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I have not seen much awareness about MRM from many. I’m in a group chat at church with some moms. There’s one woman who had her husband leave her a year ago. Everyone is team mom and really rains judgement down in this man for starting to pursue other women before the divorce is finalized. I know they are all helping her cope, but I don’t think any of them want to consider that he has feelings too and we are getting one side of the story. If I ever had the chance to meet this gentleman. I would …
/r/MensRights18/06/25 02:00 PM
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Sent you a DM about the conversation. Mods removed it, so I wasn’t sure if I should go around linking it. But for the boy, he seemed to hardly comprehend the meaning of his words, so I think it was a phrase he parroted from adults talking to him. That means he often gets told he’s a bad boy.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 01:37 AM
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I had a conversation with someone here on the sub a week or so ago. It was hard to realize how many gaps in my understanding there was, but now I see instances of what he was talking about everywhere. My words and opinion really do have a megaphone. I hope I continue to learn more about my socialization as a women and become more vocal to stand up for men around me in my day to day interactions. For instance, I’m part of a mom’s chat group. Someone sent a reel about a mom asking her toddler “Are…
/r/MensRights31/05/25 11:52 PM
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Thank you for being a part of solution for the unkind attitudes people are lauded for in other spaces. It’s good to know women like me are everywhere. There’s no reason to treat anyone with anything less that respect and dignity… because that’s just the right thing to do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/25 09:57 PM
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Think about acceptance for transgender people. The prevailing cultural idea is not necessarily the loudest, I think there are allies everywhere silently changing minds. Not everyone are these loud angry people about the danger and evils of transgender people. I don’t know, but maybe you are someone that values transgender people to be able to get medically affirming care. What can you or I as allies to do make it so our goal for this comes to fruition? We learn the experience of these people who…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 05:06 PM
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You’re here changing minds with your words. Our words are all we have. Words can change minds. That really is all we have. I don’t feel like I have any power to do anything to change my own situation let alone start a movement. I don’t think that’s something I can accomplish. I’m really a nobody. Honestly. I’m not amazing, I’m not trying to get clout, I’m just trying to live in a way without regret. And that’s trying to find peace in myself about this horrible world where people mistreat one ano…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:35 PM
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There are actual people in politics that said a woman’s place is in the home, that they should not be allowed to write. Women used make male pen names to publish their thoughts. Women thought used to be seen as inferior. Hence the reason for women philosophical, religious, and scientific thinking to be silenced. If a woman wanted to be something outside her gender role, she was deemed as dangerous. A doctor for example a woman could never be. Yes, women had jobs, but not always the jobs they wan…
/r/MensRights24/05/25 02:44 PM
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The reason women are put on a pedestal now was in reaction to the past. But true feminism is not to put women on top and men on the bottom. You have been hurt by women doing this in the name of feminism, but this is not the cause of feminism. Historically feminism was used to allow women to get jobs and get education. Today feminism is used as you say, to subjugate men. But I promise I’m not a feminist to put down the men in my life or place blame anywhere. You are allowed to be angry at the sta…
/r/MensRights24/05/25 02:05 PM
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I don’t usually speak in this space. But a question was asked to me directly. I can’t change the horrible treatment inflicted on men in the name of feminism, but that doesn’t mean a person needs to only fight for the better life’s of one or the other. Neither cause squashes the other. But I can pause and allow the truth that men are subjected to horrific bias and discrimination and violence through history because they were always seen as unfeeling and disposable. Gender norms entrenched into th…
/r/MensRights24/05/25 01:12 PM
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You ought to be angry! Systems that perpetuate unfair assumptions about men are real. They need to be rooted out so men are seen as disposable. I stand right with you. I know you have been hurt by women angry by the system too. I am not angry at you, but I see your anger as a symptom of your deep pain and don’t take it personally. But we can’t make change by putting each other down with our anger. You are here furthering the cause the best way you know how, but please considered that I am doing …
/r/MensRights24/05/25 01:07 PM
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Men were harmed in the past as well. Humanity has evolved over time. That’s why I support equality. Everyone treated at human beings. History is used as a bludgeon, but what happened in Mesopotamia and further entrenched into the Bible via Greecian and Roman thought truly did transform the world to accept that it was okay to hate women. Where your anger is justified is that the way some women think the scales need to be balanced is for men to suffer as justice. This is wrong. I think humanity is…
/r/MensRights24/05/25 12:13 AM
