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ConversationDryAdhesiveness6579/r/seduction03/01/21 11:35 PM
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no
/r/seduction18/10/22 11:37 PM
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yeah it’s easier with your own place or rommates but honestly your young prioritize saving money now. you’ll be happier later then your 3 minute pumping session.
/r/seduction18/10/22 04:36 PM
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man, i’ve seen some absolutely haggard dudes pull insanely hot girls. i have a friend who is not attractive but he is so confident and consult pulls insanely hot women.
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:41 AM
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yes
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:02 PM
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nothing.
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:32 PM
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buy neil barrett flip flops, if your desperate. they are classy beach/poolside shoes and will give you 2 extra inches.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:40 AM
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thursday is the unofficial date day for sure. I live in new york and basically goin your thursday everyone is on a date.
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:54 PM
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this whole post is very cringe
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:37 PM
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yeah you did the right thing though when she tried to put you in the friend zone
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:25 PM
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this post is from a simp
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:16 AM
10

honestly this is genius, but i don’t think he should invite her.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:57 AM
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bro your fucked. a wedding is a great place to meet SINGLE chicks bringing this girl who calls you her friend and is taller than you means you’ll be sleeping on the couch while she gets railed in the bed.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:56 AM
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there are no rules
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:57 PM
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I’d be your wingman. I have a friend who is very good looking. I legit use him to “chum the waters” girls will approach him and then i can use the opportunity to be funny. Also gives social proof once other girls start talking to you.
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:56 PM
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yeah this is what to do. if you want a casual relationship you just need to be chill. you should actually always just be chill and have take it or leave it attitude with everything it makes things so much better
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:55 PM
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HAVE YOU EVEN GONE ON A DATE WITH THIS WOMAN ? Sorry for the all caps - but if you haven’t been on a date. Text her a plan to meet up in person. Jesus men are so fucked now.
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:26 PM
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yeah what’s going on here or you’re not as good looking as you think. flakes are normal online dating but i usually have like 3 exchanges with a chick and then ask for her number and make a date using the apps
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:17 PM
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yeah i’ve got a very cheap deal on my apt 2k a month in a great location. got lucky
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:06 PM
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i live in new york city. the girls have tons of options and SO DO YOU. We are outnumbered here my brother. we rule the dating scene don’t forget that. I just got dumped a week ago but i’m back out here dogging in these streets
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:50 PM
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nyc is the only place. who cares if it’s expensive you get paid more to live here.
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:01 PM
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it’s a really bad idea to hookup with someone in your building. a few people i know have done that and it has always ended bad.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:08 PM
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yeah you played this right
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:10 PM
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i like weight lifting because it makes me feel good. I’m by no means a body builder but i like it and I like feeling strong. Just keep playing sports dude as long as it’s a active i.e soccer/football not like golf or something.
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:34 PM
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yes it is a vicious cycle and i understand it, i felt the same at 21 you have to understand that you are the only person who can provide yourself with comfort.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:23 PM
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your overthinking.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:23 AM
-1

