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Did he punch like an alpha?
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/24 03:37 PM
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So the reasoning behind her comment she clarified later was that her father had never been sick in her life and that's what a real man is. Lots of incidents that started with "my father can do x,y,z, why can't you?". Of course if I could do something that he couldn't, it didn't count as a manly activity. It's impossible to remove someone from their origin family dynamic if they don't see it as a problem.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 09:21 PM
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Yea I didn’t realize how messed up it was until I told some people. Apparently this behavior is off the charts to every friend and stranger I’ve talked to!
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 05:02 PM
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Break the window and say something was wrong with the key. Then call a lawyer immediately. Also get a voice recorder.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 04:39 PM
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Was hospitalized the night of my father’s funeral. It caused me to be paralyzed from the waist down for several hours. I was pulled from the car into a wheelchair at the hospital, checked out, and admitted. As in, this was legit. Wife says to me - “A real man would get up and walk out of here. You’re not a real man. I’m divorcing you.”
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 10:16 AM
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No
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 07:48 AM
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Not true. Just a bad lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 02:32 PM
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Seriously. 50% of the planet, all turning into harpies. Not even close.
/r/PussyPass25/07/20 12:16 AM
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He was supporting her, he was part of the harassment.
/r/PussyPass16/06/20 06:41 PM
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Yes, which is why you need to draw your numbers from places like other countries with different economic systems, not local groups who mostly define themselves as “in opposition” to something.
/r/MensRights10/05/20 02:38 PM
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Read what I said. I literally said to find a source B other than the feminists.
/r/MensRights10/05/20 02:36 PM
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Take a step back. What if you were a black person teaching your black students about slavery in the newly freed south. I’ll bet that the mainstream literature talked a lot about how whites cared for their slaves because the slaves were unable to do so themselves. Even today, history books given to students in Texas have been caught referring to slaves as “migrant workers”. I would have little faith in business sources being worth much. That being said, if all you can find to support your argumen…
/r/MensRights09/05/20 06:21 PM
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Urban dictionary is like Wikipedia. Anyone can contribute. Add your own definition.
/r/MensRights24/03/20 08:20 PM
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This. He hit her back 4 times after a shove, not a punch. AND she backed away and sat down with her arms crossed. There aren’t many clearer signs that she’s no longer an aggressor. WTF do you expect her to do?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/20 01:02 AM
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That’s one place. I was speaking generally. Also the one child policy has been relaxed. China and India have really fucked up by favoring boys over girls. Can you imagine growing up in a place where you have a good shot of never getting a girl because there just aren’t enough of them? Hell no.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 09:48 PM
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Of course they do that. I was just pointing out that some things do affect them. Someone just asked the question of what issues they could be facing. I’m not saying they’re better or worse off.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 04:08 AM
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It refers to things like women bearing the brunt of the work to care for the kids, most likely to be laid off first, being expected to care for his and her parents, etc. Not these specific things are going on, but this class of issues is what’s being referenced. It may very well be true, no idea. I have no survey data, but caretaker exhaustion is a real thing.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 03:45 AM
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Real diversity comes from backgrounds. Diversity of thought, attitude, and outlook. They may well be very diverse. A carpenter from Oregon, a German scientist, a New England fisherman can all be white males and yet that is an actual diverse group. Unless the diversity posts talk about how one came from poverty, another from working class, another used to be a homemaker, etc, yea, ... no.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 03:40 AM
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Exactly. And the men don’t have to end their careers at 35. Her career burns twice as bright for half the time.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 03:58 PM
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That was clear in the article. And that’s not that long ago. The Supreme Court overturned its own finding, it wasn’t overruled, and the massive protests most likely had an impact.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 08:26 PM
