Dudequality Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-8	Why can’t this sub focus on actual issues affecting men? Can we stop conflating feminism with misandry? It doesn't help men at all to attack people advocating for equality!	/r/MensRights	02/07/26 03:21 AM
1	Men should be happy to pay for the first date "I think men are not natural providers at all." - then you shouldn't think men must pay? What is this cognitive dissonance? "Most men don't want to wear condoms and put the burden on women to take birth control." - I'm going to need a source on this, instead of some anecdotal evidence. Myself and my group of friends have always favoured condoms that we bring, because it's just so much safer to avoid unwanted pregnancies, so your lived experience (if any) will just clash against mine. I have not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 10:19 PM
7	What can the men’s rights movement do better? Yes! It's so strange to see how the narrative has changed from "men-focused groups attracts misogynists, which is bad", to "men-focused groups are bad". While we advocate for men's issues, I think it's incredibly important to call out the misogynists that lurk here. They can go find their own space on the internet instead of hijacking ours.	/r/MensRights	24/03/26 10:15 PM
1	Men should be happy to pay for the first date "These “natural providers” don’t want to be generous for even one meal" Who mandated that men have to be natural providers in the modern context? This is a fallacious label you have applied. Furthermore, the act of generosity implies something that goes beyond expectations, yet you seem to construe paying as the expected behaviour. "Women often end up being the ones who are generous in relationships, as they take on the biological burden (taking birth control, carrying children, giving birth, br…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 01:40 PM
2	UK: Immature men are to blame for Britain's 'missing babies', because they delay responsibilities until later in life OP: More male hate. This makes me so angry. Why on earth is an organisation purportedly pro-social justice continuing to frame the man's role as a breadwinner, and entrenching sexist notions? From the article, these are two recommendation. I don't see any points that address fatherhood. Help men to step up: support more young men into skilled work and tackle the NEETs crisis Value motherhood: place greater emphasis on the benefits of becoming a parent across public policy	/r/MensRights	16/03/26 07:39 AM
22	Berlin abolishes the obligation to maintain men's restrooms in restaurants That's right! Vote with your wallets, folks	/r/MensRights	10/03/26 10:31 PM
3	Courts order children groomed by their teachers to pay child support. This is disgusting. The judge should be investigated for such remarks against a minor who was raped.	/r/MensRights	07/03/26 06:29 AM
9	Why the hell should a guy nowadays consider marriage? There are legal benefits, but in any situation where divorce laws are gendered, I think the risks outweigh the benefits	/r/MensRights	06/03/26 02:48 AM
1	How Hannah Spencer and the UK are trying to quasi decriminalize domestic abuse against men in the UK Is there some indication of her intention to change the law as such? Went through the article and couldn't find anything.	/r/MensRights	02/03/26 08:45 AM
2	My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial? A prenup is a contract. So is marriage. Romance and love can exist independently of both of these. If you want to get into marriage, you should have an accompanying prenup.	/r/MensRights	20/02/26 03:37 AM
6	Exclusive \| The young and the dateless: Why Gen Z, millennial men aren’t approaching women anymore “Respect does not mean retreat. The single, straight man should still lead the dating dance in the courtship phase to a certain extent,” I'm disappointed in this so-called 'Dating Coach'. Why does she see the need to apply and perpetuate sexist gender norms in 2026?	/r/MensRights	08/01/26 07:07 AM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) Hey yeah, I've seen some men like that. For this group, and specifically this group, if they deem it unacceptable for a woman to not be a virgin, they are hypocrites. There will also be some women who want their partners to be virgin, but also see sex as a need. They are also hypocrites. What I don't view to be hypocrites are either the men/women/other that want a virgin as a partner, and remain a virgin until they are in a committed relationship OR those who need sex and don't mind the sexual h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 03:04 AM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) "To this point, I make the definitive claim that men are complete hypocrites when it comes to sex." I view it to be fair only if a person values virginity in a partner but does not remain a virgin themselves. Men are not a monolith, nor do all men value the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 11:22 PM
10	Feminist journos keep digging deeper as they start bashing veteran draftees, implying that they are self-proclaimed victims and "developing a powerful narrative" What absolute tosh and nonsense - the blatant disrespect is disgusting While these men were maimed or killed to protect their community - oftentimes against their will, these journos spew vile rubbish against them	/r/MensRights	26/10/24 11:51 PM
30	I know why Ukrainians fear being drafted into the bloodbath, but more lion-hearted men must join the fight, writes female journalist. Conscription is the biggest, unequal tax	/r/MensRights	15/10/24 10:25 AM
