DrunkCupid Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Setting healthy boundaries: Goals		DrunkCupid	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 10:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Do men today have to just learn to accept not being appreciated to have a family? If you feel like you can't share, that is where the problem lies. Talk to a therapist. 90% of the time it is women being silenced or violenced in relationships, so ... Just be better	/r/MensRights	07/07/22 04:58 PM
3	Every man on Reddit Makes me want to express some similar energy and watch reaction: Me: husky elderly man voice from behind creeper "Hey lil man, let me tell ya somethin Queer, (right here, where do I put it? This ear? 👼😎 "Wait Darlin where you going? surprised Pikachu face. Gangstas wanna gang but can't take it the same!"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/22 07:28 AM
1	Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a man Yup! Just proves my point, men and women want different things. Whining about that being unfair or difficult for only men or women is hipocritical	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 02:47 AM
1	Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a man Yep, boys and women want different things out of long term trusting familial or relationship partners, hilarious! 🃏😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 02:00 AM
0	How can people separate love from sex in regard to casual encounters or LTRs? U/decoy88 Sexual things aren't inherent ly intimate or personal, get over it So if a big old crusty man lurches up to you unexpectedly from behind, to give you a "friendly Pat" that expertly finds and squeezes sharp fingers inside your rectum would be "normal acknowledgment"... and when you get a chance to juicily disengage and look him in his Winky herpes-crusted eyes, this parking lot stranger explains angrily "I was just checking to make sure you were ok, I was wondering if you needed help li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 01:59 AM
4	Are shit tests effective in generating attraction? ... thought that everything I was doing was trying to illicit a reaction from them or test their manhood. They do sound like insecure boys.. "no amount of reality can change their feelings or Behaviors" - V. B.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 01:08 AM
5	How can people separate love from sex in regard to casual encounters or LTRs? If big Billy puts his first in you, would you consider that equally not intimate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 12:53 AM
2	How can people separate love from sex in regard to casual encounters or LTRs? I disagree, mens chosen impulses and concerning brain chemistry make it impossible for them to consider sexual attraction without something coming after. They need to be comfortably sexually attracted, then after that is established they want to follow with a respectful relationship sex ... And seem to take umbrage when it doesn't immediately follow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 12:46 AM
-14	Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a man Just have a woman pretend to be a guy on tinder. The women would be delighted to finally have so many offers of genuine connection, interest, and thoughtful potential life partners that they can spend time and bond with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 12:18 AM
19	Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discuss Then incels go about saying we’re loved for just existing 😂 Love ≠ Objectified I lost 1/3 of my weight involuntarily, and still struggle to keep food down to the point I am having other health issues like vitamin deficiencies (not anorexia/bulemia, docs are caring for me). I get compliments constantly against my wishes, and when I finally told my ex "I may look good to you, but I feel like shit" he balked and said "Who cares? Just take a compliment!" They really don't care how healthy or happy w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 10:33 PM
13	Why are men often so short sighted they sabotage themselves? Similarly, We are wary of being fuckzoned. "Not all men are animals and lying about what they want" but it seems like most. Our fair and gentle vetting strategies, like waiting until we actually feel comfortable and see over the that they are consistent and accountable, is enough to slip their facade / mask. It is a gross reality we must be aware of and prepared for.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 07:18 AM
4	How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction? The vast majority of the time men are the ones refusing to be honest or end a relationship they dislike because they are waiting for a fresh replacement, while unhappy women are historically trapped financially or guilt/sunken cost fallacy-wise. Women are taught to be "nice" and "make things work" while men would recoil, get belligerent and run at those expectations Case in point: men FLEE a relationship 8x more often than women when their partner gets diagnosed with cancer. Women don't have sec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 10:05 PM
