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DebateDry-Lemon424/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:00 AM
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Because even attractive are human after all, they still have their errors and flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:26 AM
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What the hell has gotten into you? Do you not know how to read? You've written an entire thing piece on something that I didn't even say. It's like you're raging behind the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:22 AM
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Sure but the issue here is good-looking assholes get away with their behaviour, average assholes don't. If you're good looking enough people tend to overlook your red flags, that doesn't happen for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:20 AM
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My point - don't be jealous of hot assholes. They aren't happy in the long-term. Given a choice between being an average man and Chad, I don't think anyone would choose the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:17 AM
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I agree with you. I've never met a conventionally attractive man who has struggled with dating despite their moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:15 AM
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Make no mistake, I'm not asking for your opinion, men built society as you know it. Men and women are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:00 PM
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I don't side with the men who think like that, nobody owes you anything. Work on yourself as a man, build yourself and you won't complain about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:59 PM
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Yes, men are also capable of emotions, we're also human after all, but not like women. Women perceive emotions as reality, so many men can attest to that. Your gender gets pissed at things that don't even make sense.You'll get angry at the fact that your hair doesn't look right, that nobody hit on you on a night out.See the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:25 PM
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That's women for you, thinking emotionally than logically. Tate isnt short but because she feels it, he is apparently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:23 PM
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Women go through what is called the paradox of choice. Have you watched Shark Tank? Being a woman is basically being an investor who wants to invest in a business, you're constantly bombarded with different businesses. They have so many options to choose from and this can lead them to choose options that serve in the short term rather than the long term, do I think some women regret their choices? Sure. Do I think they'll do anything about it? Probably not..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:18 PM
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Men need to work on themselves to attract women, work on your garden instead of chasing butterflies, work on your garden, cultivate it, so that it attracts butterflies. Women on the other hand simply need to make better choices with the men they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:15 PM
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Aam getting triggered over comments on the internet, what a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:43 AM
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Gets upset when women keep on asking me ridiculous questions and you're one of them. At the same time, I have your attention because I've triggered you, an online stranger has triggered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:05 PM
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And getting unwanted responses from women, translate that, Shakespeare
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:34 PM
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This is why we are so demonized on this sub, because some men simply see these stories as fantasy when they're actually happening in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:16 PM
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Lmao, my comments have triggered 3 women so far, why??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:10 PM
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Bro, the things I've seen rich women do for the average men they actually like, you'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:07 PM
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"If she wanted to she would"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:49 PM
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Clearly you do because you've been triggered by a stranger on the internet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:19 PM
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Are you triggered because I said I don't have casual sex with promiscuous women? I just saw the proud slut tag on your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:17 PM
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Lmao, ask Google. I'm not here to answer your kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:53 PM
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In an idealistic world that would probably work but in reality, having better social skills = more successful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:52 PM
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A non-promiscous woman, I don't want herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:23 PM
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Dating is a skill and just like everything in life, if you're not good at it, you'll struggle. You only get good through experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:01 PM
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Not with a promiscuous woman I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:00 PM
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So little experience then, how is that benefitting to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:43 PM
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Do you know what the word promiscuous means?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:15 PM
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If women date around, why can`t men also? At the same time, past a certain age, little to no experience with women will be damaging to someone`s self-esteem and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:00 PM
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So having no experience with women is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:58 PM
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You sound pretty naive, risking your health just because you trust someone who's slept with a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:50 PM
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We're talking about a relationship with a promiscuous woman, yeah stock up on those STI tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:48 PM
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With a promiscuous partner, you'd have to do those tests everytime before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:47 PM
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Laughs in STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:43 PM
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If you willingly date a promiscuous woman, you deserve everything that will come your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:40 PM
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Men want to hook up with hot promiscuous women because they`re fun and low-maintenance not have a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:36 PM
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Dating for a man is a numbers game, used to know a guy in college who approached 10 girls per month, at least 2 would give it up. Rejection shouldn't phase you, move past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:23 PM
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There lies your answer, you have indicators of interest but aren't doing anything about it. Don't blame her when the attraction eventually fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:19 PM
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Do you escalate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:15 PM
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The issue is you're probably messing it up, what do you do when they show you these signs exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:09 PM
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Those are obvious signs, do you want a billboard advertisement for you to decipher interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:39 AM
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Do you people live on Jupiter? Women clearly make it known that they are interested in you, you`d probably be autistic to not get the hint. Go touch grass OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:25 AM
