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Yeah. There is an expectation for men to be emotional punch bags, or just to patiently sit there and let her vent (this can be something that is almost relentless based on the person). Yet there is this growing rhetoric now that men should not reciprocate and should get a therapist instead. There is a very fine margin of emotion you can show. Dont complain too much, don’t be too vulnerable, don’t be angry, don’t be uncertain. Yet don’t be emotionless, “show empathy to ME, open up to me a little,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 10:14 AM
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Yeah. You are trying to have a conversation about how you feel (which is hard), it quickly becomes a conversation about how that makes her feel (which is what you usually discuss). You decide not to try again. The weaponization is when you tell them about something that hurts you and it is pulled out as a weapon months later when you are fighting about something. There are other things. Loss of income or vulnerability in some way can demean you. A friend of mine got jumped once and it shook him.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 10:04 AM
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Yeah. You are trying to have a conversation about how you feel (which is hard), it quickly becomes a conversation about how that makes her feel (which is what you usually discuss). You decide not to try again. The weaponization is when you tell them about something that hurts you and it is pulled out as a weapon months later when you are fighting about something. There are other things. Loss of income or vulnerability in some way can demean you. A friend of mine got jumped once and it shook him.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 10:01 AM
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Someone being largely single but dating through their twenties can easily approach this number. Someone who was in a long term relationship and then racked up that number in under a year says something else. Someone who was crazy as a teen and then has had two LTR says something different. The number and context is something that does give you some insight. But it’s just some insight and that should be contextualized and combined with whatever values are important to you, or both of you as a cou…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 03:04 PM
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"Missile at Beachside Gaza Cafe Finds Patrons poised for world cup. is an actual headline from the New York Times. I shit you not. It happened in 2014. 8 people including 2 kids died. There was an incident 6 days later where an Israeli naval vessels shelled some kids playing football on the same beach. Some died. One was severely mentally disabled (and traumatized) after and I think killed some of his family. The IDF investigated themselves and said it was all good though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/26 02:30 PM
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“Palestinian child hit by bullet” energy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/26 06:09 AM
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It’s because there isn’t one feminism. It’s a series of different feminisms. When asked if I am feminist I always say “no. I am an egalitarian. I find it difficult to define myself as a feminist because in order to state that you need to define what feminism is to you, and I feel it’s inappropriate as a man to define feminism” This seems to enrage people and they say that feminism is just believing in equal rights. To which you can lay out examples of where it is actually a political entity for …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 07:40 AM
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You can’t compare ancient Athenian democracy with modern democracy. And you can’t disenfranchise half of the population and shrug it off. Particularly when they have radically different rights. The word for that is apartheid.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/26 10:11 PM
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There are 7 million people whose lives are controlled by the Israeli state who have no right to vote.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/26 10:01 PM
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Are you kidding me? Your collectivizing blame on identity groups is absolutely how you get genocides. Accepting it as normalized is stage 2 and often comes with penalties for stepping out of line or brainwashing. Thats where Russia has been for some time. Right now there is a big difference between one of these fuckers who volunteered for ICE because they want to throw their weight around and the people protesting against them, but they are both to blame for alligator Alcatraz and the bombing of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 03:02 PM
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Collectivizing blame on a group is how you get to “they all deserve this” It’s not a very big cognitive leap and there are plenty of current examples of this. Fuck this sub is based on people being pissed that they are somehow accountable for the crimes of other people (both now and in the past), and are demonized for things they never did. If they did something fine. If they didn’t do anything then they should not be accountable for it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:55 AM
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So we have gone from all citizens to most. Then we can talk about complicity with the regime as opposed to who is just getting on with their life in difficult circumstances. It’s almost as if you have to scrutinize individual actions for individual people. Group blame is how we get into this mess. It’s not how we solve it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:51 AM
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This is “that baby would have grown up to be a terrorist” level thinking. Do better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:42 AM
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Bullshit. People are responsible for their own actions. If they are complicit with crimes or do nothing in the face of crime (without risking harm to themselves or their families) they share some accountability. This sub is built on the premise that people should not suffer because they are part of identity group that has done bad stuff. There were Germans who fought against the nazis, and within the German system there were varying levels of complicity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 11:37 AM
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Are all Americans responsible for trumps lunacy? Should all Israelis be arrested when they travel outside of Israel? Even the very few speaking out against the genocide? Iranian refugees? Are you willing to apply this to all countries or just Russia?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 10:58 AM
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Citizens are responsible for their county. A citizen is not responsible for that country. notallcitizens
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 10:54 AM
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https://www.timesofisrael.com/smotrich-says-he-opposes-lgbt-culture-appears-to-liken-gay-marriage-to-incest/amp/ Let’s see how long that lasts shall we.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 08:35 PM
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Wokewashing the Israeli regime has pretty much this level of satire.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 08:33 PM
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Tell that to the guys interned at sde teiman
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 03:20 PM
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They recently had a mass riot in favor of rape and are in the process of creating torture and rape is ok if perpetrated on a Palestinian laws. There are bigger fish here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 03:19 PM
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Anyone I’ve spoke to who is informed uses the term feminisms. Plural as there are so many movements under the umbrella of feminism that have different agendas, sometimes they align. Sometimes they compete. As usual it is wealthy, affluent people with connections that tend to have the time and influence to lead these types of movements, so they all become inherently class based. The needs of working class women and elite women are not always the same but the movement as a whole represents the exe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/25 07:26 PM