use hinge
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:00 PM
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who cares? it’s a cheap grocery store
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:08 PM
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don’t say that - that makes the whole thing feel weird.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:03 PM
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you sound sad. get off the internet for the day pal.
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:55 PM
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dude get off the fucking internet and live your life. The people who perpetuate this bullshit is only 10% of dudes fuck all women is insane. BRO i live in nyc i see hella ugly ducking dudes with insanely hot women. This incel, negative attitude is the issue. Who cares what you look like? looks fade, make something of your life.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:00 PM
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So you get all your self worth from other people ? Man this forum is just full of bullshit. We are fucked as a male species.
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:23 PM
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her life situation has changed. I.E a dude she was seeing left her or she left him. If you’re interested in seeing her you should just play it cool like you don’t give a fuck she ghosted and ask her to hang out, no texting chit chat just say Nice to hear from you, if you’re free on friday we should get together for drinks
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:05 PM
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say sup
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:44 PM
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“sup”
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:57 PM
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I dk man I go out and just have fun in NYC and honestly women end up coming up to me.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:55 PM
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nah you didn’t, she is responding and suggested a to meet back up.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:51 PM
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To attract high quality people you have to be high quality. Sounds like OP has a chip on their shoulder.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:22 PM
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yeah you being concerned about your haircut effecting what type of women you get is what’s going to limit you. cut your hair if you want to and if you like it, not for chicks.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:51 PM
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If you approach it like a game you can always potential lose or win. That’s not a healthy mindset. You should just try and enjoy every interaction with a women. If they see you calculating your move they will know and not be turned on.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:19 PM
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no being in your 30s as a dude rules.
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:00 AM
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hinge is good.
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:16 AM
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this is stupid. just have fun. not everything is about control.
/r/seduction09/02/22 11:22 PM
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You just feel better.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:10 AM
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that joke is fucking horrible.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:55 PM
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I can fully agree here with this, I’m going to be turning 32 and see very similar patterns with women. coach corey wayne’s advice for starting things up with a woman is absolutely fantastic. It definitely works.
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:08 AM
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I went through high school with dating, or getting kissed, lost virginity in college but no gf. serious gf after college now at 31 i only gave a rough idea of what my body count is and it’s high. It will happen but you can’t focus on it, focus on other things that make you happy.
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:52 PM
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bro just order blue chew
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:12 AM
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who hurt you bro ?
/r/seduction30/12/21 01:09 AM
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i see this all the time in new york.
/r/seduction22/12/21 09:30 PM
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this is good advice.
/r/seduction21/12/21 02:49 AM
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nah
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:37 PM
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nah anyone who uses the term beta is a loser.
/r/seduction19/12/21 03:46 PM
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nah
/r/seduction19/12/21 01:07 AM
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bro they know you’re coding so they assume you make money
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:22 PM
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bar
/r/seduction17/12/21 02:13 PM
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definitely don’t call her out. Just continue talking like normal still you seem like you’re hung up on this girl if your stalking her on a burner account.
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:39 AM
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nyc rules
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:28 PM
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yeah anyone can get numbers for sure.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:31 PM
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You are massively overthinking this. You sound insecure. I don’t think you should be doing anything. This dude works at fucking starbucks bro.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:48 AM
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3 for OP
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:44 AM
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btw it doesn’t seem like that at all.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:23 AM
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You need to elaborate a bit more, for help. I’m assuming you’re coming on to strong, texting to much. If you’re getting the dates it’s working. You need to make sure you’re doing the following: 1. Make sure to at least kiss her at the end of the date. 2. Don’t text her immediately after the date, wait a day or 2 and just say i had a nice time, let’s get together again when are you free ? 3. Go on 2nd date, escalate more. Repeat step 2. 4. After date 3 you probably should have hooked up. If not a…
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:02 PM
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This is pretty normal, like you’re in the heat of the moment, sometimes you can’t always get the bra off or all the clothes off. Sounds like you’ve never had a gf
/r/seduction12/11/21 09:44 PM
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you’re overthinking this dude. It doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:37 AM
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this. you shouldn’t have to try and act a different way to attract someone.
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:34 PM
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bro exactly 13 days ago.
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:44 PM
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yeah this is funny, if i said this to my girl she would laugh, not get turned on.
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:58 PM
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hmm i don’t know then, i’m the same age. It’s hard to find the right match
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:25 PM
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you seem like an idiot.
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:22 AM
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Curious as to how old you are ? I did this through my twenties, no issue getting women but I would see them for ~2 months. Then basically get bored, didn’t feel like a fit for me so I would reject them. However i would still come across a few woman that i would meet and want to date. I am just extremely selective with who i choose to date and there is nothing wrong with that, if you can be selective. Eventually you’ll find someone who is actually a goodfit for your lifestyle, but you should prob…
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:01 PM
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You should probably talk to a therapist
/r/seduction23/10/21 07:08 PM
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women will approach you. I’ve had multiple women approach me at bars, it’s usually women i’m not interested in but I have had a few flings.
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:48 PM
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this post
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:57 PM
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yeah this i get
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:40 PM
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Do you live in a major city ? I’m in new york and everyone is on apps.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:24 AM
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then why are you on a seduction forum bro
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:23 AM
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treat them mean, keep’em keen.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:05 AM
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yeah dude right there is the issue. You need to find something outside of a relationship. What are you going to do in this relationship ?Lay in bed and watch tv all day ? You need to find some hobbies and things that interest you outside a relationship. Otherwise this girl you get is gonna dump you for someone who is interesting and has a purpose. Like torture to hang out with platonic friends ?? How sad are you ? I choose my friends over girls i’m romantically involved with all the time. You so…
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:00 AM
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Hey man, I know it seems like having a girlfriend is a big deal and super important, but it’s not important in college, or really not that important ever. Relationships add to your life but shouldn’t be all encompassing. Take it from me, looking for or seeking out a LTR isn’t a way to be successful in finding one. You’re gonna need to get used to competing for women, there are always going to be men before, after, during. You’re also what 19 or 20 just have fun.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:50 AM
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jesus this thread is fucked. Damn I guess if i didn’t have a serious job i could do this.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:58 PM
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bro, I’m joking chill out.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:50 PM
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take steroids
/r/seduction07/10/21 04:41 PM
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yeah i have hsv-1 and never had an outbreak found i had it in a std/sti screening
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:31 AM
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more like 90%
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:30 AM
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yeah that’s what it sounds like. Honestly you cannot worry about getting into a long term relationship. Just continue to have fun and eventually it will happen. It is cliche advice but true. I am 31 and must have been on at least 200+ dates a few long term relationships. The best ones are always the ones where it isn’t forced and it just happens. This girl is 18 and at college she isn’t trying to meet a husband she is trying to party, you should be concerned with school and hanging with the boys…
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:50 PM
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dude your 18. Going to be real with you here. You’re going to break-up at some point. You need to just enjoy the ride. Wait till your older
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:26 PM
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watching this thread for answers
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:24 PM
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definitely watching, i just hope i never see them. i live in a major city though.
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:45 PM
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I think you’ve really over shared with her, and are not being fun and easy. i’ve made these mistakes too, I would refer to coach corey wayne on youtube. His stuff is good and works. He has a lot of a good advice. In my opinion, it’s your ego that is making you want a relationship with this woman, some title, what’s that really going to change?? If If your having fun, hooking up i guarantee eventually a girl will want to lock you down
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:41 PM
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Dude you said she acts like your therapist. I stopped reading there. You should not treat a woman like a therapist, get a real one. This is unhealthy and will doom any relationship, she will lose attraction for you. If you don’t want to be FWB then here are you two options. Tell her you want more with her and if she doesn’t want that then you need to be prepared to walk away. Tell her your okay with being FWB until it stops making sense for you. Number 2 means at some point you’ll want more and …
/r/seduction05/10/21 06:17 PM
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yeah this
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:58 PM
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19 you’ve got so much time, are you in college ? Just have fun, focus on your growth, girls come and go.
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:22 AM
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coach corey wayne !
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:20 AM
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I’m in my peak right now, I started hitting my stride around 28. I’m now 31 and it’s pretty chill.
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:55 AM
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You’re doing it right, it’s a balance, but you can’t just constantly be making sexual jokes and being flirty. It’s pretty clear treat a woman like a normal person and just read the situation as to when to be flirty.
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:21 AM
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you’re posting again about this girl again huh? Why don’t you just meet up with her already?
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:12 AM
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you’re insane.
/r/seduction28/09/21 04:15 AM
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dude everyone is telling you to stop with this girl. you’re so deep in the friendzone. you’re fucked moved on. this is desperate and sad.
/r/seduction28/09/21 03:31 AM
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just hit her up and say it would be great to catch up in person sometime, when are you free?
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:06 AM
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jesus the amount of overthinking about texting is insane
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:05 AM
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Clearly you have limited experience with women. You need drop this chick, and actually get experience with women in real life. Texting and talking on the phone is for when you’re in an actual relationship with a woman. You’re just her friend and emotional tampon. I’ll help you out, the only way she’ll ever date you is if you attract other women.
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:04 AM
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You should be listening to this guy
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:00 AM
1

