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Time heals all wound. This too shall pass. Plus, consider that it's not unusual that she started seeing someone new shortly after breaking up. The news is, she started seeing him before breaking up. That happened to EVERYBODY that got dumped in history. Women branch swing, they do not dump you if they don't have somebody new. That's hypergamy for you. It will get better man, trust me.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 12:40 PM
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I'm studying abroad and I thought I would see all kinds of cheating. The reality is more like 50% of the girls in a relationship cheated (I thought it was going to be 90% or so). There were girls (a good amount of them hot, too) that never looked for male attention and never cheated at all. Of course there were also sluts who are the typical example of what we talk about in TRP. The fact is, it's a huge risk. Me, personally, I wouldn't take it. If you do, at least go visit (and make her visit yo…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 09:29 AM
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I love talking dirty in English, I recently incorporated it (thanks SGM) and love it. I think it would sound really weird in my mothertongue. The fact is I still have to try since I've been abroad for a while, so I never had to.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:50 PM
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Great comment. Would love to hear more, maybe a full post?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 11:32 AM
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Yes, it's not the red pill way at all, not if by that you mean thinking about a LTR about one date. Please read again the sidebar
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:30 PM
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What everyone said, plus: why the fuck are you already thinking about LTRing her after one date? You're not red pill at all
/r/askTRP12/01/16 07:32 PM
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This. In the past I made this mistake. This is the best explanation I've seen on the matter.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:34 PM
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It's not your problem. Kick her out. If you don't, you deserve everything that's going to come from this very bad idea.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 12:38 PM
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I was and still am in a similar situation. The fact is, you (we) are skinny. You have that bellyfat but your body is skinny. You could probably get rid of that fat but you'll look like a marathon racer. To do it successfully, you need to become big enough first.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:36 AM
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Mystery was never TRP, he was always a beta blue pill. Who got laid a lot, yes.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:04 AM
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No. Don't care if you did soccer, you need squats and you need a squat rack or a power cage for that.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 06:47 PM
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any links you could share with us?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:52 AM
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I tend to be an overthinker. I realized I need to do the following: get busy think less It works.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 08:57 AM
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I had the most awesome one yesterday, I didn't have to make an effort to cum. Still, I hadn't had sex in two weeks and I got teased a lot. If I have regular sex they don't do much for me, I like them but they're not the best thing. Still, they have to be there (and be spontaneous)
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 09:08 AM
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Blowjobs don't do much for me. I like them but I kinda have to make an effort to come with them. Still, they are a prerequisite. If a girl doesn't blow me I'll bang her once and never talk to her again. It's a matter of respect really.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 08:05 AM
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I'm from Western Europe. TRP still applies, because the dynamics it describes are what women are like. The difference between the US and Europe is that women tend to ACT LESS on their hypergamy. Doesn't mean that they don't branch swing, that you can be a beta or anything else. If you think you can ignore or only partially believe TRP basic principles you're still plugged in.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:42 PM
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I recently used Tinder from a friend's phone. She's a 5 at best, some would say lower than that. Literally 90% of her likes were a match. It was unreal and it further opened my eyes on the online dating thing. It's a numbers game. Tinder takes me no effort, like 5 minutes per day at the most. One time, out of 100+ matches, I got a hot fuckbuddy out of it. You'll get lucky eventually if you play your cards right. Just don't take it seriously and focus on other more important things.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 11:53 AM
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lol wut. R U Mine? has nothing to do with her (or any specific chick I suppose)
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:25 PM
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Guide her. If she still doesn't, pump and dump. Don't waste your time with a prude, it's never worth it.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 04:47 PM
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He wrote it when he was 18, maybe even younger. You could say that his lyrics are blue pill, still they're incredibly good. Plus he's a millionaire living in LA, doing what he loves for a living, touring the world and banging models. What have you done?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:43 PM
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Fluorescent Adolescent is actually about a woman who has hit the wall. The song about the girl in OP is Bigger Boys and Stolen Sweethearts
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:24 PM
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same here, they're awesome. Still think AM is their weakest album though, goes to show how great they are. can't wait for The Last Shadow Puppets 2 next year
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:23 PM
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Too bad he's too busy being one of the best songwriters of his generation and banging models
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 02:56 PM
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Relevant: the song "Bigger Boys and Stolen Sweethearts". It's about his relationship with this girl. Lots of RP truths in it
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 02:21 PM
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Did you really just write a whole post on this thing?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 05:55 PM
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Dump her now
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:47 PM
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I already read it, do you have any new suggestions? Techniques, kinks...
