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| 30 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating market | CMV | Dry-Bee5801 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:56 AM |
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| 2 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?Where few women answering this thread . I have been talking about this with alot of feminist women here aswel because iknew very well that there are so many modern feminist women who live a dating life where they never take the initiative or pay. Obviously anybody with a brains know that this is literally the definition of a gender roles . Another perfect example how it's so hard for the ego of the woke feminist women to be honest about the dating market . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:53 PM |
| 4 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?That's fine but you can not pick and choose what gender roles you have problems with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:48 PM |
| 3 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?You think paying for stuff was the reason your relationships didn't work ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.I get your point and it was very well made but I afto say I think everything is related . A gender role that is left unchecked will then effect other gender roles. Slutshaming and the fact that a man need to pay,plan and be brave to take the initiative I actually think is related in a way. Not fully but I think it's kinda related . That's actually something I think young feminist from newer generation will realize. Also it's just annoying to see a women on the gram acting like she is a new speci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.No if you believe in feminism and equality every women should act like this . Ofc you guys should plan stuff and pay..Wtf are you modern women on. You can not pick and choose what gender roles you like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.It's so ridiculous to me that the modern women who speaks on and on about feminism still has absolutely no problem with gender roles they like.. Ofc you should pay for you own meals ofc you should plan as well. You guys can't pick and choose what gender roles you like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The Importance of Confidence: Why Men Should Focus on Self-Improvement before dating.Hmmm well its al relevant, are you okey? You look very black . I could have been in Syria having my head chopped off . That would suck, not having a head . Mostly because you look so ugly only as head , hard to look fierce when you head is chopped of. I dont really look that fierce right now tho . I'm thinking about doing an eye lift , maybe that will solve al my problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:23 PM |
| 3 | The Importance of Confidence: Why Men Should Focus on Self-Improvement before dating.Confidence is strange tho. I used to have alot of it . Now I cant go to the gym without looking out the corner of my eye like some little bitch . I geuss it is certain stuff that happened in life and showing drugs in my stupid fat face for 10 years certainly dident help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:09 PM |
| 4 | The Importance of Confidence: Why Men Should Focus on Self-Improvement before dating.You going to pop you pussY or naaa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:34 PM |
| 4 | When was the last time you saw a strange man approaching a random woman in the streets, or public places?Yep I get it ofc super creepy . I have gays hit on me , it's awful knowing something stronger want to fuck you .. Ma point was to it's a bit ironic because that is very toxic masculinity behavior right but those guys are not incel maybe perhaps because there toxic masculinity trait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:29 PM |
| 6 | When was the last time you saw a strange man approaching a random woman in the streets, or public places?Yeah as a man I afto agree. It certainly seems like certain culture of men have that in them to approach aggressively what is ironic is that those men never become incels .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?That is definitely the case but it's also a spychology effect of wanting something and getting desperate for it. Like trying to get sleep or dieting . If you have to do something to change a certain aspect of your life you will get a different way of relationship of that thing. Example I never used to think about food, know I'm trying to diet and I have dreams about ice cream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?Yeah it almost like nature is saying you dont are good enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?Yeah ofc that's the reason women can just go on an app and start getting dates . A man need to do something to change his life , that creates a diffrent kind of ego. I never used to have problems with my weight and I didn't give shit about food , know I want to loose weight and I think about ice cream every day. Its different factors but that is ofc the biggest factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketHaha I was speaking about myself in third person . Chicken sounds cool but think I will start with a cat lol, but something not to think so much would definitely be nice . