| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girls | Field Report | Dry_Tune2919 | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 10:31 PM |
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| 1 | Need some advice from prosHe’s a comedian, rich, famous, and that’s his whole personality. So yeah it works for him I guess, but actresses use him for that and that’s it. He doesn’t have a frame, people use him for memes and trolls lol, that’s become his reputation. Compare him to someone like Leonardo, he is always with the best models as actresses without needing to be unnecessarily funny or a comedian - having charm and a frame is better | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice from prosDon’t be too funny. You’re not a fucking joker or a clown. Maintain your masculine frame and energy/seriousness. That builds the sexual tension that she didn’t feel. Being funny gets you in the friendzone. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Need help making it flirty on first dateTell her to meet you in the family bathroom for a surprise | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Dropping her off at her placeYou should always push to go in… say you wanna meet her dog, see her place, check out the view from her balcony, or fuck the shit out of her | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 05:03 PM |
| 59 | How is the dating scene in Eastern European countries for Latino/Black guys?Bad. Don’t go, you will be looked at as a refuge or an immigrant. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Hiking date in 2 hours, help!Take her in the bushes and show her the stars | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 09:01 PM |
| -1 | Is this boring?Read it again idiot. Perfume is not a replacement for deodorant. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 02:13 PM |
| -1 | Is this boring?Perfume is not replacement for deodorant. Idiot! Don’t be creepy and rape-y and don’t assault girls. There’s a reason they don’t want to talk to you or sleep with you. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 02:09 PM |
| -2 | Is this boring?I gave you the advice you needed. And use deodorant. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 02:02 PM |
| -3 | Is this boring?You’re quite boring and sound boring. Stick to the boring Indian girls. What’s so hard to understand? | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 01:55 PM |
| -4 | Is this boring?Yea, stick to the boring Indian girls | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 01:26 PM |
| -16 | GUIDE: How to accurately assess how she feels about you during a date and know when to go for a kiss without being rejected (with applicable easy steps)Wtf… it’s not rocket science. If you’re having a good vibe with her you will know, just go in and kiss her. Grow a fucking pair, what are all these stupid tests. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 02:34 PM |
| 5 | What’s a good book that will help with learning playful banter60 years of challenge | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | She's down for a hookup but dont have a place to meetMeet her outside in the handicapped stall, or sneak her in through a back door or a window. Done many times lol | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 02:21 PM |
| -2 | Saturday night turn aroundShould’ve closed with the first date. It would’ve been an easy ons no need for any crazy sparks | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?Because at that point you should grow up, level up, and hookup with girls in your age /social group. I def won’t live in on/off campus student housing past 25, you can live in a city with a nearby college town though and still have the occasional college hookup | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?Might work but won’t recommend it. At that point move on to bigger and better things in life | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate?You sound like you support the “me too” movement | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 08:41 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate?The fact that you have to ask a girl to kiss her to “get consent”, tells me you must be either really ugly or a virgin 🫵 who the fuck asks for consent before they can kiss lmao | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate?Okay virgin | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?No one cares about your nose. Get fit, groom properly, dress well and learn to talk. | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 02:07 AM |
| 2 | "I don't know if I wanna do it, you know"Doesn’t matter what she said before if at the moment she doesn’t say no or stop you you’re going to be having sex with her. It’s your job to seduce her into the mood though. | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Trouble maintaining frame after initial success with hookups from dating apps who then start getting flakey/backing offGo and read 60 years of challenge. You can find a pdf online. It will teach you everything about maintaining frame and everything else | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?It’s totally worth it if you never experienced it. You can do the major city life after 25. I can tell you the college parties, college girls, are insanely crazy. They’re wild. Pick a college/town that is also near a big city, like 15-30mins. Pick one anywhere in the country lol there’s so many college towns - choose it based on the type of girls, weather, people, state you like. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 11:36 PM |
