| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 398 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1 | Dubstep_Duck | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 01:05 PM | |
| 167 | 3 Rules I Live By Everyday | Dubstep_Duck | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 10:22 PM | |
| 146 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2 | Dubstep_Duck | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 01:36 PM | |
| 32 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs. | Dubstep_Duck | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 11:14 PM | |
| 9 | Who wants to do the 60 day challenge with me? | Dubstep_Duck | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 07:23 AM |
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| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.They talked about that all in the documentary verison of DMT: The Spirit Molecule. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.uptoked | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 07:37 AM |
| 0 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.Well, I dress pretty much like a hipster. (Inb4 fuckin' hipsters.) I have large gauges in my ears, a septum piercing, tattoos, the sides of my head are shaved. I look a little crazy. I just prefer the alternative look, on both myself and the girls I would date. But I don't mind hooking up with preppy/sorority chicks either. (why would you?) And that's where I run into problems. But if it's between changing my look, and sleeping with a sorority girl, I'd give up the sex. I think I'm just going to… | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.Yea dude it really sucked. I thought I was stuck like that forever. At one point, I looked outside at a tree and had no idea what it was. Shit was getting real. And weed before alcohol, you're all good, switch that up though and you're not going to enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.I haven't done coke in years, and I only did it a few times. If someone gave it to me for free I'd do it again but that's it. Shrooms, the only hallucinogen I do regularly, about once every other month or so. Trees though, I do that every night I'm not busy the next day hahah | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.Eh, I could see this working. I mean, I wouldn't smoke DMT right after making whoopie, but I always like having an After-Sex-Cigarette. I could change this to "Want to join me for an After-Sex-Joint?" and it'd probably have the same, if not better effect. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.I love this. But hear me out on my first and only experience with LSD, I'll give an extremely short version. Basically, I got pretty drunk at a Halloween party, went back to my friends place, drank a considerable amount (a fuck ton) more. Blacked out, woke up with 2 tabs in my mouth. While drunk I agreed to do it, at 4 in the morning. It was a very bad experience (in acid's defense, I started my trip blackout drunk and at a solid [10], it was before smoked often). I honestly never thought about … | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.First off, I like dating white chicks, I'm confused. Maybe that's my problem. Secondly, this is such a simple way to deal with this. Why didn't I think of it first... But this doesn't necessarily answer how to bring up other drugs. I guess if she seems really comfortable with weed, it wouldn't be out of the question to ask something like "Have you tried anything else?", but on the off chance she says "No, I'm not okay with anything other than weed. You?" I'm going to be strongly inclined to avoi… | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.Will do, I never thought to use it as part of my game haha | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.Weed is not a drug I saw this and wondered why this comment got downvoted so much.... If you are an adult, you really shouldn't be doing coke or hallucinogens that much anymore, grow up. oh. You can probably guess what I did next. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.racism wouldn't even be an issue Solid point. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.I would never date a girl against it either, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't take her home for a night. So I still want to find a way to basically qualify her for that, without it hurting me. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.Don't talk about drugs to people who don't do drugs. It's like talking baseball to somebody who doesn't watch sports. It's a conversation they can't wait to escape and they feel awkward being involved in it. But how would you ever know if they were into it or not? Also, I'm a very open and loud person. Even though it is my own business, it's part of who I am, and I enjoy talking about it here and there. I do agree though that your identity needs to be separate from weed. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 04:38 AM |
| 8 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.Pull the Steve Jobs card. Brilliant. Bitches love Apple. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.DMT is a psychedelic, not a narcotic lol it's completely natural, released when you're dreaming, and is in basically every plant and animal. You can't OD on it unless copious amounts are shot up hahah | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 04:35 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to a girl's friend?I wouldn't bother saying that, I think it could come off as needy. Stick to the challenging mysterious response, it's the simplest effective thing you can do. The only other thing you could do is tease your target through your friend. I've done this before, usually works out well because it gets the two girls talking about you. Tell your friend to tell the target some kind of tease, like this: Female Friend: "What do you think of [target's name]? "Well since you're going to repeat to her whateve… | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Contemporary Male Mating Strategies - The Alpha/Player/PUA, The Beta, The Whole Package, and The ApatheticI loved every part of this article, except for this part. Avoid players. Players are strictly for short-term use. If you decide to have a fling with a player, be aware that you’re also demonstrating a lack of self-control to the ideal guy you haven’t met yet. Don’t play the loser’s game of thinking you can flip a cad. They never stay flipped for long. I guess the best thing to do is to become the Whole Package and drop some of the player attributes we have then? | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Girls with boyfriends kinoing with platonic friendsTotally relates to what I just posted, and I totally agree with this too. