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Sounds about right. I've probably hit 100 in my lifetime. And after 100...I still do my own thing. lol I guess it works. idk If I think back to the first 10, its: Don't be so handsy Don't get jealous over petty stuff Take 'no' for an answer (as in, NO I don't want to see Terminator 3)
/r/seduction21/02/21 09:55 PM
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You have to take it one step at a time. Just lean into each other as the movie progresses; then put your hand on her arm/leg/hand after a few minutes. Then hold hands (chicks dig holding hands for some reason). You just have to feel it out; how things are going. Half way through the movie, tell her you wanna lay down, and have her join you (big spoon, little spoon). And just slowly progress from there (try not to hump her with your boner either; but don't try to hide it.)
/r/seduction16/02/21 01:20 AM
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That's pretty much it. Weekdays is nothing, and then let loose on weekends. I've known girls that will play Softball during the week (in the summer), but that's about it.
/r/seduction15/02/21 11:53 PM
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Just say, "Thanks for the gift. I'm super terrible at gifting, so I just avoid it all together." And act embarrassed that you suck at gifting.
/r/seduction06/02/21 04:23 PM
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I feel ya. I hate the cold approach method in most places. Especially grocery stores! F that! But....unless you're in some groups or clubs...its about the only way. You can try online dating. Its good for people like us. Its annoying though. Lots of wasted time. But it can be successful.
/r/seduction06/02/21 03:15 AM
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Ahhh. You said you had success with another girl there....and it all started with in-person. I know how nerving it is around a 10/10. Just gotta TRY to not put her on a pedestal.Find a flaw with her (if there is one!) and say to yourself, "See...she has a mole on her neck. She ain't all that!". lol
/r/seduction06/02/21 03:09 AM
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Always always always use in-person as your FIRST choice of communication, if possible. Social media is a lazy and impersonal way to communicate. You'll get bonus points for choosing in-person.
/r/seduction06/02/21 02:55 AM
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Don't try to be someone you're not. For me, I'm a naturally humorous person...so it just comes natural. And don't think that being funny all the time is a blessing....its not. I've been told so many times that' I'm never serious, etc. Women like a serious gung-ho type person, as you describe yourself. You just have to match with women that like that personality!
/r/seduction06/02/21 02:48 AM
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Let's put it this way: Ask ANY woman to choose between a 6'6" guy or a 5'6" guy. 9/10 times they'll choose the tall guy. Yes, too tall can be a hinderance, but its not the end of the world. You're fine.
/r/seduction05/02/21 10:42 PM
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Don't be a "door mat"; but don't be an asshole either. I'm the "nice guy"...but I stand my ground. Don't go around agreeing with everyone just because its the path of least resistance. You can agree on things; but throw in your own "I disagree" now and then.
/r/seduction10/07/20 08:56 AM
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Start with the "paid to be nice" women. Those are the waitresses, bartenders, checkout cashier, etc. Just talk general. Nothing extravagant. "Hi how are you today". Then you can build from there. I was similar to you....and that was a good start for me.
/r/seduction10/07/20 08:50 AM
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Its the opposite of dull and boring. If all you do is answer her questions with "yes/no/sure"....you're boring. Mix it up. For every 3 or 4 "yes/no" answers....throw in a curveball. Don't be 100% sarcastic. Don't be 100% boring.
/r/seduction10/07/20 08:46 AM
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I find that girls who do that stuff (TELL you they "made a pass" at another guy) come in two flavors. One: She's testing your reaction, to see if you get jealous or pissy or whatever. She wants to know where you stand. Two: You've officially become "the guy friend". You're the guy who gets to hear about her exploits. You're an advice columnist to her.
/r/seduction10/07/20 08:41 AM
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This is the exact definition of "Friend Zone". With the tables turned, so to speak.
/r/seduction30/11/19 01:04 PM
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Truth.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:49 PM
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Number. Then transition to social media.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:45 PM
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You act like a silent movie actor. Use silly gestures and/or facial expressions to distract her. See if she smiles, or looks at you in disgust.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:41 PM
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She apparently liked the approach you used, so it worked. Take it as a win. Who knows; maybe a boss/alpha/manly approach would have scared her off.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:38 PM
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Sounds like you're being the friend zone guy. No problem in that; its a good start. Work on transitioning (or some like the term escalate.) You can't be the nice guy/friend zone guy for the entire conversation.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:34 PM
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Or there might not even be a hierarchy in the group. Maybe they're all equals. That would be your best hope.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:25 PM
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Just have to start talking to the "higher ups" and see what kind of vibe you get from them. They might look at you like, "Ughh....he fucked Becky, the low girl in the group. No thanks." OR...you might get the "Well, he didn't kill Becky, and she was smiling BIG the next day, so I'll give it a shot". Just gotta test the waters.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:24 PM
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Depends what you're meaning. Are you wanting to walk into a bar, spot a girl, and get a BJ in the bathroom that night? Find the drunkest one, establish some kind of rapport, and then lay on the sexual remarks (to make it clear that's your intent). Then innuendo your way to the "bj in the bathroom?" Good luck.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:18 PM
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It depends on the hierarchy of the group. Were they all close friends?? Was the girl you took home the AFOG (Alpha female of the group)? You can get the "lower-ranking" girls in the group, but maybe not higher.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:11 PM
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Right when you get the number. It's funny. Say..."Heyy how have you been?