well if you broke up with her and want her back then you need to make a date. Not a video date. Would she be willing to come meet up with you ?
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:45 PM
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who broke up with who ?
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:39 PM
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yeah don’t text, just ask them out and that’s it.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:38 PM
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Yeah, if your shorter you’ve got to lift.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:30 PM
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no dude you’re fucked. You have a bad attitude.
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:26 PM
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Yeah, dude i’m not about to just invite girls right to my place all the time. That shit is boring. I enjoy life
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:24 PM
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dude don’t contact her, preserve some dignity and move on.
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:13 PM
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your attitude tells me you’re going to just fail at life
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:00 PM
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it’s too hard to talk to 30 women. I find it to be confusing and expensive to date more than 3 women at a time. I live in New York though so shits expensive here. Also hard to juggle 3 women when you have an active friend group/social life.
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:34 PM
1

this is good advice
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:20 PM
2

talk to a therapist, not reddit. you shouldn’t need to fake being happy.
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:16 PM
1

dude…stop posting on reddit and live your life.
/r/seduction26/09/21 12:57 PM
2

how old are you ? the posts on this thread are so sad.
/r/seduction26/09/21 12:56 PM
1

don’t text so much in between dates. save conversation for in person. way more fun. I’ll text girls little things here and there but never a real convo
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:58 PM
0

