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DrouinWasOnsides/r/seduction01/03/20 02:20 AM
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This reads long winded, BUT remember people don’t remember what you say, they remember how you make them feel. You can say almost anything if the intentions and vibe behind it are solid.
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:33 PM
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some great points! As I’ve gotten into game, I’ve noticed little IOIs. And as I’ve worked on myself on going to the gym and getting more confident, I’ve noticed the quality of women I get IOIs from increase as well. So I definitely think music can help, BUT it’s definitely not going to do it on its own. I play solo acoustic guitar and sing, and it also depends on the gig. If I’m playing a yuppy place or a hotel bar in the ritzy part of town, being a musician actually hurts you because the people…
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:35 PM
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I play guitar and sing, and have played over 2000 gigs in my area over the past 12 years. I am a young guy, a little skinny but going to the gym now. Attractive but not top 10 percent. I am a little shy but working on that too. I have been laid 0 times from music.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:08 PM
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“k”
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:50 PM
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Game is amoral.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:05 PM
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Also “read models” and reject everything else about PUA ever written.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:45 PM
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We need more positive support in this sub like this! Good on you both.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:13 AM
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I love this, sometimes i fear no girls ever look at me though!! I try so hard to make eye contact with passers by or girls in the bar but it seems as though they are always in their own world.
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:25 AM
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Hey man!! Just from reading your language I can tell a few things. You already are too invested in her. Lean back, take it easy. Right now, act as if you have a roster of 10 girls to choose from. Would you chase one so hard if you had 9 others to choose from? You’re putting unnecessary pressure on one person by chasing so hard. Plus it’s not fair to you to have to chase. If she doesn’t respond to any feelers you’ve set out, she’s not interested. I know you hate to hear that. I know you want to t…
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:23 AM

This. I workout to look better for women. If a meteor was coming I would not work out. I’m happy at the end of the day.
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:31 PM

Dude reading this post sounds like future me. I feel like I’m about 2-3 weeks from having a night like this. I’ve theoried up this whole quarantine and sounds like you have too haha. Anyway, fantastic job. And for the response to the shit test, my recommendation was your response was maybe a little long winded. Keep it short; punchy, funny, you’re in a loud club!! Maybe something along the lines of “I don’t buy girls drinks before the first date :(“ lol. Something short like that. Keep up the FR…
/r/seduction24/07/21 12:25 AM
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We call them “hired guns”. IOIs don’t count from them!
/r/seduction24/07/21 12:17 AM

Hence why this sub drifted towards inner game and models so much vs outer game, IMO. Both have their value, but outer game has been kinda swept under the rug
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:25 PM
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Huge W!! keep trying buddy!!
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:19 PM
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LOL. good catch.
/r/seduction21/07/21 02:35 PM
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This is a fascinating theory. This is gonna stick with me for sure!
/r/seduction21/07/21 04:49 AM
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You got it! Right off the top my head: 1.stand up straight with your shoulders back. Walk with swagger. Don’t look at the ground. Look straight ahead. Make eye contact to passersby! When sitting, take up space. Don’t be obnoxious, but don’t be afraid to put your hand on the back of another chair or on the bar. Lean back and relax. High value men make sure they are comfortable. Eye contact cannot be stressed enough. Always have a big smile when entering a room! And just in general keep a smile. I…
/r/seduction21/07/21 04:44 AM
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Dude THANK YOU this sub can be so black or white sometimes. And gotcha, maybe it was even something in your subconscious that particular night that prevented the direct openers from landing. And looking forward to your FR’s. Quality content this sub needs. Happy sarging!
/r/seduction21/07/21 04:38 AM
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Work out. Dress better. Improve body language. Eye contact. Talk to everyone. Instagram close everyone. Use steps 5 and 6 to cultivate a solid friend group. Go out with friend group. Now you’ve got “preselection” going for you. Note this is the long play. But rewarding in all areas of your life outside seduction.
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:15 PM
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If you get their number, remember to keep the conversation going 5-10 minutes after. This keeps them from thinking you’re a number slut
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:07 PM
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Man this content is fantastic. I wish more people posted field reports like you. From what it sounds like, telling girls directly they are hot so soon seems to not be working. Maybe try a complement not about their looks? Other than that I applaud your confidence bud!
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:24 PM

“I couldn’t get in your pants if I tried” is a hilarious response. I’m using this!
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:22 PM
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He was just sweepy, don’t think so much. Also, With all due respect, wouldn’t this be better suited for r/datingadvice!
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:20 PM

Her asking what you needed your number for was a test. You passed that test with the humor! Great job buddy. Also you’re a good writer.
/r/seduction18/07/21 06:21 PM
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Remember to smile boys!
/r/seduction18/07/21 06:19 PM
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One of my favorite things is agree and escalate. For example, if she playfully teases you about something, take her side and take it further. Don’t be afraid to tease her back, as long as it’s flirty, fun, and not hurtful.
/r/seduction18/07/21 02:19 AM
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Silver lining: future dates with other people will probably be much better! Key words: other people!
/r/seduction18/07/21 02:17 AM
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Awesome post! Care to expand on the dressing well part? How did you upgrade your wardrobe?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 01:54 PM
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in my case, things ended a week ago (amicably) and im just giving her space and working on myself, as per the advice in this subreddit. I was just curious on how to reach out to her again, like what to say. I just threw out 2 weeks as a possible time frame
/r/seduction04/01/21 11:59 PM
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Yeah, you're probably right. The needy vibe may be subconscious. Working out and working on it everyday!!
/r/seduction15/08/20 05:26 PM

Does anyone else have the issue of girls not looking in your direction in the first place? If they looked at me I'd make eye contact. But short of jumping up and down and waving my arms the attractive girls never look at me...
/r/seduction15/08/20 01:56 PM
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