/r/askTRP11/12/15 04:30 PM
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So far the effort has been absolutely zero on my part. I'm going out and gaming new girls anyway and I won't stop. Still, I live (exchange student) in a bad place for cultivating abundance and exams are coming soon, so I'd like to keep her.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 04:29 PM
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She's not LTR material. That being said, degrade her to plate and continue fucking her for your enjoyment and practice (read Sex God Method and apply it). Game and bang other girls.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:32 PM
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In my opinion this is overthinking. By analysing the issue and training you're constantly thinking about it. You get tense and not only you don't enjoy the act, you probably aggravate the PE. Just be present and enjoy yourself, slow down if you have to, breathe deep but that's it, don't get crazy on kegels or shit like that. If you have to, jerk it some hours before. If you come whatever, laugh about it and ten minutes later go for round two.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:52 PM
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BASIC Question 1: ”Are you a player?” Yeah, I like playing all kinds of sport. Tennis and soccer the most. Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” What is a girl? smirk Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” Not at all, are you? Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” 27... this week. Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” Yeah, 3 girls a day. INTERMEDIATE Question 6: ”Are you gay?” No, sorry, you'll have to look elsewhere for a LGBT activist Question 7: …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 12:59 AM
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Never, ever tell a girl you're a virgin. Fake it until you make it.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 04:29 PM
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If you hold it at chest level it looks like you're protecting yourself, similar to keeping your arms crossed
/r/askTRP29/11/15 05:05 PM
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Appreciate the insight, but the question was more focused on "what could I have done differently to plate her successfully" so I can avoid mistakes in the future
/r/askTRP28/11/15 05:17 PM
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I should add #4 we're both exchange students...
/r/askTRP28/11/15 01:53 PM
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"Why would I?"
/r/askTRP27/11/15 05:07 PM
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Thanks bro, I have to thank TRP and the Sex God Method for that. I'm really not humble bragging, it's just that I have low experience with ONS and no experience at all plating them. I guess I'll text her in a couple of days and after one or two texts ask her if she's free tonight. Will it work? Should I say "my place or your place?" or is it too early for this and I should wait a couple more encounters?
/r/askTRP24/11/15 08:47 AM
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I've read it but how does that apply to this phase?
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:58 PM
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I honestly didn't know that, does that happen? Guess I was lucky in the past
/r/askTRP22/11/15 12:38 PM
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This is a case when the advice can only be standard. She's doing it for herself. Any contact is to her convenience, don't ever answer texts, if you ever meet her just say hi and that's it. It is over, you'll never get things the way they were. Lift, mourn, take your time and become better than ever. She's not gonna be part of your life anymore. Also, read the sidebar and lurk more.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 01:17 AM
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Sidebar-worthy comment. Really, this is TRP gold.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 01:47 PM
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What is this influx of bloopers saying you should wait? You should not accept your LTR being on dating sites. OP, either downgrade to plate (and actively pursue new plates) or dump her.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:31 PM
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Having lived in two countries in Western Europe and having met lots of foreign people I can contribute to this. European women are women. Thus, they are hypergamous, have an AF/BB strategy, are validation-seeking both on social media and in real life, keep orbiters, etc. AWALT. That being said, they're not generally the same as American women. European women are different in that they ACT on their hypergamy less frequently. They WILL branch swing, I can tell you that. But only the biggest sluts …
/r/askTRP16/11/15 08:57 PM
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I thought it might have something to do with Facebook acquiring Whatsapp, thus taking the phone number from there?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 10:07 PM
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You don't owe her anything, you're just making excuses
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:21 PM
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You're a slut. That's your nature, you can't be saved.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:35 PM
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I'll never get married for other reasons, but... My mother buys her stuff, my father buys his stuff. Is the notion of a marriage like this unconceivable in the US?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 09:10 AM
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The smart choice is always using a condom. The pullout method is risky.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 01:07 PM
