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| 36 | If A Man Chokes You, He Hates YouYou are so self-aware and bingo- half way there. It’s just a matter of being a bit desensitized - so what? You can become re-sensitized in time & practice. The brain has plasticity - nothing set in stone, same with sexuality - I promise you that. Therapy will help you with the “shame” aspect that is a big part of it. Not your fault. You simply have to understand that “what fires together, wires together” and act accordingly. Orgasm is a big reward, and tied to the patterns of past arousal. Pain/… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/23 09:48 PM |
| 84 | If A Man Chokes You, He Hates YouI remember that this was shamed with caution and very taboo even in the underground old school BDSM when it was all taboo! Strangulation/choking was mythical! It was the ultimate taboo of the darkest side of kink. BECAUSE IT WAS DANGEROUS AND Borderline CRIMINAL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/23 09:01 PM |
| 24 | There was a man masturbating and watching porn at a coffee shop I like to go to, have they no pride or dignity?The Audacity is insane! And in keeping with being careful out there and that being the case - I wouldn’t call the cops. In the way you just knew what he was up to- he would just know you called the cops on him. And this is a cafe you like to frequent alone. You wouldn’t be able to go there again ever. You would have to keep your eye out for someone like that locally too. You don’t know how dangerous and obsessive he is going to get with you for being so bold after they probably just make him lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 05:34 PM |
| 31 | “I have learnt that men love things to death…” gave me goosebumps. Femicide is a real issue and we need to protect girls, starting with separating violence from the concept of love.My grandmother from the old world would say this and I didn’t understand the wisdom until much later in life- and see it all the time now. Women always pay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 10:42 PM |
| 41 | Happy New year lasses, and REMEMBERThis is why I’ve learned to never ask if they are married or have a gf, esp in my major metropolitan city. Being told Separated/div means nothing. The real question is : who do you drink coffee with in the morning? That gets the real answer. “Oh, sometimes they are over to use / borrow…” Riight - MARRIED Aka “ complicated” etc. When I wake up in the morning, I drink coffee alone. And if they aren’t as well- not single in my book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 03:19 PM |
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