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Then don't get those cars. If they are all horrible, get a bike ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:34 PM
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I personally have seen something diffrent în every woman I've interactiv with, however most men are the same, especially if part of the same friend group. Is it in group bias am I observing? I'm a lesbian, I date women. So it would make sense why I don't really give men time of day most of the times. But since op is attracted to women, it's kinda weird that he makes such remarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:56 PM
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Basic bitches are usually conventionally attractive, wear stylish clothes, show their body and use makeup. You need to go for actually average women, with blander clothes, less makeup skills, those who don't show their body as much. Any girl that's pretty will show off. If that annoys you, by any means, date women who are uglier. You sound like those women who cry that Chad won't commit to them. Why would he? He's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:37 PM
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Ofcourse teenaged girls use instagram. Why are you trying to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:35 PM
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Most teenaged girls do have instagram. Women past 28, not so much. This dude Is literally dating (or attempting to date) teenagers. Why are we giving him the time of day?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:33 PM
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Stop hitting on ethots and your issues will dissappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:28 PM
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You attract people similar to you. Friends, romantic interests, doesn't matter. Those are shitty women that you interact with. You are like a magnet to them? Wanna know why? Draw the conclusion. If everywhere you go it smells like shit, check your shoes. The virgin dude absolutely has something wrong with him, in the same way the girl who never had a good long term relationship has something wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:24 PM
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Yeah, because it makes much more sense for men to leave before they know they'll have to go through insane hardship with their partner, or when their partner is in a bad mood/less sexual/ a newborn is always crying/their partner looks diffrent. Please, put 2 and 2 together! I'd like to think that most women would abort if they happened to get pregnant with a rando dude they happened to have a drunken one night stand with. Unless we're talking about batshit insane women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:04 PM
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Bro thinks he's smarter than the national bureau of information 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:52 PM
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Why does my dislike of certain people bother you this much?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:57 AM
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There are literal stats that show men leave their wives and girlfriend at higher rates when she gets pregnant or right after she gives birth. Are their any stats over women getting the ick over silly things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:58 AM
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You never spoke to a lesbian masc, have you? Straight women perceive gay women as a threat, maybe even more than they would perceive men as a threat. All of then think I'm trying to rape them or hit on them, as if me being a lesbian would make me extremely attracted to every single one of them. Rejection a absolutely hurts no matter what. And you can very much be rejected by girls who are into girls too. For example, men won't really know the pain of having a crusty ass man be the first choice o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:05 AM
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If you're trying to date teenage girls, yes. Mature women? Haha fuck no. Not at the same rate as mature men at least, which get they ick when their partner gets pregnant by them, or when their partner births their child! How dare she..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:13 AM
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Respectfully I date women as a masc. I have dated all sorts of women, and rarely failed at getting one that I really wanted in bed. You actually could learn a lot from me. Or yknow, you could go to bed tonight alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:52 PM
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Detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:56 PM
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Nice guys don't finish last. Pimp wimps do. Your job is to know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:43 PM
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No one is responsible for someone's crappy behaviour, sorry. There's no villain arc bullshit in real life. You can choose to do better no matter what. I've been raped, that doesn't mean I go around raping little kids and blame it on my uncle or that one girl. Wanna be a piece of shit? Cool! Absolutely great, but own it at least. Admit to it, and blame it on yourself. This kindergarten bullshit of "I broke their nose because they didn't wanna play with me" got really stale, really quick
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:38 PM
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That's really not the point I'm making. In most species, the males are the ones who are more violent, reckless, and less caring of the group. Humans also show this pattern. The conclusion isn't that hard to draw. If humans have evolved so much, they should be able to recognize harmful patterns in their own behaviour (causes by past trauma or otherwise), and change it. Either there are no excuses(everyone needs to be held accountable for antisocial behaviour regardless, might imply the existance …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:16 PM
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Ok, what about animals? Women are also abused, not all of them turn into monsters. In fact, plenty of men aren't monsters either. It's just that it's men who predominantly show anti social behaviours. Why some of them and not all?? All excuses. Allll of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:10 PM
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Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:10 PM
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As I said, this behaviour is found even in primates and other mamals. Children and animals inherently trust women more. Even if anything justified that behavour. I'm also not misandristic at all. I love men for what they are. I'm just being realistic. You are disproportionately scum bags, compared to women. The majority of you are bad apples. However, the few ones that are good, are really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:09 PM
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I think you're just deflecting and offering excuses for horrible behaviour. This has been the case for all of history, and even in all species of primates. Men just have a lil something that makes them inherently morally worse. Even children and animals seem to trust women over men. I've been abused in my childhood and raised in a "rough love" kind of manner, and I still don't really feel the need to act like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:19 PM
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Most, I wouldn't say so. Especially the ones who keep boasting over how animals are better than humans. I wasn't reffering to healthy people having pets, I have had a dog for 5 years, and while I absolutely adore her, I would never place her company above the company of humans, ever. I still spend more time with my partner, I still go out with friends, I keep in touch with my family. I meant the ones who replace humans with animals. Family and close friends often aren't enough. A lot of people s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:02 PM
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I think you might have a tad lil bit of a bias, considering you used the term "men" (term that's only used when referred to humans) and "females" (term that's inherently dehumanizing, used when reffering to animals). Given the fact that men show narcissistic traits at higher rates then women (women being more neurotic), most cartel heads being men, corrupt politicians being men, big businesses owners being men (specifically the kind that sells information, abuses workers, fucks with the environm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:57 PM
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Did I go overboard?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:02 PM
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Ah no worries, as a woman that dates women, a lot of women also fit here, aside from the toilet thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:02 PM
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No, not at all. There's no way someone who's mentally sane would choose a machine over a living, breathing human with feelings and complex thoughts. As for sex, there's no one with a higher sex drive than a woman in a relationship with a man she actually likes. As a lesbian I'm telling you this, there's Was never an instance when I was with a girl (casually or otherwise) that didn't want to get at it everyday, unless she was sore, extremely tired (read hungover from drugs or alcohol). NONE. Sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:19 PM
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Lazy partner Selfish partner Partner that stinks Partner that feels entitled to certain things/ behaviours from you but doesn't respect your personal requests Partner that expects too much Partner doesn't have any motivation or drive to do shit Partner that's violent Partner that is verbally aggressive Partner that's avoidant Partner that doesn't have the same sexual expectation as you/lack of chemistry Partner that settles for you Disloyal Partner Eats your damn snacks Doesn't sit down when pee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:36 PM
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No, people who fill the void thats left by absence of human love with animals are either genuinely disturbed or desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:20 PM
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This is actually so smart but pls make them stop harassing and touching us and using being gay as an excuse too 🙏🏼🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:38 AM
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It is still a kid, you can't have that much life experience at 15, there's a reason we don't let 15 year Olds make important decision. Your brain is fully developed by 28, people are literally marries with kids by that age in pretty big numbers. It's a 10 year difference. If the 28 yo was really such a nice guy, he wouldn't be dating teenage girls. 15 and 19 is a tad little bit weird, but really not that bad. They're both teenagers. If we're talking about a 10 year diffrence, between a teenager/…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:04 PM
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This. I loved the drama I had when I was hoeing around. Sure I've had enough now, but it was Hella fun while it lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:12 AM
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Do i love this ugly person? Are they basically the same as my partner? Yes- anything is acceptabile No- they can fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:42 AM
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This comment makes me realize that op isn't actually as successful with women as he says he is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:29 AM
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If you really equate porn to sex than perhaps you've never had sex, and shouldn't speak on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:08 AM
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Ok, so do men choose better partners than women do or are men justified in doing so because they like having sex with hot girls (don't girls also want sex with hot guys??) And they're justified. Also, women shouldn't want sex with hot guys, but for men it's normal, so women shouldn't participate in hookup culture??? You don't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:51 AM
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She literally wanted it more than I did lmfao. How can you possibly manipulate someone into sex??? You're saying it like I blackmailed her or raped her, jeez. We were two consenting adults who really wanted to have sex with eachother. You think she didn't try to convince me to have sex w her? If it was just for "sexual" gratification, I would've fucked my ex. Would've taken way less effort. I wanted her, and just her specifically, and that hasn't changed since.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:43 AM
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Sexual attraction is still a kind of love my guy, and it's how every romantic relationship starts. Without it, there's no romantic relationship. Sexual desire and attraction in neither perverse, nor wrong. Ofcourse it meant I was in love. How can you not see that they're the same shit??? Wanting to touch their skin, hear their moans, caress them, kiss them everywhere and shit like that sounds like not love to you????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:40 AM
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You can commit and sacrifice in the infatuation stage. Wanna know why? It's still love you silly goose. I stopped talking to any other women the moment I went out on the first date with my now girlfriend. Thats commitment, given the fact that I loved whoring around for a bit lol. A definitely sacrificed my ego too, my freedom, independence, and my worry free, responsibility free life. Wanna know why? I wanted to convince her to jump my bones lmfao. Started brining her home made soup n shi
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:00 PM
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I surely do! I don't feel sexual attraction for my dog, or nieces, or my parents. And I still love them. Do you not understand the difference between romantic relationships and platonic ones??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:58 PM
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Ok, call it infatuation then, whatever. For young people, sexual attraction a lot of times, is love. Sexual attraction is the core and base of any and every romantic relationship, unless they're somehow asexual. Without it, it's basically just a friendship with extra steps. Sexual attraction and infatuation are also types of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:06 AM
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Nah, me and my now partner wanted to jump eachother's bones the moment we met f2f
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:04 AM
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Get off porn and learn to lower your gaze. They're rotting your brain. This is how you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:01 AM
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I highly doubt that they wouldn't appreciate it lmfao. You can use it to make your face look more masculine. Why does it matter?? "They're in their own bubble" and yall are scared as shit. Scaredy cats. Women follow celeb trends all the time, why wouldn't you? Makeup was originally used by men in antiquity. High heels were also made for men. ????if you do it right she'll likely not even know. Even if they didn't, women lost their jobs and even lives over the right to wear pants. You're supposed …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:45 PM
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Men can genuinely wear makeup though!! Lots of male celebs do. There are masculine makeup tutorials online. You can make your nose look better, basically shave your jaw off, change your eye shape, whatever. Seriously dudes, use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:41 PM
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That sounds.. completely fair enough to me? Adults are responsible for their very own failures. You have to bear your losses. You have to deal with them. If someone can't find a partner to save your life, something is probably very wrong with them. That's on them. Even if it somehow really wasn't their fault (severely handicapped, autistic, deformed), it's still their responsibility to deal with it. There's no one to fix it but them. And if they can't fix it, too bad. It's still on them to eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:14 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:40 PM
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It depends what "DV" means to them. Me and my lesbian girlfriend playfully slap eachother when the other is being a bitch or bite eachother. It's nowhere near abuse to us, but some might view it as domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:56 AM
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I'm a hypersexual woman. I could fuck literally all day, I do it until I get sore. I'm a lesbian too. I still absolutely don't harass women or send photos that weren't requested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:54 AM
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Do you have a vast dating experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:49 PM
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Yes! That way, if a man has a child unknowingly, he will also be notified and made to Pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:47 PM
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You're right, that's why I think it should be mandatory. The wives should also be notified if their dear husband had a flower child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:59 AM
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The op was talking about misandry in the dating scenes. I want solid examples, and multiple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:28 AM
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Is it really that hard to understand why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:23 AM
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This makes me giggle. You are correct about most things you said, but one. Women do actually want "soft" guys. But not soft in general, SOFT FOR THEM, and horrid to others. Similarly to how men want virgin "sluts" . Men want their woman to have had absolutely no libido for any men she met, but he wants her to have the hots for him so much that she can't keep her hands off. Women want a guy that treats everyone cruelly, gets away with it, but treats her like a princess. Obviously both scenarios a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:21 AM
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Do you all have so little self awareness that you don't realize this easily? Like, you probably wouldn't fuck extremely ugly girls either if given the choice, especially if everyone would find out either. You absolutely won't commit to ugly girls either. Why do you expect the other gender to do differently? They'll obviously only fuck people they deem attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:17 AM
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Flair checks out. You shouldn't be "venting" to random people. I stopped telling people my problems before I turned 12. Keep that shit to yourself, no one wants to hear it. It's probably cringe anyways. Ugly men are the ones who have the most disdain and hate for women, due to their lack of success with them. When it comes to men who are attractive and misogynists, it's obviously forgivable, the same way you accept crappy behavioir from women you find attractive, while you absolutely won't let t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:13 AM
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Everything about the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:06 AM
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Have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, those complains aren't all that reasonable, and that being a heterosexual man doesn't excuse any kind of weird sexual behaviour? Having a penis doesn't give you a pass to do bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:05 AM
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I don't understand why people think you're doing anything wrong. Wanting casual sex is perfectly ok, a lot of people want it of either gender. As long as you make your intention clear, there's no issue. I find the "if you have casual sex with a woman, you're using her" retoric weird, infantilizing and even misogynistic. Women want and deserve casual sex too. Women are adults who can consent to any sexual act they wish to consent to, they have urges and desires too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:01 AM
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Eh, we can agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:09 PM
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Dxx x
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:51 PM
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Some people genuinely peak maturity and even looks wise in their 30s. Most people do sadly peak in high-school Tho. That's why you hear so many people speaking about their hs football team, even if they graduated decades ago, or still caught up on their first love, or how they were the prom/homecoming queen... Peaking in your 30s takes a lot of fyckign work. It doesnt just happen. If you keep a shitty lifestyle, you'll be having shit skin, a beer gut, flabby arms, and whatever else undesirable c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:08 PM
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Science backs me up. It's the objective truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:22 PM
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Some can't even get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:09 AM
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Men are also lonely only if they choose to be. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:08 AM
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You know I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:01 AM
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Men will do absolutely everything but lower their standards. Not only has it been *scientifically * proven that men over rate themselves looks wise and women underrate themselves in general, women have a naturally higher market value than men do. Women are the prize. What you think is a 4 is actually a 6. Now your place, lower your standards, and improve yourself.That's what you have to do. Don't wanna do all of that? Then remain lonely Redpillers will absolutely downvote me, even though i absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:03 AM
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No one outside of weird echo chambers thinks 30s is old
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:07 PM
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At this point, just get a vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:09 AM
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Ofcourse! This way the wife can also be notified if her dear husband got his mistress pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:06 AM
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The girl looks underage. The guys doesn't. Anymore inquiries?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:08 PM
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I love men's reaction when I tell them mine. What I love more is their reaction when I tell them that they're all women, but two of them, one of which was a sexual assault when I was really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:05 PM
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Re-read what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:04 PM
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I was underlying how men don't actually care about the consequences of their actions. They're perfectly ok with "ruining" "good" low n count women for fun, while further shooting their future selves in the foot when it comes to finding a good lt partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:02 PM
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Fun fact! We release oxytocin in the same amounts when we fuck someone new each night or the same person for 20 Years in a row.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:48 PM
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Every dude I've met that told me he can always tell was absolutely wrong. Always. Like clockwork. The ones who actually knew were the ones who listened and new when to speak/to whom/didn't make assumptions. Those sneaky bitches knew everything about everyone. They were the kind to be friends with everyone/never took aides/incredibly fun to be around. If you wanna know, be like him. Or act like a knowitall, make wrong assumptions and never truly find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:42 PM
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Girls, don't listen to him. He would absolutely jump at the opportunity to have casual sex. Men like him are hypocrites. Do whatever you like, just use a condom, because you can be sure as fuck that they don't get tested, and you'll get sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:38 PM
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Nah, I think we should all say either 0 or 46. Much funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:37 PM
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Then there's 0 logical reason to not slut shame men for the same reason, but shame them for virginity too. Virgins being desperate, and not having too many options, will jump at any opportunity that arises, and will only be with you so he's not lonely (scarcity mindset)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:36 PM
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Old men don't really get hot, fresh out of high-school girls either. At least, not often, and certainly not if the dude isn't rich. The wall hits just as hard for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:03 PM
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Or it's because the relationship is strictly based on interest, which is also why these relationships have the highest divorce rates!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:00 PM
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You both work the same hours? You both were implicated in creating those kids? You both live in that house that needs to be cleaned? -YES. She's a sahm? -no. But she shouldn't literally scrape YOUR shit from the toilet bowl (basic respect) or clean after you like she's your mother. You're perfectly capable of throwing your trash in the bin, and taking your dirty dishes to the sink. And the kids are still yours too, you need to spend an hour or two a day with them too, AT LEAST.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:39 AM
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I've babysat for years on end. It's literally just relaxing. I never said sitting down. Just staying home. Or in the proximity of your home, going for a midday stroll in the park until 3 pm while watching kids play happily Is way Less stressful than waking up at 6 in the morning to commute during peak traffic hour. You talk about parenting and nurturing like you need to chop down trees in the syberian forest while fighting brown bears off. You need to set the kid up with a good routine, treat th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:35 AM
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If someone works their ass in a stressful or maybe even worse, a very physically demanding job all day, everyday, breaking their back, while you sit home and relax with kids all day, I feel like you kinda owe them one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:09 AM
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Acting like being a sahm full time is harder than a full tine job is laughable at least, especially after the kids turn 6 or 7. By that time they can literally be left on their own at home. They should be capable enough at that age to microwave a meal for themselves, get undressed and get into their pajamas after they come back from school, and do some homework, which takes you a few minutes to look over after. Yes, it's hard while they're infants and toddlers, but they aren't incapable and help…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:06 AM
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Alright, I gave another hypothetical and a case where the scenario in the OP would be possible. Isn't it one of the rules to not concentrate on the weakest part of the argument when debating with someone, and actually engaging with the points they made?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:52 AM
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Wanting to fuck consenting adults and being open to them about it, plus taking responsibility if anything happens and getting tested + taking accountability over your jizz by wearing comdoms/ getting a vasectomy if you don't plan on having children/have had enough of those crotch goblins, keeping private stuff to yourself (meaning not shouting obscenities at random strangers, flashing strangers, sending completely uncalled for) ? A OK! Wanting to fuck animals, children, or people who definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:56 AM
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You sound like you're trying to convince yourself. Most relarionship don't have a big age gap, mainly because most healthy peoplendont want to date someone who could be their dad, or someone who could be their daughter. As for shallowness, you all need to understand that women get horny too, and that their judgement gets clouded just the same. We are all just apes at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:43 AM
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I've usually seen men fall in love with other women other than their ltr partner more often than I've seen women do it. Men will usually be the ones who will still keep looking at chicks on the street while their wife is making them dinner at home. And I don't blame them, bitches be looking fine, I do it too, but we can't act like men leaving for another woman doesn't happen a lot. If you really wanna tie it down to the Redpill, women after getting in a ltr relationship might really hold on on i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:41 AM
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Actually, men and women cheat in similar numbers, men cheating slightly more. As for divorces, that's just considering who did the paperwork. A lot of men just up and leave without serving papers. Because it's easier to let others do your task. They be having a whole new ass family and the ex wife would still be legally married to him and trying to get ahold of him. There's 0 reason for men to ask for it, since if they do, they'll have to take care of their children or pay child support. Some me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:35 AM
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I think you're nit picking here. A woman with breast cancer going through chemo will obviously have a much lower chance of finding a partner than a healthy one. Or a woman who's disfigured. Or old. Or fat. Or plain ugly. Those are absolutely also conditions, and being viewed as sexually attractive (or just viable for a quick smash when things get tough) isn't synonymous at all with being loved. Those are two very different things. Now, I understand that being sexually attractive to others feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:32 AM
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That's not true. Unconditional love isn't a thing and you need to let that concept go. It was never a thing. Even as a child, you would probably do things to earn your parents' attention or affection. Surely, there were some things that you could have done that would absolutely shatter any crumb of sympathy they had for you. Even if that wasn't the case, they loved you in the condition that you were THEIR CHILD. That's a huge ass condition, especially because we can't control it. Heck, even pets…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:29 AM
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You really can though. Let's say you did sleep with the coworker, but you know she also slept with other dudes. It would be reasonable for you to ask for a paternity test. We can also say that for some reason you're sure you didn't get her pregnant. It doesn't matter wether it's possible or not at all, it's a thought exercise. You're meant to use your creativity here. You also seem to be missing the forest for the trees. The point is that, people would usually be bothered if their partner truste…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:11 AM
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People usually care if their partner cheated, especially if a child was a result of said affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:39 AM
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It's not at all. The question looks to put men in women's shoes when their fidelity is under the question. Obviously it would hurt if your spouse trusted you that little to require a paternity test. Obviously it's needed in some cases, and people change, sometimes it's obvious they cheated, Yada Yada Yada, but when it comes to innocent people, just having been asked this question out of the blue in a seemingly healthy relationship might really shake the bond at its core. It would break my heart …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:37 AM
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Yes, very effing weird. It's prominent especially in younger age groups, or I hope so. Usually older people have their feet planted to the earth. Hopefully..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:01 PM
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Absolutely agreed! I was just pointing our how all of us are prone to being dumbfucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah, most women also don't seriously believe in astrology, especially to the point of space racism. I feel like I still got the point and you still get mine, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:19 PM