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You guys are mixing the suffragettes and the suffragists. Suffragists - barely known advocates of universal suffrage. Suffragettes - widely celebrated elite women who wanted elite women to have the same rights as elite men. This
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/25 04:42 PM
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You guys are mixing the suffragettes and the suffragists. Suffragists - barely known advocates of universal suffrage. Suffragettes - widely celebrated elite women who wanted elite women to have the same rights as elite men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/25 04:42 PM
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Sounds like she could be talking about the U.S. and trump wanting to grab Canada and Greenland.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/25 08:14 AM
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Imagine the freak out if men told their partners to quit whining and go work on themselves. Jesus h Christ.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/25 06:27 AM
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I wonder how much domestic violence in previous generations was due to trauma from large scale conscription and mandatory military service. Must have been a load of traumatized men who passed that on. I’m not handwaving the violence, that would certainly have been present too, some people are just more aggressive and prone to violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/25 07:18 AM
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It’s perhaps why they see it. It’s something that they are aware of as a passive aggressive tool that wouldn’t occur to most guys. I have had the experience of other guys in this thread where you really try your hardest to do the thing they want you to do in the way they want you to do it and it’s still wrong. I mean it’s 99% right, but that 1% is a really big fucking deal. It used to sync with when my wife was having problems at work. Suddenly the problem was how I was cooking the peas. It’s a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/25 12:46 PM
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People have a gendered soul. Sex is performed. Anything else is bigotry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 12:32 PM
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How many?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 01:08 PM
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It’s an odd part of societal conversations that some groups are stigmatized by the actions of small minorities in that group where others are not. So there are demographics in society that may be more likely to commit crime, or be perpetrators of terrorism or commit sexual offenses. It is quite easy for people who are inclined to demonize and stigmatize the whole group for the crimes of the few. Men are one of these groups that are stigmatized as potential predators, and it seems society is ok w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/25 11:06 AM
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You should look into William Costello’s work on Incels. It’s a lunatic fringe that have this right wing misogynistic outlook, and frankly all groups have that. Incels are largely, poor, socially isolated (from male friends also), and far more likely to hurt themselves than anyone else. They split into 40% left wing, 30% centrist and 30% lean right (but not likely far right). Roughly 40% are ethnic minorities (in the UK and US), so not an angry white boys movement. Around 40% have traits of autis…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/25 08:06 AM
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Well the tricky component here is to show that brain structures in transwomen correlate with brain structures in natal women. There have been small studies, but when sexuality has been controlled as a factor that correlation becomes more difficult to prove as statistically significant. There are a number of quite different presentations for trans people and the timeframes for presentation of symptoms suggest different drivers. So it’s quite complex, and far from settled science. The most high pr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/25 07:12 PM
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I don’t know exactly what trans is, and I have never had a credible definition of what trans is. Which is part of the problem. I do know what male and female is and surgery or hormones does not change that. I am happy you are happy with your transition and your life and I wish you well. I just don’t agree with you in this area, and you don’t have the right to demand that I do agree with you. And the implication I am some Fox News watching right wing lunatic is fucking stupid. You can be left win…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/25 06:31 AM
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What she was saying is I am trans, you have to believe what I believe. Well I don’t. I believe that trans people exist and I think their human rights should be protected. I dont think that trans women are women. They are men who want to present and act differently. That’s fine, they can do that. What they don’t get to do is call me a bigot for saying that they are different from women. And if women want to have their own spaces they should be allowed to say no.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/25 06:25 AM
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Yes. If it could be the basis of a legal code that had more utility than our current sex based definition. And also protected the rights and beliefs of others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/25 06:19 AM
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It’s the most compelling evidence but it’s far from conclusive and may correlate more closely with homosexuality than whatever trans is there are several distinct presentations. It’s not enough to rewrite all of our laws to some unworkable self id bullshit. You try again when you have a coherent, evidence based philosophy that has greater utility than sex based classification.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/25 09:45 PM
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Assigned male at birth has been a thing for all of two minutes and is a sneaky way to try and pretend sex is some arbitrary decision of health care staff and not something baked into every cell of our being. Being trans does not give you the moral authority to bully people into a belief set that most people do not agree with, and has no real scientific basis. You shut up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/25 08:36 PM
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Thank you for putting together a cogent response, whilst also using the word Ilk, which suggests you disapprove of these people but think their arguments had merit in that instance. Bravo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 07:43 PM
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I think there is definitely overlap with the “all men are rapists” crowd. But there is also utility in this type of organization. It makes sense to have an identity group that is female and male for biological reasons. That may be medical, physical, psychological, religious. There aren’t many male prisoners in female prisons, or male athletes competing against female athletes, but it’s a big deal. I get naked in mixed saunas and beaches sometimes. It’s fine, but not everyone wants to do that and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 05:44 PM
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They are a very diverse minority with a range of needs. Probably best not to try and reorder society based on that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 05:07 PM
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I have respected the pronouns of every trans person I have met, because it seems like the kind thing to do. I am a material realist, I don’t have to agree with your beliefs, I don’t have to validate your identity, and you shouldn’t want to compel me to do that through law. You might think things about me that I don’t agree with. Should I have the power to make you say what I want you to say instead of what you think?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 01:25 PM
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It’s quite simple. You can think and do whatever you want. You don’t get to tell people what they have to think or do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 01:09 PM
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Have you been asleep for the last 5 years?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 12:55 PM
