DrugDoer9000 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I am a Feminist man - ask me your feminist questions As a man I’m much more bullet resistant than women	/r/MensRights	30/05/23 04:13 PM
22	How interested are men in long term relationships compared to hookups? Disregarding the risks of legal marriage, of course men want LTR, it requires the typical man a ton of effort to secure even one relationship. A top 10% man however will have easy access to a sea of attractive women, obviously he’s going to be less likely to settle with any single particular woman. If a woman is looking for a committed man, both partners need to be honest with themselves and each other about what they bring to the table.	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 11:19 PM
5	Why is @JustPearlyThings now at the forefront of the Manosphere on YouTube? Good on her Frankly no movement is going to get far without female figures	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 08:58 PM
4	Loneliness is just not it Kind of feels bad to go out with the bros when they all have SO’s and you’re just sitting around thinking where did it all go wrong I’m sure people isolate for different reasons, but not much is worse than feeling alone among close friends	/r/MensRights	22/02/23 06:06 PM
4	Helping you understand positive masculinity and toxic masculinity why help someone? Think carefully before allocating your own limited resources only make human interactions if there’s a strong likelihood of reward understand your own emotions, but control yourself and never reveal them unintentionally you can’t fight every battle, pick very wisely the ones you do ^ this is how humans actually live. In other words, don’t be a fucking simp	/r/MensRights	17/02/23 05:52 PM
0	Rise of weak men That’s a wide range of categories with very little to do with each other aside from being ideologies for men	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 09:11 PM
-1	Young women are out-earning young men in several U.S. cities Even if we ignore the possibility of affirmative action and virtue signaling as a business: Why would you not prefer to hire young women in the modern white collar workplace? You expect to receive the same work output and all the soft-advantages of having young women around. There’s very little talk of what advantages men bring to the table. Roles like combat, construction, waste disposal, mining, etc are overwhelmingly dominated by men. Even if we try to control for physicality and expendabilit…	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 08:56 PM
9	Why is it whenever a man is single(even if by choice) he’s seen as a freak, a weirdo, someone who needs fixing, but whenever a woman is single, in particular by choice, she’s seen as brave, courageous and stunning? Because it is easy for women to enter a relationship, but hard for a man. This is not to say anything about the quality of a relationship, many are bad or toxic, but if a woman wants a partner it is not that hard to find one. In both cases, society values the more difficult to attain path.	/r/MensRights	30/01/23 10:54 PM
9	As men, we must know our worth and avoid sacrificing ourselves for a society that is increasingly hostile and antagonistic towards men Ask yourself, if you fight and possibly die, or worse, for your country: what do you gain?	/r/MensRights	23/01/23 09:01 PM
10	Mental health issues for men are far more isolating than for women. Men have a reason they don’t talk about it. One of the main problems with mental health is a lack of agreement on what mental health is, I've seen perfectly normal behaviors labeled as one thing or another. Psychology and stuff is great but it's weaponized too often	/r/MensRights	23/01/23 08:58 PM
1	Is the Threat of Young Male Syndrome Obsolete? “Do we have anything to learn from history?” “Nah we’re special” -every society ever	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 06:07 PM
2	Question from a woman to MRAs Be a critical thinker and encourage others to do the same. IME directly challenging feminism or any belief system rarely ends well, but people are very good at changing their own minds	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 08:38 PM
2	The RP/Manosphere is making the Beta Bucks an endangered species and many women are going to be screwed. It’s been a while since I’ve been in school, but even then over 90% of my school’s teachers were women. Academia as whole is skewing feminine which is the last thing angsty teenage boys want to associate with. The system is gender discriminatory, just not in the way popular media would portray it. That being said, most degrees are liabilities and unreliable predictors of earning potential. It’s mind blowing to me that the woke movement is pushing for student loan forgiveness when US college grad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/22 10:01 PM
1	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? None lmao, you could just dump the deadweight and hire a maid for less	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/22 09:37 PM
6	What it means to be a man!! If men and women were as equal as modern feminists assert, then we would expect to see approximately half of historic cultures be matriarchies or gender egalitarian, but we simply don’t. Men as an aggregate are more likely to take risks and make sacrifices than women. Historically, the risk and sacrifice was balanced with reward and status. These days, that equation has changed	/r/MensRights	03/08/22 07:05 AM
5	Is it possible that a lot of people on this sub have an exaggerated perception of feminism? There is no male privilege in the US, or afaik any progressive western nation For me it’s not about “man hating”, I’m just fucking tired of hearing how women are oppressed, how we need more women in XYZ-good-career, we need to protect women, patriarchy, believe all women, gender pay gap, stop body shaming, all women are beautiful, etc. It’s utter bogus, and entirely hypocritical There’s a complete discrepancy between feminist messaging and what men experience in their own lives. Men fill the wor…	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 06:26 PM
21	What are your thoughts on feminism subreddits? They’re echo chambers If you raise an opinion in good faith that goes against the narrative, people will shit on you	/r/MensRights	15/07/22 06:29 PM