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Mind explaining why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:18 PM
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Yeah I would say so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:16 PM
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Some men think we can hold period blood in, or that testosterone levels drop if you eat soy every once in awhile. These men also think the matrix tries to keep them enslaved. Please. THESE MEN LITERALLY THINK NFTS WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THEM A FORTUNE.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:11 PM
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Why can't you keep your opinions to yourself, especially if you're trying to sleep with the girl? Why you gotta cock block yourself? Look, I think a lot of them bitches believe is stupid as shit. But if I'm trying to get them to eat me out, I'm not gonna shoot myself in the foot. Practice basic self control and shut your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:10 PM
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Cute and good looking is what I mean by hot as fuck. Most people are literally plain ugly. The ones who are just plain (somewhat symmetrical, average looking features), are actually not the norm!! Good looking women aren't average women, I'm repeating myself again. The women you consider average are 100% not average. The results you get on Google images when you search for average young women are actually very pretty women. The women who are truly average are the ones you literally don't look at…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:38 AM
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By lonely I meant single. The cashier can absolutely be hot as fuck, young and fit. What's your point? -not be overweight: over 30% of women are overweight -not be ugly: whatever that shit entails I guess. I just said that there are women who are literally ugly and can do nothing to help it. Their faces literally look young. They're still young and fit and whatever, and they're still ugly and perpetually single (absolutely not by choice or lack of trying) , at the age where they have the best ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:49 AM
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Young people were dying because they had certain health problems but couldn't get help because all the health system was filled to the brim with old, dying people. They had priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:40 AM
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Men tend to overvalue themselves and their looks. If you think you're a 7, you're mostly a 4. So that 4 is absolutely a 5 trying to hit on you. Also, look closely at who hits on you. That's what your league is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:33 AM
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Men also transmit more stds and cause pregnancy way more often than women do. A woman can only be pregnant once a year. A man can impregnate a woman every day of the year. They cause way more illegitimate pregnancies. They are the ones who need to be kept under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:31 AM
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Men will find different things attractive. You aren't the earth's belly button. People have different tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:06 AM
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I would assume it's more than 10 percent, Maybe 15-20%. Mostly elderly women who would need it most. We could also ignore 30% of men being lonely by that logic. I would say that the hit, young and healthy weight women who can just get partners like that are the 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:21 PM
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That's really saddening. My great great grandmother was such in a bad state in her last days. She was withered away. The kindest thing we can do to them is set them free.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:20 PM
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Honesty I'm for the greater good of humanity, and keeping old people alive is Hella expensive, and unnecessary. I think you know where I stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:45 PM
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If you don't understand that most people aren't asexual and that wanting sex is completely fine you have issues, or you're a religious nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:42 PM
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I never said that. I don't know why you got so heated or where'd you get that idea from. You think I'm a Mormon or something?? I agree. Sexual intimscy can happen before sex. Some people only have sex as in piv, as the only form of intimacy, and as a result their sex life is seriously lacking. The teasing, excitement and anticipation makes it 100% better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:42 PM
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Just kill all people over 70. That's so reasonable! s/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:57 PM
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Thats the point. It's like laughing at a funeral, but the one who died was your pedo uncle. You were the only one who knew. You're having the time of your life. Pretty much every functional human being knows this is stupid shit we are arguing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:49 PM
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As long as you don't do shady things to coerce her into anything and care about her pleasure, it's fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:27 PM
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I'm actually a lesbian, partnered up since a pretty long time and I'm here just for shits and giggles lol. Love arguing over stupid shit, but doing it rl definitely fucks up my bonds with other people. I get my fix here and go back to my satisfying life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:15 PM
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Humans are literally built to bond over it. This isn't the gotcha you think it is. I really feel like someone of either sex not showing obvious sexual attraction after a month is either not that into you and settling or that shit will end up in a dead bedroom. Sex is intimacy no matter what, you're at your most vulnerable psycho physically and emotionally with someone else. It doesnt get more intimate than that at all. It's very important for couples to bond, it keeps relationships together, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:14 PM
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There are literally so many ways to show sexual attraction, such as making out, petting, and whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:12 PM
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Men literally believe our vagina (a muscle) gets weaker if it's used. Why are we listening to them??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:11 PM
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I absolutely cannot, I was talking about women I know. I can't just send pictures of people who aren't considered public persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:27 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:25 AM
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You'll get really tired of it if only older creepy women did it, from the day before you turned 9 and until you turn 40. And if it happened all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:26 AM
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You really think any woman can just step out the door, and ask for a phone number, within 5 minutes??? Lol Some women are genuinely ugly as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:23 AM
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My one year old toddler is also very irresponsible, he refused to wipe his on ass that's full of shit. Just because I'm his parents that doesn't mean it's my responsibility. Wait a hot sec-
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:48 PM
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Again, I'm not willing to discuss that topic. You seem very emotionally charged over it and we won't have a productive conversation. USA doesn't even free healthcare, it's a shithole of a country. Most places aren't like that. I'm not surprised at all that "selective" service is mandatory to sign for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:52 AM
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I won't discuss wether women should be able to vote or not, especially now that voting is universal in most places, most places aren't war ridden, and service is optional. What I meant by ironic, is her statement and I cite "I think that women shouldn't be able to vote", with the reasoning "women can't think". I, as a woman, think women can't think. Was I clear enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:22 PM
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Not only am I a woman, with plenty of female friends, I always dated women too. None of them wanted "safety", unless they were in their mid to late 30s. Spontaneity tho?? Adventure? Excitement? Being a roller-coaster of emotions will 100% guarantee you obsessed ass bitches (you gotta look good too tho). Being safe and predictable? Snor. That works for old ass bitches and infants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:15 PM
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She literally said she thinks women shouldn't have the right to vote. Why? She thinks women can't think. Ironic, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:38 AM
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Guys love pick me girls. They want someone who will bend at their whim. Girls are disgusted by simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:37 AM
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Ok, now you're just moving the goal post. Sex and relationship are important. This is a statement on its own. As for the fixes for the lonely people, as you said, there's not much we can do as individuals. No one is really entitled to anything, not friends, partners, parents, nothing. While it is a problem, and an increasing number of people are affected by it, the only thing one can do to fix it is literally socializing as you said. Sure, it would help if social events outside of drinking would…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:03 AM
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Mainly because they usually don't get hit on by men lol. Definitely saw girls act that way towards gay men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:57 AM
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What are we expecting to hear? The obvious. We want you to acknowledge the pink elephant in the room. Lack of friendships, romantic relationship and sex actually has a negative impact over someone, because it's in our biology to have those types of relationships. The lack of those stunts our development and fucks us up long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:44 AM
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Definitely get it lol. Can't wait to get old and fat so my partner will be the only one flirting with me. Yeah, they're convinced they have the golden dick that will magically turn me straight for them, as If my Years long relationship with my partner doesn't mean shit. If it wouldn't be so funny I would probably cry. The most hilarious part is when they ask me to bring my girlfriend over for a threesome. I insist that we are monogamous and serious and fully gay. They still insist for a bit afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:42 AM
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Only wanting sex is ok as long as you're respectful, not pushy and sincere in your intentions. I had my hoe phase. I was only interested in sex with the girls I was talking To. While obviously we also sort of became friends, there wasn't any long term intent and I didn't care as much as I would for my now partner. As for those men who say that, they're literally sociopathic. I don't know if social exclusion literally rotted away their brains and now they view relationships in a transactional, sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:41 AM
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I don't think so. I have only wanted sex in the past. As long as they're transparent about it and their partner feels the same, I don't think anything is wrong there. This notion that some women don't want hookups only is stupid and kinda infantilizing to women tbh. Just respect your partners regardless. It'll be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:34 AM
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No, the disconnect is that you're literally mentally stunted. Sex and love aren't completely separate at all, idk who tf taught you that. Passion is also a type of love. It isnt any less valid than commitment, friendship or whatever else. It does mean something. We don't let just everyone know our bodies. The length of our fingers, how we taste, how we look. When you're naked you're in the most vulnerable state. You shown someone everything. Also, when we have sex and touch eachother, we release…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:25 AM
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Dating apps are made to milk every penny out of you. They don't have your best interest in mind. Please. Socialize outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:13 PM
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You dont just get a high, you build connection with someone, you will fully accepted and desired. If the only thing needed was the "high", we would just masturbate. No matter how much I would masturbate, I still crave the touch of the woman I love. The way you view relationships is really cynical. I agree with what you say, though I don't know why we are talking about that? Most human want sex with consensual partners. I'm talking about a desire for sex and love, not one for rape. Those two are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:10 PM
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Yes this is really weird!! Seeiously it gets on my nerves. Imagine if we treated freedom or other things we need to thrive, not just survive. Privacy too. Like, you can survive even if someone is watching your every move, but it will surely ruin you psyche wise. Both sexes desperately need human contact of all kinds. It's a human thing. It puzzles me how people think it's wrong to want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:54 PM
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Bro, most humans don't operate the way she does. Women with very little romantic success suffer too. I have a friend that's very unfortunate looking to say it nicely, she broke down because our other friends kept boasting about how they get cat called and asked out. She's never really treated that way. As much as it is an annoyance for them, she would wish to be in their place. Even with average girls, not getting commitment also fucks up their self esteem. I don't know what op is trying to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:41 PM
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Sex improves your life overall, and healthy humans have it often. New iPhones don't bring any sort of value into your life. People without romantic success feel isolated and different, as if something is wrong with them (don't get me wrong, there often is but nonetheless). Growing up as a lesbian in a homophobic country was really taking a toll on me in my early teens. Everybody was getting their first kisses and having cute experiences, I wasn't. There are literal scientific studies on how lack…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:37 PM
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People who have healthy relationships with consistent sex live longer, suffer less from depression, and cardiovascular diseases. You are deluding yourself if you think lack of romantic and friendly affection doesn't fuck you up long term. It truly does. Especially in your formative Years, it causes havock in your later life. It can range from self esteem issues to literal homicidal tendencies, depending on the severity of social exclusion and the individual ofcourse. It's no secret that we have …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:33 PM
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Not really. I'm a lesbian and it still bothers me how men will just fart in public without any regard for the people around them. I love my pops, but whenever he comes over I have to light 4 scented candles and led the windows wide open :( On a more serious note, It would still be nice if men who were told no just backed off and stopped hitting on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:28 PM
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Roma people commit over 70% of the crimes where I live. Whoever doesn't avoid them gets robbed or worse. Whoever stays away stays safe. It's dangerous to not think in this way for the individual. Fuck equality and allat, my top concerns are my safety and the safety of those whom I love. There's also that men are much more physically capable than I am, although I'm tall and in good shape. I'll be more fearful of wronging someone who owns a gun vs someone who is all bark and no bite. I'll be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:30 AM
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Fine, if we did consider pitbulls to be more aggressive than other dog breeds, yes, we should treat them as such
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:07 AM
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No. Because pitbulls aren't that agresive. There are dog breeds out there way more agreseive. As such, they should be treated as inherently more dangerous than a poodle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:42 AM
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I'm in my twenties dude. I'm a lesbian and was pretty successful with dating. In a country that's largely homophobic. Maybe you just ain't shit like you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:45 PM
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I said what I said. I was sharing my experience and there's no sexlesness epidemic. 30% of men not having sex isn't a big deal. Throughout history, there was always a good chunk of men who were celibate and not by choice. They were rat looking, but usually also tall. Dark triad traits attract both men and women. Though women are attracted to them in particular. Not literally hands down criminals, just people who were exciting. A lot of them grew up to have good jobs and okay families. The boring…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:09 PM
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Wasn't my experience at all. Their taste in men was beyond questionable. Literal rat looking boys. All of them however, had insane amounts of game and a dark allure to them. Every guy who got bitches understood female nature and was a master manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:25 PM
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I find femininity viciously attractive. Devastatingly attractive. The reason why poets mourn and create. Why the world spins. You can take my femme out of my cold, dead fucking hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:30 PM
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Men commit the majority of the crimes, and men who offend are likely to re-offend. If your record is already stained, you'll tend to get more time. Men also tend to offend in different circumstances and different ways-often more violent. It's a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:05 PM
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Well, that would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:11 PM
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I don't think it's only based on age. Seen some really dumb old bitches out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:17 AM
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What, am I not allowed to hate people now?? If someone wants me to not hate them, they have to display certain behaviors. Otherwise, I won't interact with them. It's not the "I hope you don't have rights and get hate crimed" kind of hate, it's just the "act right or stay away from me" hate. Had more bad experiences than positive with yall. Just self preserving out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:11 AM
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You'd be surprised how horny teenage girls can be. Maybe even worse than the dudes. You wouldn't know though. They probably weren't horny for you if you have your doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:02 AM
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My parents are the opposite of what you describe. My mother does everything to make dad's life easier. They still use pet names into their late 50s. They kiss a lot, and my father always invited my mother almost everywhere he goes. She wears makeup and skirts for him. He buys her things and spoils her, treats her to dinner. I aspire to have a relationship full of love like theirs, even in my old years. They got married when they were in their late twenties. My mother was 28. At the time, where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:35 AM
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You are complaining, not explaining at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:22 AM
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Yup, this summarizes their whole sub. They're literally upset that women talk about men the way they do online (sometimes it's really bad, other times they're just sensible lil cunts) so they talk about women on their sub in what they think is a similar manner. The thing is, men are seen as bad guys stereotypically for a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:44 AM
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Definitely. Honestly I kinda get them. I hate yall too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:42 AM
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Empathy gap? Lmfaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:41 AM
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I'm one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:38 AM
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That's human nature for ya. Go scream into a forest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:38 AM
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Well thats fucked. That sti doesn't change the fact that women are usually supportive. Men are usually the ones who poke fun
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:33 AM
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Pretty much everytime a male victim appears online, it's the men making fun of him and the women being supportive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:26 AM
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I've usually noticed it's the men making fun of rape victims, not the women. Though I don't know why it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:18 AM
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You've made great points. You are absolutely right. However, most people, me included, don't view female on male rape like they view male on female rape. We view the latter as more damaging for a few reasons. The specialists view it in that way too, again, probably for their own reasons. Not necessarily the bullshit ones you've mentioned there, they make 0 sense. It's probably intrinsic too, if a child tells me they're hit by their father I will 100% take action. If a father tells me they're bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:15 AM
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We are not talking about paternity tests now, but how women are actually entitled to their spouse being involved in his own family
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:29 PM
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It's entitled to want your spouse to take care of his children?? He can't do what he wants actually, he is an adult with responsibilities: his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:59 AM
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The resources that should go to the wife kids and the wife go somewhere else, her husband might bring stds into the household, the time he should spend with his kids was spent with his mistress instead. I think the wife should be told. We can also argue that it doesn't matter if the husband raises a child that wasn't theirs. If they wouldn't have known, it wouldn't have mattered. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:10 AM
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This! This is exactly how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:08 AM
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I don't understand. We weren't really talking about porn, and the prompt wasn't asking ppd users If they would asociate with lesbians. Why would you asociate with someone based on their sexuality? Whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:06 PM
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I could be sitting on my knees confessing my love to my partner on the boulevard with "lesbian" tattooed over my forehead and a rainbow aura, crying scissor shaped tears and some dude would still hit me up and ask if I'm sure, and attempt to convince me I'll "change my mind" after I try "theirs".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:36 PM
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Not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:33 PM
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No, they're not. Lesbian here, dated around for a few years and settled down. Women can experiment because they're not judged as much for it. At the end of the day, it will just be meaningless fun and nothing more. Men would 100% do the same had they not received so much backlash over it. Then there is the male validation thing. Some straight girls will fuck other girls for their boyfriends or just attention from men in general. One of my exes I'm still in contact with is dating one of these chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:28 PM
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Does it matter more that it's from your nut or does it matter more the bond you created with the child? If you didn't know it wasn't yours, it wouldn't change anything. You think it's OK to punish a child for someone else's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:46 PM
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Why is it flawed? Isn't it the same? The total lack of trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:57 PM
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If you verify you don't trust. Make the test mandatory at birth to avoid trauma and commotion in relationships. You dont trust your kid is just fine if they look sick. The doctor is a stranger, not your life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:50 PM
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Yes. I absolutely think that. Not for feelings, but for the safety and family unit. Children need a stable home to grow in. To avoid these situations, I fully support testing at birth. It's the feelings of the father vs the safety and stability of his children. It's clear what I'd choose. A kid that you've raised for years on end is yours. If it matters so much wether its biological or not, you're the monster just as much as the mother is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:39 PM
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The comparison you made makes 0 sense. You should have trust in your partner. A doctor is a stranger and he can make mistakes. You'll always be advised to ask for a second opinion anyway. Especially if your kiddo feels down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:31 PM
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I agree, you should have the right. However, it is a selfish decision and comes to the detriment of their children. People have the right to put their children up for adoption even if they're 10 years old, and those children have been in their care for a decade. That doesn't mean it isn't selfish and the kid won't suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:18 PM
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If you don't think that kind of mistrust doesn't ruin a relationship, it's clear you've never been in one. Would you not cause a commotion if your wife asked that you wear a chastity belt at all times to prove fidelity? What about her being able to monitor your activity on your phone and personal computer at all times? Her putting a tracker and microphone in your car?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:34 AM
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The child doesn't have to have their family destroyed, and it's better for the child if things stay calm even if they're "fake". This obsession is weird. The child doesn't care if they don't know. They won't feel the difference. They will only feel the love. They will feel the love lack if the "father" finds out and pulls away. The man they considered their dad for Years just ups and leaves. That's horrid. Yes, I'm absolutely saying that, 100%. It's better for the health of the children. It's in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:33 AM
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Again, it doesn't matter who's at fault or not. If it's found out the children aren't his. It will cause a commotion. This will hurt the children much more than not knowing would. It's for the "revenge" if the husband at the expense of the children. What do you not get? The rape thing isn't applicable here, because other people need to watch out for a violent rapist. If it was a "Grey area", and it happened in high-school, I do think the victim could shut up. If my best pal is marrying someone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:26 AM
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I'm not going to argue with that. But again, a paternity test in a stable household isn't for the benefit of the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:32 AM
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So that means women are also providers, meaning it's not the role of men anymore. And again, women are the providers in 45% cases or equal partners since only in 55% of cases men are "providers"(they aren't. Their partners also make money). I'm not downplaying anything dude. I'm just saying men no longer "provide".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:31 AM
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As I have said before, I support testing immediately after birth for every child. However, this isn't done for the well being of the children and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:29 AM
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That's true. Women still make money and work full time jobs. Meaning men aren't providers anymore, but equal partners. Men earn more in just 55% of marriages. Thats literally a bit over half. What logic does that have? A provider means actually providing. The only men who can be called providers are men of sahm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:08 AM
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This is a cope lmao. Children don't care who's the one who nut inside their mother. They want to be loved and have a stable household. A paternity test might shatter that stable household.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:54 AM
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Have fun paying child support :P
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:52 AM
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Most houses are dual income households, which means both women and men work. In fact, in the USA, women make up 51% of the workforce. Men are no longer providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:46 AM
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Yall can't even give up porn for both the safety of the people participating in the videos (sometimes without consent) and for the happiness and sexual health of your own relationship. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:44 AM
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While I agree with paternity testing after birth, I understand why someone would be upset to be in a relationship that lacks trust on a fundamental level. Men wouldn't like if their girlfriends put a tracker in their cars, or broke into their instagram account or whatever else. Even if they're not cheating, it might be disheartening to learn that your partner trust you so little. To avoid such situations, I support every child being tested at their birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:42 AM
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I'm pro paternity testing. I'm also pro sending the wife a notice if her dear husband has a child with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:40 AM
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If the desirable men don't care because they have a lot of other women throwing themselves at him, that means women don't mind being rejected either, because they have other men doing their best to get with her. It's either one or the other, or dependent on the case. Men and women aren't all that different from one another. As a woman who also dates women, I've been close to women my whole life. The desirable one don't care as much if they're rejected, unless they were really into you. The avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:34 AM
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Did they drop out or did they just not get picked? It's like saying you quit from a position you weren't even considered for. You are right, women often do that. Particularly undesirable ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:38 AM
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No one is surprised. There is no rise. The kid who won't get the cookie will seara up and down he doesnt want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:03 AM
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Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:06 PM
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You'd rather I said coochie?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:17 PM
1

