| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Why does it feel like a lot of redpill ideas are based on disillusionment?Life for a man is based on achievement. Video games deliver a false sense of achievement. They do make you happy, your brain thinks its doing something useful, but you're not. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 09:17 PM |
| 3 | I saw something work that is completely opposite of typical seduction advice and is usually criticized by everyone here.Example 1 I have no doubt women genuinely feel something for guys all of the time. Not all of their friends are just orbiters they view as pathetic. However, he is not fucking her. At the end of the day is there any real use to you her wanting you, but going home to her bf? What this girl wants is to now keep him in her life at all costs, and is trying to give him everything she can, without actually fucking him and whilst keeping her boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 11:55 AM |
| 5 | How do I be just friends with girlsReasonable question imo. Friendship with women has a lot of advantages for working on your social skills, having social proof etc. You will never be 'friends' with women like you are with guys in my view. I have had plenty of female friends, and they still largely approach the friendships with the mindset of getting something out of it. Hanging out with them feels like dates. They take a lot of what I consider emotional energy that guys don't. As below, you want to be her friend, not her orbiter… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Very old oneitis said she wants to date me. Thoughts?Yeah don't force anything. But I'd make a specific plan of out on date -> back to your place. If she's not down, or she acts uninterested, then just move on. The next time she tries this stuff I'd be more direct and just ask her straight to your place, again, if she's not down, soft next. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 08:20 AM |
| 39 | Is it normal to hate to live with a woman 24/24 in the same appartment ?Completely normal. I used to really enjoy the relationships I had in college, in which we lived separately and I'd see her 2-3 times a week. That was a relationship that I got value from and I enjoyed. What I didn't want is spending every day with her and her spending all her time at my place. These days it seems that in a relationship women want to be moving in together within 6 months | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 07:59 AM |
| 9 | Very old oneitis said she wants to date me. Thoughts?I feel that if he does any slow escalation he'll just put himself right back in the friend zone. If she's offering, ask her on a date and see what happens. But I'd be looking at the very minimum some form of physical contact on date 1. Not a prolonged friendship dating situation. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 07:58 AM |
| 10 | Very old oneitis said she wants to date me. Thoughts?My experience is as you improve from age 20 to age 25 many of the women who have Friendzoned you will come around and want something more. They'll even make it easy for you. In this situation what you should do is easy, escalate and see what happens. I wouldn't spend a huge period of time taking her on dates, but ask her out to a bar and see if she actually wants to hook up. There is a strong chance she'll just try and string you along and use you for validation seeing if she can get you back on… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 07:57 AM |
| 3 | If you’ve dated a co-worker, do you wish that you hadn’t?You didn't escalate. What are you doing going on dates with a woman and not escalating? How do you think they will react. Poorly is the answer. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 07:06 AM |
| 2 | If you’ve dated a co-worker, do you wish that you hadn’t?What did you actually do with her? You didn't make this clear. Did you have sex with her? Did you get into a relationship with her? Or did you just follow along with her flirting and she rejected you? If its the later, just soft next her. Nothing was done, nothing was lost, nothing major happened. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Broke up with gf due to her chatting with her ex. Did I give her closure?Handled it well. You don't owe her more than that. If anything, your directness was the kind way to do it. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Coworker just wants to be friendsYou don't put up with women messing you about. If you respect yourself, anything other than what you want should be met with removing yourself from the situation. If you want to date, and she wants to be friends then your incompatible. Get out. You're just making her lose respect for you. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when a woman with a boyfriend seems to be escalating with you?Thats a fair point. Cheating to me means actually doing something whilst with your boyfriend, if she was trying to leave her current partner that would be a different story. I don't consider leaving your boyfriend as cheating even if you do it to allow yourself to be with someone else. Of course, as a long term prospect, bad idea. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 08:16 AM |
| – | How do you respond when a woman with a boyfriend seems to be escalating with you?I wouldn't be involved in cheating. More than anything I was just curious what she's trying to do. I know people say "women do it for attention" and I do get women flirt occasionally for attention, but usually if they try and actively escalate something they have a reason. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 07:46 AM |
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