0	How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction? But women on the other hand, in general I smell a gross generalisation. How many peer reviewed studies have you read regarding this specific instance? Are you also a woman who has talked to several hundred other women about this? How does it change with different age and cultural groups? If not, gtfo with "Yeah but women are just always wanting.." BS. Projection	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 09:56 PM
4	How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction? Where did you read that? Pre-war propaganda from a 3rd world country? Yikes! I'm glad we are more aware now!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 09:39 PM
33	Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people". A caveat most women dont want to say incase in triggers dudes, but damn I say it everytime because its.important and im tired of sweeping it under the rug: Not all men. But A LOT of them. Like A LOT. (A minority can still be a lot. Even only 5% is still 100s of millions.) Look at the prison population. It's not ALL men. But over 90%! That is close enough for most. And if you do find a rare "good man" he will prove to you he is good by not getting offended when you protect yourself. In fact, Good…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 09:15 PM
59	Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people". Words are FREE and meaningless, that is why we VET ACTIONS and make sure people are held accountable for them. If it's "Not all men" then where do we get this fear from? Why are men primarily afraid of MEN too? I've asked men after they say this and claim they aren't sexist: "When you think of getting in a fight at a bar, having an escalated road rage incident, someone following your daughter home, an armed burglar coming to your house, a skeevy dictator, etc what do you imagine? That's right, A…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 09:08 PM
129	Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24 fuckzoned: "I swear baby, you are special. This is more than casual... Cue to after sex I guess I didn't know what I wanted, but I'm going to keep playing, I changed my mind" I have heard people call it a type of manipulative rape, where they knowingly lie to you to obtain their sexual desires. "I want to be monogamous for you, I'm clean, I'm not married" etc. Then when the truth inevitably comes forth, they prance off with no consequences. This is why we VET and wait and get in deep with their …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 09:14 AM
1	Women's inflated self-rating today is mostly due to men's desperation on OLD Put more + points in Charisma how do you think fugly people get horizontal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 05:24 AM
2	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also It's called renting a sex worker, all genders can have a price "pay to play" but there are always rules and time limits (when consentually and safe)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 05:07 AM
3	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also So jealousy and concerns about infidelity are checks notes abnormal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 05:05 AM
2	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also You sound bitter and carried. Have any sources? Because I would assume it's quite the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 05:01 AM
384	FDS Speaks: A Guide for Men On How To Save Your Relationship From The Brink Maybe if he loosened up and offered a 3-some with his cute guy friend she was asking about, it would make her happy. /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/22 03:35 AM
47	Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over you I've had more than one ex that would get a boner when I cried. The fact that they "can't help it" made it more sinister	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 11:44 PM
31	What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you? After 2 years he changed that suddenly? That is crazy. Why do they get so angry and disrespectful when they're cheating or caught? It's like Jekyll and Hyde I'm so glad you got out of that situation!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/22 05:07 AM
123	Misogyny at its finest. I chortled. Women don't know shit, get out the way... SHUT UP I GOT THIS! IT JUST TAKES MORE SmAsHiNg I have similar stories of gently remedying situations and new puzzles like moving furniture, finding and fixing leaks, un or re -tying crucial knots, jump starting batteries, resolving contracts, etc without a panic or fuss. "Not All Men" that can do that yet 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 10:53 PM
88	Since y’all liked part one here’s more of her wisdom for the girlies who don’t wanna download TikTok 😫 I love her, and two of her topics in this video here stuck with me. 1 Nonchalance Aggressively Nonchalant "Why are you acting like this?" Or refuse to muster a stance "I Don't have an opinion" "Meh, I don't know" Refuses to answer and stares intently at the wall hoping you will forget his blatant fuck ups and he can get away with not being held accountable instead of answering and addressing the situation like an adult "This isn't the right time, I don't know when it will be ever" or "Can't thin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 01:17 PM
48	Stick to your boundaries If his deal-breaker was sex before he even had it! You can guess it would be super problematic if he got it, ever! Bullet Dodged!! 🚀🧑‍🚀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 11:24 AM