Then don't complain you get no puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:17 AM
22

I think you're reading way too much into it. If someone doesn't bring value to your life, either romantic or not, why keep them there in the first place? If I open up a side business and it eats more money than it produces, why keep it open? If somebody doesn't deserve the time of day, why give it to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:16 PM
5

Why do you need to have sex someone for their company to be enjoyable? Don't you hang out with your mother? Father? Grandfather??? Nieces??? Tf???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:22 AM
1

Yeah, but if he did he wouldn't have to complain anymore. And it's easier to complain, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:21 AM
1

For the most part, yes. Pretty much all societal problems can be traced back to them. When we talk about things on a personal level, everyone is responsible for their choices. Man or woman, if no one bears their company, the issue is with the lonely person. It's cruel. But it's true. No one who is at least slightly likeable is alone. If you don't have friends or a partner that's on ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:11 AM
1

What I said was obviously an exaggeration. Carpet funnel due to too much sex isn't fun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:13 PM
1

Sorry you felt attacked. If you have sex everyday I would assume he is really sexually attracted to you (he wants to jump your bones every time he sees you)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:44 PM
2

That's true. I don't see how your statement affects mine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:06 PM
0

Aaaand thats a load of bullshit. Every healthy relationship I had, she always wanted to have sex and I also did. Sure, if I did something to piss her off or she did, maybe we would skip a day. Maybe. If you know how to get her in the mood, she will always be excited to see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:32 PM
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Woman in a relationship with a woman here. Sex is really important and if you don't want to jump your partners bones every time you see them, save them the heartache and leave. It's really selfish and downright evil to not fulfill your partners needs, expect monogamy and not let them leave either. It's literally cruel. Rejection hurts, and sex is a good way to connect and show love. Why would you deprive your partner of that? If the thought of having sex with your partner is really that daunting…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:05 AM
1

All my male family members shave once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:15 AM
0

Why can't men date their looksmatch în that case? Why is it that lately men date women who are less fortunate "looking" than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:43 AM
0

That's absolutely true. The average woman is overweight and has baggage. So do men tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:12 AM
3

No, what do they do That's evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:52 AM
8

What is evil on the women's side in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:31 AM
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Nobody is their true natural self, not even around close buddies. As for "their league", men overrate themselves and women under rate themselves. Women also have a higher dating market value. So a 6/10 dude wouldn't Match with a 6/10 girl. A 6/10 girl is actually an 8/10 girl. His match would be a 4/10 girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:24 AM
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Most men shave once a week. I remove facial hair every two weeks approx. Yours takes 10 minutes. Mine takes half an hour-an hour per session. Seems pretty fair to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:44 AM
1

Women do shave their faces or remove their facial hair with wax.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:34 AM
1

Men often admit to hooking up with ugly girls out of desperation. They will only long term date attractive women. The ugly ones are merely "practice". Or a way to get to the hottie's best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:29 AM
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If they wouldn't, they wouldn't be as attractive. That's why women have a higher market value when it comes to dating, and why they should date up. It's also why they are the ones who are being courted and not the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:14 AM
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Dude, that's the point. It's normal to feel sad ar times, it's nowhere comparable to having clinical depression. One is a terrible condition as you said, that often requires medication, while just being sad (like being alert sometimes) absolutely doesn't need medication and is totally normal. I was comparing the bullshit you were saying (being alert sometimes means you are severely mentally ill and have crippling anxiety) to acting like being sad sometimes is a condition that needs medication (h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:20 AM
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He says he doesn't get along with women that don't apply to his standards. Have whatever standards you want please. But treating others poorly because you're not attracted to them is a shitty move. You actually owe them humanity. You can literally ignore them if you wish. Just don't be cruel. That being said, I really like what this guy said. It's important to have people around that are engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:54 PM
1

-women are nice women smell nice -won't don't only think with their tip(even when they do., it's hot so it's excusable) -women understand me better -women are more empathetic -women have a better sense of style -women are smarter -women are less violent -women actually trim their nails and toenails -women wipe after they pass -women shave ass hair and keep ass clean -women give good head -foreplayforeplayforeplayforeplay -women aren't as Hairy -women don't do their best to appear masculine and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:29 PM
1

What?? No!! That's like saying that feeling sad sometimes is worthy of medication. I'm not an anxious person at all, I still get a bad gut feeling when something bad is about to go down. It isn't a duck up. If humans didn't have their gut instinct, we wouldn't have fucking survived to be here. Dude you need to stop calling me mentally ill. I never had issues with anxiety and I've seen psychiatrists. Stop acting like a know it all. Knowing when somethings shitty about to happen due to obvious sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:21 PM
1

Not nearly as much as men do, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:21 PM
3

I don't need to attract better women, I've found my lt partner. She cooks, cleans, and pays for shit. I also do. We do it out of love. However. If someone isn't willing to pay for you as a girl, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:13 PM
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She won't. She'll just find someone who's willing to do allat for her. I'm from Europe. It's common courtesy to do that for your date as a men here. Are men in the states really that shitty? Is the "splitting" for the first date real there?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:05 AM
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Anyone has the right to cut anyone off for any reason. I'm ND myself, and I don't throw tantrums when people get uncomfortable around me. If they choose to end interactions with me, I understand. Why? I care about the people around me, and I wouldn't want to be around someone that feels shitty around me. Since I'm also gay, and pretty tall, straight girls often think "I'll do something to them", even if that's not the case. I just distance myself lol. I am actually throwing you under the bus. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:59 AM
1

You ever had a friend that was suicidal and they always asked you to be there for them? Becoming their emotional dumpster in a way? Being expected to calm them down and stop them from their attempts? Let's say they aren't necessarily suicidal, but have another issue. Maybe they have problems with alcohol, gambling or rage. You're expected to not trigger them and soothe them when they do get triggered. You asked them to pick up kids from daycare once and they lose their shit. They spend over 200 …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:43 AM
2

People had to kill literal children armed with grenades in wars. Had they not killed them, their whole crew would have died. The kids weren't old enough to grow facial hair yet. Your trauma isn't a big deal either. How's that feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:38 AM
1

Why does it bother you that women express in a polite manner when they are creeped out by a dude? Does it bother you that they try to keep themselves safe? Why? Are they supposed to just shut up and be easy targets? Are any dude's feelings more important than a woman's safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:37 AM
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Ugly men still pump and dump. Look at these threads. Obviously one would rather cry over a dude that's actually worth crying over than some ugly broke bloke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:57 AM
0

It's not that she can't. She doesn't want to. Like I can make myself have an orgasm but I'd still get passed if my partner wouldn't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:53 AM
5

Yup. Good ones are always taken young. Both guys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:52 AM
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There wouldn't be. You would be reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:49 AM
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Why is it a bad thing? I literally do that for female friends I know ill never fuck. Why can't a date do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:48 AM
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It's her choice to do that, and she does it for her safety. Whenever my gut tells me something, its right. It's always about some sexual weirdo who can't respect boundaries. These weirdos are infinitely better than people who are shy, or can't pick up cues that well(I.e autistic people). Some autistic men are monsters, but most of them are harmless and I can pick up that. I think you're the one who has to grow emotionally if you think someone's feelings are more important than someone's safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:46 AM
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That's.. not necessarily a bad thing? I was taught how to think too. And while I don't always use the pattern my parents or school taught me, its often useful. You can't discover every little thing for yourself, sometimes it's useful to not have to go through trial and error everyone. And that includes dating. It's a good thing girls are taught that they should expect to be treated. A man that doesn't like you won't pay your bill. While this isn't universally true for every man, it is for the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:08 AM
1

They do something that's bad:bringing children in the world to suffer. Westerners should have more children, a population with its main demographic being elders is a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:03 PM
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Obviously the car you drive isn't important as long as it gets you safely from A to B. Having a "welfare" kid is still irresponsible. You're either lying or the kid had dumb luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:15 PM
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I don't think so. People can have whatever standards they want. If you don't like their standards, go date someone without those standards. It's just that you don't like that I'm right. Shit can't always go your way, dude. It's an objective truth. Even if their standards aren't "fair" in your eyes, there's virtually no thing you can do to change that. And it's certainly not as stupid as thinking your time of birth decides anything for you. As for "consistency", that's reaaally subjective. People…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:10 PM
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Not rich, just average. My friends often offer to pay too. It goes the same with drugs. Whoever does good with money at the time offers. If I ask my friend to come over for a line I won't hit their baggie. I'll have my own and share.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:09 PM
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Those kids don't look very happy nor healthy, no? Yes, there can always be worse. We should regardless strive to be better, as good as possible. I know dad's who literally raped their 4 year old kids. That doesn't excuse doing the bare minimum (comfortable lifestyle) as a parent. Just not being horrible won't cut it. People in Somalia also don't have access to health care, schooling (sexual education or reproductive education), and accessible contraceptive problems. Like, just because people stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:08 PM
2

Yeah, probably. I fugure it would be a good idea to let him pay but insisting you will pay for both the next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:04 PM
2

If I invited them, then ofcourse I pay. It's common courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:03 PM
0

When you like someone you'll Pay for them. Women are always advised to not date a man who won't offer to pay. And rightfully so. That's like wanting to marry a woman that won't even have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:02 PM
1

The one who asks pays. If you invite someone out, it's really bad manners to ask them to pay in full.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:01 PM
0

It's their choice. That's their standard. You're free to seek a woman that doesn't have that specific standard. Heck, you can even search for one that is willing to pay the full Bill for ya. Nobody is stopping ya .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:00 PM
1