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Good point, interesting post. You need to work on your grammar though.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 08:51 PM
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I'd love to see the smirking/grinning faces of people who jerk off over that and see how stupid they actually look.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:04 PM
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The problem I have is in winter. It's too cold for leather jackets, not enough light for sunglasses and snapbacks.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 12:08 AM
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A really good article by Good Looking Loser underlined the importance of edge in how you're dressed. That is, have something (clothes or accessories) that give an edgy impression, the sexy-Chad type of guy, not the overgrown teenager or the nerd beta bucks. The problem is GLL suggestions in his season guides are complete shit. Like, he suggests wearing ridicolous stuff with no sense of fashion. Anyway, I'll give you a positive example: a leather jacket. It attracts looks, makes you look better, …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 11:44 PM
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The hell? Roosh's site is not Rational Male. That's Rollo Tomassi's site.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 08:15 PM
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Yeah, it was in a tinder guide
/r/askTRP03/11/15 10:55 PM
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Agreed on the no-porn part, but what I think is crucial is just stop thinking about it. Enjoy yourself, come when you have to, then there's a second, third time. Be in the moment, don't think about it. It's psychological.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 09:54 AM
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I find that if I'm really tired, like I would be in your situation, I just want to go home. I don't feel up for anything but sleeping. You should fix your schedule
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:16 AM
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I still like the music I liked before. I'm mature enough to be able to split music and thoughts. Arctic Monkeys are still my favorite band even though they have many songs about oneitis. The lyrics are great even if I don't agree with them: poetically, artistically speaking they're great at expressing emotions even though they're BP. (Funnily enough they have a couple of less known songs with RP concepts) To discard music because it's BP is just stupid. Then let's discard Dante's Divina Commedia…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:51 AM
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I tried it with some of them, didn't work. I see your point though, I should probably stick to this. One of the girls's bio said she can do a great x impression (x is a famous female singer). After a couple of texts I said "I can do a great y impression" (y=famous male singer). Gimme your number and we'll win a grammy" Was that a good response, regardless of the result?
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:18 PM
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The "you have good taste in men" line usually works in making them laugh. Then we tell each other where we're from, I joke on something related to that and suggest we hang out so she can show me around since I'm kinda new here (been here for a month). That's when they stop responding. Sometimes I avoid saying "so you can show me around", doesn't change the result.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:09 PM
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RP advocates against actually texting on the app. Just a tiny bit of banter before going for the meet. It's based on looks anyway, you can't seem interesting in 4 texts. What I don't get is why this isn't working at all.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:06 PM
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I have the same problem, when I drink I'm a different person who's got no trouble with small-talk and always has fun. Anyway, I drink once a week. I really think what you're doing is unhealthy, drinking multiple times a day everyday? That's alcoholism for you.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:19 PM
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Hard next her and her friends. There's plenty of hot girls
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:50 AM
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Actually the video, called 'The Phenomenon", was linked in an email newslette. I don't know the link nor if it's still online
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 02:01 PM
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I recently saw a good video by Jesse from Simple Pickup saying "when you approach a girl, you don't risk rejection. You risk success", as in, if you don't do anything, nothing will happen. By trying, you're literally improving your chances of success. I think that applies to everything.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 01:41 PM
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well, I was out tonight and a friend of mine says that he was told by a friend of the girl that I texted the girl but she didn't answer me. Which is not true, but it's obviously a rejection. I won't text her for sure after this. Tonight a girl approached me, we were both sober, we talked and made out, I have her number. She was excited about me. I'll just try and not fuck up with this one. Should I text this new one tomorrow morning saying "hey it's x, it was nice meeting you. Talk to you later"…
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:33 AM
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Last question: I didn't remember how the conversation ended. I said " thursday night sounds good. I'll text you Have a nice evening" and she said "Nice, see you then ;) i'm going to bed greeting emoji" It was 00:21. Does any of this change anything?