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls with boyfriends kinoing with platonic friendsI don't think she's lying, or even realizes what she was doing. She found you attractive, but wasn't really attracted to you (if that makes sense...). Girls love male validation. And there's that certain type of girl, which most of us have probably run into at some point, that seems to go out of her way for your attention, but for only that reason. Male validation makes women feel sexy and high valued. I've noticed that this happens a lot with the "Daddy's little girl" type, her dad would give h… | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 06:44 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to a girl's friend?Don't give a clear answer, say something along the lines of "I'm interested, but we will just have to wait and see." This hides your intentions, and if this is repeated to the girl, it'll be a challenge to her (Her thought process: Why doesn't he like me that much? I have to make him like me.) Even if she's attracted to you, she can easily lose that if you don't challenge her at all. So make sure when you hang out with this girl, you're not all up on her from the start. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Psychological study on dating exemplifies the effectiveness of language mirroring in establishing rapportIn fact, says Pennebaker, even in our native language, these function words are basically invisible to us. "You can't hear them," Pennebaker says. "Humans just aren't able to do it." Pennabaker himself said it's hard to point those words out, so you would probably get stuck in Analysis Paralysis trying to look out for this. Basically, try to not say "I" as much and just pay attention for how much she says "I". If she says "I" a lot, she perceives you as higher value than herself, and you probabl… | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Just got this advice from a girl - is it truth, or bullshit?This. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Just got this advice from a girl - is it truth, or bullshit?This is a good point. Our culture still deems men as the aggressors in relationships, so most females won't approach usually. (Instead she will make eye contact to signal you to come over, and even that is only done by more confident women). Even though we as PUAs try to make it look as if we are not trying to get her, that cultural norm still holds true. We have to make the first move. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Just got this advice from a girl - is it truth, or bullshit?If you're naturally good with women, and physically attractive, then by all means take this advice. But if you're just not good at it, then "being yourself" may not be enough to attract a girl, if being yourself means you're quiet and shy of girls. You can't expect them to read your mind and know how good of a guy you are. With that said though, this community and pick up itself is not meant to change people completely, it is only meant to make you a better communicator of your feelings and thou… | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 05:46 PM |
| 0 | First date: Do you pay?So simple. I like it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 03:33 AM |
| 6 | First date: Do you pay?If you don't pay, how do you guys handle the situation? What do you do/say? I always find this part of dates awkward so I just pay, rather than deal with having the "So how are we doing this?" conversation. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 02:18 AM |
| 1 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1Agreed, but it works, so why not. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 11:04 PM |
| 2 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1A conversation between a friend in the community and myself, on the difference between negging and teasing: Him: "Negging feels very unnatural when i do it. Not to mention, I usually avoid girls who would need to be negged anyways. A bad flirt can easily be ignored, a bad neg can obliterate any progress." Me: "Fair point. Honestly, I just tease by saying things like "Listen, we're not going to workout, I'm sorry." but in a super satirical tone, smirking. It serves the same purpose as a neg and d… | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 10:08 PM |
| 3 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1I guess its just the kind of person I am, I don't see these things as mean. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:42 PM |
| 1 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1Love it, this one subcommunicates a lot of value. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:37 PM |
| 1 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1Well I play up that fact sometimes, so that makes total sense. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:27 PM |
| 1 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1I definitely agree with these, I'll squeeze this in somewhere. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:25 PM |