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:22 AM
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In a situation like this (you've been hanging out a while....as the "friend") you have to do "baby steps". Sequential steps almost. You can't (usually) go from sitting across a desk, to planting a tongue in her throat in one step. Unless you just know the vibe. But since you're asking for advice, I doubt you know the vibe. Start with a simple touch. Hand on the shoulder. Or, "Give me your hands...I'm an amateur palm reader". Something like that.
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:58 PM
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Seems to be how 90% of my "I'm going to approach... in a minute" goes.
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:52 PM
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Oxytocin. Yeah, its a killer. I know the feeling. You just have to realize....she's living her life, and not bound to your needs/wants/immediate desires. Plus...desperation (and this type of behavior IS desperation) is a total buzzkill for anyone.
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:48 PM
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Mistake #1: Don't ever tell a (new) girl you like her! Show her, but don't tell her straight up. The chase is over for her once you "fess up".
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:42 PM
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You'll never know. Until you find out. Strange creatures they are. But...if she's playing/toying with you.....there's SOME kind of interest there. What that interest is....could be 10 different things.
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:39 PM
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"I'm leaving in 3 days for a long time. We should hang out before I go." Be direct. No stuttering..."Well, ummm uhh I was wondering if......if you have the time uhh, ....would it be possible uhh.."
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:35 PM
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Tunnel vision. Happens a lot. Just be aware of it next time.
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:59 PM
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Yep. I've always said: "Women marry Ken and fuck G.I. Joe."
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:52 PM
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He states he has NO CONFIDENCE/FREEZES/ETC. Start with the ones giving signals. Then work towards the unknown.
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:46 PM
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Whatever you choose; buy from a reputable store! Macys etc. Not amazon. Aqua di Gio is a good one, yes. I've gotten compliments on Kenneth Cole Black. I think Walmart now sells Cool Water. Yeah, its lame, but it works! Givenchy Pi is a super deep nighttime one. Best for dates. As with any cologne; USE SPARINGLY!! You don't need the scent to enter the room 20 mins before you do. 1 spray. Maybe 3. NOT 8!!
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:19 PM
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Enjoy it while it lasts. And get some drama repellant. You'll need it!
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:15 PM
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Don't
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:11 PM
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I actually did just that! I spammed about 30 or so women and got 2 replies. I made no mention of their profile. I just said something like "blah blah online dating sux let's just meet up and talk". I got lots of "Read/deleted; unread/deleted". But hey...if I gotta spam 30 to get 2...its working I guess.
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:03 PM
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You describe me exactly. I'm now 46, and yes...I've gained wisdom. Here's the low-down on almost every woman: They will choose YOU. No, they're not going to come up and ask you out. They give SIGNALS. In its most obvious form... think about the "hot" sports celebs (baseball players, etc). Women get dolled up and just clamor all over them! They trip over one another to get near the guy and "give off their signals". This is the most natural way to do it. No, you can't convince a girl you like (who…
/r/seduction10/11/19 12:58 PM
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Who knows. I think you answered your own question. Just fade away. Text once a week. Then once every 2 weeks. Etc. I know it sucks to have someone you're interested in show interest...and then they go cold. Life goes on.
/r/seduction16/09/19 08:54 PM
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I had this happen once! Met a girl (online); we met up for a meet. After the meet she texted saying "I'm don't think we're a good match". Usually that's the kiss of death. I'd send an occasional text once a week saying whatever... Long story short: We became regular fuck-buddies for almost a year.
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:27 PM
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Take a break. Clear your head. Just go do a hobby for a month or two. Putting pressure on yourself just adds fuel to the fire.
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:05 PM
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Hi?
/r/seduction15/09/19 06:58 PM
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Wait...you're a 22+ yr old who has a curfew??
/r/seduction15/09/19 06:53 PM
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If you got two numbers from eight approaches, you're doing fine! Just keep doing what you're doing. It would take most people 80 approaches to get 2 numbers.
/r/seduction13/09/19 06:32 PM
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In the hierarchy of life, you can ignore down, but not up. If you're a 6...you can't ignore an 8 and have it work. You can ignore a 5 and it might work. Also...its not about outright IGNORING them. Its more like NOT making them the priority. Don't go out of your way to be near them. Don't look needy.
/r/seduction10/09/19 11:18 AM
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First: Know your surroundings. What type of bar is it? Sorority girls and jocks? Fat medical girls? Stick to your "league"...if you're a dorky Engineering student, don't be hitting on the hot sorority sisters (cuz Chad the jock will hit on YOU). Testosterone is rampant in those places. Just start talking. "Hey, how's your night going?" Then watch for interest. If no interest...move along.
/r/seduction10/09/19 11:07 AM
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Dude, just use your HEIGHT. That alone gets your foot in the door! A tall guy is the equivalent to big tits....even if she isn't highly attractive....big tits!
/r/seduction10/09/19 10:57 AM
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Waiting on the FR. AA sux! If i could beat AA, the rest after that is easy easy easy (for me).
/r/seduction10/09/19 10:47 AM
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