/r/askTRP30/09/15 06:38 PM
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I see your point, but honestly in my situation I don't think that's going to work. I don't think she's invested at all, she might think I'm good looking but that's it. We're exchange student so it's all different, you meet new people everyday, etc. If I don't text her with the location and time (which we didn't agree before) I'm positive she won't contact me, she probably already forgot. Even if I do text her, the flake probability is 85%. I'm looking for a Hail Mary solution. But since my quest…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:30 PM
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In the specific case, the date would be tomorrow. I asked her out, she said sorry and asked if I minded going another day, I asked her schedule and then I said "thursday sounds good. see you then". I was thinking about sending her the details (where and when) tomorrow in the early afternoon.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:12 PM
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I see your point, but what do you talk about then?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 10:26 PM
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If you don't kiss her by the end of the second date you're doing it wrong. In the past I had zero game skills and didn't kino at all and even I got the kiss on the second date. You just stop talking, pull her in and kiss her. Stop hamstering, it's your fault, not hers.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:40 AM
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Sometimes you just have to shut up and let the other person worry about what to say.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 10:10 PM
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Good post. It's just I think many people (myself included) shouldn't plate their pre-RP oneitis 'cause it might be difficult to stay RP all along. Better to apply this guide to post-RP LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 01:15 PM
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Obvious troll post
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:51 AM
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lol what? 54 games, 61 goals. His best season ever. "Performed badly", pfff.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:29 AM
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That sounds good. The thing is, in my country we use to get just one drink, so either you pay for both or you don't, no second rounds. Alternating is a good idea for further hang outs; for tonight I think I'll just pay for mine, since I don't know if I'll see her again.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:25 PM
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I have my first tinder date tonight, we're getting drinks. Honestly I'm used to pay only the first time, and only like 5€ at the most. It will be an awkward moment when I pay just for myself, but that's just social conditioning. Embrace the awkwardness.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 07:34 AM
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Thanks for the constructive tips man.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:22 PM
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I'd say overall I'm a 6. Depending on social proof in the specific situation, it can be 5 or 7. Although I have some aesthetic features, I have a lot of work to do on my physique (been lifting for years but still nowhere near big) and my social skills (I tend to suck at small talk).
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:22 PM
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I've been reading TRP everyday for almost a year, I know the theory very well. Besides, mine might be a stupid question, but then so are all the other questions in this sub. I can give you examples out of the first page of asktrp currently, or can you recognize them on your own? I give up on this question, I'll just go with the flow. It's clear that you and many others would rather answer questions about AF/BB, broken LTRs and all that jazz. Whatever.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:49 PM
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I've always cold approached girls or things "just happened" with girls I'd known for a couple of days at the most. The only time I banged a girl in my social group she wasn't a close friend, I'd known her for just a couple of weeks and she approached me. Hence my question, I'd like to know what's the most successful behaviour would be
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:11 PM
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I've been reading TRP for almost a year, I know much more than the basics, thank you very much. It's obvious you didn't get my question, whatever
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:04 PM
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Befriending alpha males is something I planned on doing, yeah. About "baiting the hook", how would one go about doing that? Approaching girls I don't know at parties, it's not a problem. But I'm wondering whether in the first days where you meet everyone I should befriend hot girls or ignore them and only approach them at parties or in other situations as in regular cold approaches. Basically should I make them part of my social group or not? Don't worry about "falling" in love: it's like at the…
/r/askTRP29/08/15 10:21 PM
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In a couple of weeks I'll be going abroad for a semester as an Erasmus student, which means lots of sluts, lots of "good girls" proving AWALT etc. Getting laid is a big part of Erasmus basically. My question is, should I befriend everyone (including girls) during the first weeks and then try to escalate (how?) later or should I focus on making male friends and then directly approach girls without befriend them before?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 08:46 PM