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Some historical background to understanding this comment. Systems of governance relating to male dominated systems are well studied going back into the first ages where written material has been found. Greecian and Roman thinkers thought women were people that failed to turn into men in the womb. So “radical” etymologically means “root”. Feminism means: “an advocate of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.” So while the term “radical feminist” has been hijacked to mean “angry…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 10:04 PM
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Amen. Thank you for your mentioning of family court. Fathers losing access to children is a tragic default.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 09:52 PM
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I’m very new to understanding gender rights on either side. I suppose I got my idea of blame in a general sense of starting to understand how systems of patriarchy were noted in the earliest writings of Mesopotamian law systems. So the hatred for men is a knee jerk reaction that blames and shames. The knee jerk reactions for men is self preservation against unfair blame and shame. It’s a cycle I’ve seen where hatred against men is normalized, even encouraged, and men rightfully push back against…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 06:32 PM
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I see the injustice against men and I’m ashamed by the behaviour of women that think that treating men like lesser is what is going to bring humanity to a higher place where no one has to worry about being discriminated against. It’s gone so far as for my husband to say that in high school a teacher told him he would have a hard time getting scholarships as a white man unless he had good grades. And the harsh punishments on men when women get off Scott-free… When a father going to the playground…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 05:43 PM
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I can see why you would feel this way. I have participated in this sub, but this is also a place for men to feel safe expressing the full spectrum of their feelings. Since I’m born identifying as a woman, there are experiences I simply can’t understand at a fundamental level to contribute in a way that fully validates your experiences as a man. But I do follow this sub because I see injustice. The conversation of equality is less about equality and more about placing blame on men living today th…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 05:23 PM
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Musician Ren is changing the narrative. Allowing vulnerability to come through and inspire people struggling in like manner. He was admitted for years for psychosis. Now he sings about it and is creating platforms for more people, especially men, who suffer mental illnesses of all depths and scope. Pulling for you OP. As a wife to a depressed husband, I hope the world will value all men who suffer and see them as people of innate goodness and worth, not as untouchables.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 03:17 PM
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I once saw people walking down the street advocating against circumcision. I think it was a mix of men and women. Incredibly enlightening experience to drive by them. Wore white pants with red paint on them to drive home the message to people who didn’t have time to read the signs. I don’t think I’ll forget it to this day. No one was harassing them or honking at them. Mad respect.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 10:20 PM
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Woman here with optimism for men’s rights. I see the unfairness. Many do. I wish you the best OP. I hope the women in your life will have less hatred for men one day. I try to be a small voice where I can. For instance in another sub I follow, someone wanted advice for his wife feeling singled out at church by a man. Most everyone called the guy weird. I advocated for not spreading rumours and making him a misfit in his own church community. Keep plodding forward with the knowledge that us women…
/r/MensRights20/03/25 08:20 PM
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After the feedback, I’ve ultimately decided to have my ears perked up more and be less passive than I was for his older sister. Kindergarten orientation I will be more inquisitive about the teacher. The first teacher conference after the first month and a half will decide a lot. I’m not one to assume negative intention about anyone. No need to be hard on anyone. Who knows? Maybe he will listen better to the teacher than me because I’m just “mom”.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 12:50 AM
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I’m not gonna lie, I’ve become a lot harder on him since he began getting ostracized by girls in the neighbourhood, but you’re right. It doesn’t do him any good to think that any issue arising at school is just because of other people. I have no doubt that he will eventually act out and need to learn that he isn’t always right. I don’t want him growing up thinking I’m not going to question him. He’s a kid, he’ll lie to not get in trouble. But I don’t want him to harden up from constantly being b…
/r/MensRights16/03/25 12:39 AM
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I wish emotions weren’t gendered. People have emotions. Period.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 05:29 PM
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Okay. I was worried that telling him would make him see the world as concrete and unyielding. But if he if already going to be building this puzzle on his own as he recognizes unfairness it will be simple and non-eventful to arm him with the power to rise above that. Instead of crashing his world view by telling him, it would be more like giving him lost pieces to the puzzle and dispelling his confusion.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 04:14 PM
