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In my opinion/experience is that guys who are "open and vulnerable" too early are the ones who crawl up my ass and take residence there. Being open is only part of it, they want emotional work from me and I have my own life and issues to manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:55 AM
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Everyone likes money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:29 AM
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I do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:49 AM
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Beta bux is tricked??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:10 PM
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Beta bux is getting sex. The woman is in a relationship she's rather not be in be cause of circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:05 PM
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But he loves a woman he's willing to buy??? What!!??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:01 PM
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Buying someone for sex is better than marrying someone with low standards!!??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:48 PM
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Sexual desperation isn't the same thing as economic desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:38 PM
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A beta bux situation isn't someone exploiting someone's bad economic situation. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:19 PM
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My take on this is passport bros are willing to exploit the fact that women from another country may have less economic opportunities. Basically passport bros are willing to buy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:13 PM
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Yeah agreed this has been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:08 PM
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Yeah I mean it's clearly common. Im starting to realize I'm in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:56 AM
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I know several women who have gotten abortions. Are you sure it spans age groups? Because this sounds like the behavior of a generation raised on onlyfans. It was the absolute norm and expectation at all points in my life and social circles that women would have their own careers and be financially independent. Even in my hobby groups, school, work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:51 AM
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Most women I know met their partner on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:40 AM
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I really don't think they are my friends. I believe you that it's common. But no, in my age group and social circles this is not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:39 AM
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Now everyone is a fully functioning adult, sounds good to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:16 PM
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That's WILD. WHO ARE THESE WOMEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:14 PM
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I believe you. I just don't think it's my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:13 PM
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Reminds me of the How I Met Your Mother episode called The Window
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:21 PM
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Oh yeah, I agree with the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:20 PM
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Yeah I really feel for you guys, dating sounds impossible as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:18 PM
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Hell if I know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:46 PM
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Basically your second paragraph is what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:09 PM
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I think this is universal. I see men on this sub all the time acting like the behavior of Gen z insta-hoes is representative of average women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:46 PM
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Well yes, there are more opportunities because we're more likely to say yes to a guy we find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:23 PM
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This idea that there is a monolith of women proclaiming this stuff is ridiculous. Feminism says fuck who you want and don't fuck who you don't want. That's the actual message.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:22 PM
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Women are hypocritical because.... Checks notes.... They are only having sex with people they are attracted to. Why is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:17 PM
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Who's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:02 PM
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Are you serious!? Autocorrect. No the OP is saying women aren't humans. Bro that's obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:57 PM
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No it's only the money, you know this they know this, everyone knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:04 PM
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Its boldness, confidence, and good dick. If she's putting up with shitty behavior she either has low self esteem or he's laying the pipe she can't quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:58 PM
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I'm personally very against male circumcision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:16 PM
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That's so smart!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:50 PM
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Because they want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:47 PM
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You could be right if you're talking about first dates. I suppose I'm talking about dating. Most professional women my age contribute financially to a relationship. I'll let a guy pay for first dates if he asked me out and insists on paying (they usually do). Not worth the argument and I don't want to turn down someone's kindness If I'm interested tho, I'll cover the next date. The men who are fine with that are the ones who actually believe in gender equality. (Unless they make way more money t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:28 PM
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Yeah man that sucks, I feel for men trying to date these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:24 PM
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In dating context, good sex, fun, support, commitment if you're looking for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:23 PM
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Because women are pursuing their own pleasure. If what you have to offer isn't offering her more pleasure then she could get otherwise, why would she do it. "Making it difficult" is just lack of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:58 PM
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I'm a 39 yo professional woman, and this just isn't the reality of my friend group. Both men and women work and contribute financially. I don't know what you gen zers are doing but our generation assumed that everyone paid their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:53 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:46 PM
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To your point, I'm dating a 5%er and I'd never go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:39 PM
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I posted this on another thread. OMG I want your body on sight visceral attraction (what some might call spontaneous or male sexuality) for men from women is probably about 5%. But those aren't the guys most women are dating because most women are indeed responsive and less visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:04 PM
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That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:10 AM