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No. His argument was about compelled speech. I disagree with many things he says but you should represent what he said accurately. He said that he interacted with trans students and had and would continue to treat them with respect. What he argued against was that the Canadian government was criminalizing addressing trans people by the pronouns of their biological sex instead of their chosen pronouns. We have had laws that say “you must not say this” but it’s very limited (rightfully, blasphemy …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 12:52 PM
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He said that he was concerned about legislation that forced him to adopt particular speech patterns that were against his beliefs. And he wasn’t wrong, there was subsequently a push to mandate that gender identity take precedence over sex in legal and social norms. So big that people were called bigots for saying that men can’t have babies and lesbians do not have a penis. There are a number of ongoing, high profile court cases where people were fired for standing for their rights to single sex …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 09:48 AM
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It’s not about the nail https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg&pp=ygUXaXQncyBub3QgYWJvdXQgdGhlIG5haWw%3D
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/25 11:06 AM
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They need workers and cannon fodder. Better if it’s willing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/25 07:26 AM
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I agree entirely with that. The question of consent for children is a sensitive one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/25 11:51 AM
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Sex is pretty well defined in terms of gamete production. There have been claims made for years (and counter claims to the opposite) that there is no difference between male and female brains other than size. I have always been skeptical about that as men and women clearly have biological differences. The brain differences seem to be the most convincing reason for me regarding gender dysphoria, but I am not convinced that it should overrule other sex characteristics in our definition of sex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/25 10:35 AM
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I was interested in your last sentence. I thought there was a difference between sex and gender. I thought they were separate concepts with sex being immutable and gender being the more fluid expression of internal identity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/24 11:39 AM
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In the UK most men and women got the right to vote at the same time. There were two movements. The suffragists and the suffragettes. The first was a movement that wanted the vote for all and was composed of lower class women and men. The second was a group of elite women who wanted equal rites to elite men but were not that concerned about the bulk of the population. They also became a huge part of the white feather movement to shame men into signing up in world war 1, in fact they wanted conscr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 09:17 AM
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My own opinion is that most people are pretty egalitarian and want others to be treated equally. I think that culture is downstream of biology and that everyone should have equal opportunities and rights, but the outcomes will not always reflect that as there are some general differences between male and female which influences the outcomes. Feminism is not a singular movement and it’s not easy to classify, as there is disagreement within feminism. So for men to challenge aspects is difficult as…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/24 11:13 AM
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It’s just a shortened form of charisma. Which is reading people and judging boundaries and being quick witted enough to carry a conversation in the way you want it to go. Its not rocket science.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 01:16 PM
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Men do get criticized for everything (really contradictionary stuff) by a vocal extreme or by online clout chasers. Most women are not like that so don’t listen to the bullshit. Be honest and treat people as you want to be treated. Some people will be dicks anyway. Forget them and don’t project weird pathologies onto all women. One reason I am in this sub is because the subset of the extremists I mentioned earlier project the worst elements of some men onto all men for personal or political gain…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 05:02 AM
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Rizz is just essentially a combination of emotional intelligence and wit + individual chemistry with the person you are talking to. The way people are talking about it here it’s like some part of a skill tree you need to add points to. Just be who you are and treat women as people and see what happens. You seem to be the only normal person in this thread.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 04:50 AM
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You talk about the real world but I don’t know if you live there. Women do not have a binary attitude to men and really appreciate men who are not hypermasculine or hyperfeminine. I am one of those men and I have lots of female friends. They aren’t an alien species, they are just people. Just be you, if they like you and want to be your friend then great, if they are attracted to you and want to be more than that then that’s cool too. This Johnny bravo or dekus thing is not most women. It’s eith…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 04:41 AM
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What are we talking about here? IQ, EQ, credentials, wit? Intelligence is a tricky one to even start to define as a variable, particularly when you see the high levels of autism at the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:01 PM
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Not what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:34 PM
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No. I have also interacted with men women and mixed groups in other environments. Next you’ll be telling me that small dick energy has nothing to do with insulting men with small dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:32 PM
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Yeah. Reddit likely has a sample bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:31 PM
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I would have agreed a few years ago but then I got divorced and started dating again. It’s been weirdly easy with most of the women since then. Some still need the planets to align but others are ready to go almost immediately. I guess you pick up some skills along the way, I also got pretty jacked and better at the non physical pre sex game, but I think women also learn what works for them and are more communicative as they get more experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:30 PM
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Guys really don’t do that locker room talk thing often. I think body shaming in most cases is women on women, but maybe we just move in different circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:21 PM
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Well it seems that many of the men here are saying that many women don’t live up to that expectation. I have been in relationships with passive partners and they don’t work for me. There has to be chemistry, and then usually the other things work out (this has been easier in my second dating life than when I was young, I think because both parties know what they want and what they are doing) But I am one of these weirdos who has always lasted a long time so I often orgasm less than my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:16 PM
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I am 45, hung around with a lot of “bros” in sports teams etc. Never have I had a conversation about a girls labia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:10 PM
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Depends on the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:06 PM
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Sex is more than orgasms It’s physical communication. You want that conversation to be two people giving. Not the equivalent of a tinder conversation with a girl who matched with you but can’t be bothered to reply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:06 PM
