Due_Garlic479 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
230	Why does this man think that this is something to brag about? I already had an idea of what profession the women he was talking about was when I initially read his answer to the Hinge prompt. I've run out of words.	MALE DEPRAVITY	Due_Garlic479	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 07:12 PM
74	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags.	RANT	Due_Garlic479	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 10:14 PM

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146	Why does this man think that this is something to brag about? I already had an idea of what profession the women he was talking about was when I initially read his answer to the Hinge prompt. I've run out of words. LOL he'd have better luck, honestly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 07:27 PM
74	Why does this man think that this is something to brag about? I already had an idea of what profession the women he was talking about was when I initially read his answer to the Hinge prompt. I've run out of words. It's painful, really. It wasn't always this bad 😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 07:26 PM
7	Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business. Poor girl. It's not ok. We can't control what they do. But we can choose not to days these guys. The audacity.... I've seen it all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 04:49 AM
7	How to vet for emotional availability using 'bids' I will read through the comments when I have a bit more time, just had a few minutes during a commute. I really appreciate that this was posted. I think many of us need a reminder every now and then (at least I do). I'm likely one of those people who posted about an avoidant individual... I had stayed single to work on myself and still made this mistake! Every woman needs to know this! You can work on yourself loads but these avoidants are very common and we need to understand that it is not us …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 03:07 AM
139	What’s the most idiotic thing a LVM has ever told you to avoid accountability? He told me that he couldn't work on reducing his porn viewing until he was less stressed...... He was never not stressed and we both knew this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 09:14 PM
168	Men will worry about wether or not their wife is having sex with them, but never consider if they are someone she even WANTS to have sex with, or enjoys what he does in bed. The only ex that I had no desire to do anything intimate with was so self centered that it wasn't a pleasurable experience for me. In addition, he had betrayed my trust and made himself into a victim. It was never the same. This guy is leaving something out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 08:44 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I needed to see this, this morning. It's a small town so I've been seeing him around and I get tempted to see him as a good guy, whose good looking in his own way (I'm attracted to him unfortunately), who has just been through rough times. He's clearly avoidant for whatever reason and let his mental health make him call behind in life. You're right, I can't change his neurobiology and that will be a challenge for the rest of his life. Late twenties (28) and never had a girlfriend says enough. Em…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 12:57 PM
1	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Thank you sis. I've avoided dating and slipped up. Your compassion is so appreciated 💜	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 12:48 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Thank you so much. Can't wait to be out of this icky feeling hahah. No more ignoring red flags to be nice .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 06:42 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I appreciate you saying that he let his insecurities ruin everything. I've definitely been blaming myself despite it being clear that he has issues and it's nothing new granted he's never had a gf. I ignored a bunch of red flags with his issues and never should have entertained him. Its been a few days now but I'm still having a difficult time processing it. It seems like one of those things that will take time. Thank you for dragging his ear lol. Softening the blow that he sabotaged things?? He…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 06:41 PM
1	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I really appreciate this. I need to get this through my head. I found a guy who gets close to someone then runs like a coward when they don't feel good enough ... The does it again to the next. I was groomed to be nurturing like women are .. then was let down because he can't behave like a developed man. Because he's not one despite how nice he is. He probably lacks awareness to know how this may have hurt me and assumed my short response meant that I didn't care. I was shocked when he acted lik…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 08:30 PM
1	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Wow all of your comments have been so touching and seem to grasp what I'm dealing with to a T. He likely doesnt even think I care as I kept it short and casual when we bumped into each other at the gym earlier. I believe in nurturing bonds between people with respect, empathy and compassion and I went a little too far. I like the way you phased that. Blaming yourself for when a tiger acts like a tiger. He hasn't ever had a gf... His anxiety makes him shut down. He did what he told me he does. Th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 07:54 PM
1	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Thank you for your understanding. I thought I was in a good place with my esteem but apparently not. You're right, with time I'll accept that it was a blessing. I'm still in the blaming myself and thinking that he can't possibly like me when that's likely not the case. He's just fucked and will bring any girl down with him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 07:50 PM
