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| 3 | Is the goal of having sex with a girl you approach and getting her number a healthy mindset?If you are a virgin and want to become good with girls, this mindset is effective. I would go as far to say that if you don't have this mindset, you will not lose your virginity unless you get lucky. You certainly won't become good with girls. You have to learn how to take the lead. To be able to do that, you have to be single minded for a while. After you have slept with 20+ girls, you can lose this attitude a bit. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 02:45 AM |
| 0 | How to feel "good enough" as a 25 y/o virgin?Don't try to feel good enough. Because you aren't. You don't have any women in your life. You are a virgin. I don't mean this in a rude way. I have been there. But you have to face the facts: You are not attractive to women right now. You have to find out what the next steps are to get women in your life. Focussing on internal dialogue, wether it's through mediation, journaling or affirmations, distracts you from taking steps to reach your goal. Don't focus on your feelings or thoughts for a whi… | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Most of this knowledge seems virtually impossible to use in practice.In any city in the world there are people emerged in pickup. - Do a Google search for PUA / pickup in your city. - Join the RSD Inner Circle in your city. Plug your ears during their speeches and go out with the guys afterwards. - Use national pickup forums to ask for wings in your specific city. - Go out and look for people who are approaching a lot of girls. Don't assume they no pickup, but they are at least like-minded. | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Most of this knowledge seems virtually impossible to use in practice.Go to every pickup, lair or RSCreep meeting in your city. Introduce yourself to everyone. Go out or daygame with anyone, you can work on your game while observing how good they are. Once you know who the players are, find out who of them has the best track record coaching. Use the criteria above to select the right person(s). Caveat: never take coaching with someone who doesn't quantify their results or whom you haven't seen live infield. Avoid any coach that blabbers about spiritual concepts or… | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 09:31 AM |
| 6 | Most of this knowledge seems virtually impossible to use in practice.Take coaching. The problem is not that the advice is bad, the problem is that you don't know which advice to apply. You need someone who's job it is to give you the right advice at the right time. Also, a lot gets "lost in translation". When I took coaching for the first time, I noticed that my own prejudices and bias made me interpret online advice completely differently then it was ment. A coach can correct you an prevent you from doing stupid stuff. I had been reading 9+ years about seduction… | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 10:06 AM |
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