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People go through some crazy mental gymnastics sometimes to defend their world view. We are rationalizing creatures, not rational creatures. You can’t change her worldview in one go, and if your arguments become heightened you will just talk past, rather than talk to each other. It’s harder to maintain a men do this/women do this framework when you actually engage with the real world. Try to select examples from your own life that challenge some of her assumptions. So male privilege for example …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 10:33 AM
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People go through some crazy mental gymnastics sometimes to defend their world view. We are rationalizing creatures, not rational creatures. You can’t change her worldview in one go, and if your arguments become heightened you will just talk past, rather than talk to each other. It’s harder to maintain a men do this/women do this framework when you actually engage with the real world. Try to select examples from your own life that challenge some of her assumptions. So male privilege for example …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 10:33 AM
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Female dominated workspaces can often be a shit show. I think most research suggests women and men prefer male bosses. From personal experience I have had a few female bosses and most of them have been great. But a couple have been great with me (and the other fellas) but kinda dicks to some of the women who work for them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 08:01 AM
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No one mentioned Jews. We are talking about Israel. Please don’t conflate the two. It’s antisemitic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 06:36 PM
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I’m happy to condemn Hamas. Will you condemn the brutality of the occupation? The ongoing genocide in Gaza? The apartheid in the West Bank? The settler terrorism in the West Bank and ongoing colonization. The likud charter that talks of a greater Israel “from the river to the sea” And little things like rapey/amputation torture camps that are defended by members of the Israeli government. https://amp.theguardian.com/world/article/2024/jul/29/israeli-inquest-into-alleged-abuse-of-palestinian-deta…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 06:28 PM
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You need to keep up. They want it both ways dependent on what is convenient for the argument they are making at that specific time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 01:45 PM
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I think there is often more sympathy for women in war zones than men that can be attributed to male disposability. The extra wrinkle in this conflict is the propaganda war over Hamas. Your mileage might vary on Hamas, are they genocidal maniacs or a legitimate resistance group (probably both and somewhere inbetween) But it’s harder for Israel to claim that 4 year old kids or old women are Hamas than “fighting age males”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 07:16 AM
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Yep. Either you can engage and end up in a bigger argument or you can try and assuage in some way. But often that doesn’t work because they don’t want to fight about the thing they are fighting about, they just are in a mood and need emotional validation for being in the mood. Which is why when they lose the argument they will switch track to some other shit that you have apologized for a million times.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 02:31 PM
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The emotional labour thing has baffled me for years. Despite the fact that women as a group often complain that men won’t be emotional and then complain when they do, I think most of the work of being an emotional crutch, sounding board, and generally having to just go with it when the wife is complaining about Julie from work for the 7000th time is done by men. Not only done by men but done in a way where you’re not even allowed to suggest obvious solutions, you just have to listen and nod and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/24 12:28 PM
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You have to be pretty careful because it’s so easy to smear people. The “this person said that and that person said that” so they must be a nazi is a typical “go to” But I assume I’m also a Nazi because I think Herman Goering believed in gravity and I have to agree with him.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 02:17 PM
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I think they are male and that is why I have used specific sex differences to make my argument. Trans people should present how they want and live how they want but we must acknowledge a conflict of rights here and make a sensible risk based policy. This is not a grown up discussion about the complexity of our world. You don’t have a substantive argument, just a mantra and slurs. But thank you for illustrating my original point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 02:03 PM
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Yep. You’re part of the problem I just mentioned. This is the equivalent of talking about the complexity of IPV and you claiming I’m a misogynist. If you have a good counter argument then make it in a civil manner about the facts of the subject. Don’t speculate on my intentions, if you are right, then my intentions shouldn’t matter and the facts will speak for themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 01:27 PM
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You are free to disagree with my statement and argue why I am wrong. My arguments would be based on the radical average differences in punching force, fist size, wrist size, bone density, skull thickness between male and female that even when hormone and muscle mass is controlled for would represent higher risk of harm against female combat sport participants and discourage participation in those sports against trans athletes. To brand that statement as unreasonable and made purely out of bigotr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 12:29 PM
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The reason I say I’m not a feminist is because there is no one movement called feminism. It’s always been a collection of slightly conflicting, contradictory movements under an umbrella of advocacy for women. That’s partly why you get these multiple positions of “feminism is the way to get equality for all” (ridiculous if you see who has been excluded historically) and “start your own movement and deal with your own shit” and “your movement is awful, you should all be cancelled”. So to call your…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 06:34 AM
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They will pull the old misandry doesn’t exist switcheroo, talk about how it’s ok to punch down etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/24 05:46 AM
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I think my problem with this rhetoric and it applies to every subject that is broadly discussed as part of the culture war is that it is so binary to be utterly useless. It raises some valid points about primal fears that women have occupying the world with stronger beings around them, but the way it puts people into two camps of oppressor and oppressed is so simplistic that it actually prevents analysis of why some men are predatory, and how can we mitigate those factors to reduce risk without …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 07:49 AM
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Even if you are left you can get called misogynist for mentioning this. You then are suddenly “Alt right”. I think this is changing though. Richard Reeves doesn’t seem to have been excommunicated. Sometimes these things are treated as zero sum games and it’s just weird. Skip to 38 minutes in this video and see what I mean. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bTHEznqYSMQ&pp=ygUZZ2VvZmYgbm9yY290dCBhdmEgc2FudGluYQ%3D%3D
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 05:08 PM
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I think it’s a well known fact in military training that female groups come together and work well quickly but then collapse into infighting and disfunction. Whereas male groups are often a shit show to begin with but then are pretty solid afterwards (with some ups and downs and exceptions). The practical skills in these things are a representation of practical skills, which are individually variable but skew more practical in bigger groups of men (comparative to women). I wished we realize that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/24 07:52 PM
