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| 482 | I Challenged Myself to Approach 1 Girl Every Day for 30 Days—Here’s What I Learned | Fundamentals | Dry_Manufacturer3846 | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 02:18 AM |
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| 2 | Guys, i attract loads of Not hot chicksIf you’re looking to settle down then write down the qualities besides looks that you’re looking for in a woman. Remember the beauty will eventually fade. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:29 PM |
| 5 | How is the dating world after 30?I had more success after 30 than before 30. I have more knowledge and experience which helps a lot. Being financially stable with a job which leaves ample time for me to date is helpful as well. Standards are different now because I am looking for a long term partner. There are a lot of women out there who are single moms, divorced, etc. I simply avoid them which shortens the dating pool. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I Challenged Myself to Approach 1 Girl Every Day for 30 Days—Here’s What I LearnedUpdated the post with the results. :) | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 12:18 PM |
| 2 | What makes you men attracted to a woman?I am a bit older and my attraction has changed over the years. I used to be only attracted to the women’s beauty but now it is the combination of her beauty and how she reacts to me. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsWell kudos for at least approaching. When a woman is a with her friends, it’s a very complex dynamic. Her friendship to her friends is more important than any guy out there. You will have to befriend her friends but it is very difficult to do with 9 other personalities out there. Social calibration is key. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Who are the big guys making content nowadays?Coach Kyle. He is really good at getting me off my seat and start putting in the work. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Can poor/broke me date?Attract? Yes The real question is would you be able to keep her? If you’re broke and struggling financially, I really doubt it. | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | What are the most optimal places for getting dates for gen Z and becoming more experienced in relationships?Depends on your environment. If you live in a small town then cold approaches may not be the best strategy. I would say do a mix of everything (if your environment allows) which is cold approach, social events, clubs, online. There’s something to be learned in all areas and it will help you grow as more well rounded. | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 03:00 PM |
| 0 | Are girls turned on when they see you with other girls?Pre-selection is a real thing and is attractive to women. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approach Fundamentals for BeginnersI always go direct. Mostly because I live in a big city and nobody has time for a small talk. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔What’s your goal? If it is just to get laid then you can easily find a guy in a club or bar unless you’re very obese. To get relationship, this is where you will have to put in the work. Get in shape by workout and nutrition, fix your teeth if they’re bad, take care of your skin, and know how to confidently talk to men. I personally love an attractive girl with confidence. I also like a great smile on her face. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How much does occupation matter in regards to game?Any occupation that puts you in the right location is okay. If you work for an Oil & Gas company that puts you in the middle of nowhere, your game is going to suffer. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Dating coaching - too pricey?Learning game is a long term process. Better to have a coach who can analyze your game and provide feedback over a longer period. That being said, bootcamps also have a value but you will have to digest a lot of info in a very short period of time. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old virgin that struggles with women, advice?The problem seems to be that you’re not doing much about it. Continuing to live the same way won’t change your results. Move to a larger town if you can (it doesn’t have to be NYC or LA). Start doing cold approaches, attend social events, go to clubs or pubs to meet more girls (you don’t have to drink). Dating apps are not reliable for majority of the men. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it even worth learning night game?If you’re still in your 20s, I recommend it highly. Some of the reasons are: 1. Talking in loud clubs will improve your vocals and you can carry that in daygame. 2. Approaching women in groups will improve your handling of social dynamics. This will help in approaching group sets in daytime. (Family groups are awkward though) 3. Competition in clubs/bars will develop a sense of urgency when you are going out to approach. I am personally not that great in daygame so not sure how point 3 applies. … | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Do women have higher standards than men?Yes. When you have loads of options, which women do, then you will naturally get picky. Men don’t have a lot of options which is why they swipe right on everyone online and are not that picky. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Hard to settle down once you know about game?Don’t dwell on it for too long. Find a girl you love and want to have children with. No point being in your 50s/60s and still chasing girls (unless you’re divorced/separated) | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna workI have done maybe 10,000 approaches. It definitely works regardless of your background and interests. Different girls have different interests just like different guys have different interests. Pick the one that you connect with. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 02:21 AM |
| 2 | What's exactly charisma?If you want to get deeper understanding of Charisma, I will recommend reading “Charisma Myth” by Olivia Fox | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 05:38 PM |
| 18 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**The black pillers are going to focus on “6’3”” | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 07:10 PM |
| 5 | I suddently started noticing more iOis from girlsKeep it up man. You took the action and that’s all that matters. | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 12:16 PM |
| 10 | What are your crutches for social anxiety/extroversion?Talk to 2-3 new people everyday. If you are serious about it, do it every single day. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Need advice from men who lost their virginity lateAre there any websites that gives some reviews about these coaches like the one you mentioned Not that I am aware of. I met my coach in person and saw him game from my own eyes to make a decision. what should one know before hiring a coach See if you resonate with him as a person. Whether the coach is legit. He may have a good game but is he a good teacher. Etc. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Need advice from men who lost their virginity lateLost mine at 27 and I know exactly what you are talking about. I would advise to move to a better city like Delhi or Mumbai where the crowd is more liberal and can practice cold approaches. Also, if you have the money, you may want to consider hiring a coach (Iron Man Lifestyle for example) | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?Day game doesn’t necessarily mean take 3 to 4 hours of your day to go out and approach women. You can go about your day and still approach girls. That’s still day game for me. | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 06:56 PM |
| 27 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himHaving great looks is truly amazing. And I am genuinely happy for the ones who have received this genetic gift. However, it is not something you want to rely on as it fades overtime(hair loss, wrinkles, etc.) | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Do you agree with this ? I have heard it from a lot of people .Don’t lower your standards. However, when it comes to cold approaching and maybe even getting dates, approach women who are like 2 or 3 levels below the rating level of your ideal girl. This is because when you finally come across a girl who is your 10, you will already have the momentum built up. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 03:42 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herI would steer clear of the race thing. Instead talk about which country they are from or what language they speak (will give you an idea where they are from). If you must, ask about their cultural background. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 04:49 PM |
| 32 | Which nationality of women age the best?Black, East Asian, South East Asian women age the best. White women age the worse among the group. This of course is a generalization and from my own personal experience. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 3 | 20yo virgin, turning 21 in two weeks. Trying to lose my virginity before turning 21. How would I go about this?This. Just do it. I refused until I was 27 before I finally gave in. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 02:13 AM |
| 4 | You are stranger who cold-approached her, that’s why she won’t go out with you on a date even if she seemed interested.The concerns are legitimate. Another solution that I can think of is having Instagram exchange so that she knows who you are. I would also try to connect with her interests and share my own insights so that she knows I am a normal dude trying to talk to her. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Justin MarcI have seen him in person and how he games. He definitely gets laid a lot. Regarding buying his course, it depends what you are looking to get out of it. I haven’t bought his course so I don’t know what’s in there. But given his lifestyle, it would make sense if you are looking to emulate the same (lots of nightgame, instagram, etc.). I wouldn’t go for it if you are looking for a serious relationship. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Calling all Toronto or GTA PUAsI came across few people but nobody seems dedicated enough to the game. I personally go out twice a week mostly for nightgame on the weekends. Drop your Instagram and I will send you a DM. Hoping to come across some dedicated people. Maybe former students of Honest Signalz and Justin Marc. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:40 PM |
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