1	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I read this and teared up. I definitely think that you're onto something. I literally just ran into him at the gym and he started speaking to me when we literally bumper into each other. I needed to see this. I guess I'm hurting because wouldn't an individual want someone in a better position in life than them. I also don't understand why you're entertaining girls when you're not in the position to. It must be a validation hit to a certain degree. Maybe it's not feeling good enough which is a se…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 07:47 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I purposely went to the gym at a time he wouldn't be there and ... Ran right into him. He acted like nothing was wrong and was enthusiastically speaking to me. I made sure that the convo was short and headed out but still hurts. Thank you for this. I'll reread this later.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 07:43 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. The thing is that I didn't even ask for a relationship. The message came out of the blue to me. We had been flirting and it was clear that we connected romantically. I had even said "too bad we don't live in the same place" when we discussed our crushes on each other. We were both shocked with how real/genuine each other was. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I would have never considered this. Maybe he is single and has never had a gf for this reason alone. I'm going to read this over a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 03:39 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Thank you so much girl 💖 We will keep better!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 03:24 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I didn't even consider that this guy was a narcissist. He seemed so genuine... I am still so shook. He seemed positive and kind, just timid, anxious and lacked confidence which I thought could have been from the fact that he was heavier when he was younger... I related to that too LOL. I'm one of those people who people look at and would think I'm thin/in good shape but... I lost so much weight. I think I related to his story too much. You're right I was looking past his shortcomings because he …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 03:13 PM
3	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Exactly... I thought compassion is something the world lacks but... Unstable people will bring you down with them. They get their validation from you but run from commitment because they're afraid and can't even handle their selves. They avoid intimacy which is a sign of weakness honestly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 03:02 PM
4	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Yeah he told me about his anxiety without me disclosing my own. I was surprised about how he opened up about his medication use. He told me about how all of his friends have settled down and he feels behind. He told me about how he sucks with girls like he's never had a gf. He said he didn't know how to make things proceed with women, he was worried about not having consent to even try to make a make, etc. He also said that he wants to make enough money to be comfortable which I obviously would …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 02:57 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I hear you. I just had moved on with life at the point he told me about this as I had been back in my own city but we reconnected when I was back in his town a few weeks later (my family is in his town which is why I go back regularly). When we met up, he told me about the scare and how anxiety impacts him... He can't think and shuts down. I just believed that the anxiety that he has that causes him to use medication majority of his life was legitimate. Trust me, I wish I didn't give him the cha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 02:48 PM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Oh no I wouldn't have. Just saying it was an extra hit to the self esteem that someone objectively lower than me in all ways (career and looks in particular) pulled this move on me. Shallow but the truth. I use the word objective because subjectively, I found him very attractive (very unique face and tall). Thank you for pointing out your concern!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:51 AM
4	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. It's wild to me. It's like... Did I imagine our connection? What in the world just happened? Lol. I need to be grateful to be able to move forward and that I'm doing better than he is on a personal scale but ego def took a hit. Thank you so much for your response	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:44 AM
4	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Wow I didn't think of it this way. This is literally who he is. If he's like this in his late twenties... He's not going to change. He's too insecure, he probably doesn't have the ability to settle down. Thanks for this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:41 AM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Hey girl, I appreciate this. I try so hard to reflect and understand reasoning. A lot of people will say "it doesn't matter the reasoning" but I personally want to understand or else I actually havent learned. I hope to have better expenses soon... Just need to heal from this one first lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:38 AM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Ohhh definitely making changes for the future. I didn't prepare and went in blind this time around. Some of the comments are... Alot haha. But 9.9/10 are great feedback. Thank you for your response!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:37 AM
4	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I appreciate this response. Most of the responses have been helpful but couple haven't. Mistakes happen. It's about growing and learning.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:34 AM
5	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. That's very true. He sort of left a door open at the same time by saying ...maybe in the new year. It hasn't completely registered that he's not as authentic as I thought it was. I imagine this part will take some more time. At some point, I'll accept that it wasn't personal. He was insecure. Didn't feel good enough for a relationship but tries to get hits of validation from casual sex. I appreciate your response! I don't know why they're so obsessed with random hookups. These types of guys just…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:31 AM
3	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. He seems like he was like in awe when I'd say something that made me attractive. For example he'd comment about how fit I am or how attractive he found my tattoos or nose ring. I obviously only got to know the nice side of him face to face so this plot twist definitely has left it up to me to add the points you're making which are likely very much the case. He's likely more insecure in a way that would make him act out to try to being me down or run away from someone who is out of his league. I …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:25 AM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. He's on medication and exercises a lot as a way to manage but he seems to still struggle. I try to manage my anxiety by exercising and therapy. I wonder if deep down I had the "fix him" or "he will be great when he finishes school" plot too. Hopefully I process all of these words and don't feel as shitty tomorrow lol. I feel like an object that an insecure guy got to test out and run when he realized that he sucks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:06 AM
