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LifestyleDue_Entertainment_66/r/seduction07/03/22 04:27 AM
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Yes lost a women coz I am not doing great in my career
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:24 AM
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What has gotten worse about algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:19 AM
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It's trash because people are trash, but at least u have options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:13 AM
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Aaand they don't find majority attractive, so they don't get aroused much unlike men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:05 AM
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Like what women don't want to get approached anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:34 AM
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It circles back to the question, to be in sight. People need to have attitude which doesn't match their looks ro financial status
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:53 AM
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Well most men i know also do shopping so does that mean men shop more than women ? I never said women absolutely don't approach at all, the point flew right over your head. This isn't even debatable if you don't live in a cave. There have been studies which show what has been the trend. Its changing but men contribution is still higher From AI. > men tend to initiate dates more often than women, which is often linked to traditional gender roles where men are seen as more proactive and women as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:35 PM
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Personal experience or likes doesn't mean it's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:37 PM
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U are talking about subjectiveness which happens after they objectively shortlist people. For example the link girl will like a good looking men with piercing over a good looking man without one. But not an avg looking men with piercing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:35 PM
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So u always give hints to all the men u think can be ur probable partner, sounds very tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:32 PM
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Easy to say when the onus of approaching is not on you. U would do or say the same if it's reversed. Since time immemorial it's men who need to take all the efforts to initiate and keep women engaged , not just in human species but in animals too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:59 PM
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Well in such cases either women give clear hints or straight out approach the men the want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:56 PM
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Isn't sexual attraction more or less consistent, good facial features, confidence, social clout/skill. Majority fall for combination of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:55 PM
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Well most people think rape is about sexual attraction and sex, so it's only logical to think clothes will contribute to it, given revealing cloths lead to higher sexual attraction. If they knew it's about power stuff they won't make such comments. So it's a problem of awareness. They are just saying what makes sense to them with the information they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:53 PM
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Well to be Frank most men won't like women who want to date them coz they want models even if they have to simp, specially if they need to simp. No respect for what comes easy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:38 AM
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there are like 10 women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:40 PM
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what I don't understand is below, you said I don't agree the small percentage of men women are attracted to are the same men LETS SAY (in caps) 80% women like 20% men that means, each % of guy in the 20% is liked by 4% of women. 4% of women are liking the SAME % men. your choice of hair is a small deviation which can lie in the 20% , so you may be among the 4% of women for the SAME % of guy with black hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:34 PM
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by top i mean top of whatever category they are being judged on, it doesn't mean good. You are the one not answering btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:39 PM
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i wrote 10% just to show few men are liked by most men. but u had objection to it so changed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:42 AM
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changed my comment, but same meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:45 AM
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No one has time to know anyone closer, when they have options for people who are good from both close and far . and the other thing sounds contradictory, if women like only top 10% men then there has to be overlap, it's mathematically not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:28 AM
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sounds contradictory, if most women like small % of men then there has to be overlap, it's mathematically not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:18 AM
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there is no statement in this world which applies to absolutely everything, so when u read such post read "most women" , we are more similar than we are different, with minor deviations
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:16 AM
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didn't get ur point. isn't women staring the shit out of me, staring and bumping with me enough of a flirt ? number exchange will follow after this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:51 AM
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yes it is if you are attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:38 PM
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its a myth , women do approach the guy the like. the problem they don't like most men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:27 PM
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biology i guess, why do women need to look beautifull to get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:32 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:44 AM
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They won't say looks don't matter at all , but instead looks don't matter much, implying you should focus on ur personality and being nice part. But in reality it's reverse which rarely gets talked about, for sounding superficial
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:31 AM
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Then how is it ??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:38 PM
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But if they missed out on casual sex who are they leaving their girlfriend for, and if they are getting laid often to not stay with a women , how did they miss out on casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:07 PM
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If a guy gets lots of attention from women he won't be loyal till he decides he want to be. So it can also be that why do women entertain such men, don't they learn his to filter out men who are not serious, when they can smells a man's intentions from miles away
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:54 PM
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In this times do people even want to exist, given an option i will just log out let alone date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:02 AM
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There are no opportunity it's an uphill battle for many, it's more like breaking a wall and making a way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:00 AM
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A lot of things in dating and life doenst need to thought of explicitly, you just get the feeling, our brains are wired for it. if you see guy making a croud of women laugh, a lot of women will be intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:43 AM
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Okay tom cruise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:28 PM
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No point of doing hobbies just for sake of getting women. I will just do what I want to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:22 PM
