a dude commits suicide because of constant humiliation he faces due to a small penis, that effects women MORE?
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:06 PM
113

Yep, like women who get off with jackhammer vibrators then are surprised / mad when they don't cum during sex and blame men.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:03 PM
22

Imagine thinking honesty and loyalty is EVERYthing.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:02 PM
283

​ This is hilarious, though. Imagine honestly saying "YOU having a small penis affects ME worse than YOU!" Like what the fuck? A dude with a small penis literally has to live with that, you psychopath.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 07:00 PM
6

Yep, that's always their go to "that rarely ever happens compared to how shitty MEN are!" as if that means we just get to sweep it under the rug.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 06:58 PM
10

I'm not going to lie, I've never brought up a male grievance and not had at least one or multiple women say something dumb like: "Oh, you think that's bad? Women can't even go to the grocery store alone without being in fear of being raped!" like it's some sort of fucked up victim competition.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 06:55 PM
7

It's funny, but so true. Literally what made me stop caring about finding a woman.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 06:44 PM
5

For me I was in my late 20s and dated a hugely narcissistic liar who would always blame me for things she literally did all the time. 4 years we broke up, I barely was sad about it despite her being very attractive and for the next years until I'd found someone, I didn't feel sad / feel the need to find a woman.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 06:44 PM
8

All very valid points. I had a really attractive ex once and that happened. I offered to let her stay at my place for a month so she could get her stuff together and move on, she left the same day we broke up and didn't get almost anything. Then claimed she was sleeping in her car...and that I kicked her out and that I cheated on her (she had cheated) and all sorts of crazy things. I had someone I barely know come up to be an be like "Hey your ex said such and such, it's really bizarre and I was…
/r/MensRights04/11/23 06:41 PM
2

Because they don't care
/r/MensRights23/10/23 04:29 AM
5

If they couldn't blame men for everything they'd actually have to hold themselves accountable... God forbid that
/r/MensRights01/10/23 02:39 PM
2

It's not just women, there's a lot of men completely unaware of all the BS men have to deal with as they've been socially programmed to just accept it. Bring up mens rights in any subreddit and you'll get called an incel / woman hater lol...
/r/MensRights27/07/23 04:16 PM
1

I'm glad I'm not the only man who's not a fan of casual sex / hook ups.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 01:24 PM
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