Drshoes8 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How much do you think where you are located affects your chances of having successful sex life?		Drshoes8	/r/seduction	03/11/19 08:06 PM

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2	Finding a Friend with Benefits? The only advice I have is don't get in your feelings with a FWB	/r/seduction	07/11/19 04:07 AM
1	Go for the types of girls that want you or the types of girls you actually want to be with? (racial preferences/social trends) Why not go for both?	/r/seduction	07/11/19 04:01 AM
1	If she shuts you down, tells you to go away, tells you she’s not interested, tells you she has a boyfriend, move on I agree with the first 3 but the boyfriend one depends. I remember seeing a study that women are more likely to cheat than men are. If she says she has a boyfriend say something like "how long have you had that problem?" for example, but obviously in like a jokingly way and see how she responds to that. If she responds positivity try to go the "friend" route, and since you showed her you're not afraid to get a little flirty even after she says she have a boyfriend it'll kind of avoid the stuck i…	/r/seduction	06/11/19 10:40 PM
1	Do people still cold approach in bars? That's like asking do people still exercise at the gym. If you see women at the bar and no dudes trying to hit on them that's a blessing, not something to question and overanalyze. Your problem seems to be you think you can only approach them by themselves, but women aren't likely to be by themselves and with their friends at a bar/club. Also I wouldn't say the bar is the only place where it's socially acceptable at all. It's just places like gym and work environments where it's kind of sketchy …	/r/seduction	06/11/19 04:09 AM
1	Does my skin color screw me over? Some women prefer not to date out their race, but most don't care despite what some might say. Do your thing and don't worry about that. You also don't look bad face-wise, so it's most likely something you have to work out with confidence. You're still young as hell so it's too early to be thinking it's too late.	/r/seduction	06/11/19 02:22 AM
1	At what age did you have your first sex? 14 The first girl I did it with wasn't much to look at. I was pretty much an outcast in the beginning if middle school, so I didn't know if I'd even get another chance, so I did it just to not be a virgin. Funny thing was that even though she wasn't that attractive a snowball effect happened after that and other girls were into me all of a sudden because they saw me with another girl. Then I had a major drought from like 16 till 19 when I got my first job.	/r/seduction	06/11/19 12:56 AM
3	As a minority gaming white girls, why do I get way better reception from blondes and redheads but horrible ones from the tanned ones? This is just a guess. Idk probably an exotic factor to them. To a blond, redhead, and pale white women you seem more "exotic", but to one that's "tan" that's less of a case because your skin tone is more similar. It's sort of the same way for me as a black guy. Light skinned black girls and white women seem to go for me more than one's that are my skin tone. I'm not dark dark, more like caramel .	/r/seduction	06/11/19 12:43 AM
2	How to be sure someone is into you? All you can do is shoot your shot and find out	/r/seduction	04/11/19 09:11 PM
6	YOU ARE DYING. People on reddit use boomer for everything now, not just the demographic. It's like how loose the term "SJW" has gotten.	/r/seduction	04/11/19 08:46 PM
65	YOU ARE DYING. Unfortunately, you have to be the one to decide enough is enough. You can have and probably already had a few or several people preaching to you on this subject, but all those pep speeches really mean nothing. Something has to wake up inside you and push you. If you think something negative immediately replace it with something positive. Close your eyes, breath slowly through your nose and feel it in your stomach, then exhale. Soon you won't even have to close your eyes and you can calm yourself…	/r/seduction	04/11/19 08:42 PM
1	How to attract a girl doing cold approach? Doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong. Maybe it's the tone or vibe you're giving off but idk.	/r/seduction	04/11/19 02:42 AM
1	first date: activity vs going out for drinks? True, Netflix in chill is better but since you said first date so idk if she was that comfortable with you yet and opts to go somewhere public. But you're right though you don't get much time to talk but my success rate at movie theaters is pretty high.	/r/seduction	04/11/19 02:23 AM
-5	first date: activity vs going out for drinks? It's cliche but generally I like going to the movies. It's probably the easiest to get a kiss or a little foreplay going besides going out for drinks. Axe throwing sounds cool but idk if a girl would be in to that, but to be fair this my first time hearing of some axe throwing activity.	/r/seduction	04/11/19 02:17 AM
1	How to attract a girl doing cold approach? Its nice that your AA has gone down and you can talk to them freely now, but now you have to hone your skills a little better. Would you say that you dress well and have a nice haircut or hairstyle that looks good on you? Do you exercise at all? Do you have hobbies or things you're passionate about that you talk to them about?	/r/seduction	04/11/19 02:13 AM