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This all sounds great while on a date. But what if you're stopping a girl during day or night game and you're just meeting her? The first approach is my main problem, I'd like to read your thoughts on it.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:09 PM
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Why not having kids without getting married?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:15 PM
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Advice on how to have that inner dialogue?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 02:18 PM
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I always wonder how stupid many RPers look when they consciously smirk/grin. I mean, great post man, it's just something I'd like to see. I'd probably laugh my ass off.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 07:05 AM
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"No". You don't need to say more.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 11:31 AM
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Dude, just dump her, no need for proof. "It's not working" the end. It's obvious she's been cheating for a while. You don't need to discuss this with her, just hard next her.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 11:44 PM
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Could you expand on your gaming? Your skills sound on point. What do you talk about with a girl when you game her?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 06:59 AM
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The only correct answer is deflecting by suggesting you had your fair amount of pussy without giving a number (don't lie and say an high one, she may think it's too high or too low). Get her hamster spinning and the tingles flowing.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:06 PM
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I'd say it may work if she's already a plate or a LTR. I wouldn't talk about it with acquaintances and girls I don't already sleep with. People only care what you are/can do right now, not what you will be/do in the future.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 12:43 PM
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At 33 and after sleeping with 300+ women I'd worry about other things. Like your career. Find a mission. I'm not saying it's sure, but you might be addicted to validation from women since it's all you mention.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 11:55 PM
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Still you're thinking about her, answering her and posting about her. Next and read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 03:36 AM
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I follow UNILAD on Facebook, but most of its post seem blue pill as fuck, I'm often on the verge of unliking. The comments are often anti-feminist though.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 07:48 PM
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I for one think the words "brothers" and "gentlemen" should be banned from this sub. So cringeworthy.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 09:44 PM
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This is something that is talked about a lot here but I never got it. How the hell does one be social (thus improving SMV) by being the quiet guy that talks every once in a while? Sounds like a good way to stay out of the closer group of friends.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:36 PM
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Of course.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 04:37 PM
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To increase my SMV I'm doing what I can: doing my best in my studies, learning guitar, trying and being more social. I know I shouldn't look for external validation, I know the theory. The point of this thread is to ask exactly what you do when you're thinking emotionally instead of rationally (last three lines of the OP).
/r/askTRP10/07/15 04:16 PM
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Finding a Balkan or Asian girl and bringing her to the US/UK/Europe etc. would not solve anything because she'd live in a western culture. There are no unicorns. An asian or eastern woman living in a western country would be as AWALT as any other.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:47 AM
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Assumed you find a decent girl and LTR her, that could be fine. But why the hell would you get married? You could stay with her forever and not get married. Why sign that contract?
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:06 PM
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TRP is actually a place for discussion of sexual strategy, by definition. Although I agree with most of what you're saying, it IS a place to talk about women.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:00 PM
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Shut up. Take your math bragging elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:36 AM
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Can you expand on the interaction log? What exactly do you write in it, and how many of the interactions do you analyze?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 07:11 PM
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Never stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP27/06/15 08:34 PM
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Cool story bro, I enjoyed it and it's useful to remember AWALT. Something striked me though: how were you not afraid she'd call rape when you confronted her with her husband? You could have gotten in serious trouble, couldn't you?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 09:57 AM
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Done it in less than five minutes, she only mildly protested once, no drama at all. On to the next ones!
/r/askTRP25/06/15 01:32 PM
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Should I give her a quick hug before I leave forever?