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Ever watch one of those survivor shows where it’s men and women in separate camps. Yeah. It don’t usually go well for the gals
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/24 08:25 AM
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The whole concept of gender roles is deeply regressive in my mind. It puts people in masculine and feminine boxes and if you step out of that space people now start to imply you are something else. How this is held up as progressive is bizarre to me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/24 11:29 AM
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Didn’t read. Don’t have the time. Elements of feminisms piss me off due to the hypocrisy. Ignore it. Treat people with respect. Try and be a good, moral person. Forget the rest of this shit. It’s mostly angry people screaming into a void online. And it’s in regression. In fact when the pendulum swings the other way try and stay moral and apply principles consistently. This is all
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/12/23 03:30 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg&pp=ygUYaXQncyBub3QgYWJvdXQgdGhlIG5haWwg
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/23 10:20 AM
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If you listen and don’t talk too much they get pissed at you for not engaging with the problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 09:47 AM
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I’m not sure about this. I know a ton of women who seem put together but are balls of crazy anxiety that manifests once you get to know them well enough. In all my relationships it feels like I have done the most emotional labour from listening to them freak out about bullshit and being a calming influence, treading that tightrope between not trying to “fix everything” and not “being engaged with the problem” (when you just listen but offer no potential solutions)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 09:45 AM
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Given that gender seems to have a lot of different meanings to different people can you explain this succinctly? I’m not trolling, I would like to learn but there are seemingly so many contradictions in this space( which reinvents itself routinely) that it is hard to keep up with current thought. I thought I understood that gender was a social construct that is performed (a notion a don’t like) and sex is a biological function. But this seems to have moved on with people claiming male and female…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/23 06:50 PM
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I think trans rights would be more accepted if a narrow band of activists weren’t trying to gaslight society into pretending that the biological differences between men and women are trivial or mutable. A much better approach would be to talk less about gender and let gender non conforming people exist on there own terms, without us needing to affirm their identities. I think the notion of gender perfomitivity is regressive and harmful to both men and women. Just let people be and act how they w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/23 12:17 PM
2

Unfortunately it’s become a parody of its original meaning with relatively privileged people weaponizing identity politics in the worst ways for in group status signaling and alienating many people from more moderate yet supportive positions
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/23 09:30 AM
2

I think you are suggesting from a evolutionary perspective. However what we experience in our lives is also valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:20 AM
2

Women don’t have to be trying to validate men for men to take validation from something. Validation from our peers is something we all like. Some are desperate for validation, some don’t really care. There are fewer purer forms of saying you are worthy as a human being than having sex with someone. Hopefully it’s reciprocal. When that attention is withdrawn it can affect your self worth and self perception. I don’t think this is a controversial notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:50 AM
4

It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:48 PM
8

Kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:53 AM
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The way it’s presented is very different. A newspaper I used to read often had articles about this. Dead bedroom scenario. The difference in the comments section was wild though. People talking about how the wife didn’t owe the husband sex, he just needed to deal with it etc. The reverse scenario comments were equally on the woman’s side when the man had stopped being sexually available. He is so cruel, divorce him you deserve to be fulfilled etc. They ran quite a few similar stories and it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:53 AM
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There are many cool things about older women. I am not sure this is one of them. One thing as you age you hopefully know yourself better and can react accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:50 PM
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I would add to this that if you strike up a good rapport prior to meeting (if you are app based) then all you have to do is not fuck it up. You are pretty much there. I did not expect at my age (44) to be invited home on the first night by so many highly accomplished, hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:35 PM
1

Well my input to the conversation would be to discuss alternatives to potentially irreversible surgeries and suggest non hormonal iuds as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:43 PM
1

Sure. All procedures have potential side effects. Vasectomies can leave people in life long pain. IUDs are easier to both insert and remove. It should be in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:27 PM
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You can get non hormonal IUDs fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:00 PM
1

I would probably suggest an IUD is better than hormonal BC or the snip
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:57 AM
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That’s a really uncharitable way to think. Imagine someone is a friend who you develop deeper feelings for. You make a move and it doesn’t work out. You now have a couple of choices. Lose your friend or stay in a dysfunctional friendship. The smart choice is to walk away but not only are you dealing with the pain of realizing the person you are in love with doesn’t love you. But also that probably your favorite person in the world, who is a big part of your life can no longer be friends in the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:17 PM
2

Friendship needs to have balance and be a safe space for both parties. If they aren’t then both parties need to accept that and find a different dynamic. It can be painful for both but it’s not sustainable to have an uneven relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:08 PM
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It’s not how attraction works. You don’t rationalize yourself into it. You have the hots for someone or just have chemistry with them and then you see what happens. You can be with someone who is perfect for you on paper but it just feels something is missing. Sometimes if you are friends and you see qualities shining through in can make a difference, but chemistry is more than a sales pitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:39 PM
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I think this is an options issue. So women have more options in general and want to feel the vibe. Men are more likely to decide “I can work with this”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:27 PM
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Do you have any idea how much time men spend listening to their girlfriends bitch about random bullshit. Without being able to offer an opinion, because you gals want to feel heard and validated, not have your problems solved. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:34 AM
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Do you think this is because they are actively trying to not attract men? Or because they are signaling to a different type of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:18 AM