| 3 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1So many people on this subreddit worry too much about what to say. If you have a strong frame you can say whatever. I personally love using goober, because since it such a weird word that know one uses, it always gets a laugh. Sometimes I'll even take it farther than that, and by the end of the night, the girl and I are calling everyone goobers and laughing about it. My frame is all about having fun. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:24 PM |
| 5 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1Interesting to gets girl's perspective on this. Every girl is different and different girls will be willing to take more shit from certain guys. I've blown myself out before, and I've teased a girl all the way to bed. Maybe too much teasing is what has stopped me from maintaining a longer term relationships? What do you think? | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 01:39 AM |
| 2 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2The tall, skinny ones always get me too. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Whats a good reply for "Do you have a gf?This reminds me of "I have 8 girlfriends. I've been looking for a 9th, and you seem like you can fit the role. Tell you what, I'll make you a deal, you can be girlfriend #6, right now." | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:57 PM |
| 1 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2I guess it all depends on the girl. Like I said be careful and should only be used on chicks that are really hot and are quite aware of it. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:48 PM |
| 3 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1Maybe I will. There's for more information on how to qualify around the internet, but finding solid stuff on teasing was much more difficult, so that why I made this guide. Try searching demonoid for the Love Systems routine manual if you're really in a rut. Or check out this video, it's about transitioning, but he goes into some neat information on simple qualification. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:32 PM |
| 11 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1The Palm Reading teases are good too. You: Somehow fooling around or on the subject of hands. "Let me see your hands really quick." You: "This line here show's you're going to die at age 32, but that's not even your biggest issue." Let go of her hand and pull away. Girl: What is it?!? (Hooked) You:Quickly grab her arm, pull her in. "You're going to be retarded." OR: "You're going to discover the cure for cancer." ("NOT!") OR: "There's totally something about Jesus in here..." Scanning her palm l… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:15 PM |
| 7 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1That is a completely fair point and I actually agree with you hahah | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 04:58 PM |
| 2 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2Well that for sure lol that why I said "Positive Stereotypes" so stereotypes that are unlikely to really offend anyone, if delivered properly. If she grew up on a farm, I'd stereotype her as a farmer girl, and tease her like that. Ask her how the pig is doing. I'm not gonna mack on a black chick by saying something racist. Even then, after I have gained a decent amount of rapport, I'll straight up ask, "What's your opinion of white people saying nigga? With the a at then end of course." "The rea… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 04:45 PM |
| 10 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1Watch for the IOIs that she gives. That's more of a calibration issue which I can't exactly teach. Basically, tease her a bit, do your thing, once she has responded well to a tease, qualify her. You: "You're such a goober" (or whatever) Girl: "Stop it! You're so mean! hahah (punches your arm or whatever) You: "You know you pretty cool, you can handle all the shit I give everyone. What else do you do for fun? (or whatever) Girl: Qualifies herself. (If not, continue teasing/disqualifying/DHV'ing i… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 04:17 PM |
| 3 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2Both of you are right, I use the teasing heavily at first and after I have them attracted I back off a bit and have real conversation, give her bigger qualifiers, and show some vulnerability. Constant teasing and nothing else will lead to people to detest you, and girls won't just think you're an asshole, they'll be convinced you're one. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 03:48 PM |
| 2 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2I knew that would seem sexist. Don't get me wrong, I love women. I don't think they're actually stupid/bad at math (It's just a stereotype that can be joked about) I've done the same thing, I guess I should put in a warning to keep sexist teases to a minimum. Sometimes it can backfire after 1 comment, if the women is particular independent. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 03:44 PM |
| 10 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1Nothing is too far fetched to actually say though, you just have to be in the right scenario, handling it correctly. Half of getting away with saying these things is giving her that genuine smile, that one you only give to her. That look can make girls wet even if you're silent. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 03:37 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Next question...I know, but I feel like it's been watered down now and isn't precise. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 03:26 PM |
| 8 | Whats a good reply for "Do you have a gf?Hope you don't mind that I put this my Teasing Guide. Definitely needed to be included. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 03:09 PM |
| 6 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2Hahaha Well, not yet anyway. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 02:41 PM |