56	I know why Ukrainians fear being drafted into the bloodbath, but more lion-hearted men must join the fight, writes female journalist. Search it up - a hypocritical organisation that shamed men into fighting during WW1 but did nothing to contribute to the war effort themselves	/r/MensRights	15/10/24 10:24 AM
0	Kamala Harris doesn't acknowledge that the draft controls men's bodies. Read the first 4 words of your comment to yourself in the mirror. Which part of this post opposes the rights of a woman to choose what her body does?	/r/MensRights	08/10/24 05:24 AM
4	Kamala Harris doesn't acknowledge that the draft controls men's bodies. I genuinely applaud your dedication to trying to educate disayle32. He seems like a petulant child covering his ears in his reply to this comment, but I do commend your effort. Regardless of the Snopes article, I think Trump's characterisation of John McCain is unforgivable. Ignoring politics, McCain gave a lot to his country as a veteran and Trump should respect that.	/r/MensRights	08/10/24 05:19 AM
3	Why is that in a relationship, going 50/50 (splitting bills, chores and work) is considered bad or 'feminine'? There we go! She's a farce and a grifter. She coaches nothing, her opinions are worth nothing. Keep going strong fellas, don't devalue yourself to listen/be angry at the numerous idiots in this world.	/r/MensRights	07/10/24 09:21 PM
160	Why is that in a relationship, going 50/50 (splitting bills, chores and work) is considered bad or 'feminine'? This is nonsense. The people complaining about men asking for equal distribution of burden - either in bills or in chores - are not ones you want to date. Be grateful that the trash sorts itself out	/r/MensRights	07/10/24 12:04 PM
2	My ex left me with debts Do you have any text message/paper trail stating that the money is a loan and not a gift? I don't think you can do anything regarding taking the money back from her if it's a gift unfortunately...	/r/MensRights	30/09/24 11:26 PM
2	I asked a radical feminist about whether she had ever been SA'd to try and better the conversation, sh starting DM'ing me and did this: Report to the authorities please, even if she's a kid now, having that kind of ideation is trouble for the future. You might be saving a life by reporting this.	/r/MensRights	27/09/24 09:18 PM
169	As a man who has been falsely accused of SA/RP on a women, it's incredible how much privilege they have Name and shame the school, now that you're out. If they handle it poorly, the most we can do is ensure that parents do not send their sons to these places for them to fall victim. Would be good if you could publish correspondence with the school as well as the CCTV footage.	/r/MensRights	24/09/24 07:27 AM
1	Why is Dhar Mann so obsessed with girls and women? I can't believe people are still watching DM videos haha - watched a few after Youtube recommended them, cringed and resolved never to waste my time on such bullshit	/r/MensRights	24/09/24 04:49 AM
24	U.K. dads are wrapping baby slings on male statues to push for more paternity leave This is so wholesome!	/r/MensRights	23/09/24 01:08 AM
1	Women have to sign up for the draft. Equal rights, equal opportunity, equal obligation to serve. It'll be hard to find a woman who agrees. “When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression"	/r/MensRights	22/09/24 10:27 PM
2	Reclaim #NotAllMen Sorry, I think this is a case of the paving of good intentions. I'm sure you mean well but 1) the hashtag implicitly implies that a small group of Men are abusers and mysogynists. If we wanted to do hashtags, something like #VeryFewMen might be better. 2) I refuse to prescribe to some notion of what is a "good man" and "chivalry". I'm going to live my life as a human being - I have nothing to prove to the world about why I'm not bad. Innocence is the default state and you shouldn't have to go ou…	/r/MensRights	22/09/24 07:10 AM
5	UK: 'Feminist' barrister who slammed judge for being part of 'boys' club' hits back at attempts to reprimand her Even in name she thinks men should be proud	/r/MensRights	20/09/24 09:58 PM
3	Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual history Before we get into it, what are your thoughts on whether lying about body count is ethical for either gender?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 09:48 PM
6	Utter Nonsense Sexist image	/r/MensRights	16/09/24 02:43 AM
86	UK: Socialite Alexandra Tolstoy reveals her daughter, 11, almost drowned in riptide in Cornwall whilst grown men blankly watched me hysterically screaming for help. OP: A lot of male hate here. And all she could do was scream.. Useless parent	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 10:12 PM
5	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 Additional Solicitor General using her "40 years of practice" as a way to justify that men don't face rape - wow, where on earth do these people get their legal training?	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 02:53 AM
2	Why do people through the word "incel" around so much these days? "Incel" is used in the same way that people use the word "Whore" - a low blow that the uneducated use	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 01:43 AM
37	Article: Why young men are turning against feminism? Well said!!	/r/MensRights	26/08/24 09:20 PM
5	Making of Secret Society for Men ?? Well said. In fact, I take issue with the term non-traditional/traditional men when it comes to wearing clothes - any tradition that dictates what a man can or cannot do is rubbish. If there is a "secret society" further restricting my freedom - including what I wear - I will fight against it tooth and nail.	/r/MensRights	21/08/24 11:12 PM
1	10 legal advantages women have that men don't have Are these all US-based?	/r/MensRights	13/08/24 11:02 PM