your analogy is flawed. your comparing relationships not just of the opposite sex but relationship in general to equipment and looking at life from a unhealthy perspective. Life is about experiences and putting off experiences till you’re the best at some unknown or arbitrary goal is dumb. It’s about growth, you need to get off reddit.
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:53 PM
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hahaha, no it is fair that we worked hard. I’m saying it’s unfair that him at 22 just can’t compete and it’s the nature of dating right now.
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:15 PM
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this is the advice just sit next to her
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:54 PM
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this . Dude she is texting and seeing you wtf does she need to open your snaps. HOLY FUCKING SHIT.
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:37 PM
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Yeah also your 22 she is 26. She is probably dating 30+ year old men who have more to offer currently. It’s a just a sad fact. I’m a 31 year old man with a lot more to offer a woman from resources I’ve acquired that you just haven’t yet. Not fair but that’s the game.
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:56 PM
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dude just lightly grab her face and move it towards yours. Holy shit, what has happened to men!? You’ve already made out with her before!! so you know she is attracted to you.
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:51 PM
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this post just sounds like an ugly dude who can’t get laid.
/r/seduction22/09/21 12:09 PM
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you are correct about the inverse but a photo is not an accurate representation of yourself. It is taking a 3D image and converting it to 2D.
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:45 PM
1

she definitely wants attention. dude this girl seems super unstable. She is in her prime and she just likes male attention. She is def getting dick downed by other dudes and not you. I’d cut your loses.
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:45 PM
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nah just a home wrecker, all good i would probably do the same. no judgement
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:54 PM
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When people say uninterested a better way to put it is outcome independent. Basically, you don’t care if she goes out with you, it would be great if she does but if she doesn’t your life is still full and interesting. For example, you ask her out to join you and your friends for drinks. She declines, instead of getting butt hurt you just continue on with your day. That’s one part of it, the other part is when you’re hanging out with her, you don’t change who you are to please her. This is a hard…
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:01 PM
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jesus just change the date, damn i change date locations all the time. classic overthinking.
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:34 PM
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dude this is such bad advice. just keep talking AT people. This is why women don’t like cold approaches because of people like you.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:08 PM
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you should talk to a therapist, not reddit.
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:20 PM
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lolololol yeah she flaked oh well bro. it happens
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:22 AM
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text her, just be like you coming over ? sun is going down
/r/seduction07/09/21 01:29 AM
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I don’t think so bro. You should just tell her your monogamous, and if she wants to be in an open relationship with her ex you unfortunately can’t continue seeing her. Got to be congruent with what you want.
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:19 PM
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wow this is what’s up !
/r/seduction02/09/21 07:42 PM
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Yeah, I’m an above average looking guy in new york and almost exclusively nightgame and find it pretty easy to pull chicks. Cold approaching on the street is a little harder though.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:14 PM
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Yeah I can get numbers when i go to random parties & clubs. They’ll text a bit but rarely can i secure a date after that. I’m a pretty good looking & successful guy. You really need like more digital social proof these days.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:01 PM
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yeah, dude well that’s the issue right there. She knew she had you. Like other people say, you have to play the game
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:17 PM
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Cut out the good morning and good night texts Cut out the summarizing your day texts. Cut out the texting, she knew you were into her and that’s why you lost her. You really need to let women come to you. As a man we fall in ‘love’ quickly, we usually know immediately if we want to date a woman long term. Women however, need more time as they have more on the line (biologically) with investing in a man. Don’t ever reach out to her again, and completely try and move on, she might come back, she m…
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:04 PM
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I’m early 30’s. I’d let her add you. I think it does signal too much interest.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:01 PM
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this
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:00 PM
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honestly, I would avoid adding her on any of those. Let her do it. If she is into you and your IG is private. I guarantee she will try and follow you, if she is interested. Not sure how old you are but nobody really uses FB anymore so I wouldn’t even add her there.
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:34 PM
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Here is what I do, and I follow coach corey wayne’s advice in the beginning. First month of talking / dating non-exclusively. Text her only to make dates and dates should just be once a week. Duration: 3-4 weeks. You’ll need to reach out for the first 2-4x likely. Do not do a bunch of chit chat. Your follow up for second date should be sent like Monday or Tuesday and just say ‘Saturday was fun, want to go out on night X? After about a month of once a week dates pending things are going well, she…
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:42 PM
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nah just ask, shoot the text and if she doesn’t respond no worries.
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:34 PM
0

a thoughtful post
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:25 AM
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So glad tinder wasn’t a thing or IG wasn’t nearly as big when I was in college. I just had drunken fun and didn’t give a shit about girls. - This method works better for picking them up too. Just have fun and don’t care. Are you trying to date these 23 year olds cause let me tell you that’s not a great idea.
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:26 AM
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Yeah dinner is good, stay away from like a show etc, still need to be in get to know each other mode. I typically try and do something like wine in the park, then transition to a dinner casual dinner, then dancing and then back to her or my place. I live in new york though so it’s pretty easy to hit multiple spots like that, not sure the vibe elsewhere
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:24 PM
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just become interesting.
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:15 PM
0