6	Genuine questions Nothing is considered heinous by mass media unless women or children are victimized, and that’s just a reflection of society’s lack of empathy for men in general Take the Ukraine war for example. Obviously the western powers would like to raise support for Ukraine, so the media shovels down our throat how women and children are being displaced, becoming refugees, getting captured/rape etc. Now don’t get me wrong, these are all horrible things, but what you’ll see a lot less coverage of is the Uk…	/r/MensRights	09/07/22 03:50 AM
3	Majority of American Men Fear Being Deemed “Creepy” According to New Research Being labeled a creep is social death in any circle God forbid you become slandered at your place or work as a creep, destroying all you’ve worked for all because you set off some arbitrary unknown trigger in a busy-body. Any sign of non-neurotypicalism = instant creep label. It’s easier and safer to never engage in unnecessary conversation	/r/MensRights	18/06/22 10:07 PM
1	What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community? A dialogue can be opened, but at the end of the day if the dating market is a free market, the supply vs demand of the genders is unequal. To even the odds would mean stronger social enforcement of marriage, less polygamy, less serial monogamy. Basically the opposite of where the last few decades of progressive thought have gotten us.	/r/MensRights	13/06/22 10:24 PM
1	Who has women in their lives that understand the need for MRM? Also doesn’t help that IME online you’ll find a disproportionate amount of extremist comments from the ‘manosphere’ because it’s a topic most don’t dare to talk about; People with low inhibition or strong beliefs are more likely to participate in forums, the “silent majority” phenomenon is strong.	/r/MensRights	09/06/22 09:06 PM
1	Has Jordan Peterson gone off the rails in some of his gender based political stances? Nah, I’ve listened to some of these talks. They go against the grain these days and spur a lot of controversy, but I think it’s plain enough to say our modern social constructs and offer little in the way of happiness compared to eons of biological programming. When you’re young, you’re more open to believing you can be some sort of new paradigm of human, one that’s focused on the solo life, career, hobbies, social media, material goods, in general finding meaning in sources other than family/co…	/r/MensRights	31/05/22 09:22 PM
0	How To Stop School Shootings By Troubled Young Males Educating them otherwise would be poorly preparing them for life Men need role models who demonstrate that life sucks ass a lot of the time.	/r/MensRights	29/05/22 02:24 AM
1	Roe v Wade being overturned would impact men really badly too “Go be a cuck” Lmao	/r/MensRights	14/05/22 12:39 AM
1	Bodily Automony: Women should have the Right to Choose, Men should be free of the draft. No, I actually want men’s rights, that’s why I’m not going to bother with an un-winnable fight. How would men’s lives be any different if Congress banned male conscription tomorrow? You can’t win if you can’t measure your success, and there’s no point measuring after WW3.	/r/MensRights	06/05/22 05:38 AM
1	Bodily Automony: Women should have the Right to Choose, Men should be free of the draft. You’re overthinking it, I’m saying be realistic. How many civilizations in all of history have had a primarily female warrior caste? We haven’t cracked the code, ape brain is strong. Chasing equality while willfully ignoring nature is like running around with a blindfold on. You might not see the tree you’re about to hit, but it’s there.	/r/MensRights	06/05/22 04:57 AM
1	Bodily Automony: Women should have the Right to Choose, Men should be free of the draft. Why would I wish that? Even if men were declared free from the draft at face value, what do you think would happen the moment Invaders set foot in your country?	/r/MensRights	05/05/22 07:46 PM
6	Bodily Automony: Women should have the Right to Choose, Men should be free of the draft. Men will never be “free of the draft” Until we ascend beyond our biology, if a draft is required, we all know what’s going to happen	/r/MensRights	05/05/22 09:44 AM
2	Do societies in which both procreational/traditional and recreational sex cultures exist foster sexual inequality? As the Economist claimed, the Pill is the most influential invention of the 20th century. It completely shifts the power in the gender dynamic to a point where women have the dominant say in the direction of society and we already see the results in progressive nations where the dating game has become a free market; Promiscuity, serial monogamy, and even polygamy come with next to 0 social consequences. As with any free market, you’ll also find all of the standard “pull yourself up by the bootst…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 10:23 PM
3	The 80/20 doesn’t mean only 20% of men are having sex and relationships…it means 20% are having the interactions and relationships THEY WANT with women 80/20 is not a recent fad, the number comes the Pareto Principle that describes the phenomenon where 80% of the outcomes are from 20% of the inputs. This is almost universally observed in ungoverned systems although the actual rates differ A small % of employees are responsible for most productivity A small % of manufacturing flaws are responsible for most failures A small % of people control the majority of wealth A small % of IPs capture the majority of the audience A small % of stars contain …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 09:35 PM
2	Fds is now gone, thoughts? That sub was delusional The cross section between the mythical HVM and someone naive enough to not see straight through their intentions is tiny	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 07:53 PM
5	Do you have any backup plans if your dating life collapses? Make money, afford copes	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 07:36 PM