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Guy here. I have been most into (and wanted to fuck) women that I feel a genuine connection with. Ones that “get me” and I am most compatible with. Earlier this year I had a brief relationship with a girl I thought was great, who withdrew (I think because she has avoidant attachment issues and it got real intense between us). I am now with a much hotter girl, but if the first girl came back I would probably take her back. TLDR. Compatibility beats hotness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:43 AM
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Dead bedroom for me under 40. About a year after child number 2. Since divorce I am banging away all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:45 AM
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I think there are a number of women who study human interaction and dating who have made this claim based on empirical research. Or at least that’s it’s an influential factor in mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:57 PM
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It depends what you consider involuntary celibate to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:17 PM
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I think men under 30 who haven’t had sex in a year is about 30% and climbing. https://news.iu.edu/live/news/26924-nearly-1-in-3-young-men-in-the-us-report-having-no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:40 PM
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30% is a big minority
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:57 PM
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Nah we value people who are good looking and write off people who are ugly (to a degree). We are less exacting about this but it still happens because it’s a status marker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:41 AM
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Nope, Brit. We also say mate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:05 PM
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It was years ago, I don’t have complete recall of the exact phrase. But it approximated to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:24 PM
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I completely get where it comes from. But the perception probably far outweighs the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:31 PM
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Not American mate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:29 PM
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Paraphrasing, it really didn’t bother me but did make me think about how people live in parallel worlds where the same interactions are interpreted in completely different ways. I usually get on well with random men and women so it stood out to me. I can understand (some) of the real doomer type rhetoric on this sub when the only interactions they get are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:20 PM
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I once asked a women in a supermarket if she knew where the cranberry sauce was. She told me to fuck off. I saw her later in another isle when I had rejoined my (much hotter) wife and two small kids. I just smirked and she looked pissed. It must be weird assuming that everybody wants to fuck you, I suppose it becomes re-enforcing because even in situations where people are not it adds to the perception of “men who approach me just want to fuck”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:11 PM
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Isn’t the example of Jonah Hill not knowing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:55 PM
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Yeah, you seem to have weird ideas about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:22 AM
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Women get horny. Some are less obvious about it. Some aren’t. But they get really horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:02 PM
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Have you ever met women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:35 AM
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Some of it is also status signaling to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:31 AM
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Let’s be honest, its a bit of both. It’s intra sex competition (status signaling) but also sometimes for the purpose of attracting a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:31 AM
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I am a guy who has transitioned through some class barriers and have a touch of imposter syndrome from time to time. I usually data middle to upper middle class now, but sometimes nurses. It’s not always about background it’s about common reference points. That can be moderated by education and experiences but is a hard one to get over. It’s absolutely not about morals or value. There are a ton of amoral, narcissistic, entitled people from the upper classes. There are good ones too. But can you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:06 AM
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One does not equal the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:48 PM
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Yep agree. As near 44 have been on a few dates with early 30’s and it can be a little weird. They don’t know a time before the internet and mobile phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:47 AM
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If I have nothing else going on casual sex is something that might appeal. Meaningful sex is always better though. But that is not always a simple story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:40 PM
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Yeah my friend got fucked over by this. Sweetest, mildest guy you would ever know. He used to blurt it out on Facebook sometime and even his ex’s mother used to say she was behaving terribly. Damaging the kids out of spite is a fucked up thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:18 AM
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We are in the second age of globalization, the first was prior to the First World War. Primarily based on the British empire. If there is a global hegemon then there can be globalization. Maybe we will slide into more regional economies of parallel global systems for different clusters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:21 AM
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Yeah, that’s not gonna work and your clearly part of the problem. You can’t just group 50% of all people into one camp and say they are all the problem. That’s the issue with radical feminists and we should apply the same logic to men too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:16 PM
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Jesus man. They aren’t a different species. And women absolutely will defend you against other women. Women know how women can be assholes. This us vs them stuff is not healthy, and it’s not a fair reflection of how society functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:46 AM
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Some of the coolest people I know are women, I would not want to cut them out of my life simply because I am not looking for sex from them. I say some pretty weird shit sometimes but you got to know your audience. There are the odd ones out there who are looking to cause shit, but I think karma has a part to play here. If you are cool with people you get more leeway and people will come out and defend you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:39 AM
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There is a chemical component to the way men bond with other men. It’s a hormone called vasopressin which creates long term bonds around the accomplishments of shared goals. This is a significant factor in the way men relate to each other and social engineering is not going to change the underlying biochemistry (unless you stop men from working together). There is some evidence I think that this is also how men bond with women during sex. If women achieve orgasm they tend to get some oxytocin (l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/23 08:17 AM
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This is a skewed perception of the relationship between men and women based on ideal of the 1950’s and Victorian era England and was only really true for middle class women. Working class women have always had to work even in those eras but are not represented in the media we have from those times that was generated by aspirational middle class or above women. Throughout most of civilized history women have always been productive members of the household (weaving, spinning, milking and making ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:24 AM