dude you need to ask her out directly. This is not clear enough.
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:14 PM
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dude you’ve been on one date with her. As the man you should expect to ask her out at least the first 3-4x Once you’ve done that she should start to reach out but keep in mind most women don’t plan things. if she reaches out just make another date after that.
/r/seduction20/08/21 05:14 PM
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yeah do not get butt hurt, just say something like if your confused we should stop seeing each other or talking until you know what your feelings are. Then walk away and never look back. If she reaches out again assume she wants you back and make a date. The wisdom of corey wayne.
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:36 PM
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If your not reading the signs wrong which it seems like your not if you are making out at the end of the date I would try the following: If you get back to your place with them try and have sex, not just making out. Don’t text them that night, or even the next day wait a couple days and follow up. Walk them home don’t walk back to your place. If your going back to your place you need to be having sex. I probably need more info to help, like how long do the make-out sessions last for ? Is it a dr…
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:50 AM
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word. then just ask her out again on a date, and if she doesn’t respond after 2 days it’s over.
/r/seduction19/08/21 11:32 PM
2

what was your last communication like with her?
/r/seduction19/08/21 11:26 PM
6

then why are you asking for advice if you know what to do ?
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:56 PM
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do not do that
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:11 PM
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Yeah this one seems crazy, i’ve been in a situation with a women like this. One woman I was seeing I found out she had a bf, told her to take a hike as I wasn’t interested in being someone’s backup or second choice (that pissed her off) Immediately when she hit a rough patch with her BF who got a late night text (me) ? Best thing to do with these types of chicks, fuck em when you can, never take anything they say serious and don’t believe what they say, only what they do. She does not seem like …
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:07 PM
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your fine. you didn’t fail anything people on this sub are ridiculous.
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:21 PM
3

dumbest comment i’ve seen. feel bad for the woman who ends up dating someone as controlling as you this ain’t the 1950s
/r/seduction16/08/21 05:12 PM
2

you must live in a lame city. i always talk to women at bars but i don’t treat it like a game. i treat them like humans because that’s what it is. human interaction.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:46 PM
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just ask her the way your wrote. no need to overthink it.
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:14 PM
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Lol, it’s cause most normal people go to bars and pick up girls in big cities. Not just chasing random people down on the street like a creep.
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:00 PM
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nah you did nothing wrong she sounds crazy. dodged a bullet mate.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:54 PM
2

yeah don’t entertain what she is saying. if she brings up shit he says just tell her it’s not true. it also sounds like your not dating her if she is your crush... not much you can do but act like a man and keep moving forward.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:45 PM
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What do you want us do with this information? You sound like you want us to validate your self pity and join you in feeling sorry for yourself. Sorry this post is ridiculous you’ve wasted your life feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:38 PM
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wtf is this....that is not emotional intelligence. You looked a sign for your change. I am so concerned for humanity in this sub.
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:25 PM
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Yeah this is weird advice. Do you live in the US ?
/r/seduction14/08/21 06:22 PM
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I didn’t have sex or a first kiss until I was 18. Girls didn’t even look at me in a high school. Then i got attractive at 25 and I’ve been rolling in it. I don’t even know what my body count is but it’s got to be upwards of 70. It’s possible, get attractive (fit) and just talk to women. They are everywhere and are just people and honestly sometimes more horny then dudes.
/r/seduction14/08/21 06:19 PM
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nah this is true all true af. Gotta be toxic sometimes.
/r/seduction14/08/21 06:09 PM
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Inviting someone directly to your place is a bad move. Don’t do this. First: How much are you messaging on the apps before getting their number ? This is how I convert online, to text, to date: I usually exchange about 3-5 messages with the person before asking for their number or a date in the app. Once you get the number you do a quick intro message, either continue the conversation from the app or just a simple ‘Hey this is X’ Once she responds you ask her when she is free or are you free thu…
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:54 PM
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I disagree with then being quick. I’ve matched with girls online, haven’t been able to meet them for like 2 weeks but they still end up going out with me. I’m also really busy and sometimes only have time to meet once a week or not at all. If a woman is interested she’ll hang out. I’ve got a date tonight with a girl who has to fly out at 5am tomorrow. Yet she still wants to get dicked down by me.
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:38 PM
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Your young bro, so keep your head up. I didn’t really get good with women till about 27. You gotta do the dates at night. Only at night so you can make the environment conducive to hooking up. 10 days is a lot of time and your dating young girls so i’m sure they are fickle and have much older dudes with money pursuing them. Makes it way harder now with online dating for men your age, but just keep playing the field, do not get attached and enjoy your youth.
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:35 PM
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When i’m interested in a woman & actively courting her. Here are four things I like to see: When I reach out (text) to plan a date she gets back to me in less then 24 hours. Doesn’t need to be instantaneous but an acknowledgment even if it’s “need to check my schedule can I get back to you tomorrow” She doesn’t make her self to available or constantly try and communicate everyday. It’s important for women to be a hard to get. Men like to pursue, so women need to let men pursue. Ask him to do thi…
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:28 PM
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just give her oral. Plenty of reading online how to make a woman come through oral stimulation.
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:46 PM
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oh i dk blow up mattress is sketchy, going to be hard to escalate in an empty apartment.
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:50 AM
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damn no bed. What are you sleeping on bro ??
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:40 AM
2