8	MIDDLES: Middle Aged, Middle Income, Middle Management Studies show that after age 35, the quality of sperm decreases. Also the child is more likely to have health issues. No one wants that dusty aged sperm. No thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 03:06 AM
62	A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior. What kind of scumbag parent refuses to even admit they have children?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 02:49 AM
10	So uh… What do women want again? THANK YOU. Are (some) men really so goddamn dense that they don’t KNOW this??? Just the boys 😂	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/22 07:42 PM
1	Chris Pratt continues to be the worst "She just fell out of my hands" No, dude, you DROPPED her I can't believe I overheard this argument about a small child (everyone was ok)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 08:57 AM
1	This is what men have in mind when they suggest coffee dates Very relevant username ✌️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 05:23 PM
4	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020 When we learn to recognise and control our anger (injustices, personal and widespread are my mind-churning downfalls), and not act on it anymore I feel like we've successfully maintained our mental health and proven we are over the hump. Mature adults. There are bad days too, but I try to keep the phrase in mind I saw the meme last week: "When you throw out the trash you don't go back outside to check on it and see how it's doing. Leave the trash behind." Edit: a word	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/20 03:59 AM
1	GIRL GAME PT. 1: Males, Monogamy, and Mate-Guarding. How do I fit this on a needlepoint? I love it The problem is simply that most men just aren’t manly enough to handle a long-term NSA polygamous relationship where they have to constantly provide value and an intense, genuine, and proper emotional connection, which ironically just further incentivizes a woman’s polygamous drives. A shame really.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 10:48 AM
2	GIRL GAME PT. 1: Males, Monogamy, and Mate-Guarding. Value or devalue your time, efforts, or boundaries. That is your choice and responsibility.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 10:32 AM
1	Does beta bucks really exist? nah, there are plenty of options to improve and expand mutually depending on ones' sex drives and boumdaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 05:30 PM
2	Does beta bucks really exist? Why are guys so obsessed with sex and money? After a few months or years it really comes down to compatibility and making each other better people. Attraction and finances come and go but the real winner is someone who puts in effort interpersonally and stays through the difficult times with another person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 01:20 PM
2	Does beta bucks really exist? I like to believe that relationships aren't as fatalistic. I may be a filthy feminist, but I like to think that ideally a long-term commitment would include compromise on all fronts and at the base of all things understanding equality, connection and love. I do not feel like the ideal red pill relationship would provide as much happiness or disappointment as the role models we see in the United States Congress. I do not envy the men or women involved in unequal relationships. "Luckily the world …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 01:17 PM
2	Does beta bucks really exist? Not true. I don't mean to be inflammatory, contrary pr overly optimistic, but I sense your comment seems rather but her tea. (thanks, autocorrect) The truth is that in most developed countries the wage Gap is quickly closing and the labor Gap is as well. Men are finally stepping up and putting more hours in four households than before, and women are more educated than men. http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/2016-census-income-couples-1.4287483	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 01:05 PM
2	Being a Chad isn't really that impressive Lust vs Love the prioriry dictates the chase	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 12:58 PM
5	In your personal experience, what are some traits of promiscuous/high n-count individuals? Evasive, charismatic, work on their clothing/hair appearances, big social group, companionable, and again: Vaague but not defensive when directly wuestioned about things. Also HPV. This is my personal experience for the high partner count men I've been with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/15 04:18 AM
-18	My OKCupid experiment is over. FINALLY was deleted/banned. x-post /r/OKCupid Uh, no that's not proof. That's just evidence that someone conversed with you. I don't believe that you had sex with any of these women, aside from the fact that I hope you didn't, as it quite possibly damaged them and yourself emotionally and socially.	/r/seduction	08/01/14 09:45 AM
2	My OKCupid experiment is over. FINALLY was deleted/banned. x-post /r/OKCupid It's too bad this is completely false, I got excited over the numbers thinking there was something there. Oh well.	/r/seduction	07/01/14 01:46 PM
2	This is not funny. You're right, cheating is never funny. :(	/r/MensRights	22/12/13 01:33 PM