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketHaha I wished I hade chores instead of my litle bitch boy whining . Maybe that's the trick , I should get a chicken or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Men with few options usually screw up the few options they hadDosent it feel better to know that you not are alone ? Like autistic or not there are so many men like you in today's society. Honestly in a big western city is probably 35% men like have this situation for years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketThe difference in the ego tho is that the modern women in western society has put a moral value on here sexual preference right? Because often time they see themselves as moral superior and social aware. For some gymbro it's much easier to admit his own sexuality because he dosent see himself as some super woke modern person ? Do you get my point ? Its kinda hard for a modern white woke women to admit to ethnic preferences towards black men because that's not really something a super evolved soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketNope the only thing I want from you guys is start to accepting the reality . For example I saw a post on a women subreddit that talked about sexless men . One post that got most upvotes said " those men are only sexless because of toxic masculinity " . That is what find so interesting.. Because obviously that is not true right? It exist a ton of horrible criminal men who has no problems. Men get sexless because lack of confidence, status and looks. Like what is it that make so many women say so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketHaha I have hade sex with around 17-20 women in my life , I hade 2 gf. Ofc being a man who cant get any dates or sex is a really bad life in this oversexulised society. What I currently think about the dating market and what I write here as no relevance to my success with women. What I do outside and what I do with my apperence is what is leading me to success. I find it interesting to discuss this especially since I grew up around a bunch a feminist who is denying facts is what I think is so in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Reviving A ClassicVendetta haha i love that word . If I ever do a vendetta it will definitely be sad . So what should he say? You smoke weed and you look gorgeous..boom roasted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:Oh its the same dude just turned up a few notches haha . Tattoos of avocado, constant talk about how emotional intelligent they are and al black dick they can swallow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketOh im not denying that . Men are horrible creatures and especially know with polarisation between the genders and the rise of sexless men who live a really awful life . Oh women definitely get bullied more . Internet is filled with angry men who lash out . I'm starting to realise how horrible my English is because I'm not denying anything you said so far . My point was more about why I think alot of modern woke women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketNo that is totally fine , If you have that view regarding black men and crime and there misogynistic behaviour I have no problem with it . My problem is when you pick and choose what people have free will. I dont even like to look it like that . I like to look why we have seen the rise of sexless men from a big perspective not from individuals. I dont think they are victims nor do I blame women . We simply have created a dating market where a smaller procent of men get to date have sex with a la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:Just avoid racist people in your country dude .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketAfrican men rape culture = no free will only because of colonization Imigriant with crime problems = structural racism and no free will Muslim extremist = poor bad education and colonization White Christian Republican = just ashole enemy who nees to change Black american misogynistic = because structural racism Incels = free will ashole enemy who just need to get there shit together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:It's no difference between america and western Europe really. I would argue that western euopen have more of this because we have more of a hook up culture and more of feminism.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 10:19 AM |
| 2 | PPD women be like:Yeaaah but it's kinda strange for the amazingly social aware white feminist who talk about how fucking emotional intelligence they are al the time to have a sterotypcial ethnic preferences towards black men ? How can you talk about that we need to change what is traditional manly or feminine yet at the same time only let big black men into there vagina. I have no problem with women who just like fuck it I like big black men. It's the women who deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 10:11 AM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:Well yeah ofc. But my point as always been about this issue and modern feminism. Like of can the feminist women talk about there emotional intelligence and how amazing sociale aware they are when they have developed stereotypical ethnic preferences for black men ? If you going to walk around with your textile bags and tattoos of a crying avocado you need to fuck some asians guys as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 10:07 AM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:No but that's not really how a standard white western European feminist see its. It was actually the feminist in my country who started talking about this becouse they was made an alot of men going to Thailand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:Yeah like have you heard of western Europe haha ? America is the most conservative place of al the western democracy. You complain about American feminism haha .. Like dude have you heard about Scandinavia? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:50 AM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:Dude are you serious? You realize when it comes to the western world America is actually pretty conservative. You complain about American feminist? Try living in Sweden dude haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynistHmm alright joke but you should have used Mousolino and Ted Bundy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Reviving A ClassicJesus cristh what a moron you are. She is so obviously fishing for omg you so hot that is what make here shallow and everyone with a brain can see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Reviving A ClassicNo it was hilarious because she was obviously just fishing for omg you so hot. How on earth should one roast that face or what she put out there . He did what people who knows comedy do he took it to another deeper and more real level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketYep I agree and I come from a place where you get a ton of that . I wished we hade culture of dancing salsa instead we have gender wars and discussion about anxiety. So sick of it , just want to dance and tuch other people . That's when I have felt the most real . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketNo but the reaction to sexless men.. Misogyny isent a new thing, but hook up culture and sexless men is kinda new regarding this level at least . Idk but polarisation between the genders I definitely a contributor tho . Like let's not pretend that incels are the only one who have hate for a gender. I think it's kinda weird to expect the men who have an awful life not to be angry ot bitter when everyone else is also kinda angry haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketVery good point and I totally agree . But maybe you can argue with al these talk about feminism and gender roles women should approach those men ? Maybe they are very careful because they was raised with feminist ideas that men shouldn't approach women that hard. So in that case the product of an incel is actually that fact that he has way less toxic masculinity then other men ? Ofc I understand if you hate women for your lonliness and failure you have toxic masculinity. But you dident start wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketNo it's not but im not talking about the political or rational beliefs but the ego of that person who has those beliefs. And the ego of that person is usually a feminist aswel? Why do we have different political views and thoughts about life ? Because our own ego and our own life experiences. I mean if you look at incels they are mostly white dudes who grew up in big western cities with alot of hook up culture and women who believe in feminism. Maybe one can argue that incels is a reaction of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketI understand I'm a bit bad of making my point .. My point was that I think incels to some aspects are a reaction to a certain trends of toxic feminism and a product of polarisation in today's society. I mean we have diffrent subcultures that argue against each other and are angry. Incels are mostly an western think right . I dont think women have any responsibility because I dont really believe in free will in any way..But every subcultures and every aspects of society is a reaction to events an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketExaclty my biggest proof is the ghosting subreddit as well! But i mean this is exactly what we men have being saying for 15 years now? And ofc it's a positive that more women have started to accept the reality but shouldn't they kinda be proof there ego has hard time accepting the reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketI realized I made some mistake in my post . My point was actually that you women here are able to admit how hard it for some men for examlpe in OLD but feminist women who are not aware enough think what you actually believe is nonsense incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketHmm really? But isent basically the whole point of being woke to say that you are morally good person and a social aware person ? I mean in alot of way you are . Look at veganism , compare some avarage dude and a white feminist with veganism . Why are femist women 10x more likely to be vegan? Because alot of them think its immoral and they value being a good person or at least the appearance that you are a good person. I dont understand how you can not think gender roles is a part of feminism..T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Being a passport bro isnt going to fix you're problemsThanxk for the video that was really interesting actually to ear from a black men regarding this issue . But dont you think the only reason why you are aware of this and is willing to admit is because you spend time here ? The avarage feminist dosent even know about this sub. If I asked one of the many hundred of white feminist women in my city walking around with black men you think most of them would be able to admit this like you? The same women who talk about social construct , the same wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketMy point was about the feminist ego is usually the one who cant handle the reality of the dating market. The feminist ego is that she see herself as an social aware morally good person who has high emotional intelligenc , she walks around with a textile bag, she has black and white tattoos, she use some psychology app 3 times a week . I think for that person is hard to admit that most sexless men have this situation simply because they lack confidence because of bullying and they dont have symme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketHuh? Feminist women are the ones who has the most problem about my views of the dating market? I say that the sexless men is that mostly because of apperence, status and social skills you guys say they are that because of toxic masculinity..Who even uses the word toxic masculinity besides feminist? You urself is a feminist and is arguing against me right now ? Haha am I missing something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketDo you have this attitude of choice and free will just for incels or for every aspect of society? You dont owe men anything , I'm not surprised hook up culture and OLD have created a dating market where some men struggle and women have no moral responsibility. We simply have created a dating market where some men like to be players and date alot of women and some men get nothing. My problem with you guys is when you say that those men cant find any dates because there toxic masculinity or some n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketMy point is more that so many of feminist insist that sexless men is that because of there " toxic masculinity " äsfz2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketWell I think what feminist is depends on what feminist you ask . Feminist has hade different waves , there is even diffrent kind of feminist subreddit .. fourth wave feminism and so on. I think what feminist is depends on the current average ego of the left