Never been asked to split the bill when i went on dates with men, mainly because I'd never date the type of guy that would let me pay even a cent if he had it his way. When I realized I'm fucking gay I started splitting the bill and paying for things. Heck, I even enjoy paying for stuff for pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:17 PM
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The difference is that the women who shit on men say they would rather be single. You literally choose to string along someone who you don't love, but they do. That's absolutely vile and cruel. If you don't like your partner that's ok, but let them go and let them find someone who actually likes them. Don't just torture then emotionally for months, or worse, years on end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:32 AM
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Keeping "bad" women around for literally masturbatory reasons? Or how there are very few good women out there? Well where tf are the good men that want a family, don't watch porn, don't hate women, and don't pressure women into sex, don't talk shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:32 AM
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Why do you think you deserve the good women you demand if you act this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:27 AM
2

That's still a lot if you can't provide for both of them with a comfortable lifestyle (clothes for every type of weather that aren't grown out, or have holes, 3 meals a day, 10 bucks a week for them when they hang out with friends, books and note books for school, 300$ put away every month in the case of a medical emergency, hygiene supplies, their own room when they start their teen years, I could go on... )
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:44 AM
1

Why tf would you choose to torture a defenseless human being that's in your responsibility? Do you even hear what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:40 AM
0

work super hard to get to that level pimp your own girlfriends on only fans and take almost everything they make, while emotionally abusing them, threatening them and doing other vile sutff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:37 AM
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Stats on how the men don't get custody when they fight for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:24 PM
4

Women probably suffer from autism more than we think, but they're severely undersiagnosed. Under diagnosis in women and especially in girl/teenage girls is really common. The diagnosis criteria for autism in men vs in women is very different, but often times, people only know how it presents in men. Heck, even stroke signs are different in women, and most people only know the signs in men, and think they apply to women just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:53 AM
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This literally never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:32 AM
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No......
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:38 AM
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It's not a matter of true or false, I was sharing what personally bothers me. Yes, some people would regard you as creepy if you hit on 25 year Olds. I don't think women your age would have a problem with it. I don't think the guy in thebop specifically put those cars there to trap the woman. The woman was simply passing between the cars and he politely asked her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:01 AM
2

Okay??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:13 PM
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Everyone should make enough to suport themselves unless they're disables to the point they're unable, they should know how to cook simple and nutritious means, keep their space and themselves clean. Basics of being an adult. There are 0 excuses. When I was born, my mother was making significantly more than my father, so my mother returned to work shortly after I was born. My dad stayed home and took care of me for 2 Years and a half. He did a great job all around. Every family can decide for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:45 AM
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Ohh, I understand you know. Yeah, they seem to lack social awareness completely. When you tell them "hey Bud, you lack social awareness", they either tell you that Chad could lack it too and would still get laid or some other bullshit... Even if they did interpret statistics the way they were intended... 68% of women isn't all women. Every individual is different, we are growing and changing over time. What I wanted last year isn't what I want anymore. Me and even my close friends and family dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:39 AM
5

What are you saying exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:51 AM
2

Women are proven to be better communicators over all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:43 AM
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Your mom's dope. Can I have her number?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:12 AM
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If a woman has that much testosterone she probably has some health problems, or a genetic defect. Most women have healthy amounts of T, and they cheat in the same amount as men do. Maybe slightly less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:57 AM
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You mean the ones you see in movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:56 AM
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What the fuck??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:51 AM
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I want to see the stats on how tomboys understand an oath better. I also want to see how feminine people are more emotional, per as the stats say. These seem like they're "facts" you pulled out of your arse. Also, I want to see what backs up your last statement. Especially considering that men cheat slightly more. Romantic love without sexual attraction isn't love dude. It's just friendship. Yes, you can feel sexually attracted to someone without any romantic feelings, but if you want to fuck an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:49 AM
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Yes, but they have lower desire to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:47 AM
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You think wrong. Men cheat slightly more on average (like a few % more). The numbers are basically the same, unless we also take porn into account (to me personally, that's cheating)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:46 AM
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I'm pretty sure femininity is also submission to your standards, and traditional femininity standards for sure don't accept either cheating or promiscuous behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:45 AM
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Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:44 AM
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Scientology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:43 AM
1

What would those demands be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:42 AM
1

What do you want me to do? Say men are better? I clearly don't think that. Tf you want from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:08 AM
1

No personal remarks, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:53 AM
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What can men do that would "overwhelm" womens ability to create life? This whole discussion is so stupid. If you think men are superior, then more power to you bro. I'm not going to engage in this bullshit kinda debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:51 AM
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Gray zones exist dude. Yes, men are physically stronger, but that doesn't mean women aren't capable of certain physical strength. And it doesn't say anything about mental abilities either. A female weight lifter is probably stronger than you. When it comes to average, or weak women, you might be physically stronger. I'm not physically weak at all, I could probably do the same shit you do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:19 AM
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People in real life say this about people who keep moaning and complaining without doing anything to improve their situation too. These people don't deserve empathy. It's like a 30 year old dude would complain about never having money, but not looking for a job either. I have plenty of sympathy for old people who are lonely, or for people who try their best to fit in but no one accepts them. These cases are rare though. Usually when someone isn't liked at all, people have a good reason for avoid…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:01 AM
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I don't think that anyone, feminist or not ever claimed than men aren't physically stronger. It's absolutely fucking relevant. Just as relevant as a dude's physical strength differing from a woman's has anything to do with feminism(it doesnt). You being physically stronger than I am doesn't make me less capable in general, and doesn't mean you should be granted any privileges. It means that you can do specific tasks more easily than I can. That doesn't really say anything to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:40 AM
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Wanting equal legal rights is a bad thing now?? Like obviously me and my dad have the same legal rights, but I ain't gonna tell my old man to fuck off to his room..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:26 PM
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This can't be said in good faith. You also have equal rights to life with a bear, won't you be scares of you bump your nose with one in the forest while camping?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:42 PM
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Ok, they can go whine in silence, from their comfort of their own home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:44 PM
1

What does that have to do with anything? I'm quite radical and my partner still pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:19 AM
1

The person who asks pays. This include friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:56 AM
1

Op should cut his pp off and become a Troon. It's so small he could be just considered female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:48 AM
1

Slow burning your will to live, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:51 AM
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Met a total or 1 fat guy who actually dated fat women. The rest were single and hoping for a bombshell girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:59 AM
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LARPer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:52 PM
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Would rather work as a barista and get enough bucks to get by, clocking off and sucking all the cock I wanna suck than work the best years of my life off to get a diploma and a stressful job that will suck the life out of me, while my cuck husband watches tentacle hentai loli porn. I'm dead serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:47 PM
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Yeah, and those dudes still have more satisfying lives than the dorks. They get puss. They make cash. They do shit. They have friends. They won't die alone, and they won't buy AI girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:44 PM
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Newsflash! Teens literally LEARN by socializing!! Knowing the right people will help you land a job way faster than having a degree. I know so many dudes that make legit bank, are almost illiterate, and know the whole maphamond. I know dudes who sat inside and studied, got a diploma, work at macdos and they still don't get puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:41 PM
1

Nice, how's your dating life now? How was it in the past years?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:38 PM
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What is the point you're trying to make? Is there no middle ground in your pov?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:32 PM
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Sorry, I don't subscribe to the matriarchal theory. Men across history have been more violent, and violent behaviors being more present in males is true across species. There are evolutionary reasons for it. Men aren't necessarily violent towards women, more so than women are towards men, they are just more violent in general, especially towards one another. Men often don't hit women due to social backlash. If that wasn't a thing (check Islamic countries), men would beat women more often. It's j…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:39 AM
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Youd like to think, but thats not the cass. There aren't as many mentally deranged women hurting men, if there were, it would show. Women simply don't exhibit as much anti social behaviors as men do. I certainly wish there were (mugshot shawties are a different breed of hot), but there aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:23 AM
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So you want someone to miss out on their 20s, leave school behind to do Manual labour and be your wifey? Aa a (well under) average dude? What kinda pills you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:17 AM
1

Okk AAND?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:07 AM
1

Oh no! What will they do?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:06 AM
5

Ok and? Become above average then, or cope and seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:06 AM
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Not as often or as bad as women, and at least men get properly diagnosed and medicated but hey!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:19 AM
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This was really disrespectful and absolutely not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:36 AM
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You statement adds nothing to this conversation, nor does it have anything to do with what I said. No fucking way, sherlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:18 AM
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You can choose to not interact with half the planet, but I don't see the point in convincing others to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:35 AM
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Pretty sure not everyone hates females lol. He doesn't seem to hate em either. Most men will lead normal lives, get married, have children. You might too, when you grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:32 AM
1

More for the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:31 AM
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She really said that? What a bitch. Yeah, you were in the right for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:29 AM
1

Or dick her down. That also helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:28 AM
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It's amazing how this always works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:28 AM
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Outside of ugly, fat chicks, no woman gets upset that they're being hit on. At worst they'll be flattered but uninterested, or just uninterested. As long as you back off after they refuse, it's all good. I'm gay and I still don't mind being hit on, I just politely refuse. The only thing that bothers me is when they insists or think they can "change" me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:25 AM
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Stop listening to anyone who complains all the time. And stop complaining too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:23 AM
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When someone is so far gone off the plane our reality is found in, people will tell them to touch some grass and remove themselves from the echo chamber they dwell in. They tell them to interact with normal people, hoping they'll realize their twisted view of reality isn't factual or real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:23 AM
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Because they were scared of her husband going all Alakhu Akhbaru on them. My mother looked too long In the direction of a Muslim woman in Turkey and her husband started threatening us. Being older also helps. The moment I'll turn 30, men will likely leave me alone. Those dudes only like little girls. I got catcalled more when I was a teen, pizza face and chubby cheeks than I do now, that I'm fully grown, good posture, clear skin, chiseled face, mature looking woman. There's a difference between …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:21 AM
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Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:45 AM
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I'm 100% for paternity tests at birth, and notifying someone's wife if their husband got someone else pregnant. That way we end paternity fraud. I also think men should be able to choose if they want to raise the kid or not, regardless if it's theirs or they found out it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:36 AM
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Not if you hook them on hard drugs!! I did stupid shit when I was young. A few of my friends (we were all underage) got into sex trafficking. They thought the pimp that gave them lean every once in a while was their pal/business buddy. This dude was also pimping Roma girls, like picking them up from the street and selling them. A lot of romani girls didn't even have birth certificates. The chances of me meeting this dude was very fucking low, and it still happened. I was lucky to have friends lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:39 AM
1

Yeah, because they'll tell you right up. They genuinely don't have any reason to be scared!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:32 AM
-4

So redpilled dudes and dudes with 0 common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:09 AM
-2

OMFG sorry we don't lose sleep over that fact that you are unlovable for some reason! I'll put a xxxtentacion song on my way to work this morning in the honor of your misery, your highness!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:04 AM
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Not really. It just sounds like she think red pilled dudes are annoying and constantly acting like pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:03 AM
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It actually means he has a personality that can be compared to a pair of pants that someone shat in. But ofcourse it's easier to believe people just hate you due to a characteristic you can't really change than one that's easier to change. The latter takes effort. The first one probably gives you mental permission to bitch and moan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:00 AM
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The truth being that different people have different opinions and perspectives?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:55 AM
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I wasn't talking about women right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:48 AM
1

After I've met you, I started having my doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:54 PM
0

Then you don't get bitches. Life sucks lol. You don't have to dress like a teenager, or show your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:04 AM
1

Business casual sucks dude. Unless you try na pick up someone's grandma
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:54 AM
1

Women did their best to get to the privileged place they are in, and to stay in it. It also took work. They did it to themselves, for themselves. Moreover, men's complains are over literal biology. Women won't often find fat men attractive. There's virtually 0 way to make it fair. Men won't like women that are too tall, have ugly noses, or a bad bone structure. Women in poverty will remain in poverty. Not finding a partner isn't a good thing to complain about, because there's nothing anyone can …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:26 AM
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I don't see how this is relevant to our discussion at all. Like I wasn't born into wealth, so if I want to own anything of value, or have some money to retire/leave my children with something, I'll have to work my ass off. Life is unfair. Not everyone will get a partner, and quite frankly not everyone deserves a partner in the first place. So many variables in life are based on pure luck. You can live a significant life without a partner. And you can still find a partner while fat, or better yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:21 AM
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However it is, it's really close. Not a significant difference. The difference is that men complain far more about fat women than men so about fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:11 AM
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That's precisely what these dudes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:42 AM
-1

Actually, men are overweight in slightly higher percentages than women are, which makes no sense since women's bodies are biologically programmed to store slightly more fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:40 AM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:39 AM
2

Bro has 0 drip. Who the fuck even wears polos anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:39 AM
2

Yeah, then we'll go bald so dudes like you can further hate on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:19 AM
3

Do you know nothing about basic fucking biology? That sponge would be a perfect breeding ground for bacteria, and you want women to insert that crap in a crevice that literally leads inside of them? How would you properly sanitize a sponge? Why do you think you're advised to change the sponge you use for your body every 2 weeks? Way to get an east infection and spend a couple hundred $ on medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:18 AM
4

No one commenting on it =/= no one noticing it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:16 AM
1

Yeah, yeah we are all terrible, we should crawl in a hole and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:11 AM
8

Beauty products, clothes, house appliances, hygiene products...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:06 AM
12

Takes two to have and raise a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:55 AM
3

Source: some red pilled guy on YouTube said so. He doesn't have any basis, he just hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:14 AM
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Ok, looks like you still don't get it. I know plenty of lesbians who are feminine. Me and my partner are very feminine. Some lesbians choose to be more masculine. Other lesbian are simply more attracted to a bit of masculinity on their women. You remember the muscle mommy trend? Or how a lot of dudes like tomboys? It's the same thing. People have differences in tastes and how they choose to express themselves, what they're attracted to. You absolutely don't have to be feminine to be attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:12 AM
1

I was clearly exaggerating. It's annoying that I would even have to clear that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:07 AM
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AND THEY STILL COMPLAIN ABOUT BEING LONELY. The amount of male friends I had to drop because all they asked was why I was drowning in puss and they werent is astonishing. Not only were they an objective 3/10, they would go for the hottest girl in the neighborhood that had prospects left and right, while doing 0 effort to meet new people, socialize, get a fucking hobby, a good dressing sense, a gym membership and a fucking haircut. Nada. Nothing. The kicker? They were rejecting girls who looked n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:09 PM
3

Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:00 PM
5

Source: I said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:59 PM
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If men love femininity too why aren't THEY feminine? Your question is nothing short of retarded. I love salads and I'm still not a carrot. I love literature and I'm not a writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:59 PM
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All those statistics show is that women swipe on someone they find attractive, while men will swipe on anyone that's not Fat. They would fuck anything. That's not a good thing anymore than being selective is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:53 PM
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I had a great laugh about this with my dad. I invite him over for coffee just to show him this crap. These people are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:38 PM
0

Not really highly likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:10 AM
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No, it's not. It's on their schedule, they do it when they're both in the mood. It's not her fault he wants more sex than she does. You make her sound like the bad guy over it, instead of the dude just grabbing life by the balls and looking for a partner that's sexually compatible with him. It's not. Most women my age (18-25) have high libido. Multiple times a day type of thing. Women often crave longer sessions, with more time between them. Men prefer significantly shorter sessions, with less t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:20 AM
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Yeah! This reminds me of a survey over male victims of domestic physical abuse. They were asked if their partner ever hit them. A playful slap on the butt is still technically a hit. Doesn't make them abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:16 AM
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Me and my girlfriend playfully slap eachother. The surveys mentioned above would consider this abuse. It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:08 AM
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I surely as fuck won't. If I wanted that, I'd just talk to myself and masturbate. I love My partner for what she is. We grow through disagreements and fights. We take care of each other. We learn together. She has her own will. She accepts and cherishes me, while still keeping Mr "on my toes". She pushes me to be my best version. She has wants and needs I can fulfill. I always seek to make her happy. I couldn't do all that with a robot. Most healthy people are like this. I don't want a slave tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:43 AM
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Women don't resent men as a whole. Sure, they might resent men who deserve it, or losers. But that's human nature. They don't resent normal, healthy men who mind their own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:37 AM
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Projection of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:36 AM
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She didn't. She clearly said that only men who bother women are pests. Not every man bothers women, not every 40 year dude leaves comment and dms to underage girls on Instagram, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:36 AM
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Women are either crazy, weirdo misandrists or social media thots and attention seeking whores. When robo bitches come, you will all be worthless!!111!! Pot meet kettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:28 AM
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This right here^
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:23 AM
2

Gacha gaming was for 12 year Olds to make cheesy stories on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:54 AM
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Someone accepting you as a dating partner is valuable for the sole reason of ego. Humans need other humans to accept them in their space. It's the feeling of being chosen, loved and important. It's about having some sort of value that got you chosen in the first place. AI doesn't have that. Ai doesn't choose. Can't say yes or no. Doesn't have any desire for you. It's just a program offering already programmed responses. That's it. If you replaced every sort of social contact you have with AI, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:47 AM
0

Studies often don't have fool proof logic either. Do people who are in happy relationships occupy their time doing surveys and shit, or do they do something else? Lesbians aren't really accepted everywhere, they sure aren't in my country, neither are we recognized all that much. None of the lesbians I know (to my knowledge) ever participated in such studies or surveys. I know (and you also dont) know shit about the sample size, of how the study was conducted, what the accuracy was, if the couple…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:25 AM
1