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That’s a better way of putting it. I generally think of feminism as “fighting to correct situations where females appear to be the victims more often than not because of their sex and such things are on their minds a lot” The obvious things being the right to vote, earning a living where being female isn’t incompatible (like being allowed to be a car mechanic), being paid the same for the same work and credentials, the right to refuse sex at any time, etc. This doesn’t mean they are strictly fem…
/r/MensRights06/02/20 06:57 PM
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That not all first world countries are the same everywhere? That Italy isn’t the same as the US? That places within the same country can be different? Let’s compare San Francisco to any city in Alaska. Which facts am I misrepresenting? Read the other thread I’m in for more details. I wouldn’t call myself a feminist, but I do consider myself logical. By that extension, any comment that covers everywhere in “all first world countries” is likely false. Even with say, California, you have very diver…
/r/MensRights06/02/20 06:36 PM
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The protests were centered around the court’s argument that "it is a fact of common experience that it is nearly impossible to slip off tight jeans even partly without the active collaboration of the person who is wearing them." This isn’t valid reason to acquit. This what I’m talking about when I say the situation isn’t the same in all first world countries.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 06:15 PM
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I doubt it. I live in Silicon Valley and see where most of the investments go. Also most investments are not from billionaires. A bunch of people with 50 or 100 million can also change the world, as can government encouraged research (mix of gov and private). If you look at where most real innovation comes from, it doesn’t come from the ones on top. Why should it? They’re already on top.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 06:03 PM
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Literally five second google search https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Denim_Day
/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:59 PM
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It’s not about controlling wealth of an individual so much as controlling power and making sure everyone has the money they need to live provided they work reasonably hard. Example: I grow food as a farmer and can support my family. Guy invents a machine that grows corn with no labor and can now grow millions of acres. The society can now produce more food than before, but because of the laws of intellectual property, the society is 90% poor with one corporation owning all the food production. I…
/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:56 PM
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I see no reason why someone needs a billion dollars. In every case I can think of, wealth was achieved not by helping the world, but by strong-arming competitors, destroying the environment, destroying lives, etc. There is a reason why patents expire. It’s because the world recognizes that even if you do something good for the world, you can’t own it forever. This is the price you pay for using all the other inventions that came before you.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:20 PM
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I agree feminism isn’t needed in places where you have equality of opportunity based on sex. If a man and woman can equally become nurses, doctors, machinists, etc, you know, stuff for the 98%, then you’re good. Things like more male billionaires than female doesn’t count. We need to be reducing the number of billionaires, not balancing them. Any time you try to equalize outliers, you don’t understand how things work and lose my support. So while some countries are like this, no doubt there exis…
/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:00 PM
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So in Italy, where the Supreme Court declared a woman cannot be raped if she’s wearing jeans, you think the people there don’t feel the need for feminism? Not all first world countries are the same. Yes, you can go overboard, but some countries get stuck in the past every now and then.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 04:40 PM
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One flag isn’t the same as a bar. Protesters also burn flags as a symbol of what someone hates and nobody thinks they’re going to set the building / their surroundings on fire. Antifa has been known to throw Molotov cocktails which are far more dangerous and that doesn’t seem to be a credible threat to burn anything down.
/r/PussyPass21/12/19 01:50 AM
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The reporting is horrible. The message clearly be pushed by the media is “you oppose GLBT you go to jail forever”. Even five years is insane. How credible was the threat to burn down the bar? This is more of a 14 day sentence to me. Kids go home every day with 0 days for shit like this. The three strikes law is also way out of line.
/r/PussyPass21/12/19 01:22 AM
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She is a famous campaigner against violence against women. Her step father killed a 10 year old girl when she was 18 and a younger one earlier. Her own childhood was apparently filled with serious abuse by her mother though. I don’t know, you kill a five or ten year old, it’s a fucking child, period. Apparently the trauma of what her father did overshadowed what her mother did because it seems she would have concentrated on child abuse or abuse in general. I mean, if you’re going to quote stats,…
/r/MensRights18/11/19 03:06 PM
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You all realize you’re talking about a 16 year old girl without parents, right? You don’t do favors for anyone, let alone a minor with intent to trap them into a sexual relationship. She can pay him back, she can pay it forward. She has no sexual or financial obligation whatsoever. If he was young like her, sure pay him back. If he was older, he should have known that a 16 year old is likely going to change.