| 4 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?Move to a college town and just get an apt in an off campus student building. Make friends there and they’ll invite you. Mostly everyone’s friendly. This will only work if you’re like 25 and under and can blend in easily. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?It’s because the trust and comfort level for girls is high. Most people in the house go to the same college, within the same age range, live nearby, mutual friends, and everyone is young drunk looking to fuck. So yeah lol | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?House parties are easy game, pretty much a guaranteed lay, and high chances of even more stuff like 3ways etc | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 11:24 PM |
| 59 | Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before datesTake a shot of whiskey and smoke a cig, then get ready for your date. Stop being a bitch. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 05:00 PM |
| -3 | How do i get this girlAsk her directly if she wants to come over and fuck | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 25 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?If you’re unattractive, anything you do will be creepy. If you’re attractive, anything you do will not be creepy. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Girls being selfish with sex?Very rarely they’ll do it the very first time having sex. Ofc once you’ve had sex and are familiar then it’s quite common. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 01:23 AM |
| 0 | How to escalate?Idiot | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Girls being selfish with sex?The more you try the more desperate you look. That turns her off. What you’re showing her is that you have sexual interest, and if she’s not accepting it, you’re pulling away from her. So yes stop pleasing her after that, and she will get the hint that since she stopped you, she no longer had your sexual attention. Now she will come after you to get that attention and validation. If she does, go with it. If she doesn’t, just back off, make small talk to end the date on a nice note as this leaves… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Girls being selfish with sex?Yeah you can do that. That’s what girls want and like. They like to be told what to do. It’s in their nature. Especially for the first time you have to take the lead. Why would she say no? If she does says No, then say okay fine, hold her hand and take her to the bedroom, say let’s go to the bed then. If she says no, not ready or whatever, say okay fine, we’ll save it for the next time then or whatever. Just make out, Don’t do her any favors. End the date in the next max 30minutes. You don’t mak… | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 11:33 PM |
| 20 | Girls being selfish with sex?YOU HAVE NICE GUY SYNDROME. When you are seeing a girl and have sexual interest in her, the longer you wait the more she’s going to push you away. Get to the sex while emotions and tensions are high. For the first part, why are you waiting for her to undress you. Are you a fucking girl? Take her top off, take yours off, tell her to take pants off and take yours off. Girls are never going to take your pants off. If she doesn’t want it she will tell you. YOU HAVE to be a little pushy because they’… | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 10:59 PM |
| 3 | How to make her feel she's also contributing to "US"?By the 3rd date and sex, they should be contributing. Ask them if they want to plan the next hangout, plan something, or invite you over to their place. You can say this to them before they leave your place are sex, face to face. If they had a good time they will oblige. If not, don’t take them out again, at most just invite them over to fuck. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 10:09 PM |
| 40 | Girls being selfish with sex?Because you let them control you. You let them tease you instead of the other way around. If you’re fingering her, eating her out etc why don’t you just stop after she’s turned on and fuck her the rest of the way? She is down already. Take it out and put it in her. What’s stopping you? Why did the 2nd date last 15hrs and what happened? Where did you end it? You went too long without exaltation, she got tired and bored of your ass not taking her somewhere private making a move | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How should I continue this!Block all your other friends on snap besides her and post something slutty. If u have a good body maybe a post workout pic or something. Let her slide in And what did u say after she said thanks? | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys lick the pussy of every girl you get laid, or you choose some of them?NEVER | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 06:58 PM |
| 0 | How is nightgame possible if one has no friends that want to go out regularly?You sound GAY and lame. Last thing I’d do for night game is go to a club to hit on dudes and buy them drinks lmao. I can just go up to girls, get a table and have a bunch of them around me in the first 30mins to set me up for the night. lol stop being so gay | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate?You probably won’t be kissing anyone in your day game approach, unless you hit it off extremely well. But if she gives an unsettling face or say no to a number, just say “well enjoy your day” smile and walk away | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 04:45 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate?When dancing, just hand on her waist twist her around to face you and go in for the kiss. That’s how you fix it. If she doesn’t go in just go to the next girl. In a club she won’t even remember you 10 seconds later. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Guys, i fall for two mistakes, please help me overcome them!Read 60 years of challenge | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsI’m not actively trying to get them pregnant. They’re either on BC or I give them the pill after. What I said was for the low chance of them still getting pregnant, and if so happens it’s fine with me. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Need date adviceDon’t do that. Keep it simple and stupid on the first date. They don’t wanna think, the more you make them think the less they’ll speak cuz they don’t wanna think lol Use physical escalation instead. Give them a hug when you first meet. Light touches throughout. Flirty talk by using flirty questions trying to get to know her. Few drinks in, kiss her, go to another place or invite her over for wine or a movie. Easy. Read 60 years of challenge and getting laid Paul Janka. You can just search aroun… | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsYes, I am giving them control over it simply because I don’t mind having a kid if they choose to keep it. I can afford a good life for them, so if the girls want to keep it I’m fine with it, and will coparent. This is not for every girl I sleep with, but for the more attractive ones (8/10 or more) that have good genes. I’m all for spreading my seed, more soldiers for me 💪 | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 12:01 AM |
| 0 | I feel like giving upGood. Stop wasting time. Give up on girls for now. Go get rich instead and then come back around. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Rejected at Concert/Need approach adviceFor a place like concert, clubs, festivals, approaching girls is the worst because every other drunk guy is doing the same. You have to pick out your target. Look for girls that are in the crowds or at the front of the stage dancing by themselves. Look for girls who are dancing, moving, drinking. Don’t go for girls just chilling with their friends. If you see her in the crowds just say let’s dance and grab her waist to start dancing, make out, then take her back or get her number. Easy. The way … | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsYeah. They like it and enjoy it just as much if not more. It’s a huge turn on for them. They will think and text me about it for days after. “Easy and free” stuff is never fun. There’s no obligation but it’s quite understood that she will take it - I’ve never heard one say no to me. I keep few at my apt and they take it before leading, so I don’t have to arrange a meet up again to give it to them or trust them with buying it. And yes I know they can still get preg. But I’m okay with it, these ar… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsI also just came across this statistic in another sub: “You have about a .04% chance of contracting HIV from vaginal sex if you’re a man”. Now this along with my screening, should tell you that chances of me getting that are slim to none 😉 | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 04:07 PM |
| -2 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsI do get tested once a year as part of my annual checkup. Check my other comment to Alex about the other part. I usually don’t pull out. I can afford a $50 pill. To me it’s part of the cost of the date. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsHow old are you? Being reckless and calculated irresponsibilities are two different things. No one ever made life long memories by playing it safe. All my actions are calculated, and all the things I’m saying are after I’ve experienced and reflected on all the things you say. So I think I’ll be okay. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 03:43 PM |
| -1 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsWhen you’re old, you’re going to not remember having shitty sex with a condom with that pretty girl. However, you will never forget raw finishing inside her - I’d say that’s the higher form of sexual intimacy. So yeah id rather live my life with no regrets and go all in or nothing. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 03:18 PM |
| -3 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsWell the good job, good area, living By herself are contextual clues that tell me she cares about her looks, her image, reputation and won’t be dirty. So altogether, the odds are in my favor and I’m willing to gamble the rest. No risk no reward. Fucking raw when young vs when being an adult is different. I’m at a pretty stable Point in my life so pregnancy scares aren’t a thing. I can take care of whatever might come after. Let’s put it this way - you see a 9/10 high quality woman (by whatever s… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 03:03 PM |
| -7 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsBro lol I see where you coming from, but the chances of something like hiv are quite low. It’s the same as, over speeding dying in an accident - it’s possible, but if you are careful, stay in control and no cars around you, chances are slim to none. Besides the look, there are few other things I use to judge their quality. If they live by themselves, downtown/uptown or in a nice area, can present themselves well and are well put when we go out, well spoken on the date, decent job, then it’s a gr… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsIt just fizzled out, slow replies slowly dead conversation. And I agree, we had sex multiple times that night, she suggested the next date, but has a problem spending a bit to show she’s equally interested. And we’re both adults with adult jobs. It’s not like a traditional backwards relationship and she wasn’t a virgin lol so see no problem asking her for that. Plus the first 2 dates I treated her well to nice places and picked her up etc | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 01:37 PM |
| -7 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsIf the girl is attractive and high quality, 8/10 or more which the girls I go for usually are, I go raw. Sex with condom isn’t really worth it to me, no sex is almost better than condom. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 01:34 PM |
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