wing upper middle class white women ( since they are the one who is usually a femist ) Let me give you an example. One of the main talking points from feminist in my country 15 years ago was feminist talking about men going to Thailand for se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketI absolutely agree . I think Andrew Tate is an absolute moron . But in alot of ways I honestly think the reactions from women is what created incels. Imagine you are some kind post bullied sexless man in his 20s and you ear from women that the only reason you are sexless is because your toxic masculinity while you see criminal men have no problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketYep I'm exactly the same .. And I agree with everything you said . Would you say those men in your circle that became sexless men became that because of " toxic masculinity " ? That's not at al my opinion. I'm the same and in some aspects I really like the modern feminist women.. But I think the way most of them have handled the issue of sexless men is completely wrong and have actually created alot of incels..And I think its because of there ego | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketThat was not really my point tho.. My point was about what kind of men become sexless . And why feminist women want to tell themselves it's only because of toxic masculinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketI actually think they do, not necessarily about sex but I think most feminist women have empathy for a guy who is lonely. And that is way so many of them convinced that those men are lonely because of toxic masculinity and not becouse they have extremely low confidence because of bullying for examlpe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketWell what is your definition of problem? I would argue that some psycho criminal dude has more psychological problems then some 20 year old sexless dude who cant get any matches and shy nervous low confident because of bullying. There is ton of criminal men who is extremely violent and severe issues who has no problems getting laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketYes exactly! And my point is the reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketYeah ofc .. But it's still some trends that you can see in certain subcultures right. Feminist women are probably 10x more likely to be vegan than some RP guy, the reason for that is because alot of feminist think being vegan is moral right thing to do and in there internal social structures they value the appearance of being a moral good person. Yeah maybe true about sex partners . My point was more about the reason why I think alot of feminist has hard time with accepting some certain truths a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketThat's not my experiences and I come from a country and an area that is known for its feminism. Most feminist want to seem like empathy person and I actually think they are empathetic. And they value emotional intelligence and empathy, if you work with feminist women al they do is talk about therapy and how emotional intelligent they are. For example the peer pressure of becoming a vegan is an example of that. That's why they say stuff like " Those men are only sexless because of toxic masculini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Being a passport bro isnt going to fix you're problemsYes but my friend this is the biggest problem I have with you modern white feminist regarding this whole dating discussion. Like honestly would you even be able to admit that white feminist women have developed an stereotypical ethnic preferences towards black men ? That's basically my whole point in this debate. You guys can not even admit the most obvious stuff because according your ego your some moral and psychological ubermensh but in reality you are a monkey just like me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why?To read some blogs from women isent necessarily going to help becouse they will say " just be kind " But yes there is plenty good advice there but you can say the same about social interactions..You can find amazing tips how to find friend and get good social skills. Yet we see alot of lonely people who struggle with social skills.. Life is so much more complicated then online tips. You need experience and winning in life to drastically change your success rate with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Being a passport bro isnt going to fix you're problemsWhat is so funny about this is in my very feminist country the femist women have started doing the exact same thing in western Africa. Feminist complain about men and Asian women then after a few years of feminism the women developed the same ego and start doing the exactly same thing with black men and they stop talking about stuff like entichal preference :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Being a passport bro isnt going to fix you're problemsBut that's not the case for everyone that goes to Asia tho.. There exist plenty of young white dude who simply went there to experience dating. They couldent get any matches in there own country and are shy and sick of not being able to experience dating/love so they went to a country like vietnamn . Get matches and start dating women there own age. The reason why a struggling white guy can get dates in places like Vietnamn is not simply because his financial status.. Its because there exist alo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Being a passport bro isnt going to fix you're problemsWith passport bro I assume some dude who goes abroad to bring home a wife, that aspect i dont know that much and i assume that will come with alot of problem. But if you are some young white dude who struggles in your own country going to some asian country to experience dating is really easy and I think it is actually good in the long term if you decide to go back becouse you need experiences to get good at dating. If you are some young bellow avarage or avarage nerdy guy who struggles with dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:14 AM |
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