/r/PussyPass08/11/19 08:01 PM
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A better analogy is - You provide half the parts to a self assembling car. Your partner provides the other half. The car assembles itself as otherwise there is no way in hell you would have figured out how it’s done. The assembly is done in her garage, not his. Once parts are provided however, he can no longer influence or stop the assembly of said car. If you promised to never let the parts assemble, she can change her mind and he is still required to pay maintenance.
/r/MensRights05/10/19 06:32 AM
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Stop caring what they say. Do you think of you and your friends started calling all the women who wore tight clothes whores that they would stop?
/r/MensRights28/09/19 10:25 PM
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I don’t know, it seems fine to me. There are unlimited problems in the world, most people only focus on a few. Equality between white men and black men, American men and American women Rich and poor Citizens and illegals Etc The reality is people focus on what they encounter. A white middle class woman is going to see differences between her own success and the peers she sees every day. That means white men. When was the last time you heard about white working -aged women complaining about black…
/r/MensRights15/08/19 12:58 AM
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When profits drop enough, they’ll change their behavior. They are in a weird position though since they rely on corporate handouts for new stadiums (which I can’t stand).
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/19 05:04 AM
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Maybe. Ticket sales would show if their behavior alienated fans. In football, how did the kneeling tradition affect ticket sales? Sure, some didn’t like it, but did it attract enough fans to replace them?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/19 12:33 AM
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It would be nice to see all the financials. How much went to executives, marketing, etc. It’s easy to show simple numbers. Their business is also dependent on public perception. They can choose to renegotiate player contracts and in the contract have language that increases their pay a lot while they are in the black. Sort of like a commission based plan but based on more than winning and losing. Include all income streams. It would cap out of course, but it could theoretically bring current opp…
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/19 10:34 PM
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No, the winning team still wins. It’s not a tie. More like a crazy strong person pinning you down with one hand as a show of strength instead of ripping your arms off. Once you’ve made the point, it just looks bad. It shows you have a false sense of pride by continuing to score and thinking you’re amazing when really your team never should have been matched against yours. In other sports like MMA the organization is heavily criticized if they pair up fighters who aren’t at a similar level. Also …
/r/MensRights12/06/19 08:57 PM
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When I used to play soccer, we were prohibited from winning by more than three points as it was poor form. After three, you rotate in players that are often on the bench, practice other skills like constant passing, letting the opposing team work out your defense, etc. If you managed to score points against coach’s orders you would be pulled out and not be allowed to play in the next game. Sportsmanship.
/r/MensRights12/06/19 06:58 PM
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Lady Lounging
/r/MensRights31/05/19 07:37 AM
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Just do one that you think will get pretty good coverage / have a link you can point people to later, talk about cool problems you get to solve, stuff like that (show you’re an engineer and not a social softie) and then sit back as the recruiters start calling. One of them will have a compelling offer :) Every 2-3 years rinse/repeat. By talking about tech you attract companies that actually want a programmer, not a political checkbox and you will likely get into cooler projects with more money. …
/r/MensRights28/05/19 04:38 PM
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It’s not irrelevant. It the basis for swinging too far the other way to begin with. Whenever you overcorrect, you just build up massive resentment and feed the desire to overcorrect yet again.
/r/MensRights25/05/19 08:45 PM
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This would be a terrible idea. I can’t count how many people I know are the higher earning spouse that would be horrible parents.
/r/MensRights25/05/19 08:16 PM
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That’s what the last century was doing. For a long time before that, children were property of the father and automatically his if he wanted them.