ADD THE DOCTOR.
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:28 AM
3

the street. in the summer go to some day parties / dj things. Lots of IG handles you can follow that post parties etc on the weekend.
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:25 AM
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Dudes rock. Being a man is sick af.
/r/seduction12/08/21 09:05 PM
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let that text from her MARINATE don’t respond for like a day or two. STAY TOXIC KING.
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:30 PM
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This post is 100% accurate. Most of us have been there. Take this as a learning experience. It’s shitty but the unfortunate truth about dating women. You’ve got to play some games in the beginning. I.E Never over invest and don’t give a fuck (this attitude is needed to be successful at life )Especially since she is in her mid-twenties. I’ve found women outgrow some of this shitty behavior once they are 28+
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:29 PM
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Another dude is most definitely in the picture, and he is winning. No point in following up, i know it’s easy to say that, but hey she could come around if you just remove yourself. But don’t count on it. I wouldn’t remove her from socials. I would just mute her.
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:25 PM
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yeah, I would cut all contact and stop interacting with her at work outside of what is required of your responsibilities. If she wants to be with you she can get in-touch, she knows where to find you. She needs to see that she isn’t going to enjoy your company anymore as a friend or anything if it’s not romantic. As everyone else says seems like the ex is back in the picture. You don’t want to be a back-up, which is what she is doing. She wants to know you’ll be there IF she ends things with her…
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:20 PM
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yea... it’s unhealthy to masturbate too much, but it’s also very unhealthy to not masturbate. I’ll do it like once a day and no problem talking to women. Sounds like an excuse to me bro.
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:32 PM
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Glad you approached dude, but i wouldn’t call this an ‘approach’ you spoke to a server, who had to speak to you and bring you your food.
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:48 PM
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I think 3% Man had some solid types but holy shit the corey wayne can’t write for shit. A lot of it felt pretty standard and some a bit out of touch. If you take the main points of the book and apply them you’ll have moderate success.
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:57 PM
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Yes, having IG is fine. I find most women now think it’s a bit odd if you don’t have it. I’m just not super active on it. Rarely post etc.
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:55 PM
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This is a great post, listening is very important, you should do more listening then talking (depending on the woman) I’ve also over shared on 1st dates which has allowed me to hookup but the woman eventually lost interest because she knew so much about me and the intrigue/mystery was gone. I’d add not caring about the outcome with women is very important, always have an attitude of I don’t care about how this date goes, I’m screening to see if your even good for me. Don’t be afraid to cut a dat…
/r/seduction10/08/21 02:20 PM
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woof. I’ll just stop here. Best of luck buddy.
/r/seduction09/08/21 06:49 PM
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this is the worst advice i’ve seen in this sub. Like damn you must not pull any woman if you need a strip club to talk to women who literally HAVE to talk to you to make money and pretend to be interested.
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:53 PM
5

on dating apps I legit just Hi and an opener, and then ask like two questions and ask for their number, or i just ask them immediately if they want to skip right to the part where we get a drink. I think you’re doing too much conversation in the app. The goal is to get their number asap and make a date.
/r/seduction08/08/21 05:13 PM
1

you just tell him exactly what you just said. why are you posting here ?
/r/seduction08/08/21 05:08 PM
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are you just trash in bed ? That has to be what it is ?
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:59 PM
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I live in new york too, and honestly it’s pretty easy go to a bar, talk to the bartender or other patrons. Met tons of people this way, once you get into a social circle with people you’ll meet their friends and can start to branch out.
/r/seduction06/08/21 10:21 PM
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eh height matters, I’m 6-2 and being tall has legit just gotten me laid. I don’t think it’s an end all if your short but my game definitely doesn’t need to be as tight as a shorter guy. I’ve legit just had conversations with women while out (not even flirting) and then just ask if they want to get out of here and my conversion rate is fucking insane.
/r/seduction03/08/21 10:59 PM
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yeah seems that way, i don’t care at all, was gonna do it anyway these city girls don’t care at all about their friends.
/r/seduction03/08/21 01:01 AM
3