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My point is, if u think u need to be successful to get women then u run behind success and money. And if u think self confidence will get u women, and u become confident, u again have high chances of success. In either case to get women u were pushed to be "successful". There is no such motivation for women in general, the only motivation is to have independence, but even men have this. Implying men have 2 big reasons to achieve success whereas women have only one. Because of this men will be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:16 PM
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Great points, and this is also the reason I believe women will never cross men in pay gap or overall worldly success, because they push men towards self actualisation and confidence, which is also the recipe of success. Men mostly want beautiful women, and hence u see women investing so much in shopping, fashion and beauty unfortunately that doesn't help much in anything other than getting men. Just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:52 PM
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And why is the supply low for men ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:01 AM
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Whatever happened to "women can sense a man's intentions from miles away"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:48 PM
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That's why they are called players.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:46 PM
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Because most scammers are blackmailers, they play with fear. If a player starts blackmailing they will go straight to jail because that will be rape. So not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:43 PM
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Not what I have seen, it reverse what I have seen. They might not be there for long term, but the guy ain't player for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:41 PM
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Yes hypocrisy is one of the nature
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:39 PM
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I am saying makeup and other thing for women and sex drive of men are both biological ! 'find other distractions and ways to cope'? Coping something, which is essential for living life is hard again ? so its a double edge sword, you suffer anyway! How can we possibly enforce that more men have access to sex? Thats a good question, and i dont think anyone ows anyone sex. But what OP is pointing out is, the way people who cant attract opposite sex are looked at. If we can change it, life becomes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:43 PM
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You simply cant compare sexual life of men and women. Its different world. "some women and some men who do the same really struggle with getting sex." , yes some women and men do. but the difference is a lot. just see the difference between how many matches an average women/man get on dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:33 PM
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thats one thing, anther is how attractive you make yourself which fits more in this context. So do you do makeup and wear flashy cloths to make yourself more attractive (read confident) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:30 PM
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Sounds good, but if the whole worlds tell you, you are a looser for not getting pussy, it gets very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:29 PM
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well men cant just get over it, its like telling women to just get over shopping or makeup or plethora of things they do, its more biological than a norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:28 PM
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So you think ideally flirting should be the normal of conversation, because if its done just to get a women then it "some dude putting into her in a ruze to get into her pants. ". How would you even get into her pants without first making her think you want to get into her pants, its all about how well you execute it. Yes people should not talk to women solely to get into their pants, but thats different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:24 PM
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No one is arguing this point, the point is the process of getting sex and how men get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:18 PM
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It can be one of two, or mixture of both. the guy is physically attractive, with not much personality. in that case a women will just sleep with him and forget, its still a rejection in a way. the guy is good with his words, or has other things to compensate the lack of looks. In this case the guy shows high self worth and confidence which is directly linked to possibility of being more successful in anything he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:18 PM
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When a man approaches a women for casual conversation its common understanding that its sooner or later will move toward dating. so u dont have to doing anything to sexualize the situation, the situation is sexualized since the start, its an elephant in the room. And women clearly dont want to get cold approached, if we go with what they say and want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:36 AM
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Handling rejection comes after approaching, the problem is no one wants to get approached, this is the idea being spred everywhere, ask anygirl and they will straight away tell you to not to cold approach. Whats the point of thinking about rejection when you are not even allowed to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:33 AM
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its took 100s of years of evolution to get us hear, it will take the same to get us out of here. in short it aint hapenning anytime soon, and we are not in the driver seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:31 AM
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Will u just ignore the decades of evolution and monkey brain wiring. Even in animal kingdom male are trying hard to seduce females. History is full of such stuff everywhere in the world, it's happening all around us all the time. It can't be just a mental construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:14 PM
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POSH says hi, and u won't be in school forever. And btw who approaches first or gives clear hints ??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:08 PM
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U r talking in extremes now, for an example poor people are unhappy doesn't mean only rich people can be happy. It's just makes life easier and won't work for majority
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:07 PM
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So a quietintrovert guy is doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:03 PM
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How did your do it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:46 PM
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It's still not entitled, worthy and entitled are not same. And by worthy op means the worth perceived by the outside world of a person to receive love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:36 PM
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the post not saying others are entitled to get love, its about the ease of getting love, which is different than entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:36 PM
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I agree but how should one know if one is happy or not. It's a very vague term. If I see a couple I am not happy coz of hormones, if I am in solitude I am happy because there is nothing to influence me, but I can't stay here forever. Ultimately my definition of happiness would be influenced by my human nature, biology and society. It's not practical for anyone to be completely detached from outside world and our biology. This doesn't mean to do things in life solely for womens attention. There s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:11 PM
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It's sounds good but also at the same time feels like a constant uphill battle, all organisms are wired to reproduce and dating is part of it. So this fight won't ever end imo. Leaving a single choice i.e to become attractive, coming back to square one. The act of letting go can be the answer but it's only because that makes u attractive, so it's like a paradox. It's like a chicken and egg problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:41 PM
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How will I enjoy myself while suppressing a natural bodily need. While also seeing peers getting what they need. Should my energy go in learning to approach and handle rejections or should it go to suppress the need ??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:32 PM
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But what about sexual needs, isnt suppressing it also a bad idea, because it's completely natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:25 PM