My experience has been vastly different. I have no reason to deny my own experience credibility, due to obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:13 AM
1

Men don't adore femininity, men adore what society tells them to adore. Men will never have the level of passion or love that lesbians have towards women, and they'll never appreciate femininity the way we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:03 AM
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Depends on what those sexual needs are. He expects to have sex at least twice a week, that's pleasurable for both of them and not painful for her? Absolutely reasonable. Everyday, hard pounding, painal, skull fucking+deep throating, rubbing his balls on her face, Cumming in her eye, and orgies every week? Not that reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:54 AM
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Their marriages has deeper issues. If your partner is never in the mood, that's an issue you need to work on together. If they're just never in the mood, no matter what you do, then they aren't attracted to you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:48 AM
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Access to someone else's body isn't, and should never be a right. You absolutely have the right to leave a relationship if you're sexually unsatisfied, and I'll always support people who do that, but sex isn't a right. How would that even look like? Forcing people to have sex with each other? How we decide who has sex with who? It's all fucked up to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:45 AM
1

Why is using sex as a reward a bad thing? It can be playful and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:43 AM
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It isn't on "her" schedule. He can also absolutely say no. Me and my partner have an agreement to not say no unless there's something wrong physically/we just fought really bad (although there are exceptions on this one lol, a good hate fuck can really release tension), and this agreement works for us. Don't get into a relationship with someone who has a significantly higher or lower libido than you do. Guilt tripping someone who doesn't want it isn't the way. You'll feel bad, since you're havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:41 AM
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My experience with lesbian dating has been different than what you've described. It's sex everyday, multiple tines a day, until we both get sore. Straight women also tend to talk a lot about sex with their friend group. My theory is that straight women don't show their sexual side to just any dude, for a number of reasons. I won't get into them, because I'll just get hit with "muh chad" comments, and I won't argue with a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:05 AM
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Was I not clear?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:47 AM
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Ehh, I feel like when women aren't unhappy, stressed,and feel desire/desired and sexually satisfied, they get even hornier than men do. That's my experience anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:08 PM
2

Ok, then stay away from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:52 PM
0

You have to get your priorities straight then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:15 PM
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Very interesting. Thank you for the insight, op. Best wishes to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:15 PM
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Has it ever dawned on you that unsatisfying, abusive, or dead bedroom relationship, will make someone unhappy? And the only way to solve that crap is literally leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:10 PM
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Are people supposed to just suffer in unhappy marriages then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:05 PM
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Spouse alimony is given very, very rarely in our days. In cases when it's given, it's necessary. Sometimes people give up their career and schooling to raise your offspring and wash your dirty socks. They can't really explain the gaps in their resume after that. Basically they give their life away for you, and in certain scenarios, it isn't fixable. If you expect the mother of your kids to work(please don't get married unless you trust your partner enough to not believe they will divorce you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:03 PM
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I am very curious over what the expectations would be for op. Like, what he expects, what exactly bothered him in his past relationships and what his culture expects of him. Op, could you please share this with us? I'm genuinely interested
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:49 PM
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You mean.. there aren't unlimited single available and dateable men in one city? Idk about you dude, but in most cities, everyone knows everyone. That's why people warn themselves. Dudes do the same thing. You mean the incels who hate women or the incels who thinks being polite and treating other fellow humans as.. well. . . Fellow fucking humans means he is owed sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:46 AM
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Lots of women who abort are married and already have children. Are two married people supposed to succumb to abstinence after their 2nd child? Why are abortions bad anyway? Why are you against homosexual relationship if obviously they lower the chance of unwanted pregnancies, single mothers and abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:44 AM
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Men do have higher rates of stds, they are just dormant/they don't show as much symptoms. Men are still the no 1 spreader of stds. As for your marital bed, vanilia, 20 sec missionary bullshit, fuck no. You don't get to tell others how to fuck least they specifically ask you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:39 AM
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Yeah yeah, women are all horrid. Concentrate on something else please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:33 AM
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So your perspective is the universal truth? Assumed why? If men struggle with dating and finding girlfriends, it would only make sense that they would push for monogamy, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:24 AM
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Maybe if she's mentally unstable or has an incredibly low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:11 AM
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She wasn't "used" as a sex toy, she was a sexual partner to other people. Yknow, normal people tend to have sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:10 AM
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So, you can use YOUR personal experience as universal truth and undeniable proof, but when we do it, we are "autists"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:09 AM
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Is this some fanfic you wrote the same say 5th graders doodle their "mean" math's teacher dying on their note books? Even if that crap was true, why would it be "a lose lose situation"? They get fucked, you don't. What do you get out if this? A "gotcha" moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:07 AM
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I feel like getting paid the right amount, or having easy access to education is a tad bit more important than having someone to empty your balls in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:05 AM
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I genuinely don't give a crap, and I never said I hated men. I have the right to do whatever it takes to keep myself safe, and ill give my opinions over yall when asked. Grow a pair and deal with it, not everybody will like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:29 AM
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It's not women's Intuintion, it's called having common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:28 AM
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I don't see what's wrong with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:02 PM
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The Pepper spray won't really help, you have to point exactly to their eyes which is hard, and you have to be at a good distance so she doesn't also blind herself. If the wind blows in her direction, it will be even worse. I recommend getting her a tazer instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:53 PM
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I'm seriously worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:28 PM
2

This! The easiest and the most telling sign
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:57 PM
2

I simply just do. Their behaviour and actions tell them apart. There is no point in my life where I went to a person I recognized as a druggie, asked if they knew a guy, and they said that they don't actually do drugs. Drug users will always recognize each other. So will gay people. I was never wrong about a bitch being gay. I recognize gay bitches long before they even know they're gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:39 PM
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Why do women claim otherwise then? Why does porn cause dead bedrooms then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:37 PM
0

LMAOOOOOOOOOOO Women are all horrible harlots and dishonest pieces of shit, am I right fellas? LOOOOOOOOOOOOL :|
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:35 PM
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They do, just with different insecurities. I refused to be sexual for a good chunk of my teenage years because I didn't like how my vulva looked. It looks absolutely fucking normal, but insecurity runs deep. I was also ashamed that I had a pretty big difference between my boobs' sizes. Then it was the light stretch marks on my boobs and butt(normal for someone who is in active physical development). Then it was the light acne I got for a little while on my breasts and butt. Then some other shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:22 PM
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Women don't want to be chosen for their "personality" dude, in the same manner a guy wouldn't want that. Your friends choose you for your personality, YOUR partner is supposed to be attracted to YOU. And it genuinely hurts when they aren't. Men are extremely picky over bodies, and IT SHOWS. Look at the porn they watch, the women they turn their heads after. The only reason they have sex with women with "undesirable" bodies is because otherwise they wouldn't have sex at all. It's due to sheer des…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:04 PM
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Lots of those girls are trafficked, or groomed into the industry before the day they turn 15. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:43 PM
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Really? I don't fucking think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:42 PM
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The answer is banning porn altogether. Not only are there studies that suggest a strong link between watching porn and an increase in sexual violence and erectly disfunction, it also makes men more depressed, fucks up relationships, created body issues and it runs on human trafficking. Not only are the women trafficked, but the male actors are so drugged that they develop ed in their fucking early thirties. It's all a crock of shit all around, aside from the men who own these business and make c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:40 PM
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Again, you can smell them from a mile away. Behaviour. What they talk about. How they act around women. How they talk about them. Their view on women overall. You can tell who is a female rapist too. Met a few of those sorry asses. You can absolutely tell. Shoplifters recognize each other by behaviour too. I'm a shop lifter. I recognize my kind. Just like I recognize people who do drugs. Or people that manipulate and take advantage of others. I'm never wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:24 PM
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Humans don't "pair bond". Humans are able to bond with up 167 other humans. Now, how do we know this? That's the most Numerous historical communities we found. We did studies. Anymore than that, you can't really bond as well. Every single one of them stopped before 168 beds. People can't remember more than 170 people, and maintain a relationship with them. You can bond through things other than sex, too. You might have stranger bonds with people you didn't have sex with than with people who actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:03 PM
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The way they act. If you talk to them they will literally admit to assaulting women, ignoring their boundaries or forcing consent. They won't actively confess to holding down and raping someone, but they will confess attempting rape. You don't have to hold someone down and rape them to be a complete weirdo. No one in their right mind would talk to someone they just met about overtly sexual topics, especially since I clearly look underage. Men acted like this with me while I was legally underage,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:02 AM
1

I don't mind closeness, as long as they don't literally breathe on my neck or on my forhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:31 AM
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Most women genuinely don't mind being respectfully asked out, like this guy did. I don't have an issue with it either. The issue arises only when they don't back off when I tell then I'm not interested, and they insist. Genuinely only 3 guys that were interested in me backed off when I told them I don't share their interest. One of them even became a good friend of mine and I appreciate his respect towards me as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:45 AM
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In person. Semi religious, not conservative at all. I don't see the point of talking about men's behaviour online, due to obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:42 AM
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Ok, what is she supposed to do? Are you going to force her to interact with men or what? Why is someone not interacting with you so offensive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:48 AM
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All the women I know have at least 5 bad experiences with guys. That's a lot. I don't know many homophobes who have had even 1 bad experience with a gay person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:47 AM
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What exactly do you mean? Exposure therapy is rarely used today, mainly due to how its very ineffective. What do you suppose the professionals do? Send war veterans in Ukraine? Expose women who were raped when they were little girls to What? Why wouldn't it be ok for these women to fear men? Why do you care so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:46 AM
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In my experience, you can always tell that somethings off about them. They'll have that psycho look in their eye, the will talk about inappropriate subjects shortly after meeting you, they'll look at you weird. They won't respect boundaries, they might touch you or make comments about your body. They will insist when you reject to go somewhere with them. They will insist that you drink some alcohol. I personally can really tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:41 AM
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Sadly I've met more improper men than proper. The sad thing is that, these men are lonely. And the fact that they're so outwardly sexual will only make them more lonely. This kind of behaviour is just a human repeller.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:38 AM
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Yeah, you are right. It would only make sense. Having every male mate from any species would be disastrous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:38 AM
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Women who don't fit the beautiful standard also have the energy around them. You over analyze so much you lose the whe point. Women evolved to be attractive and men evolved to find them attractive. Gay people also evolved to find their gender attractive to reduce over population and for plenty of other reasons. It all has a logical explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:55 PM
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Women naturally evolved to be beautiful. There is something absolutely mesmerizing about women and femininity. Most men won't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:46 PM
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Women are also centered around sex, and they also want it. Sex isn't bad. Lying is. If your marriage or relationship lacks it, run.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:20 PM
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No, I'm not talking about that, but the fact that 45% of women have the same income or higher than their partners, leaving 55% of men being the ones that earn more than their female partners. It's literally just a 5% disparity until 50/50. Men usually make more money because they work more hours, and they work jobs that are more difficult/sought after. Again, I don't think so. I don't have a grim view on the world, and especially not on women. I've met almost nothing but genuine women my whole l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:59 AM
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I don't think so. Men tend to make more anyways, that might cause the 5% disparity. Plenty of mothers work. No, I don't think so. Very little men are very shallow, and even less women are. All the people around me seem to be genuinely in love. Redpill dudes are another story. By the way you describe it, men seem to be really shallow (in your pov) and women not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:39 AM
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Women make their own money, so in the past that might have been the case, but not so much now. In fact, 45% of women either make more or just as much as their partner. Moreover, if women have so many options, they could choose someone who they also really like, but is also financially stable. Men don't offer financial stability unless they make 7 figures a year and the woman makes 12 k a year, or if they are a housewife. Otherwise, you both contribute to the financial stability of the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:31 AM
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Why would women be with someone that is in a relationship with them simply due to lack of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:21 AM
1

What's the difference if you don't mind me asking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:01 AM
0

No woman has said that about a 1ns, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:01 AM
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Look, some men will always just despise women. It's how it is. You can bring over mountains of evidence, they are so warped they can't be convinced. Even the biggest hoes in my town didn't have a bc over 8. Girls don't lie to other girls about that shit. We tell each other everything. I'm not judgemental, there's no reason to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:52 AM
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If they can't take responsibility for their own addictions and other issues, and they blame it on others, they were losers on low consciousness from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:09 AM
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Men, mainly because they are big losers with inflated egos. (Not every dude, just the ones that specifically have trouble with dating)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:06 AM
0

Men are also willing to put up to abuse if she's Stacy. In all seriousness now, men also choose abusive partners if they had been abused in the past/their childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:43 AM
1

Again, women who were ABUSED IN THE PAST. ABUSED IN THE PAST, RIGHT? GOT IT? Are way more likely to CHOOSE ABUSIVE PARTNERS AGAIN.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:43 AM
1

Women get raped way more dude. Just get over it. Either we believe the stats fully or we don't. Over 90% of female victims don't report either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:16 PM
2

Abide from being abused by a family member before I even started primary school, I was 9 :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:38 AM
8

I'm laughing my ass of at this. You can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:37 AM
2

It's actually 1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:58 AM
0

Physical attraction is literally romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:18 PM
1

Oh sorry, I thought you were one of those dudes bashing women for not marrying the first guy they dated. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:39 PM
-1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:13 AM
6

Ok, why do you think that victims of abuse usually seek out abusive partners? Why do you think that people who are abused in their childhoods get into abusive relationships when they're adults? Why do you think that a woman's chance to be abused rises significantly if she was abused in the past? WHY DO ABUSED PEOPLE SEEK ABUSIVE PEOPLE IN HIGHER NUMBERS THAN NORMAL, HEALTHY PEOPLE?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:26 AM
1

Again, please find a fucking study that doesn't only poll already traumatized women. Please for the love of God. You aren't helping your case. A wide jaw doesn't mean that person is necessarily violent, and neither testosterone. You aren't inherently violent, that's an excuse. Yeah, women like strong dudes. My girlfriend probably chose me because I'm tall and muscular. Some people just eat up that shit. Social conditioning Is also a thing. We are taught what to find attractive. Both men and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:23 AM
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Doesn't matter. When someone talking about their gender being sexually harassed more often, you don't go "it happens to boys too". Like yeah, women also suffer work accidents, but it's nowhere as bad or as often as it happens to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:21 AM
0

Are women just supposed to wait for your specific arrival, as if you were the 2nd coming of the christ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:17 AM
4

Wanting sex with someone isn't the issue. Insisting on it, not accepting a no, or going after underage girls is rapist behavior. I have no issue with men hitting me up. It actually flatters me. My problem is when they won't leave me the fuck alone after I tell them that I'm gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:16 AM
2

Your source was of already abused women, not healthy, non traumatized women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:15 AM
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So women who are literally traumatized prefer men who cause harm? Tell me more! It's almost like it's common fucking sense that traumatized people won't think clearly, and will search the "comfort" of being abused. Also, both men and women are just as attracted by dark traid traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:14 AM
3

Ok, and? We weren't talking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:10 AM
2

That's exactly how we feel when we read q4m posts dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:07 AM
0

Wiminz bad!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:06 AM
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Lock down lasted 2 years. Get over yourself. Also, they didn't really stay home. In my town they surely didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:24 PM
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America isn't the only country. Maybe they lie about the number being higher. Either we argue in good faith and based on logic, either we go apeshit and pull things out if our asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:30 PM
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Zoomers are the least sexually and socially active generation since the golden generation. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:02 PM
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What given you that impression? Your hated over women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:57 PM
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These "kids" ask for explicit photos of other kids, and then share them around. Of they watch women being drugged and physically abused for their own arousal. No one over the age of 14 is a kid, and no one thinks 14 year Olds and below are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:15 AM
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Nothing that works for women would work for men, because the highest insult to a man would be treated like a woman or associated with "Feminine activities "
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:53 AM
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Men at least get appropriate medication for their issues and get properly diagnosed. Women don't get that. They in fact only test on male rats. Women suffer from depression and anxiety at higher rates than men, they are way less likely to seek help, and if they do, they often get their concerns brushed off or get misdiagnosed. They also harm themselves at higher rates. Men's mental health is doing good, in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:53 AM
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What about the victim's mental health? Is she supposed to just shut up and seethe in silence about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:50 AM
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Men aren't vulnerabile. They're grown adults and physically strong. Past the age of 20 absolutely no one is vulnerable, and they shouldn't be coddled, unless they're retarded mentally or physically disabled. They deserve protection under the law and shit, but they don't need to get coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:48 AM
7

"Why do you want to date someone who is well adjusted and has a suport net and is well socialized over all" How do you suppose she would find you if she only ever talks to other women? If I were to look for a girlfriend, I wouldn't hang out with the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:01 AM
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The average body count for women is around 5. What are you ramblimg about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:53 AM
-4

This is my only account. I forgot the password to my old one and don't have access to the email attached to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:15 AM
28

Said the dude who has a boner for revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:41 AM
16

Not an aging woman here. Again, you're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:39 AM
0

I just explained to you that altruism is literally a built in feature. Its an evolutionary characteristic. We work the same. We are the same species. We use the same brain. I literally said people's personalities and behaviors differ. Selfish people work the same as you and me. They just developed selfishness as a survival mechanism, often due to scarcity in childhood, or other issues. Selfish people are often just selfish with YOU, not with their "tribe" (or people they care about). Those who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:23 AM
7