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I would suggest that there is a huge amount of sexual assault that men are victims of that is not recorded anywhere. I have been sexually assaulted by women tons ( I used to work in bars and it happened almost every night), including 3 pretty serious incidents (rape if the other way around). None of those are in official stats. Also male on male rape is pretty much endemic in US prison populations but no one has an idea how much, because no one cares. It’s just a joke in prison movies and nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:57 AM
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I have chosen smart over hot a number of times in my life and will continue to do so. Female hotness is overrated. Particularly if it comes with baggage (narcissism and entitlement).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:00 PM
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Fair enough. I have never outright asked someone. I think there are double standards in this area though. My ex wife and I lived together in my country where I supported her for about 5 years. No questions asked. We moved to her country and it took me some time to get a good job and she became the major breadwinner for a while and it was a big issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:08 AM
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I guess the aim is both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:43 AM
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I think men implicitly understand that we are scrutinized for “what we bring to the table” to even be at the table. It doesn’t have to be asked. That’s why advice to men is to grind to be a success, and hit the gym to looks max. No man ever gets to show how loyal or emotionally available he is without already checking a requirements list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:43 AM
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A big issue is that they introduce the paradox of choice where there may always be something better available the next swipe. I have had tons of good interactions (both chats and dates) that suddenly ghost. You have arranged to see each other again and then nothing. This has led to behavior in me that even when I like someone I will keep other people in a holding pattern incase the one I like disappears. That makes them more likely to do the same. It’s a bit fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:23 AM
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I have met lots of people that are competent but seem to have never had an original thought in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:20 PM
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Women mid thirties to mid forties (and older in some cases) can be insanely hot. The ones that stay in shape, have a good job, are smart worldly, confident, are often funny and engaging and interesting and have their shit together. In my experience they are often way hornier than younger girls and know what the want in bed and the sex can be intense. But maybe that’s just because I’m a guy in my forties, when I look at younger girls I can appreciate the hotness but it feels wrong to do more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:46 PM
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Yeah. I thought this was a place where people agreed on some elements of equal rites and personal choice along with the fact that our biology shapes our choices and psychology in a broadly aggregated manner. But it does seem to be people bitching about the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:49 PM
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I edited the link so it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:41 PM
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I think there is another one that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:58 PM
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r/BrandNewSentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:33 PM
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I thought all body types were beautiful and should be celebrated and not shamed. Or does that only work one way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:30 PM
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Thanks buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:23 PM
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She was there and no staff were. People sometimes ask me for directions and my first assumption is not that they want to fuck me. Edit. Not really sure what it downvote worthy in this conversation. I sometimes ask men if they know where things are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:05 AM
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I think it’s contempt, I have many friends (women) who are always nice with letting guys down, but I also know girls who are just unpleasant and they are unpleasant in how they respond (I am not the one hitting on here, but an observer who knows the girl doing the rejecting). I hope most men understand that if this happens to women a lot, then of course you can become hostile, but sometimes it’s ridiculous. I asked a woman in a supermarket once if she knew where the cranberry sauce was, she look…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:10 AM
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His response was weird in assuming all women are revulsed. Sure some might be. But not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:28 AM
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Yeah that’s a weird response. I have been knocked back in brutal ways, and in much nicer ways. The ones who look at you with contempt do it because they are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:19 AM
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I am not a chad. I am 43, divorced, bald, short guy. I just have a little game and live in a capital city where there are a higher proportion of single women than most places. About 50% of first dates end in sex. Some go on to be relationships, some become booty calls, some go no where. I just had one of the most intense relationships of my life, it lasted 3 weeks. We had instant rapport and just got each other, we were chatting for a week and then went back to hers after about 2 hours of meetin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:58 AM
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What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:32 PM
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Absolutely. I just object to the framing that men have it all and it’s women that can’t. My father worked nights for about 20 years in a factory. That wasn’t really a career, it was a job and it paid more at night. And it damaged his long term health. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KUwjNBjqR-c
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:57 AM
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You struggle to do everything and there is still stuff that doesn’t get done. And you never feel like you spend enough quality time with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:32 AM
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Men with kids and careers sacrifice too. It’s not that women can’t have it all, it’s that nobody can have it all (apart from a subset of wealthy people who can contract out some of the daily grind or have the means to take time out if they want). There are loads of men who drive themselves into the ground to get ahead and provide and coach the football team and fix up the house and do the cooking and cleaning and still it’s not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:51 AM
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It’s not a binary issue. Human relationships are weird. Some girl boy friendships are completely platonic. Some always have an air of tension. Some have an agenda but this goes both ways. And feelings and relationships change over time. There are loads of happy couples that were friends that grew into something else. So that’s why women are friends with men and men are friends with women and sometimes it goes right and sometimes it goes wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:44 AM
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I like women and have loads of women friends. You have to be careful though to put the other half at ease, otherwise it can cause trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:13 PM
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If you find the right girl, you’ll just know. She might tell you to fuck her over the table, she might slide down the wall in the kitchen and start to unbuckle your belt. You might just look at each other and know, Hell sometimes it can be pitch black when you wake together in the middle of the night and a single kiss is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:46 PM
