DuduDemon Archive

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2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/11/14 disagree. actions are definitely stronger than words, but you can't always escalate physically (eg if you're texting). you don't have to communicate that you like her. you have to communicate that you're pursuing her. show intent.	/r/seduction	12/03/14 07:57 PM
4	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/11/14 force her to disambiguate. this is done by showing your intent clearly. show VISIBLE attraction towards her, ask her out one-on-one, escalate physically. just make sure you show interest without coming off as overly invested. if you ARE overly invested, read up on inner game. if she gets flaky and elusive, call her out. let her know you like her and want to hang out, but won't waste your time if she's not interested. she will either apologize for being a flake, or reject you. both are exactly wh…	/r/seduction	12/03/14 01:38 AM
1	need some help look up oneitis. most of the advice here will be along those lines. http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/seductionfaq/Beginner/298.html as well as: man up, make a move, continue to push until you get rejected or lose interest, move on.	/r/seduction	22/01/14 05:10 PM
1	"If you can’t close, you’re an entertainer." "hey. you're cute / hot / gorgeous. i thought i'd come over and introduce myself." i tend to use "cute" in the daytime, when i want to make the vibe less sexual. just go with whatever fits your personality, as long as you're being direct. i've found the specific opener is less important than the delivery. smile, don't lean in, speak loud & clear, SOLID eye contact, and make sure you really feel what you say. you'll get blown out fast & hard, which is what you want, as those girls would have flak…	/r/seduction	22/01/14 04:27 PM
2	"If you can’t close, you’re an entertainer." i usually get flakes when i open indirect, and/or don't escalate enough. make sure to be clear with your intentions (i open direct), and if neither of you has to leave, don't leave. escalate further. go for the makeout. if she turns you down, as should happen most of the time (or else you're not going for it early enough!), work on getting her more attracted. push / pull, or whatever works best for you. in parallel, work on comfort. you mentioned getting her to qualify herself (1 interesting thi…	/r/seduction	22/01/14 07:46 AM
2	What to do if a girl pulls out her cell phone during a date? i usually let it slide if she acknowledges / apologizes, this can be pretty common in some demographics and not necessarily an IOD--in fact sometimes it can indicate comfort. if it is an IOD, you can tease her about it, or retaliate, but my personal preference is to draw a boundary. eg "i'm sure your text is important but i don't like when people text mid-conversation."	/r/seduction	10/12/13 05:27 PM
1	Has anyone broken through after no success after a long time? For one, it sounds like you might have a narrow definition of "success" like sex or a gf. If you start small (hooking, going 5 min, making a person laugh, approaching a mixed set, phone #, IOI, and so on...), then when you achieve them you'll have reasons to be proud and measure progress. If you feel like you literally never have any sort of success or improvement and aren't having fun with the process, stop. Take a step back. Re-evaluate. Game will not make you happy. Game will put you in front…	/r/seduction	09/12/13 08:35 AM
2	[Inner Game/Conversation Skills] How to learn about someone without sounding like you're interviewing them. there are also questions that are better suited to the kinds of conversations you're looking for: open-ended, deep, or controversial questions. basically questions where the "common interest" is something that all people would share just by being human. eg, "what are your passions", "what do you want to acheive in life", and so on.	/r/seduction	07/12/13 03:59 AM
2	How do you make the next move? if you're hanging out one-on-one, no real need to explicitly call it a date. all you need to do is show her you're interested, and a better way of doing that is making a move--flirt with her, escalate, kiss.	/r/seduction	07/12/13 03:50 AM
7	I usually text girls after I get their number. Should I start calling them instead? texting is fine. calling can be good to set up a date, typically this goes over better with older women in my area (NorCal). here, if a girl is in her early/mid 20s she's likely more comfortable texting than calling. more context is needed.	/r/seduction	05/12/13 03:57 AM
1	How do I change the topic when people ask what I do for a living? why do you let it drag on? i usually give a quick description of my job, explain why i like it, and segway into something else ("but i can't spend too long in front of a computer, which is why lately i've been _________") if the person keeps asking questions purely from inertia & i feel it's causing the conversation to go stale, a nice way to change the subject is: "i'll answer that, but first tell me more about yourself. [insert question]". it will rarely come up again, usually people go into i…	/r/seduction	03/12/13 07:21 AM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/22/13 depends on the girl. some will go nuts, others will be comfortable being FWB. if you're worried about it, stay on the safe side and don't. maybe you're nervous about going out and meeting new girls to practice on? approaching is scary but once you man up you can practice all you want without risk of ruining a friendship.	/r/seduction	22/11/13 10:56 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/22/13 means she doesn't consider it a date and wants to communicate that to you--either because she wants you to clarify that it is a date, or more likely, doesn't yet see you as dating material.	/r/seduction	22/11/13 10:39 PM