gotta stay toxic.
/r/seduction03/08/21 12:59 AM
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The only way to make her “yearn” for you is to keep doing what your doing. Don’t confess your feelings to her or say shit like that, continue to hookup with her, text her infrequently and just have fun every time you hang out. Do not bring up a relationship...ever. If you keep hanging out and just having fun eventually she won’t want that feeling to stop and will start to get attached to you.
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:27 PM
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This is not accurate at all. I’ve found that older woman tend to know what they are looking for i.e casual sex, a relationship and are more straightforward then younger women. Younger women play games and you have to play games with them to get them attracted. The OP sounds really delusional.
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:27 PM
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winter is hard. honestly start working on the rotation near mid august and get a solid rotation for post halloween. I’ve been in the city for 8 years and meeting people in the summer is super easy. Winter you’ve got to go to bars and underground clubs. Night game is really the only viable option and dating apps
/r/seduction22/07/21 01:49 AM
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Yes, it is just part of being human
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:50 AM
2

practice dude. talking to people is easy just say whatever you want. most people are so obsessed with themselves
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:45 AM
1

you should get a therapist
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:11 PM
12

Treat the women you want to date like the ones you just want to fuck. It doesn’t feel good sometimes to do that, but it works.
/r/seduction17/06/21 04:06 PM
4

dude your average. 5 inches is the average penis size.
/r/seduction24/05/21 01:32 PM
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i’ve been here before dude. (30m and 25w )you should pull back, she needs to do some work. you should NOT bring up what’s going on or how you feel about her. I know it’s shitty and stupid but these young girls are not into it.
/r/seduction23/04/21 10:54 PM
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this whole subreddit is filled with just brain dead advice.
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:21 PM
1

Yeah dude just get some ED pills super easy to get now. I use them when i’m drunk and have whiskey dick. they work and remove all anxiety.
/r/seduction29/03/21 04:58 PM
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damn people should be going to therapy in this sub not posting on reddit.
/r/seduction22/03/21 03:38 PM
2

nah it’s the way it is. I used to be nice, but a lot of women have ruined that for me and now I’m completely jaded.
/r/seduction01/03/21 12:43 AM
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I'm curious as to what you mean in the comment "When girls act uninterested, always call their bluff and take them at face value?" ​ Are you saying to just assume they aren't interested and just decrease your engagement OR are you saying when they start acting like that to actually call them when you see them?
/r/seduction23/02/21 07:57 PM
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i type in lowercase
/r/seduction18/02/21 08:50 PM
1

