Dry-Office4140 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	At a fork in the road		Dry-Office4140	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 05:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	At a fork in the road 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 04:22 PM
1	At a fork in the road Good advice, thanks.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 09:35 PM
1	At a fork in the road Definitely, we're going to have one more conversation, one more counseling session, and if things aren't designed to my specific requests, that's the direction I'll go.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 09:33 PM
1	At a fork in the road There's a long history of terrible relationships in her family, everyone has gotten divorced at least once. Her mom is an extreme narcissist, and has caused generational harm with abandonment, alcoholism, and verbal abuse. I honestly think that her reaction to difficulty in relationships is to demand change or break it off, simply because that what she saw growing up. Not that it makes any of this okay, but I still can see the forest and the trees. What caused the change, in my opinion, is actua…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 09:31 PM
1	At a fork in the road I'm definitely not basing my decision on feeling, which is how she came to her conclusion. I'm looking at this with logic and reasoning rather than the heart. Our life together has been pretty good. The last couple of years have been pretty difficult for a variety of reasons, which has included lots of arguing, conflict, resentment, etc. At the beginning of the year, we agreed to take a break, and I've been living in the basement. We agreed on 1 year to determine whether we commit to one directi…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 09:23 PM
2	At a fork in the road That's what I have communicated to her in a sense. I'm done trying to be something I'm not simply because she sees it's not authentic and resents me for it, and if I don't, she resents me for that too.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 08:45 PM
1	At a fork in the road We have been seeing a counselor which has now shifted to "uncoupling". I like your question though. I'm going to fins the answer of that tonight if I can. Otherwise, in all honesty, I feel like I'm burned out on this relationship and I don't want it to be so much work.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 06:33 PM
2	At a fork in the road I agree. Now that her bluff was called and she sees everything she'll lose and actually sees my value rather than what I lack, she's realizing everything about her life will will be worse than it was before. I just don't know if I can trust she'll change her ways. Any recommendations on reading about improved conflict resolution?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 05:56 PM