3	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I didn't think you were mean. Thank you for caring girl ❤️ I must have some sort of issue if I am taking this so seriously. If I wasn't attracted to his below average self, I wouldn't care. Def a hit to the esteem when a guy who's "kind/sweet" but not super good looking pulls some bs Appreciate you!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:03 AM
3	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. He seemed so genuine and the town I'm in has a reputation for being the most genuine place in the country. It literally feels like a different world. He knew all about consent, pro choice, mental health advocate, etc. Maybe he just learned the right things to say... I haven't spent a lot of time in the dating app world or dating world since my breakup lol. It was literally the first guy I connected with. I get a lot of matches but they make it obvious that they aren't worth my time. I haven't da…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 03:58 AM
3	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Tell me about it. If you're looking to go AWOL, just unfollow so that I'm not confused.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 03:50 AM
2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. You are so so kind. Thank you so much. I definitely feel like I'm not achieving as much as I can be right now. My effort at dating was my attempt to get my life together. I didn't know some men could be THAT deceiving.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 03:49 AM
6	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Lol trust me, I regret not blocking/deleting at that point. I just struggle with anxiety myself so I'm way too empathetic to other's. Prior to getting help myself, I'd shut down. But we're adults responsible for our own growth which he should have done.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 01:14 AM
3	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. We talked about what we did for work.... It came up. What I do for a living is particular to my employer. Salary came up later which I was caught off guard about so def regretted sharing. More of a conversation of cost of living in our respective towns.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:46 AM
10	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I appreciate your compassion. This situation definitely caught me off guard and I'm balancing learning to trust again with setting boundaries. I totally approached this guy from a "he was handed the shit end of the stick, here is some compassion... Not everyone is awful... Look at how kind and vulnerable he is with me, why dontcha look at that. Clearly I underestimated a man's insecurities, how it makes them behave ... And I let my standards be lower than they should be. I shouldn't have enterta…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:33 AM
5	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I write this with respect. I understand you were baffled when women think the way I did but I haven't been in this position before. He seemed very genuine and was very vulnerable with me while we were getting to know each other so I chose to believe him at the time. Clearly unstable men... Are unstable and won't take the actions to heal themselves the way that I would have in his position. I guess I thought he was genuine which would mean he wouldn't be one to go look everywhere for casual sex. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:24 AM
10	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Wow, this really spoke to me. I'm writing this down somewhere for the moments where the sadness hits me. His life literally is school, school co-op, work, gym... And that's it. It's that way for a reason. Thank you for this. It's such a slap in the face when you think you're giving a nice guy a shot then this happens lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:15 AM
6	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. We talked for a month and a half total. I'm not the best at being concise and clearly my effort wasn't the best. I understand it's pathetic lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:13 AM
3	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I really appreciate this response 💜 I think men are really sensitive about these types of things. You're right though, I need to raise my standards. Being nice isn't enough when insecurity will cause you to act out..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:13 AM
11	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Ugh you are so right 🔥. You'd think this would be my catch phase after having been in a relationship with a narcissist for a few years.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:11 AM
9	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I was empathetic to his mental health issues as I'm an anxious person. Then we had a lot in common and he was so nice.... I got caught up in it..I truly did date someone not in the same phase of life as I am. He's probably insecure about it. Thank you for this response, it is so appreciated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:10 AM
8	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I made the mistake of being empathetic to his mental health issues as I struggle with anxiety myself and definitely started dating a bit later than my friends (I was 19/20 whereas my friends were younger). Happy I'm out.. still a bit hurt though lol. Thank you for your response !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:07 AM
8	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I'm just getting back out there after not dating for a year. My ex was a narcissist which definitely threw my off my feet. I thought I had done enough work on myself to recognize a respectful person and apparently my gut was off. I'll never make the mistake of dating someone behind in life again. I think I was just compassionate when it came to his mental health issues. I don't think he was trying to use me to get ahead, maybe ego validation as someone farther in life would entertain him -_- tha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:06 AM
20	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I figure that he just tries to date for validation. He's not the best looking fella but definitely a unique look him that I'm normally drawn to. I realllllly appreciate this response. He really is much lower than me and likely realized that as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:02 AM
7	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Thank you, I appreciate your comment	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 11:59 PM
18	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. Hey girl, I really appreciate this. That's a great way to objectively go about a situation. Definitely will take this with me moving forward.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 11:59 PM