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love on a condition that you are successful, even if the guy was successful, later she may leave if he looses his job or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:55 PM
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And then we see breakup after being together for years. Because they guy didn't perform
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:30 PM
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all organism from virus to dinosaurs, procreate/multiply and you are telling me it wont effect my happiness. Our lives revolves around it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:19 AM
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but man is a social animal , we need to have some social acceptance to have a healthy mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:17 PM
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what was the biggest issue you faced
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:19 PM
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Reward exactly is not the word for this, but if you see it a result of getting your life together. its more like a reward. This is not about relationship with a specific person, but about becoming better so you have high chances of getting a partner. i think we are stuck with the definition of "reward" get this gist of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:38 AM
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gEt A HoBbY /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:34 PM
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They can be if women want to, many are and many are not. The general concensu is that they are reward. Men are told to be confident earn and do xyz if they wanna get a partner, what does it sound like to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:27 PM
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Change is natural, environment and life experiences shapes a person. Artificial changes are different from what is being discussed here, so don't mix a surgery with personal growth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:21 PM
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Maybe take it this way, i want good things in life I have to make myself better. So I work on myself get my shit together and bam gets a good job, busy house car, becomes social and funny and bam a girl notices that I have my shit togethey and I get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:19 PM
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So you mean people cant change, and all this positivity self acceptance forgiving yourself is plain crap ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:10 AM
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a women you like, liking you back and choosing you is a reward, same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:09 AM
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What about no mental peace because of lack of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:46 AM
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It's all biology, if 100s of thousands of men are doing it is it really that easy to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:06 AM
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Why do they keep choosing such men, and not learn from their mistakes, how are many other women getting married or are in good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:33 AM
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Majority of the men cant go past the first point itself. If men get such good signals from women there wouldn't be such questions on reddit. Women find very few men good looking, enough to give such clear signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:01 AM
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What is good place to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:20 PM
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Most of such men have stories of how women have approached them, which helps a lot to get a perspective that they have some quality which attracted these women so they have chance with other women too, hence the confidence to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:18 PM
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Sounds like a mental condition to be fixed. Self comparision to an extent its exploited by fashion industry so much is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:57 AM
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Does that mean they dress up for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:48 AM
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But u said major downside of aging is men not finding women attractive. I am taking about women in general and not u or exceptions like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:21 AM
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But majority of women say they don't give two shits about what men think about them and they do nothing for it like dressing well, makeup etc. So aging shouldn't effect women if men are no more attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:42 AM
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Nice, men age well, because they get better at what the stereotype expects them to provide which is money, confidence, stability etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:39 AM
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do you like it when you receive a big gift only to find out its mostly filled with garbage and actuall gift is way smaller than the box, given that its not something way expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:23 AM
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"Maybe people are insecure and thats why they do it. " then whats the problem in agreeing to that, its okay to be insecure and fix it artifically. But many, as you can see in the thread, dont budge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:20 AM
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isnt competing with other women, that you need to fake stuff, also sign of insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:57 AM
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then the same questions arises for men too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:56 AM
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because no one like to see my tools. I think my real face is not as gross as my tools to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:55 AM
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brushed hair are still my hair, collogne hides the bad smell which i am insecure about. but why makeup to the point you are unrecognizable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:54 AM
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We (both men and women) are wired to get attracted to beauty even if its deceptive. Even without deception, the most beautiful will be picked but at least it will be real and healthy in long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:48 AM
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but why are women not opposing it as part of feminism, instead its defended, which makes it appear that they like the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:42 AM
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self confidence, has the term self for a reason. The post is pointing out that makeup puts a mask on self, so its not exactly self confidence. It applies more to women who do a heavy makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:39 AM
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its in the post how it effects the expectations adversly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:37 AM
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Sounds odd, women complain about men being creepy and all, they are human too and they want men too, the attraction may differ
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:15 PM
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Yes, but I sometimes leave it just to see the reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:05 PM
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Men are deterred simply because they don't feel wanted by women in any of their action.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:03 PM
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But women dont do it to get male attention, they do it for themselves, to feel confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:00 AM
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Yes, use of only is incorrect, but women do look at emotional aspect more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:21 AM
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This not the case with men and this what the post is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:19 AM
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Then why is an avg guy happy for a random pussy pic , and why avg women is not happy with a random dic pic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:47 AM
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its a dream if and only if the low maintainance parter can maintaint the high maintainace partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:02 PM
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this sounds like if you are sad just be happy.