1	How much do you think where you are located affects your chances of having successful sex life? Yep, this is really accurate. You must live in a small city/town or have been there because it's exactly as you said. I need to get out to a bigger city permanently because it seems like I can blossom there socially.	/r/seduction	03/11/19 10:46 PM
1	Met a girl at a party, but was too shy to make a move. Should I text her on social media? "There were either other people or friends from her nearby and I still working on my game." Don't worry about them. A part of being confident is being able to speak in groups. It would probably even impress her if you made a move with them there and show her you're comfortable in your skin. At this point id say let it go. I've had experiences in my middleschool-highschool days messaging a girl I barely talked to on Facebook, and it never turned out well. I didn't get a reply back then I get a he…	/r/seduction	03/11/19 06:52 PM
3	Who/what helped you learn/improve the most? Exercise. Having a fuck it attitude and learned to stop thinking about what others may think of me. Often times it's caused from an ego-defense mechanism that people are more worried about you than they really are and try to avoid social contact when you don't think you need it. It wasn't necessarily just the anxiety which I used to pin everything on as my excuse. I understand there's different levels to this, and some have severe anxiety where they literally can't breath and completely freak ou…	/r/seduction	03/11/19 05:43 PM
-1	Any other subreddits related to game? This one seems like more people are fascinated by the concept of game than people who actually go out and practice game I mean unless you somehow know what everyone who posts here is doing, you can't really say they're not actually going out and trying it. That's like assuming the people in the fitness subs are not actually exercising and just like the concept of exercising.	/r/seduction	02/11/19 07:01 PM
1	What does it mean when a woman pretends to not see you when you get close to her? Either she's shy, she's trying to avoid you, or she literally didn't notice you. Some more context would help like do you know her already? Is it a stranger? Was it like at a bus stop? etc	/r/seduction	02/11/19 06:44 AM
1	Having confidence is the most difficult in the world. You should be proud of yourself for going out there and trying. A lot of guys don't even try anymore, and completely isolate themselves from people. I used to be one of them. I convinced myself that I didn't want to socialize at all as some defense mechanism. Luckily, I didn't steep too far into some incel mindset like a lot of dudes have like "the world is against me" "all girls want are chads". That's like the deepest you can fall. Like DrewChambersDC said, exercise can help tremendously. But …	/r/seduction	02/11/19 02:10 AM
4	How Long Should You Typically Wait To Text A Girl After You Get Her Number? Don't over think it. This one of those things that there's really no right or wrong. You could end up texting her while she's busy or something, but if she really wants to talk she'll call you or text you back. Just don't be one of those guys to keep texting her over and over if she doesn't reply back that day.	/r/seduction	02/11/19 01:39 AM
2	Comparing this to the IG model who doesn't want a nice guy 🤔 The main comment on that post you're referencing on this sub explains that better. Nice guy as in obsessive breaking your neck for a female type of guy.	/r/seduction	01/11/19 11:54 PM
1	Rate my excuses of not approaching today. Are they justifiable or am I a pu**y? Imo you shouldn't expect the worse because it'll affect how you approach her, but at the same time not feel like she's obligated to give her number, and even if she does there's a chance she doesn't text back. Expecting the worse turns it into a "let's get this over with" kind of thing. That's good if you have very little experience talking to them, and want to warm up but long term it's not a good idea.	/r/seduction	01/11/19 11:50 PM
7	Does anyone else notice huge disparities with success and none at all? I'm just going to copy and paste this from my last comment because I feel it fits here also To gain long lasting confidence you need to focus on yourself first and foremost. Exercise, get some hobbies, learn a lot of different things (for example the culture around your area, more music and bands, arts, sports etc) even if you don't necessarily want to. The last thing is important because that means you basically have an endless stream of things to talk about besides random banter about nothing.…	/r/seduction	01/11/19 09:13 PM
1	Lack of confidence? I agree with loserintexas. To gain long lasting confidence you need to focus on yourself first and foremost. Exercise, get some hobbies, learn a lot of different things (for example the culture around your area, more music and bands, arts, sports etc) even if you don't want to. The last thing is important because that means you basically have an endless stream of things to talk about besides random banter about nothing. The first two things helps your self imagine and lets you release that extra…	/r/seduction	01/11/19 08:58 PM