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To answer your question: yes. But that doesn’t mean an ugly person can’t try. Don’t listen to all these “fake it till you make it folks.” That shit DOES not work. They’ll tell you girls can sense insecurity like a dog sniffing for treats so what makes you think they can’t tell when you are lying? Work on yourself and build real confidence, none of this fake confidence
/r/seduction15/12/21 01:48 PM
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Every day I try a positive mind set and every day I’m let down. Some times, your mind set has absolutely nothing to do with anything and life just sucks.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:57 AM
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This makes 0 sense. I never chase cause I know she won’t like me anyways and go figure.... she don’t like me and nothing happens between us. Bad advice.
/r/seduction20/12/19 01:58 PM
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Okay.. thanks for your time
/r/seduction28/11/19 02:45 PM
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So what do i do differently?
/r/seduction27/11/19 03:18 PM
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Idk, I find it much easier to be nice to other people than myself. I tend to be naive sometimes too. And yea. Keep trying. The most exhausting solution.
/r/seduction26/11/19 06:02 PM
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Eh, yea. Easier said than done. I dunno. I feel defeated after hearing all of that which makes me feel hopeless. Positive thinking about myself is something I have tried but it is super hard to maintain and stay consistent. My rage and anger are far more powerful than anything else. I hope I don’t come off to others as a danger. I try not to be. Well, maybe dangerous to myself but only myself. I dunno. Thanks for the time.
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:55 PM
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I’m not really sure what message you’re trying to convey, other than I’m a self-centered asshole who doesn’t let other people think. Am I really taking away someones agency when my insecurities do, quite literally, reek off of me within 5 minutes? Its not even about what I believe. It just happens whether I want it to, or not. I am not attractive, I am not confident and I probably never will be. when they do inevitably reject me, am I suppose to turn around and ask them if their thoughts are the…
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:05 PM
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Metal. I play a lot of metal. My favorite band is a band called mastodon. They’re the tits!
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:52 PM
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Not really. I do respect people and their opinions. Its more complicated than that... when I talk about my insecurities to others, especially girls I am getting involved with, its more for their protection than for my own satisfaction, or whatever.... and not that I’m always talking about my insecurities on dates, more that it just becomes super apparent that I have low self-esteem. I can see the girl’s interest literally disappear before my eyes. So, sure, one girl will reject me, and another w…
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:50 PM
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Nah, no douchebaggery involved. Sadly, I do work out— multiple times a week. I also play guitar— self taught. Neither really help, unfortunately.
/r/seduction25/11/19 11:52 PM
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Problem is, is when a girl gets close, my insecurities get a 10x buff to the point where I second guess everything and my insecurities start to really show. I don’t even have to say anything but I may as well have a neon-sign above me that says “I hate myself and you should too” It just doesn’t matter what I think or what I do. My insecurities are on full display when I am finally sitting across from her and it usually never gets past the first date and seeing as I am a fragile loser, I take it …
/r/seduction25/11/19 11:51 PM
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Yea, I’ve been stuck on the first principle all my life...
/r/seduction24/11/19 05:02 PM
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Nah. I’ve tried the fake it till you make it thing before. Doesn’t work either. Nothing can fix the mess that is me
/r/seduction24/11/19 03:52 PM
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Ironically, that is the first thing that I think when I see a girl. Its like a pavlovian response lol. I just don’t ever see myself believing that i deserve someone. I dunno.... if a girl is interested in me, I call that extreme luck on my part and count the days it’ll take ‘till I fuck it up, cause I always fuck it up.
/r/seduction24/11/19 03:40 PM
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Well, you can’t change a shit personality. At least I can’t. You also can’t make an ugly face beautiful and I feel like plastic surgery only serves to make things worse...... not that I can afford that anyways. Ah well, my life has always been about trying to be better and be more attractive and work on those things only to fall short or be replaced or be used anyways so now my life is about accepting the fact that I’ll simply never be good enough. Every other guy out there has so much more to o…
/r/seduction24/11/19 03:08 PM
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Haha this never happens to me because i suck.
/r/seduction24/11/19 02:58 PM
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