/r/seduction28/10/22 07:55 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction28/10/22 07:54 PM
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I will tell you the rational why at least i believe that, because a attractive person will have lots of options, unless i have all the looks personality why would she choose me. this logic doesnt need any evidense as it makes total sense. Its just like you dont need evidence that xyz person wont like to take money, everyone likes money. so finding evidence for what you said feels useless. but you can try because not all attractive girls are same. u knew never know what they want. at the end its …
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:18 AM
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you laugh on a joke because its funny, how a comedian looks doesn't matter. game is same if you can make women feel a certain way she cant deny the feeling.
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:09 PM
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but you can not give a fuck and still be kind.
/r/seduction21/08/22 03:40 PM
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How can u be a player and authentic, u cant be at ur player personality all the times, people go out of their way just to get laid that is inauthentic.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:10 AM
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Ismt it courage
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:16 PM
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What if you are an asshole
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:15 PM
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how do people get so many girls to practise on, and time to do all these learing sounds like preparing for competetive job
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:03 AM
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its great u have it, but for someone who has a different mind set growing up because of environment etc, the change seems almost impossible.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:32 AM
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This sounds like a perfect human being, how can someone get all his together before he gets old, its mindblowing, so much maturity.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:08 PM
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i already have a full time job.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:17 AM
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I would love to have my weight the blocker for dating. i would happy go to gym to fix it, but hardly just weight we need to chagne the whole personality and brain wiring.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:15 AM
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so you are fighting the biology never fight biology, in every species male will go over their head to impress women for reproduction its in our DNA. THIS WILL NEVER STOP so find some other solution. its like saying if you are sad just be happy, sounds good doesnt work.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:12 AM
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i dont know if desi PUAs will be on this thread.
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:54 AM
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maybe we would need good active mods.
/r/seduction04/07/22 09:08 AM
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there are already 3 threads i see, none is active enough r/Seduction_India r/DesiSeduction r/Seduction_India
/r/seduction04/07/22 09:07 AM
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Why should i go away
/r/seduction04/07/22 06:03 AM
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I think we indians should have seperate seduction thread because how different dating scene is here in india.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:52 AM
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U have no idea what u r talking about.
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:42 PM
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So true, its unshakable. But also unfathomable for someone who doesnt have it. I still loose my confidence under pressure but hope it gets stable.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:17 PM
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Self esteem i feel is more like a inner feeling of self love which is independent of anything, which looks irrational and is tough to gain if u dont have it, coz it needs consistent practice and inner realization that neither ur special nor inadequate than others, the change of view must come from within. And i think its better to directly go to therapy instead of wasting time fixing it on ur own. U might loose ur prime time in its persuit alone.
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:31 AM
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you lost me at "if you have confidence"
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:01 AM
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no shit sherlock.
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:00 AM
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Last line is so true and compliements the first one, being nervous and anxious is normal human behaviour but unwanted in dating scenes, and most of the time its cocky and almost rude people who dont have it, hence giving birth to quotes like "women like bad boys" which is very true, on an average.