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I do. Several men in my life that I love have had false accusations mess with their lives. I feel quite strongly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:09 AM
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The first one makes me nervous because of how bad our justice system is at finding the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:24 PM
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It could be that. Or the guy is particularly good at some sex acts. As a low key example, usually missionary is my least favorite position but with my current partner it's my favorite because of how he fucks, how our bodies match up etc. But to your point and mine, a woman doing more with an attractive guy because she's more attracted to him, is different than doing more with an attractive guy because... Fuck you uggo, shit tests, making him wait, beta bux or whatever nonsense. It has to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:26 PM
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The idea that women have sex for ... Wait for it.... Pleasure is just lost on these men. If she likes it with you she would do it with you. If she likes it better with a previous partner well....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:10 PM
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Let me rephrase. Women do things with men when they enjoy it with that man. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:53 PM
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Not openly kinky ones. Try out getting involved in your local kink scene. Or feeld is a good option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:52 PM
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If you want kink, date explicitly kinky. Expecting your partners to do sexual things they aren't into for you is entitled and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:37 PM
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You are simply blind to what women go thru. No reality check? That's simply not.... Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:43 PM
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Yeah I would agree with that. At least in the short term. When you have a long term relationship with another human, compatibility counts for a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:20 AM
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I dunno, seems to me like A LOT of guys truly believe it's gonna happen for them. It's a cliche in media. Like this is known.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:18 AM
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I've had sex with and dated a lot of guys in my life. You can have pretty good sex with a guy who's...fine, based on chemistry, grooming, and confidence. But that visceral, feral thing of omg I want his body? Yeah it's only like 5% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:04 AM
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Isn't that what everyone wants? That's a human trait not a woman trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:07 AM
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Nah, you don't care what she actually thinks. You care about keeping her happy so she'll have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:44 PM
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Username checks out 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:41 PM
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That's exactly right. These guys aren't actually looking for empathy unless it's in the form of a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:24 PM
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I don't offer, I take out my wallet because obviously two working adults are going to split the check. If he insists on paying tho I let him. Not worth conflict and it's a nice gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:15 PM
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Not until you start dating no. Once you're dating you are very special.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:31 AM
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Oh babe. You'll laugh at this in a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:30 AM
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Most women don't want that guy to do anything in particular LOL. We don't care about this one random guy or his dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:28 AM
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I'm straight but I don't find the idea of sex with a woman gross. I just don't want to. There are many men however who I find the idea of sex with disgusting. Sounds like you have a homophobia problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:04 PM
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Lol. Women are biologically wired not to find most men attractive. Look it up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:21 PM
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How are women making men dance? By existing and not wanting to sleep with them? What is compelling these men to dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:07 PM
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I care a lot about my male friends who struggle with dating. I'm not gonna solve the problem with my pussy tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:05 PM
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So women are supposed to have sex with people they find gross, but you don't have to... because....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:56 PM
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You're saying we need the draft if war happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:37 PM
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Who would want to sign up for that? I know plenty wwomen who are pushing to end the draft. Seems like a better version of equality to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:21 AM
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In the state agency I work for, the board that makes decisions is entirely men and the people doing the admin work are entirely women. The visual is... Striking. That's patriarchy my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:59 PM
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Yeah I think that's pretty much right. Not every woman, but probably a lot of women if they are attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:00 AM
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Why would I want to? Sounds like fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:56 AM
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I didn't say women are victims. I think men and women are both victims in a lot of ways. You simply aren't going to try to see a different perspective. A lot of people follow the conservative script in regards to gender roles. Is being a housewife a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:34 PM
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You believe that women are consciously choosing to have bad sex so they can take a man's resources? No other reasons or context?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:23 PM
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At the expense of having satisfying sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:19 PM
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You still haven't answered the question. What are the reasons a woman might marry a man she isn't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:10 PM
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Try. Try to put yourself in someone else's shoes. The victim/not-victim dichotomy is overly simplistic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:49 PM
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Why won't you answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:39 PM
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You're being purposely obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:23 PM
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Maybe in 2026, but not 30 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:16 PM
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I would say they don't realize that true attraction is possible. Why would a women want to have unsatisfying sex for her whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:07 PM
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I definitely didn't say that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:51 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:48 PM