My experience with women is vastly different to yours. I could go on for hours over what women bring to the table, but you likely just don't appreciate these things or notice them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:15 AM
2

Yes, relationships should bring you overall more happiness. However, things absolutely always going your way isn't additive. That's just.. having an AI partner. Even my dogs has his own wishes and doesn't listen to me all the time, and I feed that motherfucker, wipe his ass and feet, wash him and pick up his shit. And I still respect the fact that he won't always want what I want. I often do things I'm not in the mood to do for my partner. Like, if I'm not horny the moment she is, I try to get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:12 AM
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My mother and father literally have nothing in common. They've been married over 20 fuckikg years, HAPPILY. They go on walks, and have outings with friends. My father plays pool with his homes and my mother does fucking prananadi. They still fuck. They still spend time together. All of their friends use them as the couple blue print. They still have pet names after 30 years of knowing each other and dating each other. They are affectionate and considerate. My dad is a weed smoker and my mother b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:56 AM
7

You are making yourself very miserable, and her too. Why not just be alone then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:42 AM
5

Why date women then? What's the point??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:38 AM
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Humans absolutely do work the same dude, unless they're ill in some way, physically or mentally. Yeah, we have different tastes and preferences, different personalities and perspectives and experiences that shape us, but we literally all work the same. We have the same brain structure, our brains release feel good chemical when certain things happen. We all have the same basic needs and for the most part, the same desires. You don't have to tell me dude. I do things for others. It's transactiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:05 AM
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Humans don't work that way. They definitely treat others in a nice way with a reason :to also be treated like that. That doesn't mean I expect every favour back from my partner, but since I've got their back and do my best to make them happy, I also expect effort. If they don't offer that, I detach and leave. When there's a condition, transactionality exists. "I treat you nice so you treat me nice". It's as simple as that. Romantic love is just sexual attraction and attachment. Sexual attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:16 PM
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So that love isn't conditional, the person has to meet certain criteria. Heck, even not being violent is a fucking criteria. Being a member of your preffered gender is a criteria. Why is "transactional" wrong? My criteria for my partner is putting effort in our relationship, stating faithful, keeping personal hygiene, and a long list of others. They also have criteria for me that's pretty similar. Without these, our love would exist. I would love them if they beat me. I wouldn't love them if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:02 PM
2

Sure Bud. I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:22 PM
2

It isn't an issue în my country, though it's terrible that this would happen anywhere. Are you glad that this is happening? Do you think death is an appropriate punishment? What did half the population do to deserve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:22 PM
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Jee, I wonder why she did that! Did you also tell her that she's horrible, like all of those others of her kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:39 PM
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Jee, I wonder why she did that! Did you also tell her that she's horrible, like all of those others of her kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:39 PM
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I have no words. I'll prepare for my damned fate, I'm really curious what on earth I'll feap and what I dared to sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:14 PM
3

If everywhere you go it stinks like shit, check your shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:23 PM
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Half the population is incapabile of empathy. How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:16 PM
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Entertainment and mental stimulation. You probably wouldn't want a partner that literally can't carry a conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:44 AM
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No, Its absolutely transactional. To get to the point of loving someone so you want the other to be happy, you definitely have some requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:43 AM
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Reread my comment please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:23 PM
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Yeah, the aging population problem will really come bite us in the ass. The only solution imo would be getting rid of capitalism. We do have an idea over why people aren't having kids anymore. THE FUCKING ECONOMY. THE STATE OF THE WORLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:35 AM
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Where I live, Roma people cause lots of issues. Not all of them, just the majority. I understand that they don't have homes and that they're socially discarded, but they put me and other civilians in danger. They steal, often hitting people in their head to steal their belongings. They get violent. They literally shit on the middle of the street. They litter every fucking where. They harass people over not giving them money or cigarettes. They thrash public places. They spit. They are loud and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:41 AM
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Please, lay it low with the personal remarks. I did read your whole comment, actually. It didn't change much. Now for my question, do you have any idea over why I don't go around calling connections with half the population*** (men) meaningless?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:02 AM
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I don't have to read your whole little rant. I don't go around speaking volumes about how male friendships would be absolutely meaningless to me, and since I'm also gay, I don't see a point in interacting them at all. Can you take a wild guess on why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:00 PM
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Projected by whom? Your imagination? Thought single mothers were on the raise. What's happening here, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:57 PM
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Those women are a minority and you are just bringing them up to create a strawman. Truth is that women don't only want top notch men, and the average man is often enough. They're completely ok with their partner being the same level as them or maybe even lower. You have to accept the fact that you have a confirmation bias, and that you also rate men way more highly than you should. Oh and by the way, there are way more insecure or socially unaware guys than you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:07 PM
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Women without children often didn't have them due to health reasons... that's very sad and I don't think you should comment on it, especially in this manner. To be quite frank, I find it a little cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:50 PM
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I don't need to read any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:31 PM
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"What would you gain from friendship wi-" Friendship. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:32 PM
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Interesting. How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:48 AM
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Ok, let me retaliate. Don't take everything word for word. Don't be her beasties, but definitely be friendly and relaxed. You can't act like in Turkish dramas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:37 AM
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Nah, not autistic men in general, just you. I met a dozen of yall in my lifetime, as far as I know. 11 of them were sweethearts. Blind people don't complain all the fucking time. They kindly ask for help once and if you don't help them they fuck off. It also takes 1 minute, 3 tops to help them. The mai point is, they aren't a pain in the ass, and helping them as an actual solution. Not just... whatever you want from society as a whole. Physically disabled people aren't a pain in the ass either. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:52 PM
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This is the first thread that actually makes me wanna delete reddit altogether. I swear to God, this shit was entertaining before. Now I feel like I'm "debating" with sea monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:01 PM
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... sigh Ok, this is tiring. If you know every possible outcome, why don't you fucking use the one that works and stop complaining about it? You don't have to act FULLY platonic. You gotta have fucking game and common sense. Even eye contact works at first. Touch her hand or something, ask if she wants a piggy back ride, shit like this. I feel like I'm talking to middle schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:00 PM
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No??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:58 PM
0

Ohh, got it now. Didn't know that. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:58 PM
1

A strange dude (he wasn't strange, just a stranger) saved me and my mother at the sea side from drowning, risking his life in the process. I was very young then. I knew how to swim pretty well from a young age, and my mother was a great swimmer. We ventured too far and the currents started pulling us in, very strongly. A middle aged dude saw us struggling and pulled us out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:38 PM
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Yes. They have sex on first dates, AFTER CHATTING FOR DAYS OR EVEN WEEKS. And after spending upwards of 3 hours together. AND AFTER MEETING ON A SITE THATS SPECIFICALLY FOR HOOKUPS. Are you even serious? Growing on someone is literally the best way of finding a partner. That's what normal people mostly do. Even online, outside of sites specifically for dating. That's what they do. The bond with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:33 PM
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Pretty much so. Like, the main point is to have fun and meet people. If you socialize and have fun, you will bind with people. Sexual tension will form with some of those people. It's so annoying that I have to explain every little detail to them. It's like they're aliens or lived under a rock. If a random dude came and started acting like beasties with them, saying how now they're best friends and shit, proposing sleep overs and making birthday plans, in the first 20 minutes of meeting each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:32 PM
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Ok, how do you think romantic interest grows??? How do you think sexual tension grows??? Is it not though friendly interactions at the start? I've never walked up to a girl and told her "let's have sex". I did greet her if she smiled at me, I did pay her a compliment, ask her questions to get to know her. By the end of the night we were making out. Why can't yall just... treat them normally at first? What is it that's not clear to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:28 PM
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He could get an AI girlfriend or something. Then, he would get the responses and behaviours he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:22 PM
3

Date ND women then. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:15 PM
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Humans don't have clear rules. I'm 100% sure half of you have some neurodivengence. That would explain why you won't let it go that people don't work in percentages, and that they're different. Just. Please. Read the room. This is 100% the best dating advice (and socialization advice for that matter) READ. THE. ROOM.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:03 PM
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Why would you even date someone who you don't know??? Why don't they just go hiking with this women a few times, then let it escalate? You know, ACTUALLY GET TO KNOW HER AS A PERSON, SINCE YOU ARE LOOKONG FOR A PARTNER, WHICH IS A SERIOUS THING?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:00 PM
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No. Actually fucking no. Act like you want to make friends. Even going to concert works. Just fucking talk to people. Are yall socially handicapped or what???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:58 PM
-1

Ahh sorry. Why would you travel to America though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:29 PM
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That's true for women too, for teachers and students and parents, bosses and workers in the office, etc. I could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:55 AM
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Most women don't know/believe that most men are misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:55 AM
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Yes they are. I've noticed that most "redpilled men" (not the actual OG redpill that's about self improvement, I mean the hypergamy, 20/80 bullshit) , are single in droves. You know who's almost always not single tho? The men who have lots of straight girl buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:58 AM
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You live in the USA? Ahh that explain a bunch. Couldn't date the bitches there if I were paid to do so either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:48 AM
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Why is that? If both the undesirable guy and the desirable guy have the same mindset, why not choose the hot guy? I understand why the choice would have been mocked if the undesirable guy had a better view on women overall, but since he doesn't, why is the choice mocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:42 AM
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You're saying that all men (or the majority of men), are inherently misogynistic? In what way exactly do you view women? I'm just trying to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:40 AM
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If someone viewed me solely as an object, and there would be no other way (there is), I would rather that the person was at least attractive and not unbearable to fuck. If you could only date gold diggers, I would guess you would be at least dating the most attractive one you could get, if being alone wouldn't suffice to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:35 AM
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Usually unattractive people (like, severely unnatractive) struggle in the dating scene. I feel like it's a competent assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:33 AM
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This ^ With elderly, lonely women, the general response is maybe chit chatting with them for a few minutes or carrying the heavy stuff for them if they're disabled and struggling. No one loses sleep thinking of them, and they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:31 AM
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I highly doubt that you are in fact like that. You are worthy of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:29 AM
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I feel like you wouldn't have considered them anyway. There's a reason why they need to resort to IA partners, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:28 AM
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Women don't need to self reflect over someone else's problems. If I see a homeless dude on the street, I reflect over my past actions because obviously I'm not at fault. I'm not obligated (morally or otherwise) to bring him home, clothe and feed him, or let him sleep in the bed that me and my partner sleep in. Yes, his situation is very sad and i can offer sympathy and a bought meal, but that's as far as it will go. I very much also feel threatened by the homeless dude, because in my area they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:24 AM
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Yes, I do. Again, you don't get to decide how attracted someone is to you. It's clear from your comments that you imply that not giving it up early means lack of attraction. That simply isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:45 AM
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That's.. not always the case. As I said. Some are shy, some have bad past experience. You have the right to reject then on the basis of lack of sex. You don't get to announce how they feel, nor decide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:42 AM
1

Or those grown ass men dming obviously underaged girls...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:37 AM
2

Actually, women tend to do worse financially after a divorce. Men also tend to get married and have children after the divorce more often, and they do if sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:32 AM
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Especially if she cooks for you, or does small things like tying your laces or gets up to get you water even if she sits comfortably. Sex us important too, but some people prefer to wait. After all, it's important who stays after he can't get an errection too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:29 AM
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All girls are different though. Some are just really shy or afraid to come off as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:27 AM
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It's just fun, but in a disturbing way. The same way that sub with people who were paranoid about the government spying on them through birds was, or how meth subreddits are also extremy funny. In short, I enjoy the deranged content.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:58 PM
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I don't think wanting to live on your own in 15mp is that big of a deal. Again. Get your priorities straight. These people could have a hundred different reasons for living alone. 40 million are also rookie numbers. We have over 150 million people who are homeless. And I fully believe the number is much higher. People in Japan literally live in computer rooms. Those services were used by the homeless people so often (literally just a room with a pc) that they also started offering food and showe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:51 PM
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Lmao that sounds too complicated. All I had to do was have boobs, be a good cook, be tall, have a wolf cut and a piercing. Also be a good pussy eater. And acted like a sociopath. In all seriousness now, self improvement is not complicated at all, and it kinda comes naturally in humans. I fully believe that some people are just broken, or sick. That's why they refuse to do something and they just complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:47 PM
1

Yeah, and you also worsen climate change when you fart. Let's get our priorities straight, and stop multi billion dollar companies that polute in a month (each and every single one of them) more than 8 billion people at once would per year. Rich dudes building extremely expensive houses and taking up space where more modest living places could be built, and landlords who own 117 properties and raise the rent every month seem the issue, not that one dude who just wants a cheap rent but also can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:33 PM
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The og redpill was literally about self improvement, in order to attract more/better partners. That's what you described there. This "hyoergamy/chad/divorce bullshit is nothing short of pathetic. I'm glad for you, lucky dude. Godspeed and Goodluck!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:29 PM
1

Shoot, I have become the very thing I swore to destroy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:04 PM
1

Ah sorry. I seem to be more autistic today than usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:49 PM
1

Please, elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:48 PM
3

What mess? Millennials have the lowest rate of divorce and our generation is the least promiscuous since the fucking golden generation. What. Do. You. Want?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:46 PM
0

A low iq what? Finnish your sentence, goddammit. You can't be speaking of iq and calling people tools of measurement. Either speak properly or speak about matters that are on your level of comprehensive ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:42 PM
4

Shhh don't tell smegma males that. They think being a landlord is a good and ethical source of profit and definitely doesn't worsen the housing crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:25 PM
5

Spoke like a true red piller. This is the red pill I would actually respect and believe in. Want a partner? Increase your chances by literally improving yourself and teaching yourself discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:08 PM
1

Numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:54 PM
2

Who would want someone who prefers an inanimate object over a loving partner? Toys are fun, but who tf replaces human company with a thing that goes brrrr?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:53 PM
3

What would a socialist dating market look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:53 PM
3

Fuck right off, I'll be fighting tooth and nail to keep my out of my league partner. You can pry her out of my cold, dead hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:44 PM
4

I'll take that cow of yours away, you filthy rich bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:40 PM
5

A few people not mating (completely natural in every species) isn't comparable to giving children opioids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:26 PM
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You literally said you haven't had a pleasant conversation with a female in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:20 AM
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Not the same thing :) They both have the same status, girlfriend and (past) girlfriend. Chad and you don't have the same status. He is a hookup, you are something serious. She is emotionally invested in you. If you want someone to have sex with you right away, no feelings attached, get an onna hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:11 AM
3

Ok, and I'm jealous of plenty of things too. I don't make it my whole identity or hate the people that have it or are able to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:09 AM
2