/r/askTRP25/06/15 07:44 AM
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Wtf really? Did he go to jail?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:22 AM
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Why do you care? Cut ties, move on, read the sidebar, lift, improve yourself, approach, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:56 PM
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You just need to go on man. Your life is great and it should stay that way. On top of that, game more. Build your game and social skills (ie get more friends). You need to gain momentum. When that happens, remember TRP theory and keep on approaching and build a harem of plates.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 04:53 PM
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I feel the same, I'm in the same situation. Oh, she also has vaginismus, so it's like free blojwobs whenever I want but we can't fuck. And you know what? Blowjobs don't cut it after a while, even if they're from a hot plate you're not committed to. I can't stand a boring woman with no personality. At least girls with shitty personality are a bit entertaining and they can sometimes challenge you with shit tests. Altough of course you should next both types.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 01:31 PM
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Sleep 8 hours a day, eat plenty of protein. i just need to figure out what and how much to eat to get bigger with an acceptable fat gain
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:10 AM
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I was a skinnyfat, now I'm pretty strong (I'm at a solid intermediate level) but still I'm not big at all, like 186cm per 75kg. The problem is I can't eat as much as I can (and then more) because I tend to put on fat easily. In the past bulks I ate 10-15% over my TDEE and didn't see many gains, but if I overeat I get fat. I intend to follow a Beyond 5/3/1 routine 3 or 4 x week. How should I eat?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:24 PM
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Any good RSD links? I'm subscribed to RSD Tyler but it's kinda hard to find the gems in many (and long) videos
/r/askTRP31/05/15 05:24 PM
1

What's the injury rate? I broke both legs and an arm in different occasions in the past, I'd rather avoid any serious injury.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:42 PM
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Thinking about starting MMA, but have no interest in fighting one day. Will I sound like a pussy to the average woman if I just train and do sparring?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 11:00 AM
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Fair enough but what should you talk about in a party/club scenario? Of course after some time you're gonna go dance, but until then? In a day game setting you could talk about anything (music, university, books, movies, hobbies, dreams) but it sounds a bit too serious for a party. Unluckily I'm the only one I know who approaches, I've never been able to watch an alpha in action so I lack in knowledge.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 06:40 AM
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I don't know man, never heard of this "procedurally" thing. One thing's for sure, I suck at game, especially night game. I find it difficult because it's mostly small talk since you can't talk serious stuff (not that serious, but still) like you would in day game. Doesn't help that since the breakup I'm costantly analyzing every interaction, with friends too... Currently reading "Bang" by RooshV
/r/askTRP30/05/15 07:54 PM
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One set was of two girls, looking bored, one was texting. I opened by saying "Why are you guys texting instead of having fun?" plus some stupid shit "You're smoking but not drinking". They go like "there's time for that too, anyway we're like this because we're waiting for our friends". I then proceed to cold read them and did this incredibly well. How? Well they didn't know who I am but I did since I have some friends in common, so with that and some luck I got almost everything right about the…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 06:53 PM
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They weren't saying it as "see you later", rather as in "nice talking to you, now get the fuck out of my face". They weren't mean but I felt a little pathetic, like they didn't take me seriously. Maybe it's cause of the booze?
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:23 PM
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I definitely know what I fucked up, my game is plain terrible. I don't know what to say so I get carried away with teasing but overdo it. I have the impression that the girls at that venue didn't take me seriously. As in, "look at this clown" and not "look at this aloof guy who doesn't give a fuck". It's probably my fault since I was drunk, maybe I learned that I should have just one drink, not more. There was never a sexual tone, it just looked like a drunk guy stopping random girls; I guess dr…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:21 PM
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I like this. I like this very much, you wrote what I had in mind. I'll work out what to say exactly and try to be convincing.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 05:37 PM
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Aight I'll break up with her. I was already inclined to that before posting, seems we all agree. I'll give her an option, as Patrice would say: I'm gonna go get what I need elsewhere; if she wants, we can have a non committed relationship.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 10:34 AM
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What's the RP general consensus about telling her she's a terrible person? I mean, OP fucked up way before that and he knows it. But at that point, was it a mistake to tell her that? I'm thinking maybe it wasn't; if he didn't say anything she would have been just giggling and very confident, whereas now she feels a bit shitty and maybe will try in the future to "fix" her behaviour (to which OP should completely ignore her).