/r/MensRights25/05/19 08:15 PM
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Tinder has done for people what the stock market has done for companies. First, it’s extended by 1000x the participation. It used to be you had to be rich to participate in company ownership. Now you can be a tiny player. Used to be you had to know the girl, run into her, get an intro, whatever. Now you can just see her picture online, just like thousands of other guys. It has also revealed his/her sexual market value in a brutal way, just like stock prices are brutal to companies. People don’t …
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/19 08:26 PM
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You can fight for equality for a specific group. It makes sense to name an org along those lines, otherwise every group will be called “equality for all.” For example, maybe I fight for equality for gay people. I would then oppose laws that let people deny them housing (rent contracts), partake in organizations that try to engage gay groups with the community to show they’re not a bunch of perverts trying to convert/rape unsuspecting guys. I might also support groups that show gays can be good w…
/r/MensRights31/03/19 12:17 AM
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Meh, the edit distance between the two phrases is two. Easily close enough to trigger the recommendation. On top of that, the weighted search value for "women's rights" must be 1000x that of "men's rights" simply because of frequency and unique sources of the search term. Any recommendation engine I would write would easily make this recommendation.
/r/MensRights06/03/18 03:47 AM
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True, but this was a particularly glaring case because the white soldiers returning home made this happen on a mass scale in a short period of time. Of course it can happen to women. There are some major differences though. For one, white women have white fathers and brothers so they have strong ties to the (real or perceived) power structure. White women are more likely to share a social circle, and therefore once in, should be perceived less different. White women also share more mannerisms. I…
/r/MensRights21/10/17 07:34 PM
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This is exactly what happened to blacks during WWII. They were the last hired, first fired, and when they were working, we're paid the least. This is very possible. A separate issue is if this is happening to women.
/r/MensRights21/10/17 06:17 PM
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I am from Honduras. Honduras is very dangerous for both men and women, but in slightly different ways. Men - you go out, do your business, get carjacked, kidnapped, beat up, shaken down, etc. Go home for some piece and quiet or drama, but relatively safe. Wife is angry at you, so go see your mistress, get her pregnant, this creates drama at home. Women - you go out, do your business, preferably during the safest time of the day, get robbed in your car, kidnapped, raped. Go home to escape the dan…
/r/MensRights12/09/17 05:50 AM
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Yea, I can't respond anymore. I keep moving the target instead of answering simple questions. College and primary school aren't anywhere near each other. You should organize and compartmentalize your arguments more.
/r/MensRights31/08/17 08:37 PM
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Which school? What subject? What did it rank? Since you accuse me of going to a diversity community college, I have to assume you went to a top ten engineering/math program? My school fluctuates between top 4 and top 6 in computer science over the years. Revisionist history, common core, sight reading, whatever. None of it was present in college in my major. Computer science and math was just that. Computer science and math. What females? My graduating class in computer science had only 3% femal…
/r/MensRights31/08/17 03:44 PM
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Out of curiosity where did you go to school? Since you assert I went to a diversity community college, I assume you went somewhere rather illustrious?
/r/MensRights30/08/17 11:31 PM
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Lol. You're so full of shit. I recommend a few grad level biology classes. DNA has nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights30/08/17 04:16 PM
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If you're going to make accusations, learn what representative bias is. Just because YOU didn't react that way to chronic stress, doesn't mean others don't. I also raised my kids broke and didn't beat them. So what? I also didn't live in the ghetto which would have added more stress. I knew eventually there was a way out. For me, the poverty was temporary, not generational. I was married to the mother, not a single mother. I had a family network that didn't live in the same poverty as me. I was …
/r/MensRights30/08/17 03:21 PM
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It's called stress. More poverty = more stress. Highly stressed parents who think their world will collapse are more likely to lash out at the kids when they misbehave. Generation povery adds to it. What experience do you have with any of this?
/r/MensRights30/08/17 05:51 AM
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Damn. Poor kids​ going to be lost once he hits school.
/r/MensRights11/06/17 02:11 PM
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WTF non gendered? How did that interaction go?
/r/MensRights11/06/17 01:09 PM
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No no, I didn't mean this post. My bad.