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Where did I say that men are bad people? Also attraction isn't yes/no. Part of the problem like I said is that a lot of basic guys are bad at sex, and I honestly think a lot of them have no idea. I'm a swinger and a lot of people with failing marriages think swinging will save them so I've seen a lot. These mediocre husbands get an education when they see how the experience men fuck. I've seen men go from boring to hot by figuring out how to fuck and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:50 PM
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I mean you're assuming a level of self awareness that doesn't exist. These women are not using guys consciously, they are following the social script and doing what is available to them. These guys are using the women too. Thinking you should get to have sex with someone cuz you pay for everything... The fucked up dynamic here is a two way street. Like... These husbands are also generally lazy and don't know or care that they suck in bed. Religion is a lot of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:34 PM
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Yeah I meant that in the short hand "nice not not hot" guy sense, being kind and being hot can coexist of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:29 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:25 PM
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Well, that's simply not true and not the correct framing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:24 PM
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I didn't say they don't care about them, I said they don't want to fuck them. It's extremely annoying that all these women don't want to get jobs like the rest of us and so stay in these relationships but it's also easy to judge from the outside and not so easy to walk away from a marriage for many reasons. You have to believe that you deserve sexual satisfaction and most women (from my generation, I'm an elder millennial) do not. Or don't even realize there are better options because frankly...…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:49 PM
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This is true and from the other side of it (I'm a late 30s woman) I see SO MANY women who either want to get divorced or do get divorced and have to go get a job like the rest of us cuz they married a guy they didn't want to fuck and he was the financial support. And eventually they want to be in a relationship with someone they want to fuck! I don't necessarily blame these women tho. There is a WHOLE cultural narrative about giving the nice guy a chance and we've been taught that our attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:38 PM
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Oh sure I didn't mean to imply that. Learning how women operate can definitely improve your SMV. Edited to add: yeah, I guess you're right that it's off-putting to complain about the entitlement of some women when the reality is the concept of deservedness is flawed to begin with. Who's to say what she deserves. You? Her? It's a meaningless concept. The only thing that matters is what someone can get. If a woman can get a man she thinks she deserves well... I guess she can? And if she can't, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:13 PM
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The reality of dating in 2026 I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:08 PM
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That's a tough place to be in I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:07 PM
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I do think there is a problem with women looking down on men in our culture. I think dating apps have really messed with our brains. The problem is faces on an app aren't real people. Men shouldn't be demonized for having a normal human sex drive or wanting love and connection. I'm not sure what to do about it tho. These women don't listen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:06 PM
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I mean your two options are to be mad or accept it. I had to go thru a similar process with becoming disabled and realizing how much people were gonna look down on me and make assumptions. I was mad about it but the situation isn't gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:04 PM
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Yeah that's valid but also irrelevant, right? That's your SMV. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:01 PM
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So learn how to woo a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:05 PM
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Acceptance is the only solution you're gonna get
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:05 PM
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Correct both are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:02 PM
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Yeah exactly I think as you get older these rules become less and less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:01 PM
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What you "deserve" in this world is irrelevant. I deserve a vacation in Hawaii but if I go around complaining about it people will roll their eyes. The only thing that matters is what you can get. This is gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:58 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:57 PM
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But why did they save the women? Not because they care so much. So they can use them for sex and breeding. It's not for women's benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:54 PM
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Sexual selection is a type of natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:53 PM
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What is your suggestion to fix the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:52 PM
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The problem is that all men say this. "I'm a giver" "I care about the women's pleasure more than mine" but 9/10 it's still about their ego and they don't listen to what I actually want. Saying that doesn't equal more pleasure for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:47 PM
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Yes, society is unfair and we all have to suffer for it. The sooner you accept this the happier you will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:44 PM
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Unfortunately actually yes we do that's evolution mate sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:43 PM
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Going to 9 events and not finding any guys attractive isn't weird at all, and has nothing to do with her appearance. The guys who go to these events are already gonna be one step down from the super hot guys who don't have to. And honestly most men aren't hot. 🤷🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:11 PM
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Help me understand something. Why all the focus on what women think they "deserve." Isn't that pretty irrelevant? All that matters is what they can actually get. The SMP will work it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:02 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:27 PM
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I apparently have old people hobbies. To meet people my age I need to find other hobbies and that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:50 PM
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Let's take the gym for example. I don't want some guy eyeing me and being gross. But a little light flirting when I'm signalling I'm open to it is to me fine at the gym. I swim and sometimes make flirty eyes at a guy in the lane next to me. I would be startled and put off if he approached me after my workout to ask me to coffee with no previous context. But if we've chatted a little and the vibe is there... Shoot your shot! There is a large gulf between "hit on" and "feel it out" that someone gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:48 PM
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So points 2 and 3... It's ok to flirt (as opposed to hit on) with women going about their day, or in hobbies, but you have to be socially calibrated. You have to build report and look for reciprocation. If I join a hobby group and we get to know each other, we do the activity together, flirt a little and then you ask me out that's great. If I join a hobby group and a guy immediately asks me out with no "foreplay" it's obvious he's not interested in me, he wants to get his dick wet. Which isn't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:40 PM
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