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 07:05 AM
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I can assure you she's really into me, way more than I am into her. I'd say the same if I were you, you just have to trust me on this. Of course if I was Johnny Depp she'd blow me, but that's another story.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 04:35 PM
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Sounds good. The fact is, I don't wanna fuck her without her blowing me first. Since even fingering hurts her, fucking her would be painfully slow; I wanna know I get something back first. So not only I wouldn't go down on her first, but there's not gonna be another meet without a bj.
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/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:54 AM
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Any link of the female masturbation reddit? Can't find it.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 07:20 AM
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I was already reading it but kinda stopped, will go on. Thanks for the advice man.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 04:59 PM
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Sucking me off... Tried to make her do it (both by telling her to, and by putting it in her face), she doesn't want to at the moment. I mean when we get sexual she fucking shivers, she's really scared of not being good enough, she isn't even comfortable with moving her hands on my body. At least I taught her how to give handjobs. I'll be sure to apply all you said, don't know what to do about the blowjobs tough.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 04:02 PM
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She's never pushed me away or told to stop, so I get it, I should move forward. I already rubbed her and she felt pleasure, never penetrated because I hate condoms and she never got me horny enough to stay hard in one... I guess I'll just nofap for a couple of days, that should work. I never thought about straight penetration without fingering to be honest. Could it really work?
/r/askTRP25/04/15 03:50 PM
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What kind of question is that? I'm dating this girl because I like spending time with her. That doesn't mean I don't want her poon. Reads like something a bluepiller would say.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 03:37 PM
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That works for me. Any advice on how to deliver it convincingly?
/r/askTRP05/04/15 07:10 AM
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I wouldn't have a conscious if only she agreed with me. I could talk to her about it and see if she says she wants to do it (that is, have a short but intense relationship whose expiration date we already know), but 99.9% she wouldn't. Is there any convincing way I could explain this to her? Not logically I know, they live on emotions.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 09:16 PM
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So you suggest I get into a relationship with this girl for 5 months, then dump her the day before leaving for Erasmus with her having no clue?
/r/askTRP04/04/15 09:13 PM
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I'm not putting her on a pedestal, I'm just stating facts. I've been wondering for days whether I should fuck her or not. She has behaved perfectly up to now, never flaked, never acted crazy. If she wasn't a virgin I'd have no doubts but since she is, I'm in a rut, I don't know if that'd be a good thing.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 07:05 PM
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She told me she isn't religious so that shouldn't be the issue... She's surely afraid of failing but I repeatedly told her to relax and that I'll teach her. I mean you can fail at blowing someone, but you can't fail at giving one kiss to his cock just as a start. If you're not up to that, well, you don't want to learn really... I'm just really frustrated, she's the most passive girl I've ever met. I taught her a bit of what I like but she doesn't even try. Can you believe I got her horny and wet…
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The problem is the sex location. I live in a flat with my parents, they don't have regular time schedules so I can bring girls in only every once in a while when they're on holiday somewhere; next time is gonna be in a month, too late. She lives with her cousin who's always at home and doesn't even go to class; it's by chance I was at hers yesterday night because he was away with his girlfriend. About point 1: she really likes me (she threw a tantrum the other day 'cause we didn't see each other…
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How do I make sure of it? If she texts me what should I tell her? I have no intention to go out on a date with her until she sucks my dick (I might text her exactly this, but it wouldn't work, too explicit and forcible).
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Fuck her, if she doesn't suck it I won't do her the favour of losing her virginity to a hot, patient guy that she knows well. Besides, since I suspect she has a broken vag (vaginismus) it'd have been long and boring.
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It's not that she doesn't want to reciprocate, she's just scared of sucking (at) it. I told her what bugs me isn't inexperience, it's lack of curiosity. I knew she was a virgin but I thought she'd be excited about sex, not scared by it; this is related to her vaginismus I'm sure. Anyway she started trying to blow me last time (I had to show her porn, she had no idea how to do it), I wouldn't call her selfish (altough AWALT). That's why I'm torn whether breaking up with her or not, I'd be throwin…
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