5	Men are not oppressed by women, they are oppressed by institutions. No matter the system, chances are you will end up a worker ant. The only way to escape your dire toil is to achieve value. A person with value won’t be thrown away as drafted cannon fodder, or be compelled to take on the most dangerous jobs, have their bodies destroyed with physical labor, or resort to crime and theft, or be left out homeless and hungry. Women are born with intrinsic value due to human biology, so they escape the most undesirable positions for free except in very harsh resourcel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 10:12 PM
6	How do you see you male friens/family members dating life? Most of my male friends remain maidenless. Of the ones that have a partner, they’re mostly LTRs from college days. Some remain hopeful, most have made peace with the single life I’m nearing my 30s, most of my friends are in tech, finance, and medicine	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 10:01 PM
13	A different perspective on why a woman's n-count absolutely matters and why a man should never commit to a high n count woman. Sex talk aside, historically marriage was a public oath that was strongly enforced by society. Whatever problems a couple faced, chances are they were minor compared to the problems that arise from a divorce so you’re truly bound for life. These days if you’re in a modern western progressive nation and your partner wants to leave you, a marriage is just a piece of paper that comes with financial risks to the wealthier individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 11:14 PM
3	Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hot Hypothyroidism makes your metabolism slower so you should eat less. It’s harder but what’s the alternative, be fat?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 10:53 PM
0	Is obesity a primary factor in dissatisfaction with the “economics” of dating? All that means is your friend’s clothing brand considers them to be large relative to where they’ve decided to tune their sizing distribution. It makes no sense to draw conclusions about a culture’s BMI affinity from their sizing charts. US and western Europe have higher rates of anorexia and bulimia than Asia anyway, despite also having higher rates of obesity. By your suggestion, anorexia rates would go down as obesity rates go up which is the opposite of what we see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 09:29 PM
2	Is obesity a primary factor in dissatisfaction with the “economics” of dating? I don’t see why it matters what race your friends are, asian clothes sizing is smaller because on average their people are several inches shorter and their obesity rates are a lot lower. Manufacturers adjust their sizing to be bigger or smaller based on gender and target culture because most people don’t want to be reminded they’re like 5 inches shorter than a comparable Northern european person. Attraction is based heavily in the projected likelihood of producing successful offspring. If cultur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 07:31 PM
4	Is obesity a primary factor in dissatisfaction with the “economics” of dating? There’s a range of healthy BMI’s to be at, this is biology not an opinion. Asian people, especially southeastern, are just smaller and so are their clothes, they’re not anorexic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 06:54 PM
1	Women don't age like Milk It’s pretty troll to raise kids beyond mid-30s, and human biology is raising red flags because ultimately you want successful offspring. So there’s certainly a stigma against older women even if they stay attractive. Even putting aside pregnancy risks and lowered fertility, imagine becoming pregnant at 35, newborn at 36. By the time that kid graduates college, the parent will already be 58 years old. You’re probably going to have health issues and maybe even die before your children are financia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 06:30 PM
2	Do more prudish/absitent societies have more "satisfying" sex lives? Prudishness comes as a necessity in these societies, marriage historically has been a tool for individual and societal stability. Sleeping around damages your reputation as a potential bride, and being un-wed is an economic tragedy for the entire family. Promiscuity is a luxury of wealthy modern nations where there are other systems than the family unit in place to maintain productivity and order.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 06:23 PM
1	If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle? You can’t get good data outside of OLD But anecdotally it’s terrible IRL, just look at rates from PUAs and other similar groups. And these are generally men who invest heavily into their game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 06:09 PM
1	If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle? Men are already encouraged to settle The 80/20 rule can only exist because the 80 make themselves available to the 20 If anything, the opposite would happen	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 06:04 PM
2	What are some examples of female privilege? More women in higher education Fewer women in dangerous jobs Extremely unlikely to be drafted for front lines More socially acceptable to discuss female issues Born with an inherent amount of value owed purely to being a female More likely to be generally attractive and all the benefits that come with that Welcomed in almost any establishment by default (bars, daycare, libraries, parks, clubs, etc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 05:56 PM
1	Yes, many women overwhelmingly do not like it when "beta males" attempt to succeed, improve themselves, or learn to stand up for themselves . Shifting the social hierarchy makes people uncomfortable, all change makes people uncomfortable	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 05:51 PM
2	How true is to say that rich guys gets more dates and more relationships opportunities than the average male? I’m not rich but I have pretty good means Nobody cares, the only thing it does is increase the number of social circles you have the potential of being in	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 05:25 PM
2	Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hot It’s impossible for someone to not be able to get thin. Calories in, calories out. There’s no exception unless you’re a god amongst the living	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 05:17 PM