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Yeah that won't be happening anytime soon, it's not about equality it's about who has the resources and your position on the food chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:31 AM
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In more egalitarian societies, women tend to go for men who make less vs those in unequal societies. We don't live in an egalitarian society though, write about reality not fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:24 AM
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10 years younger? But when men marry women who are much younger than they are, women call them predators. Double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:02 AM
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I'm done with ths debate. All the best
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:36 PM
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I'm not trying to impose my opinion on you, we all have our different opinions at the end of the day. Hope you understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:09 PM
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Because RedPill guys don't usually comment on insignificant things. Wait, can I DM you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:05 PM
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You're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:49 PM
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I did and you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:49 PM
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Are you talking about RedPill guys? Because we don't do that. Look at the posts, it's rarely Redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:49 PM
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How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:28 PM
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How am I making shit up? Women envy other women's wives/girlfriends more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:28 PM
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It doesn't work the same way with either gender. Men cheat with no emotional connection, only cause she looked good, with a nice body. For women to have sex and cheat, they'd have to build an emotional connection first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:23 PM
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Which type of guys are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:19 PM
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Exactly, men usually can't be manipulated by their circle, women, however, is a very different story
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:14 PM
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Lmao, I'm trying to say that you're speaking facts like Aristotle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:13 PM
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Women, when presented with a man who is high value enough but still a cheater, will cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:12 PM
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Women envy their friend's boyfriend/husband, men envy their friend's cars, house etc. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:11 PM
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What do you think happens when your wife starts hanging out with other women who are divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:09 PM
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You can literally go on YouTube and search the topic, it's been proven time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:08 PM
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Exactly, women don't influence their circles, their circles influence them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:07 PM
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Copied right from Aristotle. My man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:02 PM
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It's the truth. Generally desirable men have things going on for them, looks, status, money etc. Women can know a man is a cheater, but if he's desirable enough, they won't mind dating him. That's the point I'm trying to out across.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:01 PM
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It's called social proof. Women want guys who other women want. Back when the RedPill sub was active, some guy went out drinking with a ring on his finger, can't lie, I miss the RedPIll sub. Anyway, he went out drinking with his friends wearing a ring on his ring finger, his story was how he and his wife weren't on good terms so he just wanted to let out some steam. Guess what? Got laid. Easily. Women operate on a hive mind, if a large number of women want a specific guy, other women will want h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:46 PM
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There's a saying amongst divorce lawyers that if your wife starts hanging around women who are divorced, yours is around the corner. Women don't influence their circles, their circles influences them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:29 AM
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It's mostly because women operate like a hive mind. She'll be 5'2 but because other women in her circle are dating 6ft men, she'll also want a 6ft man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:25 AM
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I'm not Muslim
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:33 AM
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I don't know, I haven't asked all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:00 PM
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Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:56 PM
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The average man is content with being average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:40 PM
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I don`t think someone can go from RedPill to BluePill, it`s simply impossible. You`ve seen women`s nature, seen how ruthless they can be. You simply cannot go back to living in a fantasy world like BluePill guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:47 PM
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The RedPill is about women's nature and men's empowerment. It's not about PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:42 PM
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Isn't this like RedPill 101? Very basic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:24 PM
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Between my responses and yours, you're the one raging bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:50 PM
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That's a she
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:45 PM
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Because people who believe that they're good, kind or polite also believe that they deserve relationships, that they deserve hookups, that they deserve attention. The world simply doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:43 PM
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Morality and attractiveness don't go hand in hand. That's not how the world works. Some of the worst people I've known were also one of the most attractive people on paper. If you're attractive enough, a lot of people will overlook your red flags and getting into relationships or hookups won't be an issue. Just because you're good-hearted, doesn't mean you're automatically attractive and just because you're an asshat, doesn't mean you're unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:28 PM
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Like I said, contribute to an argument without resorting to ad hominems..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:25 PM
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Contribute to the argument without resorting to ad hominems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:13 PM
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You know the highest cause of divorce? Resentment. Keep telling yourself that your husband will always read your mind, let's see how well that will work out for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:50 PM
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Keep telling yourself that. A perfect recipe for resentment down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:44 PM
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Notice how she's not denying they actually do it? Her justification is, nobody listens to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:06 PM
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Go find an new mutant boyfriend who can read minds I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:03 PM
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Are we in the same argument cause what in the world are you talking about? I didn`t ask about your ex`s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:55 AM