/r/MensRights29/03/17 07:43 AM
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This place is worse. Say the wrong thing and the howling and screaming starts immediately.
/r/MensRights29/03/17 06:17 AM
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I grow tired of you people. Another fucking straw man, are you serious? China? Really? We aren't talking about China. You're actually going to take the position that if I don't spell out every single assumption, any intentional misinterpretation is fair game? You ever wonder why men's rights are constantly ignored? When you talk like this, it poisons the message.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 06:34 AM
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Breast augmentation removes healthy skin. It's fine to have an opposing view, but constructing a straw man argument is just childish. Actually believing that my belief extends to cutting off an arm is beyond stupidity. Lots of things happen to children that aren't consentual. We ban those we consider harmful. It's banned for girls for reasons discussed above. Your argument would have been more solid with just your last paragraph.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 06:24 AM
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Wow. You guys really go out of your way to pretend your the only ones who know how logic works. Guess what? Just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean I didn't go to college too. I spent years on logic and proofs as they are required for anyone who studies computer science, math, and psychology. Your "look it up" antics make you look like you're playing at this. Never have I met anyone who studies formal logic talk like you. What is your background in all this? I assume you mean "appeal to…
/r/MensRights19/01/17 06:14 AM
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No I don't. It's a piece of skin that when cut off results no observed harm from anyone I've ever spoken to. I cut my fingernails, see young girls with earrings, etc. Why do I need justification to be OK with it? YOU might need justification, but I don't. I can have my opinion and enforce it by voting against propositions to ban it, all without justification.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 01:46 AM
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Correct, most men could care less, at least all those I've ever met. I live in San Francisco and see those protesters every so often. They tend to get a lot of confused looks. Then again, protesting is something of a past time here.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 01:36 AM
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The electorate doesn't write laws so what has that got to do with anything?
/r/MensRights19/01/17 01:22 AM
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Unless you are going to claim most (greater than 50%) of the law makers in the US are women, then yes, I can claim most men who had a hand in legalizing and/or not banning circumcision are men.
/r/MensRights18/01/17 08:05 PM
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I am OK with it because I choose to be. I need no further justification.
/r/MensRights18/01/17 06:34 PM
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Circumcision is legal because most men want it that way.
/r/MensRights18/01/17 05:41 PM
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Yawn. Botched is another matter. Aside from that, there aren't a whole lot of people making noise about how they wish they weren't circumcisized as a percentage. Most of us don't really care.
/r/MensRights18/01/17 05:40 PM
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I can ban women from practicing medicine and claim men save more women. Not hard. I don't know a single woman with a male ob-gyn today. Most prenatal surgeons I know are also female. Most trauma surgeons I know however are male.
/r/MensRights18/01/17 04:49 PM
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Not even close. Circumcision isn't the what most FGM is, which is why we have such laws. Please don't add things like this because it dilutes the actual situation.
/r/MensRights18/01/17 04:46 PM
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You're kidding right? What feminist definition? Who said anything about catcalling? Can you read? Do you ever read any real news? How often do you think rape happens? Even the most obvious definition (both are sober, she fights back, etc, like what you would see in a movie) of rape occurs far more frequently than infanticide. For real? I'll make it simpler so you can understand it w/o acting like some triggered SJW - rape happens more frequently than murder. Since (non abortion) infanticide is a…
/r/MensRights26/12/16 11:54 PM
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I wasn't talking about abortion and you know it. Intentionally misrepresenting and then crying about the repercussions is infantile. Trying to get upvoted by proactively becoming a victim? Please. Any moron can tell you that the number of babies born naturally, and then killed at some point in their young life happens far less often than rape.
/r/MensRights26/12/16 08:39 PM
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In all fairness, if infanticide happened anywhere near as often as rape, we probably would. We do after all teach men and women alike not to shake babies, put small toys near them, etc.
/r/MensRights26/12/16 07:51 PM
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