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:35 AM
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I think people just learn to put up a show to get laid, I mean if you naturally have a good vibe good for yeah, but if we run behind getting a general good vibe we will lose our prime time, so instead learn to put up a show, there is whole life to get a permanent good vibe. seduction is called a game for a reason again lol.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:00 PM
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And i dont understand how people stay in good vibes given the the fucked up things going on in peoples life. Ignorance is bliss for a reason.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:34 AM
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hmm, ever though it might be his looks. I know a introverted guy but he gets lots of girls just on his looks.
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:17 PM
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same as how many boys you have asked this question to.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:56 AM
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#nohomo
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:40 AM
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Man is a social animal, logically it makes sense but u need atlease little or expected social approval to have a good mental state.
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:26 AM
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this is true , but then i again get stuck at why someone should have worth, i see people all around being treated well for smartness, being funnly or entertaining etc. Its allways annoys me that people have to find me interesting or funny or smart to provide value. because of i am all alone. people always hang out with someone who can keep them entertained in some way while they are with them , if you are just silent enjoying the place not saying much interesting stuff they gonna ditch you. So i…
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:23 AM
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this is so fucking accurate and sad lol.
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:48 PM
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Yea this i what i dont like like OP also generalized "nice guys are bad enders" WHY. I dont think any kind person does that.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:07 PM
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oky next time i will take my laptop to the date.
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:42 PM
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This actually has some me sensible suggestion.
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:42 AM
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We cant give everyone what they need right, coz there is bad too inside me how to know whats bad and whats goood.
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:41 AM
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Jist to point out in company of confident people i feel worse insted of in company of awkward people. Because confident people remind me of how inadequate i am. Sometimes they are dick too.
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:39 AM
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But isnt that called game, knowing whats neediness and whats not.
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:47 AM
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but most of the time i seen men trying to impress women, suddenly start doing things which they wont do normally like being extra nice to people around you. spending money etc. Isnt that not being yourself, trying to be best version of yourself all the time you are with women u wanna get along with looks very tiring.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:40 AM
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The same way women say how they hate men to an extent men have stopped approaching women. But women still wanting male attention.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:14 AM
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biological needs and logical expectations dont mix well.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:13 AM
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and then get friendzone, coz you dont flirt with ur homies.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:12 AM
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i grew up with two sisters and i am bad with women, turns out seducing women and just being friendly with women are two completly different sometimes opposite things. what i have seen is boys who didnt grew up with sisters are better with women , because they talk with women just like they with male friends which is sometimes harsh and thats what women like a asshole kind of personality. And this i have seen multiple times even my own sister what they say they like and what they acctually like a…
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:07 AM
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then i am nothing, finally i have achieved it.
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:54 AM
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Allright close the seduction thread, the problem is fixed guys
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:20 PM
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Dominance yeah like we are still living in jungle.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:01 AM
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What is masculin energy u r talking abt.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:00 AM
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Yeah but i have a full time job, aint nobody get time for that.
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:45 AM
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But dont forget to add humor, jokes etc to make conversation entertaining. No one likes an interview
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:33 AM
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Negative comment, but we never hear of guy who didnt succeed but followed similar path of barac obama. Luck and exceptional cases are everywhere, u have to be read for any outcome if you taking a leap of faith.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:17 PM
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wtf, as a guy i dont think women need to give up there ambitions,career to be with a decent guy. Well i agree women have high standard which avg men wont qualify, its all because of supply demand curv a good looking great personality men can be with multiple women. Issue comes when women want to be with such guy for life long, then the guy chooses the most beautifull great personality girl, which again avg women dont have just like men. and thats when reality hits that guys are in just for sex. …
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:18 AM
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Well that's an achievement, imagine u r not able to do that and still acting confident, that will appear as overconfidence.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:15 AM
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Women will downvote this but never give a reason a general reason.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:40 PM
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Majority of the problem will be solved in knowing people from their words and action.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:38 PM
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This will, down there we are all primitive animals, the might change a bit but not much.
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:20 PM
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If u say this in womens thread, this would get downvoted to death.
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:18 PM
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Where does the flirt part comes in then.
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:16 PM
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What how can u pretend u dont need them and also talk them to sex. I have seen a guy like this he actually flirts with everyone and says thats how he is.