-2	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. I didn't tell him all of that to brag about myself. We were just talking about our lives casually over the month and a half we knew each other. I didn't even want to disclose these things as I didn't want to come off as arrogant. These were casual conversations before he said that lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 11:55 PM
17	Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags. You're not wrong. Thank you for the accountability. This was my first time out in the wild and I got caught up clearly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 11:53 PM
17	Age Gap Gross Out I don't even understand how freshmen in high school days seniors. They're in such different stages of life. I've also been in the position where I was mingling at a volunteer event and the person I was speaking to ended up being younger... I wanted to crawl in a hole.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 10:32 PM
9	Say “no” to breaks and open relationships! This post was touching. I absolutely agree. Real adults work through the problems... They don't need a break to manage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 10:21 PM
15	Is the bar actually this low? That we are just so happy to find a guy who isn’t r*pey that we think they’re the one? 😐 Omg these women have such low standards. This ruined my day LOL.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 04:22 PM
9	Is the bar actually this low? That we are just so happy to find a guy who isn’t r*pey that we think they’re the one? 😐 Omg he started off so well... Then said what he did. What is wrong with him? Also, what were the responses to this post like? I'm not very Reddit savvy yet... Oops	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 03:10 PM
9	I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pusy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?* The one ex bf that respected me and was so thoughtful had really bad mental health issues which made his depressive episodes... Very painful for me. So maybe... Emotional maturity? That may not even be the right term. I don't want to be treated like an object. I wouldn't want them to treat other women as objects either. Then all the obvious... Respect, compassion, humility, honest, trustworthy, doesn't need me to be their therapist, etc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 03:09 AM
21	Dating outside of your race I'm part Asian, part white myself and I find that white men fetishize Asian women a lot. It's a dominance thing for them. Orientalism is embedded in the culture. I personally dislike how like every white guy in my city is with either an Asian women and if not Asian, a white woman. I live in North America. There's a social script in place that's very... Colonial to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 05:33 PM
16	Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series). Thank you for this comment. It made my day. "Short king" LOL.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 08:05 PM
54	Is this Instagram activity acceptable in a relationship? It's disrespectful in my eyes. When did following and liking almost nude photos of girls online become normal in a relationship? Women in the 90s would get upset when they found their partner's playboy magazines. What's the point of being in a monogamous relationship if you're going to follow and like sexual photos of other women? What type of mental gymnastics have taken place to even make this normal? I was the pickme girl a couple of years ago, At the time, I just accepted the social norm tha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 08:02 PM
49	Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩 Been through this. I don't know if he did it on purpose or not. Changed me forever in the worst way. We really need to be educating people more of emotional abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/21 01:09 PM
46	ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist? He needs you to be shorter than him by a lot. Or he will emphasize how small your hands, wrists, etc., compared to them. I consider myself a bit over average height 5'6 and I find it odd that I've had different men comment on how I'm the perfect height or need to tell me how small my hands are. I had one guy put his fingers around my wrists and say awwww. Definitely the white man who fetishize Asian women. I hate Vancouver because it's all I see. The women seem into it though? I'm part Asian and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 04:59 PM
18	So many layers 😂 This reminds me of all the first and second dates that I've been on and men start telling me about all of their traumas and family dysfunction. I recognize it's tough, but they truly need to work on themselves before they date 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 02:02 PM
71	What true sexual liberation actually is I was literally called a prude for this the other day. Apparently not being into the porn industry that abuses women and gives men unrealistic expectation makes me a prude as well. I've been wondering why so many people are into abuse. I didn't always have this perspective and I only participated for validation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 03:14 PM
7	Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs? This is such a good question. It's definitely depended on the guy. I will say that I was a pickme until the end of my last relationship. I don't mind blowjobs but not all the time. In my last relationship with a porn addict, I felt like nothing I did was good enough for him. I'd get him off orally 2-6 times in 24 hours the one day night a week he'd sleep over which was the only time I saw him face to face. The reciprocation sucks and I felt bad so I'd fake it when he tried. I do wonder if I just…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 02:47 PM
2	FDS is BACK! I gasped when I couldn't find FDS. So happy it's back ❤️❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 04:08 PM
1	This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science) What he needs is a hobby	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 04:25 PM
32	"All ages considered!" All these naked girls on the internet are giving some men ridiculous ideas. This guy is sick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 04:22 PM
5	The audactiy knows no bounds. How do some people think this is socially acceptable? Oh my god	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 12:29 PM
50	Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page! I remember my ex bf with a porn addiction started mentioning high value and low value men and would laugh at the idea of it. I had no idea what he was talking about. He said nevermind and wouldn't go into it just mentioning it was something stupid he read online. I realized he probably didn't want me to go find that information as I would have left him right away. I'm still traumatized by the man. I really hope women find this and begin to look past the misogynistic messaging that society gives …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 10:52 PM