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| 0 | The dating market does not suck for womenExactly. We can’t expect women to be attracted to men who frankly aren’t attractive partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | The dating market does not suck for womenWell can you really blame women though? Women only date who they think is attractive, and the average man looks like they crawled out of a sewer. It’s entirely on men to change their appearance to be deemed attractive to other people, why should women lower their standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 03:10 PM |
| 8 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"This is me. Through high school and undesirable in college until I lost 50 pounds, increased my style and grew out my hair. The amount of attention I get is night and day. However I never liked the “hoe phase” and just enjoy having a real connection with a girl. I never had that phase, the closest thing is having sex with a girl is after talking to her for a month. N count is 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | The ‘Friends First’ approach to dating is a huge waste of timeA lot of women are unaware of the fact that any of the supposed guy friends would want to sleep with them, last time I checked if we were friends I wouldn’t want any intimate contact with them. However, since most men are touch starved and lack deep emotional connections, they latch onto the girl that gives them that validation and security. Though she sees him only as a friend, the guy will most likely not only have friendship feelings. By girls wanting the friends first approach, it’s mostly t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?I’m a guy with a dick lol at least I’m being honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?Did I want to hook up with a good looking girl? Of course. Unfortunately I’m a good person and am not willing to break the trust I have with my gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Should a woman who has lost significant amounts of weight give men who did not want her a chance after weight loss?I have personal experience with this. I’m a guy (22) that was overweight and did not have style or charisma or anything that would make me attractive (in retrospect). I asked out a girl friend (22) and she said no, then hooked up with a close friend of ours (not saying out of spite or anything, but just to fuel my emotions about the situation). Well follow through about a year, I’m down 40lbs, grew out my hair, and am very confident in my abilities and look good. Here she comes, out of the woodw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:58 PM |
| 31 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?I had the option to when I went on vacation, but I didn’t out of respect for my partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 01:30 AM |
| -1 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.Women are attracted to confidence. HVM have confidence. Women also engage in preselection, the idea that the man is more attractive if other women are attracted to him; this usually means that in order to take him away from the girls, they have to give the HVM their body, hoping that sex will make him think that she is the one to take instead of the other girls. Chads know this, and from their perspective, why would they settle down with a girl if they can get a new one every other week? This is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 06:08 PM |
| 0 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.You’d be surprised the desires of college-aged men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Just pay attention to herFuck that’s a good point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Just pay attention to herI guess I did because I still don’t understand it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 10:36 PM |
| 14 | Just pay attention to herI feel you. I write my girlfriend love letters, buy her food, stuffed animals, a vibrator for sexy time, and dinner out. I open doors for her and tell her how much I love her. One day when I went to her apartment she asked me to do the dishes, for which I didn’t want to do. She then said “well good boyfriends would do them” and “well my friends boyfriend wouldn’t have a problem doing them” Sometimes, women just can’t be satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Which of these scenaris is the "friend zone"?99% of of guys are A. They just hover until the girl finally agrees to have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?Weightlifting. I want compliments from other gymbros, not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 05:18 PM |
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