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:14 PM
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Well i want to be nice not because i want someones approval but becaus thats how i am.Not all nice guys are nice for a reason. This doesnt go well with women, because a douch can come around speak shit, make other around feel smaller and take her away. This is the main problem. A girls literally told me i am not ready for the world, because i always used to be nice to people and say things as they are, i still am nice and proud of it. I have seen men always try to tell story of how they got into…
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:28 AM
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My exact thoughts, but i think women want men who are comfortable with themselves and simply forget the world. But this is a double edge sword, u can be awkward as fuck and still be yourself but that wont get u any women. U need to balance and have a healthy amount of self doubt to correct yourself and optimize. But women still get attracted to men who are rough and tough, it means they can keep them safe in all situations, an evolutionary trait. this mostly is shown when they behave like a dick…
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:23 AM
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It was more of a sarcastic comment, u r right instead of wasting time just move on to another girl, but very girls are actually interested so its gonna be hard.
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:15 PM
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Forever alone it is then.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:46 PM
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But strating from zero is tough. Its like starting a business to make money u need money.
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:42 PM
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Yeah, just too afraid to appear like a creep approaching random women to talk, specially in early stages.
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:08 PM
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Not every man wants to be with a supermodel, men can be this choosy when their game is top notch. I have two sisters and had a long term girlfriend. And they get hit by guys left and right even when they r not wearing or wearing minimal makeup. Girls who do a ton of make up think they dont look good, which can be fixed by changing there fashion sense and fitness easily as u said, unless they r really ugly then their personality can save them like in mens case, but it needs practise and kinda tou…
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:55 PM
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Yeah i know, its tough to start from zero.
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:39 PM
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Well physicall makeover sounds easy to me u dont need any practise for that.
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:37 PM
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Having a conversation is easy pizy what i meant was having a conversation which is not dry, engaging, humurous witty etc
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:36 PM
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Well keeping is another story. But i dont get wht u mean by "female need a male over in order to get guys".
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:33 PM
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Well i am kinda incel to be frank and lazy too. Because to be successfull in something u need to fail a lot and i am in my late 20s focusing on my career. I cant go out of my way to talk to random women and get rejected and try again untill i am good, i have no idea how long before i actually get good. I just get agitated when someone says men and women have equal difficulty in seduction or how eazy it is to get women, just get confident bro. One thing i may be wrong abt is how fast can u develo…
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:25 PM
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Well this is what they teach in therapy, such texts are everywhere and everyone knows it. Its just like telling someone how to swim and then throwing them in water Or a perfect r/thanksiamcured material. what u said is not a overnight change, doing this when u r in the field standing in front of girl while she is waiting for u to say something and then carry on the conversation but ur fucking blank, requires practise, men realize it too late and move to other more important things like career an…
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:15 PM
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U just defined what confidence is, if u have a good inner game u have confidence which is foundation for basically anything. Its easier said than done. This needs therapy and practice, have u ever seen anyone recommending therapy to a girl to get guys.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:48 PM
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I would take keeping my body fit and shaving etc to attract opposite sex anyday than having to develop confidence, social dominance, humour and other Mr perfect qualities. A women on an average will have N number of guys to have good time with on drop of a hat, there main problem is they dont get what they want. Its totally different for a guy, a a erage guy has to settle if if they want sex.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:44 PM
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What u said is absolutely correct, and also is tougher for a man to achieve compared to women dont u think. Its rare for a reason, have u ever thought abt it. What u r saying includes multiple skills and years of practice if u didnt have a perfect upbringing. Its basically skill to succeed in life which takes a lifetime. Doing all this in ur prime age is even more tougher.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:28 PM
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Women have no idea, agree. But they do all unknowingly want similar things on an average.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:15 PM
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Sounds like an interview script for a position of senior funny associate. Hope the guy cleared. U really need to do a bootcamp for humour to compe with such lines instantly back to back. Kinda scary.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:16 AM
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By top of social hierarchy i mean most dominant one in the group, knowing always what to say, always funny, flirtatious, socially good with all age group and highly extrovert. I have not yet seen a person who suddenly became social god from being shy, they have been like this since childhood. This is what i have noticed, so far. So i asked the question to validate and see what i got wrong. I have read here lots of diffrent stuff, to be comfortable in ur own skinn, practice etc etc. My point is, …
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:57 AM
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U must be hot looking
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:53 PM
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What is sexual anxiety ??