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I don’t think that study has been replicated. Its not strongly supported science so I wouldn’t base too many assumptions on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:34 PM
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There is increasing understanding that the pill does weird things to women in regards to sex drive and even partner selection. Women react differently but some lose desire for sex on the pill. Others who come off of the pill (baby time) find that they no longer desire their partner. Hormones are weird and we pretend at the same time that they do nothing to affect behavior, or that they do everything to affect behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:22 AM
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The problem of this whole discussion is that in the west the binary narrative of men vs women doesn’t really get us anywhere. It doesn’t have the analytical resolution to benefit anyone. The answer is yes some men have gained, others have lost out, or that most men have both gained and lost out in different ways. With the equality under law that has been achieved there are only marginal gains to be made in some areas and most of these probably have pros and cons for different groups of men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:42 PM
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This is a fair point. Combined with that it’s not simply what you say but the chemistry you have with the person or group. That might be due to other aspects of your character to set people at ease or the ability to read the room and know what’s appropriate. It’s much more complex than what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:27 AM
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3 of my mates were accused of rape by a barmaid when I was in the military. She went back to one of the guys place, did a striptease and then one of the guys walked her home and they had sex. Her husband was waiting for her and she said they all raped her. It was weird because so many people saw her leave the guys room laughing and joking. The police investigated it but it got shut down pretty quickly because her story fell apart. She and her husband got moved on pretty quick. I have seen the ot…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/23 07:44 AM
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At this stage in the west there are not many issues where a simple men vs women analysis actually makes much sense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/23 03:49 PM
1

Guy seems high on his own farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:54 AM
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I think increasing viability of paternity leave should be a big thing. It would probably decrease the extent of the earnings gap (or at least reduce the “women have to stay home” argument, I loved paternity leave it was great and normalized in Sweden (Brit living in Sweden)). It would also help men bond with kids a provide positive male role models. I think focusing on things like minimum wage increases and progressive taxation would also be good because low pay is a problem for many men and wom…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/23 12:54 PM
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The problem is with the analysis of “50% of the human race are like this” is it’s not a very powerful analysis. It’s even worse when the most extreme on either side are controlling the narrative. Yes there are some traits that are stronger in the different sexes and there is social conditioning layered onto that. Most people are pretty reasonable though and learn to live with those traits. In contrast to the view we are enemy’s, we are each others greatest allies. The history of the human race i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:49 PM
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Yeah, I dreaded Christmas because it was a combination of anger about her family and everything had to be perfect. So of course by the time the perfect party was ready I would have faced hours of abuse and meltdowns. Fucking bullshit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/23 08:23 PM
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If we reframe nagging as coercive control then yes. I don’t make this point blithely. Constantly being told that everything you are doing and trying to do is wrong, or the classic where you are asked to do something and then told you are doing it wrong and you should be doing it this way instead, is absolutely coercive control. If the guy is not pulling his weight that’s one thing but often men who are doing all the things still get this treatment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/23 01:06 PM
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I largely agree with the idea of male disposability or at least the empathy gap. However there is a class dimension to this and Ukraine has had a thriving surrogacy industry for years, where an option for women short in cash is to have babies for wealthy westerners. It has actually generated the Ukrainian economy quite a bit of cash. https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2020/jun/15/the-stranded-babies-of-kyiv-and-the-women-who-give-birth-for-money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:53 AM
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I wonder how Jess Phillips will respond to this report.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/23 04:02 PM
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Taking the Victorian/1950’s house wife as the default is a mistake as both of these are anomalies and not even fully representative of the time because working class women still had to work. Women have always had to work but they often worked in the home so they could be a productive part of the household but also keep an eye on young kids.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 05:26 AM
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The motte-and-bailey fallacy (named after the motte-and-bailey castle) is a form of argument and an informal fallacy where an arguer conflates two positions that share similarities, one modest and easy to defend (the "motte") and one much more controversial and harder to defend (the "bailey").[1] The arguer advances the controversial position, but when challenged, they insist that they are only advancing the more modest position.[2][3] Upon retreating to the motte, the arguer can claim that the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/23 12:51 PM
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There are some sneaky fuckers who use the ambiguity in redefined words a as a motte and Bailey
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/23 08:52 AM
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I think most reasonable people would disagree with your point. The effects of hormones are one vector in sporting performance and male benefits are retained. Particularly if you are over 6ft and 100kg in a sport where impact is a large part of the game. There should be space for a conversation about that without the assumption of bad faith or irrational hatred.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/23 01:09 PM
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I guess it depends how you define transphobic. People have a variety of opinions on this, transphobia is real but also a silencing term to shut down nuanced debate. So it may be that someone is supportive of trans people but is worried about Hannah mouncey playing rugby against natal women. Does that make them transphobic?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/23 06:35 AM
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This is why those spaces have eroded. A small section of upper class aspirational women felt excluded from opportunity so all male spaces had to be opened to women. They however want to retain there own single sex spaces.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/23 06:27 AM
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There shouldn’t be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/23 06:24 AM
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Don’t over correct buddy. Find a happy medium. It’s not manly to pretend to be masculine if your not. Find the right level for you. Find the right gym routine for your life style and passions. Educate yourself, philosophically, emotionally, spiritually. Deal with your emotions as you see fit, if you feel like crying, cry and don’t let anyone shame you for it, if you feel like being stoic be stoic. Be authentic and true to yourself and live by the golden rule. Treat others how you wish to be trea…
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