Except not only the top of the top men have casual sexual relationships. Pretty much everyone hooks up in their youth, or has a few relationships, aside from some men who are literally socially retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:06 AM
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He is literally community meat. Anyone can be community meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:22 PM
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Op hasn't had a normal conversation with a woman in 10 years. If everywhere you go it stinks like shit, check your shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:16 PM
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Ah I see. This is your definition of a hot guy. The first one literally looks uncanny and the last one is fat. They literally look like nice safe guys who I would marry if I were to be straight. The guys who were just mean to women generally had a nice face and a good jawline. They weren't that tall or well made. Keep in mind they are from my age group, which makes them pretty young, like prime dating age. We hardly consume anything other than beer vodka and cheap pasta, and we still all look gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:14 PM
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Sure. 50% of them still get married. It can't be that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:08 PM
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I'm not looking to get anyone banned. It's clear you have some sort of distaste for women. It doesnt bother me in the slightest, but I won't argue with someone who has that strong of a bias. No, women don't hate men. Even if 70% of women hated men, that's another whole 30% that doesn't, which would mean not all women hated men. Out of every 10 women you met, 3 wouldn't hate men. I find it extremly hard to believe women are capable of hating men. Even the most radical feminists just need a good f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:06 PM
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Feel free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:22 PM
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I'm solely talking about the men who actually would choose AI over women. And that we aren't painting all men in a bad light, or even all of the ones who choose AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:33 PM
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You asked, I answered. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:30 PM
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What does your question have to do with the topic at hand? I don't know what women want, or what bothers them. I'm one (1) woman. I have nothing against artificial uteruses, the same way I wouldn't have anything against sperm donation or other form of insemination or fertility treatments. While I think that the more Noble choice is adoption, I understand that people have certain reasons for their choices and I respect that. As for the AI thing, I don't have a problem with it either. I support it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:26 PM
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What does that have to do with anything I've said? Is this your reasoning for hating women or..?? What is your spurce anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:40 AM
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Men created hookup culture after the sexual revolution. They had no problem with all of that, they enjoyed sowing their wild oats and then settling down. They enjoyed their freedom. Often Men who didn't sleep with women in their youth and then got married regretted not hoeing around and gaining more experience, feeling like they missed out. Why not blame the cause, which is Men specifically looking for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:53 AM
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Men absolutely have girls who they want nothing serious with, but would fuck. Why is it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:44 AM
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You aren't on trial for anything, we are just trying to figure you out, the same way the AI did. There's virtually 0 chance that every woman in the last 10 years only cared about your monetary worth. Either you're bullshiting or living in some dystopia. Even if (absurdly) that's all they cared about, they would know to be .. not so upfront. Subtle if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:17 AM
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Oh you think so? Send me a few pics of "hot" guys. Let's say 5. Send them over. What does hot mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:13 AM
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You said you havent tried to date in 10 years. ???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:11 AM
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I feel like this Is bullshit. It's basically human courtesy to not ask about such things on a first date, and rather get to know them as a person. The point of a first date should be to see if you like them as a person, not find out whether they'd be a good wallet or not. Op must be dating really questionable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:56 AM
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The women as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:54 AM
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That's not what op said. Op simply said he wasnt treated as a person by the women he went on dates with, a few years ago. Obviously women aren't all mindless fucks that only care about themselves or money. But that's the impression op has of women. When someone mentioned in this thread that there aren't really good men either, op asked "HOW COULD YOU SAY THAT". I think that says a lot about OP. Op should unironically touch grass. OP also hasn't had a normal, generic conversation about his intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:53 AM
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That's literally their brain enjoying the lil dopamine boosts offered by information. Unless you used "computer" as a metaphor for brain, I think you're very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:48 AM
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I can open jars myself! I know a couple of tricks. Chairs also exist. I don't need them due to my height, but it's not like my short partner will die of starvation if I'm not around. She can get the dish herself, with the help of a chair. As for opinions, you can literally ask anyone but your partner. Your partner doesn't always want what's the best for you. Ask you friends, your mother, strangers on the internet, your boss at work or professor at uni. Heck, could even ask a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:46 AM
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The conversation the AI offered was just that:basic. It was a basic conversation. Most humans use that conversation pattern to get to know other humans. I don't know what kind if humans you are conversing with. But that's a very common conversation to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:40 AM
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Sane men certainly aren't. However there are men who genuinely dislike women so much that they can't wait for artifical uteruses and realistic AI powered sex dolls to be a thing. And not only that, they don't only want them to fulfill their needs, in their eyes these inventions would "render women useless", and it would finally make them learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:37 AM
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Met plenty of great girls around. Girls without big bodycounts, who are extremely loyal, pretty looking, not fat or at most chubby, can cook, have some sort of job, pleasant to be around, and Funny. These girls were fangirling over horrid men who either verbally abused, cheated or lied. These men's weren't looking like casanovas either. It's hard to find someone you like that isn't already taken, that also genuinely likes you. However, hating women and bullshit on the internet won't fucking help…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:35 AM
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You mean that one middle school crush that rejected them? Yes. They chose her because other boys liked her or she was blonde or something. After that pretty much any woman would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:05 PM
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Yes. Yes I absolutely think that. They don't want someone specific, they just want a girlfriend. A person to fill that role, doesn't matter who. I would rather stay single than date someone who choose me just because I am kinda pretty and I was available. I value my partner so much that I would rather stay celibate than date someone else. They feel the same way. I cant imagine it being in any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:57 PM
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I've seen so many posts here by men claiming they can't wait for AI girlfriend to be a thing so they don't have to put in actual effort, to get sex without needing consent or because they literally can't bear women. Yeah, men aren't all wonderful. Some of yall are horrid human beings the way women can be. Look at serial killers, serial rapists, child pornography producers and a bunch of other bullshit. There are horrible men out there or just men who don't like women. And that's fucking fine. Hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:09 PM
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I feel like women don't want a partner, they want A PARTNER. Like someone they actually like, not some generic person to fill a void.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:02 PM
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Your strategy should be finding someone with a similar libido. Me and my partner are both female. We fuck like rabbits. Fucking till we are completely sore kinda fucking. I wouldn't have been nearly decently happy if I only had sex once or twice a week, neither would she. Find yourself someone with high libido. End of story. Save yourself and your partner the misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:58 PM
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You wouldn't have heard from them either way. What are you talking about? The only way you can actually respect yourself in that situation is doing nothing. Like literally nothing. Blocking someone you're bothering is like getting a restraining order against someone that is actively trying to stay away from you. Have some respect and just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:28 PM
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They literally come mainly from monogamous* relationship. That's the point. People aren't even hoeing around anymore. There's literally no one to blame but the fathers themselves.1
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:29 PM
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I have 4 male friends that say they don't mind being single. Does that mean you all aren't minding being single? Or do a few people not speak for 4 billion people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:52 AM
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What If they hurt themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:51 AM
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Mowgli style! Except I'm not sure how well a newborn would be treated by wolves. There's a chance they might eat it. I say we let robots raise our kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:51 AM
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Are you sure? That sounds very disheartening. Can I see the stat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:50 AM
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Cbat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:49 AM
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Women arent a hive mind. And even if they wouldn't necessarily mind it, she's still allowed to! Like I don't mind not having my own mansion, but if given the chance ofcourse I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:47 AM
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Too bad. People are still free to date and have sex, regardless if they have children or not. Just like men in dead bedrooms break their families apart and hurt their children by having an affair. No one deserves to be miserable, especially if it's avoidable. Why blame the behavior of abusive men on women anyway? Like if my mother who is a great woman suddenly started hitting my father and cheating on him, I wouldn't blame it on my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:46 AM
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Most women don't engage in casual sex. Accidental babies can come from established or even monogamous relationships too, and the father can still bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:24 AM
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Why would you block someone that you wrote to first, and won't even respond to you? My guy, blocking if for people that bother you and won't stop writing to you. She's the opposite of that. The appropriate response would be to stop bothering her if she doesn't even bother to answer. Move on without doing anything. It's like screaming to a wall and being upset that it won't respond, then announcing loudly to the wall that this is unacceptable and you're leaving. Then continuing to announce that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:21 AM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:06 AM
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Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:05 AM
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Yeah, re-reading that kinda makes me go "bruh" at myself. Kinda. Love is one hell of a drug. Bitch got me feeling blue when she doesn't come snuggle the exact moment I want her to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:49 PM
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"Men would fuck anything as long as it wanted to fuck and it was a woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:46 PM
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Or, this is a wild one... She actually likes her? I had "better" options than my now partner. I still chose her because I literally liked her the most. There was no logical thought behind it. It was just "wooooah I like this one :D". I was speaking to 4 people when I started talking to her, and by speaking I meant going on dates and shit. The moment I saw her it just struck me lol, idk how to explain it. Feelings aren't logical. Had she been a fucking hooker for all I care, I would still have da…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:45 PM
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Again, you don't have to suck or press to hard. You don't have to apply too much pressure. It's sensible. It hurts. We have the same range of motions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:22 AM
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Then why bring up tongue and jaw strength? Of you gotta press so much is strains your muscles you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:15 AM
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I'm talking from a strictly biological lens, one that would obtain the best results when it comes to reproduction. As for marriage, they just aren't the best route to go on when the only thing you want is producing offspring. I'm just saying that "spreading your seed" is a biological need for both sexes. As for the marriage thing, promiscuous people are more unstable generally. It would be obvious why a marriage with unstable people is less likely to work. Promiscuity is one example of a class o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:52 AM
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The number of suicides in Japan in 2022 totaled 21,881, an increase of 297 from the previous year. The suicide rate, or number of suicides per 100,000 people, increased by 0.8 to 17.5 In 2020, there were 47 252 deaths due to intentional self-harm in the EU, corresponding to 0.9% of all deaths reported that year. This is the equivalent of an average of 10.2 deaths per 100 000 people. And this was at the height of covid, you'd imagine more people were killing themselves at that time. Also, Sloveni…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:44 AM
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Just how hard do you think you need to press on the most sensitive part of the female body? Also stats say differently ^
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:22 AM
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I think you might be a sociopath. 3 weeks can absolutely be bearable. I would probably find it rejuvenating too. However, social contact means truly no social contact. Meaning no technology that keeps you in touch with other humans. For several weeks. (Think over 6 weeks). All the males I know complained about not being able to go outside. Me and my male friends literally broke the law daily and still went out, running from cops on multiple occasions. If masturbation and sex workers don't suffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:19 AM
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Oh no, I care about men. I don't care about whiny little bitches. Society doesn't care about moaners in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:48 PM
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It definitely can and it's definitely hurtful when someone doesn't return your feelings. It's also hurtful when you find out your friend had other intentions, and your company isn't as enjoyable to them unless romantic scenarios are a possibility. Imagine your friends stopped hanging out after you stopped paying for their stuff. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:43 PM
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Why do men tear down at female friendships? She already explained. They're jealous. Do you not understand what jealousy entails? A big motivator for human desire is that other humans also desire said object. That's why people who have hoards of fans and romantic prospect seem to be more desirable to other people too. It's why male competition is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:38 PM
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I think most men also care about companionship. Otherwise, prostitutes, porn and flashlights would just about suffice. Humans have literally evolved to need socialization. We go batshit insane after just a few weeks of no human contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:31 PM
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Complaining on the internet is therapeutic. Who am I supposed to tell? My mother? My dad with hypertension? My partner? I wouldn't want to heavy her heart with whatever it is I'm going through. My friends? Fuck no. Just scream at a void of pixels instead. Then get up, get your shit together and to whatever the fuck It is that needs to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:30 PM
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Year yeah women are worthless and good at nothing Yada Yada Yada. At least we can make each other cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:17 PM
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I absolutely didn't have my shit together when we met and she still choose me LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:17 PM
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It wouldn't even happen every month, unless she got really lucky and got a great partner. As for 6+... I would say more like 9+...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:16 PM
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Who do you think gets gifts all the time and gets wined and dined every night? Genuine question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:15 PM
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The moment programing and IT became a men's field, it suddenly got better pay and better funding. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:36 AM
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Pretty much every successful relationship starts off with physical attraction. When you're young the whole relationship is based on sex lmao. If you both get attached and work towards something more, you get to mature together and develop actual love. I think that's beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:51 AM
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I mean, your woman could be a great motivation to get your shit together. But you should still be able to get your shit together on your own. What if she never came along? I understand being young and wild and free, but after your mid twenties you don't have anymore excuses. You are a fully grown adult and you should be able to motivate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:50 AM
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The moment my relationship with my girlfriend got serious I started getting my shit together. Looked for a job, started saving up to move together and shit. Started taking better care of myself and stopped putting myself in dangerous situations as much. Cut down on drugs and shit. Women are very fucking special, and they're fucking talented at pushing you to get your shit together (if you're willing to get it too ofc). Yall can say whatever, but there's nothing more valuable than that. Love chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:46 AM
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Either they're both moral or both immoral. It depends on the level of honesty. If you discuss terms right away and they oblige, everything's fine. You also still have to treat them as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:47 AM
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I do agree that a housewife should have money put away. That's not always the case tho. Life isn't perfect and shit happens. The government takes time to solve issues like these. Like a shitload of time. It's not as easy as you would think. The fact that you're a shitty parent won't make everyone a shitty parent. I couldn't imagine leaving children behind in a dangerous situation, an abusive home. But hey, not all of us are as responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:39 AM
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Unless they were financial dependent and in a different country, I don't understand why abused partners wouldn't leave too, u less kids are involved ofc. Especially when it comes to men. Everyone knows they can't be abused or used.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:26 PM
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I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:06 PM
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Men would match with their cousin. Not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:07 AM
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I don't think they are, as long as they don't lie about their services. Most of them don't. They don't specifically make you pay so they care about you or meet you. They make you pay so they talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:51 AM
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A whopping 45% of married men watch porn. This still doesn't account for men in relationships. A lot of those porn actresses are under 18, under paid, often hurt severely during rough scenes and pimped or pushed into it. This is like claiming you were scammed by the animals in a circus because the animals made you believe they were actually happy to be there and perform for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:48 AM
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Being a gold digger does mean you don't view your partner equally. You view them as a RESOURCE. You view them as a fool, you play pretend, and they believe you actually love them. That's a disgusting behavior. Same as seeing your partner as nothing else than a fleshhlight. I've had sex casually, but also continued to see those girls as full humans. Actually got to know them and did/talked about things other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:45 AM
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Men in relationships and even men with children still pay for it. Some men develop ED and deadbedroom their wives over pixels. What are we exactly talking about??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:43 AM
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Scammed into what? Paying for a service they knew they were paying for and then receiving said service? A high-school girl and a grown ass dude? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:41 AM
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I was 12 when I first did drugs. It was my own choice and I stand by it. I take responsibility. Why can't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:40 AM
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I was 7. I still don't watch it. Nor pay for it. I'm completely aware that those women i would be masturbating to could very well be forced or under 18. For me, that's enough motivation to not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:39 AM
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False. Plenty of men in relationships still consume porn and even pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:38 AM
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Oh no!! Next thing we'll find out that Santa isn't real...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:32 AM
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Oh no!!!! Poor them!!!!! Who knew that having to pay someone to do something means they don't actually want to do it, especially if that when that monetary compensation is gone they wouldn't even look in your direction??? Most of those men who pay for stripping are literally weirdos. They push boundaries and feel that if they pay those girls for a service (dancing), they deserve something else too. Honestly anyone who thinks they can buy someone consent regarding sexual stuff is a pretty iffy hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:29 AM
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Which is a choice adults make. Yes. You can make thousands out of gambling. So long you spend hundreds of thousands on gambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:27 AM
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What are those men desperate for? They could just talk to ugly women who are just that desperate. It's like saying Chad is a bad guy because he doesn't specifically claim he doesn't want a relationship with a girl before hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:24 AM
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The therapist isn't there to kiss away your shit. They're there to make you get your shit together, but you have to want that, and actually do it. You can bring your horse to the water but you can't make it drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:22 AM
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The oldest profession was midwifery and teaching. Not prostitution. The issue is with the water hers themselves, and with the producers. The demand is huge and a lot of the actors and actresses are drugged, severely hurt, underpaid, overworked, forced or coerced into it or borderline trafficked. Most porn stars (male) are so drugged that they get ED before they turn 30. The average age of starting in the industry is 14, which is obviously underage. The women on onlyfans can absolutely also be fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:17 AM
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Actually studies have shown that pairing as much as possible is a better procreation strategy for both genders :).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:51 AM
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No. It's not. What's wrong is realizing that it's impossible, and even If it was, they wouldn't deserve that kind if treatment either way. What's bad is not realizing it's delusional, and also shaming women for being picky and still not choosing them. Yall aren't Allat. Cope with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:48 AM
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Men match with basically everyone. It's a numbers game for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:22 AM
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That would also mean ditching porn. Can't have actual monogamy while it's a thing. They wouldn't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:12 AM
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Women are gatherers that will snatch anything that looks pretty or shiny. We are just crows who are slaves to our primal instinct. Society should know better, robbery, theft and fraud should be excused. SMH why can't I Rob old grandpas without consequences??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:10 AM
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Not comparable. Men on average still have higher body counts. Make the starving person also stuff themselves to the point it becomes unhealthy and their stomach ruptures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:08 AM
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Women have actually stopped sleeping around as much, and most of their bodies are because they had sex in their established relationships. And now yall act like it's a whole crisis, men don't get pussy and they're all gonna die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:06 AM
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Oh wise dude, please tell me, what's so different between male sexuality and female one? Got plenty if experience with women. Go ahead, tell a woman that has fucked women, what's so different taller is something. Having a hight difference bigger than my mommas ass is something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:34 AM
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It's easy for most acceptable looking men to sleep around too. Unless they look like the globglobgabgalag, they can sleep around too. Abstinence is a value that matters to some. If it matters to those people, they'll appreciate it in both men and women. :). As for the 5'4 chick, people might poke fun at her too. The height difference is literally some comical shit. Like she would need a ladder to climb up and kiss him. She could literally suck him off while standing and looking at the clouds. De…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:32 PM
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Men are also on team men, and men will willingly cover for other rapists. :) Why wouldn't women team up then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:07 PM
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"Feminine traits" are actually traits that everybody should have. Humans are nurturing and caring by nature-healthy humans I mean. Every adult should be able to cook, bake and sew. These are skills that are necessary. Everybody should be able to cut a log and start a fire. Rigid gender roles don't do shit. They don't help anybody. We shouldn't shame women for being sahm moms as long as they do their job as home makers. We shouldn't shame women for choosing a career either. We should all let peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:29 AM
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Blame porn for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:46 AM
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Are you suuuuure?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:38 PM
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Why is it misandry if it's an objective truth? What could possibly a man offer a woman that she can't get elsewhere if she needed to? Why do men need to be needed by absolutely every woman on the planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:17 AM
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I don't think this will actually happen, most, humans are sane and enjoy the company of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:35 AM
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Or is it just that men don't have much to offer for some women? I never felt fullfilled while dating men. Then I realized I was gay. Even objectively speaking, I genuinely don't see why a woman would personally need them in her intimate life. Yes, there are absolutely women that want them in their life and it's awesome. But for the most part... they don't offer much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:47 AM
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Kinda agree, but that makes them boring as hell. They're also way less self aware and empathetic, lazier and a lot more disgusting. I would describe it as pathetic over all. Also the self loathing and depression is very icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:19 AM
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Lesbian here, women are worse. They will absolutely crush your heart, and the fact that you lose more (women just carry more value than men do, it's much easier to become completely infatuated with them) makes it harder to deal with the heartbreaks. Also lots of lesbians are batshit insane. Yes that makes them much more fun, but also harder to deal with. To me its worth it. There is absolutely no lack of heartbreak, but I wouldn't change it for the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:14 AM
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Why does everyone think women are never horny lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:09 AM
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Heroin works wonders to kill your libido. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:09 AM
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I don't know how men even dare ask how she would treat him back. I never think about "what my partner can do for me". I think about what I can do for her. So many of you all are not actual adults, but little spoiled kids, wanting to be treated the same way your momma did. Not only that, yall can't even make your partners cum. I genuinely feel sorry for straight women. The fact that she even looked at you should be enough the way I see it. You should be blessed by her very presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:40 AM
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Mayors and other people organize that crap. You can literally organize a cookout if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:26 PM
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Mayors literally do that shit, they organize concerts and events and shit like that. I attended a few of those, plus some theater classes, talked to strangers and met a shit ton of friends that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:25 PM
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Is she bad dating material due to her opinions or are hoards of men willing to date her? What's the male thinking process you were speaking about earlier like then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:59 PM
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So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:55 AM
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Doesn't matter. Chubby is attractive. Obese absolutely not. Ugly girls are still absolutely ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:42 AM
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4-5 is average. Not at all ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:41 AM
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Everyone is more attracted to narc traits. It's human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:39 AM
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I think looking for casual sex is ok, but treating your sexual partners as less than human and genuinely not giving 2 shits about them is wrong and even concerning. I have "pumped and dumped" girls, however I never lied about my intentions. One can absolutely propose a 1ns and make it sound hot. The victimization game Is also concerning. Like, not everyone will get a partner and that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:49 AM
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It's not that she found him personally unattractive, but that he's unattractive by societal standards. Women kinda have a thing for guys who are kinda ugly (big nose) or lanky or something, as long as they're tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:38 AM
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Why date women if they matter so little though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:20 AM
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I don't get clubbing while in a relationship either, unless yall are going together. Me and my partner go clubbing sometimes, and we genuinely have so much fun together, we make friends and just meet cool people. I enjoy going with her more than I did on my own before we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:05 PM
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People don't like being cooperative when their teammates don't work. Cooperative People turn really sour when they're the only ones cooperating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:16 AM
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Humans not so much, at least between their own group. I also doubt they kept member of their own species as their own or objects. Again, I can bet both my nipples that you would become my sex slave and not otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:25 AM
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So we agree? What's the meme here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:24 AM
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Said reputation: Women who refuse sex when they don't feel like it Women who bring bread on the table, work the same hours as their dear husbands and in consequence, they kindly ask that their husband washes his own fucking dish after eating and sometimes vacuums or takes the trash out. Women who refuse to baby sit their husbands Women who don't like being screamed at or being treated poorly, or less then, due to their lack of balls. Women who set boundaries. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:21 AM
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If you're reffering to what u think you are, you can do your own research. Since you're so lazy though https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:24 AM
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Again, what are you exactly reffering to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:17 AM
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What innscurate info?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:08 AM
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Guess what! I'm not from the US either! Bitches still fat here. Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:33 PM
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Lalalalalalala All background noise. People go there to hookup. Not to form actual relationships. The ones that are actually there for that are mostly there because no one else would want them; and they are desperate. They don't want you, they want someone. How many actual dates would she get? Not likes and messages, memepages on Instagram also get those. Actual. Dates. Would she get slightly more likes than men? I totally think so too. Not many more though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:28 PM
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Ahh there we go. Do they also have to not be fat? Not have an ugly nose? Broad shoulders? Anything else you don't like on women like piercings or hairdye?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:26 PM
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Yes, they are. https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity#:~:text=More%20than%201%20in%203,who%20are%20overweight%20(27.5%25). More than 1 in 3 men (34.1%) and more than 1 in 4 women (27.5%) are overweight. More than 2 in 5 adults (42.4%) have obesity (including severe obesity). About 1 in 11 adults (9.2%) have severe obesity. The percentage of men who are overweight (34.1%) is higher than the percentage of women who are overweight (27.5%). Women tend to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:25 PM
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This!! Men don't actually know how picky they are. They think women pat the age of 25 literally don't exist and that most women are underweight. That's simply not true. The funniest thing is that men are on average fatter than women, even if women are more biologically predisposed to store more fat. And they still be shittin on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:14 PM
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Most women are overweight. You are picky too. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:13 PM
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You find them attractive enough to fuck. Not attractive enough to commit to. Women exist past the age of 25 BTW. I don't think you find 70 year olds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:10 PM
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The stat with unreported rapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:46 AM
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Then why aren't men believed either if they're so virtuous? Surely they must lie too, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:20 AM
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Men statistically lie more than women, and most rapes go unreported. I don't know 1 female that wasn't raped or in danger of being raped. Whether she put herself in that situation or not. The best thing you can do( or anyone) is just stay the fuck away until it gets settled. Don't support a rapist, don't support a crazy bitch. But I sure as heck would believe my friends or anyone from my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:17 AM
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Idk dude some blow never hurt anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:15 AM
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Damn dude, you better get tested if you haven't already. It's always the batshit crazy ones spreading stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:13 AM
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The possibility that you get raped is actually abismally low. Don't put yourself în dangerous situations and always stay near your female friends. You'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:11 AM
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What the fuck was the dude trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:09 AM
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What did he even say?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:09 AM
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What is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:16 AM
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Probably tesnage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:12 AM
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And I've seen grown men who refuse to date women who are last the ripe age of 25. What's your point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:12 AM
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Women are pressured by the whole society to marry someone appropriate. This means looks, social status and money (stability). You can spin this bullshit however you want. It will still remain bullshit, and it won't apply to all women or all men. As for the love interests in male oriented media, they're literally barely human. That's the point, there's nothing special about them, except their man. That's what lust typically is, it's not about the other person and how awesome they are, it's about"…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:45 AM
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My dad is really attractive for his age, to the point my friends (late teens, early to mid twenties) literally wanna fuck him. He is almost 50. He didn't cheat on my mother. People who are secure in themselves and happy with their partner don't cheat. Lonely people with a scarcity mindset do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:13 PM
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It absolutely makes sense, you just don't like that it does because people don't really put up a fight for ya. That lowers your chances. And you know that..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:10 PM
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Yes. Very much yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:07 PM
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How does being tall make someone a worse person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:35 PM
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Hmm I think I do. I do My best to treat her like a queen. I cook for her, I clean, offer head multiple times a day, spend money on her, I'm really attentive with her and give her the last of anything I'm eating. I do everything in my power to make her life easier and to protect her. She still manages to be a better partner than I am, or that's how I see it. I always feel like she does more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:04 AM
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Early societies used common goods. Everything belonged to the whole community. That's the natural state of humans:) Beat the shit out of you too, then bite your dick off. Not only am I almost 5'11, I got arms bigger than your calves and calves bigger than your neck. Not only that, you'd likely be exiled, and left to starve. There's a reason (normal) humans have an aversion to violence and gore. Cheers. You definitely wouldn't survive in the cavemen days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:47 PM
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With how much porn is accesibile, good Luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:54 AM
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Buuut, we are a social sex species, which means we use it as means to socialize and bond with others, similar to bonobo monkeys. We also have socially excluded humans. Some people just can't fit in. Even though again, we are a species that's highly social. I don't think barbarism will be a thing. Sexual selection 100% has things other than spreading your genes in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:45 AM
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Property isn't actually natural, and in the earliest human society everyone was pretty much fucking everyone, regardless of gender. Only some males didn't get to mate. So what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:40 AM
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I think people are meaner to overweight people due to their demeanor. They are oftenly depressed and self loathing, which is literally a people repeller combo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:51 AM
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Both F, both in our twenties. Mostly everyday, unless things got too sore down there. She Initiates more often than I do. We don't have kids, dating for a little over a year. In the start we would be fucking multiple times a day, the attraction was just really strong. It's not really that things fizzled out, but we got to know each other better and do other things totgether other than fucking lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:13 AM
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Jokes on ya, that's not what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:31 AM
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No, absolutely not. Do you think most women absolutely can't get over that one guy she fucked in high-school though? Which claims seems like more of a crock of shit to you? Most women can and had purely sexual relationships, without getting attached. The ones that literally get attached to the first person they had sex with usually had a great first partner that married them, so they literally never dated anyone else to give them the space to form a new attachment. There are probably some crazy …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:57 AM
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There are literal studies on it, men have a harder time moving on and for them it takes more time to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:53 AM
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Bro take a walk and call and old friend. You need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:00 PM
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Why are so fixated on gender though? People should help everybody, people are also men, everybody is also women. Vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:34 PM
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Some addicts are like that, sure. Some of them are really fucking cool people though. It's better than only caring about feeling sorry for your own ass and talking about dating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:05 PM
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Snorting Is the best way to take it I'm telling ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:03 PM
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What could you possibly spend money on otherwise? It's a way to ensure commitment. Also to check the interest of the guy. Plus you can't really go 50/50 on pregnancy or kids. Or breastfeeding. Unless you will not have kids, and do 50% of the household chores while you both work, I don't see why you would split the bill. I also date women, and I love spoiling her. I don't see why you wouldn't want to pay, to be quite frank. My girlfriend often times pays for me, and I do it for her too every chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:01 PM
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It's not "ick", however it can be dangerous for women who are younger and on the weaker side. As long as he is clearly needing help, and won't change your location to a remote situation everything is fine. Men often don't ask for help from women. What I can do is lend an ear, give them a cigarette, or help them with doors/heavy stuff. I've literally helped men who drank too much on the street if I saw they weren't doing fine, or homeless men. Buying them a fresh pair of socks or two, water, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:52 PM
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Helping others literally improves your mental health. For humans the sense of community is so important, literally crucial. It's instinctual and intrinsic, had we not helped each other, collaborated or lived together in communities, we would be literally be extinct. These people would be much less miserable if they thought positively, helped and socialized with others. Happiness is so simple to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:49 PM
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I go out of my way to help people. I won't specify men, because I really couldn't give less than 2 shits about someone's sex when it comes to helping. If they accept it I'll gladly help. Most women feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:47 PM
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Can't be sure. If we build a community of helpful humans, you are more likely to be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:46 PM
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Yes. Point in blank yes. Nothing to do with gender, though. If you see someone who needs help (I.e they are ein immediate danger, carrying something heavy and drop something or need help with opening a door, need directions, etc), you should help. It's basic human decency, and if we build a culture where people help each other, you will receive help too if you need it. I always help whenever I can and whenever given the chance, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:42 PM
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Opening those jar lids smh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:39 PM
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Are there people that still believe this today?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:22 AM
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I disagree. Male sexuality isn't normal by any means today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:19 AM
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Idk man, plenty of women look like pornstars. At least when they're young, and I imagine most men who consume porn are in the younger category. Being fit isn't that hard, plenty of actresses have a lil tummy, saggy boobs, etc. As for porn being unhealthy, I agree. Women consume porn too, I also did. If porn wasn't a thing I bet we would all be more social and just more fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:16 AM
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Woman here, I definitely also had and have those thoughts frequently. Only seeing them as good for sex is wrong, being attracted to them is completely ok and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:11 AM
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No, you should all treat your partners like queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:58 AM
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Nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:56 AM
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I just find it weird how people use other's achievements as arguments to back them up. Marie Curie was a great chemist, me also being a woman doesn't make me any closer to a chemist. Just because I'm the same gender as her, that doesn't mean I gain any value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:53 AM
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It's not a headache to me, it's entertainment . Also, you could learn a thing or two. I don't have issues with women. You do. What does that have to do with what I said? You don't have to date someone to know them personally. Maybe you misread something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:50 AM
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Define fat. Most girls are a bit overweight. Not obese by any means, just between 1-10 kg more than they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:43 AM
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Both genders release more of the pleasure hormone when fucking someone they have an emotional connection with. Wanting love isn't unmasculine, and you aren't an urangootan. No matter how hot your wife is, I can bet both my ass cheeks that sex isn't the only thing keeping your marriage together, even if it's 90% of what keeps it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:16 AM
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Idk, I literally did choose my partner over how wet she got me. And we're still doing fine. Would've done the same if I were attracted to men. If I had different results with men, I would just consider men the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:12 AM
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What If a girl always wore really revealing clothing? Wouldn't you rule her out too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:10 AM
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You all are more obsessed with Brad Pitt individually than all the women I met in my life collectively. Why focus on literally stars that date other stars? You won't get a hot 19 year old model. Date someone similar to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:09 AM
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Wear cargo jeans instead, the baggy ones. Yes, we don't have pockets, but we have bags. Anything you need we have it on us. The next time you're sick and you have a booger sticking out if your nose on the street you'll Thank us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:07 AM
1