new york city
/r/seduction17/02/21 12:53 PM
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this is pretty dark dude.
/r/seduction07/02/21 05:35 PM
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this is the way. 100% agree. got the tip from corey too. it seriously works
/r/seduction23/01/21 11:05 PM
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have you two met up in person ? Either this guy is an idiot. Guessing he could be or he isn’t that interested. If i’m interested in a woman I’m trying to hang out with her as soon as both are schedules allow. If i guy is interested or a woman is for that matter they will make hanging out easy.
/r/seduction22/01/21 05:10 AM
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height helps, same with dick size. don’t let anyone tell you differently. life isn’t fair
/r/seduction22/01/21 02:42 AM
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All relationships are about giving, it’s never about receiving. But it sounds like she might be emotionally unavailable
/r/seduction18/01/21 12:49 AM
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why do i even read this sub? fuck, is everyone autistic in here and have no idea how to have a conversation with a woman ?
/r/seduction17/01/21 03:58 PM
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honestly i’ve had girls flake, i’ve flaked, i just make new plans and don’t get butthurt and it all works out. think it’s more you mindset. move on if she flakes but also fuck it shoot another text or call and ask her out again. if she doesn’t respond to that who cares
/r/seduction15/01/21 11:08 PM
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you’re provably texting too much... honestly when they go on the trip, don’t text them ?? last thing i want to be doing on a trip is texting with some woman i went out with twice... we aren’t dating.. i’m trying to have fun with my friends not text some girl i’ve only just met. best course of action would have been to wait till she got back and just said something like “hope you had a nice trip, let’s meet up this week for a drink and you can tell me about” i think best thing you can do is just …
/r/seduction15/01/21 07:28 PM
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i have been crushing it during covid. So much easier to close, bars close at 10 come back to my place etc etc. I’ve even got girls to come right to my apt without meeting somewhere public first
/r/seduction12/01/21 07:01 PM
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not worth it at all.
/r/seduction10/01/21 09:22 PM
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yep
/r/seduction04/01/21 05:33 PM
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corey wayne has some good points but some stuff is a bit dated and won’t attract certain women.
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:45 PM
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bro. people aren’t having as much sex as you think they are.
/r/seduction31/12/20 02:03 PM
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man i totally understand this, you have to just assume you’ll meet up in january and just leave it at that. know it can be frustrating but some people just don’t text that much. some girls text back quickly some aren’t on their phone. i’ve had issues with this and came across as needy by texting too much so i’ve just stopped really texting much at all with women i like. make a plan to meet up. text her the day before or day of and confirm plans. meet up & hook up. not much else you need to do.
/r/seduction30/12/20 04:17 PM
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yeah, this isn’t gonna work.
/r/seduction29/12/20 09:57 AM
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Yeah I approach, although live in NYC and current covid situation has limited approaches, but I do go to parties. my morals are...loose. If it works I do it. Not a saint.
/r/seduction23/12/20 02:47 PM
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Not much. I avoid texting now. It’s fucked up too many relationships for me, with miss communication. If she texts me I’ll text her back I don’t initiate it.
/r/seduction23/12/20 02:44 PM
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Can you DM me that sub ? I’m dying in this one...
/r/seduction23/12/20 02:39 PM
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Had sort of a very similar situation with a woman. She did this to me a couple times and I ended up ending this with her due to flaky behavior. Said she was going to meet up with me at a party with my friend after leaving her friends place, midnight comes around and she doesn’t show up. Her excuse was falling asleep at her friends. I didn’t say anything that night but I did text her the next day saying that I was irritated she would say she was going to do something then didn’t. Firm but just be…
/r/seduction21/12/20 09:42 AM
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There isn't like a formula for when to contact someone. If your unsure about when to text her then just don't. You're going to fuck shit up via text. Less is more in the early stages.
/r/seduction12/12/20 06:14 PM
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Usually I when it’s new I don’t text the woman much. Best bet is to just continue to make dates via text and keep conversation short. As you progress with the relationship with this person the texting and communication will increase. If you feel like texting send something you both discussed on the date. Like a funny article or something light. Don’t send good morning or good night texts or ask how she is etc. Not texting her will make her wonder a bit and makes you seem busy.
/r/seduction12/12/20 06:07 PM
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Pandemic has made getting laid even easier IMO. Girls are way more interested in dating and hooking up now. I live in a New York though so things are slightly different here. Tons of woman not as many men.
/r/seduction01/12/20 12:36 AM
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Totally agree. Honestly new to this forum, but not new to the game and some of the shit I'm reading is truly autistic. How can so many people have no concept of social intelligence or how to go out and treat a woman just like any other person?
/r/seduction01/12/20 12:07 AM
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Yeah covid has made dating different for sure but I’ve found it’s much easier to get girls back to your place now. Oral is pretty simple but all girls get off slightly different and some honestly don’t like oral. Seeing one girl now who just isn’t that into it, and I know what I’m doing. Quick google search will give you pretty solid directions on what to do but one method that I’ve found that works well is mouth and finger combo. You kiss, lick everywhere but dont touch the clit hold off for li…
/r/seduction30/11/20 02:14 AM
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Damn people are really fucked in this forum.
/r/seduction30/11/20 01:44 AM
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Yo take a break, fuck man I got through swings where I’m going on 3 dates a week. This week I’ve lined up a girl every night. (Just re-downloaded hinge & I’m crushing it. ) Honestly your 21 you should be focusing on yourself also DO not get hung up on one girl in college. There are so many insanely hot women in college. You do not want a gf
/r/seduction30/11/20 01:42 AM
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Yeah sounds like it’s probably the sex thing. I have had issues with myself not cumming during sex with some women the first time we’ve had sex because of nerves usually, find if I stop thinking so much and just enjoy myself we all have fun. The first time you have sex with a woman you should make it all about them and make sure they orgasm. I honestly try and make sure they orgasm before I even fuck them. Since woman are multiorgasmic it’s easier to get them off with oral then make them cum whe…
/r/seduction30/11/20 01:38 AM
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I had covid it was fine. Wasn’t even sick.
/r/seduction29/11/20 06:15 PM
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I’m with OP. Live in New York too and covid has honestly gotten me laid so much more with bars closing early. Yeah I go to parties, yeah go ahead and hate me I do not care. I am a selfish asshole.
/r/seduction29/11/20 06:14 PM
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