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Women don`t complain, they walk around with a frown on their faces expecting you to read their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:53 AM
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Naah, women do this all the time, y`all literally cannot communicate with your damn mouths about what`s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:51 AM
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Sounds like a woman basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:50 AM
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What do you mean by actively listening? Are women putting their issues on the table and stating their issues or walking around with a frown on their faces expecting Professor X to read their mind? Seems like the latter a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:49 AM
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Do they communicate their needs directly or indirectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:48 AM
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I'm pretty sure the school/University teachers who sleep with their underage students like boyish looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:40 AM
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What entails being a good boyfriend? Waiting for sex? Being a doormat to your girlfriend? You didn't specify exactly. Cause I'm pretty sure you don't even know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:38 AM
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Naah, it's manipulation.Nothing about the 'socially acceptable way'. Exchanging exclusivity for sex. That's the trade right? Personally, none of my LTRs ever made me wait, if I catch even a hint that a girl I'm seeing will or is making me wait, I cut them off immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:32 AM
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How exactly is withholding sex, doing things the right way? Withholding sex only shows the man that you aren't as interested, it's kinda like shooting yourself in the foot. "I like so him much that I'll only sleep with him after 2 months", do you see how ridiculous that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:15 AM
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Just had to ask, it's 2025. People have weird shit going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:12 PM
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So what are you two exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:10 PM
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Damn. That marriage needs all the prayers it can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:57 PM
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Does your husband know you engaged in meaningless hookups in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:54 PM
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You're contradicting yourself, you were very picky but at the same time picked people who were forgettable and insignificant. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:52 PM
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✍🏽✍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:47 PM
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Yeah, no answer was better than what you just wrote lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:41 PM
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Not a single woman in this comment section has been able to answer my questions. If these men are not interesting enough or intelligent for you? Why sleep with them? You can't attract more intelligent men or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:40 PM
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This were people you just met beforehand or people you knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:37 PM
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Elaborate....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:28 PM
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Weren't you the same person who said you have sex with people you don't like? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:22 PM
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You didn't answer the first question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:58 PM
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First off, what's the logic behind sleeping with someone you don't like? Secondly, at the end of the day, both men hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:53 PM
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You'd think by saying the husband/boyfriend gets "more" it'd be like a yatch or something, nope, just exclusivity. What a let down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:46 PM
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Okay Prophet Jeremiah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:36 PM
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You cannot be this naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:19 PM
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This is not an assumption, it's reality. The husband material exchanges exclusivity for sex The FWB exchanges nothing for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:18 PM
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Meaning she won't be as freaky with you, as she was with her FWBs. Because you're husband material. You give exclusivity in return for sex, it's conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:16 PM
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No, not having the same access to sex other guys had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:14 PM
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Are you talking to me or her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:13 PM
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Exactly why no guy wants to be the husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:09 PM
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Looks is the base measure for attraction, if not the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:02 PM
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You're not getting my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:01 PM
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Because you know it's the truth. The husband material has to put in more effort to get the same thing the FWB did with minimal effort. Who has more value in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:41 PM
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Oh wow, so the FWB is missing out only on exclusivity? Yeah, he's not missing out on much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:32 PM
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Men value sex, women value relationships. Both men are getting sex but one is only getting it because of a relationship and more effort. It's not rocket science. What do you mean by more? Exclusivity? Is that meant to be more? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:29 PM
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Hence OP's point, the guy who gets sex without offering commitment technically is more high value than the husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:25 PM
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Aren't both guys getting the same thing though? So what exactly is the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:22 PM
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Husband material generally have to put in more work than the FWB. The FWB only has to call you occasionally for a booty call without any much investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:19 PM
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Exactly what OP is trying to say. No guy wants to be the guy she settled for after having an epiphany. "I don't like threesomes anymore, I now want to focus on our relationship". Yeah, miss me with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:18 PM
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Conventional standards are standards that are usually deemed acceptable in most places. A full of head of hair, height. Different conventional standards = unconventional standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:37 AM
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I never stated I have issues getting women lmao. But thanks for your unsolicited opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:07 PM
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It has literally been proven time and time again that women don't know what they want, by other women. That gender is confusing AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:07 PM
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You clearly know that's not what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:27 PM
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Someone with minimal hygiene and good facial attractiveness can still pull more women than someone who smells nice but has an ugly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:13 PM
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