What if your date showed up in loney toons pajama shorts to a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:05 AM
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At least drug addicts have some sort of personality, instead of just desperation and "niceness". I don't, but I met other drug addicts who did have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:05 AM
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The style thing is very influenced by the age group you are. Cargo pants and graphic tees are fine if you're in your early 20s. They have to be cool cargos and shirts though. When you get older shit changes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:03 AM
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Numbers game this, numbers game that. Women don't fucking like desperation, and neither do you. Imagine hanging out with your dudes at a bar, there's like 13 of yall. Then this chick comes, she asks every dude at the table if she can suvk their dicks. All of your friends decline the offer. You are the last one to be asked. Would you get into a relationship with her? You don't want a partner, you want to fill a hole. Both literally and not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:00 AM
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Won't go with them either. I'm gay. You also don't have to date someone to know them personally. Got friends too, they tell me a load of shit. Their girlfriends tell me the shit they do and say too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:57 PM
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Your case could also be called confirmatiom bias. The only difference is that you don't know them personally. You don't know how they act or what they're saying. I however know the people I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:55 PM
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Lesbian here, casual sex with all of them, although I'm a sucker for drama and would definitely emotionally bond with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:05 AM
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Describe what does "keeping the world" running mean, please? Every job is there for a reason, and the vast majority of women actually work :O We don't all have sugar daddies who pay for everything on a whim :OO Again, where do you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:53 AM
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Those women aren't average. Those are very well above average. The average woman is overweight and past her 20s, needs makeup to look closer to what you think average is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:39 AM
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Women literally tell you how they feel. They give you arguments for it. You still refuse to listen. Why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:34 AM
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Down vote me all you want. She gets hit on by both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:36 AM
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Standards for what? Having a porcelain face? Why wouldn't he be attracted to women unless they're wearing makeup? Again, this has to be some sort of anomaly. Never looked at a woman and said "dang, she would've been hot if her nose was smaller or if her face looked like it was airbrushed" Women arent entitled to attention from anybody, but neither are men exempt from criticism. Just like fat people are unhealthy, thinking average women are unattractive naturally is unhealthy. Straight Men have b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:34 AM
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She literally does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:16 AM
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That's absolutely not what I said. Yes, it's sick that literal heterosexual men aren't attracted to women unless they are retouched.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:21 AM
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Alimony is rarely given in today's world, it's literally only given if the woman sacrificed her career to take care of his children and homemake. You can't take someone's best years, expect them to wash your dirty socks during it and not pay them somehow. How would she explain the gaps in her resume? Maybe she even went to a good college for her field, that won't matter if she has years long gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:55 AM
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I start to wonder if you all are even attracted to women. I'm also attracted to women. I see them and I remain awestruck. Makeup or not. I'm not sure whether it's due to porn or social media or something else. But it's extremely uncanny. Most women do minimal makeup either way. I'm not sure where tf evolution went wrong, but I'm seriously starting to think some of yall are sick in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:53 AM
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Op is absolutely not a 6/10, I'll start with that. Maybe a 5. I think as myself as maybe a 4. F.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:25 AM
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Women literally evolved to look good. What the fuck do they expect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:22 AM
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How am I supposed to not see myself as one when my partner treats me like a goddess?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:20 AM
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Tell me, where do you work? How many men actually keep the world running? Do you see 4 billion people as literally useless, incapable of ever producing anything of value? Do you see 4 billion people as a caricature of boobs with makeup, with an easy going personality, maybe even child like, with 0 responsibility or will to change something in their environment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:18 AM
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In my experience, it was always the physically unattractive men being misogynistic, especially the ones who speak like you. They always say the most vile crap, and also tend to hit girls and see nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:16 AM
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"Handsome" men scare me just as much as ugly men. I avoid both if they act creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:14 AM
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Are they? There are fantasy books about dorks. Just like there is porn with women who have really hairy assholes. Or are really fat. The amount of men who will be attracted to women who are broad shouldered, or very tall, or have masculine features will be small, just like some traits In males aren't attractive to most heterosexual women. Most men will want the petite, feminine, approval seeking girl. She has to be young also. The average woman is absolutely not that, unless you're literally 18.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:46 PM
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Let me explain The handsome dude part. Women are still shamed for being sexual casually. So, the "catch" has to be at least attractive, so she can't be made fun of for it. Like, you can't really allow yourself to be smashed and dashed by an ugly guy. That's just embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:39 PM
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