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:16 AM
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Any recommended reads.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:58 AM
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Agreed but i can work hard for only so many things. As a self learning programmer building carrier finding time for studying, exercising, hobbies, maintaining friends is already tough. On top of that improving the dating game takes last priority for me. Its just personnel opinion. I feel dating can be byproduct of self improvment which i am doing, since its first step of seduction, i feel too old anyway in my late 20s to begin the journey of improving my game.
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:45 AM
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I can do all that but i never find energy to go behind a girl make her laugh keep her engaged etc. Its too much work. If i just be myself they will certainly find me boring.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:21 PM
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The same is for job searching, you can only study/read so much. Then you need to take a leap of faith, and you will be surprised by the ways you can fail which you could never have prepared for but now you know only because you started and also from how easy success is sometimes that you feel like preparation was waste of time you should have started way before. But all in all practicing in the field and learning is the fastest way to achieve almost anything.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:05 AM
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And any idea if such guys understand how the game works from an early age, I beat myself up when I find a guy the same age as mine get girls so easily.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:39 AM
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Do u think men who have it easy know this somehow from an early age, compared to us latebloomers. I beat myself a lot when i find a guy of same age get so many chicks.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:10 AM
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Then why do some men attract women all the time, inspite of looking ugly.(i know a guy)
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:07 AM
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Frustation is that getting "women" is a full time job with lots of learning/practicing/failing and getting up. Its a LOT of change for someone who isnt great with women or in general. If u look from that perpective it looks better to invest the time and energy is something else usefull like ur career. I get frustated coz of the high expectations of being funny/mature blah blah blah and women just have to breath(exaggerating), so much inequality just to satisfy a basic human need called sex. I mi…
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:34 PM
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And the problem for me is i know i can get there with practise, but i am in my late 20s and concentrating on my carrier, i see how much effort and knowledge is required to be at top of the game apart from being confident and happy (which they r since their childhood). I will have to rewire my brain and aint nobody got time for that. So only option is to somehow accept how i am and move on with best effort whenever possible to improve (which wont be enough).
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah this is basic if u have this u will get girls not all but plenty. If u dont have these things u r fucked, many guys dont have these, and its tough to get anyway everyone i know who are like this, are like this since childhood.
/r/seduction01/02/22 01:45 PM
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I think its mostly abt being charismatic. Being funny making jokes out of thin air and well balance of maturity, flirt, stories and wide knowledge on subjects.
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:02 AM
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Dont know about unethical , but at least ur social game has to be almost perfect
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:27 AM
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Are u sure its u and not ur money etc.
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:43 AM
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Any tips for us lowlifes, how do u approach ? Any idea why they choose u over others ? What are u doing differently from others ?
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:39 AM
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So make friends so u can bang their friends in general
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:18 AM
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Well i do all three, i think highly of myself because of my grind to achive success i.e money and safe future. Compared to other people who dont grind. Then i feel low about myself when i see more confident people. Basically i want to have unshaken true self confident which doesnt depend on external factors. But it seems impossible because man is a social animal we need social validations to survive. Luckily i have some recent social validations which is helping me move ahead but god knows how l…
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:23 PM
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I got it poor was just an example, i should have written. If u r not happy just be happy.
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:39 AM
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All sounds well, and we have heard it 100s of times in one or other way.But the real question stays, HOW TF can someone have such confidence in the face of adversity thats life. How are people strong when they don't look good, don't have anything to be proud of, they have to handle work, life, responsibility, and are low on energy etc etc etc.How can i simply ignore all the above, and think i can handle it with not money, average brain and everything, no history of success to rely on. just HOW ?…
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:10 AM
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so if you are poor, just dont be poor. got it.
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:52 AM
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personel taste is for personaly not for good looks. If that was the case celebrities wont be famous. Good looking standards of girls are way above average anyways. The reason almost no one gets right swipes and only handful get all the swips on dating sites.
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:10 PM
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Yea i get it, it was more like a rant. Work hard to get this and that, do this and that to flatter, and in the end it doesnt even matter.
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:43 PM
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I really hate this genetic requirment to seduce women for reproduction, we dont even need this. Hope we evolve fast out of this bullshit need.
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:20 PM
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The only way is to go through. Approach people, if they think u r creep u know what not to do. Rinse and repeat. Just because they think u r creep doesnt mean u a permanent creep, they dont know ur journey and you. So learn and apply.
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:05 AM
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This sounds like some HR shit
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:02 AM
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