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I see what you’re trying to say, I definitely want him to find a way to deal with problems in a way that doesn’t erase his masculinity. But school administration hyper fixates on violence, even if my son were justified in defending himself against someone… remember how Will Smith got kick out of Grammy’s for… was it ten years, for slapping the face of a comedian making fun of his wife. I totally get where you’re coming from though. I don’t want him to be afraid of who he is as a boy
/r/MensRights15/03/25 03:42 PM
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He’s just so young and happily naive 😭 probably like someone else suggested, have my husband teach from his own experience in a way that I haven’t felt first-hand. How do you teach a kid who doesn’t have any inclination to want to be biased that he will face that? Yes, even now when he’s watching YouTube for too many hours in a row he starts randomly kicking people. I try to tell him “look, your body doesn’t think your phone is fun, your body wants to move” but that dopamine hit from phones… it’…
/r/MensRights15/03/25 03:37 PM
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My husband is privy to the inherent disadvantages boys face, especially boys like my son, who may or may not struggle with his extra energy. In high school he was told outright to get better grades in math because he wouldn’t have access to as many scholarships because he’s a white male.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 03:28 PM
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I’m by no means perfect. Even I need to commit more to be kinder to my son. He really presses my buttons some days, but I do notice that I’m sometimes I don’t become as frustrated when his few years older sister does the same behaviours as him. But if his sister needles her brother until he starts hitter her I address both, her for instigating him and not listening when he says stop and address hitting. But not as most mothers might do which is address the hitting but not the part his sister had…
/r/MensRights15/03/25 03:24 PM
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There is so much to unpack with this statement. I want my son to continue being himself. Not spread around in stories as a “behaviour problem boy”. I wish more teachers were aware that boys have unmet needs that the classroom can’t often meet, or can’t be met because teacher are just one in a class of 20+ kids. I don’t want him coddled, or allowed to behave badly, but I don’t want him to internalize a message of being inherently defective, just different but still needing to do things girls come…
/r/MensRights15/03/25 02:59 PM
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I was just telling my husband last week about this! My son is always talking about being a ninja and loving to play very active (he’s been ostracized by the neighbourhood girls his age for misunderstandings, loves to watch the effect he has on his toys by throwing them straight up in the air. People thinl he is throwing things at people, he’s not. He’s just hasn’t developed spatial awareness, proximity awareness)
/r/MensRights15/03/25 02:54 PM
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I have two sons and we did have an issue with one teacher telling him that “girls were better and better behaved.” He came home going “mummy are girls really better” to my wife. I cannot resonate more with this. This is my nightmare—that he would feel devalued. I want to teach him a way he can let these messages come in and not mess him up. So many responses are telling me “Communicate early on with the teacher.” Edit: grammar
/r/MensRights15/03/25 02:50 PM
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My husband is in the picture and an active part of their lives. Thank you for your robust view on children’s media. It puts so many of my thoughts into words
/r/MensRights15/03/25 02:44 PM
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His father knows the system has disadvantages baked in. In high school he was outright told he would have to do better in math or he wouldn’t get good opportunities because he was a white male 🫥
/r/MensRights15/03/25 02:31 PM
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I should have typed “ngl” to show I didn’t mean, “I don’t want to lie to my son…” and I meant to say, “I’m not kidding when I say that telling him a fundamental unchangeable part of who he is will sometimes make teachers less willing to respect you into better behaviour instead of punishing you into better behaviour. It feels like telling him Santa isn’t real😭” But you’re right. Letting him know that I still see who he really is will get him through what may/may not come
/r/MensRights15/03/25 07:30 AM
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I’m not gonna lie, that feels like telling him I’m Santa
/r/MensRights15/03/25 06:54 AM
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What gave it away?
/r/MensRights15/03/25 06:18 AM
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Are you an outspoken person, assertive person ? Sometimes to a fault
/r/MensRights15/03/25 06:16 AM
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I just feel like it’s swimming upstream sometimes. Even the media he consumes minimizes male pain. At the end of Frozen I, Anna punches the villain Hans off the boat and all the onlookers cheer. I don’t know. The sexism is everywhere.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 06:14 AM
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Should I teach him a way to advocate for himself? He’s comfortable at home to say “that’s not fair!” But maybe at school that would just make him look defiant.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 06:01 AM
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How young were you when you noticed girls were given more leeway than boys? What would your parents say to you to help you process that? Or did they say anything at all that helped empower you in the face of blatant unfairness?
/r/MensRights15/03/25 05:53 AM
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