| 8 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1So am I hahah I like saying purposefully awkward things and bringing sex up quickly. But for the sake of the guide, I don't want to send poor innocent sedditors to their embarrassing doom if they don't do it right. Better if they start off slower. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Are there any Guides on Teasing? I suck at this...http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/sv7tk/a_not_so_quick_guide_to_teasing_pt_1/ | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 01:50 PM |
| 37 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1Thanks man, much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 01:49 PM |
| 13 | Are there any Guides on Teasing? I suck at this..."you and everyone else around here" That's a little far, what you want to do is treat the girl like a little sister to you. But in order to pull this off, you need to have confident body language, smile and make eye contact when you tease, said very "tongue-in-cheek". She needs to know that you're intending to be humorous. Otherwise she'll take you seriously and you'll blow yourself out. Say things like: "You're such a little brat (laugh here to break tension if need be), am I going to have to g… | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 06:47 PM |
| 0 | [xMODx] Next question...The HB Scale. Why is it that people say "HB6" or "HB7"? HB should only be in front of 9 or 10. But that whole scale is outdated. My scale goes from 0-3 and that's it. It goes like this: 0- You would NOT do it. 1- If you were drunk, maybe. 2- You'd probably go for it sober. 3- You really want it. Simple, precise. Saying "HB7" gives me no idea what we're working with. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 04:07 PM |
| 6 | I need advice about what I can talk about with a girl.Watch this video. And this one too, getting in state will help you be able to naturally come up with things to say. I know this is for Daygame, but applies to night gaming as well. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Who wants to do the 60 day challenge with me?That's the spirit. | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Who wants to do the 60 day challenge with me?Thanks for this lol, I didn't know there was a reddit for this. | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Who wants to do the 60 day challenge with me?I'm not necessarily going to quit fapping altogether (definitely cutting it back, maybe I'll do the 8 day thing), but I'm not going to watch any porn for the full 60 days. I'm not so much worried about my testosterone levels and such, it's more to avoid the negative effects of porn. | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 12:46 AM |
| 1 | This book changed my lifeI ended up buying a copy because I used it so much, just as a reference manual. Worth the $15 bucks. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Game Against Alpha JoeI wouldn't use the word manipulate, it has negative connotations and applies more to when your intentions A) are completely hidden, and B) usually have negative affects on the one being manipulated. Manipulation goes hand in hand with "being used". This is why the pick up community gets so much shit from everyone. Instead, all human interaction is persuading or influencing others to change their own opinions and feelings. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 08:06 PM |
| 3 | It really is the small things that get to youDo this next time for sure. And make sure not to excuse yourself in a beta way by apologizing, just casually mention the fact that you were off to class/work/wherever you were going. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Game Against Alpha Joe"Ok, you're hired... but I'm not paying you that much." Pure gold. I kept trying to think of good responses while I read this, and that beat anything I could think of. If I wanted to get better at Qualifying, not only girls, but for AMOGs like Joe, where should I go? I run into a lot of problems with qualification. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 06:11 PM |
| 1 | This book changed my lifeTry the more up to date version of this book, also written by Allan Pease, The Defenitive Book of Body Language. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Gaming store employees?I don't have much experience with this, but the one and only time I managed to get anywhere with a store employee I used the whole "sign up for a member card" to tease her. It was at American Eagle, and after she started asking me for my information for the card, I teased her by saying things like "You just want my phone number don't you?", and "what, are you trying to stalk me??!" I got a friend request on Fb the next day. May have just been luck because I don't think that would always work. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Gaming store employees?I think he meant "gaming" as in picking up a female store employee, not that she was into games. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 07:56 AM |
| 1 | 3 Rules I Live By EverydayI agree that the majority of stuff on this site is inner game material and you and I both would like to see some other useful information. But honestly, I don't really use canned lines or do anything else but these rules. They are my inner game as well as my actual game. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 08:25 PM |
| 1 | confidence; body language; eye contact.When you're truly confident, women will want you and men will want to be you. Being alpha or just confident in general makes other men view you as a threat and/or jealous of you. So yes it can. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when she asks "what are you looking for?"This is brilliant. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 02:19 AM |
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